View Full Version : The General Purpose "Camming Sucks Right Now" Thread
Charnixxx
09-13-2014, 03:36 PM
Geez Streamate has really sucked this month for me (oct/sept) it's like pulling teeth trying to make my daily goal when I used to hit it in like an hour or two. Damn it's so slow that I'm considering signing back up for mfc .. shit im even considering a regular side job lol it is sooo slow that I can't even fake smile in free chat because im so damn bored ... im sad .... and im trying not to have a mental breakdown but it went from being so good to sooo bad ...
I'm just gonna try not take cam so serious the next past couple of weeks, I'll just get back into updating c4s everyday with new hd fetish vids ... that always brought new fans/sign ups to my members site idk but I truly do think it's the site itself and not us. I think guys are just sitting around waiting for a cheap gold show ... i mean why pay 5/minute when u can get a full show for $5. So SM really did it to themselves, Why give men all these options of course they are gonna take the cheap route. But oh well hopefully it will pick up soon!
AliceFun
09-13-2014, 03:48 PM
Yep, that's what they did, if i was not a cam model on this site i would laugh my ass off now believe me but i am part of this & it feels soo damn bad to just sit here with no business & i know it's not me. Looked up some rooms, saw people i know, i could read their face expressions, they looked pissed i tell u. It's soo damn slow lately that the only thing i can do is laugh pathetically, is beyond ridiculous by now. You fucking stupid idiots at SM, u ruined the site, hahaaaaaaaaa how stupid you are!
Melonie
09-13-2014, 03:57 PM
the only thing that is making camming more difficult is the large numbers of models online.
Streamate's always had that many performers on, I think the site is dead because they lowered their standards. People were willing to pay before they allowed nudity in free chat and Gold shows. Hell people paid $10 for short Gold shows. When they changed the site they changed their customer base. If you look at traffic over the last couple of years it's dropped by over half. Many good customers left and freeloaders took their place.
Indeed there are lots of contributing factors. For example, at one time SM invested heavily to advertise in 'other' media in an attempt to attract new upscale customers. Now they essentially advertise 'for free' on tube sites, which by definition tends to attract customers who expect a lot of content 'for free' as well.
However, opinions must defer to facts - with one undeniable fact being that overall site traffic levels are down measurably. Whether those 'missing' customers are patronizing other sites, or have stopped spending money on paid webcam altogether, is another question.
But on the 'hopeful' side, overall customer traffic levels and overall customer spending levels aren't necessary relevant to any one particular camgirl. Landing just a handful of free spending customers can make a huge difference !!!
JaneBurgess
09-13-2014, 05:43 PM
Call the other place back and tell them you thought about it and you want to see if the position is still open.
Thank you. I just paid my Sprint bill which was overdue, I'm overdue on the Tae Kwon Do bill, and I'm overdue on a payment to Old Navy (cuz of that stupid Old Navy Visa card I had years ago). Oh yeah, and I owe Massage Envy too because my dumb ass signed up for their bullshit membership, which is a one-year contract. :banghead:
I hate my life right now. Nothing can ever go my way, it seems.
TheBrownFox
09-13-2014, 06:59 PM
Call the other place back and tell them you thought about it and you want to see if the position is still open.
Thanks. My parents helped me out with paying for the fingerprinting. They're so happy that I'm back to working a "regular" job full time. As stressful as some of this has been, I think I made the right decision. Child care is where I have the most experience, and it comes to me naturally. If, for some reason, it doesn't work out, I'll keep the other place in mind.
Speaking of fingerprinting, it's been a long time since I've had it done, and they don't use ink anymore. Lol. They have you place your fingers on some device, and then your fingerprints appear on the computer screen. No more getting your fingers messy with ink.
MiaFaye
09-14-2014, 01:52 AM
I just spent an hour preparing for and shooting a voyeur shower & teeth brushing clip. Go to view the files on my camera, and absolutely everythign hascome up as a file error! I could cry... I cleaned my bathroom for this...
buxxxom
09-14-2014, 02:18 AM
tonight is so dead, i'm exhausted, and i'm starting to get a cold. drippy noses and watery eyes... not sexy!
TheBrownFox
09-14-2014, 05:10 AM
Yep, that's what they did, if i was not a cam model on this site i would laugh my ass off now believe me but i am part of this & it feels soo damn bad to just sit here with no business & i know it's not me. Looked up some rooms, saw people i know, i could read their face expressions, they looked pissed i tell u. It's soo damn slow lately that the only thing i can do is laugh pathetically, is beyond ridiculous by now. You fucking stupid idiots at SM, u ruined the site, hahaaaaaaaaa how stupid you are!
