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ManyRoses
10-05-2011, 03:54 PM
I'm not usually a fan of women who come in in groups, either with guys, or entirely women (oh lord, large groups of women make me want to do serious physical harm), BUT I adore couples!!

Most couples that I have come across are in the club because they want to get revved up before they go home together - so they are all for dances! And if you can get the wife/gf on your side, then the bf/husband is usually so thrilled to see his woman getting dances that he will just keep paying for them...and wives and gfs are VERY skilled at getting men to open their wallets.

Some of my best custys have been couples - they tend to get multiple dances or VIP time and are usually very respectful....so send your wives round my way, and I'll take care of it!! lol

loren
10-09-2011, 02:23 AM
I don't understand why guys do this - it almost never goes well. At best, the guy feels contstrained from fully enjoying himself. At worst, the wife/gf behaves badly and makes everyone around her miserable.

I am sure that there are examples of bi-sexual women or very open minded wives/girlfriends who are perfectly fine at a club, but I have rarely seen it. Usually the wife or gf either acts like a sourpuss or behaves obnoxiously.

Anyway, just my :twocents:I will dance for anyone with $$. But I prefer dancing for guys. I am not as comfortable dancing for females but I will do it for $$. I think that's probably why i don't make much off of female custys. Although I have made $ doing vip for super bisexual female custys who just so happened to like me, it's extremely rare. I realize that I am there acting and that is the job. There are some roles I like playing better than others. And there are some roles that I do a better job of playing.
I think that rude jealous bitches are more emtionally hurtful than a cheap guy. Like it or not, guys to to stripclubs for lapdances. It's a strip club not a pole dancing class. We are just doing our job.
I think the rude jealous bitches who sit at the stage are not willing to acknowledge that guys go to strip clubs for LAP DANCES. Welcome to the year 2011. 1911 was a hundred years ago!!! Mini skirts are here to stay too - so deal with it!!!!

loren
10-09-2011, 02:49 AM
So you don't tip the dancers? Don't get dances? Only go in when there's FREE food and $1 drinks?! Ummm, I'd rather have no one in the club.Vegas sucks.

loren
10-09-2011, 06:28 PM
and when they're 40 they'll be that old crazy bitch in the club who wants to dance all over young guys and everyone will be laughing at her. Are you talking about women in their 40's who work as strippers? If so I can't imagine they would work at a strip club just so they can dance all over young guys. Women in their 20's, 30's and 40's go to work to make $$. It has nothing to do with the age of the custy or what they look like. People with more life experience have more knowledge and can use that knowledge in any job. It's hard for people to get jobs now regardless of age or education. That is why so many women are working as strippers in comparison to when the economy is good.
Competition in all jobs is brutal, so I understand your frustrtation. If she is a good sales person- try to learn from her instead of laughing at her. That is no different than the rude jealous bitches who sit on stage critiquing us.
Remember she is just as scared of being homeless or with out a car as everyone else. I'm sure she is doing the best she can to survive.

tempest666
10-09-2011, 11:25 PM
I don't care if they come in anymore because the reality of it is female custies are a part of the new landscape. I just want them to please be wearing undies!!!

Emanuelle
10-17-2011, 04:26 PM
While I agree that men should never try to bring their SO into the clubs if she doesn't really want to be there, I find that most of the time the women are just there to have fun.

ScarlettJanuary
10-17-2011, 10:51 PM
Personally, I love going to the strip club as a custie. I'm not pretending to be gay, I'm just being honest about the fact that I think women.are.fucking.beautiful. Also, it turns me on to go with my significant other.

As a dancer I don't really approach couples...I pretty much only go to them if they call me over. I have had some great experiences with women though....not dancing for them, just interactions where, for example one time I was talking to a group of guys (one of whom had his girlfriend with him) and the guys were all hmmming and hawing about whether or not to get a dance. The girlfriend finally says to the guys "look, this girl is not here just for the hell of it. She's working so show her some respect and someone get a dance. And if you're not going to do that then you better give her a good tip for all the time you've just wasted!" Lol.

loren
11-05-2011, 05:18 AM
Treat female custys exactly like men? If they are not gay or bi, they probably will be freaked out enough to stand their ground next time; and simply say no.

Vyanka
11-05-2011, 02:59 PM
I've gotten lucky with a cool respectable couple once. If they're are anything like them, welcome. It was very pleasant being with them in VIP. I was the one in charge of everything. They went along with it and had fun. :)

I also had one couple where the woman was straight but she played along the whole lesbian fantasy with me in VIP for her man and she made him tip me(he was a little stingy). She was a cool sport also.

I cannot stand the female customer who feels like she can do whatever she wants, or sits there with a pout talking shit about the dancers looking like she's having a miserable time. AND is being a wallet-cockblock.

$$$YvonnE$$$
11-05-2011, 05:44 PM
3 years of dancing and I have never had a female spend more than $20 dollars on me. I've had more females give me dirty looks and get mad at me for talking to their bf than females who will spend money. They will glare at you all night, i'm not sure why....it's like they think it's funny.

