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melissacutiepie
03-23-2013, 08:08 AM
oh god no Im keeping my baby no matter what , he can push me all me all he likes I just want him to change his mind and start being happy for us Im just afraid of how I will support the baby and about being alone when my boyfriend will leave me .
naughtycamgirl
03-23-2013, 11:13 AM
The decision to keep your baby or not is yours, but keep in mind that there is nothing in the world ( money, men ect) that can give you the satisfaction and joy of being a mom.
pregnancy can bring you A LOT OF MONEY in camming world, I banked when I was pregnant, but I was afraid to have a miscarriage, so I didn't cam at all the first 2/3 months( I was sleeping all the time too lol) then as we all know the risk of spontaneous abortion is higher in the first trimester , so that's why I avoided camming.
If you keep your baby, make sure that you have a normal pregnancy, and ask your doctor if you can have sex, and do not work a lot, give yourself a rest when you feel tired.
electra12
03-23-2013, 11:59 AM
i found myself in the EXACT situation when i found out i was pregnant and my only job is camming..except im married but anyways i get pregnant and he doesnt want the baby..he came to his senses eventually but it hurt me it truly did at the time, you have to be ready to raise a baby by yourself anyways, men are so undependable these days just keep your head up and as far as it effecting your cam job you wont show until your about 4 or 5 five months pregnant so just save your money and work your ass off until then, i dont know how youll feel but i know that i dont want to do this job anymore until after the baby comes i dont have a choice unfortunatly...im now five months and having an issue with trying not to look pregnant because im scared it will effect my money sooo i cant help you with that to much..i can just relate lol but stay positive i promise you will be so happy you kept the baby no matter what you go through its a connection youll never feel with anyone else and as far as support look to your family or a good friend maybe even counseling..
Sinistress
03-23-2013, 12:33 PM
I cammed thru 2 pregnancies. If anything I worked more. Not because I was motivated and needed money...I guess I just had more energy...I'm much lazier now.
When I was pregnant I mastered the art of sleep cybering or something. I would just go to sleep and if the phone rang hop on cam...I so can't do that now. It might just been cuz I was so use to getting up all the time to pee....nm I still do that several times a night.
I wouldn't worry about making money it's entirely possible..especially if you market it.
My only regret for those 18 months is that I wasn't really into making videos yet. There isn't a single picture or video of it.And that was a big mistake. Don't make that mistake.
Special_K
03-23-2013, 01:10 PM
Same thing happened to me when I was 20, my ex bf became very mean and said nasty things about me for being pregnant with his baby. It was a very hard situation and I understand how difficult it can be when your significant other doesn't share your excitement. 7 years later I'm the happiest woman because of my baby girl and she means the world to me. In the end it's your personal decision and no one can tell you what to do. Having a kid is tough under certain circumstances but if you want to have the baby go for it.
As for camming basically what the other ladies said, there is a good market for it. During my pregnancy I had a vanilla job so I don't really have any experience about being in front of a cam, but personally, I got so tired and was always sleepy. As pregnancy develops you might want to take that into consideration, your energy might not be the same. So you can also consider making clips and not having to always deal with difficult customers.
Good luck! :)
kenziekarter
03-23-2013, 02:26 PM
I'm going to be ten weeks tomorrow...I had a decent following before getting pregnant and my regulars love that I'm pregnant. Right now I'm so sleepy all the time that I have made a little less only due to camming less but as u go into other trimesters ur energy comes back. Even though I'm not showing men still take me exclusive just to show my belly like they r amazed there's a human in there it can def be lucrative. Like someone else stated film everything.....adjust ur shows to how u feel...my boobs really hurt and have grown two sizes already they literally hurt....so I make it known before gold shows and in free chat there's no rough boob play and sometimes in goldshows I just show them and put my bra back on if they are really hurting. Most men understand and are totally cool :)
Classy_Katy
03-23-2013, 02:44 PM
Hi Melissa, I see you're in the UK too...I'd find out as much as possible now about what support you can receive for you and your baby from both the government and from your boyfriend, we have the CSA whether he wants you to have the baby or not. Having said that, this could be all nerves and in time he may grow to like the idea of being a father. Do look into support now though, emotional and practical, and don't put up with meanness...your happiness has a direct effect on your baby as well as you.
