View Full Version : Guide to picking up hot guys in bands?
anouk.oui
12-29-2011, 08:39 PM
i cant believe im feeling nervous. i was never good at 'hustling' hot guys
i forget who i am why im there and turn red and giggle. maybe i should post in hustle hut lol
OJenni!
12-30-2011, 02:07 AM
I have never dated a musician. I find guys in bands like the "idea" of women who know how to play instruments, but rarely date them/take them seriously.
I am a musician, I play the violin and the guitar. I also know harmonica. I can somewhat play the piano, albeit not that well.
I can't tell you how many times I have had guys tell me I am hot because I play music and enjoy it in the sense of musicianship, yet date girls who don't have a clue what a note is.
anouk.oui
12-30-2011, 06:27 AM
I dont know much about music does tha mean im in? Lol
anouk.oui
01-01-2012, 03:42 AM
im not exactly disappointed because i had a great NYE but it didnt involve sex unfortunately.
we got to the gig and stood in the front and he kissed me from the stage infront of everyone then my friend and i just danced like sluts in the front row. was good we were probably the only hot ones there it was like a 50s club with a bunch of fat older chicks squished into polyester 50s dresses giving us death stares.
we were pretty wasted just chilling on the balcony floor with booze and his singer kept eyeing us off [and went home with some ugly fat chicks]
so finally my little fuckdoll rocks up saying hes been backstage this whole time coz hes coming down from amphedamines or something n he has a massive headache and cant like do anything or say anything n he looks n feels like shit.
so we make out for awhile then he gets a ride with someone saying hed love it if i crawled into bed with him later for cuddles but hell prob be a grumpy cunt so im like whatever my friend n i just go back to my house and we spent like the best day at the beach with cider.
im not too fussed. im thrilled my partying wild side is finally coming back after years of repression so with same friend were scouting some good parties with rock gods we can fuck. if this guy wants to hang thats cool if not thats cool hes cute but i dont care heaps. sure i wished i got to have sex with him but id rather a great day at the beach than the possibility of bad sex and nursing his hungover ass. HENCE WHY I DONT WANNA DATE ONE
OliveJardin
01-01-2012, 05:00 AM
i it was like a 50s club with a bunch of fat older chicks squished into polyester 50s dresses giving us death stares
^Lol, thanks for the mental image-that made me giggle! I'm glad you have reconnected with your inner wild child, it must have been great to have a fun carefree night out after all the times your ex put you through. I'm looking forward to painting the town red with you when I get back }:D (but I'll have to be your wing woman/shot girl cause rocker boys aren't ma thang:P)
anouk.oui
01-01-2012, 05:15 AM
shot girl? LOL
hurry up already. were gonna be scouting for some nite outs in the meantime and drag u kickin n screaming
u got the dress u wanted?
haha i left the house i felt so naked without my garters coz the only time i ever do myself up and look good n wear heels is at the club i was like shit missin something... garters? garters.
also i danced like a stripper in the moshpit the whole time. especially to cherrybomb- the runaways [intermission]
OliveJardin
01-01-2012, 05:26 AM
shot girl? LOL
hurry up already. were gonna be scouting for some nite outs in the meantime and drag u kickin n screaming
u got the dress u wanted?
^I'm happy to go out with you guys and dance/drink etc-my vag' is happy enough atm to help your's get some attention :P. But, if it becomes a regular thing-we gotta hit up some non, er, "alternative" establishments pour moi ::). Meh, the shops haven't been open here over the NY period so I haven't bought it yet. And to be honest, I don't know if I'll have the time for shopping ;).
anouk.oui
01-01-2012, 05:58 AM
im not going to the ivy if thats what youre asking lol
fine but for it to become a regular thing, we have to successfully attempt it a few times first dont u agree :D
besides theres regular clubs with the alt ones as well full of 18 year old squealing teenagers with their box hanging out sure we can go there if u insist...
anouk.oui
01-01-2012, 06:03 AM
dammit i just want one hot steamy night of fucking with this dude whyyy why so hard ?
just one session and then i can like move on. AHH
OliveJardin
01-01-2012, 06:07 AM
im not going to the ivy if thats what youre asking lol
fine but for it to become a regular thing, we have to successfully attempt it a few times first dont u agree :D
^Ha ha ha, no I don't want to go there. Just not always to gigs that's all::).