All of these free chat sites got these guys spoiled. One of my former MFC regs...I swear, every time he visits me on a cam site other than MFC, he complains that it's "expensive." Like the other night when he was in my Cams Nude Chat (priced at $2.99). I told him "No, $2.99 is cheap as hell. You only think it's expensive because you're used to seeing tons of cum shows on MFC for free, and you don't have to take girls private on there to see it." Lol. I swear, this same guy also complained about it being "expensive" when he first visited me on ImLive. *sigh*
TheBrownFox
09-14-2014, 05:12 AM
*posted this same thing in another thread just now*
All of these free chat sites got these guys spoiled. One of my former MFC regs...I swear, every time he visits me on a cam site other than MFC, he complains that it's "expensive." Like the other night when he was in my Cams Nude Chat (priced at $2.99). I told him "No, $2.99 is cheap as hell. You only think it's expensive because you're used to seeing tons of cum shows on MFC for free, and you don't have to take girls private on there to see it." Lol. I swear, this same guy also complained about it being "expensive" when he first visited me on ImLive. *sigh*
AlexisSugar
09-14-2014, 05:57 AM
I feel like looser,and i start to believe i am a looser.Never,never before been on cam while on period which i did yesterday.Made 40 bucks only.I believe these gold shows where the client pledge 1-3 bucks and get 100 vids/pics extra are not for good.Why the hell someone would take me in pvt if he can buy all the goods plus huge vids and pics collection for few bucks in gold show and wank 10 mins extra on live performance.Not the cheap traffic only,but the girls doing this has ruined it-nothing personal.Not to mention MFC, where the shows in free are even cheaper.Sad story.
MissConceited
09-14-2014, 06:29 AM
Ok random thing that pisses me off about Niteflirt. I don't know if anyone who works that site has noticed that every time someone clicks on your pay to view mails, they get added to my customer list. Well, my customer list is huge, so I don't have the time to figure out if another flirt has been perving my buttons or not, and then they yell at me when I send out mass emails to my customers. I purposely don't click other flirts' buttons because of this, so I know I'm not the one clicking the buttons. Then they condescendingly email me like i'm an ass hole for sending mail out to my customers. Bitch your on my customer list because you were clicking my shit! UGH so annoying!
AliceFun
09-14-2014, 06:38 AM
^^^ Oh yes, they got fucking spoiled because what is offered now a days for free or very cheap, i blame sites & the girls & will never stop doing it until they fix this crap, if ever. Believe me i started gold shows a few times just to see who comes by, guess what, good former regular members that paid for my privates were sitting around waiting for cheap gold shows & when i had one on i saw them coming by?! I even called these guys on it, it makes me very very sad to see how things turned around on these camming sites.
Another thing, i am extremely pissed when people dont respect others privacy, i got a message on facebook from a girl i know (she is the daughter of a lady friend, she is 20+ yo), she asked how m i doing? I answer her back cause i am polite even i did not like the very short message asking 'how are you' instead of telling something about herself too, anyway, i wrote her a more detailed answer telling about myself, asking her things, making compliments, etc, i saw on facebook she read the message but i got no answer for a few days. i wrote her back and call her out on it, i got the answer "oh, sorry, my bf sits on my account too and he forgot to tell me i got messages from u"
WHAT??!! wtf? WHAT U JUST SAID? so i wrote u but my messages were read by ur guy? excuse me but since when is this a normal, polite practice to allow ur guy to read my messages/ have access to ur account w.o telling me about it? Why the heck dont u make a 'couple account' where people know they can contact u both? But if it's just yours i expect only u to have access to it when this implies other people too like myself! I feel my privacy is violated and she calls this a minor thing? wtf girl? grow up, respect others privacy, get some manners!
Another 'friend' years ago did something similar, we were writing messages to each other on yahoo messenger and her man was opening yahoo (or she had it set to open together with the pc), the message window popped up & he either read my personal messages to her or just closed the window without telling her about it. Later on i found out these things when she told me about it cause i was asking her why she did not write back. It pisses me off to see people not caring for others privacy, i wrote my friend personal things without knowing she allows her man into her yahoo account, now it's happening again with this young girl that she lets her man into her fb account?!
