View Full Version : The General Purpose "Camming Sucks Right Now" Thread
BadBitch
01-18-2016, 05:16 PM
Had a regular come in and say, "My wife is in the other room. Sound isn't on. Show me what position you want me to fuck you in and while you are on the bed, I'll go excl". I FUCKING LOST IT ON HIM. Since he had no sound, I looked right into the cam, gave him the middle finger and mouthed, "Fuck you". He then said, "I have taken you exclusive in the past. I don't get it". To which I feverishly typed, "Yes, which means you know to take me exclusive and not ask me to do things for you in free chat". To which he responded, "Whatever". I didn't have a chance to block him, but I have asked my rep to for me. FUCKING ASSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Serena-Shields
01-18-2016, 05:21 PM
Another fucking bitch advertising in my room! I'm not even a popular model on CB! I told the bitch to get the fuck out.
MsBellaSpanxx
01-18-2016, 07:50 PM
Another MickeyD day... making 75% less hourly than normal. Oh hell no. *logs off*
BadBitch
01-18-2016, 09:41 PM
Another MickeyD day... making 75% less hourly than normal. Oh hell no. *logs off*
Today fucking BLEW!!!!
BadBitch
01-18-2016, 09:45 PM
Another fucking bitch advertising in my room! I'm not even a popular model on CB! I told the bitch to get the fuck out.
Aw hell naw!!! Go march right in there and tell her what's up!!!
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sovereignv
01-18-2016, 09:55 PM
When guys come into my room and complain that it's slow... bitch, I KNOW it's slow.
BadBitch
01-18-2016, 10:00 PM
When guys come into my room and complain that it's slow... bitch, I KNOW it's slow.
Aww, poor babies are bored and models are too busy hustling to listen to the guys' stories??? Aw, poor babies.
BadBitch
01-18-2016, 10:09 PM
below the waist nudity. I've reported this account before in the past, but here it is again. Doesn't SM support monitor this crap?
i covered bad parts and name to protect back-lashing against any models. THIS HAS GOT TO STOP. Nothing will ever get done if people don't keep reporting the ones who don't follow the rules. The rules are there for a reason and I always stand up to the code of conduct SM asks for. When i paid more attention to it, I think I would find about 1 model a week doing the same thing. I attached the link to the photo so it wouldn't display openly in here.
http://i.imgur.com/WRl7iC9.jpg
Then she'll wonder why she didn't reach her goal. I report this shit immediately. I reported one last week.
MsJess
01-18-2016, 10:41 PM
I've seriously HAD IT today with these fuckers! I'M SO FUCKING ANGRY RIGHT NOW. I'VE SAT THROUGH COUNTLESS GOLD SHOW COUNTDOWNS THEN HAVE PEOPLE ASKING TO SEE A NIPPLE. ONE FUCKING NIPPLE. ONE. ONE NIPPLE. REALLY?????
i feel you :( i didn't got angry though, fuck i just got real sad, this gold shows suck, they are not my thing i think... only 2 pledgers into a $3 gold show? fuck cry cry :'( had to taje a break :(
nattyfetish
01-19-2016, 06:26 AM
wtf...WTF, WHAT THE FUCK ??????????!!!!!!!!!! And with that i said it all.
Chellyinparadise
01-19-2016, 03:52 PM
Had a regular come in and say, "My wife is in the other room. Sound isn't on. Show me what position you want me to fuck you in and while you are on the bed, I'll go excl". I FUCKING LOST IT ON HIM. Since he had no sound, I looked right into the cam, gave him the middle finger and mouthed, "Fuck you". He then said, "I have taken you exclusive in the past. I don't get it". To which I feverishly typed, "Yes, which means you know to take me exclusive and not ask me to do things for you in free chat". To which he responded, "Whatever". I didn't have a chance to block him, but I have asked my rep to for me. FUCKING ASSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Another asshole who feels entitled to get something free because he spent in the past.. he got what he paid for. Some men are ridiculous.
CocoaCaramelBBW
01-19-2016, 04:30 PM
I think it's official. After finally getting my settings right on encoder,mic pitch right,check for lag..only a sec and half.I need to try a new shift to see what happens. I gave daytime a shot.I need more than 8 dollars for six fucking hours.22 if i count both sites today.Im getting discouraged,im not even high,im 4.89 private/5.99 excl.The other day i way psyched,now im feeling down.im not going to give up of course,but i feel close to tears esp when i see in the camming rocks thread girls making 2,3,400 and up within an hour or two.too nice to these guys,talking too long, i feel it.Im having problems knowing when to kick out on hopes that i may build a reg. this is just my second week so im not insanely popular but i have plenty of visitors. Im naturally sweet natured but i want to be harder but dont know how to pull it off without going overboard. Le Sigh.
