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justanothercamgirl
09-06-2014, 05:27 PM
lol! You've nailed down the reason I've always been looking for to go back to Corporate America Land. I hate working commissions and just wanna collect a paycheck assholes... lol lol lol!

If I didn't have an anxiety disorder that makes a 9-5 job impossible for me......I would of broken down and got a part-time vanilla job months ago myself. :)

Issabelle
09-06-2014, 05:28 PM
I live in a tiny apartment and they have a key to my apartment and just open up the door to come in and work.

I wouldn't have enough time to put my clothes on before they saw me.

I'm digging into my knowledge bank here, but most leases require notice before coming inside. I mean, saying they'll be by is notice, but still.

Maybe try putting a (BIG) note on the door that says something like 'Taking business calls today--please knock so I can let you in myself.' It's polite, but bluntly says 'DON'T COME IN UNLESS I SAY SO ASSHOLES!' And then you have a minute to get your clothes on. Alternatively, buy a dead bolt so they just can't walk in without you coming out. Whoops, tough shit!

I'd never tolerate people just walking into my private home without knocking first. Police and screaming would take place. Like seriously.

Whoregeous
09-06-2014, 05:30 PM
LOL, I agree! That's so intrusive!

I'm digging into my knowledge bank here, but most leases require notice before coming inside. I mean, saying they'll be by is notice, but still.

Maybe try putting a (BIG) note on the door that says something like 'Taking business calls today--please knock so I can let you in myself.' It's polite, but bluntly says 'DON'T COME IN UNLESS I SAY SO ASSHOLES!' And then you have a minute to get your clothes on. Alternatively, buy a dead bolt so they just can't walk in without you coming out. Whoops, tough shit!

I'd never tolerate people just walking into my private home without knocking first. Police and screaming would take place. Like seriously.

justanothercamgirl
09-06-2014, 05:39 PM
I'm digging into my knowledge bank here, but most leases require notice before coming inside. I mean, saying they'll be by is notice, but still.

Maybe try putting a (BIG) note on the door that says something like 'Taking business calls today--please knock so I can let you in myself.' It's polite, but bluntly says 'DON'T COME IN UNLESS I SAY SO ASSHOLES!' And then you have a minute to get your clothes on. Alternatively, buy a dead bolt so they just can't walk in without you coming out. Whoops, tough shit!

I'd never tolerate people just walking into my private home without knocking first. Police and screaming would take place. Like seriously.


They have given me written legal notice to enter my apartment and because it is maintenance that the building needs for heat for the coming fall/winter....I actually don't have a legal leg to stand on for refusing them entry. Sadly, the police would be on their side with this one.

Even if I bought a deadbolt I would be legally required to give them that key too.

And they do knock.....for about 30 seconds before they come in.

I've talked to them before that I work at home but to no avail. Trust me, there is a reason I am saving up to move out of this place as fast as I can. :(

justanothercamgirl
09-06-2014, 05:41 PM
LOL, I agree! That's so intrusive!

Intrusive.....you betcha.

Within their legal right.....unfortunately.

The best I could legally would be to demand a new notice every day but that isn't going to do anything to help with the original problem.

Issabelle
09-06-2014, 05:44 PM
Intrusive.....you betcha.

Within their legal right.....unfortunately.

The best I could legally would be to demand a new notice every day but that isn't going to do anything to help with the original problem.

Ugh. That's so shitty. I'd still say put up a note. It's a lot harder to not feel like an ass at least for ignoring the note. Alternatively (and this is me being a devious little shit), I'd just cam anyway and let them walk in. I keep my door shut (and maybe put furniture in front of it so they can't come in). There problem if they hear what sounds like me having sex. Learn to knock and WAIT next time. lol!

justanothercamgirl
09-06-2014, 05:53 PM
Ugh. That's so shitty. I'd still say put up a note. It's a lot harder to not feel like an ass at least for ignoring the note. Alternatively (and this is me being a devious little shit), I'd just cam anyway and let them walk in. I keep my door shut (and maybe put furniture in front of it so they can't come in). There problem if they hear what sounds like me having sex. Learn to knock and WAIT next time. lol!

I am totally pondering now if landlord/tenant laws are different in the States then Canada. If you guys can call the police on your landlords for being annoying as hell.....then I am completely envious right now! I need to change countries stat!

anonymous camgirl
09-06-2014, 05:56 PM
I don't think so, everything you have stated is correct.


