View Full Version : The General Purpose "Camming Sucks Right Now" Thread
ArtsyScarlett
05-07-2015, 06:44 AM
Rated 4 stars by a guy who I was C2C with in premium (not something I usually do) for 32 minutes whilst taking his directions to try and get him off but he obviously had issues and couldn't but I did everything I could. It was a full on exclusive session for half fucking price and he rated me 4 stars. Seriously wtf? Why are some of these guys such arseholes...
On the flip side had a couple of nice exclusives but this is the camming sucks thread so I'll stop there. (I'm not good at being negative! :-D)
Issabelle
05-07-2015, 07:17 AM
So. Many. Twats. Today. I'm running on zero sleep, but even that doesn't explain my irritation with the stupid. One guy said he 'wouldn't waste my time' because he wasn't going to buy a show, so he sat there chatting (another thing he said he WOULDN'T do) for like five minutes with me ignoring him anyway. Immediately after, a dude comes in and says 'you can't handle me' when I ask what kind of show he wants.
*sigh* One of those days, huh?
anonymous camgirl
05-07-2015, 07:21 AM
I think school is out for summer so we are seeing a lot more freeloaders .. bored young lil boys with nothing to do but bother us.... My college son is on his summer break now and my youngest is graduating from High School on the 20th.. so yea it sucks!
anonymous camgirl
05-07-2015, 09:55 AM
boy oh boy I am feeling the Summertime Blues.. uggh.. so much stuff to pay off and pay for and it's fucking slow as all get out!
Tsepmet1
05-07-2015, 11:12 AM
People are on my last goddamn nerve today. I also didn't hear someone leave paid chat and ended up dildo-ing in public chat. Shit.
gypsy1
05-07-2015, 02:42 PM
I want to get excited that I averaged over $30 an hour for 2 hours but I just can't. The money is too inconsistent for me to get excited. I could've made $500 and it wouldn't phase me because I know it's not the norm. Good money one day and then barely anything for the next several.
Pearl_Sugar
05-07-2015, 03:18 PM
I've logged on and failed so many times lately that I don't know what to do anymore. $30 in 2-4 hours, consistently. Sure, it's more than I started with, but it doesn't pay my bills, and I don't have the energy to spend 8-12 hours on cam. ;-;
SarahTime
05-07-2015, 03:29 PM
I hate how up and down it is. I'm getting like one awesome day each week (different days from week to week) and the rest is just like.... kill me. Kill me now.
SamanthaSugar
05-07-2015, 07:12 PM
Only been on 18 min and I'm already irritated! Screw it!! I'm doing laundry!
SoloDesire
05-07-2015, 07:51 PM
It's been the same way for me on SM lately. I have a couple of awesome days and the rest just fucking blow. It's so frustrating and such a waste of time. Then again, it's always been that way...only difference is the good days are much better and the bad days are much worse.
SarahTime
05-07-2015, 08:12 PM
Tonight is definitely a kill me, kill me now night. I can't get anyone at all to respond to anything I say or do. I don't even know why I'm trying at this point.
bigbootyjudy1
05-07-2015, 08:24 PM
Yesterday was one of the worst days ive had in a while.I'm not the one that likes to give up on a bad day .But i was like fuck it.Staying on when its dead drains my energy, by the time i get a private i dont feel like doing shit.Ladies and gentlemen the summer is upon us.
Blovely
05-07-2015, 09:33 PM
Wooh I'm glad its not just me. Its so quiet. Thursday's use to be good for me and Wednesday's use to be horrible. Tell me why these last 2 Wednesday's have been skyrocketing better than Thursday's. I'm logging off soon because I'm hungry and I'd rather be in my bed than sitting here waiting for people to come in room. "Staying the fuck on" isn't happening tonight. I will just have to wake up early tomorrow because I'm not doing this mess tonight. At least I made something.
sweetgapeach
05-07-2015, 10:57 PM
Traffic is slow for me on SM, but I am going to stay on until i pass the initial five hour mark.
Have not been working in a while.