Promised
07-19-2013, 07:16 PM
So I have been on streamate for awhile and do pretty well. I charge the top amount, and feel like I am able to compete with some of the very popular (in my eyes) girls. However 3 months ago I quit, because I was sick. Turns out I am pregnant. Now I want to go back, but am wondering if it would be worth it, can I still make good money now that I look "chunky" I am pregnant enough to not be able to suck it in and "Pretend" like I weigh a 110 pounds but not pregnant enough to be able to satisfy those who have a pregnant girl fetish. Just curious how girls do when they are 1-5 months pregnant. Do you tell people or hide it till it shows to much? I tried looking at other girls but most that I find either have milk or are much more pregnant than me.
AureliaC
07-19-2013, 10:03 PM
Do clips, you can always make yourself seem more pregnant with editing afterwards than while camming. You can also do stuff like eating videos, talking about how hungry you are while you're pregnant etc. It's less looks, more talking.
IsobelWren
07-19-2013, 10:49 PM
Using the search function, tutorial here:
https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?169359-How-to-use-the-search-function
I found these threads about camming/shooting while preggo:
https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?184512-Working-while-pregnant
https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?181392-Pregnant-and-camming-help-me!
https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?181330-Camming-While-Pregnant-advice!
https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?176639-pregnant-and-secret
https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?175293-Need-some-info
ClaudiaReina
07-20-2013, 01:21 PM
I look "chunky" I am pregnant enough to not be able to suck it in and "Pretend" like I weigh a 110 pounds but not pregnant enough to be able to satisfy those who have a pregnant girl fetish.
In my experience: you can get some AWESOME regulars if you start out early in pregnancy. Many guys like to follow your pregnancy, how your belly is growing and getting bigger by the week; are interested to find out if you're having a boy or a girl; they keep your due date in mind and keep track of how many weeks along you are...At least this has been my experience. I'm just sorry I didn't announce being pregnant earlier, it's awesome, great money maker; and pregnancy fetish guys are among the most respectful, nicest and most generous guys I've ever encountered online.
Promised
07-21-2013, 09:48 AM
I am only worried about it because when I look at the pregnant section on streamate the girls look to be very bored and aren't going private much at all. Maybe I need to use a different site? Streamate is the only place I currently use.
MadisonSummers
09-02-2013, 11:33 PM
Have any ladies experienced this? I'm due in four weeks.
How long did you wait after birth to get back on cam?
How did you find the time with a newborn/baby to get on cam? Between crying, feedings, etc.
I have no idea what to expect after the baby's born -- first time mama here. :)
SayWhoaVanni
09-03-2013, 02:47 AM
I waited two months , I had to get out of the "feeding every two hours " stage lol. Last night was actually my first night back (mfc). I didn't do amazing only $150/4.5 hours .but I know it's a momentum thing . I have a few stretch marks but the guys didn't seem to care . It felt wonderful to be back though .
SarahTime
09-03-2013, 02:02 PM
I was back after 2.5 months. The only way I was able to do it was my husband taking over the night time feedings, etc. while I was able to sleep.
It really helped me to make sure I got my baby on a good solid sleeping and eating schedule, which I did with my first two anyway regardless of camming. If you do the whole "on demand" thing I think it will be a lot harder to make sure you have time to work. But, that's an entirely personal parenting decision.
Don't push yourself to get on before you're ready tho! Good luck!
ClaudiaReina
09-04-2013, 06:58 AM
I have no idea, but I'm due in 4 weeks too!:) What I did was film a bunch of clips and uploaded them for future activation on C4S. I don't plan on taking too much time off, but we'll see!
robotron
09-04-2013, 11:09 PM
I was exhausted to work consistantly after giving birth but I did amazingly when I did make it on cam. Guys loved the huge boobs and lactation is a really lucrative fetish...I waited maybe three weeks. I didn't take my underwear off but at the site I worked at (mfc) most guys tip to be nice and the ones who wanted privates just wanted nipple play. I'd hold off on lactation shows until you have a really healthy milk supply though (ATLEAST 6 weeks) My baby slept for long periods so if you have the energy you'll probablly have time and after 6 weeks I believe you can start pumping (if you're breastfeeding) so if you can afford it you can hire a nanny while you work.
