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Snowy0Star
01-24-2013, 05:45 PM
reading stuff like this the stuff thats been said the main thread the fact that i didnt get voted in makes me wonder if i should just forget about the site but the fact that guys can pay u just to talk to them by texting them and write messages on site is kinda apealing to me. if i did join i would just keep to myself and be about me and my hussle
justsometwat
01-24-2013, 07:38 PM
when you mind your own business and stop telling people what to do, it's crazy easy to make decent money there. When you are very negative all of the time and try to start drama, then I don't blame people for not taking to you well.
I haven't ever been involved in drama there and I am pretty active.
MissSassyPickles
01-24-2013, 07:55 PM
when you mind your own business and stop telling people what to do, it's crazy easy to make decent money there. When you are very negative all of the time and try to start drama, then I don't blame people for not taking to you well.
I haven't ever been involved in drama there and I am pretty active.
Jaana was trying to help people on the GOB protect their privacy and was lashed out at because of it (I'm sure there have been other instances but this happens to be the one I read). I read her post there. It was ridiculous. If people on this forum were responded to when they were trying to help people, which happens 8768435144 a day here, this forum would not be what it is.
For not wanting to be involved in drama I felt your post was completely unnecessary.
Jaana
01-24-2013, 07:58 PM
LOL now I'm getting anonymous hate mmail from MGF girls on Tumblr. I wish I had that much free time.
MissSassyPickles
01-24-2013, 08:02 PM
LOL now I'm getting anonymous hate mmail from MGF girls on Tumblr. I wish I had that much free time.
If they spent as much time working as they did trash talking they wouldn't need to sell scat clips for a paid message.
I think most of them aren't professionals in the industry, that's pretty obvious. What professional cam girl, adult model, content creator would do something like that? No one.
justsometwat
01-24-2013, 08:02 PM
I never said anything about 'not wanting to be involved in drama'. I said on MGF I haven't ever had issues with drama.
It's instances like this with people not reading what is written that causes problems and break downs in communication and cause people to have bitch fights over things that aren't necessary.
MissSassyPickles
01-24-2013, 08:07 PM
I never said anything about 'not wanting to be involved in drama'. I said on MGF I haven't ever had issues with drama.
It's instances like this with people not reading what is written that causes problems and break downs in communication and cause people to have bitch fights over things that aren't necessary.
Although I misread your original post in the context of this thread it doesn't really make a difference. The point is that people shouldn't be punished and told not to help others for fear of getting punished or starting drama, when that was the complete opposite of what was intended. Unfortunately, this is the way many of the girls on MGF are on their boards, and I'm glad that this board does not have that same atmosphere.
Snowy0Star
01-24-2013, 08:09 PM
twat might have been responding to my post but if she was she should have quoted me but if she didnt then she was wrong to say anything at all because then shes pretty much saying jaana deserves the bullshit shes getting from these stuck up bitches on MGF for acting like theyre still in high school when she was only trying to help them and raise them up.
justsometwat
01-24-2013, 08:10 PM
< Can say anything because it's an open forum.
MissSassyPickles
01-24-2013, 08:11 PM
< can hit the ignore button
justsometwat
01-24-2013, 08:13 PM
:thumbsup:
CourtneyRaine
01-24-2013, 09:31 PM
Wow...
Okay so in other news, this doesn't help anyone who has already closed their account but I recently decided I need a break for a few weeks from MGF. Instead of closing my account (and losing all of my 5 star ratings and higher %) I just whited out everything in my profile and posted a big message that I was taking a break for a few weeks and asking guys please not to message me or send me contributions for content because I wouldn't be logging in for a while. I understand that MGF can be more emotionally draining than free chat per minute sites but it doesn't make sense to close your account because you don't like other models on there. Just take a break, no need to negate all of your hard work! So to anyone who's thinking of closing their account, maybe just do what I did so you don't undo all of the progress you've made on there?
