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Glamourmilf
07-24-2014, 06:51 AM
Thanks ladies! I think I'm going to stick with non-insertion shows from now on.. most of the time guys don't stay longer than 2 minutes, anyway. I did take advice that I read on here a while ago, to only use fingers. It does work 99% of the time, and nobody complains. For that particular custie I mentioned above, I always do everything he wants, because he pays quite a bit.

** Regarding other models going in your room, I wasn't going to bring this up.... But the model I spoke about several months ago who does this, in her chat room is still doing it...
She is Top row on SM. Every time I go into her room, and I mean every time--- the first words I hear are.."She...." (she's ranting to custies about another model).
I'm talking Random times I pop in right before I log in.. every time...
I'm sure she talks about me too, I'm probably streaming when she does, so I never know.
I even saw her in the middle of the night, sitting in her empty chat room, watching other models rooms, with her volume up... (probably taking notes on how she could bash them).
I hear her talking about several ladies I have met on here, as well as others.
So, if your getting trolls, or weird things happening in your chat, it's probably her, or her faithful little 'minions'.. Just saying.
My room is always busy, and very positive, so she doesn't affect me, but when some troll comes in, and disrupts my room by saying something totally off the wall..., I just figure she sent them.

Mare
07-24-2014, 07:25 AM
Man!.. these guys are so fucking unbelieveable.. it's like only the worst of the worst are around these days... I just woke up to find out this guy left me 2 stars on Niteflirt .. because he said i flipped out on him for wasting my time.. would you fucking know?? that i NEVER did a show with him?? he only bought my SKYPE ID.. and sat on skype free chat and wasted my time and never even bought a fucking show.. so i messaged support to have his review removed as they are supposed to be based on SHOWS not free chat.. fucking assholes these days.. I have had a huge rash of 1 stars and bad reviews on like almost every site i am on these days.. anyone else?
I know on Streamate I blame the site. It's the only way guys can feel like they "get even" with us if they just want to be a douche for whatever reason. Instead of just kicking a guy out and thus "spanking" him for bad behavior or just rampant stupidity I now have to out and out BAN him because if I don't he will come back somewhere down the line to give me a piss rating. Streamate is killing itself with that. Models aren't happy getting bad ratings for no good reason. Other models come in and do it to other models so the only way you have to protect yourself is to BAN. And as stupid as these guys are 98% can't understand how come they just got banned. I sure as hell know they don't read profiles or room topics. They just think we're all the same. I'll fist, and use a baseball bat and use toys bigger than should be humanely possible because one time they saw a model or porn star do it.
And since they just think we're all the same I can only imagine how bad their actual sex skills are. But..... they sure do know how to rate poorly just to get even.

anonymous camgirl
07-24-2014, 07:52 AM
I have no idea.. if it is the same person.. all these guys tend to have similar names.. NO IDEA.. they never say anything to me when i report a custie..:( I have reported maybe 5 guys since i have been working there.. Mostly fraud and underage.


Anonymous,^^ I just had that screen name the second I logged on.. right after reading this! It was about 30 minutes ago.. There is an 80 after the name, but I feel that it must be the same guy. How long will it take for them to ban him? I really wanted him to go prvt., so I could stall, and then ban and report him also, to speed up the process.

takiaya
07-24-2014, 07:54 AM
This is how my week is going so far for camming:

$12.20 lastnight/today @[email protected] and I tried multiple places at different times. I did miss getting online at my normal time though on all of them though xD. I thought logging in late was better than nothing but guess not bc I was atleast in a good mood before getting online lol, now I'm just grumyyyy.

And yesterday/night before, I was too pissed off to cam. Payoneer blocked my fracking card, apparently I used it at a store that got hacked, so they blocked my card and notified me of it via email AND the new one they are sending me wont be here till August 14th, they didn't even give me the option to have it sent faster, I sent out angry tweets to them and emails bc I was highly upset, but to what avail. So I spent a crap ton of time going threw and trying to switch everything I could off of payoneer. Mfc took me like 2 hours of contacting cs because it wouldn't let me change my payment info there, kept saying my password was wrong. Shitty fucking week so far.

