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CanadianRuby
11-21-2013, 03:47 PM
We posted at the same tiiiime....WEEEEEIRD

heraax
11-21-2013, 03:48 PM
If anything, having more than 100 reviews actually HURTS you very much.

No more of these girls writing on their profiles "I'm not just here for the money, I am actually here to build long-term, life long relationships".

Fucking BULLSHIT. BUUUUULLSHIT.

Bullshit.

edit: Models shouldn't have to be afraid to make it sound and appear like MGF is a JOB for them, and they're there to make money. Feeling like they need to tell people they're not there "for the money" is just dumb.

I have something like that in my profile, but that's because I'm a kinky mothertrucker and I was doing all of this on FetLife - taking pics, camming, dirty stories - before I knew I could get paid for it. Though I'm honest in my profile... I DO need the money. But I'm not there JUST for the money. I look forward to making picsets and videos. I just don't look forward to being disrespected.

CanadianRuby
11-21-2013, 03:54 PM
I have something like that in my profile, but that's because I'm a kinky mothertrucker and I was doing all of this on FetLife - taking pics, camming, dirty stories - before I knew I could get paid for it. Though I'm honest in my profile... I DO need the money. But I'm not there JUST for the money. I look forward to making picsets and videos. I just don't look forward to being disrespected.

I wish I had a high sex drive, or had kinks of my own I was getting fulfilled. My sex drive is pretty much null haha...which is weird, for a cam girl...it makes it so I have to fake it and it sucks.

I totally get that some girls enjoy having their own sexual interests indulged on there, or, if they're an exhibitionist. But, It feels like so many girls are afraid to admit that the money is the motivating factor for being on the site, and the "fun" part of exploring their kinks is just a bonus.

But yeah, the site would be 1000x more fun for me if I actually had a sex drive....at all....hahaha.

I'v never felt anything from my cam shows, or making videos - it's just to create a product for money. I'd imagine it's a combination of my lack of body weight (lack of estrogen production) + antidepressants.

But yeah, I get what you're saying!

CanadianRuby
11-21-2013, 06:49 PM
o.O Someone added me to his friends list in october and twice in november. He never messaged me or said hello.

So, finally I wrote him and basically was like "Stop adding me to your friends list over and over if you're not going to message me or send me a chat invite".

It was kind of blunt lol. But...20 minutes later he contributed $20 and gave me an apology (although, his excuse for his behaviour was a bunch of bullcrap).

Now I feel like an asshole...lol. But...I was shocked. Me acting bitchy has paid off more than once on there. Maybe they secretly like it? Haha.

heraax
11-21-2013, 07:25 PM
I had a guy add me, and in his profile he claimed to me a "male model" and that if we sent pussy pics (for free) we'd be "greatly rewarded". No ratings. Not a premium member. Hasn't even been there a month though.

Do people actually fall for that? How am I going to be greatly rewarded if he can't even be arsed to become a premium member?

CourtneyRaine
11-21-2013, 08:11 PM
I had a guy add me, and in his profile he claimed to me a "male model" and that if we sent pussy pics (for free) we'd be "greatly rewarded". No ratings. Not a premium member. Hasn't even been there a month though.

Do people actually fall for that? How am I going to be greatly rewarded if he can't even be arsed to become a premium member?

HAHAHA that model guy was lurking my profile last week! Calls himself "Danny"? Yeah. His pictures are actually of a real male model whose name is NOT Danny. The model he's impersonating actually does male webcam modeling. Took me all of two minutes to figure that one out. Is this the same person? Nah. It's one thing for a guy to conceal his identity, it's a completely different thing to try to take on some male model's identity in the hopes that it will get him free pussy pics. Smdh. If this guy was REAL cam boy he'd know how lame it is to promise to pay afterwards! What a creep. I seriously considered writing to the webcam model and tell him this guy is using his likeness on MGF.