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PhatGirlDynomite!!!
01-19-2016, 04:53 PM
I think it's official. After finally getting my settings right on encoder,mic pitch right,check for lag..only a sec and half.I need to try a new shift to see what happens. I gave daytime a shot.I need more than 8 dollars for six fucking hours.22 if i count both sites today.Im getting discouraged,im not even high,im 4.89 private/5.99 excl.The other day i way psyched,now im feeling down.im not going to give up of course,but i feel close to tears esp when i see in the camming rocks thread girls making 2,3,400 and up within an hour or two.too nice to these guys,talking too long, i feel it.Im having problems knowing when to kick out on hopes that i may build a reg. this is just my second week so im not insanely popular but i have plenty of visitors. Im naturally sweet natured but i want to be harder but dont know how to pull it off without going overboard. Le Sigh.
44015
You just started. And very few people do this and have immediate success. Make sure your equipment is up to par. How clear is your stream? I know what you mean about being sweet natured. I look sweet and bubbly until you get in my way. Then I'll cut a bitch. Most never see it coming. So what I suggest is to keep smiling while silently kicking and banning them. Right in the middle of a conversation. They know they're supposed to tip. THEY KNOW. So when they come back every day and dont tip but tell you how good you look "Damn baby you soooo *POOF*" If he comes back and ask what that was about then sweetly say Can I have five gold please? You dont need to explain why, he knows why. They all know. Sweet and Assertive. You don't owe them anything. Just keep a smile on your face when you ban them so that the other guys watching dont get discouraged. Be patient and get your equipment up. Guys who arent in the room are watching you. And they will learn how you run your room and act accordingly when finally do enter.
jculp90
01-19-2016, 04:54 PM
I think it's official. After finally getting my settings right on encoder,mic pitch right,check for lag..only a sec and half.I need to try a new shift to see what happens. I gave daytime a shot.I need more than 8 dollars for six fucking hours.22 if i count both sites today.Im getting discouraged,im not even high,im 4.89 private/5.99 excl.The other day i way psyched,now im feeling down.im not going to give up of course,but i feel close to tears esp when i see in the camming rocks thread girls making 2,3,400 and up within an hour or two.too nice to these guys,talking too long, i feel it.Im having problems knowing when to kick out on hopes that i may build a reg. this is just my second week so im not insanely popular but i have plenty of visitors. Im naturally sweet natured but i want to be harder but dont know how to pull it off without going overboard. Le Sigh.
44015
being new is hard don't give up! me personally I still don't have much luck on any bigbox sites but do decent on the indy ones. you just have to find what works for you, it has taken me 3 years of camming on and off to finally get into a somewhat good hourly rate in my opinion.
Susperia
01-19-2016, 05:01 PM
I think it's official. After finally getting my settings right on encoder,mic pitch right,check for lag..only a sec and half.I need to try a new shift to see what happens. I gave daytime a shot.I need more than 8 dollars for six fucking hours.22 if i count both sites today.Im getting discouraged,im not even high,im 4.89 private/5.99 excl.The other day i way psyched,now im feeling down.im not going to give up of course,but i feel close to tears esp when i see in the camming rocks thread girls making 2,3,400 and up within an hour or two.too nice to these guys,talking too long, i feel it.Im having problems knowing when to kick out on hopes that i may build a reg. this is just my second week so im not insanely popular but i have plenty of visitors. Im naturally sweet natured but i want to be harder but dont know how to pull it off without going overboard. Le Sigh.
44015
Hang in there, you just gotta build up your regulars. When I started I had lower prices for my privates and exclusives. I'm not saying that is the issue but maybe try playing with different prices and see what happens. I started out low and once I gained more popularity I started raising them. I didn't make that much my first week, so I wouldn't be too worried about it. You just gotta give it time and a regular schedule so you can build up your following. Good luck sweetie!
Susperia
01-19-2016, 05:05 PM
BTW camming sucked today. There was a total lag and I made only $18 this afternoon. I didn't give it much time though, I couldn't stand it, it was sucking, bunch of newbs, bunch of begging and some asshole rated me a 3 after saying how much fun he had and how awesome he thought I was. I'm giving up for today, its my hubby's bday so I'm gonna spend the day with him.