anonymous camgirl
07-24-2014, 07:55 AM
This is on NITEFLIRT. not SM

I know on Streamate I blame the site. It's the only way guys can feel like they "get even" with us if they just want to be a douche for whatever reason. Instead of just kicking a guy out and thus "spanking" him for bad behavior or just rampant stupidity I now have to out and out BAN him because if I don't he will come back somewhere down the line to give me a piss rating. Streamate is killing itself with that. Models aren't happy getting bad ratings for no good reason. Other models come in and do it to other models so the only way you have to protect yourself is to BAN. And as stupid as these guys are 98% can't understand how come they just got banned. I sure as hell know they don't read profiles or room topics. They just think we're all the same. I'll fist, and use a baseball bat and use toys bigger than should be humanely possible because one time they saw a model or porn star do it.
And since they just think we're all the same I can only imagine how bad their actual sex skills are. But..... they sure do know how to rate poorly just to get even.

anonymous camgirl
07-24-2014, 08:12 AM
Oh i am by the Tampa one.. Looks like it will be raining the majority of the day so i guess i am stuck on fucking CAM today...LOL.. .. I do not go there in the rain, it's such a pain.


We got one of those close to me. I really need to go sometime this summer

TheBrownFox
07-24-2014, 08:51 AM
*Also posted this in The ImLive Thread*

OMG, I just spent like 5 minutes clicking that God damn 'Allow' button (on the "ImLive needs permission to access your camera and microphone" pop-up). WHY is it that everytime my cursor clicks the Allow button, it won't CLICK strongly enough to take??? I was trying to hurry up and get in there so I could "pause" Free Live Chat mode, but while I was sitting there clicking Allow like a madwoman, I saw this guy pop in and say hello. *facepalm* I probably need an external USB mouse instead of using this stupid touchpad built into my laptop.

TheBrownFox
07-24-2014, 09:04 AM
I just logged into Skype, and there's some ad on here about free laundry detergent, and I can't get it off my screen. I can't find a little x to click on or anything. Between that and it taking me 5 minutes to get into my damn ImLive chat, I'm highly annoyed.

I can tell it's gonna be one of those days....

anonymous camgirl
07-24-2014, 09:09 AM
You can change your settings on that so that you don't have to constantly click allow everytime you turn your cam on... Ok so the next time after you click allow.. right click on your video scroll down to settings, click on the tab that looks like an eye.. it will say allow/deny.. and remember.. check off remember! and voila! never be annoyed by that again!


*Also posted this in The ImLive Thread*

OMG, I just spent like 5 minutes clicking that God damn 'Allow' button (on the "ImLive needs permission to access your camera and microphone" pop-up). WHY is it that everytime my cursor clicks the Allow button, it won't CLICK strongly enough to take??? I was trying to hurry up and get in there so I could "pause" Free Live Chat mode, but while I was sitting there clicking Allow like a madwoman, I saw this guy pop in and say hello. *facepalm* I probably need an external USB mouse instead of using this stupid touchpad built into my laptop.

TheBrownFox
07-24-2014, 09:12 AM
You can change your settings on that so that you don't have to constantly click allow everytime you turn your cam on... Ok so the next time after you click allow.. right click on your video scroll down to settings, click on the tab that looks like an eye.. it will say allow/deny.. and remember.. check off remember! and voila! never be annoyed by that again!
Yes, I will try that! Thanks!

JaneBurgess
07-24-2014, 10:38 AM
Sounds like she needs to stop being a bitch and worry about herself. There are cam performers I dont care for but I have never once talked about them on a cam site. If I was a customer that would turn me off.



Thanks ladies! I think I'm going to stick with non-insertion shows from now on.. most of the time guys don't stay longer than 2 minutes, anyway. I did take advice that I read on here a while ago, to only use fingers. It does work 99% of the time, and nobody complains. For that particular custie I mentioned above, I always do everything he wants, because he pays quite a bit.

** Regarding other models going in your room, I wasn't going to bring this up.... But the model I spoke about several months ago who does this, in her chat room is still doing it...
She is Top row on SM. Every time I go into her room, and I mean every time--- the first words I hear are.."She...." (she's ranting to custies about another model).
I'm talking Random times I pop in right before I log in.. every time...
I'm sure she talks about me too, I'm probably streaming when she does, so I never know.
I even saw her in the middle of the night, sitting in her empty chat room, watching other models rooms, with her volume up... (probably taking notes on how she could bash them).
I hear her talking about several ladies I have met on here, as well as others.
So, if your getting trolls, or weird things happening in your chat, it's probably her, or her faithful little 'minions'.. Just saying.
My room is always busy, and very positive, so she doesn't affect me, but when some troll comes in, and disrupts my room by saying something totally off the wall..., I just figure she sent them.