Now do girls fall for it? I'll say this. There is currently a contest running where the guy promises to pay every nude custom video entered $100. He has received 637 entries as of right now, ie, $63,700 he's supposed to pay out. When I unblocked him real quick to look at his ratings his last one was from October 26th, almost an entire month ago. If he was REALLY paying $100/video wouldn't he have a ton of girls rating him saying how awesome he is? But no, he has NO feedback about this $100/video because It Doesn't Exist and you can't leave someone feedback if they haven't spent at least 3 bucks on you. The girls he's scammed can't warn others about him. You'd think it would be really fucking obvious that the guy is not going to spend that much money, but 637 videos later....

heraax
11-21-2013, 08:35 PM
I almost fell for that guy but I was like... I'll give it a couple days, and then saw that there was 200+ entries and I was like. No. There's no way. If that many girls were making bank off of him, we'd here about it somewhere. I sort of want to find the "well known" girls he's had contact with and ask them what's going on.

I guess I'm so jaded that I even check up on my "regulars" to see what they're doing. I don't rely on messages or chats to show me the whole picture. I check the ratings. I've found out that he's saying the same damn things to other girls (alluding to each of his being his favorites, etc). Little miffed about that because it explains why he hasn't been buying anymore but sends messages almost asking for free content. NOPE.

Snowy0Star
11-21-2013, 08:38 PM
can guys get bad ratings removed just by emailing someone? the site seems to favor guys ALOT so i was just wondering

CourtneyRaine
11-21-2013, 08:45 PM
I guess I'm so jaded that I even check up on my "regulars" to see what they're doing. I don't rely on messages or chats to show me the whole picture. I check the ratings. I've found out that he's saying the same damn things to other girls (alluding to each of his being his favorites, etc). Little miffed about that because it explains why he hasn't been buying anymore but sends messages almost asking for free content. NOPE.

Same here. It may come off as something a psycho girlfriend stalker would do, but actually? Being on top of member ratings is a great tool for determining how much attention you should give a "regular". I had a similar situation with a reg who had spent a lot on me, left the site for a few months, and then came back. When he came back he promised me he'd win my leader board (I've been doing a months long contest which is just about to come to a close, actually). Said he had all these videos he wanted me to do for him. The first video he commissioned after coming back he ended up paying $200 for even though I only asked for $30 (it was non-nude and resellable). I thought, awesome! But then he started giving me excuses how he couldn't think of a new video idea, he would make appointments with me to cam and never show up, it was definitely off-putting. I checked his ratings and it turns out he'd been contributing to other girls the whole time that he couldn't bother spending money on me. Which, of course, is totally fine! I don't expect exclusivity, but I DO expect you to live up to what you offer to do. I HATE HATE HATE when guys promise contribs and never follow through. Like, why even freaking say anything about it in the first place? Don't get my hopes up just to let me down, bro.

Suffice to say, I stopped booking cam appointments with that guy and ended up calling him out on making unsolicited false promises to me. I don't feel bad about it in the least.

CourtneyRaine
11-21-2013, 08:51 PM
can guys get bad ratings removed just by emailing someone? the site seems to favor guys ALOT so i was just wondering

Um... Girls can, so maybe? I have never actually experienced this first hand BUT I have heard from girls who have written to support and had bad ratings deleted. I don't think support just does it, though; I believe they investigate to see if it's a warranted rating and if it isn't they'll get it taken down. Like if a guy rates a girl a 1 and leaves feedback that she scammed him, but support investigates and they see she sent him all the content he paid for they will take that down. I'm not sure they'd take down something like "wastes a lot of time" or "was rude to me" because that's a bit more subjective.

Btw, off topic but @heraax, what happened with that guy from a while ago that underpaid for his cam show? I hope you were able to work something out with him and get what you are owed!

heraax
11-21-2013, 10:03 PM
Okay I'm so glad that I didn't come off as creepy stalker person. Because while I don't mind a guy I've been talking to for a year having a few more ratings other than me, I mind when he hits up 10 girls in two months while it's "sorry I haven't been on I've been busy" and they girls say "I love our long chats!" so.

and he did! He didn't sign on for days and I had to force myself to not check his profile every 10 minutes to see if he has signed on. But I woke up to a contribution from him, saying he didn't notice and that he doesn't expect anything more from me. Like I said it was the first time something every went that wrong and I'm glad it was with someone who was trustworthy.

justsometwat
11-21-2013, 11:12 PM
Has anyone ever talked to a winner of one of his contests to verify that he ACTUALLY does send out that much? The screenshots that he has are easily shopped to LOOK real. I mean, he has good feedback saying he's "generous", but that's could be $50, not $500. Ya know?

