View Full Version : The General Purpose "Camming Sucks Right Now" Thread
Nina_Den
06-12-2014, 11:15 AM
Guys, what do you do with the "Push something in cunt" guys? Like, okay, I'm not even talking about a guy who goes into private and straight-up tells me such a sentence, I immediately ban them. But, what do you do if the costumer seems otherwise alright, and at a certain point during the session he'd demand it, and in a rather vulgar way (especially when they don't even say "Put a toy/dildo in your pussy", but a lovely "push" or "shove" something (!) in your pussy/cunt).
I have an extremely low tolerance, and when somebody talks to me this way, regardless of the fact that I don't do penetration 99.9% of the time, I lose respect and patience for them and ban them. Am I making a mistake? Is there any way to kinda talk them outta it (?), other than just saying "I don't do that"? And how do I start building up a thicker skin for people who talk to me this way? I don't know if I'm losing money or just making a right decision by keeping my principals.
Smurfette
06-12-2014, 11:16 AM
Ugh, it is SO FUCKING SLOW. whyyyy????
And for the first time ever, my computer is acting up, and I got the blue screen of death. :( Boo.
CurvyWinona
06-12-2014, 12:12 PM
Did all guys jump off a cliff or something?
Issabelle
06-12-2014, 12:47 PM
My roommate is a slob. She even admits it. However, when she moved in, she sat through the two hour conversation regarding rules and boundaries and me being an utter neat freak and agreed to a cleaning schedule. I have yet to see it happen in a timely manner. Or every, actually. Matter of fact, I only managed to train her on how to put dishes in the dishwasher (instead of leaving them in the sink for weeks) by informing her that every time I find them there, I will start doing her least favorite pet peeve. Constantly.
The bathroom, however, remains an issue of contention. It hit a point two weeks back where I finally cleaned every inch of the apartment myself because her lazy, lying ass kept looking at me like a rude bitch for reminding her of it after she promised time and again to do it. Technically, she should have had to clean the whole place last week, but obviously didn't. She agreed to do her 'half' of the chores (meaning I took half knowing they wouldn't be done otherwise) on her night off (last night). Did it happen? Nope. Excuse A claimed we were going to have a 'cleaning party,' and she wasn't cleaning until I came home. Of course, when I got home, Excuse B was in place, by which I mean she was busy at dinner and watching movies elsewhere while I cleaned by myself. Excuse C was this morning with 'I have to work,' to which I basically said clean the mother fucking bathroom you worthless bitch, which I realize is rude, but I'm at wits end. So, of course, she's pissed at me for making her spend all of 15 minutes scrubbing a few things so she can say she 'cleaned' and call it done.
Mental checklist: trash? Still overflowing. Floors? Still have crap on them. Shower/tub? I still see hair/soap scum and, OH YES, we have a MOLD PROBLEM thanks to her not cleaning the tub for a FULL MONTH! Sink? Still has hair/toothpaste. Toilet? Too lazy to use the scrub brush; 409 spray is enough, right?
Yeah, she's literally throwing a 'silent tantrum' right now because, on seeing this, I just shoved right past her lazy ass and redid everything she missed. No commentary, better, in less time. And she's upset because she hates being treated like an incapable child. Well, guess what? You are. Slob.
IvyRose
06-12-2014, 01:25 PM
Empty room, yep 0-goldshows goin on. I dont know where to post this in the camming suck or the Vent thread but it suck non the less. I am just gratefull that in my normall timezone those 0gold girls arent around, since I dont live in the US
Heather7679
06-12-2014, 01:36 PM
I want to kill the zero gold shows. ughhh
Empty room, yep 0-goldshows goin on. I dont know where to post this in the camming suck or the Vent thread but it suck non the less. I am just gratefull that in my normall timezone those 0gold girls arent around, since I dont live in the US
Glamourmilf
06-12-2014, 02:13 PM
^^ Me too! Plus the fact that she's selling her panties during the 0 GS! Must be nice to be her, and be able to break the SM rules like that.
