View Full Version : The General Purpose "Camming Sucks Right Now" Thread
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
04-04-2015, 01:17 PM
Haha She started out so proper and sweet and then "PUSSY" jumps out her mouth. I love it.
Serena-Shields
04-04-2015, 01:41 PM
Haha Oh my God, that is amazing! So glad I watched it.
Fucking douche bags on Skyprivate today. Don't FUCKING send me a friend request before you read my profile. Because bitch I'm not telling you I have a dick-you're gonna have to find out five dollars in! That's your fault!
Marina Starr
04-04-2015, 01:46 PM
So all you were to him was some ass? Tell him to bring you cash.
But seriously, a man who is worth your while won't make you question where you stand.
It's definitely not your weight, skin color or anything of that superficial. Any man that would only treat you good because you look good is not a good man. Definitely not a man that gives a fuck about who you are as a person.
I'm glad you told him what time it is. Know your worth and don't accept less than what you think you deserve.
I've been out of my relationship for over a year and a half and I've been hooking up with this guy who was giving me mixed signals. I basically was told that he liked me, but he freaked out on me when I tried to make a move and he made it clear that I was just a booty call.
So earlier I was browsing the dating site we met on and noticed he put an ad up seeking "love", etc blah blah and yet texted me earlier to come over and "hang out". He's one of those "I'm bored, let's fuck" type of booty calls because neither of us text anymore unless we want to fuq. I stopped pressing him ages ago and moved on but the guy I really like lives overseas and I have a short attention span.
I basically explained that I would no longer be his placeholder. That I was sick and tired of being someone's random hookup while they wait for Ms. Right to show up. Fuck that shit. My pussy ain't a Bed and Breakfast, Motherfucker! I got a little over dramatic but I wanted him to really understand where I was coming from. I mentioned that maybe it was my hair, or weight, or skin color but that I'm now eating healthier and working out and pretty soon in a year's time I'm going to be out of his league anyway, and to lose my number.
#ladiesknowyourworth #forasecondialmostlostmyself
Luna66
04-04-2015, 02:13 PM
Thank you Kortney, I fucking needed to see that today! This guy is more than happy to hit me up whenever he needs pussy then he doesn't contact me for three weeks, then last night I see him on a night out with mutual friends (and i'm looking fire if I may say so myself), I get home and he's blowing up my phone. Ugh no, you don't add any value to my life, not even sexual because you just have no idea how to eat pussy. Fuck this shit. Blocked!
kortneykay
04-04-2015, 03:47 PM
BBS, this shit just went left field. So this same guy (the one I'm talking about previously) just confessed that he's been in love with me this whole time. He said that he was afraid of stating his true feelings because I bootycallzoned his ass. He kept apologizing profusely and that he was rude and being disrespectful, blah, blah, blah. He said he had an epiphany and said he wants to date exclusively, and that he loves me. That he's ready for a commitment not measurable by words and that he realized how close he came to losing me. BWHAHHAHHAHA! Sorry but I gave him the side eye. I personally don't trust him as far as I can throw him right about now. However, he did seem genuine and he COULD be telling the truth.
http://i.imgur.com/cn4bCjv.gif
I want to test him though because I think I can play the game and get what I want out of him. (Marina, you said it, MONAYYY). He is a Chemical Engineer after all and has the potential to be a nice little splenda daddy so I'm going to make him #weerrkkkkk. He literally said that he would pay me. WHA? I told him we can be friends and see what happens. AKA, let's see how wide I can open your wallet, let's see how good your head game really is, and let's see if I can trust you again. I just have this fucked up feeling to want to break his heart. I did the same thing to my ex...and I enjoyed it.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
04-04-2015, 03:54 PM
Here's one that gets me, men who say things like "Oh you can get it". Now I'm in a relationship, but I get this on cam and practically everywhere now. It's a new thing I guess? Instead of just saying hello they start out with "Damn u can get it." Who started that? It's annoying. As if there's some question as to whether or not he'd say yes. Or that it's even up to them. Of course "I can get it" The question is do I want it? EW fellas please stop saying this. You're just asking for a girl to wreck you.
Marina Starr
04-04-2015, 04:06 PM
Watch this then send it to him! You MUST!
