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Spinnerette
07-04-2014, 12:52 PM
My dog has fleas. Normally, she lives on a farm with my family, but I steal her up to my tiny apartment like a week out of every month for visits and, lo and behold, no one has done any sort of flea/tick collars or baths for the season. She's scratching like nobody's business! I got some spray and gave her the once over, but she's still biting an hour later (less frequently, but still) and I'm itchy. I do not appreciate that my family doesn't remember to do this very basic stuff, but won't let me keep her up here because there isn't enough space at my place. Like, I get it, she's a big dog and needs room to run and has her 'sister' puppy there and yada yada I agree. BUT I'm the one who gives her tons of attention and she's my baby, not them. They try and they do take great care of all of our dogs, but it's just not the same. So I have my puppy in my tiny apartment. With fleas. And I feel so bad because I'm trying and she's still itching. FUCK!

About to give myself a fucking flea bath so I can get on cam...

Tips tips tips: Slather some Dawn soap on the dog and let it sit for a good 10-15 minutes (this should suffocate a lot of the adult fleas). Rinse and dry. Then sprinkle some FOOD GRADE (pool grade is not safe) diatomaceous earth all over your apartment. You can even put some on the pup (sparingly); it won't hurt them. Pests with exoskeletons don't like it though because it's like little tiny glass shards to them. Cuts them open, dries them out, they die. You'd have to vacuum and re-apply at least once a week until they're gone. I took in a feral kitten once and these were my steps to stop the flea invasion.

Issabelle
07-04-2014, 02:26 PM
^^ Thanks girl! I need to call a groomer and see if they could help me out. My apartment isn't exactly the best place to try to give my dog a bath. She's not a small dog by any means (see my pic in verified--you'll know why pretty fast). I've sprayed her down twice and still itchy! The collar I got her will help, but it takes a couple of days to kill fleas/ticks and, well, you know how it goes. She's just my baby and I feel so bad. I'm guessing that the spray did kill everything, but she was so busy biting and scratching that I'm betting her skin is just plain irritated so she keeps on scratching. Plus, she's nearly done shedding into her summer coat and again--the kind of dog I have will explain this one--that's a pretty unpleasant process for her skin as well. Ick ick ick. Poor baby.

SpaceyLaceyButterfacey
07-04-2014, 02:42 PM
OMg please be careful with the Dawn. ^^ I'm not trying to be rude, but I am really so surprised at how many vets/people use this. It lacks the proper pH for canine skin/hair and can seriously dry out your dogs skin. Only use it in an emergency (like maybe if your dog got into some type of oil or something) and if you absolutely cannot do anything else for the fleas. If you do that please rinse for a very long time. Sorry, not trying to be rude, I am just a dog lover and worry too much.

Edit... If her skin is ALREADY irritated from scratching/fleas, then I would really recommend not using the Dawn, the chemicals could cause further irritation. One of my dogs has some kind of skin allergy and Earthbath oatmeal and aloe shampoo really calms down the irritation.

SpaceyLaceyButterfacey
07-04-2014, 03:16 PM
They always say writing down your problems might make you feel better... so here goes...

I'm on my period. A horrible one at that. Back pain, cramps, headache, more blood than "the shining" (didn't someone here say that before?) the whole deal. I really need to work, so I told myself... fine, I'll make the focus on deepthroating, dirty talk, and other things all week. NOPE! I got some kind of upper respiratory funk or viral something or another... I'm so sick, I can't think straight, I have no voice, I can't stop coughing. I haven't been able to get out of bed for three days. SO not only is my VAGINA out of commission, so is my THROAT AND VOICE. My three mostly used assets for camming :( I thought about voyeur shows, but I have such horrible coughing fits (sounds like Ive been smoking for 80 years type coughing) and I'm so sick I don't even feel like perverts watching me do anything right now.

Oh, and I'm alone and sick for the 4th of July :( :( I hear the parties and fireworks already starting in my neighborhood :( Im sick and don't really want to do anything anyways, but I'm always alone for holidays all the time :( (My boyfriend works at the number one tourist spot in our town so he ALWAYS works EVERY holiday because it's always busy and big money). All my family lives at least 500 miles away from me :(

So I'm sick, on my period, and lonely...