I don't watch other girls, but since I'm doing a camathon today-Saturday, I couldn't help but notice she was top,front, and in every guy's face, and sucking up all the traffic.
Im lucky that so far I had a couple of new custies, and a few regs.
Other than that, I'm out.
Vlodina
06-12-2014, 02:55 PM
Is it just me, or are the guys on ELM the worst offenders for not reading profiles? I can't remember the last time I got a message that was worth replying to!
Issabelle
06-12-2014, 02:59 PM
^^ Must suck to be her--working for no pay. I mean, I would get it if SM let her get away with it because she made them money, but not making money for either herself or the site? Seems like they should be stopping that crap so they aren't hosting a free porn site. Idiots, the whole lot of them.
It's slow, but not unbearable for me. I just hate having so many bills to concern myself with. Ugh. I'm working, so where is the money? Ugh ugh ugh. $15 to $25 an hour is just not cool with me when I have limited time to work.
Also, I'm getting a ridiculous number of guys asking for underage, incest taboos and free flashes. I've reported four users in the last 20 minutes for this shit. And yes, I like to make sure SM support keeps their workload up since god knows they don't do anything else useful and may as well read my bitchy user TOS violation reports. Blocking is fun. Reporting is just entertaining for me.
anoncamgirl
06-12-2014, 03:00 PM
Is it just me, or are the guys on ELM the worst offenders for not reading profiles? I can't remember the last time I got a message that was worth replying to!
You're not the only one. I was shocked when someone actually read my profile and paid full price for a custom. It almost never happens. A lot of guys will send the same message twice, it's always about some super-complicated custom video for $10.
JaneBurgess
06-12-2014, 03:03 PM
I dont offer Gold shows so I want to see if I get this right. $0 Gold shows are when you dont have a price per person set, they tip what they want. Then when your show starts you do it in private like a normal Gold show. It's not in free chat is it?
I tried Gold shows a few times and most of the people were pushy and rude. They expected a lot of stuff for $5 a person. It was too stressful for me so I am sticking with the old school privates and exclusives.
JaneBurgess
06-12-2014, 03:08 PM
Keep your principals. Selling out to make money will make you feel bad in time. I tried it before and I felt terrible for a month straight. If you tell people no penetration, than that means no penetration. They need to respect you and your guidelines.
Guys, what do you do with the "Push something in cunt" guys? Like, okay, I'm not even talking about a guy who goes into private and straight-up tells me such a sentence, I immediately ban them. But, what do you do if the costumer seems otherwise alright, and at a certain point during the session he'd demand it, and in a rather vulgar way (especially when they don't even say "Put a toy/dildo in your pussy", but a lovely "push" or "shove" something (!) in your pussy/cunt).
I have an extremely low tolerance, and when somebody talks to me this way, regardless of the fact that I don't do penetration 99.9% of the time, I lose respect and patience for them and ban them. Am I making a mistake? Is there any way to kinda talk them outta it (?), other than just saying "I don't do that"? And how do I start building up a thicker skin for people who talk to me this way? I don't know if I'm losing money or just making a right decision by keeping my principals.
Vlodina
06-12-2014, 03:10 PM
I dont offer Gold shows so I want to see if I get this right. $0 Gold shows are when you dont have a price per person set, they tip what they want. Then when your show starts you do it in private like a normal Gold show. It's not in free chat is it?
I tried Gold shows a few times and most of the people were pushy and rude. They expected a lot of stuff for $5 a person. It was too stressful for me so I am sticking with the old school privates and exclusives.
Everybody who is logged in can see it, whether they tipped anything or not.
JaneBurgess
06-12-2014, 03:15 PM
Oh hell no. How is that allowed if the show is full nudity? They might as well go on MFC and do shows there.
Everybody who is logged in can see it, whether they tipped anything or not.