I am totally pondering now if landlord/tenant laws are different in the States then Canada. If you guys can call the police on your landlords for being annoying as hell.....then I am completely envious right now! I need to change countries stat!

audreymadison
09-06-2014, 06:10 PM
While your right you don't have a criminal legal leg to stand on, I think you may have a civil one. Walking in on a woman that is naked in her own apt, even if you are renting and they gave you a vague notice, is considered sexual harassment in a lawsuit. I'm not saying you should sue, but maybe imply that if the maintenance people just walk in without knocking and you are naked .... that is grounds for a major lawsuit. IDK though, my FIL is a lawyer, but I'm not ... its just kinda how I would play this situation.

Issabelle
09-06-2014, 06:22 PM
I don't think so, everything you have stated is correct.

Calling the police for being annoying as hell? I wish. My leases have always stated that they could only come in without notice for emergency situations (massive water line breaks and the like). Otherwise, they had to have permission. My landlords have also always wanted written permission to come in if I wasn't home. It might just be my area, but they've been super cautious.

And I agree with Audrey--the harassment thing is real. I'd go after that one, personally. Vaguely saying they'll come by sometime that day, then knocking and waiting at the door--one thing. I've never had a landlord just walk in without telling me. I'm sure they have some legal technicality to use, but I'm still with the note on the door method. Although, I'm now changing it to 'KNOCK and WAIT--I'm tired of worrying you'll walk in while I'm NAKED or in the SHOWER.' Because I'm a bitch. And I would totally post that on my door if they weren't fucking waiting. It's a fucking invasion of privacy.

justanothercamgirl
09-06-2014, 08:52 PM
While your right you don't have a criminal legal leg to stand on, I think you may have a civil one. Walking in on a woman that is naked in her own apt, even if you are renting and they gave you a vague notice, is considered sexual harassment in a lawsuit. I'm not saying you should sue, but maybe imply that if the maintenance people just walk in without knocking and you are naked .... that is grounds for a major lawsuit. IDK though, my FIL is a lawyer, but I'm not ... its just kinda how I would play this situation.

The problem with taking people to court (at least in Canada) is you need to have both money and time (to take off) to invest into going to court. Sadly, I have neither. :(

Issabelle
09-06-2014, 09:43 PM
Threaten. Also, there are often lawyers who do free clinics for advising. I used to work at one.

IvyRose
09-07-2014, 03:01 AM
Do you have only one room JAC? I have the same problem with landlord having the right to come in at any given moment, and without any notice at all, to check the appartment, they have the keys and also come in after ringing the bell and waiting max 15 seconds afterwards.
If they would come into my house , they first have to take the stairs to see my cammingroom.. I dont now if you cam in your livingroom, and they can immediatly see you when they come in...

I did place extra locks on my door; a chainlock (which doesnt have a key so I cannot give it to them), and a shootbolt (hope that is the right term), also doesnt have a key but keeps your door locked if You are inside. I tell the landlord I need those locks since I live alone and dont feel safe in my house wihout those lock on the door when being alone inside. The landlord is fine with this, maybe this will help you too?

Also I keep an robe aside, or a dress, just outside of my workroom so if they ring the bell, I can put in on in a couple of second, since it is a one piece clothingthingy

I know it sucks, it brings a lot of stress when you know somoene can walk in or ring your door at any moment. It bring me tons of stress too =(.

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IvyRose
09-07-2014, 04:37 AM
Venting about myself... I totally suck. Last week I worked only 8 houres total, and today I lasted a 13 minutes before I logged out again.
I am stressed, cranky and a total bitch.
Have to move out of my appartment the 16th this month,
am waiting to get an mortage for a appartment I maybe am going to buy (the waiting process brings me a lot of stress), and I dont have another place yet to move into...
I probably am going to end up in the office of a friend of mine, where I can sleep, but I wont be able to work there (internet to low, dont feel like setting up a whole cammingspace when I will have to move out again in maybe a couple of days, but offc that can also turn into weeks, bec I dont if I can buy that appartment)
IF I get the mortage it will be awesome and I will ahve a good space to life and work in, and I would get rid of landlords walking in. But if I wont get the mortage I will be forced to rent again and that wuld suck bnig time since the waitinglist is quite long and I am unsure about how long it will take me to get a appartment... I can start working again when having my own appartment, or renting one, and in the meanwhile Ill be without income.. Also makes me worry about my cammingplacement since I wont be able to put in houres, so it will drop

I know I have the potential to earn good money before I will ahve to move out but I am totally emotional "blocked", prob because of all the stress. I simply cannot smile, I do not hav ethe patience to do free chat, and I dont want to talk or perform at all. When I am inside free chat I dont evne want to be taken private bec I do not enjoy giving shows at all, 0%, and feel like I am doing a shitty job and also it feels very wrong to do sexual things when I am totally not in the mood.
I allready given myself days off to rest and to pack boxes, but it doesnt seem to change a thing for my mood. Eating healthy, going to teh gym, its all in vain right now and I am still wanting to block everyone and to bite there heads off

