View Full Version : The General Purpose "Camming Sucks Right Now" Thread
anonymous camgirl
10-26-2014, 07:50 AM
Successful people have clear concise goals for their future. That's what makes them work 40 hours a week. You need to work TOWARDS something. Fantasize and get inspired of how you want your future to be. Camming is not the end-all , be-all. It's a stepping stone to the future you REALLY WANT. It gives you GREAT opportunity. Harvest it, sow your seeds. The entire time I am on cam I am thinking about how awesome my future is going to be, because I logged on...Goals get people their dreams and make them a reality. What's your dream? That's what you get on cam for.
Venting about myself here.
WHY am I sooo lazy? I know I can make money on cam, but I always come up with some bullshit excuse and sign off. Then I wonder why I'm broke.
So duumb
I neeeeeeed to stop doing this. There are girls who put in 40+ hour work weeks on cam, I'm at like 19 hrs for the month. THE ENTIRE MONTH. Why am I so fucking lazy?!?
I feel so vacant and down allll the time. Getting out of bed is hard. But there's no excuse to sit around being all self loathy when my commute is literally just rolling from my bed to my couch. I feel like such a fuck up. I have the best job in the world (camming) and I can't even bring myself to put the hours in. Oi. Does someone want to PM me every day and yell at me to get off my ass? That'd be neat.
anonymous camgirl
10-26-2014, 07:52 AM
I change the lyrics to "These BROS ain't loyal" I find that song to be so insulting since MOST women are loyal.
^Men suck, sammii. I keep hearing guys toss around this popular "These hoes ain't loyal" phrase, which makes me lol and smh since it seems like they're the ones who can't keep their dicks in their pants. I saw a FB meme last night that said "Nowadays you can be everything someone ever wanted, and STILL get played."
TheBrownFox
10-26-2014, 08:00 AM
^ So true! It's always the most loyal chicks who have the worst, cheating boyfriends. The guys who message me are always the guys who hide their relationship status and untag statuses/pictures with their girlfriend while their GFs are posting about their "amazing boyfriend" all over Facebook. I feel bad their unaware that their "amazing boyfriends" are cheating assholes, but I stay out of it because I don't like to get involved in drama.
Yeah, because when you try to warn them about what they're getting themselves into, they don't wanna hear it, and they like to tell themselves you're just some jealous chick. Smh. And I think to myself "That's okay. She'll find out soon enough what scum he is."
But if we're talking about, say, someone's boyfriend/husband PMing me on Facebook, I would definitely get a screenshot of it and send it to her. That's evidence right there, and I know if I was the woman being played/cheated on, I'd wanna know.
sammii
10-26-2014, 09:37 AM
Hahaha. Anonymous, thanks to you Ive got "these bros ain't loyal" stuck in my head. :P
Thanks BrownFox! That's a good point. I'd want to know too (especially if there was a screenshot). The first guys GF seems naiive but sweet, but all the message says is "let's go get dinner" which looks pretty innocent and doesn't prove anything. I'm almost positive itd be more than just a "friendly dinner" because we used to flirt a lot, but I didn't want a relationship and he did. The reason I'm not saying anything is because she seems really sweet and I want them to work out. I'm dissapointed because I thought he was a good guy! I hope his intentions of asking me to dinner was just friendly, but idk :( Anyway ..
Bluegemini
10-26-2014, 01:08 PM
Do any of you ladies lash out at people when it's slow..? Haha..I'm on mfc and today I was doing a countdown that was like pulling teeth..seriously. Almost 100 people in my room, 45 minutes, and 21 tokens..Someone in my chat sent me a PM saying "you should stick your tounge out and act like I'm cumming on it" for some reason this pissed me off so much. I replied with "you should go fuck yourself!" Bad day for me.
pippapippa
10-26-2014, 01:13 PM
Do any of you ladies lash out at people when it's slow..? Haha..I'm on mfc and today I was doing a countdown that was like pulling teeth..seriously. Almost 100 people in my room, 45 minutes, and 21 tokens..Someone in my chat sent me a PM saying "you should stick your tounge out and act like I'm cumming on it" for some reason this pissed me off so much. I replied with "you should go fuck yourself!" Bad day for me.
