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roast
02-26-2012, 11:09 PM
[meow]
reading this is like watching a chipmunk try to slay a dragon with a butter knife.
sam is one of the few ppl with heavy name recognition who posts here regularly, most who are 'wellknown' (like not like "my cam score is over 8000 and I have 9K followers on twitter" well known, but "I have been on TMZ.com and am a top actress on hotmovies.com" wellknown) or are professional porn stars just post here for promo. her site's traffic rivals that of most medium-traffic cam sites. like her or no, she's giving up some tried and true tested & tested wisdom when she posts :shrug:
Sam38g
02-26-2012, 11:14 PM
Well for starters no one is hating on anybody here,
Just posting my observation on what seems to be a rude comment from her.
2. Sam you are not a BBW. all you have is big boobs, so you should not sit here and compare yourself to the hard working BBW's out there. IDK maybe you fit the big boob category or mature but not BBW
3. the only observation i made is the fact that you say other girls are no competition to you, so why are you bothering with checking up on what they are doing so much? Aren't you soo busy making money and taking all the customers? if you were then you would have no time to worry about another girls feet. Just my thoughts, not trying to be rude or anything.
4 the sad part is that this is a woman who is an idol to many, yet she hates on everybody
the rumor is that you down rate all the new girls videos. Now isn't that hating?
Bella
LOL I'm not a bbw. Some have accused me of that before, I weight 200 pounds.
Been camming 7 years now, major companies ask me to find them new models to shoot. I have helped other bbw's get shoots. So thus I have to check out other models,it's apart of my job.
Down rate what videos? Where? How? If your referring to PlumperPass, I dont have a membership or have ever voted once. NOT once... Now I can get the owner of that site to back me up on that one. Now, does he listen to my opinions personally? Yes Do I comment on the models to him? NOPE!
I fail to see how pointing out things I have noticed is rude. I did not point out any individual models. If you look MANY seem to agree with my observations.
Yes, I am a bbw
Yes, I am a big boob model
Yes, I am a Voluptuous model
Yes, I am a mature model.
Lucky for me, I hit many niches when I cam. Also I have worked hard for many years on marketing & my own site. Yes, I make money. Because I put in many many hours working hard with marketing & my brand.
Like me, hate me or love me- You do know my Name.
Smooches,
Sam
www.Samantha38g.com
maryjaynexo
02-27-2012, 01:28 AM
I'd like to thank everyone who is making useful contributions (especially Sam), and trying to keep this thread on topic. That said, I think whether you're a BBW or not, we're in the business of appearance, so of course things even as small as a little dirt on your feet might matter when the camera's on you. I think BBW is an awesome niche, and I also think constructive criticism is good for everyone. I also have another tip for BBW's just starting out: treat your curves just like you would the rest of you--make 'em pay to see your belly, boobs, thighs, or what have you. I don't flash in free chat but I've been asked so many times about my belly I'm just treating it like it's a pair of boobs :D haha. Keep the good responses coming, I want to see this thread stick around!
ClaudiaReina
02-27-2012, 01:58 AM
My advice to BBWs: be confident! If you're not, it will show, the custies will feel it and you won't earn that much. If you're ashamed that you're a BBW, get on a weight loss program. But being BBW is not an excuse for not making money:)
I also have a few things to say about justbbwcams. I had some great days there in January but I haven't put in the time since. I see girls consistently working there so I do think there's money to be made. I want to put in more hours this week and see how it goes. Obviously it's a splitcam site, not my main moneymaker but I do love it there. I love that the shows are almost always fetish oriented, nothing wrong with masturbation;D, but it's a nice change from time to time.
The freechat there is full of beggars with 0 chips. I don't really use the freechat, although I do think that girls who use it get more shows because you only can upload a few pictures and a very short introduction.
They had some technical problems, the site crashed on me 2 times during private with some server error message (I was beyond pissed) but they said it's fixed since.
I also used the forum part for getting my name out there, no luck with that.
OT: I thought it was common sense that you don't go out of your house with dirty anything - why would it be ok to broadcast yourself having dirty feet or hair for the whole internet to see? I thought it was common courtesy, BBW or not. Nobody wants to see oily hairs. We're talking about BBWs here so obviously, if someone wants to have a conversation about slim girls having dirty feet, she can open a thread about that but I don't see why would someone be offended that we're talking about BBWs in a thread called BBW Camgirl Thread. Of course other girls can have dirty everything too, but the subject here is BBW.
And of course there's a huge difference between wearing a cute PJ with cute natural look and having dirty feet or oily hair.
And about the age comment...Why would be someone so proud that she's young? Everyone will get to be 50,60,70,80+ eventually if they are lucky enough. Age is not a privilege that you can be proud of (unless you're 90+ and still fit), it's just a number that gets higher and higher every year. And 42? I sure hope I won't have to feel that I'm old at that age. As a matter of fact, I hope I won't have to feel old at any age.
Back to topic! And my grammar just isn't working when I'm tired so...:)
Truebebeblue
02-27-2012, 04:39 PM
I agree so hard. BBW niche customers are not trained correctly,If you have an elbow fetish I am not going to show you my elbows.
Just because the model may not think showing the belly is enough to sabotage themselves,they are cheating themselves out of money!
Your fat=the money shot!
I brought this up in the forum for JBC and was pooh-poohed by other models and even Boo,they think showing and jiggling gets more shows...
I rarely have men on SM beg repeatedly or sit in free for hours but it happens every time I am on JBC,even had guys from JBC
NOT ever buy a show but find me on SM (i have the same rate) and get a show...I don't understand...
I wish it wasn't so because the cut is better on JBC...
I'd like to thank everyone who is making useful contributions (especially Sam), and trying to keep this thread on topic. That said, I think whether you're a BBW or not, we're in the business of appearance, so of course things even as small as a little dirt on your feet might matter when the camera's on you. I think BBW is an awesome niche, and I also think constructive criticism is good for everyone. I also have another tip for BBW's just starting out: treat your curves just like you would the rest of you--make 'em pay to see your belly, boobs, thighs, or what have you. I don't flash in free chat but I've been asked so many times about my belly I'm just treating it like it's a pair of boobs :D haha. Keep the good responses coming, I want to see this thread stick around!
