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Jay12
09-11-2011, 04:02 PM
I remember this guy (a black young guy; my least favorite type of customer) who said (in a mean tone) while I was on stage "sorry, but you just don't have it; I like my kind".
Wow! That was the most racist thing I've heard from somebody. I "accidentally" kicked his beer right after he finished talking.
Aslinn
09-11-2011, 05:56 PM
I remember this guy (a black young guy; my least favorite type of customer) who said (in a mean tone) while I was on stage "sorry, but you just don't have it; I like my kind".
Wow! That was the most racist thing I've heard from somebody. I "accidentally" kicked his beer right after he finished talking.
That's funny that you say that because young black guys don't really like black girls. All my black male friends date young white girls with wide hips a lot of the girls are trashy wigger types.
femmefatale88
09-13-2011, 02:16 AM
Once on stage, a guy was having his bachelor party and drunkenly shouted out that I have an ass of a five year old boy and I retorted you have a dick of a five year old boy and his friends laughed. Sat night a guy told me I was too short but he was literaly 7 feet tall so it's ok. He got a dance with the tallest girl in the club.
Kellydancer
09-13-2011, 11:28 AM
That's funny that you say that because young black guys don't really like black girls. All my black male friends date young white girls with wide hips a lot of the girls are trashy wigger types.
Young black men generally didn't like me because they tended to like the girls with bigger butts. However, I don't think any of them were mean when they rejected me. Now young white men is another story. I've had so many of them hurl nasty insults at me that I generally avoided them. I think this is why in my dating life I avoided them as well.
Athenathefabulous
09-13-2011, 06:12 PM
I remember this guy (a black young guy; my least favorite type of customer) who said (in a mean tone) while I was on stage "sorry, but you just don't have it; I like my kind".
Wow! That was the most racist thing I've heard from somebody. I "accidentally" kicked his beer right after he finished talking.
You say young black men are your least favorite demographic and complain about him being racist? /:O
KS_Stevia
09-14-2011, 07:22 AM
I just remembered one. 2 guys were sitting at my stage, it was a small side stage. They were chatting and pretty much ignoring me, so I was just swaying and scanning the room. One of them kept taking out a dollar, holding it up. That would get my attention, then he would put it away. This happened 3 times until I finally asked him if he was going to give it up. It was loud but he told me something like "I would if you were worth it". Then my set ended. I kept cool and calm, went to the manager to kick them out, but I think they got the picture and decided to leave.
That one still stings a bit. I've had a few guys come up to my stage, wave a dollar and say, "what are you gonna do for this dollar", and its easy for me just to grab the dollar, walk off, totally ignore them. But this guy was holding it in a way that if I had bent over to grab the bill, he would have pulled it back and I could fall over, so I decided it wasn't worth it. Boy do I wish they had some drinks I could have spilled on their lap.
They appeared to be pretty adept that game so I'm going to assume they were doing it to all the dancers, and it wasn't because I was gross.
that.guy.in.la
09-15-2011, 01:28 AM
I hope you don't mind if I chime in on this one, but this past Saturday night I witnessed a d-bag insult a dancer with one the most hurtful comments I think anyone could make, especially to someone who puts themselves out there so much.
During her dance, he threw a dollar on the stage and said, "I need change, because you're worth only half that."
The dancer picked up his dollar, ripped it up, threw it in his face and said, "Get the f*ck off my stage."
luscious sadie
09-15-2011, 01:38 AM
^I get told several times a week "I'm Gay". That line is annoying and not at all creative, clever or funny.
From now on tell the girls "We don't want dances from you two", and let them be on their way. Don't do the "We're gay" line. It's pathetic.
when guys tell me that they're gay I'm always like "I'm so excited! Every gay guy goes with me! Strippers and gay men get along SOOO well! We'll do shots and stuff. Come on! I have the MOST fun with gay men in the back!" and just don't let up on them until they have to turn me down anyway }:D
JayATee
09-15-2011, 01:07 PM
My fav often leaves her clutch on the table with me when she goes to the rest room. It saves me the trouble of turning down dancers when they try to swoop in. I do get interesting exchanges from dancers who notice it only after introducing themselves. Something like: "Sorry, I didn't realize you already had company. Unless that's yours..."
