View Full Version : Why are so many wealthy white men not attracted to women of color?
jasmine22
04-13-2012, 11:19 PM
Vixenluv, u said ur tired of people w preferences. Be happy u don't have them, bc u will be more likely to find someone right for u in life, with any relationship. I can find attractive people in all races, I enjoy being open minded, makes life a lot easier and fullfilling. U can't change other peoples opinions but we can rise above ignorance. If someone doesn't like me bc of my race, I don't want that person anywhere near me. As far as customers go there's nothing u can do about their racism. If older white men dont like u, screw them, let them miss out. I wouldn't want that negativity around me anyway.
Obenta
04-14-2012, 12:58 AM
Why are so many wealthy asian men not attracted to latina women?
I had a profile up on some dating sites and I got very very few messages or profile views. Some guys didnt even respond to my messages So I decided to do a little experiment and put up a picture of a young asian girl with brown hair and big boobs. My profile views have skyrocketed and Im getting all kinds of messages. When I look at these guys profiles alot of them either say flat out I only am attracted to asian girls/i dont date outside my race/no latinas/etc. It seems like these guys only want a young asian girl. And even if they do get a latina woman, she looks very racially ambiguous and its obvious she has some asian in her. I hate asian men.
LibraSnake
04-14-2012, 09:26 AM
and to any white folks reading this and thinking all black women are angry. kiss my ass.
Sounds like you are though...
Please don't kill me for suggesting this, but maybe you've got such a hostile vibe, it scares people off?
idgaf_luvr
04-14-2012, 06:29 PM
Maybe it's because the majority of the sugar daddy pool are white men, but I have a problem believing that not one single wealthy white man would not be interested in being a black lady's SD. Unfortunately they all aren't going to look hot like Naomi Cambell's billionaire. Gosh, that is one good-looking married billionaire. So, let's look at Naomi: She's had good as well as plenty of bad press. She's a model, so her body looks good. Her hair is done OK - she could use a better weave/wig or better hair care though. As a model, she's been around to many places, so on the surface she seems "cultured." She may not be the best example but maybe ladies can learn a thing or two. She met Vlad at a film festival. As an escort, I've actually been surprised the few times I've met a white man and he likes Hip Hop culture, or likes going to the urban strip clubs. They're out there, but I think all that should really matter is that there is a man out there, regardless of race, willing to spend plenty money (que Plies song) on us.
Editing the post to say I see you said majority, but I'll guesstimate 60%. :)
crystalize
04-16-2012, 02:35 PM
I find that a lot of old white guys love 'em! My friend is a black girl and her 'specialty' are old white guys. I also know a super rich, super old man with a black wife..
MinahSky
07-06-2012, 11:09 PM
Just in case you see this, OP, the next time SD4M has an event in New York, I would be there if you could. It's like shooting fish in a barrel to find white men that like Latinas and Black women. In fact, it's the norm more than the exception. HTH!
Oh, and if you check my posts, you will see that I am half Black and 99% of my custies were white. IMHO, I like it when guys (not men) put those kinds of things in their profiles (regardless of who it is excluding) so I can block them and move on. If you have any kind of intelligence, you don't need to express yourself that way to get what you want.
AnnelieseBell
10-10-2012, 05:01 AM
First of all I don't think that's true. I am a blonde white girl with big boobs and a tight body and I get passed over for latinas, and black girls all the time. People just like what they like. Second, even if it were true, why do you care? Are you really into old white men, or do you just think they are the only ones with money? They aren't. And if you're only interested in old white men then aren't you being just as prejudiced as you say they are? If the old white men aren't working for you then don't worry about it, just change your marketing. It really doesn't matter why, it only matters how you're going to make money a different way.
jjfaye
01-11-2013, 12:54 PM
As a young black female who has been dancing for three years, old white men are my money maker! Its the idea or stigma that black women are abrupt, rude and demanding. Women of color lack class, so you just have to push harder in getting across the pleasant image white men want of black women.
I noticed when escorting, when I did a boudoir photo shoot with pure elegance my white cliental skyrocketed! But in the same sense I've seen white males prefer the stereotypical black chick over me plenty of times. I more insecure competing against mixed girls then white blondes, just my two cents!
