View Full Version : The General Purpose "Camming Sucks Right Now" Thread
chloemay
06-21-2014, 04:03 PM
All the input plugs on my macbook pro are on the left, when it would be SO much more comfortable for them to be on the other side. UGH.
TheBrownFox
06-21-2014, 08:39 PM
Roomie, I love you dearly, but STOP using clueless as a cover for lazy. It's a friggin' dishwasher, not rocket science. If it's full, run it (the soap is under the sink, genius, you can look for it; put it in the 'SOAP HERE' slot; hit start and wait for noise). If it's clean, unload it. Do NOT sit here and tell me you can't put your sink full of dirty dishes in the dishwasher because it's full and you don't know where the soap is. You're making yourself look like a total moron, mmkay?Make sure you tell him/her to quickly rinse them by hand first before putting them in the dishwasher!
soraja
06-21-2014, 09:22 PM
Make sure you tell him/her to quickly rinse them by hand first before putting them in the dishwasher!
I hate it when people don't rinse things off before putting them in the dishwasher, especially when stuff is crusted on!!! It's a soapy hot water machine, not magic.
Issabelle
06-21-2014, 10:27 PM
Make sure you tell him/her to quickly rinse them by hand first before putting them in the dishwasher!
I hate it when people don't rinse things off before putting them in the dishwasher, especially when stuff is crusted on!!! It's a soapy hot water machine, not magic.
We've progressed to the point where she puts water in them and leaves them to soak. For like a week, but at least no crusted on crap. Although, yes, I did have to point that out to her at one point. Wonderful, but not magic--the dishwasher in all it's glory. Le Sigh.
She's out of town for a week and I'm basking in how clean it is right now.
Nina_Den
06-22-2014, 04:37 AM
Camming sucks for me because I lose so. much. freaking. money by the fact I don't live alone (plus, my dad is unemployed as of now which makes it the worst) and can hardly cam. I mean, it's balanced by the fact I don't have any bills nor rent to pay, but nevertheless it's a lose and a waste.
I'm supposed to be alone for some time tomorrow so I'll work as much as I can, but I'm so antsy today! I can't focus on ANYTHING else cause all I can think about is the potential money I could make.
Glamourmilf
06-22-2014, 05:05 AM
^^ No Bills? No Rent? Nina, I will gladly trade places with You! You can come live at my place, where You can cam 24/7, and live alone. (But You will need to make at least $4000 per month, just to live and eat.- No big deal, right?)
Your parents would love me~I'm 100% Kosher, and speak (limited) Hebrew!:yes:
Seriously, You aren't missing out on that much money, esp. these days.
anonymous camgirl
06-22-2014, 10:08 AM
The harsh reality is no one cares.. only you care....lol.. very few will go out of their way for anyone at all.
Camming sucks when no one cares about your lack of working computer -_-
My friends told me today that I can no longer borrow their computers for camwork, wonder if anyone will care? NOPE! lol :frown:
TransdimensionalPrincess
06-22-2014, 10:50 AM
The harsh reality is no one cares.. only you care....lol.. very few will go out of their way for anyone at all.
Amen!!
anonymous camgirl
06-22-2014, 10:53 AM
so today is worse than yesterday for me...lol... what the flip in A!
Fitandpretty
06-22-2014, 11:36 AM
Today sucks monkeys balls. Terrible Sunday
anonymous camgirl
06-22-2014, 12:54 PM
I worked less than 4 hours and gave up and just enjoying my day.. I love doing chores so that's part of my enjoyment.. haha.. the last 40 mins or so I had given up and wouldnt really talk to anyone.. just spamming my room with quick texts.. I even said a few times.. so would you like to give me your money??..lol
Today sucks monkeys balls. Terrible Sunday
SoloDesire
06-22-2014, 01:28 PM
I've read about other girls having issues with their c920's cable glitching out and shutting the camera off...I've had mine for almost 2 years now and I think it's finally had enough. It will just randomly shut off when I move the camera...doesn't happen all the time, but enough for it to be a pain in my ass. Guess I'm gonna have to suck it up and head over to Best Buy for a new one when I get paid again. Ugh :(
Fitandpretty
06-22-2014, 01:40 PM
I worked less than 4 hours and gave up and just enjoying my day.. I love doing chores so that's part of my enjoyment.. haha.. the last 40 mins or so I had given up and wouldnt really talk to anyone.. just spamming my room with quick texts.. I even said a few times.. so would you like to give me your money??..lol
Yeah I gave up after 12:00. Yesterday was a great day so I didn't mind dipping out early.