SuperPookie
01-19-2016, 05:27 PM
I made 22 dollars in 6 hours on Streamate wtf. I did get Skype shows thank God so I still made a 100 bucks but still. That extra 22 wasn't worth being trapped staring at mu cam all day
bellestocking
01-19-2016, 06:28 PM
When after a day of near-constant disconnection, you are finally on a roll and have a mere 30 seconds left in your goldshow and your streaming privileges get disabled because your ID just expired.
CocoaCaramelBBW
01-19-2016, 06:36 PM
You just started. And very few people do this and have immediate success. Make sure your equipment is up to par. How clear is your stream? I know what you mean about being sweet natured. I look sweet and bubbly until you get in my way. Then I'll cut a bitch. Most never see it coming. So what I suggest is to keep smiling while silently kicking and banning them. Right in the middle of a conversation. They know they're supposed to tip. THEY KNOW. So when they come back every day and dont tip but tell you how good you look "Damn baby you soooo *POOF*" If he comes back and ask what that was about then sweetly say Can I have five gold please? You dont need to explain why, he knows why. They all know. Sweet and Assertive. You don't owe them anything. Just keep a smile on your face when you ban them so that the other guys watching dont get discouraged. Be patient and get your equipment up. Guys who arent in the room are watching you. And they will learn how you run your room and act accordingly when finally do enter.
Thanks Phat Girl, my stream is loads betters since i figured out how to set up the encoder instead of using the legacy settings. Ive actually been doing the "smiling tiger" surprise boot/can i haz 5 gold a few days now.results have been random lol
CocoaCaramelBBW
01-19-2016, 06:39 PM
being new is hard don't give up! me personally I still don't have much luck on any bigbox sites but do decent on the indy ones. you just have to find what works for you, it has taken me 3 years of camming on and off to finally get into a somewhat good hourly rate in my opinion.
Im working on trying to get indy custies too lol. ive eally hit the ground running on this thing.reading sw befoe i got started has been a huge help,and i still take time to ead everyday.even if its just to see the vets get their cam on,you guys are like the sifus and im the young student trying to learn the kung fu of camming lol
CocoaCaramelBBW
01-19-2016, 06:41 PM
Hang in there, you just gotta build up your regulars. When I started I had lower prices for my privates and exclusives. I'm not saying that is the issue but maybe try playing with different prices and see what happens. I started out low and once I gained more popularity I started raising them. I didn't make that much my first week, so I wouldn't be too worried about it. You just gotta give it time and a regular schedule so you can build up your following. Good luck sweetie!
yeah i just shifted my price on privates the other day,not by much tho lol.maybe ima have to rethink that to get it going anyway.thank you! once i figure out multi quote ill be golden lol
MsJess
01-19-2016, 07:29 PM
I think it's official. After finally getting my settings right on encoder,mic pitch right,check for lag..only a sec and half.I need to try a new shift to see what happens. I gave daytime a shot.I need more than 8 dollars for six fucking hours.22 if i count both sites today.Im getting discouraged,im not even high,im 4.89 private/5.99 excl.The other day i way psyched,now im feeling down.im not going to give up of course,but i feel close to tears esp when i see in the camming rocks thread girls making 2,3,400 and up within an hour or two.too nice to these guys,talking too long, i feel it.Im having problems knowing when to kick out on hopes that i may build a reg. this is just my second week so im not insanely popular but i have plenty of visitors. Im naturally sweet natured but i want to be harder but dont know how to pull it off without going overboard. Le Sigh.
