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pippapippa
01-06-2016, 06:34 PM
Today is absolutely, mind blowingly, soul suckingly slow.

EllieGold
01-06-2016, 06:37 PM
Today is absolutely, mind blowingly, soul suckingly slow.

4 failed gold show attempts on my part. Now it's time to fuel up, relax and be back in 30 mins. I hope your night gets better.

Susperia
01-06-2016, 09:34 PM
Goddamnit, some psycho dude I made a custom for on C4S last year in May has now found me on twitter. I say he is psycho because he didn't like the custom and harassed me for weeks thru email. I ignored him and he stopped, but today I get on my twitter and he has tweeted to me that I "still owe him for a ruined custom" I blocked his ass immediately, but all my links were on twitter and I am freaking the fuck out that he is gonna try to come to one of my cam sites and harrass me there. Ugh...I'm pissed! I am gonna deactivate my twitter too for awhile till I feel it has passed......

CanadianRuby
01-06-2016, 10:04 PM
Goddamnit, some psycho dude I made a custom for on C4S last year in May has now found me on twitter. I say he is psycho because he didn't like the custom and harassed me for weeks thru email. I ignored him and he stopped, but today I get on my twitter and he has tweeted to me that I "still owe him for a ruined custom" I blocked his ass immediately, but all my links were on twitter and I am freaking the fuck out that he is gonna try to come to one of my cam sites and harrass me there. Ugh...I'm pissed! I am gonna deactivate my twitter too for awhile till I feel it has passed......

I always find it funny when guys do this. I'v seen it so many times where guys want a girl to remake a custom to his exact specifications, so he harasses her / leaves rude and negative ratings etc. But I always wonder like....WHY from the guys perspective, if he feels so aggrieved by the model, is he so hell bent on trying to get a remake? Like, if a customer and model are having a disagreement that can't be resolved, and he just badgers her into remaking the video eventually....what is he going to do.....hate watch it? Angrily jerk off to it?

This is my #1 pet peeve with content making. Being anxious if they're going to like a video or not, and having to deal with them later on down the road if they become possessive, creepy, annoying etc. I HATE having to block someone that has been a total douchebag, but they still have my content because it makes me paranoid. Uhg.

BadBitch
01-06-2016, 10:20 PM
� joeyflan to You: hi. i'm just reading your profile [reply private]
� You to joeyflan: no prob! take your time
joeyflan to You: have a great night... [reply private]

??? what the fuck? what could he have possibly read? why even add that? that's so unnecessary. just leave, dude.

(it's been a long night and i'm in a bad mood.)

He could have saw your prices. Not saying you're expensive, but he could have been looking for $.99. I think that's why guys come in, say hi then leave.

BadBitch
01-06-2016, 10:25 PM
^^^ They could've be lying but they also could've been telling the truth. These last couple of weeks I've had quite a few guys say that the gold button and private wasn't showing up even after I told them to refresh. A few others had issues with the gold button or private button going through. They said they clicked it but they either got errors or it wasn't connecting.

I had a guy tip to test it. I think they were fibbing. The one was like, "I tipped $50".

BadBitch
01-06-2016, 10:27 PM
Thats because there's an influx of girls playing with pussy in free chat.

I could cut a bitch when I see this.

Susperia
01-06-2016, 10:32 PM
I always find it funny when guys do this. I'v seen it so many times where guys want a girl to remake a custom to his exact specifications, so he harasses her / leaves rude and negative ratings etc. But I always wonder like....WHY from the guys perspective, if he feels so aggrieved by the model, is he so hell bent on trying to get a remake? Like, if a customer and model are having a disagreement that can't be resolved, and he just badgers her into remaking the video eventually....what is he going to do.....hate watch it? Angrily jerk off to it?

This is my #1 pet peeve with content making. Being anxious if they're going to like a video or not, and having to deal with them later on down the road if they become possessive, creepy, annoying etc. I HATE having to block someone that has been a total douchebag, but they still have my content because it makes me paranoid. Uhg.

I don't know why....after 8 months he is STILL harrassing me....I checked the spam in my email just now and there he is...I'm like really?...REALLY? Get the fuck over it already dude. WTF is wrong with this guy. Thank fuck he lives in Germany. Still, why keep harrassing me 8 months down the road....that is the definition of a pathetic fucking LOSER if I ever saw one.