ashley jane
06-22-2014, 03:39 PM
A few things have been bothering me lately and I don't know why but here they go:
When I was 19 I tried camming for the first time told my bff and she basically told me I was gross for doing that. I did real bad at it and because of her I stopped. When I was around 23 she told me she got drunk and skyped with a guy and the toys came out. So gross for me to do it and get paid but ok for you to do while drunk?
This one is family related. My aunt and uncle didn't invite my grandparents to their daughters grad party. I ran into my aunt at her work and she said my cousin texted me the invite but her phone isn't really working so she wrote the info down. Later that day my aunt texts me saying it would be to hard for my grandparents to get there since it's at a grove. My grams in a wheelchair and my pap can't walk that far because of knee pain. My mom got an actual mail invite and called my aunt and at first my aunt said it was because of the grove's location but then let it spill it's because of my pap.
Like five years ago my uncle, their son, started slowly not visiting or calling. A few years ago my uncle flat out stopped answering the phone, calling back, and visiting. He says because he works redic hours and on days off he wants to be with his family. He has no problem helping his mother in law but he can't even bring us a gallon of milk when he works in a grocery store and passes our street on his way home. He's put my grams mother day and bday gift on the porch and has my cousin text me to bring it in. Yea can't even bring he gift in. Another aunt says it's because he can't stand to see his mom the way she is. She started going down 3 years ago before that he wouldn't visit. My pap blames his wife and I kind of do too. He cheated and had a kid and when his wife found out that's when he stopped coming around.
So anyways the one time they did visit my grandparents while my gram was in a rehab. My pap flipped because it was just a bad day for him. He yelled at my aunt, uncle, cousin and her boyfriend. He's old and cranky. He said to my aunt he hopes to never see her again and she's saying that my pap said that to my cousin. My pap is one of those people that can't cut some one out so he keeps trying to get a hold of him and my gram doesn't even want to see him.
anonymous camgirl
06-22-2014, 04:06 PM
good on you for venting your frustrations, but sounds to me these are NOT your problems.. and you don't really know the dealings of your elders, you might not know the full story of what's going on...so deep breaths and carry on for what your intuition and your heart tells you to go .. never betray thy self.. NEVER!
A few things have been bothering me lately and I don't know why but here they go:
When I was 19 I tried camming for the first time told my bff and she basically told me I was gross for doing that. I did real bad at it and because of her I stopped. When I was around 23 she told me she got drunk and skyped with a guy and the toys came out. So gross for me to do it and get paid but ok for you to do while drunk?
This one is family related. My aunt and uncle didn't invite my grandparents to their daughters grad party. I ran into my aunt at her work and she said my cousin texted me the invite but her phone isn't really working so she wrote the info down. Later that day my aunt texts me saying it would be to hard for my grandparents to get there since it's at a grove. My grams in a wheelchair and my pap can't walk that far because of knee pain. My mom got an actual mail invite and called my aunt and at first my aunt said it was because of the grove's location but then let it spill it's because of my pap.
Like five years ago my uncle, their son, started slowly not visiting or calling. A few years ago my uncle flat out stopped answering the phone, calling back, and visiting. He says because he works redic hours and on days off he wants to be with his family. He has no problem helping his mother in law but he can't even bring us a gallon of milk when he works in a grocery store and passes our street on his way home. He's put my grams mother day and bday gift on the porch and has my cousin text me to bring it in. Yea can't even bring he gift in. Another aunt says it's because he can't stand to see his mom the way she is. She started going down 3 years ago before that he wouldn't visit. My pap blames his wife and I kind of do too. He cheated and had a kid and when his wife found out that's when he stopped coming around.
