View Full Version : The General Purpose "Camming Sucks Right Now" Thread
Susperia
09-30-2015, 07:10 PM
What a fucking retard..no warm ups? I wouldn't pull a muscle for that loser! OMG I am laughing my ass off at your signiture gif!!!!!!!!
SuperPookie
09-30-2015, 07:45 PM
Camming sucks because somehow I pissed off my favorite regular and didn't even know it until I went to message him and couldn't :(. Out of a sea of "show tits bb" he was the only one I looked forward to talking to.
EllieGold
09-30-2015, 08:53 PM
So laughable on Streamate. 4 failed gold show attempts (not a single person pledged in, not even regulars) and 2 guys taking me private in a row to ask for tits then leave. Luckily, I'm no fool. :)
buxxxom
09-30-2015, 11:58 PM
had a really fucking shitty week, but i managed to not cry so yay. it was super humiliating to stay the fuck on, but i did and NO it didn't pay off. but don't go thinking the world is ending or decide to make a thread based on this one model's experience.
kortneykay
10-01-2015, 01:10 AM
What the fuck? Did you save the text and report him (to whoever he reports to)? That is extremely unprofessional.
Sure did!
anonymous camgirl
10-01-2015, 08:02 AM
All I have to say is that's men for ya!... I have had so many instances and scenarios like the one you described.. Despicable!
Trainer XXXXX: You can call me an asshole but I don't know if I wanna help you get in shape for some other guy.
This is the text I received today from my nutritionist/personal trainer. Wow, just wow. Apparently when he asked me if I had a boyfriend the answer should've been "No." considering I've been dating my new bf for 2 weeks and I've had my personal trainer for 4 months. So your ego is bruised because you thought you had a chance with me? Wow, how professional of you to assume I'm doing this for anyone other than myself. I'm so fucking annoyed right now. I don't do shit for other men. This journey is for ME as I'll be the only one standing after both trainer and bf are long gone. O.o The nerve of some people.
Glamourmilf
10-01-2015, 10:52 AM
Watch out, this is a book. Sorry.
I'm currently living with a roommate who has showed ever-increasing levels of crazy. I told her a few days ago that I was going to have a friend over, and she immediately asked if it was a man. When I said yes, she told me that if I was going to have sex I had to go to a hotel, that I couldn't have sex here. I laughed at her and told her she couldn't tell me that, and she said, "Yes I can. I'm the primary lease holder and it grosses me out, so you can't have sex here." Yep. I laughed and walked away to my room.
Fast forward to a few hours later, about 8:30 pm, when I and said friend are hanging out in my room, making each other laugh and having a good time. Crazy Bitch Roommate from Hell stomped up the stairs, banged on my door, and said that my friend had to leave in 10 minutes or she was calling the cops. She kept yelling things like "This is not a whorehouse!" and coming up with lovely and evocative names for me like "Sperm recepticle". We actually weren't having sex, kept our clothes on the whole time. I told her to leave me alone, repeatedly. She opened my closed (no lock, unfortunately) door and holy shit, was she inebriated. She lurched towards me and my friend stepped in her way, got her out the door, closed it, and braced his foot against the door. He urged me to call the cops and it took me a minute through the shock (I've had some bad experiences with domestic violence, and this triggered them big-time) but I did. The op got my info and urged me to stay upstairs and away from her, and when the cops came, they only talked to her. When they left, she yelled that when she got back she was going to kick my friend's ass and called me a whore and got in her car and left. She is on probation for a DUI so I figured I would probably not see her drunk, but I was wrong. When she came back she was much more subdued. My friend stayed the night to make sure I and my kitty were safe (Thanks to whichever goddess sent me this friend to have my back).
So now I'm at the point where I have to figure out what to do now, but luckily I have had another friend step up and offer me a place to stay for a few weeks - unfortunately I'm having to stay in this room a few more days. It's definitely affecting every aspect of my life including my health and my work, so hard to work when you're jumping at every noise from upstairs. I'm just trying to remind myself that it's a temporary thing. Things will get better, dammit, if I have to kick them in the balls.