OH YEAH and I was going to eat my emotions away through a pack of Oreos... BUT THERE ISNT ANY GAWDDAMNED MILK :banghead: I CANNOT have Oreos without milk... And my neighbor whom I could borrow some from is already gone for the evening :(


FML :(

SpaceyLaceyButterfacey
07-04-2014, 03:27 PM
You bring the milk, Ill bring the Oreos... They are double stuf family size}:D

Spinnerette
07-04-2014, 03:42 PM
OMg please be careful with the Dawn. ^^ I'm not trying to be rude, but I am really so surprised at how many vets/people use this. It lacks the proper pH for canine skin/hair and can seriously dry out your dogs skin. Only use it in an emergency (like maybe if your dog got into some type of oil or something) and if you absolutely cannot do anything else for the fleas. If you do that please rinse for a very long time. Sorry, not trying to be rude, I am just a dog lover and worry too much.

Edit... If her skin is ALREADY irritated from scratching/fleas, then I would really recommend not using the Dawn, the chemicals could cause further irritation. One of my dogs has some kind of skin allergy and Earthbath oatmeal and aloe shampoo really calms down the irritation.

True, true...I didn't even take that into consideration. Don't want the dog to be more miserable/hurt than it already is. :(

Issabelle
07-04-2014, 04:23 PM
True, true...I didn't even take that into consideration. Don't want the dog to be more miserable/hurt than it already is. :(

No worries ladies. Dawn is legitimately my absolute last resort. She's been getting sprayed down with flea/tick killing spray (hopefully faster than the collar) and got a collar yesterday. I'm just waiting for the pesky little shits to die and leave her skin in peace.

AngelMari
07-04-2014, 05:15 PM
My roommate is a slob. She even admits it. However, when she moved in, she sat through the two hour conversation regarding rules and boundaries and me being an utter neat freak and agreed to a cleaning schedule. I have yet to see it happen in a timely manner. Or every, actually. Matter of fact, I only managed to train her on how to put dishes in the dishwasher (instead of leaving them in the sink for weeks) by informing her that every time I find them there, I will start doing her least favorite pet peeve. Constantly.

The bathroom, however, remains an issue of contention. It hit a point two weeks back where I finally cleaned every inch of the apartment myself because her lazy, lying ass kept looking at me like a rude bitch for reminding her of it after she promised time and again to do it. Technically, she should have had to clean the whole place last week, but obviously didn't. She agreed to do her 'half' of the chores (meaning I took half knowing they wouldn't be done otherwise) on her night off (last night). Did it happen? Nope. Excuse A claimed we were going to have a 'cleaning party,' and she wasn't cleaning until I came home. Of course, when I got home, Excuse B was in place, by which I mean she was busy at dinner and watching movies elsewhere while I cleaned by myself. Excuse C was this morning with 'I have to work,' to which I basically said clean the mother fucking bathroom you worthless bitch, which I realize is rude, but I'm at wits end. So, of course, she's pissed at me for making her spend all of 15 minutes scrubbing a few things so she can say she 'cleaned' and call it done.

Mental checklist: trash? Still overflowing. Floors? Still have crap on them. Shower/tub? I still see hair/soap scum and, OH YES, we have a MOLD PROBLEM thanks to her not cleaning the tub for a FULL MONTH! Sink? Still has hair/toothpaste. Toilet? Too lazy to use the scrub brush; 409 spray is enough, right?

Yeah, she's literally throwing a 'silent tantrum' right now because, on seeing this, I just shoved right past her lazy ass and redid everything she missed. No commentary, better, in less time. And she's upset because she hates being treated like an incapable child. Well, guess what? You are. Slob.
Fuck roomates! Get a smaller place or just kick her out, so not worth it

AngelMari
07-04-2014, 05:19 PM
Guys, what do you do with the "Push something in cunt" guys? Like, okay, I'm not even talking about a guy who goes into private and straight-up tells me such a sentence, I immediately ban them. But, what do you do if the costumer seems otherwise alright, and at a certain point during the session he'd demand it, and in a rather vulgar way (especially when they don't even say "Put a toy/dildo in your pussy", but a lovely "push" or "shove" something (!) in your pussy/cunt).

I have an extremely low tolerance, and when somebody talks to me this way, regardless of the fact that I don't do penetration 99.9% of the time, I lose respect and patience for them and ban them. Am I making a mistake? Is there any way to kinda talk them outta it (?), other than just saying "I don't do that"? And how do I start building up a thicker skin for people who talk to me this way? I don't know if I'm losing money or just making a right decision by keeping my principals.

I apologize, smile real big and then block them. You're going to get bad ratings because they can't f*ing read. Block em, trust me been doing it awhile and there's 1K new people the next day. Heck the next min.