44015
It takes time honey! i started in november again on streamate after a LONG break, when i got back and started a new account it was SLOW as hell, i even teared, but i kept on logging in, i did start with the basic prices $2.99 pvt and $3.99 excl. with those prices, i got alot of exposure, both cheap and good guys, the good ones, took me private and became my regulars buying long sessions with no discount, some did with block sessions, after a while of putting on a great show, taking care of them, remembering their names, what they like etc., i raised my prices up to $3.99 pvt and $4.99 excl, no body complained and i keep on upping my rates and getting more and more regulars and being favorited. Its a process, i know we all would love to charge $6.99/.799 or more right off the start, but i think is not that good (for me at least), becouse those guys (the big spenders) have already played with tons of beautiful girls that they know they are good and they don't know we are also good enough to spend some bucks or big bucks on us. I think that's why i am not so very popular with Gold Shows, i think i have to keep on trying with small goals until i make a fan base and the guys who will chip in the future will do it inmediately becouse they know i am good and fun and they wont make me wait and hopefully will tell the other guys that my show is fun even if they don't know me and chip in... think about it hon, there's alot of ways to hustle, try to find yours :)
One more thing, i know that the camming rocks right now thread can be inspiring sometimes, i do find it inspiring, but sometimes, when is slow for us, is great for any other girl, and when is great for us, is slow for other, so try to not focus on this threads so much and think that we should be banking $400 a night, those girls make it becouse they hustle hard and have a great fan base that they build up for months and years of hard work, let's work on this and soon we will be posting those numbers there :)
Good luck <3
CocoaCaramelBBW
01-19-2016, 08:05 PM
It takes time honey! i started in november again on streamate after a LONG break, when i got back and started a new account it was SLOW as hell, i even teared, but i kept on logging in, i did start with the basic prices $2.99 pvt and $3.99 excl. with those prices, i got alot of exposure, both cheap and good guys, the good ones, took me private and became my regulars buying long sessions with no discount, some did with block sessions, after a while of putting on a great show, taking care of them, remembering their names, what they like etc., i raised my prices up to $3.99 pvt and $4.99 excl, no body complained and i keep on upping my rates and getting more and more regulars and being favorited. Its a process, i know we all would love to charge $6.99/.799 or more right off the start, but i think is not that good (for me at least), becouse those guys (the big spenders) have already played with tons of beautiful girls that they know they are good and they don't know we are also good enough to spend some bucks or big bucks on us. I think that's why i am not so very popular with Gold Shows, i think i have to keep on trying with small goals until i make a fan base and the guys who will chip in the future will do it inmediately becouse they know i am good and fun and they wont make me wait and hopefully will tell the other guys that my show is fun even if they don't know me and chip in... think about it hon, there's alot of ways to hustle, try to find yours :)
One more thing, i know that the camming rocks right now thread can be inspiring sometimes, i do find it inspiring, but sometimes, when is slow for us, is great for any other girl, and when is great for us, is slow for other, so try to not focus on this threads so much and think that we should be banking $400 a night, those girls make it becouse they hustle hard and have a great fan base that they build up for months and years of hard work, let's work on this and soon we will be posting those numbers there :)
Good luck <3
Thank you Ms Jess! Im so glad i found stripperweb before i started! you girls are sooo supportive,even when you dont have to be. After reading all the responses, and taking inventory of my prices and truthfully looking at my setup,Im going to start my next shift with fresh eyes and renewed commitment to myself and my goals. My husband said if it doesnt work out,there are other avenues. I told him not working out is not an option! Im 34 yrs old, ive done the jobs i wanted to do and they were fun, but i love the idea of working for myself and shameless self promotion. i also said, my ass is all over the internet now may as well make it count for something lol.
heyho
01-19-2016, 08:28 PM
^equipment aside, remember that on SM you have tags and comments and ratings, these are all things guys look at when wondering if you're worth spending on. Starting out, when you aren't "proven"/established yet, I can imagine 4.89 would be a hard sell if you don't have approving comments or great tags to show that you give a DAMN GOOD PVT. Spend a couple weeks at 3.99 and encourage every guy in private to leave you a positive tag or comment and rate you 5 stars. When you've built up a nice stable of proven male approval, guys will be much more willing to spend big bucks on you because those other guys said you're worth it.
FreakyFranky
01-19-2016, 08:29 PM
Thumbs down to today. Like most days for me. When does this vicious cycle end?! I just want some damn traffic!
BadBitch
01-19-2016, 10:05 PM
I stay far away from the Camming Rocks thread. I can't read it. I will be in tears.
I changed up my demeanor today. I smiled the entire time while hating the beggars. I freaked out my regs by how nice I was to trolls. I silently ejected and banned. It actually felt good to be this way. Not giving into the trolls or beggars really felt good!
pippapippa
01-20-2016, 12:13 AM
Had massive technical issues (on my side) all night. I managed to actually cam for about an hour and made $34. Ugh.
SM is awful lately, traffic wise & money wise, dont think i saw it like this for the +5 years i cam there, i just dont get it, they paid that high bonuses in november/ december contest prizes to come to this dead SM now right after holidays, they could have invested in whatever was needed to fix the site or pay for traffic now.