Whoregeous
09-07-2014, 12:02 PM
So I found a studio. They asked me to do a background check which I did and paid for. Everything came back good. I got 94/100 tenant score on my background check which is almost like a perfect tenant. Emailed a copy over to the leasing office as they asked and never heard back from them. After all that, they didn't even have the decency to let me know if the place is no longer available. I see it as a blessing because it must not be the right place for me but I hate how inconsiderate people can be.

anonymous camgirl
09-08-2014, 06:59 AM
Lots of free chatters on SM.. and one paying customer .. thank god he bought a block session...LOL

smaddy
09-08-2014, 08:11 AM
Yep! I've had this problem too. The would see that my hourly wage at being self employed is in the $50 hour range and not want to hire me. I applied at a health food/supplements store because I frequently shop there and the employees don't have a fucking clue what they are selling. I'm always bringing them books/education materials to learn up. I would absolutely LOVE that job, but they wouldn't give it to me because I "made to much being self employed" ughhhh....
I appreciate the idea hun. I've definitely tried that and to some extent it's worked, but interviewers have often grilled me for details, examples, and other nonsense when I've used it. I live in such a small town that they get all curious. The kicker is that the death to a few interviews has been 'why do you POSSIBLY want to stop being self-employed?' and the implication that I must fail at it and thus would fail at the job. *insert eye roll here* I was employed privately part time until late July, so I've got probably three months grace before I need to start explaining that blank spot away with something. Ugh.

SpaceyLaceyButterfacey
09-08-2014, 08:45 AM
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arinyan123
09-08-2014, 10:32 AM
I'm camming on two sites and I haven't had a private in so long, I don't even know what do in one anymore! haha I don't want to give up, but I guess I have to get a vanilla job soon. I know I can't mentally handle camming + working full time, so I guess this will be the end for me if I can find something :( I just need to find something for stable because my boyfriend's had to take over paying the rent for two months now.

I've only had one job before + I have a fear of cars, driving, and talking to people so this will be interesting. I need to learn how to be a functioning adult sometime I guess!

anonymous camgirl
09-08-2014, 11:05 AM
^^ I'll take one of those macaron's please.. those are so yummy!

TheBrownFox
09-08-2014, 01:35 PM
How do you NOT get my job application?! God damn. Now I gotta send it by email again, if I even still have it scanned onto my computer. If not, I'm gonna have to print out and scan that shit all over again. Oh, how I just love wasting printer ink.....

Vlodina
09-08-2014, 02:27 PM
40 minute private tonight with a regular. During this time:
2 guys peeped and stayed a tiny bit too long
11 (ELEVEN!!) other guys peeped in
One of the 11 did it three times (the third time I went to ban him but I wasn't fast enough!)

Grrrr!

AngelMari
09-08-2014, 05:07 PM
Intrusive.....you betcha.

Within their legal right.....unfortunately.

The best I could legally would be to demand a new notice every day but that isn't going to do anything to help with the original problem.
Fu*kers... I'd stack all my chairs in front of the door, then that would give me time....then act like I was rearranging furniture, they can kiss it...bet they want to catch you in a compromising situation. What's the point of having a place when anyone can just walk in??? bs!!! I feel ya totally is horrible, sounds like no privacy what so ever.

Missbeth
09-08-2014, 07:16 PM
I live in a tiny apartment and they have a key to my apartment and just open up the door to come in and work.

I wouldn't have enough time to put my clothes on before they saw me.

I second what IvyRose said. I would go to the hardware store and screw in a door chain lock, they cost about $10 and you can do it with a drill yourself. If your landlord gives you a problem about it tell them you put it on for extra safety. It will give you enough time to get dressed if you are online and you can yell to whoever unlocked the door through the crack you'll be right there.
When you move out take it out of the door and frame and spackle it....that way they can't bitch and take part of your security deposit
Too bad you don't live in the South US. Here, landlord or not, you would be brave to just walk into someone's home....heck people get shot just walking on other people's property...the cable guy came by today just to say he was doing work in the neighbors back yard lol.