ClaudiaReina
09-05-2013, 04:26 AM
^^Oooh, thanks for this, pregnancy as a fetish is so lucrative, I was already worried that I'll make much less after giving birth; but if there's lactation to replace it, that's great! Also good to hear that you were able to go back in 3 weeks. I'm such a workaholic, it's hard to picture my life without working every day; and everyone was telling me I won't have time to work when the baby is here:(
sexyprego
09-25-2013, 10:08 AM
Please give me your advice i'm on mfc and never done this before and don't want to do something to harm my babies but still make money
Snowy0Star
09-25-2013, 12:16 PM
did u try and do a search for pregnant camming? this site has a lot of useful info and tons of threads already about camming if your worried about insertion i think it would be best to follow the guidelines ur dr has given you about sex if he says sex is ok i would think dildos would be too but ive never been pregnant just going by commen sense and i dont mean that in a rude way that was for me because ive never been pregnant and trying to give u advice on ur babies health
i did a search for pregnant camming and i found this thread that was made two months ago just about and post #3 has links to all the other threads regarding pregnant camming in it.
https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?185686-Pregnant-camming&highlight=pregnant+cam
also this link has a lot of great links from the forum inside it and some useful advice about how not to get ur head bitten off around here. we really are very nice and helpful but its important to research anything you do in life on your own first before you try and ask for info. more then likely the info is already here .
https://docs.google.com/document/d/1nU0QOCJeFkZ3YwjTW0MExiJrpImp3oaZLAjBKEJc7yk/edit
Check out the MFC main thread too
https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?156594-The-MyFreeCams-Thread
welcome and good luck
Aurora14
09-25-2013, 01:08 PM
Lactation, men love it. I'd say get an account with SM too. A lot less work, men are ok with it if you don't use toys, and you can charge AT LEAST $4.99! Pregnant and lactation is one of those things guys will PAY for. I was ridiculously busy on SM compared to MFC.
Charlotteslut
09-25-2013, 02:38 PM
You have a popular fetish/niche! You don't have to use toys but I believe most OBGYNs say intercourse is fine during pregnancy. I can't see how a silicone cock would be any different :P Guys will pay just to see your naked body though, I promise :)
evgirl
09-27-2013, 08:53 PM
I have a pregnant site, and i am buying clips, so if you wanna do some vids, PM me :)
Missbeth
09-29-2013, 09:32 AM
A newbie wanting to do clips with another newbie which involves sharing personal info... Sketch....
I say make clips, pregnancy is a huge fetish. Make clips about everything. Weekly updates, weekly measurements, talk about how you feel, lotion your belly every week do a clip of that, eating clips, etc make as many as you can stockpile pregnancy you can release even after youve delivered you are only preg nine months make the most $ out of it you can :)
BANHammerGoddess
09-29-2013, 11:12 AM
oh and film a SHIT TON OF CONTENT.
Pregnancy content is soooo popular. I mean, you should just video yourself 24/7 and then when you're not pregnant catch up slowly by editing and posting content. Milk that pregnancy (lol) for all it's worth online!
evgirl
09-29-2013, 12:43 PM
A newbie wanting to do clips with another newbie which involves sharing personal info... Sketch....
If you mean that i am a 'newbie", you are wrong :)
i am over 10 years in adult industry , and we are the biggest in the pregnant niche.
evgirl
09-29-2013, 12:47 PM
Anyway, pregnant girls or ex-pregnant girls that have enouf content from clip stores, PM me.
I can buy or we can make a partnership pay site, it's nice extra income for you. (you can run c4s store, and make a site with the same clips).
Snowy0Star
09-29-2013, 01:27 PM
If you mean that i am a 'newbie", you are wrong :)
i am over 10 years in adult industry , and we are the biggest in the pregnant niche.
no she ment newbie to the site that is ur 'account type' based the number of post uve made im not saying ur untrustworthy but normally we like u to be well known before we trust u know ur cam - name post more often etc.
evgirl
09-29-2013, 01:31 PM
no she ment newbie to the site that is ur 'account type' based the number of post uve made im not saying ur untrustworthy but normally we like u to be well known before we trust u know ur cam - name post more often etc.
