View Full Version : The General Purpose "Camming Sucks Right Now" Thread
RaeRae
03-12-2015, 11:13 PM
I either play SNES games in an emulator, talk to people in Chatzy or Yahoo, or watch hockey online.
Only $6 more to my low goal for the night. Oh god please hurry, I'm so tired.
ENoire
03-12-2015, 11:20 PM
I either play SNES games in an emulator, talk to people in Chatzy or Yahoo, or watch hockey online.
Only $6 more to my low goal for the night. Oh god please hurry, I'm so tired.
I just cant figure out how to do other things and still look attentive/interesting...
RaeRae
03-12-2015, 11:23 PM
I tend to be bounce around and hum along to my music or talk to myself (or talk to guys on other sites when splitting) while doing those things to keep sane. The latter seems to help the most as it looks like I have more guys than I do (I love classic chat on SM so guys can't see I'm talking to myself or guys elsewhere).
Edit: God fucking dammit, SM! Don't fucking fuck up when someone tries to take me excl at 8.99/min. I want that money, you want that money, stop it with the fucking glitches.
anonymous camgirl
03-13-2015, 08:30 AM
I feel like I have to TRY to hard this week.. uggh
ivybunny
03-13-2015, 01:33 PM
Now that I've posted in camming rocks, it's time for camming FUCKING BLOWS RIGHT NOW.
My biggest whale (and favorite customer by far, like, the man is better than most of my partners IRL) is on a business trip indefinitely. I made less hourly than I ever have. I spent 2 hours getting ready, looking like a hot bitch and guys don't like it, because Asian girls are supposed to look sweet and innocent. I know, I should be glad I make more when I have to spend 10 mins rather than 2 hours getting ready, but the racial stereotypes get to me.
The number of times people ask me where I'm from (Cali originally!), what nationality (US), where my parents are from (Wisconsin/Cali!), where we're REALLY from (Fuck you, I'm fucking American - but I'm ethnically Korean/Chinese/Japanese), "Oh really? I thought you were Korean!" ARE YOU SERIOUS? WHY ARE YOU ASKING THEN? Even the other people in the room were like, "Dude, maybe you should put up a sign on the wall so you don't have to go through this with every goddamn idiot."
I've never had to deal with quite so many quick privates. It used to be one in three because people would just get hooked. Now it's 4 out of 5. My percentage in private is 36%. NO. Just no. Fridays are just... the worst.
Bambola
03-13-2015, 09:14 PM
Why the big spenders after spend some money,want give his email or meet me out of webcam!!!!!why????and they know is not allowed and they dont care,why the think i can meet with them? And have sex? They are very fat and ugly why just dnt understand im working and i want his money. :((((
ivyaura
03-13-2015, 09:54 PM
I am so tired of having cycles of "camming is horrible this is not going well at all i need to get a new job" and "this is why i love camming". I'll be on for hours and not get above 20 viewers, and then two weeks later get 60 people fully clothed. I try new things, I wear different clothes, I cam at different angles, I just don't know what I'm doing wrong. I started going on earlier and it worked for about a month and now it's just fucking horrible.
anonymous camgirl
03-14-2015, 07:24 AM
It sucks.. it's so bi-polar.. one minute you are in a good mood the next minute you are not.. It really does fuck with you so hard... it's like really? No stability.. that alone is mentally draining... I try not to worry so much.. I have a proven track record of 12 yrs of making the same amount of money EVERY year no matter.. at least my income is stable but I sure would like to make MORE.. for me its frustrating that I hit the glass ceiling on fucking YEAR 1 and never progressed.. Huge reason I am so fucking cranky all the time.