A few successful attempts first? How long have you known me-1st time lucky ;)
Aw, I feel kinda guilty that I accidentally haz penis & you didn't :'(.
anouk.oui
01-01-2012, 07:12 AM
no not always gigs i mean like alt clubs n shit are also good or just generally clubs that are not populated by suits or dickbag surfies.
wat dont feel guilty besides you broke up with your bf first you deserve first penis
but because i broke up like 3 months after you i feel the universe has to set the imbalance straight by impending penis avalanche.
OliveJardin
01-01-2012, 05:59 PM
no not always gigs i mean like alt clubs n shit are also good or just generally clubs that are not populated by suits or dickbag surfies.
wat dont feel guilty besides you broke up with your bf first you deserve first penis
but because i broke up like 3 months after you i feel the universe has to set the imbalance straight by impending penis avalanche.
^Ha ha, that made me laugh (no suits >:(?! *snarls*)!
anouk.oui
01-01-2012, 06:34 PM
Not sexually attracted to suits. And i dont need a husban yet lol
anouk.oui
01-02-2012, 04:37 AM
i neeeed to have sex soon otherwise im going to go crazy......
and now im starting my period so i have to wait, AGAIN
OliveJardin
01-02-2012, 04:35 PM
And i dont need a husban yet lol
^That was the furthest thing from my mind;)
anouk.oui
01-03-2012, 01:02 AM
they have a gig again next week!
great now i wont be able to sleep for another week
AND i have to go shopping
we are dedicated fuckin groupies alright
OliveJardin
01-03-2012, 09:51 AM
^Go to that Biatch Clothing shop or hit up Wheels & Dollbaby :P
anouk.oui
01-03-2012, 06:46 PM
Encouraging me to go to.w&d.... im contemplating a dress from there or my super short ed hardy sparkly dress
4everresolutions
01-05-2012, 08:25 PM
this is slutty enough for the gig right?
http://img406.imageshack.us/img406/151/photo85t.jpg
Reading through this thread, this is the furthest I've gotten, but I just had to post.
HAHAHAHA! Fucking love you Anouk!!!! Awesomely hot outfit.
anouk.oui
01-06-2012, 07:36 AM
Hah thnx its not like it got me anywhere fucking druggie musos... oh well try #2 in a week. Otherwise i pick up someone else this is BULLSHIT
anouk.oui
01-07-2012, 09:16 AM
i really just want to see him or talk to him coz its like we have awkward sex nd then he has a bad gig night and well i wanna be fuckin him nxt fri
but im 'playing hard to get' otherwise known as 'not texting every day till h thinks youre a stalker n gets turned off'
BUT i wanna txt him so bad. its been a week, think im good
BAH
gonna be the longest work week ever till the gig on fri
its gonna kill me i swear
OliveJardin
01-10-2012, 06:10 AM
but im 'playing hard to get' otherwise known as 'not texting every day till h thinks youre a stalker n gets turned off'
^Hm, you failed at not texting him, didn't you ::)?
If he "casually" sleeps with one girl at a time as you have said, has been affectionate towards you in public, i.e. his last gig, after you've slept already together, has invited you home even though sex wasn't on the cards (due to his hangover etc) then he is obviosuly interested in you as a FB or a FWB. So, seeing as you guys have hung out/hooked up before I don't see why you can't text him a booty call (that's not stalking lol) :).
anouk.oui
01-10-2012, 08:05 AM
ive done pretty good actually. after i didnt speak to him for awhile i thought id fb message him a 'cant wait to watch you play again sxc guitar boy' and he was then like comeovercomeovercomeover now or afterwork whenever so that got me heaps excited apart from the fact that i fucking ran out of credit when i told him on fb ill txt him after work so i had to txt from someone elses fone who left before i could check it so now im home and im fuckin pissed! thank fuck about their gig on fri im going mental here
anouk.oui
01-11-2012, 08:52 AM
he really fuckin sucks at checkin his phone. he wanted me to come over after work again tonite and then 'forgot' to txt me i confirm so im just gonna ignore him on fri and flirt with everyone else. HOW HAVE I ANGERED THE PENIS GODS IVE NO IDEA SOMEONE TELL ME
anouk.oui
01-12-2012, 07:42 PM
gig tonight!
im only excited for the cheap jagerbombs at this point
anyway
groupie outfit:
http://img580.imageshack.us/img580/3308/p1012433.jpg
OliveJardin
01-13-2012, 10:29 PM
^Lol, very "you" (is that the Leg Avenue top I gave you slutmuffin :P?)!
anouk.oui
01-13-2012, 11:42 PM
yupp
and it worked!
cant remember half of it trust me... we went from one happy hour to the next and things got reaally fucking messy.