The worst are the groups of females who come to the SC after a night out at the club because they are so drunk it's like amusing to them. They just take up space.

OK there are females who come in with their bfs willing to get a dance here and there but ya IMO things would be easier if they just weren't there. I hate sitting down at a table and having to ask if it's ok to sit with them, some will be like 'uh no, that's my boyfriend back off'. Anyways just my 2cents agree or disagree watevs.

kaelee
12-18-2011, 04:52 AM
Why do men get lapdances? HINT-What is located in the lap region of a man?

A female customer getting a lap dance, is like a man trying to use a tampon in that one specific area of his lap region.

As for stage bitches who think it's like watching a naked pole dancing class - I am actually offended when somenone has the nerve to ask me when I go on stage next. r u kidding? What do you think I am going to do for "the possibility" of $1? The same as I would do for one "guaranteed" penny.

lokikola
12-18-2011, 07:32 AM
Are you talking about women in their 40's who work as strippers? If so I can't imagine they would work at a strip club just so they can dance all over young guys. Women in their 20's, 30's and 40's go to work to make $$. It has nothing to do with the age of the custy or what they look like. People with more life experience have more knowledge and can use that knowledge in any job. It's hard for people to get jobs now regardless of age or education. That is why so many women are working as strippers in comparison to when the economy is good.
Competition in all jobs is brutal, so I understand your frustrtation. If she is a good sales person- try to learn from her instead of laughing at her. That is no different than the rude jealous bitches who sit on stage critiquing us.
Remember she is just as scared of being homeless or with out a car as everyone else. I'm sure she is doing the best she can to survive.

I was talking about customers not dancers. So, didn't even read half if what you argued about.

tuesdaymarie
12-18-2011, 09:37 AM
Why do men get lapdances? HINT-What is located in the lap region of a man?

A female customer getting a lap dance, is like a man trying to use a tampon in that one specific area of his lap region.

As for stage bitches who think it's like watching a naked pole dancing class - I am actually offended when somenone has the nerve to ask me when I go on stage next. r u kidding? What do you think I am going to do for "the possibility" of $1? The same as I would do for one "guaranteed" penny.

A female customer getting a lap dance is comparable to......... what.....? Some females are attracted to females. Having someone you're attracted to in various states of nudity in your lap is good regardless of the anatomy.

Incantatious
12-18-2011, 10:21 AM
Why do men get lapdances? HINT-What is located in the lap region of a man?

A female customer getting a lap dance, is like a man trying to use a tampon in that one specific area of his lap region.

The fuck? Looks you were trying to use a tampon but it somehow made it's way up your ass instead. Seriously, what you said just makes no sense.

To suss out what you just said: Men are attracted to women because men have penises, and so a woman who wishes to watch another woman dance is like a man inserting a method of preventing female menstrual blood leaking everywhere in his penis....? /:O ....... LOL!!!

Do you not believe that gay / lesbian / bi people exist?

Wakeup-call: It's possible to find a member of the same gender sexually attractive. </can't believe this needed to be said >

LittleSnuglet
12-18-2011, 05:52 PM
Nothing wrong with bringing gf/wife to a SC. So long as the gf/wife actually enjoys going. I've seen many couples where the guy is entranced with the show while the gf/wife has her arms crossed and has a look screams "bored" or pissed off."

lopaw
12-18-2011, 06:28 PM
Why do men get lapdances? HINT-What is located in the lap region of a man?

A female customer getting a lap dance, is like a man trying to use a tampon in that one specific area of his lap region.



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Bunny
01-17-2012, 10:45 PM
I feel the same way; I check out women more than any men I've been with.

every guy I've ever been to a club with comments on how starry eyed I get watching the dancers. I usually ask them to take me, not the other way around. And I try to get them to spend money on dances.

I understand there are a lot of females that go to clubs with their guy that cause problems, and i know I'm maybe not the norm in that I actually like going more than a lot of guys, but there could be money to be made there. I went to a club in Houston with two guy friends. One of my friends had at least $1000 cash on him and wanted to buy dances . He even paid for our drinks with a wad of cash that the waitress saw. Not ONE girl came up to our table.

Swagz
01-22-2012, 01:33 PM
After several awkward "dances" for obviously straight women at the behest of their male companions, I decided to let women approach me for dances. Last night I was treated to a dance request from an adorable Navy Latina with glasses and full lips. Yay!

All the chicks not genuinely into it, or the ones that look at you (from the tip rail) like you have a third eye for asking if they will be tipping tonight, can GTFO my club. Betch

Let_It_Fly
01-24-2012, 07:50 AM
^^Posts like this make me sad for all the good female custies. Maybe try approaching women that smile, make eye contact and tip while you are onstage? Its my MO in the club and most dancers seem to get that Im there for fun and to spend $$.that should be for all that go to the club, not just women