View Full Version : The General Purpose "Camming Sucks Right Now" Thread
ConnyLove
05-22-2014, 02:51 PM
This thread is going to get really long soon... World Cup then tennis then the Commonwealth Games, then back to football. FFS.
And also Le Tour de France! Omg it's gonna be a long summer !
BellaK
05-22-2014, 03:38 PM
Can't believe Im even writing about this, because its nonesense, but here goes.....
I had to cut a friend off today. We havent spoke in a long time, because basically... her husband "got" her pregnant to hold her down. I know this, because she is a very carefree partygirl (we both were), and she expressed to me that she didnt want kids and doesnt envy people who have them. So, the point is, her husband became very controlling after a while.She even flaked on me at times,when she would normally be my right arm.
Then, out of no where she was pregnant. Same time, I moved out of town and we lost contact. 1st time I visited home,( which she knew I was coming) I contacted her and she was not answering my calls or texts. Then, fast forward 6 months later shes emailing me now asking what happened!!
Not only that, but shes emailing me very rude, there was no friendly tone whatsoever. She played the blame game to the max. WHICH blows me away, if we are real friends, doesnt matter what amount of time goes by, youre still my girl.
I had to change my number 2 months ago,but there were many months, I didnt hear a thing from her. I wasnt mad about it, because she is a new mom, BUT to blame me is CRAZY. ALSO, if you can email me now, you could have emailed me any other day too!! :O Im confused, but basically I had to officially dump her today.
I honestly do not think she is happy in her current situation (Im assuming). She doesnt sound like herself at all. Matter of fact, this is our 1st and last falling out. That's how well we got along. We keep it real with each other, and move on. Not this time. I just cant tolerate disrespect, because I love and respect myself too much. She offered up no apology for being nasty. smh. We were so tight, Im in SHOCK right now.
Sidebar- whenever you move on with yourself and are happy, you will see the true colors of so called "friends". Since I have moved, another friend was shady to me as well. Like clear as day SHADE.:-X If my life was a wreck, everyone would gather round to "support" AKA ENJOY my situation. SMH
Issabelle
05-22-2014, 04:09 PM
WARNING: ROOMMATE RANT!
My roommate is, shockingly, older than me, but she has the maturity of a high school sophomore, I swear to fucking god. Like, seriously, we share a lot of life experiences and how she can be so incredibly disrespectful and shit show-esque is beyond me. We've both lost our moms and have a similar sense of humor, but it ends there these days. She's in her mid-20s and only got her driver's license and first job last summer. She lived with her family doing absolutely nothing up until then. She failed out of college because her ex was abusive, which I feel for, but then she keeps dating assholes or throwing her life to the wayside for new relationships! Seriously, living with her when she's dating is fucking miserable. The last guy was a certifiable sociopath who wanted a three-way relationship with his baby mama, but basically meant she was the side treat for him and the mother. The new guy is a friend of mine and super sweet, but they're attached at the hip 24/7 now. He's over constantly, they say I love you, they discuss moving in together--the world doesn't exist to them and fuck reality! They've known each other for less than three weeks. No one is in love after three fucking weeks!
Why does this bother me so much? Well, it's not the 'she has a boyfriend' jealousy thing, believe it or not. It's how she acts when she's dating. She may be an angel to the dude, but she's a flighty bimbo and mega cunt to the rest of us. Examples? Okay. She agreed to certain cleaning schedules when she moved in with me (oh, I'm her first roommate, btw). It was good early on, but as soon as she's 'in love' again, she'll stop doing it. Normally, I just have to deal with the 'I'm too tired' after she gets off work, but when she's dating she's just lying about cleaning on her off days since she's constantly having sex/out of town. Oh, speaking of, we agreed to no more than 3 nights per week with guests. Guess what? Every fucking night for two weeks. I'm sorry--I have a job and I'm not comfortable on cam with your boyfriend--who is also my good friend--hearing me fucking myself for other dudes. She's taken to stealing my food (and denying it), going weeks without cleaning (and lying about it), paying the bills late (especially the ones in my fucking name), and bitching me out for so much as speaking to her. Like, seriously, did I deserve to be screamed at in front of people I barely know for locking the fucking deadbolt at 10 p.m.?! Or bringing back the shit you left in the living room that the cat was about to destroy? Or being made fun of on FB for having rules about cleaning and living in a home fit for decent human beings? Jesus. Fucking. Christ. And the Virgin Mary, Joseph, and the Holy Motherfucking Trinity while we're at it.