BUT i did go back with him and we had a nice drunken time sitting around smoking and spooning and a lot of fucking. i totally felt very rockstar-ish.
the sex was actually really good this time. hes addictive, we cant keep our hands off each other for a second and went for it several times that night and in the morning too. or we never stopped to sleep. im not sure. cant even describe it. sure he tried to dodge the condoms again and pound me till my vagina fell out though. but the second we stop fucking i totally just crave mooooore
:p
the very obvious walk of shame wasnt fun though. so i walked home and crossed city in that outfit, now i just bathed so i dont smell like filthy dirty pub and can prepare to bus it back to the city with my workbag and actually work and its like faaaark sooooo unkeeeeeeeen
OliveJardin
01-15-2012, 08:10 AM
yupp
and it worked!
^I knew you would pull it off (er the top...not him-you dirty minded person *rolls eyes*) lol ::)
anouk.oui
01-15-2012, 08:26 AM
think i pulled them both off pretty well actually
then i wore the top to work the next night.... just so i can smell it to remind me of the filthy whore that i am :P
anouk.oui
01-15-2012, 08:35 AM
im just gonna stick this where i can see it
http://www.marieclaire.com/sex-love/dating-blog/casual-sex-tips-no-strings-attached
[thats what she said]
anouk.oui
01-26-2012, 10:36 PM
slutty outfit weekly blog continued :P
gig tonight at a filthy ass rock bar
http://img341.imageshack.us/img341/6791/photo93d.jpg
le cute?
JayATee
01-27-2012, 08:43 PM
All I'm gonna say is oy you poor thing... not judging in any way, just speaking from my own personal experiences. The band/rock star thing gets old...
anouk.oui
01-27-2012, 09:13 PM
i feel like it just did already.
i dont wanna feel like im hustling outside work especially for something that may or may not happen... baahhh
JayATee
01-28-2012, 02:19 AM
^That might mean you just got lucky and you get to keep your soul. ;)
anouk.oui
01-28-2012, 02:42 AM
Tell me more.... now im curious
OliveJardin
01-28-2012, 10:07 AM
^You NEED & DESERVE sooo much more than this "man" is willing or even able to give you (& I'm speaking in purely FWB/FB terms). Unless you enjoy having your kitty roughly pounded, not even to the point where you climax twice a month ::)?!?! You really, really deserve a real, but still HOT (not a hairy, yucky cave type man lol), man to tend to your lady flower-not a long, blond haired, girl's clothes wearing guy that thinks he's "god's gift" just because he can hold a tune & fit into a lady's size 10 leather pants at the same time (aus' sizes btw lol). If you wanted that-you could have just gone home with me instead me lol :P (jks)!
anouk.oui
01-28-2012, 10:26 AM
hahahahaa i love you olive
he really didnt make a great impression on you did he?
WHERE & HOW im all about keeping my options open but you know how i hate being social n talking n stuff i dont know how im gonna pull someone who posesses qualities you mentioned, or even like someone whos not him
the only 'men' i meet are either customers or gay boys at school.
im just gonna chalk up these experiences to researching and improving ideas for my clothing label. but im hoping to get laid out of it!
anouk.oui
01-29-2012, 03:48 AM
i think i need a great night at work for a money induced ego boost. i feel reeeally exhausted today. been having shit nights n custys at work so hustling them then going out to the pub and hustling my fuckdoll really just drains me soo much mentally, emotionally whatever.
men are weird i dont know whats going on i just want sex dammit!
i hope i dont start second guessing myself soon. i thought if i dumped my loser ex all my problems will be gone but it seems like i just exchanged one set of complications for another.
im frustrated and pissed off and im gonna get my period soon so i cant have sex for another week if i tried.... baahhhhh
aussiebelle
01-29-2012, 05:08 AM
im frustrated and pissed off and im gonna get my period soon so i cant have sex for another week if i tried.... baahhhhh
get some sea sponges girly ;)
anouk.oui
01-29-2012, 05:10 AM
i may as well just keep venting here. kinda feel bad for taking up the entire bitchwhinecomplain thread.
