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yoda57us
10-31-2011, 08:24 PM
Actually there have been responses to this thread by three other customers and several dancers that are in the OP's favor. Maybe you could actually read the entire thread and lose the hero complex. You aren't helping the OP since he actually does spend money on dancers. Why don't you take your cheap-ass routine over to Youporn and go find some nice free TA. Or maybe you could hang out in the free chat rooms on a few cam sites...

I mean, after all, why even bother to pay escorts? The girls on the internet will get you off for free!

bajie
10-31-2011, 08:29 PM
Actually, to appreciated the dancer's body, stage is much better than lap dance. When I have the lap dance, I can hardly see clearly the most beautiful part of the dancer's body, like the leg, the ass, and the breast........

Strip dancing could be an art which most of the stripper in the formum won't comprehend, and can earn serious money even without LD/VIP.

bajie
10-31-2011, 08:34 PM
I have been promised by different dancers that I would get much more pleasure with lap dance, it turns almost the similar, after two song, she have to repeat all the same movement.......

yoda57us
10-31-2011, 08:38 PM
Strip dancing could be an art which most of the stripper in the formum won't comprehend, and can earn serious money even without LD/VIP.

Sorry dude but you are just plain wrong. First of all, the dancers on this forum comprehend more about their business and how to make a living at it than you ever will. The majority of money is made selling private dances and it's been that way for quite a while now. Ask any dancer if she would rather make her money on stage not being touched or in the private dance or VIP area being groped and molested. They will all tell you that they would never leave the stage if they could make the same money up there as they do selling dances.

Do whatever you want with your money but don't kid yourself. You can't change the way things are.

Kellydancer
10-31-2011, 08:42 PM
I see another troll/middle aged virgin is trying to give "advice" about not tipping". I don't even understand many of his posts about paying a hooker for sex cheaper, so I'm going to assume it's a fat ugly hooker with no teeth. Oh and the idea about wasting time doesn't work with most dancers. I learned my first day dancing is never spend more than about a song or so with them without asking for a dance.

Anyway, like I mentioned earlier I did have regulars who paid me just for conversation. I actually didn't mind this at all because it was easy money and I just listened to his problems.

ChilledCustomer
10-31-2011, 08:47 PM
lol tbf, on the funny side, I already do the free chat room thing.

I use this one called cam4, not the partner premium site but the normal cam 4. All the girls do everything on cam for free. Every now and again someone tips them but I just watch.

On a separate note, I have just learnt about the blue side where customers post, this is the place where strippers post.

So despite the fact I helped the guy and disagree with your points, I will refrain from saying anything that disagrees with a stripper in here unless I see that strippers dont follow that rule in the blue side.

So i guess what im saying is bye till someone else breaks the rules. Ive broken them lets say 10 times here now so I wont do anything for 10 stripper infractions in the blue side.

Anyway see ya and have fun.

My apologies for the posts here.

ChilledCustomer
10-31-2011, 08:51 PM
oh yeh btw maybe you learnt never to spend more than 1 song with a customers and thats fine but in my experience Ive rarely had that happen. Generally when 1 dancer leaves you, you dont have to wait even 10 minutes before another is sitting by your side and making conversation with you.

Also, im not middle aged and not a virgin, I would have thought the talk of escorts would have shown that obviously.

Also, yeh some cheap escorts are ugly and some expensive ones are ugly too but you can find cheap, sexy ones. I know I have and if you use the search function on adult work, you will too.

My point was simply, you can get a pretty escort for 30 minutes of sex at the same price a dancer would take for for two 3 minute dances without fucking you.

StripClubPsych
10-31-2011, 08:56 PM
Not angry, I am just spreading the knowledge I have for the benefit of customers like I wish someone would have told me.

You see, it is after I found out an escort for sex for 30 minutes costs the same as two 3 minute dances from strippers without sex when you can watch them for free that I started exclusively watching strippers for free and using the saved money to pay an escort for real sex at a much cheaper rate.

I believe if more customers knew that and checked the adultwork website for local escorts, they wouldn't pay strippers as much.

I am trying to help customers by increasing their knowledge so that they can treat strippers like a market and make them compete.

First of all, not everyone that goes into a strip club is looking for sex. A lot of people who are "regulars" aren't so because they get their rocks off - they're "regulars" because they have found someone that makes THEM feel good, ruse or not.

That's what strip clubs are all about. You go in, you feel good about yourself, and you leave to come back another day.

The stage is the "market" as you put it. That's where girls "compete" for your attention. You get to see how girls move, what they look like, and get a general feel for their personality through how they dance. When they approach you for a lap dance, that's when you can start "getting to know them."

Strippers tell you what you want to hear because that is their job and that is what 99% of what customers WANT.

I am positive your 40 pound hooker isn't spending that whole 30 minutes telling you how sweet you are, or listening to your problems, and you sure as hell aren't able to look around and see other girls dancing while you're spending your 30 minutes trying to avoid a disease because you cheaped out on snatch.



Get a clue, dude. If you're just there for the free show, grab a case of beer at your house and buy a porno.

ChilledCustomer
10-31-2011, 08:56 PM
Sorry again, i need to stop talking on this side. this side is made for strippers not customers. Ill go away now and stop replying period until i see 12 stripper infractions on the blue side so feel free to take pot shots. I wont fire back now. good bye

yoda57us
10-31-2011, 09:00 PM
I see another troll/middle aged virgin is trying to give "advice" about not tipping". I don't even understand many of his posts about paying a hooker for sex cheaper, so I'm going to assume it's a fat ugly hooker with no teeth.

He's from England. I don't know much about the going rate for escorts over there but I doubt it's comparable to a couple of LD's. I'm willing to bet he's shopping on the low end...