So in summation: I live with a slob who disrespects me by openly mocking the rules she agreed to and who treats me as a maid knowing I'll clean before she does. I live with someone who isn't responsible enough to pay bills on time even if I remind her daily. I live with someone who disrespects my property and my personal boundaries, preventing me from doing work or enjoying the things I fucking paid for like food.
I'm moving into a single apartment in the complex at the end of August. Earlier if I can swing it. The absolute worst part? Since her boyfriend is my friend and she won't listen, I have to tell him things like "please don't come over on X night so I can work" or "please put the dishes away; they've been in the sink for a week." That shouldn't ever have to fucking happen!
UGH UGH UGH UGH UGH!!!! I'm never living with another human being I'm not related to or sleeping with AGAIN!
Lexilexxx
05-22-2014, 04:57 PM
I've worked on streamate for 6 yrs with a break of 7 months on MFC......I've never seen it so slow, no traffic and just looking @ the girls struggling makes me SAD!!!! Holiday is going to be a killer!!! :-(
SweetJulia
05-22-2014, 05:48 PM
^^^^^Shit like that is why I've had one roomate-and it was for a week. I moved out at 17. I'm 29 now and am so happy on my own.
Glamourmilf
05-23-2014, 04:34 AM
Camming sucks because I've had 6 e-mails this week from regs that are telling me that they are closing out their membership (On SM)! I have never had e-mails like this ...EVER!
They don't say where they are going to be spending their money, (or even if they will), but I'm now getting concerned that maybe there is something not right over at SM.
A few of them have left their private e-mails to keep in touch, but I tell them it is not allowed to have contact outside of the site.
WTF is going on over there?
AliceFun
05-23-2014, 06:04 AM
I had this guy on cam2cam last nite, he wanted to talk but his sound was soo bad, echoing and making a terrible noise, he kept talking, i barely heard him, i told him to fix it, he was not able to for some reason, i wanted to give him a show but i was heavily disturbed by the bloody noise, i could barely focus, he kept talking & asking/ telling things, all i wanted to do was cut off the stream i am not kidding! I made him cum tho but i have the bloody sound in my ears/head still, BOOOHH!!
ashley jane
05-23-2014, 07:01 AM
I had this guy on cam2cam last nite, he wanted to talk but his sound was soo bad, echoing and making a terrible noise, he kept talking, i barely heard him, i told him to fix it, he was not able to for some reason, i wanted to give him a show but i was heavily disturbed by the bloody noise, i could barely focus, he kept talking & asking/ telling things, all i wanted to do was cut off the stream i am not kidding! I made him cum tho but i have the bloody sound in my ears/head still, BOOOHH!!
My friends does this weird noise and then echos sometimes. He's mobile so maybe that's my friends problem. I never want to skype or anything with him because of that.
IvyRose
05-23-2014, 09:05 AM
30minute goldshow 0dollar buy in (top girl) girl on girl + free vids offcourse
199 goal
wooooow they must be fucking desperate!!!!
around 35dollar each for 30 minute fucking IF they reach goal
WTF is going in their brain?
IvyRose
05-23-2014, 09:06 AM
PS good thing is we are rid of them for 30 minute if they follow through XD
and we are also rid of a BUNCH of freeloaders
SoloDesire
05-23-2014, 09:36 AM
30minute goldshow 0dollar buy in (top girl) girl on girl + free vids offcourse
199 goal
wooooow they must be fucking desperate!!!!
around 35dollar each for 30 minute fucking IF they reach goal
WTF is going in their brain?
I think most of us are desperate at this point lol. It's been really hard getting anyone to spend money lately. I know what show you're talking about and I thought the same thing as you at first...then I saw how much money they actually made from doing that show! Wow! Guys were throwing in so much gold to get them to do certain things in the show. It had a very MFC feel, but it worked for them. More power to them...because they found a way to make money when the site was extremely slow for most of us.
