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LisaMintoni
09-01-2011, 10:21 PM
I work clubs out of state and clubs in state are very different from where you would expect to see me. :)
bem401
09-02-2011, 08:09 AM
Tangents notwithstanding, I still see this occurrence as little more than a couple of SC neophytes overreacting when seen by someone with RL connections to them and going to extremes to cover their asses. Not terribly different than the dancer who retreats to the dressing room or buries her face in my chest to conceal herself from someone she doesn't want to be seen there by. It doesn't make what they did right but I seriously doubt it is anything personal.
yoda57us
09-02-2011, 04:21 PM
I have a local fav who works in a club that is very close to her home. Last week a couple of guys, whose kids are friends with my fav's daughter, came into the club and saw my fav there. Now these guys won't let their kids play with her daughter anymore.
My fav is understandably torn up about this. As far as I can tell, she's a good mom who is just trying to do the best she can for her little girl. Now her kid is being stigmatized by these asswipes. In their minds, I guess it was ok for them to be there, but not for her to work there.
That really sucks.
considering who the original poster is, the likelihood is pretty high that she is a prostitute. though or course, one who only does it occasionally with customers she really trusts and likes, lol.
nope. not a threadjack.
LOL, sorry SSS, it's a complete and blatant thread jack. I've read rick's op more times than I ever wanted to and there is nothing in it even remotely related to any OTC relationship he may have with the dancer nor is there any indication the the reaction of the parents was based on anything other than the fact that the lady in question is a dancer. Regardless of what rick may or may not be doing with this and other dancers you can't hold him personally responsible for the prejudices or misconceptions that many idiotic customers have against dancers.
regardless of how i feel on the subject, other people should be able to make their own judgments on the situation based on accurate information. it's not fair to mislead anyone who is biased against prostitutes into assuming she isn't a prostitute because he made her sound like a clean dancer. this is a stripper board, and many girls here DO think there's a big difference between the two.
Nice try but this is where your obvious attack agenda is clear. Your post has nothing to do with disseminating "accurate" or pertinent information, it's about your issue with rick and with dancers who do OTC.
and just for the record, yoda, i've always had absolutely zero problem with you for being partaking in the services of prostitutes. from what i've seen, you've been pretty honest about the transactions you engage in. i've appreciated your frankness. rick tends to post things that are very misleading. i don't like that at all.
Well, I appreciate your positive comments about my approach to paying for sex but, honestly, I've been reading rick's posts since he joined this site and I don't really see where he is being deceptive about anything. He is actually just as open about what he does as I am about what I do. I can understand your issue with his approach but I don't think it's fair to call him deceptive. I'm sure you would like him to start every post he makes with the words "I pay strippers to have sex with me outside of the club" but I don't think that's going to happen, nor is it pertinent to many of the discussion topics he participates in, including this one.
I understand your concerns and issues. Just call it what it was, a thread jack that was, in my opinion, unwarranted and unfair.
jacomo
09-05-2011, 01:16 PM
So men in general think they understand but and the end of the day the don't...This is a clear example...why Dancers keep their jobs as a secret. I had stripper friends in college and when I got serious about a relationship my GF back then prohibited me to hang with them or even say hello so after almost a year I did (yes I was an idiot) but after we broke up I came back to my friends and apologized, after that we kept being friends no matter if i was with someone or not.
being open mind will work according to the social circle where you are.. and sadly we are still far away for that acceptance....We accept gay marriage because it became a law but some cant accept strippers as friends...Bull shit..
yoda57us
09-05-2011, 02:30 PM
being open mind will work according to the social circle where you are.. and sadly we are still far away for that acceptance....We accept gay marriage because it became a law but some cant accept strippers as friends...Bull shit..
Well, I agree with your stance about dancers but society, as a whole, hasn't really accepted gay marriage either. It exists legally in a few states but it's still a hot button issue in every political campaign and the law mandating it in one state has already been overturned. You can legislate the law but you can not legislate acceptance.
I've always had friends who were dancers, either past or present. I've seen them go through the same kind of crap that rick is talking about here. Most of them keep their profession from everyone they know other than a few very trusted friends...and those friends are, of course, expected to keep their mouths shut as well-something that is easier said than done in some cases.
Kellydancer
09-05-2011, 08:25 PM
Well, I agree with your stance about dancers but society, as a whole, hasn't really accepted gay marriage either. It exists legally in a few states but it's still a hot button issue in every political campaign and the law mandating it in one state has already been overturned. You can legislate the law but you can not legislate acceptance.
I've always had friends who were dancers, either past or present. I've seen them go through the same kind of crap that rick is talking about here. Most of them keep their profession from everyone they know other than a few very trusted friends...and those friends are, of course, expected to keep their mouths shut as well-something that is easier said than done in some cases.
I've experienced first hand what Rick is talking about. I mentioned it earlier but I find it hard to believe this isn't a bigger problem with other dancers. If I told someone I stripped I was branded a whore, even when I wasn't. If a guy I was dating found out he either expected sex (and in some cases getting mad because I wouldn't have sex)or dumped me because he didn't want "that kind of girl". It sucks quite frankly.
Regarding gay marriage in Illinois they legalized civil unions and even here (a liberal state)people are upset about it. I know many liberal people who don't accept it.
rickdugan
09-07-2011, 05:48 PM
Rick's motivation may be carnal in nature but to assume that he doesn't care about the women that he may get to know through P4P relationships is a bit naive. My two best friends are sex workers. I may not necesarily be paying them for services anymore but we became friends during our "business" relationships because I demonstrated empathy for their situations and earned their trust.
This.
I simply posted this because I felt bad for a dancer who's kid is being treated unfairly simply because she is a dancer. I also thought it might be a relevant discussion topic for others as well.
As I said before, I guess what she does with me from time to time is enough to dehumanize her in the eyes of a couple girls around these parts, thereby leading to the derailment of this thread. IMHO that is a shame, but there it is.
Kellydancer
09-07-2011, 08:18 PM
This.
I simply posted this because I felt bad for a dancer who's kid is being treated unfairly simply because she is a dancer. I also thought it might be a relevant discussion topic for others as well.
As I said before, I guess what she does with me from time to time is enough to dehumanize her in the eyes of a couple girls around these parts, thereby leading to the derailment of this thread. IMHO that is a shame, but there it is.
As you know we haven't always agreed with each other and you know how I feel about you and your activities (or anyone else who does that). Having said that, I think this girl is really being attacked when the issue of her has nothing to do with whether she does extras or not. Even if she was the bigges whore on the planet she should not be ostracized like this. I really hate when people do this.
If I met someone who was a prostitute and she had kids I'd let her kids play with mine. If she was a stripper I would actually befriend her because I know how hard it is. This is the issue, not whether she strips, turns tricks or anything else. Why punish the kids because of what she does?