I am not going to enter it, but the money would be awesome if he ACTUALLY gave out money! Just gimme some of it and I will send all of my vidyas, jeez.

CanadianRuby
11-22-2013, 12:07 AM
Has anyone ever talked to a winner of one of his contests to verify that he ACTUALLY does send out that much? The screenshots that he has are easily shopped to LOOK real. I mean, he has good feedback saying he's "generous", but that's could be $50, not $500. Ya know?

I am not going to enter it, but the money would be awesome if he ACTUALLY gave out money! Just gimme some of it and I will send all of my vidyas, jeez.

I doubt he will even come close to compensating any of the 600+ submissions to that contest. He's full of crap.

CanadianRuby
11-22-2013, 12:09 AM
I had a guy add me, and in his profile he claimed to me a "male model" and that if we sent pussy pics (for free) we'd be "greatly rewarded". No ratings. Not a premium member. Hasn't even been there a month though.

Do people actually fall for that? How am I going to be greatly rewarded if he can't even be arsed to become a premium member?

That's funny, I saw his profile and read that and blocked his ass like...a half hour ago. I was going to flag his profile, but, preying on stupid women by promising to give them money for a pussy photo isn't against the rules...haha.

CanadianRuby
11-22-2013, 09:02 AM
I hate when I don't have anything in common with someone, and the chat is really slow and boring, but they always want to talk to me. AND, they're always 18-23 years old. What is up with that?

Snowy0Star
11-22-2013, 09:51 AM
I hate when I don't have anything in common with someone, and the chat is really slow and boring, but they always want to talk to me. AND, they're always 18-23 years old. What is up with that?

they have sex on brain when they go on and all they can think about is sex. im pretty sure 18-23 year olds have awesome interesting lives but they dont care to share about it because all their blood and bodily resources are in their cock

heraax
11-22-2013, 12:08 PM
^ Agreed. For some reason the younger guys seem to think that they have to talk about something sexy all the time.

There seems to be two extremes on MGF. The guys who need to talk dirty 100% of the time, and the guys who want to develop a "relationship" before spending money or talking about anything sexy. I'll take the later every time though. They pay sometimes, and I can't find any concealed kinks that they could be getting off to - like "what kind of shoes do you wear to work?" kind of things.
Finding a guy who compensates you (even just $5 or heck, paid messages) for your time, every time, no matter what you talk about, is rare.

MarleyCat
11-22-2013, 02:29 PM
it is!!! i just looked at it :)

how much are ur rates?? mine looks really shitty after i looked at urs now lmao

Lol! I'm sure it's not that terrible but thank you <3

Feel free to email me with what you're looking for and I can give you a quote :)
marleythegoddess(at)gmail(dot)com


Marley what is going wrong with u in MGF ? what is ur approach? r u messaging all the guys and coming up with little money for ur efforts or u just tired of dealing with the fucktards ? have u tired just letting ur profile sit and them coming to you?

I've tried messaging with "cookie cutter" and custom messages. I've spammed with my deals. I spammed with my deals in offers. Making sure I'm always at the top and/or halfway down the page. I've tried everything and lately I've been getting a bunch of time wasters. For the first 3 - 6 months I was on there I averaged about $100/week but now I'm lucky if I get $50/month. Just not worth it.

My regulars on there eventually found me offsite so they pretty much just come to my shows on Chaturbate or buy from me directly. Which I don't mind, they just don't ever come to my profile anymore. They just tweet me and follow my tumblr blog now. They didn't even take advantage of my big sale I had cuz I wanted to delete some stuff off my Dropbox.