So anyways the one time they did visit my grandparents while my gram was in a rehab. My pap flipped because it was just a bad day for him. He yelled at my aunt, uncle, cousin and her boyfriend. He's old and cranky. He said to my aunt he hopes to never see her again and she's saying that my pap said that to my cousin. My pap is one of those people that can't cut some one out so he keeps trying to get a hold of him and my gram doesn't even want to see him.
ashley jane
06-22-2014, 05:12 PM
good on you for venting your frustrations, but sounds to me these are NOT your problems.. and you don't really know the dealings of your elders, you might not know the full story of what's going on...so deep breaths and carry on for what your intuition and your heart tells you to go .. never betray thy self.. NEVER!
My grandparents raised me and I still live with them. I care for my gram and see how many calls my pap has made and how many have been answered or replied. My pap knows him and another daughter of his doesn't want to be bothered but he can't get over it. I get frustrated at seeing him trying to talk when I know they want nothing to do with him.
justanothercamgirl
06-22-2014, 05:31 PM
My roommate is a slob. She even admits it. However, when she moved in, she sat through the two hour conversation regarding rules and boundaries and me being an utter neat freak and agreed to a cleaning schedule. I have yet to see it happen in a timely manner. Or every, actually. Matter of fact, I only managed to train her on how to put dishes in the dishwasher (instead of leaving them in the sink for weeks) by informing her that every time I find them there, I will start doing her least favorite pet peeve. Constantly.
The bathroom, however, remains an issue of contention. It hit a point two weeks back where I finally cleaned every inch of the apartment myself because her lazy, lying ass kept looking at me like a rude bitch for reminding her of it after she promised time and again to do it. Technically, she should have had to clean the whole place last week, but obviously didn't. She agreed to do her 'half' of the chores (meaning I took half knowing they wouldn't be done otherwise) on her night off (last night). Did it happen? Nope. Excuse A claimed we were going to have a 'cleaning party,' and she wasn't cleaning until I came home. Of course, when I got home, Excuse B was in place, by which I mean she was busy at dinner and watching movies elsewhere while I cleaned by myself. Excuse C was this morning with 'I have to work,' to which I basically said clean the mother fucking bathroom you worthless bitch, which I realize is rude, but I'm at wits end. So, of course, she's pissed at me for making her spend all of 15 minutes scrubbing a few things so she can say she 'cleaned' and call it done.
Mental checklist: trash? Still overflowing. Floors? Still have crap on them. Shower/tub? I still see hair/soap scum and, OH YES, we have a MOLD PROBLEM thanks to her not cleaning the tub for a FULL MONTH! Sink? Still has hair/toothpaste. Toilet? Too lazy to use the scrub brush; 409 spray is enough, right?
Yeah, she's literally throwing a 'silent tantrum' right now because, on seeing this, I just shoved right past her lazy ass and redid everything she missed. No commentary, better, in less time. And she's upset because she hates being treated like an incapable child. Well, guess what? You are. Slob.
This is my two cents on the matter. Do with it what you will.
She agreed to a cleaning schedule and she hasn't followed it. She needs to be treated like an adult, who lives in an adult world, with very adult consequences.
If I were you, I'd start charging her extra rent money in the form of fines if you have to clean up after her. Nothing quite motivates someone off their lazy ass as getting fined money. I mean, have you ever seen the way that people end up running out to their car like their ass was on fire to try and put money in the parking meter the moment they catch a glimpse the person who writes the tickets coming down the street? ;)
Issabelle
06-22-2014, 07:12 PM
This is my two cents on the matter. Do with it what you will.
She agreed to a cleaning schedule and she hasn't followed it. She needs to be treated like an adult, who lives in an adult world, with very adult consequences.