AngelMari
07-04-2014, 05:21 PM
^^^ Wow! My room mate just told me the other day that he can't check the trash everyday. Um? Moron you have to walk into the kitchen to get to the bathroom you can see it every day. That is one of the only chores he has here. I told him that I have to see it every day and it pisses me off every fucking time. I really wish he would just go away sometimes.

Throw that shit in his room LMAO! People just suck

Issabelle
07-04-2014, 08:09 PM
Fuck roomates! Get a smaller place or just kick her out, so not worth it

Yeah, I love her to death, but not when she's being like this. The lease is over at the end of August and I've got a one bedroom lined up in the complex with full transfer of my deposit/pet fee, so I'm fine. Although, on the issue of roommates who have the maturity of two year olds, this gem came out of her mouth the other day.

Premise: she started dating a friend of mine about two months ago (slightly less, but yeah) and they're 'in love' and 'getting married' already. They're actually getting a place together already! For fucks sake! Now, fine, some people do that, but she has dated three people in the nine months I've known her and said that about ALL of them before it ended in fireworks. She's pretty fucking immature, sorry to say. She got her driver's license and first job last summer and never had to live alone (let alone with another person) before this last year. Clearly, being an adult is new to her, but she's in her twenties so she needs to get a clue, right? Yeah, that's why I'm like 'I'm treating you like a fucking adult with responsibilities,' since she clearly needs that. So, what's the latest idiocy? Well, she's moving in with her boyfriend, which would be fine if she didn't actually fucking say 'hey, he's applying for this job in X city in the state over and I'm moving in with him if he gets it.' Okay, and? 'Well, I wanted you to know so you wouldn't be stuck with the rent with no notice, since we'd be leaving ASAP in late-July if he does.' And I'm stuck with the rent how if you leave? 'Well, obviously I'm not gonna pay rent on a place where I'm not living. I can't afford to!'

Ha. Hahahahahahahaha! Oh my fucking god that's a good one! Yeah, that's super cute. See, lady, your name's on this thing called a lease, which is a legally binding contract and I will take you to fucking court if you try to skip out on the rent to move early. It isn't my responsibility to come up with an extra $500 in two weeks because you're impulsive. She's all 'court won't make me pay!' Yeah, sweetie, they will in this state. I worked in landlord-tenant law in college and the manager who is super cool has already agreed not to hold me responsible for the rent if she leaves. Actually, she agreed to testify against her in court if she does bail. It's like $40 for me to file and I get that back plus up to 150% of late rent owed.

Children....

RedAlice
07-05-2014, 03:04 AM
Jesus fuck. I've just gone 5 days with no internet because we switched providers and it created a fault on our line, so I only earned $20-something on Monday afternoon, haven't had access to my camsite for ages, and don't have anyone to watch my son tonight so I can try to at least make payout before midnight. Oh yeah and new upload speed with this provider is 0.69. It was 0.89 before. So that can only be bad for my earnings. Ffs. Why do my family need to dick around with the internet on a regular basis?

dontcrywolf
07-05-2014, 08:10 PM
Ugh, I'm dying on MGF today :/ I haven't made a single cent. Didn't even bother with trying yesterday tbh (since I made over my goal for the whole week.)
I'd like to think that it's still slow from the 4th of July holidays, and the customers just have plans for the following Saturday.:'(

JaneBurgess
07-05-2014, 09:26 PM
It seems like a lot of people make a three day weekend for this holiday.



Ugh, I'm dying on MGF today :/ I haven't made a single cent. Didn't even bother with trying yesterday tbh (since I made over my goal for the whole week.)
I'd like to think that it's still slow from the 4th of July holidays, and the customers just have plans for the following Saturday.:'(

Bootsie
07-06-2014, 02:27 PM
My frustration today knows no bounds. I logged on so excited and perky and happy and horny...nothing. On either site. Well, nothing but freeloading assholes, even my regulars were looking for free shit, wtf. So sick of everything right now. I am working hard to treat this more like a business and I was slowly improving, but a $0 night? WTF!

nattyfetish
07-08-2014, 05:34 AM
Because the traffic is so damnnn slowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww. One hour works great, oone hour is dead. I am so frustrated. Did all the members took vacation or smth like this? And on top, a member came in my pvt said hi, started with questions like he did not want to go straight in the play thing....and closed all of the sudden ! And i look so damn pretty today. Fuck!:-[:-[:-[

Melonie
07-08-2014, 06:17 AM
For better or worse, cam customers can't spend money that they don't have for 'discretionary' items like paid webcam. In case you haven't noticed, gasoline prices are now higher than they have been in the last 6 years. Food prices are also rapidly increasing, and especially so for typical summer foods like meats. See . On top of that, summer air conditioning is now increasing utility bills.