I made all of $1 from that sale that I ran for almost two months so I said fuck it.


Your profile is totally awesome, and your prices seem more than reasonable. I think mainly, the site just seems to be very "white girl" =/ I wish there were more of a variety of ladies, because then it might attract more MEN seeking more than just white chicks all over the damn place. I don't get why the site ended up working out in this way...if they're just not verifying a variety intentionally or what.

Yeah the white girl thing is definitely a hinderance, especially since I'm dark skinned. I'm sure if I were lighter or straight hair I'd probably do better on there.

Men tend to not see black women as being "valuable" and I only do softcore/fetish content. So I know I've turned away a bunch of guys already who would love to see me fuck myself but me and my vagina just won't do it. I've literally had so many dudes on there say my prices are "high for a black girl" BLOCK. Or my favorite, "I'm not paying that much to see some n*****" well too bad because that's how much it costs to see me. BLOCK.

But you know, I make much more money now than I ever did on MGF so I just chock it up to it just not working for me right now.

No biggie!

CanadianRuby
11-22-2013, 03:36 PM
They LITERALLY have told you that your prices are "high for a black girl"???? HOLY CRAP.

But, you know I'm not all that surprised because there is a guy on MGF that had in his profile, that he only wants to talk to "ugly women" or "fat girls" because he felt their content was more in their price range and they are "cheaper".

Like. Seriously so many girls think they have to sell their content for less just because of their body size or their skin color. It makes me sad that it seems the men just keep making them feel they have to make their prices lower just because they don't fit into the stereotypical mold.

heraax
11-22-2013, 03:44 PM
I've had guys tell me my body drives them crazy and have spend hundreds of dollars on my content and talking to me. Granted, those guys are few and far between and it's taken me the better part of a year and a half to figure out that I ~* AM *~ worth the money.
If a guy is going to be cheap, he's going to be cheap. They guys who truly dig you are going to pay.

I'm rambling - my point being that being into *insert minority here* type of girls isn't a fucking excuse to be cheap and to try to rip us off... If you like us, support us. Don't ruin our day by being a racist, sexist, cheap asshole.

(Directed at the gentlemen who lurk this thread, of course.)

CanadianRuby
11-22-2013, 04:08 PM
That dude that had a fake "tattoo" that was actually his skype name has made a new account. Makes me wonder if he got ban hammered finally, or if he made that account just to view my profile.

Blocked again.

MarleyCat
11-22-2013, 05:40 PM
They LITERALLY have told you that your prices are "high for a black girl"???? HOLY CRAP.

But, you know I'm not all that surprised because there is a guy on MGF that had in his profile, that he only wants to talk to "ugly women" or "fat girls" because he felt their content was more in their price range and they are "cheaper".

Like. Seriously so many girls think they have to sell their content for less just because of their body size or their skin color. It makes me sad that it seems the men just keep making them feel they have to make their prices lower just because they don't fit into the stereotypical mold.


I've had guys tell me my body drives them crazy and have spend hundreds of dollars on my content and talking to me. Granted, those guys are few and far between and it's taken me the better part of a year and a half to figure out that I ~* AM *~ worth the money.
If a guy is going to be cheap, he's going to be cheap. They guys who truly dig you are going to pay.

I'm rambling - my point being that being into *insert minority here* type of girls isn't a fucking excuse to be cheap and to try to rip us off... If you like us, support us. Don't ruin our day by being a racist, sexist, cheap asshole.

(Directed at the gentlemen who lurk this thread, of course.)

Yesssss girl, they have! These are the same dudes who add me to their friends list too but don't speak to me. Then when I can finally get them to talk this is what they say. At first it used to blow my mind that they would be so upfront about it but then I thought, "What the fuck ever. Basically they're telling me upfront that they have no plans to spend any money. At least they didn't waste my time." So I block them.

Why even waste the time or emotional energy on it? I have no plans to sell my 50+ clips (or however many I have on there) for a quick $25 or $5 or whatever they think I'm worth. Because if I let those little shits think they can just contribute ANYTHING to get something, they'll contribute nothing because that's what the majority think what I and other black girls are worth.