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=mltFiCRJP10
BBS, this shit just went left field. So this same guy (the one I'm talking about previously) just confessed that he's been in love with me this whole time. He said that he was afraid of stating his true feelings because I bootycallzoned his ass. He kept apologizing profusely and that he was rude and being disrespectful, blah, blah, blah. He said he had an epiphany and said he wants to date exclusively, and that he loves me. That he's ready for a commitment not measurable by words and that he realized how close he came to losing me. BWHAHHAHHAHA! Sorry but I gave him the side eye. I personally don't trust him as far as I can throw him right about now. However, he did seem genuine and he COULD be telling the truth.
http://i.imgur.com/cn4bCjv.gif
I want to test him though because I think I can play the game and get what I want out of him. (Marina, you said it, MONAYYY). He is a Chemical Engineer after all and has the potential to be a nice little splenda daddy so I'm going to make him #weerrkkkkk. He literally said that he would pay me. WHA? I told him we can be friends and see what happens. AKA, let's see how wide I can open your wallet, let's see how good your head game really is, and let's see if I can trust you again. I just have this fucked up feeling to want to break his heart. I did the same thing to my ex...and I enjoyed it.
Serena-Shields
04-04-2015, 08:24 PM
When a stupid old hookup finds your profile and asks for a free show. BITCH NO.
Missbeth
04-04-2015, 10:45 PM
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pinkpink
04-05-2015, 02:05 PM
Why do guys always want to know what my "real" job is?? They ask over and over and I tell them this is my job. I almost feel insulted, like, I'm doing so poorly, how in the world could this be my job. I should just go back to saying what I did before....I feel like guys like to hear that you have a "day job" and this is all just for ~fun.
I am also annoyed that a regular that bought into my cleaning voyeur show and demanded I get naked and dance for him and cum for him and blah blah blah. I'm not happy with how I let him boss me around just now....so I'm just venting that I feel like I let myself get taken advantage of.
It's so dead too. I have been doing horribly & it's killing my confidence & it's affecting my performance. grrrrrrrr
Serena-Shields
04-05-2015, 02:43 PM
Why do guys always want to know what my "real" job is?? They ask over and over and I tell them this is my job. I almost feel insulted, like, I'm doing so poorly, how in the world could this be my job. I should just go back to saying what I did before....I feel like guys like to hear that you have a "day job" and this is all just for ~fun.
This shit is one of the reasons I'm so talented at eliminating people from my life. I had my best friend get into an argument with me about it when I'd just started. Apparently stripping is not a ''real job'' and ''Just because it gives you an income doesn't mean it's a real job''. I told him to shut up. I pay taxes. I work for my money. FUCK OFF.
It gets to the point where you're just like ''Whatever, dude. I make more than you do.''
Marina Starr
04-05-2015, 08:13 PM
I ate too much now I'm feeling heavy like a first day period.
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ENoire
04-05-2015, 08:55 PM
I'm getting the worst people coming into my room! I made the mistake of keeping people without funds muted (all because once someone actually did load funds to take me pvt) and had to check that option again because of the abuse. + Someone took me to pvt and told me what he wanted while leaving out that he wanted rape play. I feel sick tonight.
I get twats like that. Only ever on SM for some reason though. There's this one guy I've had twice who tells me he wants a sloppy bj show. What he leaves out is that he actually wants a puke show. He seems to know how to make someone puke without them expecting it. He'd give me all of these directions to make gagging noises and I end up puking when I least expect it. No preperation, no anything. Made a mess, made me feel gross and pissed me off. I got tricked into it the second time because it had been so long since the first. Different username. Grrrrrr.
AliceFun
04-06-2015, 05:06 AM
^^^ That gif is disturbingly violent & inappropriate Marina...
Marina Starr
04-06-2015, 05:45 AM
Not if you're Asian. My mother used to slap us all the time. Violence is everywhere. It's all in the context! It's not that serious!
^^^ That gif is disturbingly violent & inappropriate Marina...
anonymous camgirl
04-06-2015, 09:31 AM
I dunno how anyone else is doing but I have made $0 on all cam sites for the last 2 1/2 hours.. I only made money on NF...lol
gypsy1
04-06-2015, 10:51 AM
sooooo slow and boring. logging off.
Marina Starr
04-06-2015, 11:39 AM
You know what I notice? When people are being discriminatory toward me because I'm a Transsexual, I just pull the race card, "Do you have a problem with Asian people?" works wonder. It gets them to back the fuck off every single time. Fucks with me and I'll fuck right back!
