View Full Version : Who Ruins the Fantasy?
yoda57us
12-09-2011, 01:22 PM
The last few days have certainly been a learning experience. I'll be sure to tell the four dancers and two ex-dancers I keep in contact with all about it!
They probably won't care much. Trying to explain conversations that take place on a web site is usually a pretty boring topic of conversation. I currently have 18 dancers and retired dancers on my contacts list. Three of them are members of SW though none of them contribute much, they mostly lurk. I don't talk about SW with any of the ones who are not members and rarely with the ones who are. If it's not part of their world it's boring to them...
shasta
12-09-2011, 01:28 PM
This Doc person is super annoying. Is the OP talking about you??? She is talking about 99% of customers, yes you fall in that category, too.
sierra.
12-09-2011, 01:34 PM
They probably won't care much. Trying to explain conversations that take place on a web site is usually a pretty boring topic of conversation.
Baahhh I subject my boyfriend to this all the time.
"Oh, so on stripperweb today blah blah blah blah"
lol, he's a good sport, though.
firemaiden04
12-09-2011, 02:36 PM
This thread ended up being much more entertaining than I originally expected.
SteveSmith
12-09-2011, 03:10 PM
Laws for White Knights
http://img847.imageshack.us/img847/8412/thknight1.gif
1st Law: It's all about the money. Always. Take care of the dancers and the dancers will take care of you. Bargain shoppers, get thee to a WalMart and stay the hell out of my strip club!
2nd Law: Generosity and class make all the difference in the world. Be a gentleman to a fault.
3rd Law: Never, ever let a dancer pay for anything in the club. Food, drinks, cigarettes, clothing, costumes, Tiffany's or the third mortgage on the house. It's all the same. You pay.
4th Law: Never break a promise. Smile, laugh, be thoughtful and always deliver more than you promise. Sure, it's an insanely flagrant violation of the ironclad rule, "Never believe anything you hear in a strip club" but the Shock and Awe that follow are priceless. Really.
5th Law: Take care of everybody in the club. Tip ferociously.
6th Law: If "respect" isn't your middle name, stay home until it is.
7th Law: Learn the rules of the subculture before going into any club.
8th Law: What goes on in the club, stays in the club. The ad agency asshats stole this for Vegas, but they stole it from a strip club. Keep your mouth shut, respect confidences and look out for people.
9th Law: The smartest dancers are the thoroughbreds of the species. Treat them with respect, generosity, humor, sensitivity, affection and deep admiration and you will never, ever stop smiling.
10th Law and The Prime Directive: Inside or outside the club, it's the dancers who do the choosing.
:rotfl:
Doc Holliday
12-09-2011, 04:26 PM
if any content is published here, you need the permission of both the author and the publisher (the owner of this site) to use it elsewhere. . . . . .
All Good Things
12-09-2011, 05:45 PM
^ The fact that he confuses White Knight syndrome with being a good customer doesn't make him a Rational Customer, it just means he's confused.
It happens.
Kessler
12-09-2011, 05:53 PM
Well, I appreciated it. And I figure as long as dancers complain to me about other customers, I'm not being THAT customer.
roast
12-09-2011, 05:56 PM
lol this guy came up on my ignore list... and since my memory isnt always perfect and I was like "pourquoi?", then I read:
Laws for White Knights
:rotfl:
http://shewhoprecedesmen.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/inconceivable_means_02.jpg
yoda57us
12-09-2011, 06:04 PM
^ The fact that he confuses White Knight syndrome with being a good customer doesn't make him a Rational Customer, it just means he's confused.
It happens.
Agreed. Being called a "White Knight" is almost always the first salvo from guys who think that ROI is everything and good customers make it harder for them to get what they want without having to pay too much for it.
whirlerz
12-09-2011, 10:09 PM
LMAO, @ this thread^!!
Doc Holliday
12-10-2011, 09:19 AM
if any content is published here, you need the permission of both the author and the publisher (the owner of this site) to use it elsewhere. . . . . .
rickdugan
12-10-2011, 11:59 AM
If only every customer was like TOO, rickdugan, or yoda......I would be sooooooo happy. Right now I am fantasizing about the 4 of us drinking champagne and lol-ing at the PL who got up from his seat at the bar to place $2 on the stage after a very athletic set.
Thank you BOTM, but in all honesty I cannot compare myself with TOO and yoda in that regard. They would no doubt make wonderful company in that setting as they have much more refined sensibilities than do I, including very enlightened views that are built upon a great deal of interactions with a number of seasoned dancers. Conversely, I am a simpler man with a less sensitive palate and, as such, usually end up in clubs that do not sell much champagne.
But thank you again for those kind words. :)
Doc Holliday
12-10-2011, 12:13 PM
if any content is published here, you need the permission of both the author and the publisher (the owner of this site) to use it elsewhere. . . . . .
camille27
12-15-2011, 03:29 PM
this is hard to type an answer to. if i like you, i like you, and we can be friends. and if you have a penis, you will always pay for everything anyway, so maybe i'm not understanding the question.
I've read that certain customers on here have dancers that they consider friends (and vice-versa, though less so). It happens once in a blue moon, but it happens.
In your experience with dancers who initiate OTC (not p4p, just lunch, dinner, etc), at what point did you start realizing that it wasn't just hustle? That this person just wanted to hang out and wasn't merely trying to get you back into the club? Or is it even possible to look past the hustle if you're still going back to the club?
yoda57us
12-15-2011, 04:18 PM
In your experience with dancers who initiate OTC (not p4p, just lunch, dinner, etc), at what point did you start realizing that it wasn't just hustle? That this person just wanted to hang out and wasn't merely trying to get you back into the club? Or is it even possible to look past the hustle if you're still going back to the club?
I don't know if I would call it looking past the hustle. If you are going to see a dancer at her club you should be spending on her regardless of whether you are OTC friends or not. That being said, to me, a "hustle" is a hard sell. Would I be friends OTC with a dancer who was trying to give me the hard sell in the club? No. Am I friends with several dancers who I see as friends outside but still go to their clubs and spend on them? Yes.
Like most things in life there is no black and white with this sort of thing. You have to decide if it's working for you or not (just as she does).
One thing I do know is that, when this sort of thing has worked out for me, it's almost always initiated by the lady within my first few visits to the club. Dangling OTC as a carrot in front of you for months on end is just pure hustle. It's never going to happen.
Kessler
12-16-2011, 01:56 AM
Am I friends with several dancers who I see as friends outside but still go to their clubs and spend on them? Yes. Like most things in life there is no black and white with this sort of thing. You have to decide if it's working for you or not (just as she does).
One thing I do know is that, when this sort of thing has worked out for me, it's almost always initiated by the lady within my first few visits to the club. Dangling OTC as a carrot in front of you for months on end is just pure hustle. It's never going to happen.
Thanks - this pretty much answers my questions, as well as TOO's earlier comments. Recently and unexpectedly, I found out the answer to my own question. Thought it'd be a while before something like this happened to me. You and TOO are right - intentions are made very clear and it's just never going to be a black and white type of deal, not that it's a bad thing at all.