Jay12
01-12-2013, 07:52 PM
Well, there are several white successful men (celebrities, Wall St. dudes, GOP politicians, etc) that are married to black women. A bit offtopic, but it shows that the white, wealthy dudes also go for the black ladies too.
http://hiphopwired.com/2011/01/06/down-with-the-swirl-10-successful-white-men-with-black-women-by-their-sides-30097/
That list forgot one of my favorite couples; David Bowie (my hubby and I are obsessed with his music) and his wife, Somali supermodel, Iman.
JoJoX
01-14-2013, 11:53 AM
I personally have no problem getting wealthy white men, in fact all 3 of my boyfriends were lol.
GlamourRouge
01-14-2013, 04:21 PM
Pretty sure it has much more to do with culture than it does with skin color? People of similar cultures have no issues co-mingling. That and class level. Its all about how you carry yourself- from how you speak, to your mannerisms, to how you dress. Like attracts like in that case. If you want to attract a put-together man, then be put-together yourself and there should be no issues.
simone87
01-14-2013, 04:26 PM
i find the opposite is true, except with very old white men..i mean back when they were growing up we had segregation so that's how they still see it.
find your niche, why does it have to be old white men? a lot of different kind of men don't like my type either, but instead of it making me feel bad and insecure i move on and and hustle the guys who do like me.
adriana_Lee
01-21-2013, 01:28 AM
its cali
ExoticBeauty4U
01-21-2013, 10:08 AM
You know white men arent the only ones with money. There are plenty of black men, especially of African and Carribean descent who will SPEND. Go to places like Houston or ATL and you will see:) Granted as Ive mentioned in past threads i will not work at a black club (cant dance and only have a bubble butt lol), but Ive had an african sugar daddy or two before who truly spoiled me and I didnt have to do anything at all with them.
DiamondsandLace
01-21-2013, 11:40 AM
Older white men do like black women. Sorry but they do.
Now when you look ethnic like me then you can complain because I get insulted, called names, turned down etc.
NormaBates
01-26-2013, 02:13 AM
Ive actually found the opposite true.
honey_b
01-28-2013, 12:14 PM
I have actually found the opposite to be true. The white men that I've experienced as SDs have all appreciated my skin tone and texture equally, if not more, than men of other races. They loved my hair (naturally curly or blown straight), too. Oh, and I've found them to be most generous as well.
goddesskali
01-29-2013, 08:53 PM
What I've gleaned from my experience in the adult business is it has many niche markets. If you do it well with the right amount of spice & panache the customers do spend generously. Black women are "exotic" and therefore do not have mass appeal, BUT have a very dedicated following. It is truly is about creating regular business. The issues that hinder our "market" are the negative stereotypes, so we do have to work a little harder and be creative.
goddesskali
02-01-2013, 09:45 PM
http://www.blacksugarbabies.com/
Optimist
02-01-2013, 10:21 PM
Jeez, that chick looks rather low rent with her bra strap showing under her clothes. Bad model choice.
SohoBaby
02-02-2013, 01:48 PM
agreed. they could've picked a WAY better model to represent that site.
BlkSharpie
02-03-2013, 01:15 AM
JEEZ Very bad model choice... Now this is where Im going to have to call foul! lol I mean jeez, on all the sugardaddy sites, they show upscale ladies looking all hot and refined... they couldnt take a cue from that and have a hot, refined looking upscale black woman represent?! blaaah them.
Brandi_Lynn
02-03-2013, 02:50 AM
In reality, I'm a thick light brown skinned black chick with a pretty face, bit tits, and a girl next door attitude and I've attracted White Old Farts on those types of sugar daddy sites. I didn't have tons knocking on my inbox but they did message me and I went out on a few dates leaving with cash in hand without doing anything. It's usually the white men who like women of color but a lot a bere not into going public with it, especially the baby boomers. However, most of them like them pretty, in shape with long hair extensions black girls like someone mentioned. It's hard in this society as white women have dominated the industry and a lot of people are brainwashed when it comes to true beauty. Good luck and don't give up! There are tons of guys who date interracially. My husband is Caucasian so I know first hand. I know England is big on the sistahs so maybe try outsourcing to internationals? I'd put more professional looking pics up, weave it up and try, try, try again. We are still in demand.
