View Full Version : Super Sad and I think this is goodbye
GlamourRouge
12-26-2011, 08:36 PM
And second of all, how did you make the jump to 'anyone who gives this advice must not be trying to be helpful at all and are obviously giving this advice because they are trying to scare new girls off because they are threatened that they are going to steal their customers?' That is the part truly baffles me.
EXACTLY. No, most of us giving advice are pretty established & pretty busy to the point where new girls don't even really affect us. What we are actually trying to prevent are the Shelley Lubbens who come into the industry for all the wrong reasons, or blame the industry for something they found out later, and then give us all a bad name.
LeahBabii
12-26-2011, 09:13 PM
There's thousands of other girls that cam, now why would we try to instill fear to scare away a few girls? Really... We compete against thousands do you think we would care that much about a few new girls joining the industry. ::)
I don't think some people can handle our honest opinions/advice.
HaydenBlue
12-26-2011, 09:20 PM
It's not all dildo's and rainbows, like another girl on this board once said.
A lot of girls here want to put up blinders and stick there fingers in their ears and "lalalalala" through life. There are some very real downsides - short term and long term, to this job and being a part of this industry.
Why is it that some of you can't take reality??? ::)
AnaisaLovely
12-26-2011, 09:22 PM
Thank you for all the input EVERYONE! It has been really helpful when it comes to my decision making. :-)
la petite sexy
12-28-2011, 02:31 PM
Um I have family members that just adopted a child and they only paid two or three hundred bucks. They don't have lots of money and there was no agency involved. Maybe some agencies are like puppy mills?? That's probably not the best comparison but that's what came to mind. I don't think your past will keep you from giving a child a loving home unless your past included some sort of abuse.
cherryblossomsinspring
12-28-2011, 08:15 PM
Well yeah, u got me there lol....we are talking about nursing lol...Now that I think about it, vanilla careers aren't ready for us lol...Not too long ago I remember a teacher was suspended because he used to do gay porn while in college...The parents and tv reporters were horrible towards him when they found out, I felt so bad for him...Most likely, he probably lost his job. I keep forgetting we're supposed to be the "bad guys"
Actually they probably would have done the same thing if they found out he was just gay. Gay men teaching children is usually frowned upon since many believe these men may either "teach their kids to be gay" or are pedophiles. It's a view that people still feel to this day. So his gay porn popping up just made matters worse.