I tell people to go fuck themselves all the time. Or I pull out a dildo and offer to shove it in their asses.
starcraft
10-26-2014, 03:49 PM
jeeeeeeeeezzz, i am tired of camming so much -.- why the hell those people ask " hru" each time they come to a chat room, like they would care how the hell i am... " look at my face, its abvious how the hell IAM!!!". i am tired of smiling... standing up every 2 seconds and telling people the info that is written on my bio!...
last week was awful. i worked 15 hours and made 275 bucks in general. couldnt work more, bcs of my studies. well, thank you studies, for giving me good excuse not to cam! so far was one of the best weeks in last 4 months ^^
scarletl
10-26-2014, 06:39 PM
Do any of you ladies lash out at people when it's slow..? Haha..I'm on mfc and today I was doing a countdown that was like pulling teeth..seriously. Almost 100 people in my room, 45 minutes, and 21 tokens..Someone in my chat sent me a PM saying "you should stick your tounge out and act like I'm cumming on it" for some reason this pissed me off so much. I replied with "you should go fuck yourself!" Bad day for me.
Yes.....Yes and YES lol
Marina Starr
10-27-2014, 07:26 AM
I recently moved into my new place and I swear to God, every few days I have people knocking on my door wanting to preach the Bible/the words of God at 9am in the morning. I have to tell them I am not interested. If Jesus wants to tell me something, He will tell me Himself. If I don't know you, I don't want to talk to you, I just don't want to be bothered with people.
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MissQuirk
10-27-2014, 04:01 PM
The best advice I can give you and any girl finding it hard to log on cam is to WORK EVERYDAY even just for a short few hours. Give yourself no excuses to not work. You are owning up to what you need to do so that's a good start!
Thank youu! <3 I know I just need to make myself, and once I start actually working daily I'll feel good about it and want to keep going
Successful people have clear concise goals for their future. That's what makes them work 40 hours a week. You need to work TOWARDS something. Fantasize and get inspired of how you want your future to be. Camming is not the end-all , be-all. It's a stepping stone to the future you REALLY WANT. It gives you GREAT opportunity. Harvest it, sow your seeds. The entire time I am on cam I am thinking about how awesome my future is going to be, because I logged on...Goals get people their dreams and make them a reality. What's your dream? That's what you get on cam for.
Blaming PMS, but this totally made me tear up. Thank you. You're totally right. I've been stuck in a rut and ignoring all of my goals because I feel like I'll never get there...but that's absolutely ridiculous. I will get where I want to be, today is one whole day closer to my goal if I treat it right.
THANK YOU. SO much. <3
pippapippa
10-28-2014, 06:48 AM
Kill me now :(
I'm tired, I've had a headache that won't go away for the past week, and I need to make a lot of money by Thursday morning.
SimoneGray
10-28-2014, 06:53 AM
OMG! MFC is crushing my soul but I need money... *cries and downs champagne*
Charlotteslut
10-28-2014, 07:37 AM
Nothing like struggling for hours on MFC, trying to hustle 50 silent viewers who won't talk or tip, to make you appreciate SM lmao...
SamanthaSugar
10-28-2014, 03:28 PM
Is anybody else having a horrible day on SM or is just me?
reversecowgirl
10-28-2014, 03:33 PM
my day on sm sucked asssssssssssssss today.
VelvetRose
10-28-2014, 03:43 PM
Is anybody else having a horrible day on SM or is just me?
my day on sm sucked asssssssssssssss today.
$15 in three hours on SM. Yeah... It's that kind of day. Lol
reversecowgirl
10-28-2014, 04:10 PM
I made a big fat 98 cents. And when that mother fucker comes back another day I am blocking his ass for all the time wasting he did, to go prvt for ONE MINUTE. lol sorry but I am still pissed at him and this was hours ago.
pippapippa
10-28-2014, 04:49 PM
So I was in a bad mood this morning and quit an hour in with thirty dollars. I logged on again a bit ago in a good mood and this time, I've earned nothing.
SM_CamGirl
10-28-2014, 05:06 PM
Is anybody else having a horrible day on SM or is just me?
Me! i dont know when this situation will change.. im getting really tired, i cant believe nobody enter to my room.. no members, and neither free users!!! worst days in all this year..