And with summer being 'vacation' season, some cam customers are also seeing their 'discretionary' spending capacity redirected toward paying for the costs of vacations. Similarly, summer is also 'construction' season, with some cam customers seeing their 'discretionary' spending capacity redirected toward repairing their roof.

And beside the issue of 'discretionary' spending capacity, summer also limits the amount of 'private' time available to cam customers. Going on vacation is a total cam killer. And even if home, having school age children around the house all day and all night isn't exactly conducive to full enjoyment of 'private' chats.

From a purely seasonal standpoint, the summer 'slowness' due to vacations, kids being around the house, high air conditioning related utility bills etc. should come to an end after Labor Day. But having to pay higher prices for 'necessary' items in turn diverting customer money away from 'discretionary' spending on things like paid webcam isn't a seasonal thing. The number of cows, pigs and chickens available for market in September isn't going to magically increase. Nor are the number of gasoline refineries.

Glamourmilf
07-08-2014, 07:38 AM
^^ Wow! I'm sooo glad all that hasn't affected my earnings. I'm making more these summer days, than some of my 'winter' days.

anonymous camgirl
07-08-2014, 08:09 AM
Awesome to hear.. now is this on SM? .. I wonder because before SM was my main site?? I used to live for summers.. summers i would make double or triple my income and now it sucks like everyone else says...LOL.. and for years this went on.. not just one summer.


^^ Wow! I'm sooo glad all that hasn't affected my earnings. I'm making more these summer days, than some of my 'winter' days.

nattyfetish
07-08-2014, 08:26 AM
I used to work part time untill now. And my summers were very good. Now i work full time and it seems to suck. I am also scared because a friend of mine wants to start camming this month & i don;t want it to go wrong (what if it's the dead season lol ? ).

tomasiello
07-08-2014, 08:48 AM
Girls you all don't gonna believe it! I post on my twitter , I will be online right, I just look at my twitter now, I got a asshole , who just twitter back... Tks but I pass... Serious jerk.. I twitterd back: tks for been so kind! What fuck, he needs to be a ass!

tomasiello
07-08-2014, 09:00 AM
Girls you all don't gonna believe it! I post on my twitter , I will be online right, I just look at my twitter now, I got a asshole , who just twitter back... Tks but I pass... Serious jerk.. I twitterd back: tks for been so kind! What fuck, he needs to be a ass!

He just post: ho... Hummm.... I post back: I love it... You r still looking ! Unbelievable

anonymous camgirl
07-08-2014, 12:50 PM
uggh!...I deserve and expect respect and this is what i get.. what is this the CAVEMAN DAYS?? camming is so archaic.
jake3269: do you know how crazy you look and sound?
jake3269: and that respect comment is very off

Glamourmilf
07-08-2014, 02:47 PM
Anonoymous- To answer Your question,.. ALL of the sites I'm on, including phone sex lines, are doing wonderful.

JaneBurgess
07-08-2014, 04:21 PM
I respect that but they shouldn't be on cam sites if they can't afford it. Expecting cam performers to do freebies is rude and annoying. I am not sure if it's all due to what you listed or the fact that people are feeling more entitled to free porn.



For better or worse, cam customers can't spend money that they don't have for 'discretionary' items like paid webcam. In case you haven't noticed, gasoline prices are now higher than they have been in the last 6 years. Food prices are also rapidly increasing, and especially so for typical summer foods like meats. See http://www.cnbc.com/id/101795570#. . On top of that, summer air conditioning is now increasing utility bills.

And with summer being 'vacation' season, some cam customers are also seeing their 'discretionary' spending capacity redirected toward paying for the costs of vacations. Similarly, summer is also 'construction' season, with some cam customers seeing their 'discretionary' spending capacity redirected toward repairing their roof.

And beside the issue of 'discretionary' spending capacity, summer also limits the amount of 'private' time available to cam customers. Going on vacation is a total cam killer. And even if home, having school age children around the house all day and all night isn't exactly conducive to full enjoyment of 'private' chats.

