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vivianbear
09-11-2011, 12:14 PM
Run. If anyone in his chain of command finds out that he's some kind of wanna-be pimp, his entire career is OVER. Like, immediately. He will be fired and you will have nothing. Take what's yours and get out, now. You don't want to be named his 'accomplice' when the shit hits the fan.
Optimist
09-11-2011, 01:59 PM
but then again me being a dancer i know how i live. he has no idea.... i have alot of side bangs and sugar daddies ugh fml.
That doesn't have a thing to do with being a dancer. If you screw around and have sugar daddies, that's your thing. It's not a dancer thing. It's like a cop on the take saying that's just how cops live. :no:
I don't know that it's wise to out yourself as a federal level criminal. Fraud against the military isn't a good look.
Non love marriages were the norm until a hundred years or so in the western world and still common in India and Asia. Arranged marriages have a higher success rate of staying together because they aren't based on lust as marriages are here. Marriage traditionally was not based on love and many couples had partners on the side they really loved.
I know this isn't exactly what you mean because I'm not talking per se about military marriages but I would marry a military guy in a heartbeat just for the benefits.
I think arranged marriages are more likely to stay together longer because they are in culture where the women and the poor don't have many option to be self sufficient. That sounds like prison to me.
lokikola
09-14-2011, 08:43 PM
OP, I don't see this going anywhere for you, or him. What a dumbass. This is the first time I've ever heard of a military kid trying to be a pimp. Its just not going to work out. Who is going to be in charge of his hos when he deploys? At best I see you becoming a bottom bitch (if you decide to get involved or stay with him... same thing).
You can't use your spouse's GI Bill. You just can't. They won't let you.
I say that as someone who has a GI Bill AND has a spouse with a GI Bill. You can't transfer it. The paperwork will not go through, they will not allow it and you will not get any money. Period.
This is not true. You can transfer the post 9/11 GI Bill but it has to be done whenever the service member is re-enlisting, not just at random. This is done for retention purposes.