^^
This is offensive -true beauty....? What is beauty...? It's in the eye of the beholder. everyone is attractyed to what they are attracted to. Some are willing to pay for it. Look at the way you articulate yourself....white women, what's true beauty -your just as racist if not outright wo. I'm Native American & Eauropean & very, very offended by your statement. What's wrong w/ you? Grow up!
BlkSharpie
02-03-2013, 06:13 PM
I didnt read that to say that white women are true beauty, but that because white women dominate the beauty industry, people are brainwashed when it comes to beauty and that it can be found in other races as well. I dont see that as a racist statement, just an observation that beauty is not equally represented and accepted in society.
HoneyMachado
03-11-2018, 03:39 AM
Are you into them? Many White men think we're not interested or only interested in Black men
SnuffleUffleGrass
03-11-2018, 07:26 AM
My opinion- I exist because my maternal grandfather liked brown sugar and had a second family with a woman of color. Soooooooooo...........................
Rich men might not marry out of their race because "money marries money." Marriage for the rich is to maintain status.
I have seen a lot of rich Caucasian men in the US marry foreign women. These guys are always trying to get one over on people so they will marry to make an alliance or have someone they trust to translate for them.
Bahuba
03-11-2018, 06:15 PM
I wish Stripper web would test the IQ of male members before allowing them to join the site
LOL!!
kortneykay
03-15-2018, 02:40 PM
Wow, my reply was 6 years ago. I've slimmed down since but I'm here to say that this is a myth and a lie. Sure, the wealth gap is swayed towards Caucasian males but that doesn't mean as a Black Woman that you can't get a piece of the pie. Times are changing, and as we can all see a lot has happened interracially. Two examples: Meghan Markle and Serena (and soon Venus) Williams. Note that Meghan may have had Actress coin, but she didn't have Royal money like Harry does. Now she does. :D
Marriages between a White male and a Black female actually has the lowest levels of divorce between even White men and White females, and Black males and White female couplings. Black Women are divesting and dating out at much higher numbers now. Advertising agencies are taking advantage of ADs in places where Black Women and White Men congregate, date, and marry because they have the highest buying power. Black Women are thriving in entrepreneurship and education. When they match with a WM, the buying power is very high and her status rises as well.
That being said, since the wealth does sway their way, they have the most buying power in OUR industry so most of our clients tend to be Caucasian males. Proof that WM are still very interested in BW. WM have been paying ALL of my bills these past 6 years and will continue to do so. We're going to see a huge shift over the next few years, the percentages will spike and more Black Women will be in those wealthy circles. Several Black Women are going through a 'charm school' phase and you'll see very soon just how 'attracted' wealthy WM are towards BW. It's happening. Any Black Woman can choose a wealthy available target, put herself in his vision (charities, fundraisers, golf clubs, high end bars and lounges, steakhouses, and much more) look the part- and snag her a wealthy man who will not only date and spoil her- BUT MARRY HER.
Heck, John McAfee married his Black Queen and she was an ESCORT. I'm noticing a few billionaire nerds (programmers, software creators) like their Women Black. Peter Norton, anyone?
Exxotica
03-22-2018, 01:35 AM
white men wont leave me alone
Bahuba
03-22-2018, 06:42 AM
^^ I always try to step lightly in these threads because I am a WM but Kortneykay I'm glad you wrote that. I honestly think there was less cultural context even 10 years ago. If white men are at their wealthiest at age 59 (look it up) they were born in 1960. I'm younger than that but I dated WOC in high school. To me and many others, attractive people are attractive people.
miss.a.p1600
03-22-2018, 11:08 AM
I could be wrong but I believe Serena outearns her husband.
You also have to remember that interracial marriages became legal just a few short decades ago so while the attraction is there, most were not, and still not (due to generational beliefs against "mixing" races) able to act on their attractions, at least not publicly until recent times.
Best believe though a good majority of men, from rich to poor, WILL spend money on, date, and even MARRY women outside of their race. This includes wealthy white men.
Bahuba
03-22-2018, 06:38 PM
^^Her husband is pretty rich though, he owns reddit
miss.a.p1600
03-22-2018, 08:12 PM
Yeah I knew about him founding reddit.