IvyRose
06-12-2014, 03:18 PM
I dont offer Gold shows so I want to see if I get this right. $0 Gold shows are when you dont have a price per person set, they tip what they want. Then when your show starts you do it in private like a normal Gold show. It's not in free chat is it?
I tried Gold shows a few times and most of the people were pushy and rude. They expected a lot of stuff for $5 a person. It was too stressful for me so I am sticking with the old school privates and exclusives.
That is about it, they do it in private like a normal goldshow; but you can see it for free- also when you tip in 0.00 since it is a 0goldshow.. thye just have to press a 0 and thats about it
The biggest problem is that it is now becoming normal to just pay 0.00$ to see a girl on girl show and 1gold shows for 15 minutes are also becoming a new norm since the same girl is offering them every damn night with squirting and everything.
I am missing my 1 minute wankers, and I dont have to wonder where they are :D. They are patiently waiting for the 0-1 gold shows to get there little wank and to run off again.
Oh well, at least I got some good regs and fetishlovers still around, but it does sucks
Issabelle
06-12-2014, 03:21 PM
^^ Officially? It's not. As a matter of fact, if you set it to 0 gold buy in I'm pretty sure there's a pop up telling you nudity is prohibited. So, uh, yeah....
Edit: just double checked. They now have a box that say 'Check here to have an explicit show if Minimum Buy-in is 0.' The fuck do they expect to police that shit? I can see it from the free chat window for Christ's sake! It's not age-verified and that's why SM didn't allow it before now...
Maybe SM sees it as some sort of marketing ploy to get more traffic and hope people spend on other girls. Yeah, free shows does not generally equate to people paying for more later, at least in this industry.
space_cowgirl
06-12-2014, 03:22 PM
^What I still don't get about most gold shows is why the hell guys pay to see the SAME SHOW over and over again, or do you think it's a different batch of guys each time? Maybe it's just my brain...I never want the same porn twice.
Vlodina
06-12-2014, 03:25 PM
Well, when guys are browsing SM without having a members account yet, they see these $0 show countdowns. All they have to do to see them is sign up, they don't HAVE to spend anything. So then they sign up but they DO have to put in their card details, and I'm guessing SM is hoping that they will eventually start contributing.
AliceFun
06-12-2014, 04:15 PM
^^^ Sure thing, SM wants these guys to get 'hooked' then spend eventually, it makes perfect sense.
ETA: the $0 Gold shows cant be seen by people without a member account, once they log in with their member account they see it automatically but if no member account they cant join the show. Is NOT like on MFC public cumshows, minors are still protected from watching, the show is NOT happening in freechat.
Blovely
06-12-2014, 04:20 PM
Wow, you guys weren't kidding its so dead. Not even guys coming in every few minutes just complete silence. Is there a game on or something???? I don't think I've seen it this dead before.
JaneBurgess
06-12-2014, 04:33 PM
It makes sense but I wonder what the conversion rate is. I think some may spend money but its also a perfect situation for a freeloader. Just wait until the $0 shows and watch them for free.
^^^ Sure thing, SM wants these guys to get 'hooked' then spend eventually, it makes perfect sense.
ETA: the $0 Gold shows cant be seen by people without a member account, once they log in with their member account they see it automatically but if no member account they cant join the show. Is NOT like on MFC public cumshows, minors are still protected from watching, the show is NOT happening in freechat.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
06-12-2014, 04:49 PM
Also tonight is game 4 of the NBA Finals Miami vs San Antonio. Everyone is at a bar right now.
pippapippa
06-12-2014, 08:01 PM
It's been seriously dead for me for most of the past week. I haven't seen any of my regulars. :/
SaintSlutface
06-13-2014, 02:58 AM
This is so minor but I can't STAND it when girls pictures are stretched or distorted because they couldn't take the time to crop a pic to the right pixel size for their main photo.