Another reason I think being/having a roommate should be illegal! I'm at the end of my first, and last roommate situation with a horrible, horrible person.
I hope it works out for you to get the f..k out of there quickly!
thatgingercamgirl
10-01-2015, 03:10 PM
Another reason I think being/having a roommate should be illegal! I'm at the end of my first, and last roommate situation with a horrible, horrible person.
I hope it works out for you to get the f..k out of there quickly!
Yeah, I've had shitty roommate experiences before, but this definitely takes the cake. I can't wait until I can afford to live alone. Thanks GM!
SoloDesire
10-01-2015, 04:16 PM
Why is it so DEAD everywhere?! Does no one like to masturbate on Thursdays?!
EllieGold
10-01-2015, 06:35 PM
It's pretty dead tonight but I'm sticking it out. However.. camming SUCKS because yesterday a good regular of mine on Cams screwed me over. For what? Just to jack off once. He usually pays up in increments on Cams in free chat (20 at a time). He found me on Skype months back (was gullable when i added him too) Was not sure if that was okay... but anyways.
He asks if we can chat via Skype, I tell him no, we talk via Cams from now on. I don't bother with Skype shows anymore. He had me demand him to pay up for the pics he had earlier of me. (I really thought he was play in free chat this time)... Nope.
He loves domination right.. well I got a little aggressive because he was staying in free chat all silent without tipping. When I checked on Skype a few mins later he removed me from his contacts. That little F$$ker got off for free. I feel so screwed over I'm so pissed. I guess it was worth it dude! Please ladies, I know I was stupid but I seriously feel like I'm off my "A" game this week. My confidence is lower than its ever been in years and it's only getting worse.
LittleSexBunny
10-01-2015, 10:05 PM
It's pretty dead tonight but I'm sticking it out. However.. camming SUCKS because yesterday a good regular of mine on Cams screwed me over. For what? Just to jack off once. He usually pays up in increments on Cams in free chat (20 at a time). He found me on Skype months back (was gullable when i added him too) Was not sure if that was okay... but anyways.
He asks if we can chat via Skype, I tell him no, we talk via Cams from now on. I don't bother with Skype shows anymore. He had me demand him to pay up for the pics he had earlier of me. (I really thought he was play in free chat this time)... Nope.
He loves domination right.. well I got a little aggressive because he was staying in free chat all silent without tipping. When I checked on Skype a few mins later he removed me from his contacts. That little F$$ker got off for free. I feel so screwed over I'm so pissed. I guess it was worth it dude! Please ladies, I know I was stupid but I seriously feel like I'm off my "A" game this week. My confidence is lower than its ever been in years and it's only getting worse.
aw don't feel bad... I can only imagine that feeling. I came back from an exclusive the other day just fucking myself in free chat on sm. I didn't get a notification the guy left. It never said he logged off and I never got a countdown from thirty seconds. I look up and, "BOOM!" fucking myself in free chat. Like what. the. fuck. So i screenshot that shit and sent it to support ASAP! Then i'm sitting there WONDERING if i'm going to be suspended the next day or not. Pretty fucked up feeling after I had two bad nights in a row. I've made shit money this week. Tonight is terrible... I really wanted tomorrow off, but i might have to suck it up and just work anyways.
pinkpink
10-02-2015, 02:09 AM
Reading that story made me thankful for my shitty roommate. Unfortunately, there's no affording a place alone in this area. It's so expensive. The only person I could find to room with is really annoying, but at least she leaves me to myself most of the time and pays her rent on time. I just wish she would stop doing things like moving my things in the kitchen and the living room. I've told her I have OCD and it really bothers me to find my stuff moved but she calls it "organizing". Sigh.
LaylaLovely
10-02-2015, 09:08 AM
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Trainer XXXXX: You can call me an asshole but I don't know if I wanna help you get in shape for some other guy.
