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heraax
11-15-2013, 01:23 AM
Was that too harsh? Not harsh enough? I just thought that was SO RUDE of him. Come on now.
Nope, not at all. He might not be happy with your tone, but I've had to do that with a guy before. He mentioned the name of another site or something, and I had to say to him "I do not know that site. I do not want to talk about that site. I love MGF and I would like my profile to stay here. I don't want to be deleted because you slipped up." Then I explained that I had to say it exactly like that because the rules are very strict. He understood and we're still good friends.
I know it's not exactly the same, but I think if the guy really enjoys talking to you, he might understand? I hope he isn't a dick, the way guys have been acting lately. =\
CourtneyRaine
11-15-2013, 01:31 AM
Thanks heraax. I was just so surprised because basically demanding a free video was the last thing I expected from this guy. He did just message me back that he didn't mean to offend me and he'd never give me a bad rating (he actually rated me 5 a couple of weeks ago), that he just saw that I had that video on my profile and he figured he would ask. I didn't feel like he asked, I felt like he demanded, but hopefully based on his reply things are cool and we can go back to our regularly scheduled debauchery!
CanadianRuby
11-15-2013, 07:47 AM
So there's a guy in the contests promising $100 for every custom video you send him, the dirtier the better, has to be nude, has to be custom. I checked out his profile and I just can't believe it's true. idk. Can anyone verify? Or should we block and move on?
I don't know. He has spent a lot of time trying to "PROVE" in his profile that he has the money. He has screenshots on his page showing off how many contributions he has sent women.
The contest, his labelled as a $5 reward - SO, this means he has only spent 5 credits to host the contest. If he gets 50 women to submit custom content, is he REALLY going to pay $5,000? I DOUBT IT.
His contest has almost 200 submissions, meaning models have submitted multiple custom jobs to him to win. I think he is full of shit.
He probably HAS spent a lot of money on the site, no doubt - but I can't see him REALLY paying every single model that made him something for the contest.
1.If he doesn't like what the model made him - He won't pay.
2.If he doesn't like the models body type / site behaviour / ratings / general appearance - He won't pay.
Also, a side not. He added me to his friends list a few days ago. I messaged him, a personalized PM asking him to chat with me at some point, as I see he is on my friends list.
He looked at my profile a few times since then, and never responded to my message.
If he can't live chat me, or spend $1 answering a private message - HOW can anyone expect him to pay out THOUSANDS of dollars for one contest?
I deleted him from my friends list, and will be monitoring if and when he keeps re-adding me. I am not entering the contest at all.
CanadianRuby
11-15-2013, 07:51 AM
Thanks heraax. I was just so surprised because basically demanding a free video was the last thing I expected from this guy. He did just message me back that he didn't mean to offend me and he'd never give me a bad rating (he actually rated me 5 a couple of weeks ago), that he just saw that I had that video on my profile and he figured he would ask. I didn't feel like he asked, I felt like he demanded, but hopefully based on his reply things are cool and we can go back to our regularly scheduled debauchery!
I wouldn't have sent him the video, personally. I don't care HOW much someone has paid me. If I respond to your messages, that is your reward for spending a dollar on me.
It's rude and entitled and disrespectful.
I had someone that I cammed with a few times, and he basically said the same thing to me with wanting discounted cam prices because of "the money he has spent" - Fuck that shit, he got blocked. If you can't appreciate I worked hard in all of my cam shows, and EARNED that money, then you can go bug someone else.
CanadianRuby
11-15-2013, 09:36 AM
I don't get how there can be SO many dudes online, but it feels like none of them spending money. I figured after the summer ended, the money being spent on the site and for the average model would increase.
Even with live chats? I swear I get people check out my profile frequently, but they don't even use that function.
It feels like MGF has just been so slow lately. It's a real shame.
Hopefully the cash flow is faster for you ladies haha!
MellyMay
11-15-2013, 12:16 PM
Ladies, we don't owe people anything except what they've paid for. And I know we know this. And I know we've prob made exceptions.
Let's not cheat ourselves. If a guy said to you, in person, face to face, "you owe me such and such because i spent so much money on [dinner, drinks, diamonds, the dollar menu, whatever]," we'd consider it TOTALLY inappropriate and would (hopefully!) not give in to the demand.