From a purely seasonal standpoint, the summer 'slowness' due to vacations, kids being around the house, high air conditioning related utility bills etc. should come to an end after Labor Day. But having to pay higher prices for 'necessary' items in turn diverting customer money away from 'discretionary' spending on things like paid webcam isn't a seasonal thing. The number of cows, pigs and chickens available for market in September isn't going to magically increase. Nor are the number of gasoline refineries.

JaneBurgess
07-08-2014, 04:25 PM
Jake is an asshole



uggh!...I deserve and expect respect and this is what i get.. what is this the CAVEMAN DAYS?? camming is so archaic.
jake3269: do you know how crazy you look and sound?
jake3269: and that respect comment is very off

dontcrywolf
07-08-2014, 06:14 PM
There's been a lot on my plate recently, so I'm just here venting :(

I've just recently met this guy, and we've been seeing each other for the past month and a half. He's charming and sweet, and I can't find a single thing wrong with him, as I do with a lot of other guys. Now here's where things get a bit 'complicated'. We had unprotected sex quite a few times (he's clean from any STD's), and there's still a big change I could be pregnant. Honestly speaking, I wouldn't even mind having a baby (I would have forced him to use a condom otherwise). I just feel like we could work together and handle it. He's got a regular 9-5 job, makes decent money, and has coverage. I don't know if I'm just crazy, but it wouldn't be tragedy if I am pregnant.

And I mean, I LIKE camming, but if this baby thing is for sure, we could get married and I could change my visa status so I could get a vanilla job with more 'security'. Just a few more days till I can find out for sure. Plus, IDK how he will react to the whole thing. Like I said, he's a sweetheart and he's got a good job...but you know how men can be with this kind of stuff... :-\

TheBrownFox
07-08-2014, 06:52 PM
I respect that but they shouldn't be on cam sites if they can't afford it. Expecting cam performers to do freebies is rude and annoying. I am not sure if it's all due to what you listed or the fact that people are feeling more entitled to free porn.
^This.^ And the other day some idiot was like "Well since you're leaving MFC, can you do a public cum show for all of us?" What is it with guys thinking that a model's birthday (or a model's last day) means she should give them something? If anything, it should be the other way around.....

JaneBurgess
07-08-2014, 08:15 PM
I now understand why a lot of cam sites allow us to turn off free chat and only be in private. You almost have to do it so you save your sanity.


^This.^ And the other day some idiot was like "Well since you're leaving MFC, can you do a public cum show for all of us?" What is it with guys thinking that a model's birthday (or a model's last day) means she should give them something? If anything, it should be the other way around.....

Issabelle
07-09-2014, 04:03 AM
*Ahem* Alright, I want to fully disclose that this is a rant. I don't want to be reasoned with or told not to be a bitch on this one, because I need to get it out of my system before I bitch slap the entire goddamn United States Postal Service.

I motherfucking hate junk mail, alright? Seriously. I think we all do. What boggles my fucking mind is that it's somehow my responsibility to take care of the shit once it's delivered. Basically, Asshole Junk Mail Sender places unsolicited piece of crap in envelop and places in mailbox, Shitbag Mail Man places mail in my mailbox, and Unsuspecting Tenant (that's me) is required to take it because I now 'own' it. Um, excuse me, but how the FUCK do I own something I DIDN'T ASK FOR?!?!

I started by placing a polite note that it wasn't mine and leaving it in the box. The mailman left me bitchy notes that I was required to clean it out weekly. I started balling the shit up at the bottom into the tiniest possible space so my actual mail (i.e. the one check I got from SM each week and the occasional letter from a friend every six months) could be delivered and I wouldn't make daily trips to the dumpster. Again, even bitchier note was left by the jackass, saying I needed to personally throw it away. I started stamping 'Return to Mother Fucking Sender, Jackass' (minus profanity, sadly) and dropping it into outgoing mail--you guessed it ladies, I got it right back in my mailbox the next day with another bitchy note about how the shit is my responsibility. The cunt is never polite when he sees me or anyone else, regularly puts mail of actual importance in the wrong boxes (my checks, my neighbor's car tab renewals, etc.), and leaves rude as fuck notes.

Okay, on a daily fucking basis I am unable to open my mailbox because of how much crap is shoved into it. Daily. Basis. That's insane. The dumpster? Is 1/2 a mile down the property from both the mailbox and my apartment. Also, all of that aside about how it's a hassle for me, I once again ask you, how is it my fault or my responsibility to deal with mail I neither requested, nor paid for, nor want? I mean, fucking HOW?! And this is national, by the looks of the angry Googling I did.