Then my 20 yo son is blaming me for expecting too much from people saying this is normal behavior of people & i should know this by now?! NO, is not normal, just because it's happening does not mean is normal, these people are just ignorant, careless, rude & have no manners or care about others privacy. I mention the girl with yahoo situation is a camgirl so she should have known better. You can trust no one really, next time i write things to people i will make sure i ask 1st "who else has access to ur account"? I will just not write personal things anymore but do the same like they do "yes i am fine thank you", if u wanna know more about me give me a call so i know i only talk to u then (unless u put me on speaker without telling me 'rolling eyes').
People should learn how to communicate online, learn about what a status mean and so on, it says soo much about u when u just dont care about other people privacy or feelings.
Whoregeous
09-14-2014, 06:46 AM
So I was at Starbucks this morning and there was a mother with her young daughter. She proceeded to laugh at me then her daughter followed her example. So I basically went off and I am not sorry. I know not all parents are this way but it's important to teach your kids love and kindness. Most importantly, transgender people are human beings. We are not a joke that should be subjected to your ridicule because I won't fucking tolerate it. Next time she'll remember to mind her own fucking business.
Missbeth
09-14-2014, 11:02 AM
guys who expect me to read their minds in private....
...isn't it obvious I only read minds in exclusives...duh
Bootsie
09-14-2014, 12:37 PM
WTF is tonight, the international day of wasting my fucking time on Skype?!? I have never had so many "I just want to chat, no camshow, talk dirty to me" dipshits in one night in my life. FML.
TheBrownFox
09-14-2014, 02:37 PM
^^^ Oh yes, they got fucking spoiled because what is offered now a days for free or very cheap, i blame sites & the girls & will never stop doing it until they fix this crap, if ever. Believe me i started gold shows a few times just to see who comes by, guess what, good former regular members that paid for my privates were sitting around waiting for cheap gold shows & when i had one on i saw them coming by?! I even called these guys on it, it makes me very very sad to see how things turned around on these camming sites.
Another thing, i am extremely pissed when people dont respect others privacy, i got a message on facebook from a girl i know (she is the daughter of a lady friend, she is 20+ yo), she asked how m i doing? I answer her back cause i am polite even i did not like the very short message asking 'how are you' instead of telling something about herself too, anyway, i wrote her a more detailed answer telling about myself, asking her things, making compliments, etc, i saw on facebook she read the message but i got no answer for a few days. i wrote her back and call her out on it, i got the answer "oh, sorry, my bf sits on my account too and he forgot to tell me i got messages from u"
WHAT??!! wtf? WHAT U JUST SAID? so i wrote u but my messages were read by ur guy? excuse me but since when is this a normal, polite practice to allow ur guy to read my messages/ have access to ur account w.o telling me about it? Why the heck dont u make a 'couple account' where people know they can contact u both? But if it's just yours i expect only u to have access to it when this implies other people too like myself! I feel my privacy is violated and she calls this a minor thing? wtf girl? grow up, respect others privacy, get some manners!
Another 'friend' years ago did something similar, we were writing messages to each other on yahoo messenger and her man was opening yahoo (or she had it set to open together with the pc), the message window popped up & he either read my personal messages to her or just closed the window without telling her about it. Later on i found out these things when she told me about it cause i was asking her why she did not write back. It pisses me off to see people not caring for others privacy, i wrote my friend personal things without knowing she allows her man into her yahoo account, now it's happening again with this young girl that she lets her man into her fb account?!
Then my 20 yo son is blaming me for expecting too much from people saying this is normal behavior of people & i should know this by now?! NO, is not normal, just because it's happening does not mean is normal, these people are just ignorant, careless, rude & have no manners or care about others privacy. I mention the girl with yahoo situation is a camgirl so she should have known better. You can trust no one really, next time i write things to people i will make sure i ask 1st "who else has access to ur account"? I will just not write personal things anymore but do the same like they do "yes i am fine thank you", if u wanna know more about me give me a call so i know i only talk to u then (unless u put me on speaker without telling me 'rolling eyes').
People should learn how to communicate online, learn about what a status mean and so on, it says soo much about u when u just dont care about other people privacy or feelings.
Ugh, I really hate it when people don't respect someone else's privacy. It's like on those t.v. shows where someone would tell something to ONE person in confidence, and then that person goes and tells their friend or spouse, and then the next thing you know...different people are coming up to you saying "Hey, I heard that you blah, blah, blah." SMH.