IvyRose
05-23-2014, 12:06 PM
I think most of us are desperate at this point lol. It's been really hard getting anyone to spend money lately. I know what show you're talking about and I thought the same thing as you at first...then I saw how much money they actually made from doing that show! Wow! Guys were throwing in so much gold to get them to do certain things in the show. It had a very MFC feel, but it worked for them. More power to them...because they found a way to make money when the site was extremely slow for most of us.
nice they had a good show earlier... was curious and looked up a show of them, its hit or miss: they didnt bring in anything within the show and they started under their goal with 50$ total (in the actual show they got about 30 extra from tips to do stuff)
the clients they pull in are cheap and are just waiting for shit to happen without tippin. They had to sit the 20minutes out to even get their money for the whole gs thing
It was sad to see the members didnt understand the concept or where just to broke/freeloading to tip in
I hope they have had better shows though!
and yeah I get trying out new things =)
vixenviki
05-23-2014, 12:29 PM
rant alert (not about camming!)
Euugh..my neighbours are doing my head in! The lady next door to me is 82 and lives alone, so I try and be really nice to her because I get the feeling that shes lonely but MY GOD, I don't think I can cope with her any more! Every time I come in to the building she 'just so happens' to be outside her front door so I have no option but to speak to her, she always asks really personal questions and today she even asked me if she could have a key to my front door. These conversations are always about the same things and they last up to an hour at a time because she stands at the top of the stairs so I can't move past her without basically pushing her out the way. I feel like she's watching my every move; she sits in her kitchen all day so she can watch who is coming down the road and into the building. Any time I have someone over she knocks on my door to question my visitors about who they are and what they're doing in my apartment and its quite embarrassing. Whenever I have sex she makes comments and basically calls me a slut for having sex outside of marriage. She can hear everything that goes on in my flat, so I have to be really quiet all the time, which isn't great when I'm trying to cam or do anything at all really. With her being old and highly religious I can hardly tell her what I do for a living so she thinks I'm unemployed and is quite nasty about it, calling me lazy and fat (I hardly think I'm fat..) and reading this I don't know why I even bother trying to be nice to her when she is just a mean old lady, but I think its one of those 'respect your elder' things.
And the guy down the stairs always has music blaring and his bass turned up so my floors are literally shaking. I have a walk in wardrobe thing which is above his living room, and he smokes so much weed that my clothes absolutely stink all the time. I can get high just from the fumes that seem to seep into my apartment. He has his friends over all the time and all they do is drink, smoke and sing classic rock really badly. Its so annoying.
That's my rant for the day. Annoying neighbours are the worst. I know these neighbours aren't that bad in the grand scheme of things, but theres only so much a girl can take before she pushes an old lady down a flight of stairs (joking, kind of).
I need to hustle my ass off and move to somewhere where no one can hear what I'm doing or judge me.
justanothercamgirl
05-23-2014, 01:59 PM
Camming sucks because I've had 6 e-mails this week from regs that are telling me that they are closing out their membership (On SM)! I have never had e-mails like this ...EVER!
They don't say where they are going to be spending their money, (or even if they will), but I'm now getting concerned that maybe there is something not right over at SM.
A few of them have left their private e-mails to keep in touch, but I tell them it is not allowed to have contact outside of the site.
WTF is going on over there?
http://media.giphy.com/media/ENt72LgUE2gV2/giphy.gif
JaneBurgess
05-23-2014, 10:45 PM
Pretty sure I know who you are talking about and they aren't desperate. I never understand the need to judge what another performer does in their show. If you don't like it, then don't do it for yourself but in no way does posting this serve a purpose or make you money.
30minute goldshow 0dollar buy in (top girl) girl on girl + free vids offcourse
199 goal
wooooow they must be fucking desperate!!!!
around 35dollar each for 30 minute fucking IF they reach goal
WTF is going in their brain?
TheBrownFox
05-24-2014, 01:47 AM
For the FB'ers who put on an act:
http://i.imgur.com/fGmKiDR.jpg
IvyRose
05-24-2014, 03:09 AM
ARRRGHH got an 4star from a fucker in PVT who stayed under 2 minutes and didnt talked at all! I adressed him (I was allready naked and fucking since he dropped in at the end of another show), and he never told me what he liked or anything... Can you belive those silent fucks who rate you poorly at the end?!
I hate getting less than 5 stars I will ban him next time I see .(Btw he saw me naked and fucking in less than 2 minutes whats not to like there ;) )
Bitch rant over.
