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Naida
11-04-2011, 07:26 PM
Unless I have been in an alternate dimension for the last 48 hours, two things have occurred in this thread-

1) What I'm saying is accused of being inaccurate
2) What I'm saying is the same thing as what the accuser is saying

What gives?

yoda57us
11-04-2011, 09:47 PM
Unless I have been in an alternate dimension for the last 48 hours, two things have occurred in this thread-

1) What I'm saying is accused of being inaccurate
2) What I'm saying is the same thing as what the accuser is saying

What gives?

Only part of what you are saying is inaccurate. I also agree with part of what you are saying. Everything in life isn't black and white.

Naida
11-05-2011, 01:56 PM
You're right, life isn't black and white. That's why I specified some salons, just like some clubs.

KS_Stevia
11-05-2011, 04:48 PM
Yoda, Naida is right...only in that one of my closest girls is a hairdresser and has worked at several places and broken it down for me. It also varies with stripping...the places I mostly worked whilst dancing, we were very close to true IC. When I first started, we were actually employees who got a waitress paycheck, but no schedule. The first club I worked as an IC where they had a schedule, I was like....WTF?

So, it all varies. And the law is coming down hard on it, not just in adult industry, but everywhere...the IC racket is coming to an end....

adverteyes
11-18-2011, 02:07 PM
If I have this straight, twinkletoes, your issues are "He never tips me after the dances", and "he is very needy about spending time before and after the dances and he's very jealous".

"Just tell me a story... you know the one I mean". Motley Crue.

At the risk of being cliche "lets play a game called just the tip". If this phrase can be introduced at the appropriate moment, it could have a profound affect.

Undesired behavior can be addressed with"This one regular", or "My last boyfriend" did "jealousy" and it ruined the relationship because I felt______. "what would you do if someone did this to you?".

Last but not least; If you are a contractor then you create your hours. Which means...you might have dead time. Letting clients know the advantages IE (more time with me) that happen during these dead times is a win-win.

If they complain or make fun of you put on a stethoscope and carry a clipboard and during your approach to them whisper "The doctor will see you now".

charlie61
11-18-2011, 06:51 PM
^ Haha! Some good and cute advice there. Love the "just the tip" comment...I could see myself using that for tips on stage. That might be too witty for drunk people though.

Naida
11-19-2011, 02:34 AM
I'm totally using "just the tip" now. I can do it sort of like how I would at a party. The more you tip, the randier I get!

sparky72
12-12-2011, 10:56 PM
The club I go to has 20 dollar dances and house take 5 for each dance. I go there only for 1 dancer and started paying 25 per song which surprised her as most guys there wont do that.

She does give a fair amount of time during slow periods and she treats me well. I am thankful so I don't mind paying the house's cut plus other little things, giving her foot massages or going to store for her

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12-12-2011, 11:34 PM
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UtahMike
12-31-2011, 11:23 PM
Do you tip your waitress the customary 15 or 20% even though you already spent money in the restaurant?

The tip to a waitress is different. The money you pay for the food does not first go to the waitress and then she pays part of it to the restaurant.

I have found that tipping on top of the fee for the dance varies greatly from one part of the country to another. Out here in Utah and Idaho, when I have tipped, the dancers usually get bug eyed and say "Nobody ever tips!" I have some say if I want to tip, they will do an extra lap dance instead.

In other parts of the country, tipping is done customarily. If most customers tip, and most dancers are tipped, this guy should know that he should be tipping too. It sounds like he is in often enough that he should not be naive about this. He doesn't sound cheap ($100 to the bartender), but he may think he would rather spend his money on dances than on tips.

Are there other customers who would make up for the money you would lose if he gets pissed off and switches to another dancer or club? If so, you might someday, when he is being needy, say something like, "You know, I get so discouraged when you don't tip me; it makes me feel as if you don't like my dances, and I try SO hard."

But if others are not going to pay you what he is, don't risk losing a steady $600 a week to try to get $60 or $75 more.