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SupaByoch
08-22-2011, 01:31 PM
^^Just don't use Arizona, they don't have daylight savings time...I'm always so confused when I visit there because of that.

LOL I'm in AZ. I tell them where I am; doesn't bother me.

BellaBonatella
08-22-2011, 01:49 PM
It can be hard. I always get this question too. I am lucky I live in Italy and I block that country. So I tell my American fans I live in Italy and they dont follow after. lol 8)

CandaceMoon
08-22-2011, 02:53 PM
I change my location weekly. Last week I was from rhode island, this week Im from pennsylania. My location isn't pertinent to me giving a good show. Sometimes I say...does it really matter, sweety, I can cyber-fuck you no matter where I am. Occasionally (and I totally stole this from amber cutie) I say I am your digital fantasy girl, i dont exist outside the interwebs, hehe

ShellyConnors
08-22-2011, 02:58 PM
I always tell them where I'm from, not where I live. That's what they ask anyway. I have no intention on moving back to where I'm from so search for me high and low, ya won't find me ;)

It always kills me how they then always suggest that they should fly there to meet up with me. Yeah buddy... you do that.

BlkSharpie
08-22-2011, 03:44 PM
I always saw it as small talk...every once in a blue moon someone asks about meeting, but they are usually timewasters who never get a show and I block them once Im annoyed with them.

Other than that...I say Im in SoFla...then go off talking about palm trees and sandy beaches, toss in a lil "just another crappy day in paradise..heehee!" (yes I do the giggle lol) or like now hurricaine season, talk about that. If they ask specifically where I live, I say the fun part. To which they will either assume Orlando or Miami... If they press I just go, oh anywhere I am is the fun part! or something equally lame.

Also, generally, right after they ask me where Im from, I turn it around and isntantly ask them where they are from, and whatever they start talking about, veer off into some topic relating to that until we are way off the subject of location. ie - Im from Philly - ooh, so you know the best phiilly cheesesteak - talk about food. Im from NY - Oooh I love the theatre there! - talk about broadway - tell them about my fav french restaurant off broadway, talk about food. Chicago - oooh really? I LOVE Chicago!, talk about the boat tour I went on/navy pier, talk about how great the steak is. Tell them Chicago is better than NY cause its cleaner. They love that.

90% of my convos turn to food actually. Im greedy. :D

SupaByoch
08-22-2011, 05:36 PM
Please, be careful. I know it's just a city but I don't trust these guys and they don't need to know.

I hope you give them a large city, like Miami or New York City, or something like that.

Ehh, I am about as paranoid as they get with giving out personal info anywhere online, even if it has nothing to do with adult anything, but even I'm not that paranoid. LOL

There isn't a damn thing they can gather just from my city. Furthermore, if some guy really wanted to find either of us, he wouldn't have to ask what city we live in, so telling that just isn't a big risk.

miss.adventure
08-22-2011, 06:08 PM
ugh i feel ya on that, i do get tons of guys who want me to treat them like i am they're girlfriend and pretty much that niche works in favor for me....it just shows ya how much camming and the industry in general has changed over the years...i just dont know what it is with that but i guess the dudes wanna feel like it is more than just porn/sex...LOl.

Maybe I'm oldskool, but I'm much happier with the wham bam thank you m'aam of days gone by. Although I do have the GFE thing down...but nobody said I had to like it. Must've been a man's idea >:(

miss.adventure
08-22-2011, 06:15 PM
LOL I'm in AZ. I tell them where I am; doesn't bother me.

That so hilarious! It's even funnier because I was advising YOU, LoL

I get SO confused! I live in Eastern Time, when in AZ I'm like "okay, count back 3 hours...no 2....umm...think....shit....think harder...what freaking month is it again???"

Cam_Model_Jess
08-22-2011, 09:40 PM
When I first started, I used a city and state near where I lived for about a year so I could talk about it, and I pulled up the weather before I started. Then I switched to another state and refused to specify a city, just telling the guys I wasn't interested in sharing that info.

Now I just say, "I'm from the U.S." If they ask me to be more specific, I just say, "I'm from the U.S. and that's as specific as I'm going to be." There's no need to tell them where you live, and if they think that we're going to give out what city we ACTUALLY live, they're stupid. They should EXPECT to be told lies. What do they want? your home address? GPS coordinates? Though I always say that there's no one so deluded as a guy with his dick in his hand.

BlkSharpie
08-23-2011, 01:34 AM
Ohh, about the GFE thing...I have to say I like it. Not just for cam but for escorting too. Those are the guys who become great regs...the guys who will want to pay me on cam to talk about music and movies or how their day went and stuff like that.

All of these guys are contacting us cause they have a need to fulfill...most of the time its sexual desire, but many times thats mixed with with the desire for a friendly voice/face to talk to. As much as one can joke about marriage and relationships, its true...there are a lot of guys who have a crap day at work, then come home and for whatever reason, whether its totally his fault or his woman is just as stressed and in no mood to be friendly...

Just like with the sexual release, they know they are paying for as friend...but as long as it feels good, who cares? And for me, its awesome to get paid to shoot the breeze. I even had one guy who would pay to watch me on cam, and didnt mind if I took other shows while he waited for me to come back..he paid to make sure Id come back and finish our convo or t not forget him or whatever.

Escorting, I had a guy book with me, and all we did was talk. I thought he was just shy and tried to put on moves and he just wanted to talk. I thought maybe he just wasnt into me or didnt like something about me, but he shot me a message saying he had a great time and has since booked with me again. Just to talk. Plus I do have a few guys who always get multi-hour so that we have time to hang out and talk too.

Anyway...thats just been my experience with the GFE type guys. I can just imagine, having a pretty girl to talk to, giggle at all their jokes, find them so interesting and all of that is something they are missing in their personal life, so they pay to get it from me. I can handle that.