View Full Version : Anal Sex and Effects
yyyrrrrtt
03-02-2012, 09:44 PM
make sure to stay off the pain killers, pain is a important signal! (e.g. slooooow down and use more lube)
BabyLove1981
03-02-2012, 10:00 PM
My Husband and I do anal. Pretty much every other night we cam. lol And I also offer it in my solo girl accounts (which is really easy because my toy is much smaller than him;)) I am 5'6 and about 117lbs. He is 6'1 180lbs and has a 9in thick cock. It actually used to a "special occasion" type of thing before we started camming. And to be honest with you the only way I can do with out much pain is in a standing doggy postion with one leg up. (which is great for camming cause we can get great zooms in) You can forget doggy. lol. OUr FIRST anal position that made it SOMEWHAT comfy for me what laying missionary. Either way you go. LUBE LUBE LUBE. LIke someone said above, to get YOU really in the mood, use clitoral stimili. Ane the one, two, 3 finger method. You have to get that thing prepared for that. lmao! And my man would NEVER let me stick anything up his ass! I also do a lot cleansing to get prepared for an "anal" night. My eating habits change for the day and everything. A lot of work goes into showing "anal" for money I belive IMO. I keep "FLEET Glycerin Suppositories" on hand to make sure there are no nasty mishaps on cam =P. I actually don't care to much for anal when it's just me and him and neither does he ANYMORE. lol Unless were getting paid. He used to always want anal beacause I never wanted it or gave it really. Now he appreciates the puss that much more lmao!!
BabyLove1981
03-02-2012, 10:03 PM
it helped get mentally ready and not all "omg he's going to stick in my but ok relaxrelaxrelax" which I think just made me even more tense. The most important thing to do is just go slowly and remember, if it hurts, STOP. This is NOT something you should "grit your teeth" through. It's totally normal to feel really weird and uncomfortable but sharp pain means you are going too fast!
^^Forgot this RELAX^^ and yes, booze helps lol
MissSeraphim
05-07-2012, 07:30 PM
Anal is safe if done right..and of course No double dipping! Always use a condom with anal sex. While it is rare there is a disease commonly referred to as "shit dick" the real name escapes me atm. Basically, if fecal matter gets in his urethra it can cause damage. Another good way to avoid that is enemas. Plus, if you don't use condoms for vaginal sex it's easy to whip off the condom after and he can please you the other way. Anal sex CAN feel good, it just takes time to get comfortable and "loosened up" Always relax. Being tense makes it horrific.
I think a good way to start anal is with either fingers or a toy.
My first time doing anal was fingers than his huge dick o.o It didn't hurt, it actually felt good after the uncomfort faded. TMI, But I seriously could not poop or barely fart for a week lol
I just recently got an anal toy and I like it. I don't often use it but now and then I like playing with the beads.
Pain is the sign you are doing it wrong and tearing might occur which is the main danger since fecal matter in the bloodstream is potentially..well lets just say really bad.
The only guy I've done anal with still will not let me do it for him...He's sucked my dildo off for me but won't let me put it in him.. So it's not a fear of being gay. I almost think it's because we were at a party with his friends and he just blurts out "So we had buttsex and..." *punched in the face* So I think he thinks maybe I'd do the same to him. Which I would never do. & Until now the other situation has never been said nor typed.
Intoxication does help lol the only times I ever find myself really craving anal is when I'm stoned (weed) or drunk. I do like it other times but those are the times I'd really ask for it.
crystalize
05-07-2012, 08:52 PM
let's just say that I've had some of those things happen to me where it says on wikipedia "physical damages" and it was pretty horrible. I've had to get surgery and I also only did it because my SO wanted it. That was years ago and I will never in my life agree to it again.
Flickdreams
05-08-2012, 06:00 AM
I like it on rare occasion when done right, but the next day when I go number 2 it feels like Green Ants are biting me round the Anus rim...... zeeee
Naida
05-19-2012, 08:35 AM
I don't like doing anal super often, but I effing love it when I do. (Usually around once or twice a month)
All physical activities can be potentially dangerous, including vaginal sex, but you still do them, right? Anal is no different. As long as you do it RIGHT, there are no problems for the typical person. I was emotionally traumatized away from anal for YEARS, but I enjoy it now because I worked my way to being more comfortable with it. Some suggestions-
Start solo. You know yourself and what you enjoy far more than anyone else. Incorporate anal into your masturbation. Those beginner kits you see in toy shops? Yeah, they totally work. Take it slow. Use lube, and lots of it, preferably a silicone base. When you're ready to go the mile and have fun with your SO, make sure YOU are in control of the situation. Go at your own pace. If you need to stop, then stop. Don't be embarrassed and don't apologize. Just move on to something you enjoy and try again later.