JaneBurgess
07-24-2014, 10:41 AM
I get it and it is scary. I think many of us are so attached or even loyal to a site its super hard to leave it. I've enjoyed split camming since I am making money and I get a chance to meet new customers. It doesnt help that July is always a dead ass month and you can't wait for it to be over.



I wanna quit Streamate so badly! It's quick becoming unbearable lately. I feel like it's a waiting game and the majority of the guys who actually talk are a bunch of assholes. If it wasn't for the handful of regs I have there I wouldn't even bother. I miss the days of enjoying cam. It's been a long time since I've had fun camming and I want to blame it on what SM has become. I'm going to start putting more focus into my sites I split with and hopefully be able to phase SM out. I've just put so much time into SM over the years and it's scary to think about not having it to rely on...but I haven't really been able to rely on it for income anyway. I dread logging on and knowing I could be working for hours and end up with pocket change. SM is dying...and that scares the shit outta me.

SoloDesire
07-24-2014, 11:41 AM
I get it and it is scary. I think many of us are so attached or even loyal to a site its super hard to leave it. I've enjoyed split camming since I am making money and I get a chance to meet new customers. It doesnt help that July is always a dead ass month and you can't wait for it to be over.

Yes, so true. The summer always leaves me questioning whether I should find a vanilla job lol. I also tend to be a bit more lazy in the summer...wanting to get out and enjoy it and cam less and less! I just need to put the work in on other sites so I don't have to rely on SM and it's sloooooow days ;)

anonymous camgirl
07-24-2014, 11:44 AM
I don't get it because before my streamate days my summer months were double my income.. weird...but this was before the recession.. the last good summer i had! .. was 2008.. I pretty much used to put off all extra expenses til summer but now i budget differently so i can have money all year round...LOL

anonymous camgirl
07-24-2014, 11:47 AM
Ya know i have a similar problem, the room I cam in is an addition and doesn't seem to really cool down very well and it's an old house, I keep saying i'll get a portable air conditioner or something but i never do they are like 200-300.. I also keep saying i'll sell or rent out my house but doesn't seem to be working in my favor yet.. so i say to myself.. well god and my spirit guides wont let me move yet , not a good time apparently.. lol


Aaargh I am melting! It is so unbelievable frigging hot and I dont have an ac in my camming room!!!
Loving the sun and all but this is to much for me, esp when working!!!

Im getting so annoyed by the new girls coming into this forum making new threads about help to start up while they clearly didnt read shit on here... stating they did read up a lot. If you did than why are you asking questions that are allreday being answered. When I started I read this whole damn forum, yep all of of (I was kinda obsessed). And I learned SO MUCH from it.
Putting in effort is rewarding

ALLRIGHT I can not take this heat anymore, and I still ahve to go for at least 2 more workinghoures! ARRRRGH

TheKili
07-24-2014, 01:28 PM
So fucking glad I ordered a new computer. This one obviously hates me. So what if I squirted all over you...twice...get the fuck over it.

Oh and SM sucks for me before 5pm....why do I always think I can conquer this "new before people get home from work" hour? Fail every single time. The one private I did get in the entire HOUR I had been on left when my internet connection died. I want to cry!!!!

TheBrownFox
07-24-2014, 01:43 PM
** Regarding other models going in your room, I wasn't going to bring this up.... But the model I spoke about several months ago who does this, in her chat room is still doing it...
She is Top row on SM. Every time I go into her room, and I mean every time--- the first words I hear are.."She...." (she's ranting to custies about another model).
I'm talking Random times I pop in right before I log in.. every time...
I'm sure she talks about me too, I'm probably streaming when she does, so I never know.
I even saw her in the middle of the night, sitting in her empty chat room, watching other models rooms, with her volume up... (probably taking notes on how she could bash them).
I hear her talking about several ladies I have met on here, as well as others.
So, if your getting trolls, or weird things happening in your chat, it's probably her, or her faithful little 'minions'.. Just saying.
YES, a couple times in the past, I've been in a model's room where all she was doing was watching a fellow model on cam and criticizing whatever she's doing. And what do the guys do??? Instead of telling her "You should worry about yourself instead of hating on fellow models," they'd sit there and LOL at everything she said, or even chime in with agreement. SMH. It's really sad. It's like high school all over again...

scarletl
07-24-2014, 02:55 PM
Huff :(

Haven't cammed in a week but cammed Wed and today and it totally sucks. Major sucky. I am hoping because tomorrow is payday for some things might pick up this weekend.