BadBitch
01-06-2016, 11:00 PM
I don't know why....after 8 months he is STILL harrassing me....I checked the spam in my email just now and there he is...I'm like really?...REALLY? Get the fuck over it already dude. WTF is wrong with this guy. Thank fuck he lives in Germany. Still, why keep harrassing me 8 months down the road....that is the definition of a pathetic fucking LOSER if I ever saw one.

Ugh. I'm so sorry you have to deal with him. That's a very stressful situation. I think the last attempt at him trying to contact you may be him coming to your cam room. I'm sure you'll know it's him right away and then you can just block him. Hopefully, that will be the end of him.

partyrocker
01-07-2016, 12:24 AM
I cannot get over the arrogance of some guys. "I've seen ur tits, talk 2 u 4 30 sec, now gimme ur psn. Oh u want money for it, but its FREE!." Nope nope nopety fuckin no. Fuckin hell...

My NY promise: I will not play videogames online at all on cam anymore.

PrincessfromHell
01-07-2016, 06:51 AM
When my ever first reg complained I work too much when I am trying to work 40 hours a week in fact, we had contacts off the site, called me a greedy person Lord balahblah Jesus blahblah church blahblah. You are a wanker on damn porn site for decades, leave church alone really.
Man being greedy = normal, woman scooping cash = Jesus save your soul.
Fuck dat noise.

SuperPookie
01-07-2016, 07:22 AM
^^^yeah it's bad enough when guys make our lives miserable but when other models due to it's 10 times worse. I never go in other models rooms but in this case maybe I should and report them. It feels like tattling but damn those are some dumb bitches. Or maybe I should just stay out of shit lol.

hyori
01-07-2016, 09:36 AM
Just because some girl is twat twiddling it doesn't mean they are taking traffic away from you. There are non-nude girls that are top 20 earners on MFC that make 5 figures a month and they don't even show their nipples. Learn how to hustle better and stop giving a shit about what other girls are doing. Guys want YOU, your special blend of whatever makes you, YOU. By putting down other girls, you are just stating that public twat wins. If that were true then camming wouldn't exist because guys would just buy fleshlights and that would be it.

Marina Starr
01-07-2016, 10:11 AM
I couldn't agree more with this! What other models do have no bearing on income because there's only one ME and there's only one YOU! That's your power right there.
IF a bitch wants to give it all away for free, bless her heart!

I have to put this out there, worrying about what other models do in THEIR rooms or knocking their hustle won't make yours better!
http://i158.photobucket.com/albums/t94/tsmelania/tumblr_m7xtguXb321qgy8r3o1_500_zps145f83aa.gif (http://s158.photobucket.com/user/tsmelania/media/tumblr_m7xtguXb321qgy8r3o1_500_zps145f83aa.gif.htm l)

Just because some girl is twat twiddling it doesn't mean they are taking traffic away from you. There are non-nude girls that are top 20 earners on MFC that make 5 figures a month and they don't even show their nipples. Learn how to hustle better and stop giving a shit about what other girls are doing. Guys want YOU, your special blend of whatever makes you, YOU. By putting down other girls, you are just stating that public twat wins. If that were true then camming wouldn't exist because guys would just buy fleshlights and that would be it.

whirlerz
01-07-2016, 10:28 AM
Marina is the STAR though! :)

SoloDesire
01-07-2016, 10:45 AM
I agree! There's a reason the girls who give it away for free aren't top earners. Why pay for it when they can see it for free!?

It doesn't effect the money I make...my customers pay for my shows because I put on damn good shows! There's so much more to what I do than just sitting with my pussy out diddling away. That is just BORING.

bigbootyjudy1
01-07-2016, 11:10 AM
I've had incidents of my pvt playing in free chat due to lagging issues.I dont think we should all assume that girls are purposefully doing full blown dildo shows in free chat .

Marina Starr
01-07-2016, 11:11 AM
43860

Marina is the STAR though! :)

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
01-07-2016, 12:05 PM
I don't think anyone's really concerned with the dildo demons straight outta the nosebleed section. :laughing:

Most ladies were commenting on the growing number of guys who ask for pussy like its the norm. Those chicks aren't hogging the traffic. Even girls who do hold a lot of traffic those guys get bored and wander like gold fish. Dick goes soft they go to the next room. Sometimes the come back and repeat the cycle. Poor guys.