According to celebritynetworth.com Serenas networth was 185 million while his was 9 million. Hope she had him sign that prenup lol!!!
I kid,...... kind of. But as long as they're happy then more power to them....
Luckyguy09
03-22-2018, 08:26 PM
For starters, most people stick with their own kind and find their own kind the most attractive. That said, I think it depends on where you go and what country you live in. Here in the United States white males in my opinion are racist at worse case and at best case are indiffreent towards black women from my observations.
On the other hand when I was in France a few months ago nearly every single black woman I saw on a date in France was with a white man.
miss.a.p1600
03-22-2018, 08:50 PM
^Britain, France, etc these countries are not as stuck on race (as it relates to relationships, specifically with Black or minority women) as we are in America.
The racial thing probably depends on factors like 1. What region you are in 2. What beliefs your family/friends passed onto 3. What beliefs you choose
However this thread is somewhat misogynist with a racial undertone. Women of color should not need to feel validated by whether or not a rich white man finds them attractive.
If you look good, you look good!!!
sexyadrienne
03-22-2018, 09:46 PM
White men are not the only 'wealthy' men out there . . .
Bahuba
03-23-2018, 07:05 AM
Yeah I knew about him founding reddit.
According to celebritynetworth.com Serenas networth was 185 million while his was 9 million. Hope she had him sign that prenup lol!!!
I kid,...... kind of. But as long as they're happy then more power to them....
I've heard he's worth 300m - who knows? She makes 20m a year from sponsors and 10m a year from prize money (or did, before her kid) either way she's doing great - I hope she got a prenup too!
What's funny is, common wisdom dictates that women marry a version of their fathers... I guess Serena and Venus are sick of the greatest and probably most annoying tennis coach of all time, their dad.
SnuffleUffleGrass
03-23-2018, 09:02 AM
I've heard he's worth 300m - who knows? She makes 20m a year from sponsors and 10m a year from prize money (or did, before her kid) either way she's doing great - I hope she got a prenup too!
What's funny is, common wisdom dictates that women marry a version of their fathers... I guess Serena and Venus are sick of the greatest and probably most annoying tennis coach of all time, their dad.
True that.
Lenny Bruce addressed this topic many decades ago by asking an audience if they would marry an unattractive white woman or a very hot colored woman (he mentioned Lena Horne as an example.) So even before the civil rights movement American men could entertain the idea of marrying for total satisfaction, not just marrying for business/family reasons. Let's be honest, even today people pass up potential spouses in order to satisfy "practical" considerations.
kortneykay
03-23-2018, 10:12 AM
The co-founder of reddit can do it again and again. Beats all the loser rappers who wasted her time.
chrysalids
03-23-2018, 07:09 PM
Rich white guys are deviants lol
Bahuba
03-24-2018, 08:40 AM
Cute kid alert - Serena Williams baby
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ImCalypso
03-24-2018, 09:46 AM
That baby is way to cute oh my doodness
Smoothcat
03-25-2018, 09:21 AM
I wish Stripper web would test the IQ of male members before allowing them to join the site
:O Whew, I'm glad I'm grandfathered in. I have enough trouble with solving CAPTCHAS. :boggled: ;)
Bahuba
03-26-2018, 05:19 AM
I'm sure several of our blues grandfathered in - literally!
Titus23
03-26-2018, 05:24 AM
:O Whew, I'm glad I'm grandfathered in. I have enough trouble with solving CAPTCHAS. :boggled: ;)
Seriously.. does the pole on a stop sign count as part of the sign? Is that blur in the distance a car? I don't know man, but I swear, I'm not a robot!
SnuffleUffleGrass
07-23-2018, 05:31 AM
Back on topic, due to legal reasons I was reminded recently of how common inter-racial marriage is in my home state...……...
The neighborhood I grew up in was a "West Coast Harlem" in the 1940s & is now totally racially mixed. Indian, African American, Latin, European, Asian. The only conflict in my neighborhood is over someone's dog crapping in someone's yard.
So yea, in much of the US we are enjoying "post-racial" society. Plenty of bedrooms are harmonious, plenty of families are happy. Americans have to stop obsessing over division in society and "other-ness."