View Full Version : Escorts/Former Escorts: Do You Regret getting into it?
Arialandre
12-06-2011, 08:25 PM
Just checking in. Making sure its all calm and good in here.
William Folds
12-19-2011, 01:12 PM
I feel your pain. I'd love to see more SW threads about figuring out all our various "vanilla" pursuits. I think sex workers get a warped perspective about money because we are used to making large amounts of instant cash at a young age (before doing long tours of duty in straight jobs). I work freelance jobs and, even when the money's good to "normal job" standards, say $300 per diem for approx 8 hrs work, I'm lucky if I get my paycheck eight weeks after completing the work. I, for one, need to make structured time of a good 10-20 hours per week to pitch freelance articles and pursue proper career-building gigs. I tell customers I'm a freelance writer and building a future and blahblah cause their male egos wanna hear that I have an exit strategy (it soothes their savior complexes) but, in reality, I'm loathe to do anything that doesn't pay at least $50 per hour cash up front. I think making easy money has made me more lazy and indecisive than ever :(
A little off topic, but... Ages ago I used to run a cash biz and made enough money to party several times a week, not have a legit job, whatever. I wasn't banking per se, but I was perfectly happy with the money. But I got really paranoid, lost trust in a lot of homies, became too focused on getting my money. It was a stressful period and what you are describing is exactly what I went thru, so I guess it's not abnormal in any world that involves the exchange of cash. You begin to feel that there's no value to cash because it's constantly coming in and going out. I was like: A grand? Who cares about a g, much less a hundred bucks? It was so weird, looking back.
Luxx78
12-21-2011, 03:39 AM
Uuiuup
Luxx78
12-21-2011, 03:56 AM
One more thing to clear things up. Nobody's mouth is anywhere on my body including my area and lips. Usually the men I see don't even want to kiss because they have a brain. A smart girl in this business doesn't do anything she's is not 100% comfortable with. I see girls doing things for 100-200 quickies, thats not really my thing. I give a physical check to all customers. I allow customers to touch my "b**bs but no licking, and no sticking fingers in my area. I just jump on top and get it done. Everything from hj's, bj's and the rest is all used with condoms. I like to be paid as I'm giving a very intense experience.
BlkSharpie
12-21-2011, 08:16 AM
Why do you feel the brothels are looked down upon? I havnt seen anything like that... for a bit I was looking into them and theres someone on here who worked in one that gave a lot of good info. It was one of the things I looked into when I first started escorting and I go back and forth between the pros and cons.
One thing I did learn that eased my nerves was I always thought of the brothels as having all playboy mansion type girls lol really young perfect bodies etc etc... but as I looked more into it and checked out the lineup on the different websites, I saw that there is a lot of variety, age groups, body sizes, etc...
The thing that freaks me out though is I read about how for the time you are there, you cannot leave. I got claustophobic reading that...! (Which is funny cause I rarely leave my apt lol!) Ive also heard that going from agency to brothel is a lot easier than going from independent to brothel, because when youre indi, you set all your own rules, while brothels have a lot of rules to go by and that can be shell shock for someone who does everything on their own terms.
Anyway, I would like to hear abt your experiences too...!!