Truebebeblue
02-28-2012, 12:17 AM
Exciting update from JBC today! Got this in my Email... I will have to try this out!
Dear performers
We have listened to feedback regarding the amount of freeloaders in our rooms who join the site but never intent on buying chips. We have given this much thought and have come up with a system where the models can decide exactly who they allow in free chat. There are a few options listed below.
Allow all guests - This is the default setting and allows all guests to access your free chat room. No nudity allowed at all.
Allow only guests who have previously bought chips - This option checks every user trying to access your room to see if they have ever bought chips. If they haven't they will be prompted to buy chips before they can access your free chat room. Nudity rules are relaxed a little and you are allowed to be topless if you like.
Allow only guests who have a positive chip balance of 20 or more - This is the strictest filter and will only allow guests into your free room if they have 20 chips or more to spend. Again you can be topless which will help with the teasing.
t_plush
02-28-2012, 06:44 AM
I'm one to think there's opportunity anywhere, but my experience has mostly been on SM & MFC. I do rather well when I do show up, been practicing to be more consistent, like have some sort of a schedule. I have a hard time sitting still, so I move around and many times I'll dance to get them, as well as myself, going since I'm not much of a chatter. (That was almost funny...)
Anyway, what seems to work for me is just being myself, smiling and laughing a lot 'cuz I've got some sexy, goofy thing going on. I really love doing this work, one of the best gigs I've stepped into. When I'm caught up in getting the money, I become disenchanted with low tips/short shows and I get missing for a bit until I remember my love for the work. I basically use camming to promote my content, which I use mainly C4S, but I'm experimenting with MPP and ELM. ELM is really cool, just started that in Jan 2012; it seems to be offer many categories and the BBWs there seem to do alright, much like the other niche performers/providers.
As far as cam quality, I know that I prefer to watch someone I can see, plenty of light is awesome, of course, but I'll cam in low light, depending on what's going on with me. I find that I do just as well. If they want the lights on, then they can tip that up. Currently, I use the Pro9000, but I'm always shopping for better equipment, reinvesting for the time being until I'm satisfied. Scared money don't make money, so putting my profits back in this has to be done within reason and with the expectation that I'll make it back and more.
My cam gear is simple. I gather stuff from various places, mostly offline at like places such as Ross, TJMaxx (I'm a clearance deal magnet), and the second-hand store. My homegirls send me stuff too from where they are. I'm on a shoe-string budget, but I believe in me so I have no problems with accepting my friends' investments in my venture to boost my capital. Layering goes a long way...
That's my 2 cents for now. I'm going to sleep... :)
ClaudiaReina
02-28-2012, 07:16 AM
showing and jiggling gets more shows...
I just don't get this. I've missed that thread unfortunately, I would've agreed with you, that's for sure! If someone gets something for FREE, why would they pay for it? This is just beyond me. My belly clips always do great on C4S, meaning they are willing to pay for seeing just my belly and nothing else, no hardcore, nothing...So showing it for free? That's like showing pink for free imo.
And yes, I've seen that mail too, I was really happy, lol! Hallelujah, no more freeloaders just "wanting a chat". Update: no, it doesn't seem to help. Now instead of freeloaders with 0 chips there are freeloaders with 20+ chips. I guess they buy chips not with the intention of spending but with the intention of getting freebies from girls who think they will become paying custies. Show me this and I'll take you pvt...just tell me about your fantasy and I'll take you pvt...etc. I think I learned my lesson, I'll stick to private only.
"you can be topless which will help with the teasing" - I still don't get this. I am really willing to reconsider (anything that makes me more money), so maybe someone has more insight and can explain this issue? I just don't see the logic in giving so much away for free but maybe it really works better? I see girls staying topless on SM too so maybe it really helps? Someone?
ClaudiaReina
02-28-2012, 07:19 AM
I'm one to think there's opportunity anywhere, but my experience has mostly been on SM & MFC.
This is another topic I wanted to discuss in this thread. MFC and BBW. I've heard it's not the best for us there but it seems that quite a few BBWs make money on MFC. Anyone who wants to share their experience?
OJenni!
02-28-2012, 11:16 AM
This is another topic I wanted to discuss in this thread. MFC and BBW. I've heard it's not the best for us there but it seems that quite a few BBWs make money on MFC. Anyone who wants to share their experience?
Depends on how you define making money.
I will point out that I personally have never seen a BBW get in the top 20 on MFC. Getting in the top 20 on MFC is where you are making real bank over there based on what I have seen. I don't even think I have seen one in the top 100 over there, but I could be wrong. That said I have seen "curvy" girls make the top 20, but even they seem few and far between.
I am not quite a BBW, rather I am around size 10 which I consider to be curvy. If it helps, the most I have made in a single pay period on MFC was $700. That's like $350 a week, not exactly what I call banking. And that's the most I ever made over there. My last pay period (way back in October) I made a measly $180 and I would venture to guess I worked 30 hrs on there (split camming thank god. I personally could not live on $180 for 2 weeks of work).
Try searching BBW over there at any given time and you will see that the majority of their camscores are less then 1000. That really tells you something about their income.
LolaBohemia
03-02-2012, 07:37 PM
I've never made any decent money on MFC...ever. Even when I had my name as "CurvyLola" and mentioned in my topic that there's a thick girl online. Many were happy about it but NO ONE tipped. I got a few private shows. That site has just never worked for me much less any other sort of tipping site (even though I am trying out a new one now due to knowing the mods personally irl). I am floored by girls who make money there and would love to watch a model in her show that's doing well to see what I'm missing. I'm really interested in how this works for people.