Idk how it works in Canada but if a landlord in the US doesn't do work in a reasonable amount of time you can write a demand letter and put your rent into an escrow account until the work is completed. If you can legally do that and they can't get their rent it might speed them along.

lisa0693
09-08-2014, 07:23 PM
going from $100 an hour to $50 an hour :/

Missbeth
09-08-2014, 07:40 PM
going from $100 and hour to $50 an hour :/

#camgirlproblems




I am SOO mad that SM still hasnt' updated my stars
I took a 3 month+ break so it knocked me back down to 4 for not having any ratings but between from fri-sun I got 8 5star ratings with should bump me up to a solid 5 star but it still hasnt updated GRRRRRR

Issabelle
09-08-2014, 09:05 PM
^^ Weird--it usually auto updates for me. I did that in late June when I made a new account to get on with Katy's studio and it updated immediately after my last 5 star rating happened. Maybe email them?

Bambola
09-08-2014, 10:02 PM
Wake up 6 morning for catch US costumers and SM is down,im waiting more than 50 minutes here losing the time :(((

JaneBurgess
09-08-2014, 10:19 PM
Amazon is hiring for at home customer service reps. If you want the info please DM :)



I'm camming on two sites and I haven't had a private in so long, I don't even know what do in one anymore! haha I don't want to give up, but I guess I have to get a vanilla job soon. I know I can't mentally handle camming + working full time, so I guess this will be the end for me if I can find something :( I just need to find something for stable because my boyfriend's had to take over paying the rent for two months now.

I've only had one job before + I have a fear of cars, driving, and talking to people so this will be interesting. I need to learn how to be a functioning adult sometime I guess!

pippapippa
09-08-2014, 11:54 PM
Tonight is really awful for me. I was hoping to marathon tonight, but it looks like I'll be saving that for tomorrow. Definitely not worth it right now.

TheBrownFox
09-09-2014, 06:48 AM
I feel like I'm threadjacking here, so I'll just post one more thing and then stop talking about it. American Support is one of the sites (found on RatRaceRebellion) that's hiring, however they require that workers keep themselves available Mon - Fri: 5 PM - 12 midnight, and weekends from 10 AM - 6 PM. I didn't proceed with the telephone interview because those hours would definitely not work for me. My son has Tae Kwon Do twice a week after school, plus afternoons/evenings are the times that we have to spend together (when he's home from school).

Got an interview this morning at a children's fitness center where I used to work before. :)

From now on, should I post about this stuff in the MiraMichele's 'Random things about camming' thread (by the way, she said she wants the thread title changed to 'Random things thread')?

Missbeth
09-09-2014, 08:08 AM
^^ Weird--it usually auto updates for me. I did that in late June when I made a new account to get on with Katy's studio and it updated immediately after my last 5 star rating happened. Maybe email them?

Okay, I messaged them....I was wondering how long it should take lol

Now im on the front page again but Im the only one there with 4 stars so I think it just makes me look bad.


edit: Omg 4 days and it finally updated woooo!

SweetJulia
09-09-2014, 12:15 PM
Well, in the last week, I missed a deadline for school, my bfs' mom had a stroke, I got food poisoning, and I almost got in a car accident. Happy September, I'm gonna go smoke a joint and eat a whole pizza.

anonymous camgirl
09-09-2014, 01:41 PM
Today is NOT my day.. to many tech problems and NO money!

SamanthaSugar
09-09-2014, 02:07 PM
For the love!!! I'm splitting 3 sites for the last 45 min and I haven't made a dime!!!! I've been hitting my goals for the last 2 days and really need to make $2000 this week but I have a feeling today is going to put me behind. I feel like I'm deep in the books on all my sites. My energy and enthusiasm is going on the decline. Ok going back in, hopefully at the end of my shift I'll be over in the Camming Rocks thread.

Via Flaminia
09-09-2014, 03:30 PM
For the love!!! I'm splitting 3 sites for the last 45 min and I haven't made a dime!!!! I've been hitting my goals for the last 2 days and really need to make $2000 this week but I have a feeling today is going to put me behind. I feel like I'm deep in the books on all my sites. My energy and enthusiasm is going on the decline. Ok going back in, hopefully at the end of my shift I'll be over in the Camming Rocks thread.

I'm with you. I have to make a lot of money in the next two weeks b/c everyone in my life is either getting married or having a baby in the next 3 weeks. I'm playing catch-up for the last 2 weeks of maximum suckage. Srsly... enough....

EllieGold
09-09-2014, 03:54 PM
I cammed yesterday and got one private. The guy was asking for a sample, so I told him no. He said he would go pvt finally after minutes of asking for a free sample. I thought I would get a laugh at him by waiting 30 seconds to get nude and start. (Had a feeling he was a 30 second peeper) I tricked him to go over 30 seconds. The asshat rated me one star. Streamate really needs to rid those free 30 seconds.