This is 2015 yet people still will treat you terribly because of your gender but they'll think twice when it comes to race.
I wish I was black so I can ask 'Do you have a problem with black people?' I guess I still can because I look biracial. Black+Transsexual= #realstruggle
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cherryblossomsinspring
04-06-2015, 03:10 PM
One guy is getting a bit annoying he wants to spend all day with me and hang out like I have time. He tries to play that I don't have more money but it's obviously a lie. He tried the" you just want my money shit" the other day. I almost flipped my fucking lid. I was so irritated. He's gone over a few times and then plays dumb. I lowered my rates on skype shows to bring in new business but now I have this guy trying to turn my hour rate into $1 a fucking minute! Get out with that shit!
I'm making damn sure to put a timer on all my shows going forward
Sick of this shit. If you want all day attention then take your ass to free chat sites and pay $8.00 a minute for privates.
DancesWithSloths
04-06-2015, 03:32 PM
This long weekend has been absolutely brutal. I don't normally work Tuesdays and Wednesdays, but I'll have no choice after this abomination of a weekend.
TJ__Merlot
04-06-2015, 05:08 PM
I'm confused. I normally cam Mon-Fri 10-4 (mountain time) and have not had any trouble reaching my goal. Randomly I got online on Sat 10pm-2am and then again Sunday morning and made pennies. I thought weekends would be awesome! Today is Monday and I hit my goal again, no problem. I'm not complaining... Working weekday days is awesome... I'm just surprised that the one weekend I tried to can was utter shit.
gypsy1
04-07-2015, 11:39 AM
I'm so sick of my life completely revolving around money. It's a piece of fucking paper. I made a super cute collage with all of the things I want. But you know what? Fuck material things. Fuck them. I have enough bills as is. I need to focus on making good money and spending it on traveling. Not stupid fucking material wealth.
anonymous camgirl
04-07-2015, 12:39 PM
4 hours on SM and NOT one private.. I write to you because I usually get privates after I post here..LOL
BadBitch
04-07-2015, 12:56 PM
We just have to accept as can models that we are going to have good days and bad. Sure, we feel like shit on those bad days. I feel like all of the men hate me. Haha!
DancesWithSloths
04-07-2015, 01:36 PM
4 hours on SM and NOT one private.. I write to you because I usually get privates after I post here..LOL
Hope this magic works for you, anon.
gypsy1
04-07-2015, 05:44 PM
I got to get on for about 30 minutes earlier. I made a whole 2 dollars!!! Yay me!
I want to try another site, but I'll just make that a goal for next month. I hope I make good money when I get on tonight.
TheBrownFox
04-08-2015, 07:13 AM
No running water since last night. SHOOT ME NOW, PLEASE. I've been walking over to the nearby grocery store to pee, cuz it grosses me out too much to pee in that toilet that has all of my son's built-up poop and toilet paper in it. Ewww! So fucking gross. Need a maintenance guy here ASAP. Need to be able to bathe and be able to wash our fucking hands, dammit.....
anonymous camgirl
04-08-2015, 07:22 AM
true.. why don't you focus on building security and traveling and fuck material things!.. May I recommend to you an SEP IRA.. retirement for the self employed.
I'm so sick of my life completely revolving around money. It's a piece of fucking paper. I made a super cute collage with all of the things I want. But you know what? Fuck material things. Fuck them. I have enough bills as is. I need to focus on making good money and spending it on traveling. Not stupid fucking material wealth.
TheBrownFox
04-08-2015, 10:19 AM
No running water since last night. SHOOT ME NOW, PLEASE. I've been walking over to the nearby grocery store to pee, cuz it grosses me out too much to pee in that toilet that has all of my son's built-up poop and toilet paper in it. Ewww! So fucking gross. Need a maintenance guy here ASAP. Need to be able to bathe and be able to wash our fucking hands, dammit.....
Water is back on. HALLELUJAH!
Smurfette
04-08-2015, 01:49 PM
Wow. Today is... not good. Not only is it dead, but the little traffic I have is rude and demanding. I also tried to block a guy but nothing happened!
SoloDesire
04-08-2015, 02:00 PM
It's crazy how I feel like I've been on cam ALL day when in reality it's only been a little over 4 hours. How does that happen?! Why does it drain the life out of me so quickly?!! If only I could pull off 8 hour days...then I'd be making lots of money at the price of my sanity.