I am so tired of having cycles of "camming is horrible this is not going well at all i need to get a new job" and "this is why i love camming". I'll be on for hours and not get above 20 viewers, and then two weeks later get 60 people fully clothed. I try new things, I wear different clothes, I cam at different angles, I just don't know what I'm doing wrong. I started going on earlier and it worked for about a month and now it's just fucking horrible.
anonymous camgirl
03-14-2015, 07:28 AM
Because on cam, that's how they court you!.. Men think they can have you if they wine and dine you long enough and spoil you. they don't even bother to ask YOU what you want... they are kinda stupid in this way...LOL
Why the big spenders after spend some money,want give his email or meet me out of webcam!!!!!why????and they know is not allowed and they dont care,why the think i can meet with them? And have sex? They are very fat and ugly why just dnt understand im working and i want his money. :((((
Bambola
03-14-2015, 07:44 AM
Because on cam, that's how they court you!.. Men think they can have you if they wine and dine you long enough and spoil you. they don't even bother to ask YOU what you want... they are kinda stupid in this way...LOL
The one im talking about spend only one block exclusive, and block private i earn in total 400 usd with him but yesterday give me his email and skype and told me he wait we keep in touch be there because he want know me better and dont want i be his friend because he is paying me ! That's mean he dont come back to exclusive or private ...also he know is not allowed,i really want he continue spending money.. Grrrr
Bambola
03-16-2015, 11:14 AM
Camming sucks today for me, two gold shows i canceled and 30 golds one hour :( also the obsesive costumer talking with me in free chat all the time, so stressed!
IvyRose
03-16-2015, 12:24 PM
Dont give him what he wants Bambola, just stop talking and responding to him. there are two options left- oh well three.. one he can stay and keep typing while you are not rsponding anymore .. or he can go pvt and excl so you respond to him again. Or he can leave.
Your giving him what he wants right now, for free- your attention. Take it away and see what he does next. If he keeps camping in yur free chat you can always kick him out as an warning and as last resort you can always block him
pippapippa
03-16-2015, 12:34 PM
OMG, it's so fucking slow today. Trying my best to be in a good mood, but fuck.
cherryblossomsinspring
03-16-2015, 01:31 PM
Why the big spenders after spend some money,want give his email or meet me out of webcam!!!!!why????and they know is not allowed and they dont care,why the think i can meet with them? And have sex? They are very fat and ugly why just dnt understand im working and i want his money. :((((
This is exactly why I keep showing up in this thread. I'll have a whale or two one night seems great and here comes the "fuck me in person proposal shit". Once they realize "ooh don't want to fuck me for real?" The guys goes off and tries with another model. Rinse and repeat over and over again. I even have guys sitting in my room with a name like "Paysforsex". It's like wtf are they even doing on a camsite for if camming is such a problem. Or I get the guy that bullshits with "ooh I'm catching feels which is why I can't cam with you anymore" "I'm a nice guy" Gag the things that some of these men say make me feel sick. One guy even goes on about how he gets a model used to his cash and pulls the plug and sits back laughs while she panics. Another tells me ooh I always book a 10 min show but she gives me 45 mins in reality ( he books a 10 min show and will not shut the fuck up and since the model feels like wow someone spent on me he pushes with " other models spend alot of extra time with me because they like me) Gag.
cherryblossomsinspring
03-16-2015, 01:33 PM
Because on cam, that's how they court you!.. Men think they can have you if they wine and dine you long enough and spoil you. they don't even bother to ask YOU what you want... they are kinda stupid in this way...LOL
So true!!
cherryblossomsinspring
03-16-2015, 01:34 PM
I am so tired of having cycles of "camming is horrible this is not going well at all i need to get a new job" and "this is why i love camming". I'll be on for hours and not get above 20 viewers, and then two weeks later get 60 people fully clothed. I try new things, I wear different clothes, I cam at different angles, I just don't know what I'm doing wrong. I started going on earlier and it worked for about a month and now it's just fucking horrible.
I did the same, I keep changing things and then it still comes back to the eventual Dead as hell room shit or the guys that show up trying find someone to hook up in person.
CurvyCarysa
03-17-2015, 05:47 AM
grrrrrrrrrrr. bad days bad days...when I need money the most.