I'm trying to consider this when interacting online....with anyone, cam/mgf related or not. Like, would I let this person talk to me that way and just take it were it to be IRL? Hey, I may have lost out on potential money that I truly could use right now, but I'm not looking back in retrospect, cursing myself for letting the dudes win.
Stay strong! (I was also a cheerleader in HS so plz excuse my frequent rah-rah-Kumbaya like posts)
CourtneyRaine
11-15-2013, 12:28 PM
Ladies, we don't owe people anything except what they've paid for. And I know we know this. And I know we've prob made exceptions.
Let's not cheat ourselves. If a guy said to you, in person, face to face, "you owe me such and such because i spent so much money on [dinner, drinks, diamonds, the dollar menu, whatever]," we'd consider it TOTALLY inappropriate and would (hopefully!) not give in to the demand.
Completely agree. I feel very bad about sending that guy a free video, actually. And to be honest? If he would have just *asked* about the video rather than demanding it I probably would have offered him a discount on it because I have no problem giving discounts for regulars, I think it boosts my business and overall profit. I personally did it, 1. because it's guaranteed money and I've been relying on my regs, so I don't want to lose guaranteed money, but more importantly 2. the ratings system on MGF. I think ratings are compete BULL. I mean girls who've gotten scammed can't rate, people who've been blocked don't have their bad ratings show up, and people use it as leverage to blackmail others. I could just see the guy writing something like, "I spent over $100 on this girl and I never even saw her naked because she refused to give me a video. SCAM ALERT." Obviously that's not how it happened because I DID work for every one of those dollars he sent me, but if he got pissy and left me a shit rating there's nothing I could do about it and I do think it would affect not only the money I am making on him, but future potential customers as well.
Sometimes I wish they'd do away with the ratings system altogether.
MellyMay
11-15-2013, 12:30 PM
FYI, I AM EMAILING THE APPROPRIATE SW ADMIN TO TURN OVER THE GROUP TO SOMEONE ELSE because unfortunately, I still haven't heard from SassyPickles!
I want the other ladies of MGF who aren't in there yet to be able to share our little sanctuary!
MellyMay
11-15-2013, 12:32 PM
Aww, y'all are too kind. Yeah, I guess I could mod? I've never run a group on here and to be honest I stopped looking in the new verified MGF group because I thought it was dead (oops!) but I do think it would be great to have a place to discuss issues specific to MGF without clogging up the main verified group. It's a totally different hustle from working free chat sites and I know I personally benefited a LOT when the first MGF was active and poppin'. Let's do this!
Courtney - are you still interested in the mod position?
CanadianRuby
11-15-2013, 02:10 PM
Uhg. For fucks sakes.
That dude I blocked a week or two, the findom guy, had made a new account and pretended to be someone else. I started talking to him, today he finally told me who he was.
He kept saying words like "email" or "twit" or "other sites" blah blah blah. He would NOT stop. I told him certain words will get flagged and I don't want to get in trouble.
I flagged his profile, and emailed support. They told me it was already being reviewed by the compliance team. NOW my account is unverified.
It feels like this guy intentionally wanted to chat with me so he could say all these words to get me in shit. Now look what he did. God fucking damn.
RubyTheSexPixie
11-16-2013, 01:19 PM
I saw someone said something about guys just looking at your profile. I added a note to mine saying that I don't solicit people and asked them to make that move, and so far I am getting more contact from people who lurk my profile.
CourtneyRaine
11-17-2013, 12:22 PM
Courtney - are you still interested in the mod position?
Sure :)
So that guy who demanded a free video from me due to the fact that he has contributed a lot in messages the past couple of weeks? This morning I woke up to a contribution from him for the full amount of the video and in the note he apologized once again if he made me feel uncomfortable. I am so floored! I am really learning that being demanding and kind of bitchy at times is a VERY good look on me! Guess it goes to show, don't be afraid to demand what you're worth.
CR, that SUCKS about that guy. When I have guys like that who insist on trying to break the no contact rule I flag and block. If it's in a live chat that can't be flagged (I wish they'd give the option to flag live chats, it would make my life SO much easier) I block and immediately write to support. So far, knock on wood my account has not been unverified for that- yet. It's just absurd to think that we girls have any control whatsoever over what guys choose to say.