CamKaty
05-24-2014, 04:07 AM
I had one few days ago, did not answer what he like to see and left after two minutes, gave me 4 stras and REVIEW that "amazing and enjoyed every second". Don't get those guys
ARRRGHH got an 4star from a fucker in PVT who stayed under 2 minutes and didnt talked at all! I adressed him (I was allready naked and fucking since he dropped in at the end of another show), and he never told me what he liked or anything... Can you belive those silent fucks who rate you poorly at the end?!
I hate getting less than 5 stars I will ban him next time I see .(Btw he saw me naked and fucking in less than 2 minutes whats not to like there ;) )
Bitch rant over.
SweetJulia
05-24-2014, 05:08 AM
^^^^Those asshats have told me they never rate anyone 5 stars cuz it leaves no room for improvement. This isn't cam girl school. You're paying. The closest you're getting to a vagina is the one on your screen. Just be grateful instead of trying to humble the lady kind enough to join you in your nightly threesome with your hand and your wallet.
nikki187
05-24-2014, 06:28 AM
So I got into it with my roomate yesterday I guess he was pissed off about it and just took some trash out of the trash can and put it on the kitchen floor. I know it wasn't my dog because she sleeps with me or my kids LOL So I got a broom and pushed it in front of his door.
He only got bitched at because the two people that gent over backwards for he disrespects and doesn't want to pay them back. So I asked if he could pat my half of th fridge which is only 27.50 and I will get him back later. He said yeah take it off the bills. I said no fuck that because I already gave the guy 20 and the bills are seperate fron the fridge.
Amyways the reason why I did this is because my brothers dad and stepmom took me and my kids in when I had nobody. I hate it when he disrespects them and takes advantage so I felt it was time for him to get a taste of that. Also that is his own brother.
Sorry if some of this doesn't make sense. I am on my phone. LOL
IvyRose
05-24-2014, 12:40 PM
I felt so uncomfortable!!! There was this guy in excl and he wanted me to do anal (not a big fan of it, but ok) and wanted me to Sit on it and Jump while scraming his name... While he had his cam on, he was laying on his bed just watching me and smoking a sigaret- doing nothing at all, only staring at me...
I felt like a frigging jumping monkey, I felt aweful, than he pushed it to far by saying he wanted dp while I told him beforehand I wont do that today (he said: I can give more gold... and I told him no... I hate it when guys think eveyrthing is for sale for a certain price)
My pride took over and I ended the session telling him I felt unconfortable and didnt want to proceed...
Something felt really strange with that guy... It felt humiliating, in a WRONG way
Via Flaminia
05-24-2014, 01:34 PM
I felt so uncomfortable!!! There was this guy in excl and he wanted me to do anal (not a big fan of it, but ok) and wanted me to Sit on it and Jump while scraming his name... While he had his cam on, he was laying on his bed just watching me and smoking a sigaret- doing nothing at all, only staring at me...
I felt like a frigging jumping monkey, I felt aweful, than he pushed it to far by saying he wanted dp while I told him beforehand I wont do that today (he said: I can give more gold... and I told him no... I hate it when guys think eveyrthing is for sale for a certain price)
My pride took over and I ended the session telling him I felt unconfortable and didnt want to proceed...
Something felt really strange with that guy... It felt humiliating, in a WRONG way
^ This sums up why I left SM - too many guys like this. I thought it was me, that I was attracting that type of customer, but no. Almost never get these on other sites.
I know SM is a good/great place for many, and I'm happy for that. SM taught me to set boundaries so I'm thankful that was my first site.
^^And BrownFox, I love that. So true.
lemonberry
05-24-2014, 01:42 PM
^ This sums up why I left SM - too many guys like this. I thought it was me, that I was attracting that type of customer, but no. Almost never get these on other sites.
I know SM is a good/great place for many, and I'm happy for that. SM taught me to set boundaries so I'm thankful that was my first site.
^^And BrownFox, I love that. So true.
Wow, I never I wanted to say anything but I felt like this too. SM was my main site for a long time cause of traffic, but I really felt shitty the whole time I was on it. Since traffic has been on a steady decline for me, I finally just left for good...and you know what? I feel sooo much better now. I'm not making as much as I would like on other sites, but man I don't think I could go back to sm after how much better I feel.
lemonberry
05-24-2014, 01:51 PM
For the FB'ers who put on an act:
http://i.imgur.com/fGmKiDR.jpg
There's so many women I could send this to.
anonymous camgirl
05-24-2014, 02:17 PM
As a girl who has been a camgirl for almost 12 yrs.. the most vile customers i ever met were on SM.. they are garbage.. in fact one tolld me i was garbage and that is why i was on there just today.