Ah, ok. I understand.
I need to find my old account :)
I had one when i was a cam girl, but it was loooong time ago.
laurielegs
09-30-2013, 02:07 PM
I never had milk till after the baby came but I've heard you can trigger more milk production with nipple stimulation, which really worries me.
Too much nipple stimulation can trigger early labor. I'd take it easy with that and also not be too rough if you decide to do insertion.
Snowy0Star
09-30-2013, 02:26 PM
Too much nipple stimulation can trigger early labor.
that is crazy like what it can trigger a pre-mature labor 0.0
laurielegs
10-01-2013, 10:56 AM
that is crazy like what it can trigger a pre-mature labor 0.0
Possibly, yes. In fact it is actually recommended sometimes to help induce a late labor. It produces oxytocin which can cause the uterus to contract. In a healthy woman it's likely safe but if a person is prone to early labor it could be a risk.
evgirl
10-01-2013, 05:33 PM
Possibly, yes. In fact it is actually recommended sometimes to help induce a late labor. It produces oxytocin which can cause the uterus to contract. In a healthy woman it's likely safe but if a person is prone to early labor it could be a risk.
Yes, true.
I had it with my second one, this was the only thing that helped to start the process, i was after C-section, so doctors couldn't do anything else, because it was dangerous.
IsobelWren
10-02-2013, 12:56 PM
Possibly, yes. In fact it is actually recommended sometimes to help induce a late labor. It produces oxytocin which can cause the uterus to contract. In a healthy woman it's likely safe but if a person is prone to early labor it could be a risk.
This is true!
Oxytocin is a type of hormone called a prostaglandin. Not to worry, oxytocin aids labor only in the third trimester. You won't miscarry if you pierce your boobs or watch a sappy movie. There are three prostaglandins involved in labor and two of those are secreted by the mature (third trimester) placenta. All of those must be present for labor to start. We've found that if CRH and ACTH (the placenta prostaglandins I mentioned) are present you can frequently nudge your uterus into gear by squeezing more oxy out of your brain*
To this end, my textbook** Human Reproductive Biology has this to say:
"Prostaglandin levels increase in the mother's blood a month before delivery and are very high during labor, with bursts in secretion 15 to 45 seconds after each uterine contraction."
"Mechanical stimulation of the vagina, cervix or uterus causes release of oxytocin; this reaction is called the fetal ejection reflex. ... Recent research suggests, however, that the placenta istelf secretes oxytocin and that it is placental oxytocin, rather than pituitary oxytocin, that initiates labor."
If you didn't already know, "pituitary oxytocin," - aka the regular shit that your brain makes- is the warm and squishies hormone (well, one of them, the best one). Released a whole bunch of times, but most relevant to us, during orgasm. New research has found that MORE oxytocin is released when having partnered sex than during masturbation. SO! When people talk about having sex to try and start labor, it's not the sex itself that's of paramount importance. They're not like, jostling the baby loose or something. They're releasing oxytocin through bond-y, orgasm-y humpage.
...and if you're trying to pop that sucker out and don't feel like humping, have someone cuddle you while you get the hitachi out.
...or finger you, seeing as "mechanical stimulation" causes the "fetal ejection reflex" How romantic!
Random fact that the sex nerd thinks is cool: Prostaglandins are really kinda mean hormones. They're the Gestapo of your body and are chiefly involved in violent body reactions; ovulation, labor, ejaculation. Some people are more sensitive to prostaglandins than other people. This sensitivity usually happens in women and is usually chiefly symptomatic in gastrointestinal distress. So! If you get stomach cramps toward the beginning or end of your period or feel sick to your stomach/get a sore throat after taking a load in the mouth***, you may be sensitive to prostaglandins!