I am still seeing a lot of girls who cam with crap cameras in dark places and don't interact. A lot of girls who start off on bbw niche sites are brand new to the whole thing and aren't real sure how to go about it. Luckily I had a sort of mentor that helped me a lot in the beginning of my "cam career" who was also a bbw camgirl. I think helping out other girls one on one when they first start is one of the best ways to help. Since then I've gotten way cuter clothes, have enjoyed dressing up and feel a sense of accomplishment at times.
The problem that I have been having lately, personally, is that I've been losing weight and don't really fit the typical mold. I am starting to feel uncategorizable. BBW site custies say I'm "too skinny" and regular Girl Alone sections of sites I get a lot of negative fat comments. Any thoughts about this?
Bellabbw
03-03-2012, 03:28 AM
helping out new girls, instead of tearing them down. Thank you Lola that is really cool to say.
jessycalove
03-03-2012, 05:28 AM
i know all the followers tear us apart if we have something to say. dont care if you a bbw with playboy no body is better than no body. fat is fat and guys know it. at the ending of the day coochie has no name and face all they want to do is tap that ass and bust a nut. how i control my room is my bussiness dont worry about my clients and how I dress at the ending of the day my bills are to be paid if i want to put a bucket on my head and cam don't care what other girls think WHY YOU IN MY ROOM i am camming for my guys.
helping out new girls, instead of tearing them down. Thank you Lola that is really cool to say.
jessycalove
03-03-2012, 05:49 AM
ohh by the way there is fetishes for dirty feet and fart fetish etc. just got fed up with the cam girl hate and i see it all the time on twitter and i unfollow all these girls dont want any part of them and the worst part these girls are the north american bbw on streamate. done with this c no use bella arguing with this topic to many followers will eat us up. going to make that money xox:P
ClaudiaReina
03-03-2012, 06:20 AM
The problem that I have been having lately, personally, is that I've been losing weight and don't really fit the typical mold. I am starting to feel uncategorizable. BBW site custies say I'm "too skinny" and regular Girl Alone sections of sites I get a lot of negative fat comments. Any thoughts about this?
Thanks for the inputs about MFC, it seems that it's not the best site for BBWs. To be honest I don't mind because I'm not sure I would do well there (I'm just too laid back for that site).
Lola, I'm glad that this has been brought up as I'm sure you're not the only one "not fitting in". I'm on the larger side of the BBW category so I fit in the category really well, however if I lose the weight I'd categorize myself as "curvy" if it's absolutely necessary. I mean if you're not trying to fit in the niche there's no reason to label yourself as BBW. They can see your photos, they know what they get. I'm sure everyone gets the nasty fat comments from time to time. If you continue to lose weight, you will completely leave the BBW category one day so it would make more sense to build regulars in the girl alone category. Or you can continue to work as a "smaller BBW" if you make more money that way. Your earnings will tell you what to do:) Congrats on your weight loss!
sydneyscreams
04-25-2012, 05:11 AM
Hi :) It's my first time posting, but I read through this thread first and now have a question.
Up until recently, I've been a strictly fetish clip (clips4sale) girl, but I've started camming every so often. I saw everyone saying not so fab things about MFC, but I was wondering if anyone had any experience doing voyeur cam on there either while filming clips or while doing household chores (cooking, cleaning, etc)? A while back I was on gold chat on SM with a girl friend of mine and we were just cooking/teasing, and we did really well!! I haven't gotten to the point of gold chat status on my SM yet, so I was wondering if anyone has had positive experiences essentially doing the same thing on MFC?
Also, wanted to add a few pointers that I've learned:
-if girls are worried about not having wardrobe and you're in the states, hit up Ross or Marshalls. Surprisingly, both have a great selection of cheap plus size lingerie (the Ross by me usually has up to 4x lingerie).
-Make a wishlist! Once a customer falls in love with you, they'll be ordering toys and sexy lingerie off your wishlist in no time!! It's anonymous (at least through amazon) so they never see your full address or your full name (if you don't want them to).
-Yandy.com has fairly decent pricing on plus size lingerie, and they have a HUGE selection. the stuff isn't always the best quality, but you get what you pay for.
CurvySweet
09-12-2012, 10:34 AM
Only just found this thread. It should be kept alive.
BlasianBytch
09-19-2012, 04:53 PM
I think BBWs just have to know when to block. There's no reason why you should take any more abuse than any other girl. I've had guys write me angry emails for kicking them. Oh well, I'm not going to be verbally abused for any amount of money.
I think you should strive to not look slovenly. You don't have to cake on make up, I for one use make up to enhance and look freshed face even if I'm running on 3 hours of sleep.
If you are ashamed of your body don't expect someone to pay to see it. If you can't act like your body is a treasure how DARE you charge people to see it.
kortneykay
11-15-2012, 05:07 PM
Hey ladies, how's it going in the bbw cam world? For those of you who are on allbbwcams how's the traffic. I just had Moshe re-set my account for me as I haven't been on since 09'. I've seen a few girls on at once like old times. I'll be hoping on cam today for the first time in 3 years. I'll be at 40% so hopefully there are some big spenders. I think NF, ABBWC, and AW will be my main gigs while I set up a site for indy work.
BlasianBytch
11-20-2012, 07:43 AM
I have never ONCE gotten anything from ALLBBW, The traffic just doesn't seem to be there. I find I do my best on Streammate. I actually don't even advertise to the BBW niche as much anymore. I'm an SBBW that doesn't have the "look" for it aka my belly doesn't hang and I'm for the most part fat all over not extreme in any one place.
Snowy0Star
11-20-2012, 03:48 PM
I've been at it for about a week now and I only stay on for 3 hours because thats about as long as I can take of this from the freeloaders and whatnot but between the tips and private shows ive been averaging out to about $10 a day on different sites right now im using live jasmin my free cams and x hamster i use using stream mate for a while but the host page is being bad i keep that cant load error or whatever please or retry or if it keeps happening contact customer service. i just moved so i might do that when i feel like dealing with it. but is this normal for a newbie bbw model or might i being doing something wrong and if anyone has tips or anything for me .