Was on CB ---> got like 10 ppl in my room :D it is going on like this since a last week. Also I play app roll the dice and if i write pussy flash,they think pussy flash is not flash but should be about one hour....
Was on cams --> my bf had some few bucks on his account so he gave me a tip...just like fun.. they did chargeback on it LOL so when I wrote them they said cuz of stealed credit card etc. and when i told them it was my bf they log off from online support.cunts.Now they sent me violation as ussual ..for nudity in free chat...what i really dont do. I was there today 20minutes online just to change some settings blabla...hmmm?so i dont understand what violation they talk about.
today on SM i got tag "expensive rates" (3.69 !!???) grrrrrr, also same complain on CB for it..(30tok per min.) I feel strange and angry all the time lol ...on cb i feel i am not worth their money till i dont bang my ass with huge dildo (not gonna happen) i wish some nice custie improve my mood today...:(
SarahTime
03-17-2015, 02:43 PM
I am going to fucking lose my mind. Seriously, like just lose it. Completely.
I can only sit here for so long with people coming in and out not saying a word to me.... sitting in my room for long periods of time without saying anything or responding to anything I say....... going in private and not saying anything......
I'm not even kidding. I'm losing my mind sitting here hours on end talking to myself.
LittleSexBunny
03-17-2015, 02:51 PM
i logged off....i felt like i was going to cry.... I'm telling myself its because of the holiday.
This way i don't feel so bad.....
I hit a record today!!! The lowest money ive ever made hourly. It's sickening..... don't feel bad.. it's not you.
I wish i had heard that earlier....i have self esteem issues.... i'll start thinking to myself, "i'm fat...I'm ugly...." ect. ect. I have had two kids....i am getting older...
I had to log off... Just had to realize that today sucks and tomorrow will be better. (i hope...)
SarahTime
03-17-2015, 02:52 PM
Its been bad for me the last two weeks no matter what time of day I try I'm making 1/3 of what I used to....
I can't help but be like okay, it must be me. What is wrong with me all of a sudden? Is it my new cam set up? Is it like... I'm fat from the baby weight I have yet to lose.... .WTF IS WRONG WITH ME????
LittleSexBunny
03-17-2015, 02:55 PM
i thought the sameeeeee thing!! I started avoiding work.... Which is the opposite of what i needed to do. I rearranged my room, set up lights...my old pole...ect. It hasn't helped. I even went back to offering mirror shows on the floor. (which i fucking hate because they tear my knees up and hurt really bad)
I KNOWWWW people like me....because if im running a gold show for 0 dollars....I'll have over a hundred dudes swarm in and stay the ENTIRE time. The show is great...
I feel like people just want free stuff....FREE FREE FREE.....FUCK FREE BITHES I HAVE RENT TO PAY!
Its been bad for me the last two weeks no matter what time of day I try I'm making 1/3 of what I used to....
I can't help but be like okay, it must be me. What is wrong with me all of a sudden? Is it my new cam set up? Is it like... I'm fat from the baby weight I have yet to lose.... .WTF IS WRONG WITH ME????
I don't "beg" for money well.... I feel like everyone goes to chaturbate and mfc now....that these sites are coming out on top.
I'm over here like .... FUCK....my hustle doesn't work with these sites....I'm screwed now.
Bambola
03-17-2015, 03:04 PM
For me today suck too!! I dont know if is worth it wake up tomorrow at. 06.00 am for catch US costumers...
anonymous camgirl
03-17-2015, 06:49 PM
I honestly think that sometimes all of your regular's go disappear to other girls sometimes and just leave you with NOTHING.. not even a trickle.. and then they come back later.. I think that happens.. I mean? how else to explain it?
Its been bad for me the last two weeks no matter what time of day I try I'm making 1/3 of what I used to....
I can't help but be like okay, it must be me. What is wrong with me all of a sudden? Is it my new cam set up? Is it like... I'm fat from the baby weight I have yet to lose.... .WTF IS WRONG WITH ME????
audritwo
03-17-2015, 07:45 PM
Its been bad for me the last two weeks no matter what time of day I try I'm making 1/3 of what I used to....