The USPS needs to just fucking die. Nothing important is sent through there and the world would be fine if all of it's shitty, unethical dick bag workers just got laid off. The only decent ones should have gone to the nice companies ages ago (and probably did). I'm finding a way to get everything delivered by UPS/Fedex from now on. They're nicer, faster, and never give me shit I didn't ask for. May the USPS finally draw it's last breathe so that junk mail everywhere can cease to exist. Let's all be honest, you cock sucking morons--your soul purpose in life is to deliver junk mail. No one wants you. Please go die now.

/end rant/

anonymous camgirl
07-09-2014, 05:47 AM
I know you're venting but are you serious? I think the biggest thing you just said was I feel we could work out and I think we could get married.. NEWSFLASH! men don't think like we do, You met him a month and a half ago and now you might be pregnant and you think he will marry you and be a loving doting father and a doting husband because he is charming and has a good job? did I miss something? Sounds like a recipe for disaster.. Oh I am 41 BTW... don't give a man that much credit.. this is how women get themselves into trouble.. trusting and believing in men to step up to the plate and do the right thing.. I think we think that way because that's what women do... sorry but I feel like you are not understanding men very well and sounds like you are making a huge mistake to me.. I do not know how old you are.



There's been a lot on my plate recently, so I'm just here venting :(

I've just recently met this guy, and we've been seeing each other for the past month and a half. He's charming and sweet, and I can't find a single thing wrong with him, as I do with a lot of other guys. Now here's where things get a bit 'complicated'. We had unprotected sex quite a few times (he's clean from any STD's), and there's still a big change I could be pregnant. Honestly speaking, I wouldn't even mind having a baby (I would have forced him to use a condom otherwise). I just feel like we could work together and handle it. He's got a regular 9-5 job, makes decent money, and has coverage. I don't know if I'm just crazy, but it wouldn't be tragedy if I am pregnant.

And I mean, I LIKE camming, but if this baby thing is for sure, we could get married and I could change my visa status so I could get a vanilla job with more 'security'. Just a few more days till I can find out for sure. Plus, IDK how he will react to the whole thing. Like I said, he's a sweetheart and he's got a good job...but you know how men can be with this kind of stuff... :-\

anonymous camgirl
07-09-2014, 06:17 AM
I received this message on Skype.. I don't buy his shit.. there is NO fucking cam customer I have EVER met in 12 yrs that would actually follow through with something like this.. so I am giving you a heads up.. if anyone knows who I am talking about feel free to respond either way.. Legit or NOT?? I say NOT!

A friend directed me to you. I saw some pictures and I think your stunning. I am doctor and live in Dubai, my practice is very lucrative there. Whicj brings me to my point - what is the maximum amount of time do you do per session, and do you play favorits? I want to have an extended show lasting over 3 hours, I like the whole idea of GFE on here - and because I am willing to pay to have it is preferential threatment. Drop it all for me basiscally. I f we can come to an agreement I would love to try this with you. I am here all day so at least reply to this and talk.

SpaceyLaceyButterfacey
07-09-2014, 06:26 AM
I received this message on Skype.. I don't buy his shit.. there is NO fucking cam customer I have EVER met in 12 yrs that would actually follow through with something like this.. so I am giving you a heads up.. if anyone knows who I am talking about feel free to respond either way.. Legit or NOT?? I say NOT!

A friend directed me to you. I saw some pictures and I think your stunning. I am doctor and live in Dubai, my practice is very lucrative there. Whicj brings me to my point - what is the maximum amount of time do you do per session, and do you play favorits? I want to have an extended show lasting over 3 hours, I like the whole idea of GFE on here - and because I am willing to pay to have it is preferential threatment. Drop it all for me basiscally. I f we can come to an agreement I would love to try this with you. I am here all day so at least reply to this and talk.

I don't have anywhere near the experience you have, anonymous camgirl, but I vote... NOT LEGIT. I feel like when people go out of their way to SAY they are rich, a doctor, etc.. etc.., that means it's not true. :D Fuckin bastards.... same with the guys that claim that "Im a nice guy... " or "I have a big dick..." more times than not it's NOT TRUE... LMAO NOPE

anonymous camgirl
07-09-2014, 06:29 AM
Yea i told him you must OBVIOUSLY not know who i am.. so i gave him some background info on me..LOL.. and told him I will warn the other girls.. but who knows maybe he is serious and some girl on here knows him.. but I am not into his be a slave for me for 3 hours and drop your work and life for me .. uhh no thanks! fuck off with that nonsense.. so i told him that he was a fucking crazy man.. and I would warn the girls .. haha