This is the text I received today from my nutritionist/personal trainer. Wow, just wow. Apparently when he asked me if I had a boyfriend the answer should've been "No." considering I've been dating my new bf for 2 weeks and I've had my personal trainer for 4 months. So your ego is bruised because you thought you had a chance with me? Wow, how professional of you to assume I'm doing this for anyone other than myself. I'm so fucking annoyed right now. I don't do shit for other men. This journey is for ME as I'll be the only one standing after both trainer and bf are long gone. O.o The nerve of some people.
I would leave him a Yelp review with pics too :D
Alylondon
10-02-2015, 03:33 PM
Camming...well SM sucks today because i'm in the middle of page 2 right now usually I am at the end/middle of page 1. I've been on and off cam since 11am and it is now 3:30pm and I have made ZERO dollars on SM.I can barely get past "hey how are you?" today. Thank God I got a skype this afternoon or I wouldn't be shutting down my computer making no money.
Trying another site before I have no more niceness left in me for the day.
audritwo
10-02-2015, 04:07 PM
I love it when I get a 6 minute countdown for TV GoldShows. No really, LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOVE it.
http://stream1.gifsoup.com/view1/3847984/darla-eye-twitch-o.gif
LaylaLovely
10-02-2015, 04:44 PM
So I finally figured out why sm is so dead for me.. Not only am I not on pg one...but I'm not showing in any of my categories!!!!!! Except hairy ...wtf!!!!
RaeRae
10-02-2015, 06:59 PM
Where the fuck is traffic? My feeds look great when I watch myself, so it's not my tech. This was a waste of makeup for me tonight. Even splitting the shift up into two separated by a few hours, it's been torture.
anonymous camgirl
10-03-2015, 10:10 AM
My friend was venting about men .. being angry about them.. she is 55!.. and then she said it's like they have no emotions.. so I turned to my 25 yr old son and jokingly said do men have emotions and he shook his head NO...lol.. so there ya go!.. most men don't I don't feel. .. How else can they just desert their own children and not care about them!
kortneykay
10-03-2015, 10:53 AM
My friend was venting about men .. being angry about them.. she is 55!.. and then she said it's like they have no emotions.. so I turned to my 25 yr old son and jokingly said do men have emotions and he shook his head NO...lol.. so there ya go!.. most men don't I don't feel. .. How else can they just desert their own children and not care about them!
My ex is what turned me almost completely off from men. He had the mind and emotions of a woman gone mad! And no offense to my species (us women) but I think some of us have a male brain, and some of us have female ones. I was definitely the man in the relationship so much that it turned me off because he was emotionally distressed 98% of our relationship, cried constantly, raged, you name it. I often get told I'm emotionless myself but when I was a kid I cried all the time.
pinkpink
10-03-2015, 12:14 PM
Just here to say Zzzzzzzzzzzz I did OK this week but jesus, I'm still working and I'm bored out of my mind.
pixiepower329
10-03-2015, 12:15 PM
Yeah... from an emotional standpoint..I'm definitely the "male" in my marriage, too. Doesn't bother me though.... I do better in situations where I have control
SuperPookie
10-03-2015, 01:40 PM
10$ in four hours :(. Someone please shoot me now. Yesterday was my best day ever so wtf has happened?
Candy_Woman
10-03-2015, 02:03 PM
Saturday night, expecting much movement. Three hours, 0 $. Only a dozen guys who come and go without saying hello, and three or four who talk and talk and go to see that no naked free. It is to die for.
apryll11
10-03-2015, 04:42 PM
How else can they just desert their own children and not care about them!
Mothers do it to, people just talk about it less
anonymous camgirl
10-04-2015, 10:45 AM
I agree but that's usually special cases like women who are addicted to drugs or alcohol out of their mind not thinking clearly... .. Men just do it.. consciously...lol I am in my forties and the experiences and stories I have heard.. Even the mailman deserted his older children left his mother never spoke to them again.. Married a new lady, had kids.. now the older kids have kids and they want them to meet grandpa .. and he said NO.. I have my own children.. completely disowned his older kids and wants nothing to do with them.. only the ones he had with his 2nd wife.. men do this crap all the time.