That's an awful lot of trust. You must be a great customer! ;)
uncontrol
09-15-2011, 03:34 PM
That's an awful lot of trust. You must be a great customer! ;)
I could be a better customer. I could spend more money on her.
luscious sadie
09-15-2011, 03:40 PM
I would never leave my purse on a table with a customer who only "treats me like a lady". I think that the trolls are back but are learning to be more respectful. At first, at least.
that.guy.in.la
09-15-2011, 03:41 PM
The only one quasi physical insult I got was from a guy who asked me if I had kids. I told him I didn't and he grabbed my lower belly and told me I was lying....
http://t3.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcTvdCLfelhC5Lr-puBaifdhNUbAiuJv_evJqpuljX66em2j-NT1
To KS_Stevia: Is this a link to a picture of you? If so, I have no idea how he could say such a thing. You are absolutely stunning and, IMHO, in perfect shape.
KS_Stevia
09-16-2011, 05:20 AM
Not me. I am WAAAAAAY hotter than that chick. :)
that.guy.in.la
09-16-2011, 09:48 AM
Not me. I am WAAAAAAY hotter than that chick. :)
Then that customer was an even bigger idiot than I thought! ;D
yoda57us
09-16-2011, 04:57 PM
Not me. I am WAAAAAAY hotter than that chick. :)
Way way waaaaaaaay hotter! :great:
JayATee
09-17-2011, 04:42 PM
I could be a better customer. I could spend more money on her.
Actually I was being totally sarcastic. I don't know a single dancer who'd walk away from her money. I don't care how much you spend, or how "wonderful" you may be.
simple(headed?)guy
09-18-2011, 12:17 PM
Actually I was being totally sarcastic. I don't know a single dancer who'd walk away from her money. I don't care how much you spend, or how "wonderful" you may be.
I know this is very unusual, but last Friday I was at a local club and one lady I had met only the night before did leave her money with me. Don't know if it was a test or she just didn't think. But I would never have given a thought to taking her money. I took better care of her clutch than I did my own cell phone.
Of course in thinking about it, it probably helped that I noticed a guy stalking a waitress earlier in the evening and took a knife away from a guy before anybody got hurt... didn't hurt my evening very much, just had to spend some time with the local cops giving statements and then enjoying several free drinks that the club and waitresses kept bringing me. ;D
JayATee
09-19-2011, 10:15 AM
^ Do you leap tall buildings in a single bound too? ::)
lemiwinks31
09-19-2011, 10:26 AM
I know this is very unusual, but last Friday I was at a local club and one lady I had met only the night before did leave her money with me. Don't know if it was a test or she just didn't think. But I would never have given a thought to taking her money. I took better care of her clutch than I did my own cell phone.
Of course in thinking about it, it probably helped that I noticed a guy stalking a waitress earlier in the evening and took a knife away from a guy before anybody got hurt... didn't hurt my evening very much, just had to spend some time with the local cops giving statements and then enjoying several free drinks that the club and waitresses kept bringing me. ;D
you forgot to tell everyone how big your cock is.....
simple(headed?)guy
09-19-2011, 12:09 PM
Nope, don't leap building, don't have a big cock.
And the story is no bull. It happened right in front of me, I saw it and acted. That's all.
Believe me, don't believe me. it's all the same to me. I know what I did and I'm very happy that no one was hurt.
yoda57us
09-19-2011, 03:06 PM
Believe me, don't believe me. it's all the same to me. I know what I did and I'm very happy that no one was hurt.
Not quite...I almost died laughing when I read this post...
FiendishGyrator
09-19-2011, 03:17 PM
You say young black men are your least favorite demographic and complain about him being racist? /:O
I don't necessarily consider that racist. My least favorite demographic typically equals (as it changes sometimes) the demographic that spends the least on me. When she wrote that, to me, that mean that she makes the least amount of money from young, black men. Not that "OMG!!! I hate those BLACK people!" Young, black guys do tend to be (for me) full of shit. I've had some GREAT young, black men as customers who were just as awesome as any other top-spender who didn't happen to be black. But they are overshadowed 10 to 1 by all the wanna-be pimpsters or "oh baby! come out to eat with me!" who spend not a goddamned dollar.