I can't help but be like okay, it must be me. What is wrong with me all of a sudden? Is it my new cam set up? Is it like... I'm fat from the baby weight I have yet to lose.... .WTF IS WRONG WITH ME????
Last week was really bad for me too. My husband had to talk me down from a severe panic attack I was having. I was convinced I was doing poorly because I impulsively shaved my head. I know that has nothing to do with it. All my regs love it and overall majority of people who visit me on cam compliment it. Only had like 3 people act like a jackass about it.
In the end it isn't us. It's stupid traffic. Keep them heads up- we are all beautiful ladies with magical genitalia! <3
IvyRose
03-17-2015, 10:56 PM
Yep to all of the above - thought it had to do with me being a grumphy bitch the last couple of days allthought I try to act my way out of it..
Have to say I didnt tried really hard since therapy allready knocked me down emotionally and not having my regs around or money adding up fast when being online is something I coudnt handle that well right now.
If its all hitting us, it must be the site.
PS Audritwo your hair ROCKS so hard. Suits your face so well, and the colour is amazing too. Frigging sexy.
bigbootyjudy1
03-17-2015, 11:28 PM
I thought last week was bad but this week is worse :( Ladies theres nothing wrong with us.I think its just slow .I went blonde so i thought my custies probably didnt like the new look.I also can say that ive been experiencing so much glitches (on SM).wchich is cutting into my money since clients cant stay connected.To make it worse im so tired all the timeeeeeee i dont know whats wrong with me.I used to pull in 6 hours straight with no problem i'll be lucky if i can stay online for 2 hours at a time.ive been doing everything ,caffeine , 10 minute work outs, stretching before work,5 hour energy drinks ,Emergen C packets ,green tea ,black tea.You name it ive tried it.I dont know. :(For me camming sucks because my energy level is all messed up and i cant pull long hour shifts like i want to :( God help me!!!
TheBrownFox
03-18-2015, 05:51 AM
Feeling like you just don't matter to people, and aren't appreciated by people. It's a shitty feeling.
Marina Starr
03-18-2015, 06:01 AM
Oh no girl, YOU matter and don't let anyone make you feel like you don't. I've learned that you only matter to the people that matter to you.
Feeling like you just don't matter to people, and aren't appreciated by people. It's a shitty feeling.
anonymous camgirl
03-18-2015, 06:05 AM
Yea last week was BAD for me to.. but not REALLY bad...
anonymous camgirl
03-18-2015, 06:32 AM
I feel the same way ALOT!... I am kinda proper IRL...LOL.. I believe if someone gets a new place bring them a gift, if someone invites you to dinner you bring them a gift or a bottle of wine.. if someone needs to be cheered up you deliver candy or flowers.. basically I bring a gift everywhere..lol... Like last week I picked up my friend and I had a cold bottle of Fiji water ready for her..LOL.. that's just who I am.. and unfortunately no one seems to do the same for me.. I am guessing they are the WRONG kind of people then and not to expect it.. a lot are family and cannot be replaced.. haha
Feeling like you just don't matter to people, and aren't appreciated by people. It's a shitty feeling.
IvyRose
03-18-2015, 07:41 AM
Let me throw it out in here since it really pisses me off when I think about it
... The word "interracial", it really bothers me a lot since I ever heard it - first time I saw someone using the word was on a camsite used by an member- in my country the word itself doesnt excist... And for a reason. In my eyes the word itself alone is racist
xxJolene
03-18-2015, 08:30 AM
Camming sucks because Ive made only $40 in the past two weeks...all my fault because I wasnt on enough but Im having a hard time balancing school and camming because of the workload I have for school. Im having a hard time finding the will to try, and just recently I let myself be effected by a fucking guy in my life, who went from being down for me to going back to his ex-fiance...its a big deal because he tattoos me....and its effecting my mood and Im so mad at myself for caring and having feeling for someone I shouldnt have...and yea camming sucks right now because I cant get my head in the game.
