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socialreject
03-09-2012, 09:06 PM
I frequent SCs because I know why the dancers are there, as opposed to a singles bar, where I am out of my element. Getting a date with a dancer is a thought that takes up a very tiny, very miniscule part of my brain. If I get overwhelmingly lucky enough to have a dancer ask me out, then that would make my YEAR lol.

rickdugan
03-10-2012, 07:47 AM
The fact is I don't give a fuck if she goes out with me or not...absolutely don't give a goddam.

I don't fucking care...get it?

This reaction told me everything that I needed to know. You are way too emotional about this. The girl did her job well and you ended up becoming infatuated with her. It happens, particularly to younger guys and certain lonely types.

The scenario that you are laying out is classic. Shit, there should be a manual for this:


Lonely guy starts spending money on a "special" dancer because they really seem to "click";
After the pseudo-intimacy of LDs and other club interactions with her over time, he becomes infatuated;
Once in love/lust, he either spends himself broke trying to keep her attention or he just cannot stand being "just another customer" anymore. Often these two things happen at the same time; :P
He starts trying to find a way to turn their club relationship into something more and the emotional pleas begin;
She realizes that he will no longer spend on her and either finds a way to let him down cleanly or starts a disengagement process; and
He, finally realizing just how badly he misunderstood the situation, either kicks himself for being so dumb, goes on customer sites to bitch about ROBs or finds some other way to cope with what happened. ;)


Rinse, repeat.

Pierre, any of this sounds familair? IMHO you should just walk away and just consider this a lesson learned. You are far from the first guy who has taken club interactions too seriously and you will not be the last. It happens to every blue at some point in his clubbing life, usually in the early days.

JayATee
03-10-2012, 08:24 AM
I'm going to try it and see what happens.....I have a lot of choices as far as dancers.

I don't see this hurts anyone.....and it calls the girl out.

Calls the girl out for what? Doing her job? Jokes on you genius. ::)

OliveJardin
03-10-2012, 07:14 PM
Hm, this thread became entertaining very quickly *reaches for another handfull of popcorn*. If you aren't spending any money on a dancer, then she isn't likey to spend time on you, IMO.

Jay12
03-14-2012, 07:21 PM
^ Is that so hard to understand? Time is money!

GlitterBexie
03-14-2012, 08:10 PM
I'm going to try it and see what happens.....I have a lot of choices as far as dancers.

I don't see this hurts anyone.....and it calls the girl out.

Every time i come back to this thread this particular quote makes me laugh out loud! :D

When he says he has a lot of choice as far as dancers, im wondering if he's going to travel coast to coast going to every SC in the country asking out every dancer he meets till he finds one who says yes. I have a mental image of a forest gump style running montage with the david grey 'babylon' song playing with pierre going in and out of SC's the world over changing into the national dress of whichever country he is in.

Crazycanuck
03-14-2012, 08:33 PM
Every time i come back to this thread this particular quote makes me laugh out loud! :D When he says he has a lot of choice as far as dancers, im wondering if he's going to travel coast to coast going to every SC in the country asking out every dancer he meets till he finds one who says yes. I have a mental image of a forest gump style running montage with the david grey 'babylon' song playing with pierre going in and out of SC's the world over changing into the national dress of whichever country he is in.Wow that would be a waste of time. I wouldn't even try it. I had two stripper that wanted to date me. One I was a customer and the other I had no clue until she told me. I just wasn't interested, I didn't mind getting lap dances though. One time a stripper did ask me to meet somewhere and she never showed up. First and last time lol Dating a stripper isn't what it seems. They are just regular folks doing their job.

GlitterBexie
03-14-2012, 08:41 PM
Wow that would be a waste of time. I wouldn't even try it. I had two stripper that wanted to date me. One I was a customer and the other I had no clue until she told me. I just wasn't interested, I didn't mind getting lap dances though. One time a stripper did ask me to meet somewhere and she never showed up. First and last time lol Dating a stripper isn't what it seems. They are just regular folks doing their job.

I hope that either

a)you are reffering to the OP.
b)you are being ironinc re: my post
c) are a newbie and dont understand the way quoting works.

:)

Crazycanuck
03-14-2012, 09:26 PM
I hope that either a)you are reffering to the OP.b)you are being ironinc re: my postc) are a newbie and dont understand the way quoting works.:)I know how quote works, I'm a forums junkie.Half is to OP I guess.No i'm not being ironic.

firemaiden04
03-14-2012, 10:05 PM
^...okay...

GlitterBexie
03-15-2012, 09:59 AM
I know how quote works, I'm a forums junkie.Half is to OP I guess.No i'm not being ironic.