Mothers do it to, people just talk about it less
annafang
10-04-2015, 03:26 PM
Camming sucks because I did a group show last night and about 1 minute in everybody left. I don't get it normally people stay til the end and I have had over 40 people in there, but nope they all just hightailed outta there as soon as I got my clothes off haha
Kinda a hit to the ego :(
gingerstripper
10-04-2015, 03:46 PM
so slow :(
annafang
10-04-2015, 03:50 PM
Grrr so angry! just found a reddit thread about me and they are all linking and asking for free content and recorded shows. I NEED to get these taken down!!
Glamourmilf
10-04-2015, 04:10 PM
Camming sucks when someone takes you away from a busy chat room, stays less than 45 seconds, JUST to rate a 1.
Its the :frown:weekend, so support wont remove it till prob tomorrow or tuesday.
Fucker!
Susperia
10-04-2015, 08:25 PM
Camming sucked tonight....first hour was good, but then the revolving door of in and outs began along with the chat you up and leave assholes and someone tried to take me exclusive but disappeared when I hit accept....
I'm having a bad night anyways my husband has the flu, my cat is having surgery in the morning and I have a pile of medical bills coming in from my visit to the ER last month....all that on my mind is probably showing on my face. Calling it a night.
anonymous camgirl
10-05-2015, 10:00 AM
Linking to what site? someone did that to me for Cams!
Grrr so angry! just found a reddit thread about me and they are all linking and asking for free content and recorded shows. I NEED to get these taken down!!
BadBitch
10-05-2015, 09:30 PM
Hugs to you girls! It HAS to get better, right?
justanothercamgirl
10-07-2015, 07:55 AM
Camming sucks for me right now because I am in the process of rebranding. Rebranding after you have cammed for years it takes freaking forever! It is sucking up huge amounts of my time and it feels like playing whack-a-mole.
Every time I think I've gotten every place I've worked in the past and every place I've marketed myself in the past then I remember someplace else I need to change that I forgot to put on 'the to-do list'.
https://media.giphy.com/media/ZanWL0MNtv3y0/giphy.gif
anonymous camgirl
10-07-2015, 04:47 PM
what does this rebranding mean? changing your persona?
Camming sucks for me right now because I am in the process of rebranding. Rebranding after you have cammed for years it takes freaking forever! It is sucking up huge amounts of my time and it feels like playing whack-a-mole.
Every time I think I've gotten every place I've worked in the past and every place I've marketed myself in the past then I remember someplace else I need to change that I forgot to put on 'the to-do list'.
https://media.giphy.com/media/ZanWL0MNtv3y0/giphy.gif
thatgingercamgirl
10-07-2015, 05:03 PM
Reading that story made me thankful for my shitty roommate. Unfortunately, there's no affording a place alone in this area. It's so expensive. The only person I could find to room with is really annoying, but at least she leaves me to myself most of the time and pays her rent on time. I just wish she would stop doing things like moving my things in the kitchen and the living room. I've told her I have OCD and it really bothers me to find my stuff moved but she calls it "organizing". Sigh.
Yeah, I'm right there with ya, I can't afford a place alone in this area, but living with other people is so hard, even when they're not batshit crazy.
pippapippa
10-07-2015, 05:11 PM
It's the first time I've been able to log on in a week and it's so slow. The first guy who came into private rated me 1 star because I don't do anal, much less use multiple toys in my ass (getting that removed), and so far I've made half my hourly. Ugh.
anonymous camgirl
10-07-2015, 06:03 PM
Men are so fucking rude... Hi how are you doing hon?? oh I am surfing the internet looking for a new diesel truck!.. WTF.. or I am booking my vacation on Air BNB... wtf again!.. what the actual fuck.. they are so fucking rude and have no fucking shame.. well I am here to fucking work you fucking assholes.. I am here to work when you fucking pay me.. this isn't some fucking social media hang out site.. dumb bitches...
justanothercamgirl
10-07-2015, 06:22 PM
what does this rebranding mean? changing your persona?