If any experienced models are on that wants to give advice on how to fix my color, I am Rebecca_Jo on SM. I would appreciate it. I am TOO blue.
Blovely
05-07-2015, 11:49 PM
^^^Your color looks fine imo. If it looks too blue to you it might be the white balance. You can go into the logitech controller(assuming you're using logitech) and tinker with the white balance.
sweetgapeach
05-08-2015, 12:09 AM
Thanks u! I might just leave it the same then. I appreciate it.
pippapippa
05-08-2015, 12:57 AM
Tonight:
41586
Where's the traffic? $13 in nearly an hour.
LaylaLovely
05-08-2015, 08:32 AM
Okay so I have a good custie on cmd ....he's a sub...which I'm generally newer with..he gets shows every week ...but a lot of times he acts like he's gonna get a show but doesn't..so of coarse I don't stop nothing for him until I get paid but he will sometimes drag out his chat like over an hour and I'm busy in free chat n other shows...then he acts like hello are you there? I'm like umm no I'm in class now ?! Where were you an hour ago!. Okay so yesterday he buys a 15 min show I'm like ok cool but a min in he gets cut off he call again and gets cutoff so basically 30 mins pass trying to do a 15 min show and all my free chat sites are on pause.. So eventually I'm like Hun why don't you try when you have better connection so u don't waste your minutes... He's like ok... But doesn't stop.. I finally get so frustrated with his needy ass I tell him again Hun I can't take 30 -45 mins doing a 15 min show! Call me when you have decent connection..then he's like ok I'm sorry the trouble just keep the money...I'm like its ok if you want to finish later.. He's like I'm so sorry keep it.. I'm like ok if you insist but let me know if you do wanna finish later..then he's still saying sorry.. So doyou guys think I was too harsh??? Srry but these sub guys which I thought would be easier than masters are so much harder they are such bugaboos!!!!!!
EllieGold
05-08-2015, 08:35 AM
CMD CMD CMD.... I want to just quit.
Beggars, Freeloaders, Needy Men, Cheap Men, Demanding Rude Entitled Jerks, Assholes....
I'm sorry if you girls love CMD. When I first started I did. I put my Skype on "Do Not Disturb" for 24 hours almost because I needed a break from the madness.
SoloDesire
05-08-2015, 09:00 AM
Okay so I have a good custie on cmd ....he's a sub...which I'm generally newer with..he gets shows every week ...but a lot of times he acts like he's gonna get a show but doesn't..so of coarse I don't stop nothing for him until I get paid but he will sometimes drag out his chat like over an hour and I'm busy in free chat n other shows...then he acts like hello are you there? I'm like umm no I'm in class now ?! Where were you an hour ago!. Okay so yesterday he buys a 15 min show I'm like ok cool but a min in he gets cut off he call again and gets cutoff so basically 30 mins pass trying to do a 15 min show and all my free chat sites are on pause.. So eventually I'm like Hun why don't you try when you have better connection so u don't waste your minutes... He's like ok... But doesn't stop.. I finally get so frustrated with his needy ass I tell him again Hun I can't take 30 -45 mins doing a 15 min show! Call me when you have decent connection..then he's like ok I'm sorry the trouble just keep the money...I'm like its ok if you want to finish later.. He's like I'm so sorry keep it.. I'm like ok if you insist but let me know if you do wanna finish later..then he's still saying sorry.. So doyou guys think I was too harsh??? Srry but these sub guys which I thought would be easier than masters are so much harder they are such bugaboos!!!!!!
I don't think you were too harsh. I would have told him after the first disconnect that if it happened again that was the end of his show. I would tell him that you could be making money elsewhere but instead you're back and forth with him. Too bad so sad. Not your problem.
EllieGold
05-08-2015, 09:30 AM
I lived in Montana as a kid! My dad moved us there from a couple states over. Love it there and always will. Much more affordable then where I'm at now.
Yea I live in MONTANA!.. how many guys say they live there huh??..lol..... no really I live in Florida.. but it's true no one on cam lives in Montana .. hardly EVER!