This situation must hurt many models on site now, some wont talk about it while some complain but i know for a fact IT'S REALLY BAD for many of us there, cant be only me.
I really hope things pick up soon, really hoping this...
sovereignv
01-20-2016, 02:40 PM
My living situation right now is fucking horrible. One of the girls I live with is having an acute psychotic episode and it's affecting everyone in the house. I'm like kind of crazy too but I can keep it under control when I'm not under too much stress and normally I'm fine but at the moment I just can't cope very well. Last night we had a fight that erupted in me throwing a frying pan at the wall and her chasing me into the hallway and holding me down while I screamed at her to let me go for like two minutes. But like we can't just throw her out and I can't move out either unless I find someone to take my room and with camming etc it's difficult to find a living situation that would allow me to do my job on a short notice, especially because I don't have a lot of money. Actually I really don't want to leave, I want her to leave, but where would she go? I've been doing so well recently mentally but I'm at the point where I'm like staring at the wall and mumbling and barely able to get out of bed. I was gonna work a shift last night but after our fight I couldn't find it in me to do anything, I just cried for like an hour and spent the rest of the night on my computer, scrolling, scrolling, scrolling like a vegetable.
I don't know how I'm supposed to do anything when I'm like this, plus the other night I was on for 7 hours and made $20. But still, I must work.
Chellyinparadise
01-20-2016, 03:32 PM
My living situation right now is fucking horrible. One of the girls I live with is having an acute psychotic episode and it's affecting everyone in the house. I'm like kind of crazy too but I can keep it under control when I'm not under too much stress and normally I'm fine but at the moment I just can't cope very well. Last night we had a fight that erupted in me throwing a frying pan at the wall and her chasing me into the hallway and holding me down while I screamed at her to let me go for like two minutes. But like we can't just throw her out and I can't move out either unless I find someone to take my room and with camming etc it's difficult to find a living situation that would allow me to do my job on a short notice, especially because I don't have a lot of money. Actually I really don't want to leave, I want her to leave, but where would she go? I've been doing so well recently mentally but I'm at the point where I'm like staring at the wall and mumbling and barely able to get out of bed. I was gonna work a shift last night but after our fight I couldn't find it in me to do anything, I just cried for like an hour and spent the rest of the night on my computer, scrolling, scrolling, scrolling like a vegetable.
I don't know how I'm supposed to do anything when I'm like this, plus the other night I was on for 7 hours and made $20. But still, I must work.
Sorry you are feeling that way and going through that, living with people is so hard. I hope that things ease up for you and you can feel better. Hope you find a resolution to it all. Sometimes you have to not be concerned about her its hard i know but if you will be much happier without her there and shes not willing to help change the situation and ease the stress then maybe she needs to go. You shouldnt have to be forced to do anything thats not for your best interest. Hope cam picks up for you as well. It seems when things are hard everything happens at once and it can weigh down heavily on you. Wishing for a positive outcome for you no matter what you decide. Your happiness is worth it. Hugs
sovereignv
01-20-2016, 04:13 PM
Thank you for your kind words.
CocoaCaramelBBW
01-20-2016, 05:35 PM
^equipment aside, remember that on SM you have tags and comments and ratings, these are all things guys look at when wondering if you're worth spending on. Starting out, when you aren't "proven"/established yet, I can imagine 4.89 would be a hard sell if you don't have approving comments or great tags to show that you give a DAMN GOOD PVT. Spend a couple weeks at 3.99 and encourage every guy in private to leave you a positive tag or comment and rate you 5 stars. When you've built up a nice stable of proven male approval, guys will be much more willing to spend big bucks on you because those other guys said you're worth it.
Yeah heyho, I've been getting 5 stars but no one comments or tags even when i remind them! matter of fact i know that's part of my problem,because i'l see the new rating,but no tags or anything. but im getting on tonight,with my new price and new schedule maybe something will shake.i am not going to waste my new girl status at all, it will not be from lack of trying,im gonna keep pushing and find my place.
Chellyinparadise
01-20-2016, 05:45 PM
Thank you for your kind words.