RubyRapture
10-28-2014, 05:20 PM
I got disconnected in a TV gold show. I wanted to cry. >_< I wasted so much time. UGH!
gingerstripper
10-28-2014, 05:22 PM
it seems like deadville on mfc compared to yesterday.. but for 2 hours and 44 minutes i made 275 which i guess isnt two shabby considering i was super late.. but it was super kinda awkward on there
PurpleLily
10-28-2014, 07:31 PM
my day on sm sucked asssssssssssssss today.
Meeeeee too!!! This has been the worst day in awhile. Hopefully it will pick up around Halloween/Payday because I feel like I'm watching paint dry...:(
Anne_marie
10-28-2014, 07:32 PM
Ok, I'm super pissed but it's not customers for once. I tried out nair for the first time and had a bad reaction to it, so my inner thighs are all red and blotchy and I can't make any money. I just cut down on hours at my other job and now I've been out of commission from camming for like a week :(
PurpleLily
10-28-2014, 07:45 PM
Ok, I'm super pissed but it's not customers for once. I tried out nair for the first time and had a bad reaction to it, so my inner thighs are all red and blotchy and I can't make any money. I just cut down on hours at my other job and now I've been out of commission from camming for like a week :(
I did the same thing about a year ago, but I left it on too long. If you want... try St. Ives Green Tea scrub. It worked for me - red and itchy legs :( I found it at Walgreens, worked like a charm. Either way, I hope it gets better soon!!
Procrasturbator
10-28-2014, 07:52 PM
Ok, I'm super pissed but it's not customers for once. I tried out nair for the first time and had a bad reaction to it, so my inner thighs are all red and blotchy and I can't make any money. I just cut down on hours at my other job and now I've been out of commission from camming for like a week :(
Have you tried camming? IME custies don't care nearly as much as we do. If it's not too sensitive you could try putting make up on it (I'd do liquid make up then a heavy duty powder on top of it) but I bet it's not even necessary. I've cammed with razor burn, bright red peely sunburn, weird bumps on my butt, huge bruises, you name it and it's never affected my money. The cam and the male libido have a way of minimizing flaws.
AnnaNDowd
10-28-2014, 08:11 PM
:( I feel like I bought bad luck or something. I wanted to try SM today and seriously got 1 person in my room the entire hour. Kill me.
Rastafari
10-29-2014, 07:38 AM
Camming sucks because it just might be the thing that can ruin a friendship when your friends lost her vanilla job and you try to teach her the ways of mfc but she gets butthurt when she has a couple slow days and insists its time to get another vanilla job and that you're a bitch for wanting to keep working on the new hourly pay site that suspended her. Ugh
jeeeeeeeeezzz, i am tired of camming so much -.- why the hell those people ask " hru" each time they come to a chat room, like they would care how the hell i am... " look at my face, its abvious how the hell IAM!!!". i am tired of smiling... standing up every 2 seconds and telling people the info that is written on my bio!...
^^
I've been thinking that for the past 2 years or so. You and I we think alot alike!
Glamourmilf
10-29-2014, 08:51 AM
Yeah, yesterday was horrible for me as well. I did get on an hr. earlier than I usually do, just to get the 'beginning of the shift freeloaders' out of the way. You know, the ones who ask for specific things, then bail. Or the piss /shit requests, show pussy, lift skirt, etc. etc. trolls.
But after 2 hrs. of watching hundreds of guys popping in and out without buying, (and only those repeats who have taken a turn for the sour), come into chat, I had had enough. I tried different hairstyles, poses, clothes, diff. areas to cam,...still nada.>:(
Just as I was about to log off, my room fills up with guys I know will pay for a show, but after the first one takes me exclusive and clears my room, I'm way too tired and pissed to stay on.
Damnit!
My tolerance for b.s., is way to low nowadays to go back to camming for 8 hrs. per day. I just won't /can't to that to myself anymore. :(
DancesWithSloths
10-29-2014, 10:12 AM
3.5 hrs so far, $10. I do have some reading to do for school, so I'm OK with having a cam on me while I read, but my face hurts from holding the "I'm reading the most amusing thing in the world" smile.
Blovely
10-29-2014, 10:57 AM
Yesterday was actually surprisingly really good for me especially for a Tuesday but today is starting out sucky but its Wednesday so I'm not even surprised.