I am changing my camming name.
SoloDesire
10-07-2015, 06:39 PM
Because I can't even find the motivation to stay on more than 3 hours anymore. Camming is so boring!!
pixiepower329
10-07-2015, 08:28 PM
Thus far I'm at 2 hours without making a single dime on SM. This is my "make goal or stay on 12 hours" day... and I've a feeling my ass will be logging out in 10 more hours at this rate.
AlexiaRoss
10-07-2015, 10:32 PM
Camming sucks because some douchebag who enjoyed his show and showed me his disgusting loch-ness monster cock on C2C on SM & showed me his very apparent cumshot on his pathetic computer desk in his shitty apartment filled with empty cans and trash - RATED ME 3 STARS. And Im getting all the fucktards on tonight. Usually I can handle it but tonight I'm pissed lol.
EffyRose
10-07-2015, 11:29 PM
Camming sucks because some douchebag who enjoyed his show and showed me his disgusting loch-ness monster cock on C2C on SM.
I'm sorry your day sucks, bb. But I love this
QueenBitch
10-08-2015, 03:27 AM
it sucks because I'm done. so incredibly DONE. I haven't worked like I should have in months because the thought of getting online and having to answer stupid fucking questions just gives me mad anxiety.
I'm applying for jobs, I probably won't be able to totally quit just yet, but if I could just use it to supplement my steady income, that'd take a lot of weight off my shoulders. I'm just sick and tired of the freeloaders, the time wasters, the rude comments, the laziness (how fucking difficult is it to read a profile?)... it's gotten to a point where even them saying "hi" makes me want to chop their dick off. even seeing the word "pussy" makes me wanna vomit. and I'm sick of not knowing how much my next paycheck will be or if I'm even going to make enough for rent and shit. I can't wait until I make enough money to not need camming anymore. Not even 2 miserable hours a week.
I hate men now. I despise them. I had this regular who made me so sick (with anxiety) that I couldn't work for 2 months. I hate regulars. I like distance.
I'm done. after 2 years I finally cracked.
all of you ladies who have been doing this for years and are still going strong: mad respect. you're warriors. I wish I had your strength...
anonymous camgirl
10-08-2015, 04:51 AM
I know what you mean... I have been doing this for 13 yrs ... Unfortunately, I cannot get a real job unless I want to be homeless.. even though I cut my bills way down.. I am still supporting 3 people and sometimes more.. So I have to keep going..lmao.. .. good for you for getting back out there in the real world..
it sucks because I'm done. so incredibly DONE. I haven't worked like I should have in months because the thought of getting online and having to answer stupid fucking questions just gives me mad anxiety.
I'm applying for jobs, I probably won't be able to totally quit just yet, but if I could just use it to supplement my steady income, that'd take a lot of weight off my shoulders. I'm just sick and tired of the freeloaders, the time wasters, the rude comments, the laziness (how fucking difficult is it to read a profile?)... it's gotten to a point where even them saying "hi" makes me want to chop their dick off. even seeing the word "pussy" makes me wanna vomit. and I'm sick of not knowing how much my next paycheck will be or if I'm even going to make enough for rent and shit. I can't wait until I make enough money to not need camming anymore. Not even 2 miserable hours a week.
I hate men now. I despise them. I had this regular who made me so sick (with anxiety) that I couldn't work for 2 months. I hate regulars. I like distance.
I'm done. after 2 years I finally cracked.
all of you ladies who have been doing this for years and are still going strong: mad respect. you're warriors. I wish I had your strength...
^^^ Same here!! 15 years on cam, was working a vanilla job for 2 years while still camming part time but then when the economic crisis hit us in 2009 the company i worked for could not pay me anymore so i had to quit, could not find a decent job anymore, nobody was hiring but letting people off so i got back on cam full time again and here since then.