Glamourmilf
06-13-2014, 05:20 AM
Re: the '0' gold shows, I just want to say that the person I watched is making money off of them. I logged in with my custie acct., and she exceeded her $150 goal, plus hustled for more $$ during the show for anal, and got it-easily. Guys were throwing in $10's, and $20's, no problem. Plus she includes tons of vids for everyone who pledges.
I usually don't ever worry about her being on, because we are in different categories, and I don't do g/g shows. I do worry when she does 0 shows, because that's where all the guys are hanging out. She's a very smart business woman, so she knows what works, and what doesn't.
There is only one other model that I can't compete with when she's on, and does '0' shows. We are the same body type, and do the same type of gold shows. All my custies flock there, plus she owns a studio, and gets tons of traffic from that, as well. She usually makes her goal, plus more, and gives vids as well.
It is what it is, so I just log off until she logs off. Luckily she doesn't stay on for more than an hr., or so.
JaneBurgess
06-13-2014, 02:14 PM
It annoys me when you post your opinion on here and people get rude about it. We all have different opinions and we don't all have to agree. I see stuff I dont agree with and I just move on. Geesh
Naiad
06-13-2014, 09:27 PM
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tomasiello
06-13-2014, 10:24 PM
I just don't know what to do when my traffic is like this. My placement isn't bad at all, and there are only a few people just trickling in and out. More people come in if I start a gold show, but no matter what I do most just sit and stare or beg...doesn't matter if I'm teasing, not teasing, offering incentives, being nice, being playful, being mean, being neutral, how good I look, how much dirty talking I do or don't do, how much I move around, how much I'm "hanging out" vs hustling, if I try switching things up, how positive I am and cheer people on. I know I look great, my cam is good, my shows are great.
And it's not like I haven't done this before. I've seriously hustled my way into some great gold shows...but I haven't gotten a really good one since sometime last week (granted, I haven't been on much at all). When the gold shows are good they're great, but fuck...it's been so bad the past week and a half I just don't know...
I do my best to stay positive, do my best to feel like it's under my control, or that I just need to keep trying/keep thinking of new things/hustle harder/be patient but fuck. I still have my good days but the recent frequency of bad days is concerning?
I think about how much of it is "me" vs the website but there's only so much I can do lol. I don't know what happened to my gold show traffic or just traffic in general.
I'm really hard on myself. If I'm not meeting my "normal" hourly/daily goals I get upset with myself really easily (and generally not to the point that it shows through on cam, I usually stay positive) but I know that ultimately I can't control other people or the website itself so that's unhealthy.
And I know that now's the time to really focus on making videos and start relying less on Streamate in general :p I really hope it picks up though! Or that I still have enough good days!
I know the feeling... I am cute, I look sexy, but much traffic
Bitch
06-13-2014, 10:30 PM
Money was okay tonight. Solid 25-30 an hour. And I would have stayed on a lot longer, except two guys in my room just ruined my mood. I don't even know why I'm upset.
'ghandi800: How long did it take you to find your vagina, or are you just still playing with fat rolls?'
'ghandi800: Looks like you make a mess on the dinner table'
and some guy who was spamming French that I suspect was insulting, who then complimented the above guy on his comments.
'pp.philippe: Nice comments ghandi'
And like. I'm fat. Okay. I've accepted and embraced it, and have been at peace with my fat since around 5 years ago or so. So why am I upset? So upset that I'm forfeiting going back on to get more cash? I... I don't know. It just hurt.
JaneBurgess
06-13-2014, 10:33 PM
They are doing it to all of us tonight. Don't let their stupidity get you down.
TheCummer: you blonde dumb ass. worthless piece of shit. ur practically a prostitute asking for money for shows or even a bang
All because I wont do free shows and freebies in free chat. I really am beginning to hate Streamate
Money was okay tonight. Solid 25-30 an hour. And I would have stayed on a lot longer, except two guys in my room just ruined my mood. I don't even know why I'm upset.
'ghandi800: How long did it take you to find your vagina, or are you just still playing with fat rolls?'