Earlier this week I had a guy who was interested in a cam show. He's not a new member but apparently he usually sticks with videos and complained that the one cam show he got on MGF was low quality, or as he said it, "not exactly skype quality." He asked if there was any way for us to do the show off site so I went through the big fat NO routine. I should have blocked him but he decided to do the show with me on MGF anyway. He actually bought TWO shows that night (he wanted to add on more time after the first one because he liked it so much), obviously they were both paid for and performed through MGF. I should have written to support just to mention that he mentioned the word "skype" but it was late and I had to rush to the store before they closed and I forgot to. Now I am wondering when they're going to unverify my account over that EVEN THOUGH we clearly did not go off site nor exchange any information. Crazy, I tell you, crazy!
CanadianRuby
11-18-2013, 07:52 AM
I bloody hate it SO much when people ask me "What are you doing?"
Like. What do you THINK I'm doing? I am sitting here at the computer talking to you.
That is the most boring, mundane, typical question I can be asked. I hate small talk with a passion.
MellyMay
11-18-2013, 05:32 PM
I bloody hate it SO much when people ask me "What are you doing?"
Like. What do you THINK I'm doing? I am sitting here at the computer talking to you.
That is the most boring, mundane, typical question I can be asked. I hate small talk with a passion.
haha, i tell them i'm doing homework, which is true....
I've rarely, but occasionally, have a super hard math prob, and if they help me thru it.......special surprise for the dude!
*********MY NEVERENDING UPDATES RE: MGF VERIFIED GROUP***********
SassyPickles - I contacted her
SW admin - contacted
loveshooks is already aware of what's going on and I went by her advice.
So now we just play the waiting game.
goreantx
11-18-2013, 10:04 PM
How long after I have my id, and fansign pic, and six other pics, should I message support and ask about my verification status? It says "48 hours or longer" on the support wiki. It's been three or four days. I read through most of this thread and it sounded like they kind of hurried up after some of you asked why you weren't approved yet. What do you think?
goreantx
11-18-2013, 10:09 PM
Sure :)
So that guy who demanded a free video from me due to the fact that he has contributed a lot in messages the past couple of weeks? This morning I woke up to a contribution from him for the full amount of the video and in the note he apologized once again if he made me feel uncomfortable. I am so floored! I am really learning that being demanding and kind of bitchy at times is a VERY good look on me! Guess it goes to show, don't be afraid to demand what you're worth.
LOL I was talking to guys on skype, doing the whole waiting for a show routine, the other day while my hubby kept me company in the bedroom. He was reading what I was typing and said "are you different to guys when I am in here? You don't have to be short with them just because I'm here" and I was like nonononono... I'm a bitch all the time. I've got to keep them in their place! It works. They are like puppy dogs, and you have a big steak in your hands, you got to thwack them on the nose until they learn to sit and wait for you to decide to give them some of it!
edit: btw I know about keeping all mgf communication strictly to my mgf persona and on their site. I'm just not on their site yet, I was doing my other camming stuff on skype
Snowy0Star
11-18-2013, 10:25 PM
How long after I have my id, and fansign pic, and six other pics, should I message support and ask about my verification status? It says "48 hours or longer" on the support wiki. It's been three or four days. I read through most of this thread and it sounded like they kind of hurried up after some of you asked why you weren't approved yet. What do you think?
id say try emailing them everyday and maybe after like 2 weeks if u dont get approved assume u didnt get in
CanadianRuby
11-19-2013, 07:11 AM
If you email them everyday apparently you will end up being flagged as spam and they won't read your emails anymore, or verify you.
Verification is up to the people that 'vote' you in, apparently. It can take anywhere from a day to several days...you need to remember a lot of girls are signing up everyday, and so there is probably a backlog, so it will take longer.
CanadianRuby
11-19-2013, 07:49 AM
Dude asked me to take 20 custom photos. I told him I need 2-3 days, we agreed on an escrow of 7 days.
Dude has been creeping my profile since then. Just live chatted me and asked if I did his custom photos yet.
:stop: :banghead: :gnasher:
Okay, SERIOUSLY? Seriously.
I will cancel that escrow so fast his head will spin.