Blovely
01-07-2016, 12:14 PM
I'm kind of indifferent. What others do in their room won't stop me or others from making money but it does and can change the culture of the site. When models started going topless in freechat customers started asking and expecting other models to do the same. Now that some models are showing pussy in freechat customers are asking for that as well. Customers have always asked for some of these things but it seems to be more frequent. Yesterday a guy came into my room and asked "5 gold for pussy?". What models do and what customers ask doesn't bother me nor will it make me change my hustle but I can't 100% say that it doesn't affect me because in a way it does. I see all of this as part of the job though so its kind whatever to me.



I've had incidents of my pvt playing in free chat due to lagging issues.I dont think we should all assume that girls are purposefully doing full blown dildo shows in free chat .
That isn't the case in some of these rooms though. These models are just sitting in freechat with their pussy out some even have pussy flash as part of their tip menu. But again its whatever to me.

Mare
01-07-2016, 12:36 PM
Yeah. It's like doing taboo roleplay. Hey, if your conscience can do underage rp and you're not worried about getting caught up in a federal sting operation go ahead. Sm doesn't stop it. I see soooo many models with taboo in their tags or blatantly on their profile. They don't care if you're making the money, and they'll just refer to their rules with, "well we told them we don't allow that" and wash their hands of it. Whatevs. Doesn't affect what I make.
There are things other models do and I have never done. And I still do ok. I think it's flipping hysterical when models come on here all mad at others because they were checking others out and they tell them to mind their own business. I guess they're afraid they won't be allowed to do what they've been getting away with?
My only hope is when I see models trying to make sm like mfc that they fall flat on their face with it. let's not train the crowd to expect raffle tickets mkay?!

Marina Starr
01-07-2016, 12:48 PM
Send the guys that want to see pussy in free chat my way. I have the best pussy online, cum find out why!
http://i158.photobucket.com/albums/t94/tsmelania/Big-Ang-anim_zpsf1da2832.gif (http://s158.photobucket.com/user/tsmelania/media/Big-Ang-anim_zpsf1da2832.gif.html)

Chellyinparadise
01-07-2016, 02:12 PM
When you feel fine and get ready to cam and get hit with the flu it feels like out of nowhere and have to log off and stay in bed. I was having a good week until yesterday now stuck in bed feeling like crap. But ill end this on a positive note, maybe now i wont have to worry about it this year and can work without being this sick again (fingers crossed)

SimoneGray
01-07-2016, 03:55 PM
If camming has taught me anything, it is STICK TO YOUR GUNS. Truly. Things going slowly? Don't lower your rates. Girls doing stupid shit for free? Keep making men pay for your goods. Why? Because not every month is bad on cam, but the last thing you want is a crowd of losers who you TRAINED to expect free/lower price shit from you when things are good. That in itself can make camming suck.

pippapippa
01-07-2016, 05:51 PM
Well, tonight sucks. Again. I think I'm going to end up pulling an all nighter.

Susperia
01-07-2016, 06:15 PM
Hope you feel better Chelly!

Ok, so I deactivated my twitter last night cuz I didn't feel like getting harrassed by that guy. I looked up his twitter today as a random person and I see that I'm not the only model he is harrassing on twitter. There are 6 other girls he is also harrassing for custom clips he thinks they messed up....should I out this fuckers name on here? Although I am relieved to know I am not his only target it still pisses me off and I want him to stop it and go away.

Chellyinparadise
01-07-2016, 07:03 PM
Hope you feel better Chelly!

Ok, so I deactivated my twitter last night cuz I didn't feel like getting harrassed by that guy. I looked up his twitter today as a random person and I see that I'm not the only model he is harrassing on twitter. There are 6 other girls he is also harrassing for custom clips he thinks they messed up....should I out this fuckers name on here? Although I am relieved to know I am not his only target it still pisses me off and I want him to stop it and go away.

Thanks i appreciate that alot, hugs. Sorry you are dealing with that. That sounds so stressful. Hope he leaves you alone.

Chellyinparadise
01-07-2016, 07:13 PM
Well, tonight sucks. Again. I think I'm going to end up pulling an all nighter.

Hope it turns around for you and you dont have to work all night.

TheBrownFox
01-07-2016, 08:46 PM
I always find it funny when guys do this. I'v seen it so many times where guys want a girl to remake a custom to his exact specifications, so he harasses her / leaves rude and negative ratings etc. But I always wonder like....WHY from the guys perspective, if he feels so aggrieved by the model, is he so hell bent on trying to get a remake? Like, if a customer and model are having a disagreement that can't be resolved, and he just badgers her into remaking the video eventually....what is he going to do.....hate watch it? Angrily jerk off to it?