'ghandi800: Looks like you make a mess on the dinner table'
and some guy who was spamming French that I suspect was insulting, who then complimented the above guy on his comments.
'pp.philippe: Nice comments ghandi'
And like. I'm fat. Okay. I've accepted and embraced it, and have been at peace with my fat since around 5 years ago or so. So why am I upset? So upset that I'm forfeiting going back on to get more cash? I... I don't know. It just hurt.
Bitch
06-13-2014, 10:35 PM
They are doing it to all of us tonight. Don't let their stupidity get you down.
TheCummer: you blonde dumb ass. worthless piece of shit. ur practically a prostitute asking for money for shows or even a bang
All because I wont do free shows and freebies in free chat. I really am beginning to hate Streamate
I know it's not just me... usually I shrug it off better.. Fuck it, they don't get to win. They were blocked, they won't be back. I'm going back on. Thanks for that, Jane. It's nice to be reminded that it's happening to others, too. Their words are wind. Only wind.
SaraLaughs
06-13-2014, 11:02 PM
Sooo.... it's really not just me? SM is dead as FUCK?! I can't even believe it, two weeks in a row....
Time to look at other sites I s'pose....
funismymiddlename
06-14-2014, 12:19 AM
streamate is god awful. it was super dead the worst day I ever had. I can't stand mfc but I do make more there even if it's slow. I'm starting to think maybe camming isn't for me. I just don't want to accept it though :( bc I know there's plenty of money to be made
JaneBurgess
06-14-2014, 12:39 AM
You just havent found the right site for you. MFC is just a hard site period. As for Streamate a lot of people are not making money on there, its that site. It was once good and now just full of freeloaders. Try out some different sites. Cams.com doesnt allow nudes in free chat so give that site a whirl.
streamate is god awful. it was super dead the worst day I ever had. I can't stand mfc but I do make more there even if it's slow. I'm starting to think maybe camming isn't for me. I just don't want to accept it though :( bc I know there's plenty of money to be made
SaraLaughs
06-14-2014, 01:22 AM
Is cams.com a private based site? How is the traffic, comparable to SM?
Nina_Den
06-14-2014, 01:51 AM
Money was okay tonight. Solid 25-30 an hour. And I would have stayed on a lot longer, except two guys in my room just ruined my mood. I don't even know why I'm upset.
'ghandi800: How long did it take you to find your vagina, or are you just still playing with fat rolls?'
'ghandi800: Looks like you make a mess on the dinner table'
and some guy who was spamming French that I suspect was insulting, who then complimented the above guy on his comments.
'pp.philippe: Nice comments ghandi'
And like. I'm fat. Okay. I've accepted and embraced it, and have been at peace with my fat since around 5 years ago or so. So why am I upset? So upset that I'm forfeiting going back on to get more cash? I... I don't know. It just hurt.
It upsets you because you're a human being who has feelings. People who take the time to write things like that are the lowest of the low. I remember two years ago when I did MFC, I had an awesome day with a lot of people tipping and complimenting me all around. Then one person wrote, "She's got grandma tits".
It really hurt me, because even though 99.9% of the time guys compliment me about my breasts and my SO worships them, I've always been insecure about them and it takes one asshole to bring back those feeling to the surface. I laughed it off and the members in my room said he was an idiot, but I swear to god I still think about this exact sentence sometimes when I look in the mirror.
You have to be EXTREMELY tough in this job, because most people are going to care about your looks only; that's what you're there for. It's still hard for me on some days, making the separation between the "outside world", the people who truly love me and care for me VS. the camming world where my image is pretty much everything. But it's the most important thing to remember that they ARE in fact two completely different worlds, and you should keep in mind all along that you're amazing and gorgeous and brave regardless.