Wow, I never I wanted to say anything but I felt like this too. SM was my main site for a long time cause of traffic, but I really felt shitty the whole time I was on it. Since traffic has been on a steady decline for me, I finally just left for good...and you know what? I feel sooo much better now. I'm not making as much as I would like on other sites, but man I don't think I could go back to sm after how much better I feel.
JaneBurgess
05-24-2014, 02:46 PM
The customer base sure has changed on there. They used to be a lot nicer and chatted more too. I have no idea if Gold shows brought more trolls, if it's the dating traffic, etc.
As a girl who has been a camgirl for almost 12 yrs.. the most vile customers i ever met were on SM.. they are garbage.. in fact one tolld me i was garbage and that is why i was on there just today.
anonymous camgirl
05-24-2014, 02:48 PM
I dunno , but they are a strange breed indeed.. I understand horny men who don't give a fuck, but these idiot take it to a whole new level of stupid-dom
The customer base sure has changed on there. They used to be a lot nicer and chatted more too. I have no idea if Gold shows brought more trolls, if it's the dating traffic, etc.
lemonberry
05-24-2014, 02:51 PM
The customer base sure has changed on there. They used to be a lot nicer and chatted more too. I have no idea if Gold shows brought more trolls, if it's the dating traffic, etc.
I'm sure neither one of those things has helped.
SoloDesire
05-24-2014, 05:49 PM
^ This sums up why I left SM - too many guys like this. I thought it was me, that I was attracting that type of customer, but no. Almost never get these on other sites.
I know SM is a good/great place for many, and I'm happy for that. SM taught me to set boundaries so I'm thankful that was my first site.
^^And BrownFox, I love that. So true.
I know what you girls are saying...There are so many creepy guys on SM. I don't hesitate in telling them "No." if they ask for something I don't feel comfortable with. I also don't continue with a private show if they are barking orders either...I will stop what I'm doing face the cam and tell them if they can't be respectful they can get the hell out of my room. You have to own it or they will run all over you. I enjoy camming because I'm my own boss...just because they're paying doesn't mean they get my services on their terms...it's ALWAYS on my terms.
MissSeraphim
05-24-2014, 06:12 PM
I HATE when a big spender comes in my room dropping $10 tips like bam bam bam back to back....annnndd the family comes home -.- shifts over BLAH!! I'm hoping he's still on when everyones asleep!
BellaK
05-24-2014, 08:41 PM
I know what you girls are saying...There are so many creepy guys on SM. I don't hesitate in telling them "No." if they ask for something I don't feel comfortable with. I also don't continue with a private show if they are barking orders either...I will stop what I'm doing face the cam and tell them if they can't be respectful they can get the hell out of my room. You have to own it or they will run all over you. I enjoy camming because I'm my own boss...just because they're paying doesn't mean they get my services on their terms...it's ALWAYS on my terms.
I absolutely agree with this! I don't work on SM, but Im not tolerating anything.
Ive even "bullied" guys out of my prvt. I havent kicked them all out, because hey the timer is still rolling,so you are STILL PAYING. Ive also faced the camera, gone off and told them to get the fuck out. Ive even had more than one beg to stay, and apologize. I just tell them Im too hot right now, and I will think about it. Those ones always come back.
1 I can remember came back begging in email after email for days. I finally did a "nice" show for him, it was long & he left me AWESOME feedback. HA.I WIN.That was amazing, the power totally SWITCHED. Some others I do JUST KICK. BTW I dont care about them leaving bad feed back, because most never do, or my good feedback outweighs the bad anyway.
I hate when I read about girls breaking down and even crying on here. Ladies, don't do it!! They are the 1s paying for a show, they come to us. We never came in their rooms begging for shit. You aren't ugly or anything they claim, or they would'nt be in your room. No one is forcing them to be there.
Its quite empowering when you think about it!!
TheBrownFox
05-24-2014, 10:51 PM
A cam girl I used to talk to had told me that she always felt like "a piece of meat" when she was on SM.