This is my #1 pet peeve with content making. Being anxious if they're going to like a video or not, and having to deal with them later on down the road if they become possessive, creepy, annoying etc. I HATE having to block someone that has been a total douchebag, but they still have my content because it makes me paranoid. Uhg.

I wonder if some of the guys who do that are just full of shit, and just trying to get a free video out of the model (by pretending to be dissatisfied with the first one). Smh.

BadBitch
01-07-2016, 10:32 PM
^^^yeah it's bad enough when guys make our lives miserable but when other models due to it's 10 times worse. I never go in other models rooms but in this case maybe I should and report them. It feels like tattling but damn those are some dumb bitches. Or maybe I should just stay out of shit lol.

These models should know not to show their pussy in open.

If I see this, I contact support and report it.

I have been getting an increase in demand to see my pussy. I hardly ever get that. I usually just get "tits", "ass" or "feet". Yesterday alone, I had to explain to about 8 guys that we are not permitted to show pussy in free. Their response, "Well, (model name) is right now". These models are setting the wrong impression.

BadBitch
01-07-2016, 11:08 PM
Yeah, he's a scammer. Nothing wrong with warning other girls about him.

CharleyQuinn
01-07-2016, 11:28 PM
"What do you like to do in private?"

Get naked, get off and get money. Next question!

kortneykay
01-07-2016, 11:32 PM
I'm really starting to get sick of indy regulars stringing me along. If you want a show, be ready to pay for it when you message me. Yes, I'm not there 24/7 and I get it, but if we catch one another on and I'm ready and reply to your message, I'm expecting to do the show and be paid. It's that simple. Don't tell me you'll pre-book and don't follow through. And don't string me along and have me waiting 6-7 hours for you to "brb, don't go anywhere". If that dick isn't ready to fire off and shoot, get the fuck out of my range, heux.

MistressX
01-08-2016, 12:37 AM
Now I'm scared to get on! I've been away for about 2 weeks for the holidays and I've been putting off getting on. But now that I've decided to buy another hearse (#4.. what am I thinking?), I have to come up with the money in the next 3 weeks. I have a friend who is trying to buy the same car and he said he was going to try to have the money in the next week or 2 so hopefully he doesnt... But looking at all your posts it looks like its going to be really rough making this money! ughhh

missmercedes
01-08-2016, 02:00 AM
Wow, SM is absolutely killing me rn. the past 2 shifts I worked i've made literally nothing. 3 hrs on wed and 5 1/2 tonight. I was hyper, horny, got a new dildo (which I advertised) and my stream was looking better than usual tonight so I have no idea why it was soo terrible! Hope tmrw night is the shit....

SweetJulia
01-08-2016, 06:57 AM
These models should know not to show their pussy in open.

If I see this, I contact support and report it.

I have been getting an increase in demand to see my pussy. I hardly ever get that. I usually just get "tits", "ass" or "feet". Yesterday alone, I had to explain to about 8 guys that we are not permitted to show pussy in free. Their response, "Well, (model name) is right now". These models are setting the wrong impression.

Sometimes it's a glitch and girls get moved back to public chat mid......fiddling when a guys limit is reached. I've had it happen a few Times and gotten hate mail from girls. Cuz I totally love customers and would do it for free. PS-I know some girls do it in free, I just try to remember it's not my issue, just like if they do age play or public shows in a coffee shop. I'd prefer not to risk being banned or suspended.

seicento
01-08-2016, 08:51 AM
Pmsing .OMG OMG OMG how I hate it and how frustrated it makes me.And weak.I can`t get arsed to do anyting,I feel like shit and it`s pissing me off.Day off it is.

MinnieVicious
01-08-2016, 11:11 AM
Guys that come in private and the first thing they say is "Cum for me"...and usually those guys stay for 2 minutes max.

So rude!

sovereignv
01-08-2016, 11:14 AM
God damn, I fucking hate Windows 10. Why is it that every time you get a new computer you have to spend several hours just undoing all the automatic stupidity it comes bundled with by default?

anonymous camgirl
01-08-2016, 11:20 AM
Fucking PAYPAL SUCKS!.. I asked to have my account restored since 2005 and because I did cam shows from there back then they gave me limited access.. Wanted to use it to get paid for some work at home jobs .. fucking assholes.

this is what they said to me.