New here but I love u all already so much fun reading the threads and posting in some myself !
kortneykay
11-23-2012, 09:33 AM
Thank you ladies for responding. Ugh, I think not! I did about 1.5 hours the other week and had a bunch of free loaders. It's definitely changed considering I used to do pretty good there back in 09'. Also, my husband stalked, created an account came into my room, and called me while I was in my room. Like wtf, who does that? We were separated physically for 72 hours and this fool rushed by the house when he saw me on cam telling me how foine I looked and how hurt he was that I was talking and dressed provocatively in front of other guys. Like, seriously, he needs to get his life because I want out. Like, what a way to ruin my cam night.
I think I'm just going to stick to indy, AW, MPS and NF. SM sounds good, but I don't agree with their prices or the fact that they can do whatever they want with your info/media. I understand that you get more traffic there, so it makes up for the percentile, and I know that our media can and does sometimes end up all over but I think you have more control when it's indy or on non popular sites.
BlasianBytch
11-24-2012, 05:21 PM
Hey ladies! I tried asking this in the streamate thread, but I got no feedback. Are there any other Streamate bbws that have had some weird, kind of malicious people lately? By malicious, I mean they take you private for 31 seconds, and rate you one star. They take you exclusive without saying a word, and then leave before you've even finished saying "hello". When you go exclusive, it kicks the customers out and doesn't inform them when you return. Also, they come in party chat and start talking about how you're ugly, blah blah blah. Not worth your prices.... I've been on SM for almost 3 months, and this started about two weeks ago. I'm wondering if it's happening to everyone, and how you handle that. I don't like denying exclusive requests. I hate turning down that money *sigh*
Sadly you know know who is a bad apple until they pull some crap with you. If someone wants to talk shit in my room I kick them. You don't get your jollies for free.
VoluptiousBriadda
11-24-2012, 06:23 PM
Hey ladies! I tried asking this in the streamate thread, but I got no feedback. Are there any other Streamate bbws that have had some weird, kind of malicious people lately? By malicious, I mean they take you private for 31 seconds, and rate you one star. They take you exclusive without saying a word, and then leave before you've even finished saying "hello". When you go exclusive, it kicks the customers out and doesn't inform them when you return. Also, they come in party chat and start talking about how you're ugly, blah blah blah. Not worth your prices.... I've been on SM for almost 3 months, and this started about two weeks ago. I'm wondering if it's happening to everyone, and how you handle that. I don't like denying exclusive requests. I hate turning down that money *sigh*
Hey girl,Im a bbw on SM too-are you positive its them logging out and not SM or on your end?The reason i ask this is several times Ive had someone request exclusive,and before i can even check accept or not itll just automatically accept them.Sometimes Ive had that happen and then itll just kick the guy out all of a sudden to both our astonishment.Ive also had guys that i thought were the "silent" type that never said a word in private,which was fine,whatever,i just did my thing but then AFTER the private,all of their text would show up-and theyd be like "hey!wait!no!wtf?!why cant you see what im typing?!are you blind bitch?!hey!heeeeeeey!!!hello?!?!?!!" LOL yeaaaaa not fun.Ive had that happen twice now.Ive gotten 3 bad ratings,all of them have taken place in the last few wks that i was camming(i havent been on in over 3 wks,i got really sick and found out i have a disorder,so im like drained all the time) 2 of them were on the same day.talk about PISSED.i NEVER enable party chat,the few times i had it on i hated it.guys tend to feed off of each other and LOVE to show off,plus i cant hide how many ppl are really in my room or how many ppl really arent in my room.just wasnt worth it to me.I have only had to ban 3 guys so far for being rude out of the 3 mths ive been camming but i have noticed ALOT of girls on SM talking about getting bad ratings lately!go take a look at some of the other threads-you are sooo not the only one chick.someone mentioned astrology and mercury being in retrograde until the end of november and it causing ppl to be rude to everyone and misunderstand each other alot-i am seriously starting to really believe it,ive noticed this everywhere lately,even just around my town.try turning off your party chat and ban any cheap motherfucker who tells you you arent worth your prices,this aint walmart!and make sure you make a note of anyone that rates you anything less than a 5,i surely do,that way when they come back into my room,i ban them immediately!i may let a 4 slide,but i will talk to them about it the sec the come into my room.anything less than that is unacceptable and is absolutely ban worthy every time.
VoluptiousBriadda
11-24-2012, 09:40 PM
I think its a combination-there were ALOT of ppl not happy at all about the election results,atleast in MY state LOL (which got old quicklike) then add in that alot of ppl arent making alot of money or dont have jobs at all,and the holidays have now arrived...yea not a great recipe.i was really freaking out about the 3 bad ratings i got,but as soon as i got like one or two 5's,i went right back up to 5 stars lol so dont worry too much about the bad ratings,as long as you arent getting them AAALL day long,i think its all good babe.I had one guy that rated me a 1 simply bc HE didnt like what HE requested-he wanted forced bi but had never done it before,then 12 min in decided he didnt like it after all,logged out and rated me a 1! just make a note beside their name to ban and move on to the next ones.oh i,like all camgirls,also have had guys take me exclusive for 31 sec just to get shit for free,SO FAR none of them have rated me a 1 but there have been PLENTY of them that could have..they get pissed that you dont throw off your clothes,twirl them around your head and slam 4 dildos into your ass 5 sec after they come in.theyre thinking "damn her for catching onto my freeloading ways and knowing that she doesnt make any money the first 30 sec,now my feelings are hurt,im rating her a 1 mwahahahaha!thatll teach her to not give away everything for free!i feel big and strong and my penis is now hard from my impressive man skills" totally understand the gold show thing when its slow,i havent even asked for them yet,im so on the fence about them but thats one of the only things that makes me even consider doing them.I hope it gets better for ya chick!