Marina Starr
03-18-2015, 10:01 AM
I think you could be burned out or depression. They're very real. I hope you're feeling better.
I thought last week was bad but this week is worse :( Ladies theres nothing wrong with us.I think its just slow .I went blonde so i thought my custies probably didnt like the new look.I also can say that ive been experiencing so much glitches (on SM).wchich is cutting into my money since clients cant stay connected.To make it worse im so tired all the timeeeeeee i dont know whats wrong with me.I used to pull in 6 hours straight with no problem i'll be lucky if i can stay online for 2 hours at a time.ive been doing everything ,caffeine , 10 minute work outs, stretching before work,5 hour energy drinks ,Emergen C packets ,green tea ,black tea.You name it ive tried it.I dont know. :(For me camming sucks because my energy level is all messed up and i cant pull long hour shifts like i want to :( God help me!!!
anonymous camgirl
03-18-2015, 10:15 AM
I wonder what would happen if I wore the SAME tank top everyday! for days!.. I wanna try it out.. I did that one time with a bra that was very popular with the guys..lol.. I honestly think it wouldn't even matter to them!
anonymous camgirl
03-18-2015, 10:37 AM
Well?? I don't really think so because everyone is a different race, so you are just comingling.. like adding blue to green ..lol.. I don't know why you are offended? I understand you are thinking in terms of I don't see color. And I do know where you are coming from!.. My sister's friend I have known for 26 yrs and I hardly remember that she is MEXICAN!..lol... She's been around so long I am invisible to the difference in race ya know? One time she made reference to a customer who saw her in person and said WHAT? you are Mexican? because her English and voice sounds like a White woman.. and then I thought in my mind? you are Mexican? oh yea!.. I completely forgot she is a Mexican .. I always saw her as a GOOD friend of the family!
Let me throw it out in here since it really pisses me off when I think about it
... The word "interracial", it really bothers me a lot since I ever heard it - first time I saw someone using the word was on a camsite used by an member- in my country the word itself doesnt excist... And for a reason. In my eyes the word itself alone is racist
LaylaLovely
03-18-2015, 11:06 AM
I wear the same bras over n over...lol...I wear comfy ugly bras for my big boobs lol... The pretty ones are uncomfortable and I only have 2 I alternate for camming.. No ones ever said anything! Lol
MissJStreamMate
03-18-2015, 03:10 PM
I just had a show that has completely bumed me out. It ended up being a girl friend experience show, but the way he kept going on and on it seemed less fantasy, and a little too real for him. It started with me buying my own Amazon card to pay for the show. He has a disability (cerebral palsy) so he had to give me his account info and credit card number. He said he had been with camgirls before, but he just kept going on and on about us meeting up and me taking care of him. He kept saying how much he wanted me to come and "help him with sex" because I like him and not because of what he can do for me. He also kept trying to push it over the time limit, asking to have video chat to just "get to know each other" and asking for my phone number. It was just incredibly draining. I kept feeling like he was ignoring my boundaries and I did not feel respected at all.
I sent him this message after.
Hi Charley,
I just wanted to clarify something before we have another show together. When we discuss out fantasies about spending time together in real life, they are just that, fantasies. Am I correct? I love providing a "girl friend experience", but I don't want to give you the impression of anything else. While I do enjoy spending time with you, I want to be sure that our professional relationship comes before our friendship. I enjoy getting messages from you, but I am unable to do any kind of video chat outside of paid camshows or meetings in person. I hope you understand, I do enjoy spending time with you :) If you have any questions, please feel free to ask.