If I were you, I'd start charging her extra rent money in the form of fines if you have to clean up after her. Nothing quite motivates someone off their lazy ass as getting fined money. I mean, have you ever seen the way that people end up running out to their car like their ass was on fire to try and put money in the parking meter the moment they catch a glimpse the person who writes the tickets coming down the street? ;)
Ah, it's a beautiful idea and one I've seriously considered, but she'd never pay the extra portion of the rent and then we'd both pay a late fee. I know it for a fact, because I've threatened to do the same and she just laughs and tells me she isn't paying extra rent because I'm a neat freak. Unfortunately, since I moved in first, the damage deposit is in my name, as is last month's rent. Fortunately, the lease is over at the end of August and I've secured my own place, so it's only two more months of nonsense left.
But, as an aside, she might be too forgetful/lazy to her half of the bills online so she gave me her CC info to charge the bills myself. And when she doesn't feel like buying the TP or trash bags or whatever it's her turn for (but uses the ones I go buy shamelessly), I might keep the receipt and add it to her bills. I mean, I haven't had to yet, but I definitely will if it happens again. Same theory on cleaning, me thinks. I have to do your chores? Fine--pay me for my time.
TheYazter
06-22-2014, 08:45 PM
Camming sucks for me because I lose so. much. freaking. money by the fact I don't live alone (plus, my dad is unemployed as of now which makes it the worst) and can hardly cam. I mean, it's balanced by the fact I don't have any bills nor rent to pay, but nevertheless it's a lose and a waste.
I'm supposed to be alone for some time tomorrow so I'll work as much as I can, but I'm so antsy today! I can't focus on ANYTHING else cause all I can think about is the potential money I could make.
Girl, I TOTALLY understand you. I live with my parents too and get how camming can be limited by that. You gotta find sneaky ways to do it.
Nonetheless, it beats paying the bills or anything else cause you can basically just save up the money for yourself. :)
PlayfulDesire
06-22-2014, 08:51 PM
I made $5 bucks today, after two attempts. I just hope all those perverts are in church preparing for more super naughty long kinky pvts
Issabelle
06-22-2014, 08:52 PM
Camming sucks for me because I lose so. much. freaking. money by the fact I don't live alone (plus, my dad is unemployed as of now which makes it the worst) and can hardly cam. I mean, it's balanced by the fact I don't have any bills nor rent to pay, but nevertheless it's a lose and a waste.
I'm supposed to be alone for some time tomorrow so I'll work as much as I can, but I'm so antsy today! I can't focus on ANYTHING else cause all I can think about is the potential money I could make.
I think you've said that they know you cam, but you don't want to cam while they're home (understandable, as I generally won't cam when my roomie is home even though she doesn't care at all). Have you considered maybe doing short voyeur shows? I can make anywhere from $1-30 per hour on them now that I've got a decent following. It's not much, but if you make $25 a day, it adds up. :)
anonymous camgirl
06-23-2014, 01:43 PM
2 more months left?? well then say to yourself.. this too shall pass..
Ah, it's a beautiful idea and one I've seriously considered, but she'd never pay the extra portion of the rent and then we'd both pay a late fee. I know it for a fact, because I've threatened to do the same and she just laughs and tells me she isn't paying extra rent because I'm a neat freak. Unfortunately, since I moved in first, the damage deposit is in my name, as is last month's rent. Fortunately, the lease is over at the end of August and I've secured my own place, so it's only two more months of nonsense left.
But, as an aside, she might be too forgetful/lazy to her half of the bills online so she gave me her CC info to charge the bills myself. And when she doesn't feel like buying the TP or trash bags or whatever it's her turn for (but uses the ones I go buy shamelessly), I might keep the receipt and add it to her bills. I mean, I haven't had to yet, but I definitely will if it happens again. Same theory on cleaning, me thinks. I have to do your chores? Fine--pay me for my time.
Issabelle
06-23-2014, 02:40 PM
^^ That's definitely been my strategy thus far. I love her personally and I do enjoy having another person around to hang out with, but I need things to be cleaner. Plus the shows I could do without company! Living room! Kitchen! I'm a voyeur queen, so this is thrilling.
lokikola
06-23-2014, 07:11 PM
People who try to tell me to have "just a shot" when I say "no thanks" or that I don't drink.