SoloDesire
10-29-2014, 11:17 AM
Have you ever gotten so sick and tired of guys just SITTING in your room without saying a word that you wanted to yell real loud into your mic just to scare the shit outta them? Yeah, I just did.
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anonymous camgirl
10-29-2014, 11:55 AM
so what?? cam anyway!.. unless you are in pain!... let me tell ya! I had an acid peel .. my face was oozing, peeling and crusty and I couldn't wear makeup for 2 weeks.. I had no idea it was going to be that BAD!!.. I cammed anyway.. I adjusted the lighting and cam colors so it didn't look that bad.. TAKE TIME OFF FROM WORK?? aint nobody got time for that!
Ok, I'm super pissed but it's not customers for once. I tried out nair for the first time and had a bad reaction to it, so my inner thighs are all red and blotchy and I can't make any money. I just cut down on hours at my other job and now I've been out of commission from camming for like a week :(
beauvoir
10-29-2014, 12:12 PM
A guy gave me one star because I wouldn't have sex with an animal on camera for him.
AnotherLily
10-29-2014, 02:20 PM
I got on with a positive attitude. Was being sexy and flirty I even said f**k it and whipped a costume out early. I got more tips in fc than premiums (and only got 2 of those and I'm on SM). I started out on nights, moved to days. I've yet to find a time slot that makes me feel like I'm making more money than waiting tables at a causal family restaurant that serves alcohol. I don't know how true this is but I read from a site (that logs camgirls) that the average cam girl quits after 4 months (at least on mfc ) I haven't been camming that long but DAMN I still haven't found my groove. =( Today sucked.
TheBrownFox
10-29-2014, 03:23 PM
New job, and I'm already dealing with someone making a false accusation about me. Wonderful.
anonymous camgirl
10-29-2014, 04:24 PM
Well I am way past due quitting.. this is my 12th year.. and it's almost over not ready to quit yet so come on YEAR #13!...lol
I got on with a positive attitude. Was being sexy and flirty I even said f**k it and whipped a costume out early. I got more tips in fc than premiums (and only got 2 of those and I'm on SM). I started out on nights, moved to days. I've yet to find a time slot that makes me feel like I'm making more money than waiting tables at a causal family restaurant that serves alcohol. I don't know how true this is but I read from a site (that logs camgirls) that the average cam girl quits after 4 months (at least on mfc ) I haven't been camming that long but DAMN I still haven't found my groove. =( Today sucked.
AngeXx
10-29-2014, 04:32 PM
I recently moved into my new place and I swear to God, every few days I have people knocking on my door wanting to preach the Bible/the words of God at 9am in the morning. I have to tell them I am not interested. If Jesus wants to tell me something, He will tell me Himself. If I don't know you, I don't want to talk to you, I just don't want to be bothered with people.
http://i158.photobucket.com/albums/t94/tsmelania/tumblr_mnix9uFPbd1qm0y0ho1_500_zps3f4f61a3.gif (http://s158.photobucket.com/user/tsmelania/media/tumblr_mnix9uFPbd1qm0y0ho1_500_zps3f4f61a3.gif.htm l)
I'm right there with you! For awhile I tried the "I'm going to listen for a minute, give an excuse for me to shut the door, and never see them again" until I heard "alright we'll discuss your thoughts the next time I visit". Wait.....WHAT?! NEVER AGAIN!!!!
Blovely
10-29-2014, 05:12 PM
I got on with a positive attitude. Was being sexy and flirty I even said f**k it and whipped a costume out early. I got more tips in fc than premiums (and only got 2 of those and I'm on SM). I started out on nights, moved to days. I've yet to find a time slot that makes me feel like I'm making more money than waiting tables at a causal family restaurant that serves alcohol. I don't know how true this is but I read from a site (that logs camgirls) that the average cam girl quits after 4 months (at least on mfc ) I haven't been camming that long but DAMN I still haven't found my groove. =( Today sucked.
Try a different site or split-camming.
MissQuirk
10-29-2014, 05:35 PM
Cam is fucking crickets for me right now.
Thank God for content sites.
Issabelle
10-29-2014, 05:41 PM
lol. Oh, the religious door-to-door peeps. They visited me so often. They used to come to the homes of my old clients when I was still in healthcare and ask to talk to them. All of my clients were devoutly Catholic and old enough to be set in their ways. That ended poorly.