...and there's absolutely fuckall you can do with that knowledge, as of yet. Scientists have pretty much only just found out that it's happening, really.
http://images4.wikia.nocookie.net/__cb20130825220527/mlp/images/2/23/NBC%27s_The_More_You_Know.jpg
*Or in the case of "postmature" labor, yelling at the doctor until he injects you with synthetic oxytocin, which is called pitocin
**By the way you should totally not read that textbook if you're thinking of becoming pregnant for the first time. I'm freaking traumatized now. No fooling
***I mean like, immediately after. If said sore throat starts days afterwards and persists (http://www.medicinenet.com/oral_gonorrhea_symptoms/views.htm), you should probably go to Planned Parenthood.
Snowy0Star
10-02-2013, 01:21 PM
did u ever think ur schooling would be helpful and a great asset to a sex work forum when u started lol
IsobelWren
10-02-2013, 05:18 PM
did u ever think ur schooling would be helpful and a great asset to a sex work forum when u started lol
Actually that's one of the reasons I started my schooling! Nobody gives a shit about us if they're not soundly condemning us and our work. I mean, they all want to take advantage of our product, but they act like it's secret and shameful and we're dirty. At best, they're tolerant, usually they're disdainful and misinformed and at worst they seem to view us as almost inhuman. So many times when I or my friends have needed help, the very people who were supposed to help us -professionals like the police, the courts, doctors and social welfare workers- were unhelpful and downright made things worse and more traumatizing.
We're an "at risk" group; people who are marginalized, stigmatized and discriminated against for no reason. Instead of people trying to understand us and help, like professionals are supposed to with other at risk groups, sex workers are shamed, hidden and forgotten about. I couldn't see that happening and not try and do something to help. My aim in getting all these letters behind my name is to bring us the resources that other at risk groups have, and raise visibility in the mainstream of sex workers as real people. I don't expect that my academic work will ever make people welcome us into their homes with open arms, but it would be nice if one day our granddaughters' generation didn't have to lie about their work, and people who are hurt/assaulted/victimized during our work could be able to go to the professionals without fear of said professionals making things worse.
melissacutiepie
01-07-2014, 05:24 PM
Hi my little beautiful girl is nearly 6 weeks old and im hoping to start webcamming soon , but thing is with a bit of a belly and tits not as firm as they used to be I feel unattractive and afraid to cam again? is there any tips to help me start again and maybe any tips on hiding my belly/ loosing baby weight p.s got a c-section ? Need to start making money for my little family :)
NikkitaExotica
01-07-2014, 05:32 PM
Maybe you could just change the way you market yourself? As in really emphasize the 'milf' angle? What camming has taught me is anything that we may think of as a negative there will be a guy who finds it incredibly hot. I'm a little chubbier after Christmas so I'm working the 'curvy' angle and doing great!
roseeisenhardt
01-07-2014, 05:35 PM
If you're nervous about your stomach area/the scar from the c-section, you could always wear a cute babydoll! They're sexy and flowy but definitely cover up the tummy area.
caramelDip
01-07-2014, 05:48 PM
Maybe an underbust corset would be good for you. I'm working on my belly after two lovely children. I'm still learning. I Dont like flowy pieces of clothing because it doesn't look good on my hourglass frame.
I hide my belly, I still have extra skin on it. I Dont care how many people like it, if I'm not confident it'll most definitely show. And my earnings reflect on that. I'm hiding it until I'm satisfied.
PlayfulDesire
01-07-2014, 05:55 PM
I just had my little man 5 months ago. I also had c section. However I breastfeed so my breast are bigger and fuller. I haven't gotten any negative remarks other than oooh a milf.
Smurfette
01-07-2014, 05:58 PM
I understand how you feel. I was camming three weeks after my daughter was born, flabby belly, stretched vag and all... lol. I definitely didn't feel sexy, but it doesn't really matter. It's all in our heads anyway... guys will still find us sexy. I'm particularly worried about stopping breastfeeding because I know my boobs will shrivel up and look totally saggy and ugh. But I know I'll make money just the same... I think projecting confidence will win you more regulars than your physical looks will.
ClaudiaReina
01-07-2014, 10:08 PM
I had an emergency c-section, so I have a vertical scar. It's ugly, I wear something to hide it but when I don't, I still make the same, nobody commented on it yet. Confidence is key and distract them with an awesome show :)
cking1114
01-07-2014, 10:29 PM
I like the shapewear shirts. I wear the ones with lace on the bottoms and around the top, so they are cute. I wear a bra and panties and usually stockings too. Then I leave the top on and pull out the parts I need to unless they request I take it off. They are my fav thing to wear to cam in really. They are easy and cute and flattering....