Fine, wanna be an asshole? Buy me a 14 dollar juice cocktail that has a name that sounds like it has alcohol. Only the bartender and I know better :)
TheBrownFox
06-23-2014, 08:30 PM
People who try to tell me to have "just a shot" when I say "no thanks" or that I don't drink.
Fine, wanna be an asshole? Buy me a 14 dollar juice cocktail that has a name that sounds like it has alcohol. Only the bartender and I know better :)
I go to karaoke nights, and I'm sick of men acting oh-so-shocked when I decline their offer to buy me a drink. 1) I'm not a big drinker, though now that karaoke has become a regular thing for me, I've been getting the Malibu...though I never finish the whole thing. 2) I'm getting sick of guys thinking that buying a drink means the woman is gonna give you her phone number/give up the pussy.
SpaceyLaceyButterfacey
06-23-2014, 09:23 PM
I hate it when people don't rinse things off before putting them in the dishwasher, especially when stuff is crusted on!!! It's a soapy hot water machine, not magic.
Since we're in the VENT thread... lol and since it was mentioned...
It drives me crazy when people DO rinse their dishes before putting them in the dishwasher. Yeah, scrape off excess food and rinse dried-on shit, or if you have a busted, weak dishwasher I can understand.
Consumer Reports website article...
"When Consumer Reports tests dishwashers it puts the dishes in caked with foods such as peanut butter, tomato sauce, oatmeal and egg yolks, some of the toughest to remove. Dozens of the models we tested were excellent at washing and dozens more were very good. So tonight after dinner, put a load of unrinsed dishes in the dishwasher and then take a load off your feet."
I know it sounds miniscule, but one of my weird pet peeves. And I have much respect for your posts TheBrownFox
Nina_Den
06-24-2014, 06:03 AM
^ Thanks, Issabelle!
The thing is, I no longer do SM. I work at a local site (which works the best for me, money-wise) which doesn't have gold shows/specific-themed shows; a person walks into a private (no free chat either) and that's it.
SweetJulia
06-24-2014, 07:37 AM
I seriously hate when I'm driving on a crowded highway and guys think I'm looking over because I'm flirting. I'm not. I don't want your lack of teeth, 87 Honda on rims, or furry potbelly. I'm literally just trying to get over so I can get off at my exit instead of being stuck in the airport lane. Like I did yesterday. When I REALLY had to pee, too :(
PlayfulDesire
06-24-2014, 08:03 AM
My drunk mother.
Nina_Den
06-24-2014, 08:38 AM
^ Chiming in with a drunk father.
PlayfulDesire
06-24-2014, 09:06 AM
^ Chiming in with a drunk father.
Got one of those too but my mother currently lives with me.
Issabelle
06-24-2014, 10:54 AM
^^ You could consider reopening your account solely for voyeur shows. Given the keywords and the generally cheap price/long show combo, guys can find those shows in searches regardless of your ranking--at least, so far as I can see. If you were originally GS enabled on SM, you should still be. If not, it's really easy to get it. The money is good and doing only voyeur shows is totally fine with support if you get them money. Haha. Like I said, it's not much and not for everyone, but I tend to do that when I want nothing more than to curl up with a book while PMSing and unwilling to deal with dumb shits. Here, BOOB TUBE! 3G for 30-45 minutes of MY TITS!
...Shockingly, no bitching yet. Granted, these guys also know I charge 5G for a guest chat flash, so I guess I've trained 'em up.
RaeRae
06-24-2014, 11:20 AM
I second the voyeuring if you can reopen your sm account. I just found out my sister in law has MS and can't handle dealing with people, so I'm doing silent pussy voyeur shows while I'm watching tv to stay sane. If any one needs a tag of voyeur (or something else), let me know, and I'll hop on my custy account.