SaraLaughs
06-14-2014, 02:50 AM
I have mayyyyybeeee been insulted once so far, and it was pretty harmless. I'm expecting it to happen. My biggest issue is objectification... sometimes I cannot help but to feel that I'm furthering the whole 'women as objects' mantra that has existed in our society for so long. But on a personal level? I know I am a human being. I know I have value, to society and in my personal life. I know I am an intelligent and capable human being despite my faults, and perhaps even because of them (well, recognizing them at least. It's really weird how men can be when we are at their beckon call, with no real consequences to their everyday life. Maybe a good 20% of my clients just... Basically do not understand women, their bodies, their minds, and what turns them on, in any way. I guess that's what we're here for, so otherwise hopeless men can get off and get real human female interaction?
Bitch
06-14-2014, 03:31 AM
It upsets you because you're a human being who has feelings. People who take the time to write things like that are the lowest of the low. I remember two years ago when I did MFC, I had an awesome day with a lot of people tipping and complimenting me all around. Then one person wrote, "She's got grandma tits".
It really hurt me, because even though 99.9% of the time guys compliment me about my breasts and my SO worships them, I've always been insecure about them and it takes one asshole to bring back those feeling to the surface. I laughed it off and the members in my room said he was an idiot, but I swear to god I still think about this exact sentence sometimes when I look in the mirror.
You have to be EXTREMELY tough in this job, because most people are going to care about your looks only; that's what you're there for. It's still hard for me on some days, making the separation between the "outside world", the people who truly love me and care for me VS. the camming world where my image is pretty much everything. But it's the most important thing to remember that they ARE in fact two completely different worlds, and you should keep in mind all along that you're amazing and gorgeous and brave regardless.
You're such a sweetheart for taking the time to write this out. Not only was I upset by the comments, I was ashamed that I was upset by them. Sometimes I see posts claiming that getting offended by things people say in your free room is silly. Toughen up/get thicker skin if you want to cam. But I feel like that's an unreasonable demand to place on myself, to never get hurt when people say rude things to me. Being a sensitive person might make things slightly more difficult, and might be perceived as a weakness in this particular field of work, understandably so. Especially being a bbw, one learns to expect hateful comments occasionally. Most of us have gotten them our whole lives, completely unprovoked, sometimes from 'friends' and sometimes from strangers. But I believe that being able to acknowledge such comments, process them, feel hurt or sad, and then to continue hitting that Go Live button every day makes me.... brave.
I sincerely appreciate your sharing your experience with me. It is wonderful to know that what you're feeling is relatable, and nothing to apologize or feel bad for.
At the end of the day, any person who takes an extra few minutes to try and make me feel bad about myself is less a person than I could bear to be.
RedAlice
06-14-2014, 04:17 AM
I fucking hate periods. Why must I bleed out of my hoo-ha for a week every month? And god damn, they're so much grosser and more painful after having a child.
I need to find every last bit of sexy I have left (which isn't much) and drag myself online with it later. Wahhh. Don't want anything in any of my holes today. Praying for a fetish dude who just wants me to lick a balloon for an hour or something.
Guys, what do you do with the "Push something in cunt" guys? Like, okay, I'm not even talking about a guy who goes into private and straight-up tells me such a sentence, I immediately ban them. But, what do you do if the costumer seems otherwise alright, and at a certain point during the session he'd demand it, and in a rather vulgar way (especially when they don't even say "Put a toy/dildo in your pussy", but a lovely "push" or "shove" something (!) in your pussy/cunt).
I have an extremely low tolerance, and when somebody talks to me this way, regardless of the fact that I don't do penetration 99.9% of the time, I lose respect and patience for them and ban them. Am I making a mistake? Is there any way to kinda talk them outta it (?), other than just saying "I don't do that"? And how do I start building up a thicker skin for people who talk to me this way? I don't know if I'm losing money or just making a right decision by keeping my principals.
If you're on sm I just ban them. Not worth risking the low rating after you have to kill the mood trying to explain it to them. Plus I swear they do it on purpose. Get you all into a pvt/excl then try to push their sick agendas on you. I had a guy on MFC tell me one time he "needed" me to do something I stated I do not do. I don't care about my camscore since it's already in the gutter there so I just talked to him about it. Plus they say the ratings don't matter there. But on SM it's insta- ban.