SpaceyLaceyButterfacey
09-09-2014, 03:56 PM
I cammed yesterday and got one private. The guy was asking for a sample, so I told him no. He said he would go pvt finally after minutes of asking for a free sample. I thought I would get a laugh at him by waiting xx seconds to get nude and start. (Had a feeling he was a xx second peeper) I tricked him to go over xx seconds. The asshat rated me one star. Streamate really needs to rid those free xx seconds.

Well a lot of guys lurk these forums to find tips and tricks, so maybe you would want to edit out the amount of seconds ?? Maybe say 45 seconds at least ;) ^^^

Whoregeous
09-09-2014, 03:58 PM
You can contact support and tell them why and ask them to remove it. I have it stated on my profile that I do not rush my shows so if I get rated poorly for that kind of shit, they will be removed.

I cammed yesterday and got one private. The guy was asking for a sample, so I told him no. He said he would go pvt finally after minutes of asking for a free sample. I thought I would get a laugh at him by waiting 30 seconds to get nude and start. (Had a feeling he was a 30 second peeper) I tricked him to go over 30 seconds. The asshat rated me one star. Streamate really needs to rid those free 30 seconds.

EllieGold
09-09-2014, 03:59 PM
Oh yes, that's right.

Hows everyones day going?

hotmodel
09-09-2014, 04:05 PM
I'm seriously so exhausted from trying to get my content removed..sending out DMCAs..fighting with these people to remove my stolen content..unreal..it's like a whole another job :( shit sucks

JaneBurgess
09-09-2014, 05:59 PM
The cam sites are kinda slow but the phone sites are rocking.

MissQuirk
09-09-2014, 06:04 PM
What the fuck is going on.
I've been on for an hour and made like 3 dollars.
No one is talking.
This is a new time slot for me so I guess I shouldn't be bummed. I have a friend visiting from out of town this weekend though so I would really like to have money to show her around :< Tonight might turn into a camathon.

MissQuirk
09-09-2014, 09:11 PM
Okay so I'm not pissed but I don't know where else to post this
Partially because I AM IN TOO MUCH FUCKING PAIN TO THINK.


I was doing a spanking show with my lovely, gorgeous boyfriend.
We were using a (batman) belt.

All was fine.
Until he missed.

And the batman belt was introduced to my lady bits
Fucking hard.
So hard.
I dunno how it happened. Not boyfriend's fault. Actually, I think I moved at the last second.
I DON'T REMEMBER BECAUSE AS PREVIOUSLY STATED I'M IN TOO MUCH FUCKING PAIN TO THINK

I am 97% sure that my clit is actually going to fall off.
It's going to be like, Hey, Ms. Quirk. I'm entirely fed up with the awful things you put me through, usually accidentally
So I'm just going to say peace
and dip out.

>:I
And I still have to make 41 dollars tonight.
WHICH IS HARD BECAUSE SM HAS FUCKING SUCKED TODAY. AND YESTERDAY. OH AND THE DAY BEFORE THAT
IT HAS SUCKED.
>:C Customers keep saying they're getting booted from my prvts and then after the 2nd or 3rd time they get off
Poor guys.
But mostly poor me.
Because fuck it why not.

OH
ALSO
SOMEONE CAME OUT TO ME ON CAM THE OTHER DAY SO THAT WAS A THING.
If it was a weird RP fetish, his acting skills are amazing
Because he sobbed.
Like he snotted on his face.


Too much, man. Too much

SoloDesire
09-10-2014, 07:35 AM
I'm making more money on Cams today than I am on SM. Now THAT'S saying something! lol

MiaFaye
09-10-2014, 07:39 AM
SM is just depressing at the moment. 2 hours online, about 10% in paid and around $20... Really don't understand- I was on the first page for the whole 2 hours, never been on the first page before, had more traffic flow than I've had before but no one was paying. People were barely even talking to me. Gaaaaah.

lemonberry
09-10-2014, 08:30 AM
Tonight just sucked, it was all freeloaders and two minute men. :) I am so tired of freeloaders, I really wish cam sites would cancel accounts of men who don't spend a certain amount of money a month.
If you come across a site that does this, please let me know.

anonymous camgirl
09-10-2014, 10:06 AM
God damn.. SM is not my friend the last few days.. sheesh.. I want more than 1 fucking show..

SoloDesire
09-10-2014, 10:10 AM
God damn.. SM is not my friend the last few days.. sheesh.. I want more than 1 fucking show..


Yeah, it's been really bad today :( Hope it picks up for you!

TeenageAnnie
09-10-2014, 10:27 AM
absolutely DEAD Today and yesterday. splitting 4 sites. made about $15 in 7 hours today and about $65 yesterday in 8 hours. pathetic.