Oh, and I'm not taking a break due to the drama, I don't even get involved or pay attention because it doesn't affect my money so why should I care? I'm just dealing with some stuff in my personal life and need a breather from pretty much evertything in my life right now.
CourtneyRaine
01-24-2013, 09:33 PM
Has anyone else ever had trouble receiving a direct deposit? I usually receive mine pretty quickly but it's been five business days now. I'm going to contact them if it's not there tomorrow. Any experience with this?
It's been a while but I think it took about a week or so before the sent the test deposits to my account. I remember I'd emailsed them and also given up hope but then they just showed up one day. It's really just a waiting game.
CourtneyRaine
01-24-2013, 09:37 PM
reading stuff like this the stuff thats been said the main thread the fact that i didnt get voted in makes me wonder if i should just forget about the site but the fact that guys can pay u just to talk to them by texting them and write messages on site is kinda apealing to me. if i did join i would just keep to myself and be about me and my hussle
MGF has never been my main money maker but it can be if you put in the work, and it is definitely worth trying to get in. It is wonderful for when you don't want to get on cam but you can still make a lot in a day with messages, content sales, cnotributions for live chats, etc. There is honestly no need to get involved with the GOB/GOD forum; evertything you could possibly need to know is right here in this thread. The only time you might want to check the GOB is if you're having problems cashing out or something and you want to know if the problem is on your end or it's site-wide. The girls on there are not making you money, YOU are making you money, so I think just keeping to yourself and only talking to the guys is really the best approach on there. Hope you get approved! You definitely have the right idea by not getting mixed up with the girls who are active in the GOB and just being on there to make money.
Snowy0Star
01-24-2013, 09:44 PM
thax raine ill try again to get in =^y^=
CourtneyRaine
01-24-2013, 09:53 PM
Jaana was trying to help people on the GOB protect their privacy and was lashed out at because of it (I'm sure there have been other instances but this happens to be the one I read)...
I think the moral of the story is, don't try to give unsolicited help the girls who are active in the GOB because they Do. No. Want. It. I haven't read the GOB for a few weeks so I missed this current drama fest but this is like an ongoing issue of people offering unsolicited advice and other people getting offended by it. It comes to a point where if you try to help and you get crapped on, and then you try to help again and you get crapped on again, and then you try to help Again and you get crapped on Again, you've got to realize that your help isn't helping them and it's only hurting you. If you choose to keep offering up this help knowing this fact, don't be surprised when you get crapped on again. I'm not saying anyone in this situation is right or wrong, like I said I missed the whole thing, but I think all of us here can agree that the gob is a huge clique and knowing that fact, you've got to navigate it wisely or just do like most of us here do and choose not to waste your time there. I think this forum is awesome, I get and try to give a lot of help on here but the girls who are active in the GOB for the most part think very differently. The GOB isn't like here, it's not really a resource like SW is to help your game. It's really just like a high school lunch room with drama drama drama. If you choose to participate it, don't be surprised when someone is chosen to be the girl who gets picked on. It really is like high school with the majority of girls who are active on the girls only parts of MGF. All of us on here know that, and if one still chooses to be active there and interact with girls who are talking about them behind their backs even though they *know* it's causing problems for them and their ability to do well on there, I have no sympathy.
Jaana, this has been an ongoing issue for you, you have asked for advice here and everyone has said to just avoid the gob if it's really affecting you so badly. You still chose to be active and interact with the same girls you say are turning guys against you and making you lose money. What did you think would happen? I'm sorry if this comes off as blunt but several weeks (months?) ago you were given advice by several girls on SW to just lay low and you chose not to take that advice. I don't think it's right that girls are sending you anonymous hate mail or whatever it is but maybe this can be a warning for other girls to nip bad situations in the bud before it gets to the point it has gotten with you and your situation.