Miss J
I don't like assuming someone is being an asshole, maybe he was just really into the GFE, but I definitely need some clarification before I do another show with him. I always love an extra $60, but holy crap, it's not worth it if it ruins my day like this.
torikuntz
03-18-2015, 08:02 PM
I don't know if camming sucks or I do. This is only my 3rd day back but my camscore (I'm only on mfc so far) is already tanking so bad because I'm staying on for 4 hour stretches barely making a thing. I still need so much more before I can even make rent by the end of the month, don't know what I'm gonna do - hoping it's just the weekdays and that things will pick up by the weekend.
MissAdriana
03-19-2015, 08:54 AM
1 hr $0 after trying 2 sites. I sat on SM for 20 minutes without anyone even popping in and out!! I'm pissed because I got a new camcorder and didn't realize I need a microSD card not a regular SD card so I can't even make videos BLAH this is a just stay the fuck on kinda day
anonymous camgirl
03-19-2015, 11:56 AM
41057
Well this day is turning out to suck on SM
xxJolene
03-19-2015, 12:24 PM
What the fuck is going on?? I feel like Im going to break down. Im considering just changing m name for that new girl income holy fucking balls, I feel like Im wasting my time while I couldve been doing my homework and studying for finals. Im sorry this is happening to you girls too :(
SamanthaSugar
03-19-2015, 06:47 PM
Fuckity Fuck Fuck it's slow!!
Where are my 20,822 Favorites?? I hope y'all are having a better day than me. The last two months has drastically changed for the worst. I have a feeling the time to hang up my quiver of dildos and vibrators is coming sooner than later. So sad :(
anonymous camgirl
03-19-2015, 07:02 PM
we all think that and then the big come back comes along. it's sadistic!.. just hang in there your day will come again.. ( if you want to that is)
Fuckity Fuck Fuck it's slow!!
Where are my 20,822 Favorites?? I hope y'all are having a better day than me. The last two months has drastically changed for the worst. I have a feeling the time to hang up my quiver of dildos and vibrators is coming sooner than later. So sad :(
SamanthaSugar
03-19-2015, 07:07 PM
Thanks ACG! It's just so weird having only 1-2 guys in my room. That used to be unheard of and now it's becoming the norm. Thank God for FWC and their hourly!
torikuntz
03-19-2015, 07:52 PM
Shit, seems like I came back to camming at the worst time, huh? Not even new model status is immune to this lull, I've had at most 12 people in my room since I started with mfc three days ago.. and that was a rare double digit high. Gonna log on and see how things are tonight, kind of dreading it. I normally never wear makeup but I've got some rocker garbage packed on my face so we'll see what happens.
bigbootyjudy1
03-19-2015, 09:23 PM
I think you could be burned out or depression. They're very real. I hope you're feeling better.
i think your right.i might be burned out.ive been cutting down my hours.feelin a lil better.cant wait till i take my 2 week vacation in may.
ivyaura
03-19-2015, 09:29 PM
i just had a guy ask me what college i went to and instead of bitching him out for asking a personal question that would give him my location i said, "the college of camgirls" and he went on to rant about how i was a rude stupid bitch that peaked in high school.
yeah, i think taking three nights off wasn't enough. i've been on for an hour and that was the third message i got the entire time. nobody else would talk to me.
Glamourmilf
03-20-2015, 12:23 AM
^^Yeah, it was an 'off' night for me too, regarding those strange questions and comments.. Even really good repeats were asking stupid shit like "Do You Pee?" Or "How big is Your ass?" WTF? I don't get it... I just had long privates with those 2 guys, just a few days ago. Do they get around that much that they don't recall that short a time ago?
All the other new people in my chat were just as ridiculous, and I just ignored, otherwise I was gonna use up all my energy.
anonymous camgirl
03-20-2015, 05:57 AM
Streamate sucks big donkey dicks in hell these days!.. WTF! .. Gonna have to find another cam site to make up for it..
ivybunny
03-20-2015, 10:09 AM
I just say I go to an Ivy League school. This happened to me today and it sparked this big discussion about which one they thought I was at. All the "lesser" Ivies apparently. Little do they know... muahahahaha