AliceFun
05-25-2014, 12:48 AM
^^^ That's how it feels yes, it was a shocker to come from a paid only site(s) to free chat trollville SM some years ago & now is even worse, unfortunately there are no better sites FOR ME to make money on so i stay & work SM but i dont feel happy for how people are there, it's a very competitive work atmosphere where u dont know who is trolling u and why plus the battle for members, just terrible sometimes.
IvyRose
05-25-2014, 01:30 AM
Most of the times I can create my own little "happy bubble" and I dont care they only give short commands, since they are so bussy with theire hands ;). In my head they ask everything in the most sweet voice, which makes it easier for me not to get irritated and to keep smiling and doing my work with pleasure.
I lost a lot of pushy guys and writing in caps guys when I upped my prices- luckily.
But that guy yesterday had such an nasty vibe going on, you girls know that feeling right, even though you are not in one room you can feel something sometimes. Most of the times I can ignore it, but he made me feel like, indeed, a piece of meat. I even felt bad some houres afterwards, even though I kicked him out of my room.
I am glad I kicked him, I wont tolerate guys who make me feel like shit.
When working I always feel - in power- since they are paying us, to get what they desire. We are in charge, and guys who want to turn tables and make me do humiliating stuff bec theya re paying for it can go cry in their mothers basement bec I will block them easier next time
I only used to working at sm, so I dont know how its like to have another customerbase (started 1,5 year ago).
I do know that I got about 4 customers who are just unbelievable to me, just because they act normal, write properly, and are just gentlemens who dont rush things and even stay for me when they are done, to adore my body...
Just having a nice customer is so rare, that I always feel like I am on cloud 9 when that happens XD, they get the best shows, because I feel really at ease. The rest who barks orders, I just close down in my head, put on a fake smile, and pretend they are nice, and carry out my normal routine with kinda standard dirtytalk etc
SoloDesire
05-25-2014, 12:11 PM
So, I'm feeling pretty low right now. It seems like everyone is making plans and doing fun stuff but no one feels the need or want to invite me. Friends from out of town came to town saying they wanted to hang out, and then I see pics on fb of them with other friends of ours out at festivals and doing fun shit, but never bothered inviting me along. Then I see family (my mom, step dad, brother and his wife) went camping and never said a word to me. My feelings are extremely hurt...maybe they shouldn't be, but here I am sitting at home working because I have nothing better to do.
And they wonder why I never make an effort...
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pinkpink
05-25-2014, 12:48 PM
So, I'm feeling pretty low right now. It seems like everyone is making plans and doing fun stuff but no one feels the need or want to invite me. Friends from out of town came to town saying they wanted to hang out, and then I see pics on fb of them with other friends of ours out at festivals and doing fun shit, but never bothered inviting me along. Then I see family (my mom, step dad, brother and his wife) went camping and never said a word to me. My feelings are extremely hurt...maybe they shouldn't be, but here I am sitting at home working because I have nothing better to do.
And they wonder why I never make an effort...
37647
Oh no :( I feel you. Sigh. I struggle a lot with anxiety and depression and I feel like people don't appreciate how hard it is for me to be social. I'm not asking the world to cater to me, I get that the world is harsh and I have to take care of myself. I just wish people would be more aware or something....I'm just feeling really vulnerable right now because I'm pretty sure my "best friend" asked this other girl to be her maid of honor for her wedding and I'm sad.
Maybe try making some plans yourself? A movie with one friend, plan an outing, something you want to do. I hope you feel better <3
ashley jane
05-25-2014, 01:01 PM
So, I'm feeling pretty low right now. It seems like everyone is making plans and doing fun stuff but no one feels the need or want to invite me. Friends from out of town came to town saying they wanted to hang out, and then I see pics on fb of them with other friends of ours out at festivals and doing fun shit, but never bothered inviting me along. Then I see family (my mom, step dad, brother and his wife) went camping and never said a word to me. My feelings are extremely hurt...maybe they shouldn't be, but here I am sitting at home working because I have nothing better to do.
And they wonder why I never make an effort...