EllieGold
05-08-2015, 09:32 AM
oh misread that Anon lol. I don't say my state. I'm getting super annoyed with guys asking 10,000 times a day "Where you from?" Me: "USA" "Yeah, but which State?!??!" Like... seriously dude... why do you REALLY need to know?
SoloDesire
05-08-2015, 09:34 AM
oh misread that Anon lol. I don't say my state. I'm getting super annoyed with guys asking 10,000 times a day "Where you from?" Me: "USA" "Yeah, but which State?!??!" Like... seriously dude... why do you REALLY need to know?
This annoys me too! If they ask what state I just type "No" lol
anonymous camgirl
05-08-2015, 09:49 AM
Oh I had a guy like that!.. he did that to me several times on several occasions after I reprimanded him to get a good connection or else I wont do the show.. so the last time I was so fucking pissed off I banned his ass and kept the money!..lol.. fuck him do you know how much of my time was wasted?? I deserve more than that.. So don't feel bad about it at all..
I don't think you were too harsh. I would have told him after the first disconnect that if it happened again that was the end of his show. I would tell him that you could be making money elsewhere but instead you're back and forth with him. Too bad so sad. Not your problem.
anonymous camgirl
05-08-2015, 09:50 AM
Nope never been to Montana!..haha.. was just using it as a good state that no customers do cam from.. or like North Dakota , south Dakota, Wyoming.. rarely you get a guy from these places.. or somewhere else obscure
oh misread that Anon lol. I don't say my state. I'm getting super annoyed with guys asking 10,000 times a day "Where you from?" Me: "USA" "Yeah, but which State?!??!" Like... seriously dude... why do you REALLY need to know?
anonymous camgirl
05-08-2015, 09:51 AM
I feel like I am watching paint dry!
Glamourmilf
05-08-2015, 11:01 AM
"Who does a girl have to fuck to get money from these cam sites this week?" Jeeze!
The Owner? Support? Fine, O.K. I'll do it!:confused:
SoloDesire
05-08-2015, 11:04 AM
"Who does a girl have to fuck to get money from these cam sites this week?" Jeeze!
The Owner? Support? Fine, O.K. I'll do it!:confused:
No bb, you just have to "fuck for real" every member who asks. lol
EllieGold
05-08-2015, 12:43 PM
I'm so snippy right now and I'm being such a bitch to guys. I feel like its hindering my income. My tolerance for stupid has shrunk to practically nothing today. Don't know what's up. I just feel aggressive and mean. Maybe this is what camming has done to me. }:D Camming sucks because the last 3 days have been a nightmare.
gypsy1
05-08-2015, 01:04 PM
Is it just me or does anyone else get a bunch of guys from Miami? I'm starting to think they're lying.
Nope never been to Montana!..haha.. was just using it as a good state that no customers do cam from.. or like North Dakota , south Dakota, Wyoming.. rarely you get a guy from these places.. or somewhere else obscure
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
05-08-2015, 01:28 PM
You know what I've noticed is that the ones who claim to be subs are really control freaks who top from the bottom. The ones who want to play Master are the real subs and have no clue how to take control. But this is just on phone sex and webcam. Dom guys you can practically hear their voices trembling while they say "Get on your knees bitch." It's always some corny shit like that. And the sub guys are like "Uhm can I just use my finger to play with my ass instead of a dildo? And Mistress can you please show me your boobs?" LMAO they don't know any better.
O Srry but these sub guys which I thought would be easier than masters are so much harder they are such bugaboos!!!!!!