In regards to camming as a career, kudos to the very few girls who can make a great career from camming (I'm talking 5-15 years) and earn a decent wage each month. But I think for the majority of us camming will always be so inconsistent and is probably only ideal to get yourself out a shitty situation, get by for a while or as savings for something special or another business.

I personally never come into camming for a career, I come in to get by for a while, set myself up in a home and a business.

anonymous camgirl
07-24-2014, 03:01 PM
Yea! it's tough.. almost 12 yrs now but I have always made over 50k a year at least!.. its hard work! I don't really recommend it..I recommend college classes..lol .. most people can make that much and not have to sacrifice it all for such a pittance.


Huff :(

Haven't cammed in a week but cammed Wed and today and it totally sucks. Major sucky. I am hoping because tomorrow is payday for some things might pick up this weekend.

In regards to camming as a career, kudos to the very few girls who can make a great career from camming (I'm talking 5-15 years) and earn a decent wage each month. But I think for the majority of us camming will always be so inconsistent and is probably only ideal to get yourself out a shitty situation, get by for a while or as savings for something special or another business.

I personally never come into camming for a career, I come in to get by for a while, set myself up in a home and a business.

scarletl
07-24-2014, 03:06 PM
Yea! it's tough.. almost 12 yrs now but I have always made over 50k a year at least!.. its hard work! I don't really recommend it..I recommend college classes..lol .. most people can make that much and not have to sacrifice it all for such a pittance.

Wowza! Yeah I can see your point. I've owned several business's in the past so I am looking to own my own business again because I can't deal with the stress of camming.
I hate the whole getting ready to work, logging on to get not much or nothing and then having to wait until it gets busy.
I used to love this job but the novelty has worn off after 4 years

JaneBurgess
07-24-2014, 03:08 PM
Im lucky because I live in Arizona and no one wants to be outside during the day. So I am going to just cam during the day and go out at night.




Yes, so true. The summer always leaves me questioning whether I should find a vanilla job lol. I also tend to be a bit more lazy in the summer...wanting to get out and enjoy it and cam less and less! I just need to put the work in on other sites so I don't have to rely on SM and it's sloooooow days ;)

BlueBunny
07-24-2014, 03:15 PM
Anonymous camgirl, I cringe and hurt inside when I read how profitable camming used to be. WhyTF didn't I join this world in 2003 when I first heard about it when ifriends was the shit? I know you have real estate investment aspirations (like me) and I'm sitting here telling myself.. if I made 50k a year I'd buy one cheap house and rent it out each year, until I have enough inventory to get passive income.. And then I return to my reality and the fact 1k a month camming is most I ever made, and that is entirely my fault for not putting in more hours when SM traffic WAS there. *sigh*. Each week I hope I will get it right and at least hit 500. Not going to be this week though. lol 110 dollars after 2 days worked; 20 came from 2 hours last night. My ego is not a happy camper right now.

anonymous camgirl
07-24-2014, 03:16 PM
say hi to my mom and dad!.. they live in Thatcher I think it's up north in the mountains ...lol.. the only thing I don't like is the no grass thing.. I live in florida for the dolphins.. I am originally from the san fran area in cali and am considering trying to make a move their part time for a change of scenery and see all my fam and old friends I had.


Im lucky because I live in Arizona and no one wants to be outside during the day. So I am going to just cam during the day and go out at night.

anonymous camgirl
07-24-2014, 03:21 PM
hmm I don't know who you are but I am an awful camgirl...LOL.... I play a lot of different angles that has nothing to do with teasing , seducing or being sexy...haha...Just my normal self most of the time. I just work really hard , built up regulars , make new ones... etc etc.. I can't help but wonder if I was a better camgirl how much better I can be?? everyday I try to be even better than I am which is stressful in and of itself.


Anonymous camgirl, I cringe and hurt inside when I read how profitable camming used to be. WhyTF didn't I join this world in 2003 when I first heard about it when ifriends was the shit? I know you have real estate investment aspirations (like me) and I'm sitting here telling myself.. if I made 50k a year I'd buy one cheap house and rent it out each year, until I have enough inventory to get passive income.. And then I return to my reality and the fact 1k a month camming is most I ever made, and that is entirely my fault for not putting in more hours when SM traffic WAS there. *sigh*. Each week I hope I will get it right and at least hit 500. Not going to be this week though. lol 110 dollars after 2 days worked; 20 came from 2 hours last night. My ego is not a happy camper right now.