Issabelle
06-24-2014, 11:36 AM
I second the voyeuring if you can reopen your sm account. I just found out my sister in law has MS and can't handle dealing with people, so I'm doing silent pussy voyeur shows while I'm watching tv to stay sane. If any one needs a tag of voyeur (or something else), let me know, and I'll hop on my custy account.
^^ Hah, I would totally ask you to drop me one, but I'm in the process of closing and reopening my account right now anyway to join the Boleyn Daily Pay studio. I think tags transfer though, so.... Haha
RaeRae
06-24-2014, 11:43 AM
If you are closing it and making a new account, tags don't transfer. I had to do that when I joined Katy's studio, and I started fresh. So drop me a line, if you do end up needing them.
MissQuirk
06-24-2014, 12:31 PM
Got one of those too but my mother currently lives with me.
My drunk mother currently lives with me, too.
:I
I feel your pain
TheBrownFox
06-24-2014, 12:42 PM
Since we're in the VENT thread... lol and since it was mentioned...
It drives me crazy when people DO rinse their dishes before putting them in the dishwasher. Yeah, scrape off excess food and rinse dried-on shit, or if you have a busted, weak dishwasher I can understand.
Consumer Reports website article...
"When Consumer Reports tests dishwashers it puts the dishes in caked with foods such as peanut butter, tomato sauce, oatmeal and egg yolks, some of the toughest to remove. Dozens of the models we tested were excellent at washing and dozens more were very good. So tonight after dinner, put a load of unrinsed dishes in the dishwasher and then take a load off your feet."
I know it sounds miniscule, but one of my weird pet peeves. And I have much respect for your posts TheBrownFox
I know there was a commercial about some dishwashing detergent or something that's so great, they claim you won't have to rinse your dishes before putting them in the washer. That sounds great, but who knows how much that stuff costs, and even so...the thought of putting unrinsed dishes straight into the dishwasher makes me cringe. Lol. One too many times I've had to go back and thoroughly clean a dish that someone else in the house didn't rinse.
That's sweet of you to say about my posts, Lacey. Thank you! :)
Spinnerette
06-24-2014, 03:13 PM
Camming sucks because I'm pressed and it shows and it's blocking my cash flow. :(
ashley jane
06-24-2014, 05:07 PM
We don't have a dishwasher but I hate when my pap doesn't clean the plate off and puts them in the sink. I constantly have tea bags floating in the water because it's to hard to throw it in the trash can next to the sink. Also when he puts water in the dish pan. I have to hide the dish soap because he is so wasteful. There will be a cup in the dish pan he'll pour soap and water in there to let it soak. I get so sick of the dishpan having cold, smelly water in there when I go to do dishes. Fill it up, soak them for a few minutes, then wash them. They don't need to soak for an hour cause the food comes right off if you use a dish rag which he doesn't!
SoloDesire
06-24-2014, 05:39 PM
Ugh!!! This week has been the worst!! I'm ready for a big spender!!
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JaneBurgess
06-24-2014, 06:52 PM
Its annoying that Streamate is 90 percent beggars all the time. I think I won't go on there often until summer's over. I feel like I put in too many hours on there for not enough money. I don't think its summer because other sites are busy and seem normal. :(
pippapippa
06-24-2014, 09:03 PM
I wish there were a camming is totally mediocre right now thread. It's not great... but it's not awful. I've had one guy come into private for more than five minutes tonight, but quite a few under that. Ugh.
JaneBurgess
06-24-2014, 10:17 PM
Was it hard to leave a site and do another site? Is it like starting from scratch or easier?
^ Thanks, Issabelle!
The thing is, I no longer do SM. I work at a local site (which works the best for me, money-wise) which doesn't have gold shows/specific-themed shows; a person walks into a private (no free chat either) and that's it.
So. Fucking. Dead. Right. Now. Been on two hours and made $5. What the ever loving fuck????? And It's not just me. I'm watching gs get restarted and just cancelled.