I agree with you about not trusting people, and sometimes I feel like the only person nowadays who probably isn't gossiping about me (or judging me) behind my back is my son. Ever since I learned that a female neighbor (someone I once called a "friend") told my other neighbor what I do (AND even said "I don't think your daughter should be around *my-real-name*"), I now bite my tongue any time I feel like I'm about to say something that could later be used against me. SMH. What's funny about this whole thing is that the chick who said all of this used to be a stripper, yet she's over here casting judgment AND telling people that their teenagers shouldn't be hanging around me? And when she sees me outside, she still tries to talk to me as if we're friends. LMAO.
AliceFun
09-14-2014, 04:27 PM
Ugh, I really hate it when people don't respect someone else's privacy. It's like on those t.v. shows where someone would tell something to ONE person in confidence, and then that person goes and tells their friend or spouse, and then the next thing you know...different people are coming up to you saying "Hey, I heard that you blah, blah, blah." SMH.
I agree with you about not trusting people, and sometimes I feel like the only person nowadays who probably isn't gossiping about me (or judging me) behind my back is my son. Ever since I learned that a female neighbor (someone I once called a "friend") told my other neighbor what I do (AND even said "I don't think your daughter should be around *my-real-name*"), I now bite my tongue any time I feel like I'm about to say something that could later be used against me. SMH. What's funny about this whole thing is that the chick who said all of this used to be a stripper, yet she's over here casting judgment AND telling people that their teenagers shouldn't be hanging around me? And when she sees me outside, she still tries to talk to me as if we're friends. LMAO.
Yeah, how hypocrite right? Better look at themselves before talking bad about the others. Yes, i think the same about my son, i think he is the only one who actually can be trustful; And what is wrong with that bitch there, what she thinks u are going to do to her daughter or somebody else? Touch them & give them a disease or what? Or maybe talk them into what u do? How ignorant these people are omg, did the former stripper 'infected' people around or talked them into doing her job or what? dont these people realize how crazy their behavior is? what can a cam girl do to others to harm them anyway? we dont carry disease or want to convert people to perversity, right? we do our thing, earn a living the way we can and raise our children, would be better to be homeless, have no money & live with our kids in misery or start doing crimes cause we need money?
By the way, i wrote this girl on facebook how uncomfy i felt about the whole situation & all i got in return was a dumb answer like "oh, thank u for ur suggestion but we are ok like this keeping this account but dont worry, he is not reading messages that are not for him" hahaaaaaa, what? how the heck do i know that's a true thing, how do YOU know is true? then she gave me her phone number to call in case i wanna talk about 'more private stuff', hahaaa, right, i am on it, right away! NOT! i answered back briefly 'thank u for answering me, take care xx' & is going to be my last message to her by now. they just dont get it or maybe because we are cam girls we are more alert and care more about privacy, i dont know.
TheBrownFox
09-14-2014, 05:10 PM
And what is wrong with that bitch there, what she thinks u are going to do to her daughter or somebody else? Touch them & give them a disease or what? Or maybe talk them into what u do? How ignorant these people are omg, did the former stripper 'infected' people around or talked them into doing her job or what? dont these people realize how crazy their behavior is? what can a cam girl do to others to harm them anyway? we dont carry disease or want to convert people to perversity, right? we do our thing, earn a living the way we can and raise our children, would be better to be homeless, have no money & live with our kids in misery or start doing crimes cause we need money?
By the way, i wrote this girl on facebook how uncomfy i felt about the whole situation & all i got in return was a dumb answer like "oh, thank u for ur suggestion but we are ok like this keeping this account but dont worry, he is not reading messages that are not for him" hahaaaaaa, what? how the heck do i know that's a true thing, how do YOU know is true? then she gave me her phone number to call in case i wanna talk about 'more private stuff', hahaaa, right, i am on it, right away! NOT! i answered back briefly 'thank u for answering me, take care xx' & is going to be my last message to her by now. they just dont get it or maybe because we are cam girls we are more alert and care more about privacy, i dont know.
She wasn't talking about her own daughter being around me. She was talking about a different neighbor's 15-year old daughter being around me. So yeah, now that girl doesn't come around here to talk to me anymore. She's gone back to hangin' out with the 19-year old neighbor with self esteem issues, who cuts herself, and has unprotected sex with guys and says "OMG, if I'm pregnant, my parents are gonna kill me..." Interesting.
After that girl gave you her number to call her to chat more, I would've said something like "No, thanks. Now that I know you let someone else read things I tell you in confidence, I won't be telling you any more of my business."
farrah_tinytot
09-14-2014, 06:15 PM
What pisses me off most about MFC: the countless broke douchebags who pm me asking about Skype, and then as soon as I tell them I expect to be paid for it, they bounce. And I'm like, "yeah, that's what I thought!"