SarahTime
05-08-2015, 01:38 PM
So glad I'm not going to have to rely on camming as my sole source of income. I could do it (and I WANT to do it) if I could work about 8 hours during the DAY time, but I can't right now. Really hope I'm not speaking too soon. And I fucking suck at this getting my son on a sleeping schedule shit. I wish I could just drug him up with a bunch of fucking benadryl. I get so sick of doing every single little thing for him myself. Getting up to pour juice in his cup gets on my damn nerves sometimes. I just hate my life right now. It's so shitty. Bill, bills, bills. Those bills overwhelm me not motivate me. Some days I'd rather just get evicted. I need this new job thing to work out more than I've ever needed anything. If that tax return money never comes I dgaf if I won't be able to afford to break my lease. I'm still leaving!! It would be so much easier to stay online if I wasn't making a measly $10 an hour. Wtf is wrong with me? Why can't I just run on e for like a month and make a bunch of money? My work ethic is shit. My work ethic for 10 damn dollars and hour is shit. I wish I could afford a fucking vacation. Why did I do this shit to myself? I just want to be a normal 20 year old. Whatever. Done rambling. So frustrated.
I know you're frustrated but it's not your sons fault. Drugging him up on benedryl could kill him.... You know that right? I just want to make sure because people do crazy shit when they are stressed out. If getting up to get your helpless child (didn't you say he was like 18 months old?) some juice irritates you that much... Is there someone you could ask for help? A parent, friend, anything?
Sorry if this comes off wrong.... There was a cam girl recently who let her newborn baby starve to death and now her and her boyfriend are in prison. I just can't ignore statements like these any more. If you feel like you can't handle your life, get help. Please.
anonymous camgirl
05-08-2015, 02:25 PM
well I live in florida.. and I get that a lot.. I think just a lot of the population lives there
Is it just me or does anyone else get a bunch of guys from Miami? I'm starting to think they're lying.
gypsy1
05-08-2015, 02:32 PM
I know you're frustrated but it's not your sons fault. Drugging him up on benedryl could kill him.... You know that right? I just want to make sure because people do crazy shit when they are stressed out. If getting up to get your helpless child (didn't you say he was like 18 months old?) some juice irritates you that much... Is there someone you could ask for help? A parent, friend, anything?
Sorry if this comes off wrong.... There was a cam girl recently who let her newborn baby starve to death and now her and her boyfriend are in prison. I just can't ignore statements like these any more. If you feel like you can't handle your life, get help. Please.
I'm fine right now. I was just really stressed out when I typed that and needed somewhere to vent. I would never hurt my baby. He just drives me crazy sometimes but no. I probably would have been better off venting on a different type of forum though.
But I appreciate your concern. :)
Edit: Nah those ladies on those mommy/motherhood/pregnancy whatever forums are fucking bitches!
anonymous camgirl
05-08-2015, 02:35 PM
Ya know? I think you're right!
You know what I've noticed is that the ones who claim to be subs are really control freaks who top from the bottom. The ones who want to play Master are the real subs and have no clue how to take control. But this is just on phone sex and webcam. Dom guys you can practically hear their voices trembling while they say "Get on your knees bitch." It's always some corny shit like that. And the sub guys are like "Uhm can I just use my finger to play with my ass instead of a dildo? And Mistress can you please show me your boobs?" LMAO they don't know any better.
LaylaLovely
05-08-2015, 02:40 PM
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You know what I've noticed is that the ones who claim to be subs are really control freaks who top from the bottom. The ones who want to play Master are the real subs and have no clue how to take control. But this is just on phone sex and webcam. Dom guys you can practically hear their voices trembling while they say "Get on your knees bitch." It's always some corny shit like that. And the sub guys are like "Uhm can I just use my finger to play with my ass instead of a dildo? And Mistress can you please show me your boobs?" LMAO they don't know any better.
I've had some pretty good masters but since I started spreading to different sites I'm like meeting these guys... N I'm like wtf?? Did you just come back from watching 50 shades of grey with your gf's?????
EllieGold
05-08-2015, 02:41 PM
This.. Booking a CMD show for tomorrow I get this... I'm so... fucking...done! :( I really am started to just hate camming altogether this week.