RedAlice
06-14-2014, 05:00 AM
Guys, what do you do with the "Push something in cunt" guys? Like, okay, I'm not even talking about a guy who goes into private and straight-up tells me such a sentence, I immediately ban them. But, what do you do if the costumer seems otherwise alright, and at a certain point during the session he'd demand it, and in a rather vulgar way (especially when they don't even say "Put a toy/dildo in your pussy", but a lovely "push" or "shove" something (!) in your pussy/cunt).
I have an extremely low tolerance, and when somebody talks to me this way, regardless of the fact that I don't do penetration 99.9% of the time, I lose respect and patience for them and ban them. Am I making a mistake? Is there any way to kinda talk them outta it (?), other than just saying "I don't do that"? And how do I start building up a thicker skin for people who talk to me this way? I don't know if I'm losing money or just making a right decision by keeping my principals.
I agree with others, stick to your principles. If something makes you uncomfortable don't tolerate it. They might be paying, but respecting boundaries > money. :)
If someone just phrases something in a gross way or makes a demand, I'm like "~name~, that is not the way to make a request of me, would you like to try again?" If they don't apologise and rephrase (or tip), I kick 'em outta there.
Vlodina
06-14-2014, 08:14 AM
I'm getting nothing but 2 minutes wankers on SM today. Grrr.
Juliette25
06-14-2014, 10:10 AM
Sub guys are so fucking annoying.
Glamourmilf
06-14-2014, 10:15 AM
Same here. Im starting to think there is something wrong with the site, because even my connection seems 'off' on there today.
CurvyWinona
06-14-2014, 10:25 AM
Same here, but it is a bit better today than yesterday. Yesterday was a total deadville. Now, just a lot of broke asses and a minute guys.
~Carmen~
06-14-2014, 01:32 PM
Same here. Lots of minute men. One guy stayed in private for 40 secs. When I got back to free, he told me he lost connection. He came back to private and stayed a few minutes longer.
RubyTheSexPixie
06-14-2014, 01:38 PM
@bitch when I first started camming I felt like this stuff really got to me. I was basing my value as a sexual woman and a person on my earning and how my day went camming which is just not healthy. I needed to take a break and step back and get y legs back under me and build some confidence. You have to understand text cannot hurt you, you can block these guys, for every ass hole on there there are 10 other nice guys, I swear it.
After I took a few months off camming and came back to it, idk why but I just felt like this stuff started to roll right off me. I've found now that I can even take shows from assholes who want to pay me to listen to them insult me, because I usually sit there and laugh and smile and they get upset Im not sad and they leave.
You are gold sweety, it's not you, its them.
Blovely
06-14-2014, 02:09 PM
Ugh where is the traffic??? Its crazy how one Saturday can be great and the next is super dead. I feel like logging off but I'm scared that it might pick up and I'll miss it.
anonymous camgirl
06-14-2014, 02:58 PM
Yea! Is there any hope at all?? I wanted to work til 8pm EST but uh! Been on 4 hours now and I feel like i wasted my time!.. holy shiznits!.. I wish I could have gone on this morning but i was in serious joint pain hell and 2 pm was as good as i can do... and this is coming from someone who wakes up at 5 am and on cam by 8am at the LATEST!.. egads!
JaneBurgess
06-14-2014, 05:01 PM
They don't allow nudity in free chat. Occasionally they will have a weekend special where they allow performers to flash boobs and they mean flash only. If they find you breaking the rules they contact you to warn you and if you do it again you get suspended and then they close your account if you continue breaking rules. I love it because they actually enforce their rules and if a customer bothers you they actually ask you to report the customer. Its very cam performer friendly.
Traffic is pretty good and the customers arent flat out assholes.
Is cams.com a private based site? How is the traffic, comparable to SM?