Snowy0Star
11-19-2013, 08:43 AM
I've got to keep them in their place! It works. They are like puppy dogs, and you have a big steak in your hands, you got to thwack them on the nose until they learn to sit and wait for you to decide to give them some of it!
omg i love u i hope this all fits in my siggy
edit - it fits =^y^=
goreantx
11-19-2013, 12:12 PM
Ok, so I sent the email to help and they sent me back a "OMG this is on our WIKI, like omg", but then 10 minutes later I was approved. Hehehehehe. And I came back to the computer to a guy asking me if I had vids and stuff, and he ended up tipping me and helping me get my cam going. Yey.
goreantx
11-19-2013, 12:27 PM
Do you guys think it is ok to post my blog posts that I write for MGF on my own site's blog too?
CourtneyRaine
11-19-2013, 01:05 PM
I don't think cross posting a blog would be a problem as long as you are not mentioning that you have an outside blog (that would be flagable for directing traffic off-site). As long as you stick with the MGF posting guidelines I say go for it :)
goreantx
11-19-2013, 05:55 PM
The page is loading really slow for me at mgf. Chat is really buggy too. It was fine earlier in the evening. Does this happen often? :O
CourtneyRaine
11-19-2013, 06:05 PM
Pages loading slow happens occasionally, and chat bugging out happens virtually all the time. Lately it's been really hard to cam because guys will randomly get error messages when they try to accept video invites (other girls in the GOB have complained about this a lot recently, too) and/or chat will just completely freeze and messages you try to send won't go through. On the lower right it will show the guy is "typing" for several minutes but no messages get across. That's a sign to close out that chat window and open a new one, usually that does the trick BUT it doesn't always fix the camming issue. Luckily if a guy has been a member for a while he knows it happens to everyone so they usually are cool about it and don't hold it against you.
Nice welcome to MGF, eh? If admin is reading this I really hope they will consider improving the chat functionality, as it is making girls miss out on sales and money.
LustyLark
11-19-2013, 08:07 PM
How long after I have my id, and fansign pic, and six other pics, should I message support and ask about my verification status? It says "48 hours or longer" on the support wiki. It's been three or four days. I read through most of this thread and it sounded like they kind of hurried up after some of you asked why you weren't approved yet. What do you think?
It has been several weeks for me. I have pretty much given up! Their loss :P
goreantx
11-19-2013, 08:43 PM
So far I've made almost $50 tonight and I haven't put any content up yet, so it's just been messages and tips and two shows. So yay! I took the advice posted earlier in the thread and sent a message to everyone that viewed my profile, and that is where all my business came from!
On another side note I am having too much fun cracking up at the sob stories on the blogs. That's one of the things I missed most about the strip club was hearing what random made up bs "I need money today or the world will end" stories were flying around. I seriously could not do that shit. Like when I need money, I never get it by sobbing, I always just have to put on my super sexy face and act like I'm so rich I could pay them. But... funny to read these stories hahaha...
goreantx
11-19-2013, 10:26 PM
Sooooooooo um. I have all my videos watermarked for my site. So if I sell them the video, does it matter if it is watermarked for my site? Would I just send them a dl link to the video, so it wouldn't really matter what the video was watermarked with? I'm willing to just play it safe and not sell any old content on there if it comes to that.
Bridgetxo
11-19-2013, 11:18 PM
MGF has been really slow for me the past few days. I haven't been making anything on my main site so I decided to try extra hard on MGF. Last week I was able to make about $600 (before fees) in about 4 days but I was online for almost 8 hours each day. I did what others suggested with logging out and back in every 20 minutes or so and I always got a few chat requests when I did that. But this week I have barely gotten any chat requests. I even put up some new content and tried messaging a bunch of guys but I only received a few paid messages back :/
CanadianRuby
11-20-2013, 08:06 AM
Sooooooooo um. I have all my videos watermarked for my site. So if I sell them the video, does it matter if it is watermarked for my site? Would I just send them a dl link to the video, so it wouldn't really matter what the video was watermarked with? I'm willing to just play it safe and not sell any old content on there if it comes to that.
They will ban you if they see you have other sites watermarked with your content. It's best to just not advertize any other websites. By the way, they read this thread, so I'd watch what you write here.