So you did understand that what i said was a joke yes? And my mental image of a strip club forest gump was not a suggestion to the OP on how to find his dream stripper girlfriend? I suppose i just dont get why you quoted me then...?? I was hoping you were being ironic rather than didnt get the joke...but it seems then that second joke also fell of deaf ears? I give up lol x

Crazycanuck
03-15-2012, 10:55 AM
:OWell give me a break I work 12 to 15 hours a day 7 days a week. Well maybe i'm just being ironic without realizing it? I'm been called weird a lot lol Just doing so many things at once, I got lost in the shuffle. Sure pick my bones. I would ask you for a dance but youre too far away it's been like 8 years since I even been to a bar.

yoda57us
03-15-2012, 11:13 AM
:OWell give me a break I work 12 to 15 hours a day 7 days a week. Well maybe i'm just being ironic without realizing it? I'm been called weird a lot lol Just doing so many things at once, I got lost in the shuffle. Sure pick my bones. I would ask you for a dance but youre too far away it's been like 8 years since I even been to a bar.

Cutesy and confused doesn't really fly here Cc. Dial it down a notch or two and focus. Maybe you need a nap?

JayATee
03-15-2012, 11:18 AM
:OWell give me a break I work 12 to 15 hours a day 7 days a week. Well maybe i'm just being ironic without realizing it? I'm been called weird a lot lol Just doing so many things at once, I got lost in the shuffle. Sure pick my bones. I would ask you for a dance but youre too far away it's been like 8 years since I even been to a bar.

English obviously isn't your first language either hmm? And no, I'm not a giant so I've no reason to want to pick your bones... or your brain for that matter...

sheesh....

Crazycanuck
03-15-2012, 11:36 AM
Yeah people stop feeding the troll. :P

Crazycanuck
03-15-2012, 11:42 AM
Sorry but I wasn't replying to you. Something up your ass? lol

JayATee
03-15-2012, 11:44 AM
Sorry but I wasn't replying to you. Something up your ass? lol

Wow, for someone who "hangs around forums alot" you apparently don't know the first rule.... open forum means any person can respond. And you still haven't mastered quoting...

Hey mods, he called himself a troll. Can we ban him? Please please please? Can we? Huh huh huh??? ;)

yoda57us
03-15-2012, 01:00 PM
See ya!

GlitterBexie
03-15-2012, 01:11 PM
:OWell give me a break I work 12 to 15 hours a day 7 days a week. Well maybe i'm just being ironic without realizing it? I'm been called weird a lot lol Just doing so many things at once, I got lost in the shuffle. Sure pick my bones. I would ask you for a dance but youre too far away it's been like 8 years since I even been to a bar.

We all work long hours hun, and i didnt call you weird. This is a dancers forum, where strippers come to be off duty and bitch whine and relax. Basically, i didnt understand your post and why you quoted me, that's all. I wasnt being offensive or rude, your post just didnt make sense and a we get a lot of trolls coming here, posting silly things and irritating people. If you are going to stay, its best to just be polite and civil with everyone who posts until you have got the general jist of the forum and not fly off the handle when someone questions you. You should get back on the horse, come back the the SC and see what's changed in the past 8 years! :D

Kimba71
03-16-2012, 06:44 AM
The second you stepped into that club you became a customer. You think since you're going to stop getting dances, she's going to start seeing you differently? Yeah, she will, she will see you as a CHEAP LOSER for trying to now pick her up in the club.

I disagree that strippers never date customers. I see it happen all the time- a stripper will genuinely date a customer and often it will lead to a real relationship. What do all of these customers have in common? They have spent a TON of money on these girls. Most of the dancer-customer dating that I've witnessed have been with customers who have been spending $2,000-3,000/WEEK on these girls in the club on dances/rooms. And once they start dating they continue to spend on the dancers. Yes it is genuinely dating because these girls genuinely like these guys but trust me, these guys are forking over a lot of cash.

Well I can not say I agree with having to spend a lot of money before they will go out with you. Or maybe in General you do, I did not have to do this with my gf when I met her, but then again she was the one who Initiated everything, but I have admit it is not something that happened often I believe in SC.

To answer the original question. To stop spending money on her, is not going to make a difference, if she truly does like you and want to spend time with you outside club and so on, she will let you know. And If SHE truly does like you, trust me you know!!!. Personally I don’t think your Idea of stop spending money will work to get her to go out with you.

Friends of mine who knows that my GF is a striper tell me “you picked her up at a place where it is almost impossible to pick up a women” and they are right, but I DID NOT pick her up, she picked up MEJ)

But I wish you all the best and good luck with trying to stop spending money on her