i wanna vent somewhere bout being angry, sad, frustrated, impatient, horny, disappointed...... most of them generally having to do with my life at its current state but also with my fuckdoll and i dont wanna post on facebook or hes gonna know its about him and i dont wanna give him the satisfaction.
im still trying to uphold this image that i dont give a fuck what he does or whether he takes me home or not coz i have far more important things going on when on the inside im like teeeext meee callll me fuuuuuck meeee
YES I SOUND PATHETIC
im so sick of going out
i hope to find someone else to sleep with soon coz this kind of overanalysing/thinking aint healthy
and neither is all the junk shit im eating because of it
anouk.oui
01-29-2012, 05:13 AM
get some sea sponges girly ;)
im worried itll be weird/embarassing
besides if i get stood up on my period..... there will be a bloodbath.... apart from the obvious
JayATee
02-01-2012, 09:45 AM
Tell me more.... now im curious
I've been dating guys in bands forever. I was married to one for 10yrs. The truth is that while I still love him to death... there's a lot of bs that goes on behind the scenes and it's a hell of a lot easier to keep your sanity if you keep your distance. There's plenty of other places to find a good time (and great sex).
anouk.oui
02-02-2012, 09:34 AM
^ ditto that. i need a simpler soul.
he asked me over yesterday to 'chainsmoke in bed' so i was like fuck yeahhh gonna get laid but he ended up telling me his problems / life story, then cooking for me, playing some gay ass love songs on guitar n cuddling to sleep. and i didnt even show up to work for that. so i rostered on the next day. but still. last time i was over at his, we ended up fucking like 4 times in a night and now this shit?? i feel like a total dude sayin this but i kinda feel ripped off. i was over for over a day and we just cuddled n did couple shit and made out / fooled around a bit. but no sex. and hes going to the .u.s in a month so if he wants to initiate anything this time would be the worst to start.....
he does he not know aaahhhhh
so now i guess im pretty upset. i dont even know if he knows who i am to him or wat he wants. yesterday n today was like a cross between friend, fuckdoll and gf treatment n im confused n want sex!!
im glad i went to work. its my ex's bday so i was kinda sad, kinda confused and well when life hands you shots, you dont question it right??
anouk.oui
03-04-2012, 04:09 AM
oh no no no NOO im catching feelings for him
and this wont end well
my bestie who slept with him in the past just told me a bunch of shit that makes me freak out
long stories to unfold
but ill post em once its generating interest. its an old thread now, prob no one gives a shit anymore
im on a rollercoaster and dancing a fine line between freedom and ecstasy and seriously getting hurt again.
im so stupid!
anouk.oui
03-04-2012, 05:25 AM
i feel so stupid i knew this was gonna end bad, i should really distance myself and not talk / see him but whenever were together i just feel sooooooo gooooood
feels like a trap
crap with delicious mancandy
i dont know at what point to start saying no
JayATee
03-06-2012, 02:45 PM
i feel so stupid i knew this was gonna end bad, i should really distance myself and not talk / see him but whenever were together i just feel sooooooo gooooood
feels like a trap
crap with delicious mancandy
i dont know at what point to start saying no
When you start thinking this way, you've long past that point.
anouk.oui
03-06-2012, 04:31 PM
Ahhhhhh fuuuuuuuckkk ^
Guess well see how we go
anouk.oui
03-06-2012, 04:46 PM
Ahhhhhh fuuuuuuuckkk ^
Guess well see how we go
anouk.oui
03-15-2012, 01:25 AM
love the rockstar factor, hate the fact it comes with touring.
he hasnt even been gone for a week and i miss him. and i know hes gonna do all the drugs and fuck everyone there. but it doesnt bother me hes fucking them, but it bothers me that hes not here to fuck me!
4 more weeks to go =\
hope my back up penis comes back from his coastal holiday next week so i can forget about feelings and shit and fuck him till fuckdoll comes back.
i just wish i was doing super exciting and time consuming things that wont give me time to think. time to throw myself into another project.
