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SuperTease
01-13-2012, 07:51 AM
What the hell? mr. daniel? omg .... lol
Someone really stucks at this...
damn.
Can`t believe this page is real.. hahaha

unbeleavable
01-13-2012, 08:56 AM
Have you by any chance been spending a lot of time at this website http://www.mrdanielshypnosis.com/ ?

Yeah..the creator of that site definitely needs Medz & Counselling while we are dosing...

SlutGoddess
01-14-2012, 11:23 AM
The OP isn't a troll. We used to be members of the Steve Pavlina Self Development Forum before it got closed down (RIP). SG you've raised this issue numerous times over at SP, and between this forum and the the other forum you've had at least 100 members give you great advice/suggestions, you're still not satisfied with any answers and you're still at square one. I don't know what you're looking for but I honestly don't think anyone's gonna give you an answer you'll be satisfied with at this point.

You're right. I need to stop asking this question and go ahead with the advice you gave on the SP forum: to be a high priced call girl and retire when I'm 50. I don't know why I asked this question again. I just have no idea how to go about making my this happen so that why I'm stuck in first gear and looking for alternatives like working at a non-profit which focuses on sexual health which no one suggested on the SP forum because people there tended to give bad advice.

SlutGoddess
01-14-2012, 11:45 AM
Did you not read what I wrote? I said I snapped out of it.


I'm guessing you've never known anyone dealing with this addiction. What is wrong is not "liking sex" - everybody likes sex. The problem is the addiction process that leads the person to constantly search for a bigger and better high, which creates all sorts of problems and can mean putting oneself in increasingly unsafe situations with random people.

When fucking goes beyond just a healthy part of your life and becomes a crutch, when it becomes "all you care about", safe sex with one person becomes boring real fast, ditto for 3-somes or group sex with people you trust. Before she knows it she's banging people she barely knows with little concern for her own health or personal safety. I actually knew a girl who had reached a point where "her thing" was to pick up random dudes in public and fuck them within 10 minutes. In her car, at his place, in a public area, condom or not, it didn't matter. Everything else had become too vanilla. She was robbed and beaten up badly twice before she finally realized she needed help.

Another huge problem is personal relationships. Other girls tend to shun these women because they don't want "Blowjob Becky" hanging around their boyfriends or guys they're interested in. Men also tend to treat them like pieces of meat not worthy of any kind of relationship. All this takes a toll on the person's self-esteem and leads them to act out even more, which of course worsens their image. It quickly becomes a downward spiral.

As Jay pointed out, sex addiction sounds glamorous and edgy, but when you actually know people who've dealt with it, you realize it's a pretty dark and depressing place to be in.

SlutGoddess
01-14-2012, 11:49 AM
Did you not read what I wrote? I snapped out of it. Sex isn't the only thing I care about.


Generally all men want to get laid that's just how it is. Yes I understand that women get a bad rap for wanting it in the same fashion generally because we are taught just the opposite. Parents are not handing their daughters condoms and telling them to go get it. We typically get told to wait, save it, don't get used, etc etc. If you're ok with getting out there and having it like men do then why do you care what other people think? Funny thing though is that they even have their own thoughts about women that give it up even if it's exactly what they want. You say something about meds so perhaps sex is a way for you to channel something that's part of the bigger picture.

^ This last part is why people would feel that your behavior is not normal for a woman especially if you have a problem where you're using sex to avoid some deep seated issues. So it's not really about everyone accepting that you "just love sex". It's really about you using sex to deal with a bigger problem. So in other words you have a problem. That's nothing different than someone saying " I love drugs" yet they are using drugs just to get through the day to numb out their "REAL" problems.

So again do what you feel makes you deal with your issues but you love of sex really sounds like you have a problem. Which is why you're getting "society's" wtf is wrong with her vibe. The bottom line is there is something wrong with you and sex is your way to deal. Same thing when people see that coked out girl drooling on herself in the corner. She was all fun when she was ready to f*** in the back booth being so high, but after the guy gets off he sees her as a drug addicted dumb slut. In her mind she's telling herself " I just love drugs" but everyone can see a deeper issue that the girl in question has a problem.

Just realize I sounded like a broken record there. But you get it. Problem and how people deal with those problems differs greatly. You use sex as a way to deal so how is that anything different than the person that punches in walls to deal? Nothing. Both have problems. Now if you want to bank your problem then sure go for it. Escort, Sugar date ,Fetlife it and..DEAL. Just like being a ranging crack head people don't like dealing with someone else's addiction because it can roll over into their life. So you fuck everything and oops I fucked your bf and your father and ooh yeah I sucked your brother off? oops I just love sex? Not you just have a problem. So get the help you need which is why this community is here, to help. Talk about it and get deep into why this behavior is what you need to feel whole or whatever.

Or you can pretend everyone is just a damn prude and needs to get out there and enjoy dick the way you do. Either way if you're not careful it may catch you up. Typically another reason why we're taught differently is that woman are more susceptible to diseases and who wants to carry around some strangers offspring for 9 months, vomiting up food, getting fat all because " I just love sex". Trust that it could fuck up your whole life. But again DO YOU.

Djoser
01-17-2012, 08:58 PM
I'd go talk to somebody about this. I understand how powerful the urge can be, and the desire to keep satisfying the urge, trust me. But you can't let it run your life for you, or you won't have much of a life--and if you fuck too many of the wrong people, it could be a short one.

TurboHips
01-19-2012, 12:53 PM
nevermind

SlutGoddess
01-19-2012, 01:50 PM
I'd go talk to somebody about this. I understand how powerful the urge can be, and the desire to keep satisfying the urge, trust me. But you can't let it run your life for you, or you won't have much of a life--and if you fuck too many of the wrong people, it could be a short one.

I don't think sex runs my life. I run my sex life. I'm just highly sexual. I'm happy with my life. Thanks though.