Victoria X
01-09-2014, 10:32 AM
There's only one way to get your groove back and it's to get right back on and feel just as sexy as before because you are! :)
AureliaC
01-10-2014, 12:51 AM
DON'T feel unsexy! I started camming right after my little one too, I made loads on milk shows (don't know if you're going that route, but it's hugely popular, you should also check out doing clips in that area if you are). I also had an emergency c-section and it took me awhile to get active again after because of some complications, never had a single guy complain about my weight/stomach/scar etc. You're sexy if you feel sexy, promise! It's been a year and a half and my scar is essentially gone, I recently did a clip for a guy with a pretty close up view of that area and the guy emailed me asking if it hurt when I pushed during delivery lol
Work the MILF angle, it's big. I just call myself a "young MILF" since I don't look like a MILF but I'm obviously a mom, there was a very positive $$ change when I switched over from the teen angle. Not all guys like the same thing, and they're honestly a lot more forgiving than we are about ourselves when it comes to our bodies, they just like naked women!
I definitely second the underboob corset though, they're sexy even if you aren't trying to hide anything, so it's never a bad route to take. Just do whatever you need to to feel good about yourself and the $$ will come. I know at least for me the few months after I had my son I certainly wasn't feeling good about my body. It's actually why I loved camming so much, it really gave me the confidence boost I needed and kinda got me out of my funk. Congratulations on your little one btw :)
Sonikku
02-25-2014, 03:43 PM
Hi everyone!
I've searched searched through the forum about pregnancy and camming, but I didn't really see anything relating to my issue.
I'm about 12 weeks pregnant, and I was diagnosed about a week ago with hyperemesis gravidarum, which is like a severe case of morning sickness. I feel like as the days go by, the worse my symptoms get. I have to constantly be on medication, or I throw up every 10-20 minutes and just feel miserable. I've lost almost 10 lbs in the past week or so, and I deal with nausea all day, and recently I've been getting constant headaches.
This illness has pretty much kept me in bed 18-20 hours out of the day, not being able to stay up for more than an hour or two at a time... And it's really hurting my income.
My supporting figure has been telling me to go out and get a "real job", but shit... if I can't manage to work at home, what makes them think I can work a real job where I probably have to stand for 8 hours a day with a 30 minute break?
Some days I find that I can actually manage to get dressed up and feel well enough to cam... but at the same time, I probably only make 25 dollars the hour I actually am on, and then I may not be able to work for days again...
I'm at a loss. I currently take ondansetron for the nausea/vomitting, but it doesn't seem to be doing much anymore. Does anyone else have to deal with this, or have dealt with it?
How did you manage?
TattooedBBW
02-25-2014, 03:57 PM
I've never been in this position but I feel for you! That sounds horrible.
What about clip sales and Indy camming? Focusing on clips when you feel okay, and making ads on CamModel Directory to schedule when you are feeling okay might help out a lot in your situation. Best of luck and health with the pregnancy!
Sonikku
02-25-2014, 03:59 PM
Thank you. I was thinking about C4S. I don't know of any other sites though? Maybe that pay out more frequently than once a month (I gave up on MGF for now).
I do have my account ready to set up on CMD, I just never bothered to set it up because I worry about having to keep appointments with people and not feeling well enough to go through with it. Seems like I should try it at least though.
simone87
02-25-2014, 04:05 PM
when i was pregnant i slept over 12 hours a night, taking naps during the day. the sickness was so bad and i was tired alll the time. felt like i was slowly dying of something. so i feel ya, only you sound like you have it even worse! i just cannot believe your SO would say that to you. its hard enough to work during pregnancy lets face it, you are doing a hard enough job as it is..you are creating a human being. im pretty sure that's a lot harder than anything he does at work!!! your body is working over time, its draining your energy. he shouldn't make you work at all IMO with what you are going through!! makes me so angry for you. i second clips. you can take an hour or two when you are feeling good and then stop..its not a daily grind of sitting and waiting.