I don't have anywhere near the experience you have, anonymous camgirl, but I vote... NOT LEGIT. I feel like when people go out of their way to SAY they are rich, a doctor, etc.. etc.., that means it's not true. :D Fuckin bastards.... same with the guys that claim that "Im a nice guy... " or "I have a big dick..." more times than not it's NOT TRUE... LMAO NOPE

anonymous camgirl
07-09-2014, 06:57 AM
He is still going on and on.. for an hour now.. I quit responding and he is just continuing to plead his case .. HAHAHAHA .. I had a feeling he would so i didn't block him so i could sit here and laugh at him...LOL

Wow I was trying to make an arrangement for my personal interests and its no scam
[9:16:43 AM] : I was truly trying to arrange for myself something I will not have to jump through hoops on and I was hoping to arrange something like that and at least let me explain it
[9:20:53 AM] : Its perferable to me to be able to have someone I can chat with and if I wanted to be able to explore a bit of sex with via cam. The idea of being able to get you on cam quickly makes it great for me because I am impatient. I like you and I would like to arrange something and I am willing to work with you. Is that soo bad?

How has what I said been wrong becasue I am having a hard time understanding?
[9:32:18 AM]: Will you tell me where I messed up?
[9:32:21 AM]: Please?
[9:42:28 AM]: Listen I over stepped my bounds, can I start over?

My name is ----- and I am interested in finding a regular cam girl. I like to sign on daily and I was hoping I can find time with you for a session.
[9:48:49 AM] I will tell you this. If you wish me gone just say and I will give you my word and go. I just want to know so I can have that knowledge.
[9:55:07 AM] : May I cam you now?

TheBrownFox
07-09-2014, 07:21 AM
I know you're venting but are you serious? I think the biggest thing you just said was I feel we could work out and I think we could get married.. NEWSFLASH! men don't think like we do, You met him a month and a half ago and now you might be pregnant and you think he will marry you and be a loving doting father and a doting husband because he is charming and has a good job? did I miss something? Sounds like a recipe for disaster.. Oh I am 41 BTW... don't give a man that much credit.. this is how women get themselves into trouble.. trusting and believing in men to step up to the plate and do the right thing.. I think we think that way because that's what women do... sorry but I feel like you are not understanding men very well and sounds like you are making a huge mistake to me.. I do not know how old you are.
I don't mean to sound like a Negative Nancy, but I agree with anonymous camgirl. A lot of women seem to have this whole "man, woman, and baby happily-ever-after" image in their head, and as nice as that may sound, often times it doesn't turn out that way. A baby doesn't always bring the man and woman closer. In fact, it seems like when a baby enters the picture, that's when a man's true colors start to show. And this is coming from a woman whose ex even said "I hope you ARE pregnant." Hmmm. Years later I have an 11-year old son whose "father" hasn't seen him since he was a baby. For your sake, I hope that everything works out, and that you do not wind up with a broken heart. *HUGS* :)

anonymous camgirl
07-09-2014, 08:14 AM
Negative Nancy... pfft.. you are a Debbie Downer... haha... well the thing is?? I think that men ALSO fantasize about having the ability to make a woman pregnant.. It's a fantasy.. HELLO??? are you not listening to them on cam shows??..lol... It's more like I am a MAN! I can inseminate my sperm inside of you!.. I am VIRILE .. ...i swear to god.. it's all completely ego-based. As far as cam shows goes:.. sometimes when these idiots say they wanna make me pregnant.. and i have been pregnant 4 fricken times.. I am looking forward to my womb shedding for the last damn time.. so when i am annoyed and in a bad mood .. i say to them.. oh do you like paying CHILD SUPPORT HONEY?? OH YOU WANNA MAKE ME PREGNANT?? SWEET!!!..LOL

I also wanted to add, that this is a modern world we live in now, so we have to think conciously, NOT with our biological subconscious brains we were born with.. to procreate the earth and to provide.. that's where all this is coming from.. it is deep-rooted inside of us to behave in this way. We are hardwired to make babies and have men provide.. but we have to stop doing that cuz that's not how the world is anymore.. It's changed.. And this is why we have so much conflict today.