Thank you for contacting PayPal regarding using your PayPal account. Unfortunately, we are no longer willing to offer you PayPal services. I have forwarded you of a copy of an email we sent you in 2005 about your account being permanently limited. This is a permanent business decision.






Thank you for your time.


Yours sincerely,
Dezarae
PayPal

So I told them to close my account then .. and they can keep the fucking 16 cents I have on there because I will not put any of my current bank info on there... Told them even felons get a second chance.. Fucking assholes...lmao.. it's fucking absolutely ridiculous..

Warning to all of you who are accepting paypal from these cam guys.

hyori
01-08-2016, 11:26 AM
^^ There is nothing wrong with Paypal terms, they are entitled to do whatever they want since they are providing a service and unfortunately, they are not adult-friendly because of the financial risks and the fact that Paypal is trying to maintain a family-friendly image. If you want to take payment there are porn-friendly payment processors out there eg. LiveCamModelShows, SkyPrivate, and ModelCentro are just a few good ones.

You can even use MyFreeCams as a payment processor. Do your research and find out what works best for you.

anonymous camgirl
01-08-2016, 11:31 AM
This was back in 2005 I have NOT used it since then.. ... not recently.. But like I said I noticed I still had a paypal account and I was going to sign up for some work at home stuff so I sent them a message how to rectify my account from 11 yrs ago!.. that's what I am saying.. haven't used it since then!


^^ There is nothing wrong with Paypal terms, they are entitled to do whatever they want since they are providing a service and unfortunately, they are not adult-friendly because of the financial risks and the fact that Paypal is trying to maintain a family-friendly image. If you want to take payment there are porn-friendly payment processors out there eg. LiveCamModelShows, SkyPrivate, and ModelCentro are just a few good ones.

You can even use MyFreeCams as a payment processor. Do your research and find out what works best for you.

EllieGold
01-08-2016, 01:09 PM
this one video of me keeps making its way across the web. It finally is on youporn but here's the kicker. WHY do I need to provide my full legal name? Can't they find out who I am that way? Seems so ass backwards! Seriously, i have a rare last name and well, it's easy to find me. :( HELP.

anonymous camgirl
01-08-2016, 01:33 PM
I have been having a great year so far.. but I think that luck ran out.. lots of rude cheap obnoxious guys today...

sovereignv
01-08-2016, 06:51 PM
I thought getting a better hardware and being able to stream in proper HD would boost my traffic, but it hasn't really so far, hah. At least my stream looks beautiful and crystal clear - I can't stop looking at myself. Sounds like a lot of people are struggling right now so hopefully it's just the time of the year. Wait and hold out hope.

jackiebee
01-08-2016, 08:44 PM
I just bumped a thread for you about Mac users having probs w 720. I wasn't able to do it until I used CamTwist..and my Mac is also i5.... Read it and give it a try if you haven't already. My placement is back to normal now!

Thanks - I've tried that but although my placement improves (yay!) I get serious lag on my video versus my audio. Like, a full second or two. I think I don't have enough RAM? I'm on a 4GB memory machine, is yours the same?

sweetequila
01-08-2016, 09:10 PM
Is it me or there is a rush of freeloaders tonight on sm, stan up bb, see ass bb, show me xxxx and i take u to pvt............ i'm trying so hard to stay on

EllieGold
01-09-2016, 01:22 AM
26 in 2 hours. Could be worse, but seriously. i just want to be lazy in my new bed and watch netflix. pfft...Also, one of my regulars was holding out on pitching into my show because another model was doing a gold show. That should be a fucking instaban. Don't ever mention another model in my show, period.

TooNiceToHustle
01-09-2016, 02:46 AM
Grrr. Yesterday - no money. 0. Nada.
Today started well, exclusives, nice guys - got the $.
And then HE comes. Doms in prv (tough it says in my topic that I do that in excl.). Tells me to cuff my hands behind my back. When the cuffs won't latch he runs away, but rates 1 star before he goes.
Suddenly my roundtrip is 500 and I can't work. Grrr.

Is there any chance of removing that rating? Technically it's my fault 'cause I couldn't get the damned cuffs connected. All my other ratings are 5.

heyho
01-09-2016, 03:33 AM
^Yeah should be no problem, just email smsupport and ask to remove it because the guy got pissy over your cuffs not latching quickly enough. Totally dumb reason to rate you a 1. Since you don't habitually get low ratings, they won't think it was your fault. I've gotten a bunch of low ratings removed and never been refused.