VoluptiousBriadda
11-25-2012, 09:59 PM
ugh,dont even get me started lol i dont give a single damn thing away,theyre lucky if i stand up at all my entire shift lol what REALLY pisses me off/sickens/saddens me is the last time i logged on,the chick in the top bbw spot was charging 1.99 for exclusive! i almost fainted!! If i had a virtual pimp hand,I would have been in her room whoopin' a bitch so quick itd make your head spin lol these girls need to do some simple research- bbw is one of the most searched sexual terms out there.we have a HUGE following(lol yes i see the pun) but none of these girls seem to realize it! fat chicks was the 3rd most searched sexual feature according to a major study that analyzed over a billion sexually related search terms,I think age and big tits took the top two spots.another study,which analyzed the popularity of all "known" fetishes(which is obviously a ginormous amount-it was hundreds and hundreds of them)found that fat fetish ranked in at 7% of the overall fetish community.seems miniscule,laughable even,until they showed the results of the rest of them.Most weighed in at .01%-.5% of the fetish community.only the MAJOR fetishes such as foot fetish ranked ahead of BBW's.that right there was a major eye opener for me-and believe me,at times im still incredulous myself.its really hard to believe that there are guys into big chicks,when all you see and hear in the media and in life is how disgusting and unattractive we are.well,behind closed doors ladies and gents,it seems the guys beg to differ ;) KNOW YOUR WORTH LADIES AND CHARGE ACCORDINGLY!
BlasianBytch
11-25-2012, 10:15 PM
I had to kick so many guys tonight demanding stuff in free. One had the gall to say that "other girls do it", well those OTHER girls are not me. Just because I'm a BBW doesn't mean I'm starved for approval.
0TaraM
11-25-2012, 10:23 PM
I had to kick so many guys tonight demanding stuff in free. One had the gall to say that "other girls do it", well those OTHER girls are not me. Just because I'm a BBW doesn't mean I'm starved for approval.
Itīs not because you are BBW. They will say that anybody: other girls do it. Yes itīs true, there is always somebody who is show in free.. But not to show in free! If you show in free they get all they want in free and then leave. They wont pay! Same thing if they want you stand up, dance, show ass, feet.. They get that and leave wihtout paying!
VoluptiousBriadda
11-25-2012, 10:33 PM
^^ that shit gets sooo old,so quick(talking to Blasian,not 0TaraM lol).they take advantage of what society has hammered into us and everyone else,so they assume we have no self esteem and dont know our worth or that we are attractive and actually hot commodities to ALOT of men out there.Im starting to cam full time again after a mth break starting tmrw,and im coming in armed heavily with ban hammers.i dont have time for that shit anymore,those guys were draining all of my energy and happiness so im not gonna let that happen this time around.round 2!fight!
VoluptiousBriadda
11-25-2012, 10:39 PM
Itīs not because you are BBW. They will say that anybody: other girls do it. Yes itīs true, there is always somebody who is show in free.. But not to show in free! If you show in free they get all they want in free and then leave. They wont pay! Same thing if they want you stand up, dance, show ass, feet.. They get that and leave wihtout paying!
oh absolutely,completely agree! anyone whos read more than one thread on here knows that guys do this to EVERY type of camgirl,its one of the topics most ranted about in CC,hands down!pretty sure she didnt mean ONLY bbw's encounter beggars-just that freeloaders love to go off of the assumption that we have no self esteem and are therefore "easier",especially if other bbw's are giving it away for nothing..
BlasianBytch
11-26-2012, 05:56 PM
That's why I can't work weekends anymore. I try, but I just can't bring myself to put up with the bs. I sometimes show my booty, but I make them say please first. Not plz; please may I.... When I'm on weekends, I get the "Can you fuck a bedpost?" "Can you fist your asshole?" Um, nope, sure can't, but you totally go watch that girl you said will do it. I have a vanilla 9-5 so the weekend is the best time to cam for me.
mimiboo69
12-05-2012, 09:02 AM
I want to go back to ALL BBW CAMS.COM but when I work there in 2010 when I first started camming the traffic that was not there I sat in my room for like 4hrs made like 10.00 in I was thinking about going back and Splitting cam with them I would like to know how are they doing today I just do not want to wait my time
kortneykay
12-05-2012, 11:23 AM
I want to go back to ALL BBW CAMS.COM but when I work there in 2010 when I first started camming the traffic that was not there I sat in my room for like 4hrs made like 10.00 in I was thinking about going back and Splitting cam with them I would like to know how are they doing today I just do not want to wait my time
It's still the same I believe. I was on back in 09' and the traffic was good and I got a lot of PVTs. I signed on for an hour last week and nothing but lurkers and one guy came in with money and didn't even spend. It's possible I just haven't put in the time but I plan on splitting with them as well as Moshe has given me back my 40%. If I don't make much over a 6 period split, I'm cutting them loose.
kortneykay
12-05-2012, 11:24 AM
I want to go back to ALL BBW CAMS.COM but when I work there in 2010 when I first started camming the traffic that was not there I sat in my room for like 4hrs made like 10.00 in I was thinking about going back and Splitting cam with them I would like to know how are they doing today I just do not want to wait my time
It's still the same I believe. I was on back in 09' and the traffic was good and I got a lot of PVTs. I signed on for an hour last week and nothing but lurkers and one guy came in with money and didn't even spend. It's possible I just haven't put in the time but I plan on splitting with them as well as Moshe has given me back my 40%. If I don't make much over a 6 hour shift by splitting, I'm cutting them loose.
AF camgirl
01-10-2013, 08:46 PM
I'm bumping this thread because I found a new plus size site that has an amazing selection of reasonably priced (and super cute) shapeware and lingerie. I haven't read up on the last few pages so I hope I'm not repeating.
Simplybe.com
angelzimm
01-19-2013, 12:07 AM
I take extreme care in my appearance and am very vane and conscientious as a BBW, but that does not mean I need buy anything to make money off my looks! Lol. Nor anyone else.When I first started camming I took a nice skirt I never wore, slit a deep V in the waist leaving the elastic band in place, and put it on upside down lookin like my little black dress. I still wear that too. Also I have had killer days wearing a zipper hoodie and panties, maybe some cute socks and pigtails.