I texted like four friends and only 1 texted me back last night! That 1 doesn't even live in my state but it was nice to just to text him. This other one I'll see on Twitter tweeting but the last text I got was "hey, sorry been busy" so to busy to text me but not busy enough to stay off twitter? Another one of my friends was like sorry haven't been over your way in a long time that's why I don't text you. So I'm not enough reason to go 5 mins out of your way home from work to see me and that's why you don't text me? Bullshit! I got rid of my best friend because in the winter I was the best friend but summer when all her college friends came home I didn't exist. She'd be on FB checked in, tagged, status raving about the fun while i didn't get an invite and some of these people I even knew! Hell the one girl is the one that introduced them! I'm a little angry because the weather's nice and I'm stuck in bored because no one will bother to even talk to me!
RubyTheSexPixie
05-25-2014, 05:51 PM
I am just really irritated with my family right now in relation to camming. I woke up at 8am with my 3yr old and then I made the mistake of taking a nap from 1030 to 1pm when my hubby woke up and when I got up he was trying to make him take a nap and he was PISSED OFF and I told him to not try to make him go to sleep so early.....it ended up pushing back the time I could get on cam to 230(I wanted to start at like 2 or earlier). THEN my mother , who I support, Comes and starts being really liud outside my door DURRING my show. I turned up the hitachi and hammed it up but WTF man... wtf.. I need all these people out of my house!
So then I stopped to be like "uhhh....could you please avoid making noise outside my door, im actually on camera, thank you so much." and she got mad at me! grrrrrrrr
but actually I am happy with what I have earned in the last 24 hours. I only made 180 last week and after 1 day in SM time im already at 190 this week. I'm taking a few hours break until my kid goes to bed for the night and then I can tell the other two to leave me alone while I continue to rock my shit and make a bunch of money so I can take tues-Thursday off :D
temptingmodel
05-25-2014, 06:21 PM
Nice business ethics, eh?
http://static.someecards.com/someecards/usercards/1342654935223_8320910.png
TheBrownFox
05-25-2014, 08:21 PM
CAMMIG SUCKS WHEN A MEMBER OF THIS FORUM TAKES YOUR POST, removes names but places everything on her blog.
LET IT GO GURL, LURKERS SUCK (http://amanda36c.wordpress.com/2014/05/)
Nice business ethics, eh?
http://static.someecards.com/someecards/usercards/1342654935223_8320910.png
I agree. That's pretty shitty.....
Juliette25
05-25-2014, 11:58 PM
What the fuck is up with guys wanting to convince dominant women that they are submissive? I've encountered this during camming countless times but now its like guys I talk to on Ok Cupid. I'm like really? It's an instant turn off. Fucking men.
IvyRose
05-26-2014, 12:03 AM
Wow just wow, I just got a bunch of guys inside my freechat telling me they dont like my accent anymore, since I started to talk more British like.
Whats up with hating British accents?! I frigging love Brittish accents myself, sucks that they dont. Had to block spome asshats for getting way to rude about it too.
Oh well, looking at it positively, I can take back on my original accent and dont take the efford to have an amazing but fake accent XD
Femmestudent
05-26-2014, 01:26 AM
Thanks for pointing that out. Can a mod perhaps talk to this person and let them know this shouldn't be happening.
It really leaves a bad taste in my mouth to have my words used that way, especially when this thread is a chill vent place for those snap feelings that almost always dissipate.
Not to mention not all of her comments are accurate
My own words that she poached:
"3 hours on SM = 25$. Camming officially blows right now"
Her Condescending comment:
"That’s not bad, compared to what others are earning. If you earned that in the ‘real world’, consider flipping burgers; it pays better."
This comes from a really negative idea of the kind of girl I am, that I might only be qualified for this or burger flipping. In reality I have a B.A. and am finishing a college degree.
I actually left a job where I made 14$/hour to cam because I genuinely enjoy it more. So F this noise of what I did in the real world (FYI it wasn't flipping burgers, but man do I appreciate those who do)
justanothercamgirl
05-26-2014, 01:42 AM
CAMMIG SUCKS WHEN A MEMBER OF THIS FORUM TAKES YOUR POST, removes names but places everything on her blog.
LET IT GO GURL, LURKERS SUCK (http://amanda36c.wordpress.com/2014/05/)
Nice business ethics, eh?
http://static.someecards.com/someecards/usercards/1342654935223_8320910.png
http://media.giphy.com/media/HTd4t5YhpGxsk/giphy.gif
I don't even.......I just can't believe.....wow, you just left me speechless.