Well, thank God i have this option cause i got older in between & have major health issues, i wont be able to work 'normal' jobs again, maybe have my own small business one day (i wish) but not to work for others full time, i just cant.
Camming it's taking it's toll after a while, if i had better options i would have quit looong time ago but for me here the money i can make on cam do not compare with any other jobs i could have here so i stayed but was not/ is not easy.
Good luck QB!
EllieGold
10-08-2015, 08:57 AM
When i can't seem to get even $10 an hour something isn't right. I made that in 2009-2012 from starting from the bottom up doing blog design, SEO, social media management. I went through some horrible crappy bosses when I worked from home. I would get yelled at constantly because I was not juggling 100 things at one time for that crappy $10 an hour. However, I did it! My health was shit and I was so stressed. I at least made the bills though! When I can't seem to break that on cam getting naked, fuck it... I feel like I really worked up the totem pole when it comes to working and feel like I am going backwards. I've evaluated my schedules, internet, webcam, computer, you name it. I am sick of trying to be on cam and getting $13 after hours. I know I may be negative, but actually my husband and I preach the complete opposite. He always gets on my butt and reminds me of Shawn Achor's books and to apply that to camming... Which I do most of the time. Some days just seem to break me.
TheBrownFox
10-08-2015, 10:43 AM
Not a serious vent, but is anyone else here getting a bunch of "StripperWeb would like to wish you a Happy Birthday!" e-mails??? My birthday was August 15. I should not be getting this e-mail all the time. I just got another one this morning. Wtf?
pippapippa
10-08-2015, 10:56 AM
Today is mind numbingly dull. I was honestly hoping to spend all day online but I can't sit here when no one talks to me. I'm in the top five rows right now...
anonymous camgirl
10-08-2015, 02:01 PM
Yea me 2!.. I got to work at 7 am and was wanting to work 10 hours.. or at least til 8 pm.. but I dunno? why kill myself if there is no money to be made?
Today is mind numbingly dull. I was honestly hoping to spend all day online but I can't sit here when no one talks to me. I'm in the top five rows right now...
LaylaLovely
10-09-2015, 03:18 AM
I'm soooo beyond pisseed!!!!!!! I've never in my camming life had such a douchbag on skype... I do regret even doing the show..this guy had like multiple personalities and I'm sure he was in a hospital cuz his a thing kept beeping like a heart rate monitor does in hospitals...
First he spends 45 mins trying to get a show... Then he goes on n on how he hates girls who are fake or watch the clock .." Clock watchers"
I'm like yea yea whatever get the fucking show already
So finally gets it 75$ then takes forever to call me then calls me and he has connection probs...me being soo fucking generous gives him extra 10 minutes cuz of his probs...then it ends and he starts questioning if I ended it all angry! I'm like no your internet went out again ...but speaking of..our tone was up I even gave u extra...then he says he want to continue for another 10 minutes more so I tell him to send in..he takes another half hour to send in chatting n chatting going on that this time I need to be "generous to get generousity" finally he sends in and this guy just keeps going on and on about being a clock watcher..so finally I've had it I'm like ask the site for a refund I'm not doing this ..and call him out on what a woman hating douch he is!!!
He apologizes and begs n pleads saying maybe he treated me wrong from past experience with other models ..this goes on for do long ..then he says he can't get a refund cuz his bank will know
Then he flips his mood and says I hate men that's why I'm doing this to him ( mind you he was just apologizing)
So his conclusion?? I personally send him the 75$
I'm like nope contact the owner
He's like be proffesional about this
I'm like the proffesional this is to contact the site owner you paid him not me!
Then he flips saying I'm going to burn for this..during this convo I get 2 new adds on skype and what do u know its a guy that hates " time watchers" lol yea I know it's u idiot!
He's like u deal with jerks all day n took it out on me..im like no I have nice regs ur the jerk that's why I won't do another show with you!!!