Seems like for them, skype=freeloaders paradise.
TheBrownFox
09-14-2014, 10:29 PM
In only the short span of a couple months, this is the third time a guy has screamed the 'n' word at me (or outside the house) at the top of his lungs, and I don't know who the fuck this person is. The first time it was some guy in a truck while I was outside walking around. The second time it was a group of about 4 White guys on bikes (on that very same road, in fact) while I was walking around. The third time was today when I was INSIDE the house, upstairs in my bedroom. They were on bikes, and one of them screamed it at the top of his lungs twice...right as he was riding by my house. I ran outside (barefoot and no bra on under my shirt...haha) yelling back and calling them pussy ass bitches, and one of them pointed at his friend to tell me that HE was the one who did it. Smh. I even walked towards the nearby shopping center to see if they had gone there. Some guy over there was like "I think you scared them. They rode by here real fast, looking scared." Good.
AliceFun
09-14-2014, 10:36 PM
She wasn't talking about her own daughter being around me. She was talking about a different neighbor's 15-year old daughter being around me. So yeah, now that girl doesn't come around here to talk to me anymore. She's gone back to hangin' out with the 19-year old neighbor with self esteem issues, who cuts herself, and has unprotected sex with guys and says "OMG, if I'm pregnant, my parents are gonna kill me..." Interesting.
After that girl gave you her number to call her to chat more, I would've said something like "No, thanks. Now that I know you let someone else read things I tell you in confidence, I won't be telling you any more of my business."
Got it, yes, that 19 yo girl can be a bad influence for the 15 yo NOT You! SMH!
About the girl here, i just wanted to let it go, i do care more about the friendship with her mom than anything else, i wont write her back, answer her or call her, sometimes the best thing u can do is distance urself from people that are not worth ur time & energy consumption lol.
Take care Fox, Hugs!
LadyFionaStar
09-15-2014, 07:52 AM
I am on Live Jasmin and usually Friday and Saturday are my best nights where I make around $500 bucks easy. This weekend sucked! Alot of lurkers and no spenders. It was so slow. I try outfit changes when it is like that and still nothing! I am a "mature" lady and not bad looking..wink..wink..lol! I am an entertainer! I move and shake the entire shift and that usually works for me but nothing could make them spend. And it was the end of my pay period and I finally made 40% because we work on a level dependent system and I bank towards the end but I just coulldn't get them in.
I KNOW it is not me. It's just a sucky weekend. It will be better and I love camming and hamming..lol so I'll just keep pushin' on! Good luck eveyone. And remember..they get NOTHING without paying. If we all do that and show nothing in free chat than these guys will have no choice but to PAY for a show.
Take care ladies! Joy aka "LadyFionaStar"
anonymous camgirl
09-15-2014, 08:02 AM
wow so far every guy is just doing nothing but arguing with me about my prices and asking me what I like...LOL.... uggh.. It's a sign of no money to me when they argue with you about every lil thing. Nit pickers!
justanothercamgirl
09-15-2014, 08:53 AM
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SoloDesire
09-15-2014, 09:34 AM
This isn't even funny today. I've blocked more douches today than I'd care to admit.
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TheBrownFox
09-15-2014, 10:22 AM
ImLive is killing me with this stupid box popping up where I have to click 'Allow' (to allow my video to come up) and then 'Remember'. I've selected those things every time (and I've logged into ImLive recently enough where it should've still saved). It is such a pain in the ass. They make it damn near impossible to click on that 'Allow' button, and by the time it actually does click, 3 guys have already entered FLC (which I immediately pause all the time) waiting for my ass to hurry up and get on there.
LittleLexy
09-15-2014, 10:36 AM
Just need to vent about a guy that is bothering me on Twitter, doesn't ever do a damn show, is clingy to mutiple cam models, pops into my chatroom to ask why I don't write him, never spends a penny and gets angry when I get sick and tired of it and finally say something. He does this to a lot of models. Well today, I finally got tired of it and blocked him ONCE AGAIN! I said something to another model, and he's all pissed and is going to report me to Twitter even though both of us models never even mentioned this losers name. I see he got another models twitter shut down last week. I'm so sick of him. He makes new accounts to once again follow and bother models. I don't even know what to do anymore. I've locked my Twitter and reported him. He gets all pissed when models get angry and then proceeds to call us money hungry whore bitches. Well...FUCK if you want some special personal relationship find a girl that doesn't work in the sex industry. I mean C'mon of course we take money for cam shows..are you a fucking retard?