What's cute about YOU?
Figure it out and enhance it as best possible.
Lips-gloss em up or wear red lipstick to make them stand out and look delicious
Eyes-liner or mascara. For deep set eyes use mascara to open the width of your lashes and white eyeliner or white shadow on the inner corner of your eyes to make them look bigger and brighten the shadow. No makeup? Try using blush as shadow if you run out of it, use white or brown shadow as liner as well. A little dark shadow can be brushed on light colored lashes to get the same darkening effects of mascara but no length. If you really do not have any makeup you can call the avon lady and ask for a lipstick and mascara sample lol. I know I have a few of those, when you get more $ you can pay the avon lady back.
Hair-pigtails are classic handlebars to men, they automatically want to grab them. Wear your hair down, flip it back and forth over each shoulder it will show that you have hair a man can run his fingers through. get creative with your hair try something new or just clip your hair away from your face while it is down, Updo's are good too but be prepared for a man from India to pop up in private and ask for you to let down your hair. lol.
Eyebrows- don't have bushy ones, at least shave and shape the brow to compliment your cheekbones.
Clothing-No wrinkled stuff, no stains, essentially in tact. Show some skin girls, guys that love BBW love to see belly and if you are okay with that wear bra and panties that match in free chat, wrap a scarf around your shoulders and do a little dance with the scarf. Maybe your bra and panties don't match, its okay too, just as long as they go together, I wear a nude bra and black panties and proud. It is because I represent the outfit with creativity and resourcefulness that I am proud. That kind of hard work will not go unnoticed.
Shoes-wear sandals when feet are off cam, it helps with hurting feet and keeps the hush puppies fresh! Paint your toes and nails the same color, or just paint them period, it adds 10 seconds or so to a passing by viewers time in ur room, at the very least keep them clean and trimmed and non-distracting.
ATTITUDE- remember that the people in your chat room all have potential but only about 15% of them will pay for a private session. So yes you want to talk to all of them and not completely ignore anyone, but fuck the dumb shit the real paying guests will make themselves known and not beg for your time. That being said keep your attitude positive always, someone called me fat, I said yea daddy i am your fat....blah blah and he took me private not a moment later. That is because I didn't take offense, I realize I am fat and use it to my advantage. haha. I mean I really don't think I deserve to be talked to like that, and inside my head I had like 5 insults ready, but that is the nature of the business, Your attitude towards even the rude ones makes an impression.Change clothes at least a couple times daily. try to vary from dresses to underwear to lingere etc.
Consistency- time can convince most clingy guests to buy in. set a schedule and stick to the schedule. You might want to schedule breaks too, I do or I lose focus. stay online for at least 2-3 hours at a time, give the tight wallets a few to loosen.
BBW FAVORITE VIEWS
#1 BEHIND, lay on your side rear facing cam, head up smile wave talk, shake the rump
#2 FACE in any position show your face as much as possible, smile as much as possible
#3 BELLY Sit Indian style on bed lean back hands behind hips and bounce a little
#4 FULL BODY BBW lovers want to worship that body let them have the full view from overhead or straight on, I have even set my cam up on the ground and it attracts men who like trampling and squishing, yay!
I personally have found that my guests are more into me when I am more comfortable, I wont get on cam if I am not sure that I can work comfortable and easily. Follow these steps if you are not already my BBW friends and you will get more out of your cam experience.
Vlodina thank you for reminding the entire camming community to stay fresh.
angelzimm
01-19-2013, 09:23 AM
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http://www.yandy.com/black-friday-sale-plus
Like $8 lingere Queen size, I'm pissed cuz I bought the body stocking at my local boutique for twice as much as here, I'm so buying the Rita Floral Lace Camisole!
kortneykay
01-20-2013, 12:20 AM
32621
http://www.yandy.com/black-friday-sale-plus
Like $8 lingere Queen size, I'm pissed cuz I bought the body stocking at my local boutique for twice as much as here, I'm so buying the Rita Floral Lace Camisole!
Cute but jez, did her buttcheeks need to be THAT photoshoped? They love the dimples and shit lol.
Snowy0Star
01-20-2013, 01:14 AM
O thats why the connection between the buttom of her buttom (lol) and her thigh looks funky. XD
VoluptiousBriadda
01-21-2013, 01:53 AM
^^ excellent post - i agree-they arent getting shit from me unless it comes with a big tip - i treat my feet,belly,etc just like any other private part that is in hot demand- if they ask to see it,they damn well better be tipping first or taking me private!That goes for the attention thing as well,I try to not concentrate on any one person too long. its funny but i have REALLY pretty hair that drives every single guy in my room wild - ive considered covering it and offering "hair" shows and making them tip to see it,hell some of my custies were the ones that told me to do it in the first place!lmao! but all i could picture was me in a BIG ASS turban in free chat and thought better of it
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Really though,charge what youre worth ladies and dont give SHIT away for free,your belly is one of your biggest (pun intended) assets - use what you were given to get what you want.Youre camming to make money right? Then GET YOUR $$$,dont give it all away to freeloaders!!
Snowy0Star
01-21-2013, 11:24 PM
I'm having a hard time on SM and I dont know if its just because I dont look like a BBW in my icon and the guys are finding me not in the BBW section or theres a ton of guys into BBW and they're just picky. My cam space is clean and nicely decorated but most of the time its just a revovling door of guys comming and going before I say Hi. Or do this do that its 5 gold then they leave. I had a guy today ask to see my ass I said it was three gold he then asked for me to stand up thats 3 gold too then he left. I've even done shit without getting tipped for a day just to see what would happen they all left as soon as I did. So that tells me these guys that are asking for stuff then leaving as soon as I ask for gold are just trying to get free flashes. I dance I get ppl just lurking and getting thier jollies for free or where u from and the laundry list of stupid annoying shit ive heard on cam questions and time wasters who think I'm there to entertain and talk to them for free for long as they want . I sit and its _________ joined the room _________ left the room. Over and over. How long does the new model tag on SM last? I think thats where most of these guys are comming from. I've been wondering if another thing it could be is maybe I'm not big enuf? I'm like in the middle of being a BBW and being just a thick healthy weighted lady because I have been working out and loosing weight.