MissSassyPickles
01-24-2013, 10:27 PM
^Yep, I was well aware of what was going on, which is why I decided to keep my replies here and have in fact never posted in that board. However, even though I don't post on that board I wanted to express my support to someone who is trying to help. Of course it makes things easier if you don't post, but I think a lot of people see the potential that that board could be really helpful so there are still people trying to turn it around and make it a more useful resource. If/when it changes I won't be posting on there until that point comes.
It's a hard call because there are some situations in which if you participate and try to change the atmosphere, whether it be a forum, club, whatever you can actually make a positive impact, and other's where it's not worth it. At the end of the day I always think it's better to give an effort and see what happens, but it's an equally important skill to learn when to cut your losses.
CourtneyRaine
01-24-2013, 10:47 PM
I've been on MGF for more than a year and a half and from reading the GOb the entire time, it has not gotten any better in all that time. Like I said, with the exception of updates when payments are delayed I have not read anything useful on there that I did not already know about from StripperWeb.
The problem is, not only is the GOB not very helpful for girls who know what they are doing, but it can actually be a very harmful place. I have heard of several instances of girls screen shotting it and sending what's said there to guys to get other girls in trouble, girls telling guys on twitter/tumblr not to contribute to girls they've had a fight with in the GOB, and now Jaana saying she's getting anonymous hate mail. I mean it's freaking absurd! And there have been several girls involved in the giving and receiving ends of the bullying so you really can't blame it on any one person, it's just the accepted way of dealing with disputes there. I'm not saying that all of the girls who are active in the GOB are catty mean girls, I don't even know who all is behind the bullying (though I have my suspicions!). All I know is I love SW and the gob is never going to change so I spend my time here and don't waste it there- especially when pissing off the wrong people in the GOB has actually cost several girls lots of money!
Jaana
01-25-2013, 02:18 AM
loool talking in the girls only section about me and openly talking about how they've been searching for me. Seriously this whole thing is fucking hilarious. If they were actually making any money or were any good at anything they did they wouldn't have time to harass me or talk so much shit about me.
GUYS I DIDN'T KNOW I WAS SO IMPORTANT WOW.
justadorable
01-25-2013, 03:10 AM
so i am lost when it comes to mfg i have read this whole forum (although most of it had nothing to do with MGF lol) about it but still cant seem to get anyone who wants to pay for my webcam i keep messaging guys and they add me to there friends list but never reply nor chat so whats up?
CourtneyRaine
01-25-2013, 10:18 AM
so i am lost when it comes to mfg i have read this whole forum (although most of it had nothing to do with MGF lol) about it but still cant seem to get anyone who wants to pay for my webcam i keep messaging guys and they add me to there friends list but never reply nor chat so whats up?
That can be pretty normal, it's all just a matter of finding the right guys. You can try putting in your status that you are available to cam, and make sure you click the camming icon in your chat options tab so you'll be put on the camming page. Sometimes I notice that when I click on another page on MGF (blogs, another guy's profile, etc.) my available to cam button will go off so you might have to log out and log in again to make sure it stays on while you navigate around the site. Speaking of logging off, log in and out every 10-15 minutes, it puts you on the top of the girls page so guys are more likely to see you. If you have something about camming in your status that's a good way to get more guys to notice. When you search for guys, always skim through their statuses to see if anyone is asking for what you want to do. Some guys will put in their status that they want to cam, some guys will put that they want a certain type of content- reach out to those guys first. Also, only premium members can post a status so you know those guys have spent at least some money on the site already, they are likely to keep spending. I also look at guys' feedbacks when deciding how I want to approach them when I message them. A lot of girls will write that the guy paid for all content, ordered a custom photo set, had a good time on cam, etc. Use the ratings to your advantage, tell the guy you noticed you likes to cam and you're new on the site, you'd love it if he can break you in. Something like that. What kinds of messages are you sending the guys you contact? How many do you reach out to in a day?