JaneBurgess
07-24-2014, 06:08 PM
I know where Thatcher is. We have grass here but you have to usually plant it yourself. Houses are built with that damn desert landscaping I hate. I'm originally from Miami, FL and I miss the beach so much. I need to move by the beach one day if I ever get rich enough to afford it.



say hi to my mom and dad!.. they live in Thatcher I think it's up north in the mountains ...lol.. the only thing I don't like is the no grass thing.. I live in florida for the dolphins.. I am originally from the san fran area in cali and am considering trying to make a move their part time for a change of scenery and see all my fam and old friends I had.

TattooedBBW
07-24-2014, 06:12 PM
So I am getting ready to cam and I have my glass toys on my dresser since I just washed them and I accidentally kicked the dresser and 3 of them went flying onto the cement floor and shattered :(:(:(

TheYazter
07-25-2014, 04:47 AM
Ugh. Been on for an hour and a half and just made $10!!! What is wrong?!?!?!

TheBrownFox
07-25-2014, 06:27 AM
When a woman is interested in a guy who doesn't return her feelings, she's told to "Let it go and move on." When a guy tries to get a woman's phone number and she's not interested, it's "fucked up" and she's "mean." Smh. That's pretty sad that even after telling a guy no, you have to walk away from him...otherwise he'll just stand there and ask "WHY NOT? IS THERE SOMETHING WRONG WITH ME? YOU DON'T LIKE WHITE GUYS OR SOMETHING???" Funny, if I had said something like that to a guy, I would've been called a "crazy, clingy bitch all on his dick."

Men need to fucking learn how to take no for an answer. You could even turn them down in the nicest, classiest way possible, and these assholes would still get all pissy about it. And telling a woman "Damn, ma, that's fucked up..." is not gonna make her change her mind either. To quote Tim McManus (a character on Oz played by Terry Kinney)..."this isn't Burger King...you can't have it your way." If a woman doesn't want you to have your number, do like Elsa from Frozen and LET IT GOOO.....LET IT GOOO.....

AspiringCamGirl
07-25-2014, 06:38 AM
When you have the guys that come in your room to say "heels?" Me: Yeah baby, I have heels 2 inhces beside me! Loser: Oh, but you don't have them on now? Me: No babe, they are right next to me, let's go have fun! Loser: Can I see? Me: See me in show! (or ignore them). Of course they say a smart ass comment or leave. I HATE THE HEELS? GUYS! NO, you dumb idiot, I do not sit in my own house wearing goddamn heels so I can show them to you in free chat. Seriously!

Glamourmilf
07-25-2014, 07:04 AM
^^ That 'heels' question pisses me off! Not too long ago, (maybe a year or so), when I answered "Yes", they would buy a show. Now I never answer any questions about things I have, because they never buy anything. Too bad camming has changed like this. It used to be a lot more fun.
I wish I just started camming, so I wouldn't know the difference.

Vlodina
07-25-2014, 07:29 AM
Whoohoo!! I just made 70 cents in a hour and a half. TheYazter, enjoy your $10!!

TheBrownFox
07-25-2014, 07:38 AM
Payoneer blocked my fracking card, apparently I used it at a store that got hacked, so they blocked my card and notified me of it via email AND the new one they are sending me wont be here till August 14th, they didn't even give me the option to have it sent faster
Sorry to hear that. :( I've been through the "need to get a new Payoneer card ASAP" thing at least twice already, after my account was compromised. It's shitty when you have money you can't even get to, and having to explain to others "I don't have the money for you right now because..." *HUG*

anonymous camgirl
07-25-2014, 08:14 AM
The problem is that men do not take NO for an answer, everything is negotiable.. they do that on cam all the time.. well why don't you hang from the ceiling?? why don't you do anal?? how come you don't squirt.. everything is the beginnings of a negotiation to them..Maybe they are just hardwired in their brain to be that way but it is sure fucking annoying.


When a woman is interested in a guy who doesn't return her feelings, she's told to "Let it go and move on." When a guy tries to get a woman's phone number and she's not interested, it's "fucked up" and she's "mean." Smh. That's pretty sad that even after telling a guy no, you have to walk away from him...otherwise he'll just stand there and ask "WHY NOT? IS THERE SOMETHING WRONG WITH ME? YOU DON'T LIKE WHITE GUYS OR SOMETHING???" Funny, if I had said something like that to a guy, I would've been called a "crazy, clingy bitch all on his dick."