VoluptiousBriadda
01-22-2013, 01:15 AM
^^ Snowy- I fall into the "not quite big enough to be a BBW for the big girl lovers,too damn big for the skinny girl lovers" category as well.Im right at 200 lbs give or take depending on what day lol I certainly know Im fat and try to use it to my advantage but honestly? i RARELY have BBW lovers take me private - if they do,they dont let on and ask for belly play,crushing,eating etc like alot of typical BBW lovers ask for.They DO come in my room,but almost always tell me Im too small...which can be frustrating and mind boggling at times,but its their fetish,and their money so its understandable..
So i just work my other assets - my hair,eyes and tits.Yes,ive been taken private before and the guy has left the moment Ive actually backed up and shown my entire body on screen but thats what the pics and profile are for.They WOULD know,if they had actually taken the time to look.But it also works in my advantage extremely well,most of my privates are a wide range of everything from smoking to roleplay to domination,with some vanilla thrown in the mix if taken just private.
You have to find what else works for you bc being "stuck" in between the two categories...is just fruitless to try and market to only the bbw niche.I found that the new model tag didnt help me very much - i often got alot of idiots that would come in and try to trick me,and id usually be able to identify them right off the bat bc they were stupid enough to say "so youre NEW at camming huh?..?hmmm" Had I not read on here for mths before i started,I would have been taken for quite a ride.THANK GOD FOR SW!!
I get guys in and out without a word like that ALL THE TIME,and ive been on SM for 6 mths now.Yea im still a newb myself pretty much,but if you look around,youll see most models complaining about the same thing all across the board.Lately,traffic has sucked and herds of freeloaders seem to be running rampant around the site.Still doesnt mean you cant make your $$ though,just make sure you dont give anything away for free.
Up your rates-i dunno what they are,but make sure theyre high enough that you attract higher paying custies into your room.It doesnt matter if youre new - if you use the encoder and have a decent cam,then make sure theyre high.Thatll attract BETTER CUSTOMERS.Hell i charged the max even when i first started and didnt use the encoder nor have a top of the line cam.You may sit in free chat a lil longer,but i found myself sitting in free chat just about the same amount of time when my rates were 3.50/4.50 and 3.99/4.99.I had the same amount of beggars,assholes etc So i emailed support and asked for them to up my rates.I started asking for $10-$15 GOLD for flashes instead of 3 or 5 bucks,and ive actually had ALOT more tippers since Ive raised my rates and upped my flash rates.
You gotta find the good custies and cut out the bullshit.I have seen many many ladies posting about shit traffic lately,the last few times i was on wasnt great either,and i could tell some of it was due to site glitches but hopefully,HOPEFULLY theyll get the shit fixed soon.Just keep a schedule if at all possible,stay on for as long as you can every day,and make sure you are not pouting,getting pissed off that they arent taking you private but also are not giving away to much of YOURSELF.lots of guys just want to talk to camgirls and if you give away your all your attention for free,why would they take you private? Just read read read on here,theres soo many different ways to change and up your hustle - even though its very frustrating at times,you gotta keep changing shit up and trying new stuff until you find what works for you.I wish you the best of luck my dear!
Snowy0Star
01-22-2013, 01:35 AM
Thax Briadda I thuoght it was just me. I feel tons better now I just gotta have faith and stick it out. You're the Best !
My rates are $4.99 a min and I have exclusive off I'm thinking about emailing them and asking them to raise it so I can make my exclusive higher then $4.99
My flash rates are 3 gold to show ass feet and stand up 5 gold to show tits thighs and rub my tummy and 10 gold to get naked and do a full body 360 spin.
I was also wondering how important it was to get sexy outfits and stuff? All I wear now are matching bra and panties. I know wear what u feel sexy in but for me anwser is to know if I should go and get just a few super cute things or go apeshit crazy and have sooooo many sexy outfits guys wont ever know what im gonna wear next.
VoluptiousBriadda
01-22-2013, 11:27 AM
Thax Briadda I thuoght it was just me. I feel tons better now I just gotta have faith and stick it out. You're the Best !
My rates are $4.99 a min and I have exclusive off I'm thinking about emailing them and asking them to raise it so I can make my exclusive higher then $4.99
My flash rates are 3 gold to show ass feet and stand up 5 gold to show tits thighs and rub my tummy and 10 gold to get naked and do a full body 360 spin.
I was also wondering how important it was to get sexy outfits and stuff? All I wear now are matching bra and panties. I know wear what u feel sexy in but for me anwser is to know if I should go and get just a few super cute things or go apeshit crazy and have sooooo many sexy outfits guys wont ever know what im gonna wear next.
OK first,and Im not saying this to embarrass you sweetie,everyone messes up especially when they first start out,but you CAN NOT get naked in free chat.Even for 10 GOLD lol.The rules say no below the waist nudity - its been debated but I have seen some girls here say theyve gotten in trouble for not having their asscrack covered (so a g string would be fine,but not ass in the cam without a single thing on) ABSOLUTELY NO pussy in free chat,Ive heard some ladies say they show pussy hair only if they are hairy and can get away with it,but then Ive heard others say that you can get in trouble over it too.Honestly - its not worth it EVEN IF it werent in the rules - think about it - most guys could easily get off to your completely nude body in free chat.Not only is the guy that tipped you most likely going to leave,so is everyone else in the room after youve twirled around completely naked and theyve jizzed everywhere.A TON of the guys that tip for flashes leave my room shortly after - I only have just a few that have turned into regs.
Are you saying you have opted out of doing exclusive completely??? if i may ask,WHY???? Girrrl,about 80% of my entire camming salary comes from exclusives! I get more exclusives BY FAR than anything else,although the more i up my prices,the more guys are starting to take me private instead lol cheap asses.