My time on there has proven that to me. :/

At least my regulars and friends that I have made on there found me elsewhere (and continue to spend on me) but getting new customers on there has been difficult if not impossible. Just bleh.

CanadianRuby
11-23-2013, 12:25 PM
Please check the MGF verified thread ladies.

justsometwat
11-23-2013, 01:34 PM
I cannot, for the love of God, find where the thread was on how to become verified. Can someone point me in the right direction, please? I tried searching, but nothing came up for me. Thanks!

CanadianRuby
11-23-2013, 01:59 PM
I cannot, for the love of God, find where the thread was on how to become verified. Can someone point me in the right direction, please? I tried searching, but nothing came up for me. Thanks!


You need 100 "thanked" posts. You are close, you just need 5 more. Then you contact loveshooks (I believe). She will ask for a verification photo and help you through the process. Once she verifies you, then you are granted access to several private 'verified' forums on this site :).

CourtneyRaine
11-23-2013, 02:02 PM
Here is the thread on getting verified. You need to have been on SW for at least 3 months and have been thanked at least 100 times: https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/archive/index.php/t-159039.html

Once you're in the main verified group you can request to join the MGF verified group and will be given access once your main verification is confirmed.

justsometwat
11-23-2013, 02:22 PM
Thank you, guys!

CanadianRuby
11-23-2013, 04:07 PM
If I had a dollar for every time someones profile said they liked "petite, pale, red heads" then I'd have a lot of dollars.

Helllllooooooo people looking at my profile. I'm not sure if you noticed but, I have 3/3 of the requirements.

MellyMay
11-23-2013, 04:27 PM
I cannot, for the love of God, find where the thread was on how to become verified. Can someone point me in the right direction, please? I tried searching, but nothing came up for me. Thanks!

We are kinda in the midst of an admin change for the MGF verified group, so if anyone has applied to join in the last month-ish, we are getting things straightened out.

justsometwat
11-23-2013, 07:48 PM
We are kinda in the midst of an admin change for the MGF verified group, so if anyone has applied to join in the last month-ish, we are getting things straightened out.

No worries, I still need 2 more 'thanks' any way! :)

MellyMay
11-23-2013, 07:51 PM
BAM. There ya go.

We have some info re: dudes to watch out for in the Verified Cam Girl group that will be applicable to MGF.

justsometwat
11-23-2013, 08:11 PM
Thank you! :D

heraax
11-23-2013, 10:30 PM
Wait so are new people who want to be verified still waiting?

CanadianRuby
11-26-2013, 04:30 PM
The verified mgf thread is lonely! Post in there with meeeee xox
Haha

MellyMay
11-26-2013, 04:33 PM
yes.

the wheels of progress are turning, i swear.

edit: SassyPickles admitted me into the group on 11/7, I believe, and I was prob the most recent add.

CanadianRuby
11-27-2013, 11:12 AM
It's like, really quite sad that dude got 600+ submissions of content to that stupid contest of his, and scammed all those girls. Like seriously? Yeah right he was going to give that much money away. He was a total scammer and it was SO apparent just by the fact he posted "screenshots" as "proof" he gave a lot of money to girls on the site. Like, you should have to flaunt that hard to convince women to enter a contest.

I call bullshit, I hope they remove the content from his account, and ban his ass.

Snowy0Star
11-27-2013, 12:39 PM
^ u know they wont but id be nice to imagine :/

Bridgetxo
11-27-2013, 08:22 PM
It's like, really quite sad that dude got 600+ submissions of content to that stupid contest of his, and scammed all those girls. Like seriously? Yeah right he was going to give that much money away. He was a total scammer and it was SO apparent just by the fact he posted "screenshots" as "proof" he gave a lot of money to girls on the site. Like, you should have to flaunt that hard to convince women to enter a contest.

I call bullshit, I hope they remove the content from his account, and ban his ass.