The crazies came to my door like a month ago. I come out to the living room (I'm working no less and in a robe), peer through the (sheer) curtain, and immediately run back to my room. They kept knocking. I wanted to set my dog on them. Ugh. So annoying.
SweetJulia
10-29-2014, 05:44 PM
This fucking midterm I just took................it's a good thing I'm cute, cuz I don't think my brain likes me anymore :(
SoloDesire
10-31-2014, 01:41 PM
Everyone is being an asshole today. So much for having a fun Halloween on cam :(
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Marina Starr
10-31-2014, 02:36 PM
Maybe try later tonight when they're all DRUNK from partying/drinking!
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Everyone is being an asshole today. So much for having a fun Halloween on cam :(
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Ms.Lacey
10-31-2014, 02:56 PM
Everyone is being an asshole today. So much for having a fun Halloween on cam :(
39487
OMG yes they are which is annoying since I took most of the week off. I have my meds aka wine
Rastafari
10-31-2014, 03:00 PM
Ehhhhh $50 in 4 hours on mfc just now. I'm thinking about getting on later to scope it out, though a lot of my regs have party plans
anonymous camgirl
10-31-2014, 03:09 PM
So I bought this Oil of Olay PRO-X age repair lotion with SPF 30 for my face because this sun damage I acquired in my 20's and 30's is NO JOKE at 42..LOL... anyways it burned , it stung, It broke my face out!.. AND THEN to make matters worse? I touched my fricken vagina without washing my hands off? not knowing that it was going to do anything to my lady parts.. so now by vagina is feeling like it has a yeast infection.. uggh.. just from facial lotion!... omg... so I had to quit doing cam.. the more I rubbed my vagina the more red, swollen , burning and itchy it got!...:(( I was doing good too............ waaaaah... I put baking soda and peroxide and shoved garlic cloves up there for safety measures.. also bought plain yogurt , sauerkraut, kombucha.. and took some garlic/ginger pills.. Also have oregano oil.... anyways it shouldn't be THAT bad.. but I am TAKING No chances with my money maker.. and these guys wonder why I don't have sex anymore??... well this is fricken why!.. men give you yeast infections, plan b pill gives you yeast infections.. FORGET IT! /end RANT
Nina_Den
11-02-2014, 09:13 AM
Lately I cannot cam without getting drunk first/while working. Today I hit a new record and right now I feel like my head is about to explode and I'm surprised I even manage to type this message. I feel disgusting. I'm writing this here to promise myself I will not drink alcohol on cam anymore. That's no way to live.
If I'm feeling anxious (which happens a lot lately), I can just crank up the stereo and remember I'm awesome. I don't need alcohol. It's just an illusion.
anonymous camgirl
11-02-2014, 11:17 AM
Yea! I fell into that trap for a LONG while!.. Now I drink Dr Schulze Nerve tonic and take liver tonic... the nerve tonic is a miracle in a bottle.. kinda makes you high and oh so relaxed.. Not stressed, no anxiety.. don't give a fuck about assholes... just calm..
Lately I cannot cam without getting drunk first/while working. Today I hit a new record and right now I feel like my head is about to explode and I'm surprised I even manage to type this message. I feel disgusting. I'm writing this here to promise myself I will not drink alcohol on cam anymore. That's no way to live.
If I'm feeling anxious (which happens a lot lately), I can just crank up the stereo and remember I'm awesome. I don't need alcohol. It's just an illusion.
AliceFun
11-02-2014, 07:26 PM
Lately I cannot cam without getting drunk first/while working. Today I hit a new record and right now I feel like my head is about to explode and I'm surprised I even manage to type this message. I feel disgusting. I'm writing this here to promise myself I will not drink alcohol on cam anymore. That's no way to live.
If I'm feeling anxious (which happens a lot lately), I can just crank up the stereo and remember I'm awesome. I don't need alcohol. It's just an illusion.
Nina, i am surprised to read this post, pls dont do that, u have a tendency to either eat bad or use alcohol now? I can understand u stressed but this is not the way, u young & have many years to come & live, u dont wanna destroy urself there. Pls, i say it with love, try to cope with situation differently, i advice u like i advice my son, he is 20.