MissMafia
01-25-2013, 01:28 PM
OK - we get the point. You tried to help, they didn't take it to. In this thread, it's obviously been pointed out going to the GOB places is asking for trouble.
Jaana, while your intentions were good, you should know that's how most of those girls are there. If you are going to post about them here, you are feeding their drama you don't want. Don't waste your time with what they are doing and reading what they post - it's not worth it. Like I said time and time again, never worry about what other girls are doing. AS long as you are true to YOUR word and you carry your own weight - don't worry about anyone else. I just think it is relatively said you deleted your account because you let those girls get the best of you over a blog post. The best thing you could have done was just dropped it, left the thread alone and went back to your business. I don't think it's right you got jumped but you were warned.
Justsometwat - I don't know who you are but I think it's pretty apparent what you are trying to do here. Don't bother doing it. But I will agree, that I have been successful on MGF and never had ANY issues simply because I don't go into those forums. While I understand what you are trying to do here and get your point across about minding your own business I will agree that most of the girls there, especially the vets, think their shit doesn't stink and they think they have the right and reason to shit all over the other girls if they aren't on their bandwagon. It's sad really. People have a hard time interpreting what TEXT is actually in feeling and then what's stated. However. none of those VET girls there get punished for what they say, do, or how they treat newer girls. That's not a forum on the GOB, that's a 1-5 person dictatorship when admin looks the other way.
I have constantly heard guys on their bitching about other girls but I have zero issues with making ANY type of money because I don't do what THEY do. I don't go into GOB. I don't talk about other girls. I don't post in offers, rarely. I don't post blogs, rarely. If you closed your account for the girls 90% of being dumb, I don't know how you are going to make it in the cam world then... 90% of the girls are assholes and the other 10% of them are here. So, you should already know what you are up against on this front.
For the both of you - I am sure you have heard the phrase if you have nothing nice to say, don't say it at all OR at least be honest to the point you are at least reminding someone of something and not tearing them down for it.
In all seriousness, everything you need to know is here in this thread, for the most part.
Otherwise, take it to the fkn Thunderdome.
Jennatalia
01-26-2013, 05:07 PM
I have constantly heard guys on their bitching about other girls but I have zero issues with making ANY type of money because I don't do what THEY do. I don't go into GOB. I don't talk about other girls. I don't post in offers, rarely. I don't post blogs, rarely. If you closed your account for the girls 90% of being dumb, I don't know how you are going to make it in the cam world then... 90% of the girls are assholes and the other 10% of them are here. So, you should already know what you are up against on this front.
For the both of you - I am sure you have heard the phrase if you have nothing nice to say, don't say it at all OR at least be honest to the point you are at least reminding someone of something and not tearing them down for it.
In all seriousness, everything you need to know is here in this thread, for the most part.
Pretty much this. From what I've seen in here the info is correct and all. I used to be a big participant in the GOB way back in the day, in the site's early days. Nowadays, I rarely even glance at it and I don't even bother catching up. I used to get stressed out when it got bad, but then over time I just stopped going in there and it's been great for me ever since. If I want to talk to a girl specifically, especially if I know they're lurking about offsite, I talk to them. I never post blogs or even offers. Oh and I will clarify, if you DO have the Legends profile blocked, it does indeed work. At first I was a bit worried about it but there it is.
MissSassyPickles
01-26-2013, 06:52 PM
Pretty much this. From what I've seen in here the info is correct and all. I used to be a big participant in the GOB way back in the day, in the site's early days. Nowadays, I rarely even glance at it and I don't even bother catching up. I used to get stressed out when it got bad, but then over time I just stopped going in there and it's been great for me ever since. If I want to talk to a girl specifically, especially if I know they're lurking about offsite, I talk to them. I never post blogs or even offers. Oh and I will clarify, if you DO have the Legends profile blocked, it does indeed work. At first I was a bit worried about it but there it is.
How do you block the legends?