"Babe later, I'm going to see my friend, I'm happy to pay 70 tomorrow; but as we want to each other more, I expect you to reduce the price in the future :)"
LaylaLovely
05-08-2015, 03:45 PM
^^ yea all the cmd mentality once you have a show with them they want a deal... I get good chunk of shows on there but mostly all want a deal after a few shows with me...
anonymous camgirl
05-08-2015, 03:45 PM
This sucks being forced to work nites when there is no money in the day time for me right now.. WTF!! I like having my nights FREE.. this is just bullshit
Glamourmilf
05-08-2015, 04:16 PM
This sucks being forced to work nites when there is no money in the day time for me right now.. WTF!! I like having my nights FREE.. this is just bullshit
Welcome to my world! I can never make great money during the day...on any sites I'm on...after all of these years ive just learned to accept it, and embrace my life as a vampiress.
gypsy1
05-08-2015, 04:59 PM
Some of these guys on Twitter are so fucking annoying. There's one guy who either replies to, favorites or retweets everything I post. That's cool and all but if you're not spending money on me then expect me to ignore you 99% of the time. There's this other guy who pretends he's interested in camming just so he can have a reason to DM me. Do I look like I know what it's like to be a cam guy? Go do your own research! Oh, & the other day a cam girl tweeted about how she wants to make friends with other models and to no surprise a bunch of guys replied saying they'd be her friend. Um no she said women!!! Not you losers!
anonymous camgirl
05-08-2015, 04:59 PM
I had to laugh so hard! cuz I feel ya! I feel Exactly as you described today.. I cannot contain my disgust today at all and I am NOT even pms-ing this week..
I'm so snippy right now and I'm being such a bitch to guys. I feel like its hindering my income. My tolerance for stupid has shrunk to practically nothing today. Don't know what's up. I just feel aggressive and mean. Maybe this is what camming has done to me. }:D Camming sucks because the last 3 days have been a nightmare.
gypsy1
05-08-2015, 05:05 PM
by the time i get a private i dont feel like doing shit. Ladies and gentlemen the summer is upon us.
This is me. & I picked an awesome time to get into camming!
Why have all of these guys been wanting me to ride my dildo lately? Ugh it's so uncomfortable.
anonymous camgirl
05-08-2015, 05:21 PM
Right?? I hurt my leg yesterday doing it.. umm NO just NO
This is me. & I picked an awesome time to get into camming!
Why have all of these guys been wanting me to ride my dildo lately? Ugh it's so uncomfortable.
anonymous camgirl
05-08-2015, 05:22 PM
yep that's how I feel.. they drain you and then you get a pvt and it's like WHAT THE FUCK DO YOU WANT!!...lol what you mean I have to do SOMETHING? fuck that shit.
Yesterday was one of the worst days ive had in a while.I'm not the one that likes to give up on a bad day .But i was like fuck it.Staying on when its dead drains my energy, by the time i get a private i dont feel like doing shit.Ladies and gentlemen the summer is upon us.
Kitcatt
05-08-2015, 06:18 PM
This is me. & I picked an awesome time to get into camming!
Why have all of these guys been wanting me to ride my dildo lately? Ugh it's so uncomfortable.
I use one of those soft skin feel ones for that, not even an inner support rod, just kind of like a flaccid cock. Don't even feel it, just like bouncing up and down on the bed :)
hyori
05-08-2015, 06:39 PM
I was thinking of getting a male mannequin torso and my strap-on to attach my Vixskin dildos to his blank crotch. Problem is my strap-on is really feminine so my manny will look very androgynous. Not sure if that will be a boner maker or killer.
Magical_Hoohah
05-08-2015, 10:21 PM
^^I'm in the market for a pretty, feminine strap on harness. Would you recommend yours? Where did you get it?
pippapippa
05-08-2015, 11:11 PM
^^ I'm curious too.
http://www.myspare.com/product/joque
I have this one in white, and I feel like it looks vaguely like a diaper. It's very comfy though.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
05-08-2015, 11:50 PM
I made one out of satin scarves tied together. And then another one with pink nylon rope. You can make a harness out of anything. They even have youtube videos on how to do it.
^^I'm in the market for a pretty, feminine strap on harness. Would you recommend yours? Where did you get it?