*sigh* so did not sign up for this
anouk.oui
04-09-2012, 02:03 AM
boyohboy do i have story for you guys...
okay so when fuckdoll was touring in the states he used to email me and facebook msg/chat with me all the time [several times a week] about how much he misses/loves me and how he cant wait to come back and see me etc etc.... and inconjunction with that, he also started scarcely posting statuses about how he misses his ex gf [17 yr old chick who lives in germany and doesnt want anything to do with him] and how he thinks about her everyday and wishes she would talk to him...... so next time he tried to be all cutesy on chat telling me how excited he was to hop on the plane soon and see me in 12 hrs i was like sorry you have the wrong person my names not *insert exs name* and went offline, then i get a msg saying shes his best friend and they havent spoken in months and it makes him sad.....
and im thinking this is bullshit....they broke up like 2 months ago and she wont talk to him i doubt theyre even friends. either way i needed him to tell me he missed me not her and he didnt so i was aloof and cold with him since then. im sick and tired of constantly being played by this guy [if youve been reading you know...]
it just so happens that myself and my friend were staying in his room for the month he was touring and i [got tricked into] taken some acid the night before he came back.... so when he got back i was still high, basically stood there, looked at him said hi and ignored him for the rest of the day [i felt awkward coz of the ex thing plus i got distracted by shiney things] and he started asking people why i wasnt talking to him or is everything okay. he basically pretended like nothings happened since he left and everyone should be jumping on him and kissing his ass regardless of the things hes done coz hes the rockstar of the house and back from tour. i waited for him to talk to me about the ex thing coz the vibe was awkward and all. didnt happen. i just sat there drinking wine and listening to him play guitar the night he got back coz we couldnt sleep and i gave him a long hug and kissed him but he didnt really seem to be feelin it.....
just so happens my friend i was sharing with was gonna meet up with this hott nikki sixx lookalike guy and his drummer after work on sat and she told me to come party with them after work. [bit of backstory: i first met them when i was 18 and been wanting to fuck the drummer ever since he is one of the most attractive men ive ever seen.. and like all sydney bands he knows and has hung out with my fuckdoll and his band heaps] so after we hung at the strip club my friend worked at [she bought them drinks and a dance to make sure they come home with us.....apparently shes been wanting to fuck one of them for several years as well and tonight was the night it all comes together]
we drag the boys back
at like 5am everyones drunk as fuck and my friend and i decide to put on our stripper outfits and decide the boys should give us lapdances which they do, which turns into making out etc
my friends date passes out whilst getting his dick sucked so we roll him off the bed [the one bed we have, fuckdolls bed] and my friend sleeps in the other half of the [double] room. and i get to fuck the hottest drummer in the WORLD in fuckdolls bed.
he was sooo hott and so good!
but at 7am we pass out also, us naked in fuckdolls bed, my friend and her date naked on the floor LOL
in the morning my friend stumbles out into the kitchen, runs into fuckdoll, tells him shes just waiting for everyone to get up and hes like whos everyone?
when she tells him apparently he looks like he just got slapped in the face. then he takes out his guitar, plugs it into his amp on the loudest fucking setting, and proceeds to strum playing some angry fucking song, looking angry as fuck. at 10am. who does that srsly?
he spends the day being really awkward and quiet and weird and gives me this 'i love you and you just stomped on my balls' puppy look the whole day. then tries to accuse the boys of stealing his weed [which surprise surprise turns up an hour after they leave]. then sees me giggling with my friend in the kitchen and whispering about getting some, he storms off to his room and slams the door. still no words, no questions from him just acting weird and angry. so i ignore this, i have nothing to explain, im not dating him and theres no way he just toured a month overseas without getting his dick wet so why should it be a problem that i sleep with one person?? especially since hes apparently still in love with his ex??
so after an afternoon of being quietly stared at, at night again he sits in the part of the loungeroom thats the closest to our door, plugs guitar in the amp loud on setting 'loud as fuck' and proceeds to play the most miserable, depressing song ive ever heard, and singing along to it for 2 hrs [until my friend goes outside and gives him this 'wtf' look and he tries to blame it on not knowing which room hes gonna sleep in so hes waiting for the people to come back...... but we all know thats bullshit] couldnt make out the words. ive been outside once or twice to head to the kitchen and caught him staring at me with the same 'i love you and you just stomped on my balls' puppy look as before.
but didnt speak nor did he ask me anything about last night. ignored him. im now at home.
so on one end i feel totally awesome for having hot sex with this awesomely hottt guy ive been dying to lay for years as well as doing it right infront of fuckdoll to make him jealous and feel bad for all the times he fucked me around this year and toyed with my emotions as he strung me alongside 53964739 other women whilst making me feel special. the other end i kinda feel guilty coz ive never seen him have such a strong reaction for anything before but i dont know if its coz he actually really likes me like he said or coz i bruised his ego....and violated his bed.
SO
YEAH
i wonder if i get a song written about me......