I can't stand him...and really I get more angry when I see him pulling his baby shit on other models, then messing with me.
MissQuirk
09-15-2014, 10:48 AM
Last night was awful. 2.5 hours, 30.13
What the fuck.
Glamourmilf
09-15-2014, 11:01 AM
I'm pissed when guys who haven't even bought any gold shows message me for their 'free' videos! I have a pretty reliable photographic memory, but I have to go back and check, and re-check my earnings page, and sift through the hundreds of names who have actually bought shows from me.:biting:
Some tip me off when they say I owe them the 10 vids.. I never offer more than 3, and that's only to top tippers.
Geez!!
ZafinaX
09-15-2014, 12:50 PM
What the hell is going on? Tried being on 2 different sites today for like 2-2.5 hours each. SM and CB and neither can bring me a freaking good dollar! Days like these make me so scared as to if things will ever get better again...
TheBrownFox
09-15-2014, 02:39 PM
Since Cams made the stupid decision to suspend me for 24 hours for allegedly sleeping on cam (which is absolute bullshit), I will have to just log onto ImDead...uh, I mean...ImLive tonight. I can't get my Cams daily pay money either until I'm no longer a suspended model either. Smh. I logged into ImLive a few hours this afternoon, and made nothing. Surprise, surprise.
Via Flaminia
09-15-2014, 04:17 PM
Since Cams made the stupid decision to suspend me for 24 hours for supposed sleeping on cam (which is absolute bullshit), I will have to just log onto ImDead...uh, I mean...ImLive tonight. I can't get my Cams daily pay money either until I'm no longer a suspended model either. Smh. I logged into ImLive a few hours this afternoon, and made nothing. Surprise, surprise.
Where does Cams get these ideas? Did they take a screenshot of you blinking or something?
Today sucks so far. :(
JaneBurgess
09-15-2014, 04:56 PM
I'm so sorry that happened to you. People can be so damn rude.
So I was at Starbucks this morning and there was a mother with her young daughter. She proceeded to laugh at me then her daughter followed her example. So I basically went off and I am not sorry. I know not all parents are this way but it's important to teach your kids love and kindness. Most importantly, transgender people are human beings. We are not a joke that should be subjected to your ridicule because I won't fucking tolerate it. Next time she'll remember to mind her own fucking business.
JaneBurgess
09-15-2014, 05:21 PM
I get annoyed with the customers that think I can speak every language under the sun. We check the languages we speak, if it's not check we don't speak it. Damn already
bbwchristyminx
09-16-2014, 01:22 AM
The last few nights for me have been pure annoying torture. I've blocked more idiots than I can count and every other asshat asks the same stupid questions about things that have nothing to do with anything. Do you meet? Can I have your number? Can I see your ass/tits bb? Show me 1st and I'll tip. Tease us and we will tip into your show. The beggars and asshats are out in FULL force! Thank god for regular customers I love and adore them so much. I usually don't block people but lately a few asshats felt the need to type out full on paragraphs on me being ugly or fat and how I resemble shamoo or how I should quit cam because I'm not attractive. Name calling doesn't bother me because I know I'm successful and good at what I do and have the fan base to back that up. I use to wonder how many bullies are men and how many are other models but I realized that it doesn't matter because I know what kind of person I am and could careless any more what the next person thinks. Pardon my rant but it feels good to vent cause I have nobody but you all to talk to ;) best wishes cam sisters.
Side note: I've also been having issues on sm, at times I can't even click on the yellow note next to the customers name , if I click it doesn't respond or open and if I try to copy and paste something so i don't have to retype it during a goldshow countdown it freezes up everything and I have to restart my laptop. That only started happening about 5 or so days ago. Anyone else having this issue? If so how did you fix it?
AliceFun
09-16-2014, 03:56 AM
Sorry i cant help with ur tech. issues but i wish to add to what u just said, who the bullies really are? I can tell for sure a good chunk are other models actually, i tell from experience believe me. Recently i posted in Verified section in here about an issue i have, it was something personal i only told in there, on cam my 'thing' is not even visible but i got this person in my chat asking about my 'thing' directly saying i seem to struggle.
In a split second i understood i got a cam girl bully in my room but played dumb, let the bitch waffle to the point where she said: 'look me up online, i am so and so on the web', i looked up out of curiosity to find an african guy facebook page and some other web pages, he seemed to be a vip in his country.