I don't mean to sound like a Negative Nancy, but I agree with anonymous camgirl. A lot of women seem to have this whole "man, woman, and baby happily-ever-after" image in their head, and as nice as that may sound, often times it doesn't turn out that way. A baby doesn't always bring the man and woman closer. In fact, it seems like when a baby enters the picture, that's when a man's true colors start to show. And this is coming from a woman whose ex even said "I hope you ARE pregnant." Hmmm. Years later I have an 11-year old son whose "father" hasn't seen him since he was a baby. For your sake, I hope that everything works out, and that you do not wind up with a broken heart. *HUGS* :)

RedAlice
07-09-2014, 08:19 AM
HA. I wish we could create a contract for them to pay fantasy child support after they're done with their fantasy impregnation camshow. ;) $$$.

TheBrownFox
07-09-2014, 08:22 AM
It's a fantasy.. HELLO??? are you not listening to them on cam shows??
Yeah, HELLO...I wasn't referring to cam shows...lmao.

anonymous camgirl
07-09-2014, 08:43 AM
Yea I KNOW.. but this is a real life issue that men really do fantasize about IRL.. and so being a cam girl we get to hear about these fantasies that they can't speak about IRL... it's really going on in their heads.. that's the point i was trying to make.. Nothing to insult or offend you of any sort.. sorry if you might have took it that way.


Yeah, HELLO...I wasn't referring to cam shows...lmao.

TheBrownFox
07-09-2014, 09:06 AM
Yea I KNOW.. but this is a real life issue that men really do fantasize about IRL.

Which is funny to me, because don't some men bitch to their friends about how "fat" their pregnant wife is? SMH. I'm just thinking...um, she's carrying your child, asshole. Of course she's gonna go through some changes. Lol.

Rolly
07-09-2014, 09:44 AM
Takin' goddamn forever, just chatting. "Pleaseeeee meeeeestresssss thissssss, pleeeeeezzzz?" Eergghdfnfmf. Muthaluva, I just spent 20 minutes negotiating this shit with you and all of a sudden you're getting tight in your pants... right about the wallet area. -_- Duuuude.
DUDE.

You're a financial domination client. I know how much you make. I know your spending habits better than your CPA.

I ALSO KNOW YOU AIN'T BROKE.

ururghgherhguerhuh. I know not to expect the same sort of payout EVERY time, but it's getting to the point where I'm dipping under $100/hr just chatting with the dude. I've got to train these boys to be less needy. I'm making myself far too available for them. BAH.

Le vent done. Danke.

Mare
07-09-2014, 11:15 AM
Is it me or did today suck everywhere?

TattooedBBW
07-09-2014, 12:22 PM
My vent today is that I JUST made my cam room all pretty, I tacked up some
black sheets on my walls so I really POP on cam, and now my mom tells me she's coming by today. She doesn't know I cam, she's pretty judgemental so I have to take down the sheets, hide my toys, hide all my lighting. It's just annoying since I just got it all looking good. Oh well id rather this then tell her I cam haha

BubblyBlonde
07-09-2014, 01:11 PM
I haven't been on today, but last night was the worst I have ever experienced. I was online for 6 hours and only brought in $50. Two days in a row I had a good regular promise privates, but he kept giving me excuses that something was wrong with his internet. I went back on really late and he popped in to let me know he wasn't feeling it, so he hit it limit with another model.

I'm curious if anyone else had a hard time last night too?


Is it me or did today suck everywhere?

Bootsie
07-09-2014, 01:36 PM
I'm curious if anyone else had a hard time last night too?
I had a shit night last night...$0. Couldn't believe it! Got lots of contacts on Skype via my new indy listing, but no shows.

Tonight is marginally better...but not by much. I promised myself I would stick it out for a full 2.5 hours...so I will. Like pulling teeth. Ugh.

pippapippa
07-09-2014, 07:21 PM
I give up on having a normal sleep schedule. I tried to cam during the day and in the afternoons for a while and I just do much better at night. I also get way more fetish customers at night and they're so much easier and more fun than just fingering myself all day. But it means I stay up late and wake up late and miss half the day. :/ At least I'm already a night person.

SamanthaSugar
07-10-2014, 05:19 PM
Camming sucks because I'm back in the single world and eventually I'll get a new dude then I'll have to stress about disclosing.

MissNicole2U
07-10-2014, 08:03 PM
you know camming sucks right now when you're desperate enough to give up on SM for the night in exchange for the jungle of MFC.. god it's slow :-/

JaneBurgess
07-10-2014, 11:57 PM
My router was being an assclown tonight. Hell it might have been all week since I was having glitches and thought it was the cam site. I just bought a new router a couple of months ago. GRRRR