Also, you have a new girl status, so take advantage of it. Money comes easier when you appear to be new on a site. Mainly, because I think it's an ego thing. "This girl is new here so that means not a lot of guys have seen her naked yet". Also, they assume you're easier to manipulate and scam, so watch out for people trying to scam you through escrow, or trying to get you to send content before they pay you.
MarleyCat
11-21-2013, 02:28 AM
I've decided to pretty much just give up on MGF. I feel like I've tried everything but nothing's working for me on there right now. I make more money elsewhere so that's where I'll be!
But I'm still keeping my profile and updating it here and there because it's just so damn pretty! It would be stupid of me to delete it and then go back through the process of getting verified again.
If any ladies want their profiles designed or redesigned, let me know! My rates are fair <3
h0ttie
11-21-2013, 05:26 AM
But I'm still keeping my profile and updating it here and there because it's just so damn pretty!
it is!!! i just looked at it :)
how much are ur rates?? mine looks really shitty after i looked at urs now lmao
Snowy0Star
11-21-2013, 08:01 AM
Marley what is going wrong with u in MGF ? what is ur approach? r u messaging all the guys and coming up with little money for ur efforts or u just tired of dealing with the fucktards ? have u tired just letting ur profile sit and them coming to you?
justsometwat
11-21-2013, 10:17 AM
I cannot make ANY money there suddenly. I was able to level up there with an older account, but now...I can't make a fucking thing unless I try and sell all of my content for less than $50. I am not going to sell everything for less than a dollar per video.
I have changed up my profile, used different kinds of photos, ADDED new videos in each of my existing categories. All of the people that keep adding me as friends or looking at my profile have no ratings and have just signed up. I look back at then a week or so later and they still have nothing on their pages.
It really seems that no one new can get ahead and no one that's got less that 50 ratings can make much. I think they push the older models and make them seem like they are the models that you MUST buy from.
I plan on keeping my page up and I log in a couple times a day (to keep me on the page), but I am not going to put in any effort there anymore.
CanadianRuby
11-21-2013, 10:28 AM
I cannot make ANY money there suddenly. I was able to level up there with an older account, but now...I can't make a fucking thing unless I try and sell all of my content for less than $50. I am not going to sell everything for less than a dollar per video.
I have changed up my profile, used different kinds of photos, ADDED new videos in each of my existing categories. All of the people that keep adding me as friends or looking at my profile have no ratings and have just signed up. I look back at then a week or so later and they still have nothing on their pages.
It really seems that no one new can get ahead and no one that's got less that 50 ratings can make much. I think they push the older models and make them seem like they are the models that you MUST buy from.
I plan on keeping my page up and I log in a couple times a day (to keep me on the page), but I am not going to put in any effort there anymore.
If anything, having more than 100 reviews actually HURTS you very much.
1.Guys assume you're always busy and won't have time for them
2.Guys are entitled and think "I don't want to see a girl naked that everyone else has seen naked"
It's not about reviews...it's about how detailed your profile is, how clear your photos are, how you market your "persona", and how approachable you appear etc.
I get what you're saying though...the last two days I'v made like....$14....and that's being online $8+ hours a day. Trust me, I don't even make minimum wage there, and I have 129 ratings.
The cash flow just isn't coming in, and a lot of models seem to be feeling it. It's because they keep marketing it more for "social networking" and "friendship" when REALLY, we just want to sell our damn videos and make some money, just like every other cam site out there. We want to sell our wares for a profit, and have it be known we're all there to MAKE MONEY.
No more of these girls writing on their profiles "I'm not just here for the money, I am actually here to build long-term, life long relationships".
Fucking BULLSHIT. BUUUUULLSHIT.
Bullshit.
edit: Models shouldn't have to be afraid to make it sound and appear like MGF is a JOB for them, and they're there to make money. Feeling like they need to tell people they're not there "for the money" is just dumb.
CanadianRuby
11-21-2013, 10:59 AM
I've decided to pretty much just give up on MGF. I feel like I've tried everything but nothing's working for me on there right now. I make more money elsewhere so that's where I'll be!
But I'm still keeping my profile and updating it here and there because it's just so damn pretty! It would be stupid of me to delete it and then go back through the process of getting verified again.