I didnt go buck wild when i first started but I DID go and buy sexy lingerie,a french maid costume etc etc Crazy new stilettos ALL SORTS of shit....aaaand i havent even used most of them even once yet.I have this one dress (well its a long tight cute shirt that i use as a dress) and i end up changing into it almost every single day bc it attracts more custies than ANYTHING else i have worn!!! CRAZY!!
If you look around in past threads,youll see women saying over and over and over again to NOT buy new lingerie etc If anything,buy you a unique toy.Pay attention in free chat - what is the one thing asked of you the most that you have to say you DONT have? For example - do they ask you if you have nude stockings alot but you have to tell them no you dont? Find whatever is in high demand FOR YOU and go buy that - i look in my closet through old clothes now and just slut em up now bc i was literally just WASTING money.
Many ladies will vow that they get more privates in a tank and pajama bottoms then anything else - bc it makes you less intimidating for these men.Many of them are super shy and have no self esteem - im not saying ALL of them but some of them cant approach women in real life and resort to cam sites to relieve their needs instead - Jessica Rabbit may be uber hot to them but would also make them soooo nervous that theyd probably run away screaming..
And EVERYTHING that ABigNerd said is absolutely true as well girl!
I have TONS of guys tell me im the "most gorgeous BBW they EVAARRRR seen" lol but honestly,the REAL bbw lovers tend to think that im still too small to be considered a BBW even at 200 lbs.the "actual" starting weight to be considered a BBW is 250 lbs i believe,even though ill be damned if im not considered fat as hell in real life lol i AM a bbw,regardless of what some of the "connoisseurs" may say but I still have a hard time roping in a whole lot of them - which sux bc i sooo want to do belly play,eating,crushing etc!!!Dammit! Someone come pay to feed a fat ho,us bitches be hoongry in free chat!lmao!
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Snowy0Star
01-22-2013, 02:36 PM
"I have an adorable underbust corset and a couple of bustiers that I bought when I was new. Then I realized that all of the hooks and snaps would take me 2 minutes to put back on. Also, anything with boning for a 'costume corset' type deal will get very uncomfortable to sit in very quickly"
I was gonna ask that in the Streammate thread but I feel like I've been asking more questions then being helpful lately so I've been holding back. So basically I should aviod the steel boned corsets thats are like $140-$160. Theyre super expensive but I was wondering if they would be worth it. Like it was mentioned before the teasing aspect of it and what not to take off the hooks and stuff. But if they're too 'teasy'/ annoying and uncomfy to have on for a long time I'll opt out from getting them.
kortneykay
01-22-2013, 07:01 PM
Snowy, I would preserve them on days you plan on doing domination (if that's your thing). That way, you won't have to remove it and you attract submissives who don't expect you to take it off.
Yeah, I hear it all the time (even from BBW admirers at clubs) that I'm too small to be a bbw. I'm top heavy with big arms, big tits, chubby face but my waist dips in and my legs and hips are more average. I get away with "thick" because I don't look big all over as I'm 5'7" so it evens itself out when I gain. I do get the best of both worlds because my legs, butt and thighs are more shapely so the guys who don't like BBW still find me small enough, and the bbw find me thick enough because I have a bigger upper body. It's hard to explain and I don't look oddly shaped so it works for me. And yes, that "you're the more beautiful bbw I've ever seen" gets around I see lol but I use it to my advantage. Sometimes you gotta make the guys who think you're too small a believer, and the guys who think you're too big a believer.
temptingmodel
01-22-2013, 07:06 PM
I was gonna ask that in the Streammate thread but I feel like I've been asking more questions then being helpful lately so I've been holding back.
Dont feel like that , one day some of us have more questions than norm. It just happens. I havent been on that thread lately. Please dont feel like you ask too much. If you dont ask ,you will never know.
VoluptiousBriadda
01-22-2013, 10:00 PM
And you can always refer to the thread i started for general camming questions if you search the threads and cant find what youre looking for!thats why i made it girly,so that we wouldnt have four million new threads started for just a question or two,and to answer questions that may come up but are hard to find or place in a particular thread!
So if you think youre posting too much in the SM thread,then try this one if it cant be placed in another thread (but i do urge you to try and find your answer in previous threads first,just bc so you dont abuse ANY thread or start to piss some of the girls off - i know it sucks to look and look but i find time to do it whenever i can (cooking,cleaning,pooping even lol i just look it up on my phone)
http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?180733-Have-a-Question-Related-to-Camming-Unsure-Where-to-Ask-Post-ANY-AND-ALL-Here!
ABigNerd
01-22-2013, 11:12 PM
What, to you, is the difference between BBW and curvy? I have a regular who keeps telling me I'd do better if I switched categories. I'm well under 250lbs, and I'm rather tall. I've always considered girls who were 'curvy' to be more firm all over. I'm definitely more 'thick' than big, but I don't feel I belong in the curvy category. I have a very plump hour glass figure.
I'm curious because I do a lot of belly play, fat shaming, fat smothering, and feeder role play now even though I don't have a big belly. I actually really enjoy this role play, but I always drop some weight once spring comes around. I dropped a bit of weight due to the flu a few weeks ago, and I noticed a slight drop in traffic just from that. I spent the week finding poses to make my belly look rounder. I'm worried that I'll be in a very weird place in between body types. The girls I've seen at the top of the curvy category are much tighter than I'll ever be. I've lost 100lbs over the last decade, and that leads to some 'flab' that I'll never lose without surgery. I feel more like a BBW, but I'm definitely not what you gals are describing here (250lbs at average height). When I hit my 'summer weight' I'll be under 200.
So....can you give me some examples? Curvy celebrities and BBW celebrities? Where is the line drawn?
HaydenBlue
01-22-2013, 11:20 PM
Curvy = Beyonce, J Lo, etc
BBW = That girl from Precious (forget her name), April Flores (BBW pornstar) off the top of my head.