Men need to fucking learn how to take no for an answer. You could even turn them down in the nicest, classiest way possible, and these assholes would still get all pissy about it. And telling a woman "Damn, ma, that's fucked up..." is not gonna make her change her mind either. To quote Tim McManus (a character on Oz played by Terry Kinney)..."this isn't Burger King...you can't have it your way." If a woman doesn't want you to have your number, do like Elsa from Frozen and LET IT GOOO.....LET IT GOOO.....

Glamourmilf
07-25-2014, 08:20 AM
^^ Men are probably like this because they are made to believe that they get an 'award', just for being born! :king:
It's just how they are hardwired, because it still is a 'man's world', as disgusting a thought as it is.

TheYazter
07-25-2014, 08:37 AM
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That's sad that us beautiful girls gotta work this hard for almost nothing. We ain't no free entertainment.

TheBrownFox
07-25-2014, 08:45 AM
The problem is that men do not take NO for an answer, everything is negotiable.. they do that on cam all the time.. well why don't you hang from the ceiling?? why don't you do anal?? how come you don't squirt.. everything is the beginnings of a negotiation to them..Maybe they are just hardwired in their brain to be that way but it is sure fucking annoying.
And since this is the VENT thread...one thing I HATE is when they're like "Well what are you looking for in a guy?" My dumb ass actually goes and answer their question, and then they say something like "Well I'm ALL of those things!" SMH. That's why I've always hated the question "What do you look for in a guy?"...especially when it's being asked by a guy.. Also, if I'm in a real relationship with someone, I need to be attracted to him. I'm not gonna be with somebody just for the sake of being able to say "Hey, everyone, I have a boyfriend!" Lol. Seriously, I've seen girls make comments like "I need a boyfriend. Hit me up if you're single." WTF??? No one NEEDS a boyfriend. Smh.

If I do find someone (and I have to let it happen naturally...no more bullshit dating sites), I want it to be someone I click with...who makes me laugh...who I'm attracted to. There actually is one guy I'm extremely attracted to (hilarious, good-looking, etc.), but to him I've never been anything more than a fuck buddy, so yeah...lol.

TheBrownFox
07-25-2014, 08:49 AM
^^ Men are probably like this because they are made to believe that they get an 'award', just for being born! :king:
And practically get high-fived for fucking different females. Like being a player is something to brag about.

anonymous camgirl
07-25-2014, 09:16 AM
Yea well when they ask that question, they just wanna know your answer and lie when they are really not all those things.. I to was an internet dating junkie and they would ask that and so i would get to know them and they were NOT any of the things i mentioned.. so then i started to wise up and start listening to HIM instead of talking about what i want and what kinda man I am looking for.. Their whole goal is just to get you .. not to make you happy, not to give you anything you want, not to fit into your goals.. for them it's all about just get the girl! It makes me so unhappy that I have been in relationships that lasted either several months to years based on all lies and nothing I ever wanted.. all they wanted was to be with me.. they could careless what i wanted at all and I wasted ALOT of my life away with men who didn't care. Yes so I am in the same way, NO more internet dating for me, which might actually mean I will never go on a date again...LOL... that was the whole reason i did the internet dating to begin with because no one ever asked me out.


And since this is the VENT thread...one thing I HATE is when they're like "Well what are you looking for in a guy?" My dumb ass actually goes and answer their question, and then they say something like "Well I'm ALL of those things!" SMH. That's why I've always hated the question "What do you look for in a guy?"...especially when it's being asked by a guy.. Also, if I'm in a real relationship with someone, I need to be attracted to him. I'm not gonna be with somebody just for the sake of being able to say "Hey, everyone, I have a boyfriend!" Lol. Seriously, I've seen girls make comments like "I need a boyfriend. Hit me up if you're single." WTF??? No one NEEDS a boyfriend. Smh.

If I do find someone (and I have to let it happen naturally...no more bullshit dating sites), I want it to be someone I click with...who makes me laugh...who I'm attracted to. There actually is one guy I'm extremely attracted to (hilarious, good-looking, etc.), but to him I've never been anything more than a fuck buddy, so yeah...lol.