Anyway, i asked her (cause it was a her): so what is ur profession? It took a longer time to get the answer 'statistician', she had to look that up, if it was the person she claimed to be she would have answered straight away, u know what is ur profession right? or name, age, location, whatever, u dont need time to answer to these questions unless u dont know the answer cause it's not you!!
The person left then HA! Nice, eh? Bitch, just so u know, i am smart, i sometimes manipulate bitches & u cant touch me no matter what u write. I reached the 'illumination level' so everything u say will be below the level i am at haha!
This is not a hate or rage message but the 'i am very aware of what is going on around me' type of message so chill out, u are just a low life creature haha!
LittleLexy
09-16-2014, 04:14 AM
I'm trying to ignore, he just pisses me off something terrible. I talk to multiple men and I'm okay with the ones that don't do shows, as long as they are respectful and understand this is how I support my children. He spends all day on Twitter...tweeting multiple cam models all DAY! I'm dead serious...it's all he does. This man is a big man baby. If you don't acknowledge him, he whines like a 2 year old. Begs models to follow him. If you ignore him, he keeps tweeting you. You complain, he calls you money hungry. He's freaking annoying. I unlocked my twitter this morning. I decided I'm not letting this man baby control my Twitter anymore.
bbwchristyminx
09-16-2014, 04:40 AM
I personally never understood why other models go out of their way to bully and harass others. We all have the same 24 hours in a day to do great things. When I have free time on my hands I'm not harassing or saying hurtful things to other models trying to make a living I'm either finding ways to make more money or spending time with loved ones. If I'm having a slow day on cam I don't go harassing other girls or hiding behind a keyboard but it's not for me to figure out. Grown men who act like trolls are one thing but models going out of their way to purposely hurt others is pathetic and childish. I could never wrap my brain around that. I advertise as BBW/FAT so I can't help but laugh when some asshat thinks that typing a huge paragraph on how I'm fat like no shit shirlock tell me the sky is blue or oprah is rich while your at it. Bullying is whack. Harassing others is whack. Negative energy is whack. Make bacon not war
Sorry i cant help with ur tech. issues but i wish to add to what u just said, who the bullies really are? I can tell for sure a good chunk are other models actually, i tell from experience believe me. Recently i posted in Verified section in here about an issue i have, it was something personal i only told in there, on cam my 'thing' is not even visible but i got this person in my chat asking about my 'thing' directly saying i seem to struggle.
In a split second i understood i got a cam girl bully in my room but played dumb, let the bitch waffle to the point where she said: 'look me up online, i am so and so on the web', i looked up out of curiosity to find an african guy facebook page and some other web pages, he seemed to be a vip in his country.
Anyway, i asked her (cause it was a her): so what is ur profession? It took a longer time to get the answer 'statistician', she had to look that up, if it was the person she claimed to be she would have answered straight away, u know what is ur profession right? or name, age, location, whatever, u dont need time to answer to these questions unless u dont know the answer cause it's not you!!
The person left then HA! Nice, eh? Bitch, just so u know, i am smart, i sometimes manipulate bitches & u cant touch me no matter what u write. I reached the 'illumination level' so everything u say will be below the level i am at haha!
This is not a hate or rage message but the 'i am very aware of what is going on around me' type of message so chill out, u are just a low life creature haha!
KimKlass
09-16-2014, 05:32 AM
My vent is as follows:
STOP TURNING MY SHIFTS INTO STARING CONTESTS WITH ME! FUCK!!
Recently, my shifts have consisted of: me logging on, having the room fill up to about 100, and then ... NOTHING. Absolutely nothing. No talking, very little tipping, if any. Just nothing. 100 people who might as well not be there. I cannot fucking stand a silent room. It annoys me MORE than slow tipping, dead serious. I can work with slow tipping, but I have nothing to work with if they refuse to even acknowledge my existence. I just can't deal with it and it truly does infuriate me at times. I wish they would cut that shit out! What is so hard about saying "hi, Kim"?? If you don't want to tip or even speak to me, it's like what the fuck are you even here for? Are you not bored? Because I am! This has been getting to me for real. Sick of that fucking nonsense because it's almost every single shift now! I don't know what fresh hell this is but it needs to correct itself before I lose my shit in my chat room one day.