RaeRae
04-08-2015, 02:09 PM
Wednesdays are not my days. I mean seriously. Between not being able to get guys to even acknowledge me on CB and my regs on SM not being able to take me private, it's been horrific.
gypsy1
04-08-2015, 03:05 PM
true.. why don't you focus on building security and traveling and fuck material things!.. May I recommend to you an SEP IRA.. retirement for the self employed.
I was trying to use material things as motivation but it's definitely not working. The only thing I've ever wanted in life was to travel (& write). I think I'm going to redo my collage and add my dream destinations to it instead. Unfortunately my self worth is tied into how much money I have in my bank account and the things I have (very common where I'm from). I'm working on it though.
Yeah I definitely need to look into things like retirement accounts. Been self employed pretty much all of my working life and I don't see it changing any time soon
SweetieBitch
04-08-2015, 09:22 PM
Logged on for 40 minutes, made one tip from a tit flash, no privates, not even any cheap guys asking for gold shows. And my tag troll is back... I had several days of no bad tags so I thought they were done with their bullshit. But nope, that ninja fucker had to have been in my free chat at some point, I have no idea who it is but they left three more stupid discouraging tags. >_< Taking a break, making a drink, then getting back on... wanted to pull 275 tonight and that is sounding fairly impossible. Grr.
bbwbrianna
04-08-2015, 09:24 PM
Wednesdays are not my days. I mean seriously. Between not being able to get guys to even acknowledge me on CB and my regs on SM not being able to take me private, it's been horrific.
You're not alone in this. Wednesdays are a struggle for me. Too many beggars and only made ten dollars in four hours.
Coffee
04-09-2015, 07:45 AM
I had a crazy customer. Who keep asking me on if ever i pee on a soil or and accidentally pee on a ant.
Then ask me about crushing. I was like "have you ever hurt animals??" I was ready to insult him if he says yes but he said no and that he only crushed insects (i hope he don't torture animals) he said he tried crushing insects in different ways mostly by his pee and "po*o.
So disgusting even though he was in private i kicked him out.
anonymous camgirl
04-09-2015, 09:55 AM
I'm right there with you!.. It's my self worth to .. haha.. I actually feel very much like a man.. My whole identity is all about providing for my kids and everyone else and how much money I make.
I was trying to use material things as motivation but it's definitely not working. The only thing I've ever wanted in life was to travel (& write). I think I'm going to redo my collage and add my dream destinations to it instead. Unfortunately my self worth is tied into how much money I have in my bank account and the things I have (very common where I'm from). I'm working on it though.
Yeah I definitely need to look into things like retirement accounts. Been self employed pretty much all of my working life and I don't see it changing any time soon
Marina Starr
04-09-2015, 10:12 AM
There are good looking men out there but what makes them truly ugly is their lack of compassion and kindness. Not just men, that would make anyone ugly.
ExoticBeauty4U
04-10-2015, 10:31 AM
Ughhh my week started out with a bang easy money days, so i htought that would be an indication of the rest of the week. Boy was I wrong, shit turned sour since Weds and im so close to my goal which is why im reallly pissed :( Today just dumb ass assholes. Im so irritated and yet Im gonna sit here until this evening in hopes that some magical power will assist me and make day better:( Its like you can never get too happy with camming that joy is killed real quick lol.
anonymous camgirl
04-10-2015, 01:38 PM
I have been losing about $10 an hour since SM's problems.. uggh.. anyone else? I keep adding new eggs to my basket ..
LaLaLaLazer
04-11-2015, 08:23 AM
I have been losing about $10 an hour since SM's problems.. uggh.. anyone else? I keep adding new eggs to my basket ..
I was in exclusive for a little while the other night, I thought the guy had bailed just as things were getting heated. He logged in the next time I was on and said that he got disconnected and couldn't get back on.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
04-11-2015, 08:35 AM
Yup in and out on SM. Not gonna even bother. It just sucks up toomuch of my energy. Middle of the first page too. And still can't get any action. That site is just.....HaHA I wont got there for now. Gonna get back out there and make my money elsewhere.
LaLaLaLazer
04-11-2015, 10:01 AM
Last night was a bust for me, and it is mainly my fault for taking so long to decide if I was even going on. I updated my MFC profile (I am so envious of the nicer looking ones that I had to at least clean my up a little bit) and watched some cams to see what is working for some other ladies, and decided to just suck it up and work.