TheBrownFox
06-25-2014, 08:42 AM
When you tell a regular - in the kindest way possible - something he doesn't wanna hear (but needs to be said because it's making you uncomfortable), and as a result he gives you the silent treatment for 2 1/2 weeks. Might as well unfollow me on Twitter then. Oh, wait...you can't...you need to follow me so that when I get on cam, you can perv on me in guest mode...but not tip me anymore.....
Camigirl
06-25-2014, 08:53 AM
A friend of mine who is almost homeless now, and constant bitching that she needs work, so I spend hours with her telling her she can work at home (she has internet) camming, all areas of cam, one must fit her. She gets info. from me and I tell her to knock on my door next day blah blah, she does not. Fast forward: Week later she is still bitching about bills, and her car breaking, she does not get off her ass.
Guess I am tired of time wasters. She is dragging me down, now her friend is doing the same, so... I don't help anymore.
I can see if she was younger, but fucks sake she is in her 50's. Pretty enough, has a great personality, but keeps talking about men taking care of her..what? There are no men around taking care of her. Guess she likes drama.
Over it.
anonymous camgirl
06-25-2014, 10:33 AM
I understand,, My sister and her friends also in their 50's and 40's... drained me emotionally and financially... Always whining to me .. trying to get money off me every single time i talk to them on the phone.. I dread seeing their name come up on the caller ID.. so now?? The last conversation I had was about how i was drained and hit the wall and someone needs to be taking care of me once in awhile.. which THEY NEVER HAVE... and guess what?? they never called never anything.. and they are supposed to be family!.. that's why I held out ALOT because I knew they would do this crap.. and in the beginning i was telling them all kinds of ways that they could make money.. they wouldn't even have to get naked or masturbate.. they didn't want any part of it .. or even research it!.. NOPE they just wanted me to give the money ALL THE TIME INSTEAD!... so yea now i am enjoying the peace and quiet.. will not even bother... it's obvious they are not interested in having a relationship with me so i won't put any energy into them anymore.. bout time i learned this lesson.. it's been 20 yrs of this crap with them. I give they take.. they dont care .. i care.. fuck them!
And p.s. I am still recovering from this shoulder injury and all my other joints and stuff.. not even a phone call to ask how i am doing...uggh.. yea great family... so i thought why should i care about them?? I will treat them EXACTLY the way they treat me from now on... I'll care about someone else who goes out of their way for me.
A friend of mine who is almost homeless now, and constant bitching that she needs work, so I spend hours with her telling her she can work at home (she has internet) camming, all areas of cam, one must fit her. She gets info. from me and I tell her to knock on my door next day blah blah, she does not. Fast forward: Week later she is still bitching about bills, and her car breaking, she does not get off her ass.
Guess I am tired of time wasters. She is dragging me down, now her friend is doing the same, so... I don't help anymore.
I can see if she was younger, but fucks sake she is in her 50's. Pretty enough, has a great personality, but keeps talking about men taking care of her..what? There are no men around taking care of her. Guess she likes drama.
Over it.
SoloDesire
06-25-2014, 10:45 AM
My vent today is that I'm PISSED that I have to move my cozy, precious, sleeping cat every time I have to log in for cam. Her favorite place to sleep is in my room on the rug and every single day I have to pick her up, disturb and carry her out of my room and shut the door on her because I can't risk my cat being seen on cam. I for one, think this is a RIDICULOUS rule on SM. An animal being seen in the background is waaaaay different that an animal being used as a sexual prop. Why can't they be just a bit more lenient with this rule? I know plenty of girls that break that rule by holding, talking and playing with their pets and never get caught, and I know of girls who have had a pet in the background and have gotten suspended. Ban the girl that uses her pets in a sexual way and leave the rest of us alone!
reversecowgirl
06-25-2014, 01:11 PM
Camming sucks cause i took two weeks off, and now that i'm back and hit payout i decided to up my rate by one stupid dollar and they are coming into my room just to bitch that "thanks now i can't afford you", WOW. stupid whiny man babies!!!! it's one dollar, asshats!!!!!
Spinnerette
06-25-2014, 05:52 PM
Tip site hivemind. No one talks or tips until someone else starts the ball rolling and that can take forever...