SweetJulia
05-26-2014, 07:35 AM
Wow just wow, I just got a bunch of guys inside my freechat telling me they dont like my accent anymore, since I started to talk more British like.
Whats up with hating British accents?! I frigging love Brittish accents myself, sucks that they dont. Had to block spome asshats for getting way to rude about it too.
Oh well, looking at it positively, I can take back on my original accent and dont take the efford to have an amazing but fake accent XD
Fuck them-figuratively-I'm sure there's a fetish for British accents and know your clips would sell.
SoloDesire
05-26-2014, 07:48 AM
Oh no :( I feel you. Sigh. I struggle a lot with anxiety and depression and I feel like people don't appreciate how hard it is for me to be social. I'm not asking the world to cater to me, I get that the world is harsh and I have to take care of myself. I just wish people would be more aware or something....I'm just feeling really vulnerable right now because I'm pretty sure my "best friend" asked this other girl to be her maid of honor for her wedding and I'm sad.
Maybe try making some plans yourself? A movie with one friend, plan an outing, something you want to do. I hope you feel better <3
Thank you <3. I did make my own plans after I finished working. Me and the boyfriend went for a drive down to the river and spent time enjoying nature, just he and I. It was nice and helped me forget just how little anyone else cares. I'm extremely introverted and it's difficult for me to be social as well, but I still enjoy being around people when given opportunities. Oh well...they show their true colors.
anonymous camgirl
05-26-2014, 08:18 AM
You have to just let it go and not take it personally, understand that when anyone says anything such as that it is NOT about you.. it's their own insecurities and hatreds and frustrations.. Everyone does it..
Thanks for pointing that out. Can a mod perhaps talk to this person and let them know this shouldn't be happening.
It really leaves a bad taste in my mouth to have my words used that way, especially when this thread is a chill vent place for those snap feelings that almost always dissipate.
Not to mention not all of her comments are accurate
My own words that she poached:
"3 hours on SM = 25$. Camming officially blows right now"
Her Condescending comment:
"That’s not bad, compared to what others are earning. If you earned that in the ‘real world’, consider flipping burgers; it pays better."
This comes from a really negative idea of the kind of girl I am, that I might only be qualified for this or burger flipping. In reality I have a B.A. and am finishing a college degree.
I actually left a job where I made 14$/hour to cam because I genuinely enjoy it more. So F this noise of what I did in the real world (FYI it wasn't flipping burgers, but man do I appreciate those who do)
anonymous camgirl
05-26-2014, 08:23 AM
You know what I am learning?? and I am almost 42 now.. lol.. you focus on people who are worth putting energy into and fuck the rest.. you cannot change who they are or their lack of wanting you to be in their life and spend time with you.. Just put the pedal to the metal .. and turn to those who do wanna be with you. and screw the rest.. drink a glass of wine ...lol
Thank you <3. I did make my own plans after I finished working. Me and the boyfriend went for a drive down to the river and spent time enjoying nature, just he and I. It was nice and helped me forget just how little anyone else cares. I'm extremely introverted and it's difficult for me to be social as well, but I still enjoy being around people when given opportunities. Oh well...they show their true colors.
justanothercamgirl
05-26-2014, 08:39 AM
You have to just let it go and not take it personally, understand that when anyone says anything such as that it is NOT about you.. it's their own insecurities and hatreds and frustrations.. Everyone does it..
It is technically against the forum rules though.
https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/misc.php?do=vsarules
loveshooks
05-26-2014, 09:03 AM
Thanks for pointing that out. Can a mod perhaps talk to this person and let them know this shouldn't be happening.
if the member doesn't choose to remove the text herself I would suggest either emailing the supermod at sw(at)stripperweb.com or submitting a site issues ticket. Only the site owners can enforce their copyright, regular mods have no authority to do so. I have sent an informal PM to the member requesting that she remove the material (as aside from being a copyright violation I do feel it is disrespectful to this community to co-opt member contributions for her own purposes) but I have no idea how responsive she will be to that.
It really leaves a bad taste in my mouth to have my words used that way, especially when this thread is a chill vent place for those snap feelings that almost always dissipate
yeah, I feel you and understand why it bothers you. hopefully she'll understand why the members quoted are upset by it, and just remove the text herself