If any ladies want their profiles designed or redesigned, let me know! My rates are fair <3
Your profile is totally awesome, and your prices seem more than reasonable. I think mainly, the site just seems to be very "white girl" =/ I wish there were more of a variety of ladies, because then it might attract more MEN seeking more than just white chicks all over the damn place. I don't get why the site ended up working out in this way...if they're just not verifying a variety intentionally or what.
Snowy0Star
11-21-2013, 11:05 AM
edit: Models shouldn't have to be afraid to make it sound and appear like MGF is a JOB for them, and they're there to make money. Feeling like they need to tell people they're not there "for the money" is just dumb.
its the same on mfc and cb and to a certain extent sm too they only when to give u money if u make them feel like its not all about the money and ur just there for fun and the money is just a bonus . i think most guys like thinking ur just a normal girl there to have fun and be sexy on cam for men
CanadianRuby
11-21-2013, 11:20 AM
its the same on mfc and cb and to a certain extent sm too they only when to give u money if u make them feel like its not all about the money and ur just there for fun and the money is just a bonus . i think most guys like thinking ur just a normal girl there to have fun and be sexy on cam for men
It's so mentally exhausting for a woman to be on cam and give that impression. I don't know if websites really appreciate the song and dance we have to perform on a daily basis. We're supposed to give our time, attention, patience while simultaneously pretending to be horny nympos that do this shit online "not for the money" but because we actually want to do all this shit for free.
Like...I really am not all that great at faking a "relationship" with people. If they make me laugh, have a great personality, and I love chatting with them, i'll do it all the damn time for free just because they are entertaining me and are fun. THAT is genuine.
But so few men I meet on the internet, match my interests and personality. They don't make me laugh, they are twice my age and act all jaded controlling....I don't know. It's just hard for me to make it "not about the money" when they are just boring and mundane to speak to over and over.
justsometwat
11-21-2013, 11:27 AM
I don't like the guy's profiles that say that they aren't wallets and that they want to be treated nice and not "sold" things.
I get wanting to be treated nice and not have girls THROW themselves on people, but you ARE a wallet. I doubt very seriously there are many girls that would want to chat with someone for very long without them every having contributed to them.
I usually cut it off after it's been like 20 minutes. If they don't ask about content, I just tell them I have to go and that I have a ton of awesome videos. I am not going to sit there and chitchat with someone for a while if they aren't ever going to give me anything back for it, if I wanted to do that I would go to a chatroom and talk to people. . I had to deal with someone that talked to me for almost 40 minutes about anything else than content or camming, then asked me for shit/fart videos. *face palm* I do not, have not, and will not ever make those kinds of videos and I had it STATED on my profile. What a fucking waste.
I have tried having conversations with people, but eventually I guess they figure out that I am not going to dirty chat and they end up leaving.
Snowy0Star
11-21-2013, 11:31 AM
It's so mentally exhausting for a woman to be on cam and give that impression. I don't know if websites really appreciate the song and dance we have to perform on a daily basis. We're supposed to give our time, attention, patience while simultaneously pretending to be horny nympos that do this shit online "not for the money" but because we actually want to do all this shit for free.
Like...I really am not all that great at faking a "relationship" with people. If they make me laugh, have a great personality, and I love chatting with them, i'll do it all the damn time for free just because they are entertaining me and are fun. THAT is genuine.
But so few men I meet on the internet, match my interests and personality. They don't make me laugh, they are twice my age and act all jaded controlling....I don't know. It's just hard for me to make it "not about the money" when they are just boring and mundane to speak to over and over.
o i know i think thats why camming is so hard for me sometimes its like trying to get a wall horny enuf to make them interested in spending money on me . you cant money if u cant keep their interest but if theyre boring and cant give u much to work with back to keep it going and thats the draining part IMO
CanadianRuby
11-21-2013, 11:33 AM
I am very bad at ending chats at appropriate times for *me*.
I love when guys contribute to me for my time, as a surprise after chatting. It's great and makes me feel appreciated.
It's the guys I chat with for much too long that don't contribute, or "promise" to contribute in the future to keep me chatting to them. Any time a guy promises he will be contributing, he never does. I chat for too long, a lot of the times. I especially dislike talking to subs. They want to compliment me 1000 times, talk about worshiping me, my hair, my body blah blah blah....but they don't contribute for shit.