I really really really hate the contests. I had a regular on there who ordered a bunch of customs from me. They were always super easy to make and he paid good money...until he discovered the contests section! Now he constantly does contests. I guess I can't blame him. Why pay for one custom when you can get 20 for the price of 1!

justsometwat
11-27-2013, 08:50 PM
I checked his page a few times, he had 2 new reviews posted since the contest ended, but how easy would it have been to approach a few ladies and say "hey, I will give you $100 if you say I go through with contests". It might not have been what happened, but I didn't recognize the girl's usernames, so I am not sure how new they are.

*I* wouldn't say yes to that, but it sure would sound tempting. What would I care if other girls got screwed over as long as I got money, ya know?

I am shocked at the number of girls that have been around for a while, but still entered the contest. I would be more weary a having been there for a while.

CanadianRuby
11-28-2013, 12:25 PM
I just wanna kick shit and like, cry.

I have this video deal that is 3 videos for $20. Someone contributed 20, I sent him 3 videos, but I sent the wrong video for one of them. SO, I had to send him the proper one. He got 4 videos, for $20....normally all 4 of those videos would be a $60 contribution.

I feel like a fucking idiot. I get $13....and he just got 4 videos of me, that are some of my best videos.

Whoopdie-fuckin-doo I get 13 measly bucks.

Seriously. Taking this content offer down. Fuck trying to get more contributions by offering a deal.

edit: Okay...cried for a half hour and I feel a bit better now. =( Sad the internet can make me cry lol. Although, I doubt im the first cam girl to feel this way some days...

MellyMay
11-28-2013, 02:11 PM
a) dude contacts me mentioning another site. Glad MGF caught it, as the message I got started "Well, MGF didn't like that message." so I can only assume.

b) continues to send messages, though obeying my THAT'S AGAINST THE RULES DUDE DON'T DO IT warning, about how he's here and ready to chat.

c) another message, "I'm here"

d) I send the message that I don't approach dudes for chat. They can approach ME. So feel free to contact ME as I don't have time to contact the entire site for free chat.

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So that's my policy. And I guess it always has been.

CanadianRuby
11-29-2013, 02:20 PM
BLOCK "Agreul" immediately. The fucking idiot asked about a cam show and said his mic doesn't work on MGF but he can use SKYPE.

IF YOU READ THIS, "AGREUL" I want to punch you in the face. Don't jeapordize my account just because you're too stupid to read the fucking rules.

DON'T TALK ABOUT OTHER CAM SITES OR PROGRAMS ON MGF.

Also, ladies please go to his profile and FLAG him for offering cam girls to use SKYPE. I want him banned.

RubyTheSexPixie
11-30-2013, 12:42 PM
someone please, please please, tell me how i remove my blogs from MGF????

CanadianRuby
11-30-2013, 12:51 PM
someone please, please please, tell me how i remove my blogs from MGF????

Unfortunately you cannot. I wish you could. I have some older blogs myself i'd like to remove.

RubyTheSexPixie
11-30-2013, 12:52 PM
ok I see, i cant, fuckity fuck fuck. please flag my blog? http://www.mygirlfund.com/girls/blogdetail?id=75185

CanadianRuby
11-30-2013, 01:21 PM
ok I see, i cant, fuckity fuck fuck. please flag my blog? http://www.mygirlfund.com/girls/blogdetail?id=75185

I can but what do you want me to flag it for? Like...the reason? If I flag it just randomly without stating a valid reason that won't look good =)

RubyTheSexPixie
11-30-2013, 02:10 PM
I saw some other girls say flag it and say "please add a delete button" haha, maybe say "please delete for user"

CanadianRuby
11-30-2013, 05:22 PM
Check out the MGF verified group ladies! :)

justsometwat
11-30-2013, 10:49 PM
I am still waiting to be approved for The MGF verified thread. Am I supposed to message someone?

neeve
12-01-2013, 04:03 PM
I've officially decided, the thing i hate most about mgf is support, or the total lack there of. Like seriously, side with the girls who are bringing in the money over guys trying to scam the girls/site. They have no common sense at all