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Kellydancer
10-29-2011, 11:54 AM
Same here. When I was early 20's most of my boyfriends were mid 30's. Now though at 40 the thought of dating a guy in his mid 50's repulses me. I want a guy around my age.

Corey
11-08-2011, 07:10 PM
I saw that episode and completely agree. In my 20's I dated many men 10+ years older and without exception they are controlling freaks. Oddly, the best relationship I had was with a guy 3 years younger and we are still friends.

I too have seen what Kthnx is talking about many times. The oldest, ugliest men are always the worst. They think because we are women we should take anything. I refuse to. I've had guys on dating sites my age tell me my "pussy is dried up". What? These guys are always looking younger. For laughs lurk at the dating sites and see what the older guys are looking for. The funniest are the guys with kids who want 20 something women to have more kids. Then when you tell them to date their age they get mad.

There was a poster here with this attitude called "Bizmor". This moron was 48 and looking for advice about dating a 20 year old. This guy called me "too old".

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(I know it's a bit of a thread jack)...but Kelly, guys really say shit like that on dating sites?? Even the legitimate ones like Match and EHarmony? I would think they would end up getting banned>:( That is just so frickin' rude!

Kellydancer
11-09-2011, 12:57 AM
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(I know it's a bit of a thread jack)...but Kelly, guys really say shit like that on dating sites?? Even the legitimate ones like Match and EHarmony? I would think they would end up getting banned>:( That is just so frickin' rude!

Yes, sad isn't it? This problem seems to be more on the free sites though. What many of the guys want on the dating sites is so unrealistic. I mean I saw a huge 50 year old man ask for a 25-30 year old brunette who's not overweight. Yeah that's going to happen. Where guys got this idea that women 10+ younger will want them if they aren't attractive is just weird.

acw
11-25-2011, 03:03 PM
I got no problem with older men hitting on me.

I tell them what i do and come see me sometime. They know the score. They come in and i get rich....simple.
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If they get out of line, they get bounced (although this rarely happens to older gents).

IF they aren't my cup of tea....i tell them i have a boyfriend who's the bouncer at my club.

Its the young guys who can't handle rejection. I'm more concerned about guys in their 20's and 30's. Older guys seem to take it in stride. Young dudes go crazy....i see it happen with my GF's all the time. They are so insecure and jealous about what their GF's do for work...and it never works out. Sometimes it even gets violent (one of the dancer's at my club recently got roughed up very bad....hospital time). Her young BF was very insecure and carried that macho bravado attitude. She thought it was cute until he broke her jaw....ouch! :O

sammii
11-25-2011, 08:23 PM
She thought it was cute until he broke her jaw....ouch! :O
Wow, this is disturbing. I hope she filed domestic abuse charges.