Wish I would have done that two hours earlier, but oh well.
Started on MFC and had premiums in there that just parked it, and were not even chatting. I was super low energy, but made sure to smile and acknowledge anyone who came in my room. Got a couple in-and-out dudes (I call them turtles) that would pop in with the usual "show tits/ass bb" but no one was there for conversation. Got super annoyed at the silent premos hanging for an eternity, gave them a warning, a couple left. Two remained, still silent as whatever, I felt like a zoo animal. So left MFC.
Tech issues aside, I can usually make some cash on SM. Well, before I got gold show status. I am still pretty new, but I have a few regulars, and get new ones each time I sign on there. I had regulars on MFC but I kind of got too sporadic there to keep them, and I wasn't doing any privates there, and blah blah blah. ANYWAY.
SM was a bust as well, though I *think* I trained a couple dudes. I did not have the energy to do my regular SM hustle: lounge with all my curves showing, or putting my ass right up on the cam, then have a topic enticing curtsies to take me private for a striptease. I can usually get a few privates/exclusives in succession, but it is exhausting to shake it, strip, maybe do some play, and then have the show end and do it all over again. LOL. So yeah, I didn't have my usual mojo for it, and decided to give gold shows a whirl, again. I kind of hate them in practice so far, but maybe in theory they can work out.
I put up the gold show request, and there were a couple guys who would consistently throw down for them, and usually double the minimum buy in. Then I would get nothing till the end, when a handful of guys would throw down in a flurry, but never enough. It seems like some of them were just pledging knowing that I wasn't going to make the goal in time. *shrug* I put up the request two more times, and by that last time, I had a good stack of guys that were genuinely trying to make it happen, and a few lurkers. I had already told them that I wasn't trying to be on all night last night, and I was not going to keep offering the gold shows, but that I would stay around in case anyone wanted to get a block of time to go to private. After having issues with someone bailing/disconnected previously, I just didn't want to get going and then stop.
No one bit.
Time wasted, mostly. I did a sweet scolding though, and got more admirers/ratings. I told them they had better be ready next time because I was not going to keep offering up gold shows (that they were flooding my room to ask for) if they could not get them up. LOL.
That was long-winded, I know. Just had to vent it somewhere. THANKS.
gypsy1
04-13-2015, 09:46 AM
Logging off to take a break even though I shouldn't. My confidence is taking a hit. It sucks.
Violet_Z
04-13-2015, 02:24 PM
My right arm is killing me. It has been murder all day at my normal job. It's from being on my hands and knees and using one hand for a toy.
I would just not be in that position tonight on cam except one of my regulars that loves it has already checked in wanting a show which means lots of suffering but awesome exclusive money....
Marina Starr
04-13-2015, 02:42 PM
Yesterday was AMAZING... Today is loserville! I've already made 60% of my weekly goal but I'm so pissed off! I feel like taking the rest of the week off!
http://i158.photobucket.com/albums/t94/tsmelania/tumblr_inline_myy30ayFYf1qcq31a_zps12ea960f.gif (http://s158.photobucket.com/user/tsmelania/media/tumblr_inline_myy30ayFYf1qcq31a_zps12ea960f.gif.ht ml)
audritwo
04-13-2015, 03:04 PM
Because I made the decision to give my mother-in-law a key to my house! Oh she came right in, had to cancel my gold show. Thanks MOM!
SweetieBitch
04-13-2015, 03:34 PM
Yesterday was AMAZING... Today is loserville! I've already made 60% of my weekly goal but I'm so pissed off! I feel like taking the rest of the week off!
Ugh me too! Made half my weekly goal on Saturday night, then last night was all tumbleweeds or free chat losers who must've been staring awkwardly at me because they didn't say a word.
I have plans tonight and tomorrow, so maybe the break will be good, but I'm also FOMOing... hope Wednesday through Friday are amazing.
Marina Starr
04-13-2015, 04:49 PM
What exactly is FOMOing? They did the same thing to me today. They just stared or say 'brb'.
Ugh me too! Made half my weekly goal on Saturday night, then last night was all tumbleweeds or free chat losers who must've been staring awkwardly at me because they didn't say a word.
I have plans tonight and tomorrow, so maybe the break will be good, but I'm also FOMOing... hope Wednesday through Friday are amazing.
Tsepmet1
04-13-2015, 05:10 PM
^ fear of missing out- ing