View Full Version : Should I put out or hold out?
JessicaCM
09-20-2011, 12:45 PM
@Silk Lol!!!!! I know right...just because he's sexy, has a slight edge, and his own stuff...I'm not a cum dumpster who wants to be ran through and once he's finished he bounces and leaves. If I wanted to be a complete whore...I would be a paid one smh. At least then I would have something to show. But the audacity of him to think that because he has skanks wanting him to fuck them with no commitment that ALL OF US WOMEN are not like that. Oh well he's not getting my goodies.
Kisca
09-20-2011, 12:56 PM
He says he's sexually attracted to me and wants to see what it's like "inside" before he makes the decision of a relationship. He said he just isn't after sex, he wants to show me, he's no like the other guys in my past. He also said in these times you have to because you never know if your really dating the sex you want (transgenders, etc)...another reason he wants to sleep with me.
Wow this guy sounds like an idiot!
-He can make a choice NOW not after sex
-"whats it like inside" What is he 12 or using every excuse in the book to get laid?
-He doesnt know what SEX he is dating/seeing... WOW someone is a plain idiot or just doesnt know how to be a gentleman.
Dont sleep with him, he used every excuse in the book to ask to get laid... SEX is what he is using to make a choice on you whether he wants to date you or not. That is just plain stupid, move on.
JessicaCM
09-20-2011, 01:02 PM
Wow this guy sounds like an idiot!
-He can make a choice NOW not after sex
-"whats it like inside" What is he 12 or using every excuse in the book to get laid?
-He doesnt know what SEX he is dating/seeing... WOW someone is a plain idiot or just doesnt know how to be a gentleman.
Dont sleep with him, he used every excuse in the book to ask to get laid... SEX is what he is using to make a choice on you whether he wants to date you or not. That is just plain stupid, move on.
@Kisca He is apparently so use to girls he can easily smash and dash.
So I HAVE BEEN ignoring him since the 15th of September (So far I'm up to 10 missed calls and 3 texts...the first was a smiley face, 'Damn! WTF', and today read on. Guess WTF he did this morning. A little after nine he send me a text saying 'I'm in (city where I live name)/ can I have some pussy please' IDK if he said let me say something that I'm sure will get a reaction or what the deal was???!!! I was heated, but I still refuse to respond. On my phone I can't block texts, and can only reject calls to voicemail. What to do.
Kisca
09-20-2011, 01:06 PM
^ wow if a man has to ask for pussy.. IGNORE! Find someone better there are so many men that will take you out before trying to shove it in.
JessicaCM
09-20-2011, 01:09 PM
Lol I don't know if he said that because I was ignoring all his calls and texts...you know to be rude and get a reaction. But I was like no this n***a didn't.
silk55
09-20-2011, 01:42 PM
tell him to take a pic (you know one of those gay ass ones) with his shirt off and cock out and send it to his mom }:D
JessicaCM
09-20-2011, 02:33 PM
Lol I don't know his mom...I am just gonna ignore him. I guess I was shocked that he felt he was entitled to something. Oh well.
DesuvsDeath
09-20-2011, 08:42 PM
"Well, as much as I'd like to date you... I need to fuck you to make sure you aren't a tranny, first."
Bahahahahahahaa. That's so fucking epic. I wonder how many times this has actually worked for this guy.
This thread is definitely in my top 10 favs of all time.
And then to follow it up with "I'm in (city where I live name)/ can I have some pussy please" lmao. This guy is pure gold!
Brandi_Lynn
09-20-2011, 08:52 PM
Gonna keep this as brief as possible. Met this guy. Hung out twice. Made the mistake of sleeping over his place (even though I thought it was harmless...but I have to keep in mind that guys expect things when you spend the nite with them late) because I really wanted to see him but it was hard due to distance and our varying schedules. He has made it seem like he really likes me, although some of his actions shown otherwise. Anywho, on to the main issue...
He says he's sexually attracted to me and wants to see what it's like "inside" before he makes the decision of a relationship. He said he just isn't after sex, he wants to show me, he's no like the other guys in my past. He also said in these times you have to because you never know if your really dating the sex you want (transgenders, etc)...another reason he wants to sleep with me.
I LIKE HIM A LOT, but just with my experience with guys in the past, siblings, male family, and male friends...girls who have sex the second or third time hanging out don't last long.
Should I just try and see what happens or run for the hills?
P.S. I HAVE BEEN IGNORING HIM FOR THE PAST 3 DAYS. I HAVE 8 MISSED CALLS FROM HIM & TWO TEXTS. One text was a smiley face and the other this morning was a 'Damn! Wtf'' Damn can't he get some from another girl.
This guy sounds like a fucking twit. Seriiously?! If you fall for statements this guy said that I bolded -Jesus. If a man said crap like this to me & expected me to be stupid enough to believe much less tolerate hogwash said to me he'd have another thing comin....
Girl, seriously. :irked: I don't even see why you would need advice on a guy that says something like that. But then again, you didn't get up & walk out of the room the moment this pearls of knowledge spewed from his mouth either much less actually consider whether you should sleep w/ him or not. Omg. ::)
Btw, the transgender thing isn't really a normal problem for most people in the real world. So unless he lives in Thailand he shouldn't be this paranoid about that. ::)
FiendishGyrator
09-20-2011, 09:30 PM
Sounds like his phone number needs to be posted online looking for gay sex 24/7, and add an extra note saying that you LOOOOOOVE getting dick and asshole pics.
Blow his phone line up via proxies.
JessicaCM
09-21-2011, 12:08 AM
@Brandi At first I thought he's just being a guy, but then when I actually sat back to THINK...I was like wtf I'm such an idiot for not seeing it at first. That is why he probably kept feeding me BS. I knew what was good, but didn't want to believe it I guess.
JessicaCM
09-21-2011, 12:10 AM
@Desuvs SMH. I know right. I was like WTF.
femmefatale88
09-25-2011, 01:34 AM
He sounds like he is full of shit and trying to manipulate you with his stupid lies as a ploy to get you in bed. His excuses/reasons for needing to test you out in the sack first before a relationship are weak, don't fall for his game. (Sorry if I reposted anything that someone else said, I didn't have time to read what everyone else wrote.)
JessicaCM
09-25-2011, 02:49 PM
Thanks @FemmeFatale!!! =) He's sooo use to getting ass quickly with his sexy crazy ass smh.