TheBrownFox
07-25-2014, 10:35 AM
Yea well when they ask that question, they just wanna know your answer and lie when they are really not all those things..Their whole goal is just to get you .. not to make you happy, not to give you anything you want, not to fit into your goals.. for them it's all about just get the girl!
Yes, I know. Say/do the right things to try to impress the girl and charm the pants off her...and then go back to being your usual dickhead self. I know how it works.

audritwo
07-25-2014, 01:38 PM
Shark week kinda kicked my ass and made me immobile for a couple days. Which does

Worked a bit today.
Slow.
As.
Fuck.


Then the immobile cramps came back! Curse my uterus!

JaneBurgess
07-25-2014, 01:47 PM
smoking420: are ur parents pround of u?
fuckin slut simmer down

JaneBurgess: are yours
you beg for shit on the internet

smoking420: so what slut
u suck for money

JaneBurgess: so you are retarded
LOL
you came on here

smoking420: said the slut
bitch pls
so what slut


Hello YOU came on the site and YOU are the beggar. I'm sure YOUR parents are proud your ass is broke and you have to beg for free porn. Idiots

JaneBurgess
07-25-2014, 02:03 PM
So I tried a Gold show today and it attracted assholes like this clown

smoking420: are ur parents pround of u?
fuckin slut simmer down

JaneBurgess: are yours
you beg for shit on the internet

smoking420: so what slut
u suck for money

JaneBurgess: so you are retarded
LOL
you came on here

smoking420: said the slut
bitch pls
so what slut

I think I will be in classic chat 99 percent of the time and maybe a gold show on occasion. Guys like this are so lame, like his parents are proud he is a beggar

SamanthaSugar
07-25-2014, 02:07 PM
WTH!!!! Today really sucks the big one, well, actually this whole week has sucked balls. What's really odd is that I'm on the top front page of SM and I've averaged 4-5 guys in my room and have made shit. Need $625 more to make to make my weekly goal, might as well be a $1,000,000. My motivation and mojo has left the building. Please just shoot me now!

Glamourmilf
07-25-2014, 02:41 PM
^^Welcome to 'Daytime Camming!" I hate hate hate, or wait, 'hate' is too strong a word... I despise all of those daytime beggars! I wish to hell I could stay up all night. It's sooo easy, and I make triple the money in 1/4 of the time, when I do. I just can't sleep during the day-it's too noisy where I live.

Holly_xoxo
07-25-2014, 03:04 PM
I'm annoyed with the tags on SM. I check them occasionally to see if an asshat has put something stupid down. I notice a new one that says "got fat"
Umm okay? I gained about 20 pds last year so I guess it was someone who knew me back then and hasn't seen me since.

These guys opinions don't matter to me but I sometimes wish we knew who tags us so I could block the fucker if he comes in my room.

Procrasturbator
07-25-2014, 03:33 PM
smoking420: are ur parents pround of u?
fuckin slut simmer down

JaneBurgess: are yours
you beg for shit on the internet

smoking420: so what slut
u suck for money

JaneBurgess: so you are retarded
LOL
you came on here

smoking420: said the slut
bitch pls
so what slut


Hello YOU came on the site and YOU are the beggar. I'm sure YOUR parents are proud your ass is broke and you have to beg for free porn. Idiots

I'm sorry, the funniest part of this to me is how he apparently doesn't know any insults besides "slut". Expand your vocabulary bro.

Issabelle
07-25-2014, 04:14 PM
Hold tight ladies! It'll get better in the fall--you just have to hold onto that. I'm gonna make it through August and rejoice for the start of school/cooler weather (it's my favorite season, football is awesome to me, blah blah blah). I mean, yeah, I only made like $10 the last hour (voyeur shows while I worked), but last night was good. Teeth pulling aside, it'll pick up.

....I'm trying really hard to be positive, yet I'm still posting in camming sucks because, hey, my bills are due and I'm short. Ugh.

scarletl
07-25-2014, 04:48 PM
Again sucky. Tomorrow will be good.

TheBrownFox
07-25-2014, 05:24 PM
I wish to hell I could stay up all night. It's sooo easy, and I make triple the money in 1/4 of the time, when I do. I just can't sleep during the day-it's too noisy where I live.
I know! I wish I could go back to being a nightowl like I used to be, and stay up all night 'til it starts getting light outside. AdultWork was always best for me at night (I'm in the U.S. on EST), and it could be great if I could split that time slot with ImLive and CamModelDirectory.

JaneBurgess
07-25-2014, 05:28 PM
Today is all beggars and lurkers. This week was decent until today :(