AliceFun
09-16-2014, 05:44 AM
^^^ Is that on SM or MFC or where? I think the 'bots' theory might have some sense lately or these guys are just this weird? I cant stand that no talking myself, if i get silent guys (on SM) i kick them out after a few mins, i never get soo many guys in my room (100) but also depends what camsite. Crazy thing tho, sorry, i feel for u.
ETA: sorry i overseen the links so u cam on MFC, okay.
Thank you AliceFun. I believe you are correct in what you're thinking. I was just about to join verified when I had two models I trust tell me that not everyone could be trusted in there. How sad. That there are filthbags that need get their jollies bothering someone who's just trying to work and coming here to try to make it better for themselves. As if they bothered someone that they feel threatened by that the other 1,500 models online aren't also affecting their money. Hopefully Karma is your friend.
SweetJulia
09-16-2014, 08:12 AM
Dear God, where do I start? I've had food poisoning off and on for two weeks. My BFs' mom had a stroke and is now in a nursing home. I've been too lazy and two cold to tan. My "special" kitty scratched me up and it's gonna scar. People in my building let their dogs crap anywhere and, on the rare occasions they do pick it up, they put it in the trash can by the mail boxes meant for junk mail. Sometimes in a bag, sometimes not. I now have classes twice a week and have to drive during rush hour. Finally, my long haired cat keeps jumping in the shower with me and I hate drying her off cuz the hair dryer noise scares her.
MissAdriana
09-16-2014, 09:01 AM
OMG Julia people not picking up their dog crap bothers me so much! In my city you can get a fine if you don't pick it up. I ALWAYS scoop the poop. It's much easier than cleaning a cat box. People are so lazy and gross! Who wants to smell dog poop everywhere they go?
A gf I know got a spray tanner machine and says after this summer it has already paid for itself. It looks good on her too not orange at all.
So today I get everything set up, my lighting perfect, my cam room clean, makeup done, hair done, and then when I sit down to film all hell breaks loose outside, sirens going crazy, people yelling across the street, lawnmowers, then kids screaming. I shut all the windows and doors and it still came through on the video. I guess I am just not meant to film today.
SoloDesire
09-16-2014, 10:17 AM
This.
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All day this...in my cam room.
Why do they just sit there and stare without saying a word? Why?! It's so creepy!
justanothercamgirl
09-16-2014, 10:22 AM
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Even though my placement has moved up a page my traffic is still sparse. I am taking a break to do clips and will try back after lunch.
anonymous camgirl
09-16-2014, 10:23 AM
I think they are just sitting there waiting for you to actually do something.. they don't wanna talk to you.. just observing like scared lil kittens.. haha
Like they are watching a show on TV!.. haha
Tuesday. The waste of a day that comes just after the waste of a day that is Monday. Then there's gee I hope I can fucking be allowed to make money Wednesday, followed by surely Thursday must be promising. Friday is everyone has money but isn't spending it day, Saturday is all the underage clowns come out of the closet since school is out, and lastly there is Sunday. You know, glorious Sunday where all the models now cram on during the morning rush before football in effect cancelling each other out. Sorry I can't be more positive right now. But I'll be damned if I'm not going to have a sense of humor at my own funeral!!
TeenageAnnie
09-16-2014, 10:41 AM
fuck this shit. i feel like i cant find myself. first i did full on nude shows but ppl mostly wanted GFE or fetish. so i switched to fetish/gfe and every1 wanted nude shows. Switch back to nude shows, and everyone wants domme/fetish shows. switch my profile to include everything, get no customers at all. hahahahahahahahahahahha imgoingfuckingcrazy hahahahahahahahha
TheBrownFox
09-16-2014, 10:46 AM
People leaving dog shit on the ground (or empty cigarette cartons, empty soda bottles, etc.) is the exact reason I always say that if I move into these apartments over here, I am NOT living on the ground floor. The reason being that the ground floor apartments all have back patios. And people walking by other people's back patios do inconsiderate shit like leave dog poop, cigarette cartons, etc. in the grass. Especially teenagers and people in their early 20's.
For some reason, people in this neighborhood who have dogs walk their dogs to the nearby shopping center to let them poop there, and then they walk back home. Am I the only person who thinks that's just fucking ridiculous??? I remember years ago I posted a rant in Model Mayhem's Off-Topic forum about people not picking up dog poop, and some of the dog owners bit my head off. The one bitch even said "I don't care if people step in my dog's poop. Watch where you're going." Um...no, bitch. Don't have a dog if you're too fucking lazy to clean up its shit.
Glamourmilf
09-16-2014, 10:54 AM
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