View Full Version : Are extras girls getting DUMBER ??
lokikola
01-11-2012, 01:01 PM
Do tell...
I would say 8 times out of 10, when a champagne room is used, it is used for extras. I feel very, very confident saying this.
lokikola
01-11-2012, 01:06 PM
I used to work with a girl who would suck dick for the price of a semi-private lap dance - $40, of which we keep $30. And she would do it in the room where the rest of us would have to do our semi-private dances. :yuck:
(Yes, she got fired. And this was from a club that is a little too tolerant of extras in the first place.)
I dunno, part of me wants to feel sorry for girls who think they have to do that... but to do it for the same price that I charge for two or three minutes of titty shaking?!? That is just stupidity - girls like that aren't just making the business worse for the rest of us, they're putting themselves at legal and health risks for absolutely no reason!! I don't get it.
Dude swear to baby jesus I saw this the other night. I was giving a LD to my reg, and the girl two seats over but across started to pull out the guys dick. He unbuckled and unzipped and the song was ending. She got on her knees and gave it a big ole slurp. Fucking shameless. IN THE LAP DANCE BOOTH. I think she was doing this to see if she could get him to stay for another song (I think this because she sucked it right before the song was over), and she wouldn't 'suck his dick' the whole time but do it when bouncer wasn't looking kinda shit. That is pathetic, for another 20 dollars you're gonna give a BBBJ? Gross. Best part was that the guy zipped up and walked out when the song was over. :shrug:
Natalllia
01-11-2012, 01:12 PM
^^ The girl I was talking about was from Miami. Maybe she went back home?
cherryblossomsinspring
01-11-2012, 01:14 PM
best part was that the guy zipped up and walked out when the song was over. :shrug:
haaaaaaaaa!!
lokikola
01-11-2012, 01:17 PM
^^ The girl I was talking about was from Miami. Maybe she went back home?
Probably not. Seriously, you guys have to work out here to understand that MOST dancers here offer extras, of all dancers I have met I thought I knew one who was clean at Playmates. Then she told me about a room she just got done doing and she said the guy kept pulling it out so she just helped him by jacking him off. A beautiful girl, I think she let the a hole pressure her into it. It sounds stupid, but it broke my heart just because I thought there really were other girls who didn't do extras.
When you're the minority the pressure is definitely worse. If you're a clean dancer and want to dance in Miami you need a good hustle, great looks, and OVARIES to stick to your guns and not let people break you, not the customers, dancers, or staff.
Lotte
01-12-2012, 12:24 PM
Personal observations ...
- prior to the 9/11/2001 induced economic downturn, with the exception of a handful of so-called strip clubs that specialized in 'extras', dancers offering sex acts of any sort in 'mainstream' strip clubs was never an issue. It simply wasn't done.
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As to girls choosing to offer 'extras' being DUMB, that's clearly a matter of perspective. From one viewpoint, if the girls don't have problems with the concept of sex for money, this is guaranteed money ! From another viewpoint, the industry which was comprised of respected performers providing a 'fantasy' that I originally joined has, with rare exceptions, now transitioned to an industry primarily comprised of of poorly respected girls providing actual sex for money. Personally speaking, this NEW industry is not something that I can be a part of.
Hi all, jumping in here because this brings up a question I've had. Do you guys feel that this is the permanent direction all SC's are headed in -- ie. rife with extras and, at the very least, expected heavy-contact lapdancing (touching breasts, butt, kissing, hard grinding) as the norm for lapdancing? Or do you think that it could be part of a cycle, or something that will turn around when (if? :O ) the economy does? I ask because I hear people talking about when SC's were largely (only?) air-dance clubs or purely stage shows. I wonder how and why this changed, and if these changes are permanent. That's probably a whole 'nother convo though.
crystalize
01-12-2012, 02:06 PM
I wish!! But I doubt it... Just today I thought: I love my job but if it does get any worse, then eventually I won't be able to do it anymore. I think once men are used to this it can't get better. Maybe if laws changed (or were enforced more) , extras would become less, but I think then we will have even less customers..
Sophia_Starina
01-12-2012, 07:56 PM
Hi all, jumping in here because this brings up a question I've had. Do you guys feel that this is the permanent direction all SC's are headed in -- ie. rife with extras and, at the very least, expected heavy-contact lapdancing (touching breasts, butt, kissing, hard grinding) as the norm for lapdancing? Or do you think that it could be part of a cycle, or something that will turn around when (if? :O ) the economy does? I ask because I hear people talking about when SC's were largely (only?) air-dance clubs or purely stage shows. I wonder how and why this changed, and if these changes are permanent. That's probably a whole 'nother convo though.
Yep. It's permanent unless laws change. Who wants an air dance when they can see one on the internet for free? Without contact, stripping is a glorified webcam-show.
Wondering why things got so "touchy-feely-grindy"? THE INTERNET. That's why.
Thank Al Gore for that one... LOL.
Lotte
01-14-2012, 01:18 AM
Good points! I can definitely see the problem where customers come in with the attitude of "well, I've got the money...what are you going to do for it?" Instead of "you've got a dance for me, I'd like to see it, here's my money!"
Bbvsla
01-14-2012, 11:24 PM
I would say 8 times out of 10, when a champagne room is used, it is used for extras. I feel very, very confident saying this.
True. I started working at this club a while ago. Back then it was busy, so I was selling VIPs and bottles left and right.. so manager called me over to talk face to face, and he was like "so how much do you charge for a blow job?".. needless to say, i was speechless and he totally caught me off guard.. Cuz a week before we talked and i was kinda making fun of customers who think that we do sexual favors in a strip club and he was like "yeah yeah youre right".. wtf?? I thought they had cameras there, so that he would know that I didn't suck dick ? And yes, hoes do a lot of extras at that club.. It was really hard to compete sometimes .. Like when customer says "hey i just got blow job upstairs, can i find somebody to go with to my hotel room for a full service?".. or some dude showed me condoms saying "hey this time i came prepared" and went upstairs with one of the hoes..
gypsydancer
01-18-2012, 08:17 PM
thanks goodness for strict baptist-y rules in nashville
(i am not saying it doesnt happen here but its not as common)
Anastasia Foxx
01-18-2012, 08:22 PM
thanks goodness for strict baptist-y rules in nashville
Back before the 3 foot rule went into effect in Nashville, I was working at the Deja Vu there and lemme tell ya, when the Baptist National Convention came to town, we BANKED because they would ALL come in after being holy rollers all day, and they were NOT playing Captain Save-a-Ho.
But back then, it was hard to get away with extras at Deja Vu. If you wanted extras, there were other clubs . . .