Jennatalia
01-26-2013, 07:28 PM
How do you block the legends?
Just like with any guy, click on their "block" link under their avatar/log in times and all that. It does still show their profile if you look at it, but they can't view your profile. I looked from both ends and the block does indeed work; just so you guys know that it is true after all lol.
MissSassyPickles
01-26-2013, 08:14 PM
Just like with any guy, click on their "block" link under their avatar/log in times and all that. It does still show their profile if you look at it, but they can't view your profile. I looked from both ends and the block does indeed work; just so you guys know that it is true after all lol.
Thank you!
CarmenF
01-28-2013, 12:29 PM
sorry this all happened, i enjoy both gob and forums a lot and never had a problem. i find it amusing like here, except most people there are less experienced in the camworld and you canot discuss specific stuff. i cant see why close an account due to discussions with people that dont F-f-f me, well just f-f on mgf's case. i hope you are happy no matter what!
Jaana
01-28-2013, 12:37 PM
sorry this all happened, i enjoy both gob and forums a lot and never had a problem. i find it amusing like here, except most people there are less experienced in the camworld and you canot discuss specific stuff. i cant see why close an account due to discussions with people that dont F-f-f me, well just f-f on mgf's case. i hope you are happy no matter what!Girls were going around telling guys to not buy content from me. Someone even made the mistake of telling a close friend of how horrible I was. He laughed. But i have to wonder how long that was going on for.
CourtneyRaine
01-28-2013, 03:44 PM
Do you think you are eventually going to make a new account on there when things die down? I'm actually kind of loving the break I am taking from MGF, being in free chat requires so much less of an emotional investment. You don't have any tattoos or identifying scars, do you? Maybe you might eventually consider making a more anonymous account like using a completely different name, not posting pics of your face in public, etc. I know of one MGF model who made at least two new accounts, she was not popular with the other girls at all and also had off-site disagreements and drama with them but she was still let back on. If she can do it I know you can.
blitheboned
01-28-2013, 06:37 PM
i cashed out a WEEK ago, still no sign of a deposit into my bank account. in the past it's taken a little longer than the 2-3 days the disclaimer mentions, but i mean ... a week? really? has anyone else's deposits ever taken this long?
MissSassyPickles
01-28-2013, 06:40 PM
i cashed out a WEEK ago, still no sign of a deposit into my bank account. in the past it's taken a little longer than the 2-3 days the disclaimer mentions, but i mean ... a week? really? has anyone else's deposits ever taken this long?
Mines taking longer than 2-3 days... this is my first cash out though
ladyjalyn
01-31-2013, 01:02 PM
Any of you ladies having problem cashing out to payoneer? I been getting: "transfer failed. contact support" error... but support doesn't answer... I am newish to mgf so not exactly sure what's up... Is it just me or any one else having the same issue... I did cashed out just fine a few days ago.
Jennatalia
01-31-2013, 05:43 PM
It's been happening a hell of a lot lately. I may switch back to direct deposit because of this mess, but then again sometimes direct deposit messes up too. They really need to get on this and get it fixed for good, instead of Payoneer going down once every few days.
MissSassyPickles
01-31-2013, 05:50 PM
I just got paid today after about a week when I thought it was going to be 3-4 days.
mimiboo69
01-31-2013, 10:33 PM
I signed up with them 3mons agoI have not heard anything from them I dont think they are BBW friendly any BBWs on this site?
zivlet
01-31-2013, 11:36 PM
Sorry for maybes sounding dumb but can somebody answer me what is 'GOB' please? Apart from a really funny word :)
I've just joined MGF. Just getting used to it before I do anything. So far all's I've got is a guy has sent me a picture of his cock.... :D
I'm about to read the rest of this thread and see if I can get my head around it all :)
MarleyCat
02-01-2013, 12:28 AM
I signed up with them 3mons agoI have not heard anything from them I dont think they are BBW friendly any BBWs on this site?