MellyMay
11-21-2013, 12:45 PM
They haven't been using any photos I've sumbitted for the girlsofmygirlfund tumblr. Sad face. I hope my association with SW has not affected me. I've never even said anything bad about the site. Womp womp. Gonna keep trying.
CanadianRuby
11-21-2013, 12:50 PM
They haven't been using any photos I've sumbitted for the girlsofmygirlfund tumblr. Sad face. I hope my association with SW has not affected me. I've never even said anything bad about the site. Womp womp. Gonna keep trying.
I know their tumblr has a submit section - but, their WIKI page says you have to email it to their tumblr gmail address I believe? Did you submit it through their blog or through the email?
Snowy0Star
11-21-2013, 01:01 PM
I usually cut it off after it's been like 20 minutes. If they don't ask about content, I just tell them I have to go and that I have a ton of awesome videos. I am not going to sit there and chitchat with someone for a while if they aren't ever going to give me anything back for it, if I wanted to do that I would go to a chatroom and talk to people. . I had to deal with someone that talked to me for almost 40 minutes about anything else than content or camming, then asked me for shit/fart videos. *face palm* I do not, have not, and will not ever make those kinds of videos and I had it STATED on my profile. What a fucking waste.
I have tried having conversations with people, but eventually I guess they figure out that I am not going to dirty chat and they end up leaving.
id do 15 min mgf is more social then mfc but what i do on mfc is i pm with every single guy that comes into my room i say hi hru then go right into asking them if they want to skype buy my phone number or a video but they just try and dirty talk i ignore them. if i were on MFG the first dirty line i got from a guy i would try to turn it back on him and talk about a paid cam show or something. maybe im jaded but if they want to treat us like sex dolls why do they think they shouldn't get treated like a wallet?
MellyMay
11-21-2013, 01:09 PM
I know their tumblr has a submit section - but, their WIKI page says you have to email it to their tumblr gmail address I believe? Did you submit it through their blog or through the email?
email.
and SURPRISE - the shave your head guy has made his way to me!
CanadianRuby
11-21-2013, 01:37 PM
email.
and SURPRISE - the shave your head guy has made his way to me!
I'v had crankyb blocked, and I just unblocked him but...it doesn't appear I have ever chatted with him before. Oh well. If I blocked him it was for a good reason...most likely a stupid status he wrote up there.
And that is stupid they're not using your photos....like...why not? I know the rules say they have to be clear / rated "R" not rated "X" (whatever that means?).
I really dislike how they pick and choose who gets their photos posted. Although...i'v seen them post some weird ass looking photos girls have submitted...who knows :{
CourtneyRaine
11-21-2013, 02:25 PM
Oh, the "don't use me as a wallet" guys. El. Oh. El.
When guys state in their profile that they won't send messages because they're not desperate enough to pay for friendship? What, pray tell, do they think this site is all about??? That's the entire fucking purpose of the site!!! Pretty girl gives you attention, you give her contributions. Come on now.
MellyMay
11-21-2013, 02:47 PM
lulz at the guy on chat w/ me saying, "Hey....It's been awhile! I love your new photos!"
There's no new photos.
CanadianRuby
11-21-2013, 03:44 PM
Someone looked at my profile...I go to his profile...and It's set to private.
What kind of a loser is like "imma block dis bitch...oh and dis bitch....oh and that bitch".
Never seen / heard / recognized him before on the website at all.
Don't get your panties in a knot, hommie.
heraax
11-21-2013, 03:44 PM
Gotta love the guys who go "don't treat me like a wallet and I won't treat you like a nympho" then site there and do their best to talk dirty for free.
And it's mostly the guys who have a fetish.
"Do you ever cheat on your bf?" (No, we have an open relationship.)
"Oh what's that?" (*explains the thing*)
"So you get to fuck other guys? Hawt. *mouth breathes*" (No... I mostly just have girlfriends.)
"Oh so he's a cuckold?" (Uhmm...)
"Do your gf cam with you? What do their pussies taste like? Describe in detail." (That's a little personal lol...)
I stay factual and won't answer personal questions. Usually the conversation runs out of steam very quickly and they either stop responding and never talk to me again, or I tell them I have to go, give them a sales pitch, and THEN never hear from them again. They guys who have the "I'M NOT A WALLET" thing plastered everywhere, that is.