Kellydancer
10-31-2011, 09:03 PM
He's from England. I don't know much about the going rate for escorts over there but I doubt it's comparable to a couple of LD's. I'm willing to bet he's shopping on the low end...

I don't know their rates either, but that sounds low for England as well. Reminds me of a friend who is always talking about "saving" money on dances by paying a streewalker for dancing then sex. My friend just got diagnosed with Herpes.

ChilledCustomer
10-31-2011, 09:06 PM
Oh I was stating the cheapest escorts tbf, i think the lowest rate Ive seen is 35 pounds for 30 minutes of anything. But there are some pretty dancers at 40 pounds for 30 minutes.

But if you keep an eye out you often see specials when the girls need money, like today i saw someone who lists herself as 120 pounds an hour say she was doing 85 pounds for an hour.

So you can get good deals, if you just shop around like when you buy a tv.

Tbh I dont care about how much the item costs, I just care about its quality. Price discrimination and the exploitation of consumer surplus via the dead weight loss is a common tactic used to charge high prices for the same product.

For example, teasco ( like wallmart) charges 30 pence for its value mustard and 1 pound for its finest mustard which is over 3 times the price. When you compare the ingredients however, they are literally exactly the same.

Ie people upscale price by greater than an equal proportion for the same or similar products just to exploit the customer literally. Price discrimination is a common concept.

ChilledCustomer
10-31-2011, 09:07 PM
Also with regards gto your friend, he paid a street walker, not an escort. Most of the escorts have regular checks and i Always ask to see the details of the last check. 90% of the ttime, they will give it to you and if they dont, just leave.

lokikola
10-31-2011, 09:09 PM
Hopefully he will just be banned. I really believe it would be best if everyone ignored his posts. He tries to score conversation for free in a strip club, and its what hes trying to do here. Free amusement. I'm not playing.

ChilledCustomer
10-31-2011, 09:10 PM
If you think I am lying, just go to the adult work website and search for sex workers in england. You will find some as cheap as 35 pounds for 30 min but thats rare. 40 pounds for 30 min is not rare but its not frequent. However, 80 pounds for an hour is common. I think its an economies of scale thing.

Also, last time i went to a lap dancing club, it cost me 20 pounds for a dance. Last time I was an escort, it was 40 pounds for 30 min. So yeh, it is comparable.

StripClubPsych
10-31-2011, 11:22 PM
Again, you don't pay dancers for sex. You pay them for the fantasy they provide. You can masturbate for free and get the same result, but you aren't here talking about how escorts are overpriced because you can have a wank for the cost of lotion and internet service.

CherryPepper
11-01-2011, 10:01 AM
This is the same guy that got banned several times for listing his "friends" personal info and was so offended she was an escort.

Kellydancer
11-01-2011, 11:25 AM
I had a feeling on that. This guy needs to be banned again.

Elvia
11-01-2011, 03:11 PM
Didn't this site used to be able to ban people so they wouldn't be able to sign up again from the same computer?

Kellydancer
11-01-2011, 03:51 PM
Now this jackass went to blue and told the guys they would be better off getting blowjobs from cheap hookers than dancers for the same price.

Elvia
11-01-2011, 04:00 PM
I think it's kind of adorable when someone shows up thinking they've hit upon something brilliant because they've realized that 1) the dancers are primarily interested in their money and 2) How cheap street prostitution can be. As if these were ever great secrets.

kdogg247
11-01-2011, 05:30 PM
Now this jackass went to blue and told the guys they would be better off getting blowjobs from cheap hookers than dancers for the same price.

Damn. Why didn't I think of that?

Emanuelle
11-04-2011, 10:26 PM
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Emanuelle
11-04-2011, 10:32 PM
If you feel more comfortable talking & drinking with a girl than getting dances then that's fine as long as you compensate her for her time. The only reason any dancer is there is to make money. That doesn't mean she can't be having a nice time with you but if you enjoy her company more than her dancing that doesn't mean she should be paid any less. Why not take her to the champagne room where you can enjoy a bottle of wine together and she'll be able to relax & take her mind off the money for a little while.

FeministStripper
11-09-2011, 07:39 PM
ahh thanks for all the replies so here is my retort.

1. Saying you sus us out quickly is fine, I don't care about that as long as i get to chill and watch naked women for free and good value for money.

2. You just admitted you don't need thatr much money to get by. Thank you for that because it just confirms what I said. You should not feel guilty if a dancer doesnt get what they consider as the very minimum of 100 dollars an hour, it wont put them on the streets as beggars or make them poor, they dont need that much money.

3. I am not a troll. I think I am the only genuine response out of the lot of you.

You are all strippers and just want to convince the guy to give you girls more money. Its what you do every day of your life.

So as someone on his side, i simply told him the truth.

You might want to find an activity that you actually enjoy instead of one that makes you feel so suspicious and angry.

Dancers offer a very specialized recreational experience. This is a capitalist culture and those cost money. If you just want to talk to a woman who'll give you service with a smile and a little friendly banter, hang out at a diner, not a strip club. All the things the strippers offer that the waitress won't - that's what you're paying for. Tell me - when you seek other products and services out, do you spend this much energy resenting that you have to pay for them?

Here's a hint: you'll be impervious to the hustle when you're not there looking for the wrong thing, when you don't secretly keep looking for the one who means it, when you want a good time, not a girlfriend. Once you start coming in willing to pay these women what their service is worth and let go of your anger that they're not offering you more, you'll start to attract the dancers who just want to make a living helping you have fun without manipulating you. If you don't respect what we do, you can't possibly respect yourself for participating.