I'm on MyGirlFund as a bbw and I'm doing pretty okay. It may just depend on how big you are because I don't look like how much I weigh. I've heard for some girls it took about 24 hours to be accepted and then the larger girls like me it took about a week. Apparently they have some kind of voting system where select dudes on the site vote for you. It took almost two weeks for me and I wrote them to ask what the hold up was. I may have gotten in on sheer bullying but who knows.
I say try again, I'm actually doing pretty okay for my first month and my first time doing anything like this at all.
But I wanted to ask you ladies how you bring the men in on MGF? I've been using tumblr to advertise, I send out messages, write blogs, write offers, and I interact with my regulars and friends. But what else can I do? I'm just wondering because, of course, I'd looooove to make more moolah and I'm new to this. I pretty much just signed up taking a shot in the dark lol
ladyjalyn
02-01-2013, 06:30 AM
ohhhhh :( Any idea how long does it usually take for them to fix it?
It's been happening a hell of a lot lately. I may switch back to direct deposit because of this mess, but then again sometimes direct deposit messes up too. They really need to get on this and get it fixed for good, instead of Payoneer going down once every few days.
Jennatalia
02-03-2013, 07:58 PM
Sorry for maybes sounding dumb but can somebody answer me what is 'GOB' please? Apart from a really funny word :)
I've just joined MGF. Just getting used to it before I do anything. So far all's I've got is a guy has sent me a picture of his cock.... :D
I'm about to read the rest of this thread and see if I can get my head around it all :)
GOB is Girls Only Blog. When you're on the blog page, there is a link where you post blog, offers, go to the forum (which it's so frickin' glitchy, they need a better template) and it's the one that says "girls only".
ohhhhh :( Any idea how long does it usually take for them to fix it?
Depends on their business hours. If it happens after support closes, it's usually fixed the next day, around the morning. From what I know, they're working with Payoneer to see what the issue is and hopefully gets it resolved. Direct deposit should be back to normal.
CarmenF
02-04-2013, 02:53 AM
i cash out from 2 to 4 times a month.... i haaaate cashing out... when i see counter go above the 200 i motivate myself like crazy... also the $ is extremely weak against euro.. i l get nothing o.o
ladyjalyn
02-04-2013, 07:53 AM
Can't cash out AGAIN!!! Same bs "transfer failed. Contact support." SO annoying!!! And support never answers anyway...
Jaana
02-04-2013, 07:58 AM
I just got a really strange e-mail from "
[email protected]" saying someone has added me as a friend. Wut.
CarmenF
02-04-2013, 08:12 AM
I just got a really strange e-mail from "
[email protected]" saying someone has added me as a friend. Wut.
Are you back Jaana :D:D?
Jaana
02-04-2013, 08:30 AM
Are you back Jaana :D:D?No lol. that's what's weird. I'll probably come back in the summer.
CarmenF
02-04-2013, 08:37 AM
Yeah i've been getting those messages too. Annoying. EVerytime I hope it's a message but no...
ladyjalyn
02-04-2013, 01:32 PM
I think you can actually turn that notification off... Going to "edit your profile" and at the very bottom to the left put "no" next to "public profile". I think that should turn off sending notification e-mails when some one adds you as a friend.
Yeah i've been getting those messages too. Annoying. EVerytime I hope it's a message but no...
CarmenF
02-04-2013, 01:36 PM
yes but that would mean losing the message notifications too... something i cannot afford replying from phone!!
ladyjalyn
02-04-2013, 02:58 PM
Not at all. Message notifications are separate. There is 3 of them. One of them EmailAlerts- I think that one is for the messages.
yes but that would mean losing the message notifications too... something i cannot afford replying from phone!!
CarmenF
02-04-2013, 03:15 PM
3 of them? i only see 2...
ladyjalyn
02-05-2013, 12:41 AM
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3 of them? i only see 2...