You are welcome anytime, hope it gets better for you.
webcamcutie
01-20-2016, 05:52 PM
^^ Be consistent, build a fan base, get regulars while you're in the new girl status. regulars generally become 70-80% of your income. Use the notes after sessions so you can remember your sessions and remember details about them, guys LOVE that. It'll all come together. I've been on SM over 5 years and still have those shitty barely over minimum wage days, happens to all of us, established or not, I definitely feel it when my reg custies aren't around. Don't let it get you down, hard work, consistency and all that pays off in the end. Some weeks are better than others, some days are better than others, some hours are better than others. At the end of the week, or month, etc, re-evaluate everything and see how you are doing and how it is all coming together... You really need to look at the bigger picture over all and not a day by day basis. Good luck! You'll do great :)
bigbootyjudy1
01-21-2016, 11:02 AM
Camming sucks cock right now cuz i just got braces and my mouth is fucking killin me.NOt to mention freeloaderville this whole FUCKING WEEK.I just want to bite all these losers dick off with my metal mouth.chomp chomp muthafuckers!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Just curious how long you guys stay off when it's sucking. Do you go 10 min or an hour? I'll hit a great 1/2 hour and then it's dead. It feels dead, but I don't want to leave prematurely. Staying on kills you daily % in paid. One day I caught myself checking every 1/2 hour. I couldn't make any $ or get anything done. These past 2 weeks waiting for something to happen is killing my mood. I don't want to log on or stay on. It's beyond boring most days.
hyori
01-21-2016, 11:07 AM
Just add more sites. The bigger the net, the more fish you can catch.
Chellyinparadise
01-21-2016, 12:43 PM
Some of you know my situation and i am so sick of people and society that thinks that women should keep their mouths shut and not have an opinion or say anything to defend themselves. My choices are for the best for me, not for anyone else if it benefits others so be it but im tired of everyone having an opinion and telling me what i should do with my life and worst yet being blamed for things going wrong with theirs, the thing is whatever i do with my life isnt your problem so why make it that way and blame me because i stand up for myself and dont live how you think i should. People have and continue to treat me poorly but not to the man who hurt me, hes a king to some pisses me off. I am so glad i am strong now and can stand up for what i believe in and for what i think is right, why dont others focus on their own lives and leave me the hell alone with it all. I dont and wont back down for what i think is best for me whether anyone likes it or not, sorry just had to rant, so pissed off with this. Im glad i can vent here haha
TheBrownFox
01-21-2016, 04:10 PM
You know what's amusing about this type of behavior? That the majority of the men make us wait until the last minute to tip in for the GS, YET, they want their vids YESTERDAY. Fuck that. I tell them that they will get them by the end of the day. Fuck you for making ME wait. How's it feel, asshole?
Haha, his name is Jeff. I've been involved with two different guys named Jeff, and both of them were lying assholes.
sovereignv
01-21-2016, 04:20 PM
I'm sick of guys who say they want "to be dominated", absolutely refuse to say what kind of domination they're looking for, and balk once I start going. A guy did this today and rated me 1 star. Fuck you! I can't read your mind.
Chelly: I don't know your situation really so I'm sorry if I'm stepping out of line here. Unfortunately in a lot of situations where abuse happens people refuse to believe that anyone they know and care about/respect could be an abuser, because they don't see that side of them, so they don't treat abused people with much respect. You getting out of that situation was the best possible thing you could do for yourself, sadly a lot of people never manage to do that. I wish you best of luck in resolving this.
Chellyinparadise
01-21-2016, 04:51 PM
I'm sick of guys who say they want "to be dominated", absolutely refuse to say what kind of domination they're looking for, and balk once I start going. A guy did this today and rated me 1 star. Fuck you! I can't read your mind.
Chelly: I don't know your situation really so I'm sorry if I'm stepping out of line here. Unfortunately in a lot of situations where abuse happens people refuse to believe that anyone they know and care about/respect could be an abuser, because they don't see that side of them, so they don't treat abused people with much respect. You getting out of that situation was the best possible thing you could do for yourself, sadly a lot of people never manage to do that. I wish you best of luck in resolving this.
Thanks i appreciate your reply. Youre not stepping out of line. I am seeing it first hand everyone thinks hes such a great guy but thats why noone believes me when i finally stood up for myself. I have set people straight and refuse to let them bring me down had enough of that.Yea i am fortunate to have made it out alive and im still fighting with him but i am not ever going back. Right now i live day by day because i never know what will happen tomorrow much more appreciative for life ill tell you that. I am much happier alone than with him. Thanks for the support, i appreciate it alot. Hugs
Marina Starr
01-21-2016, 05:24 PM
People can be quite disappointing, aren't they?
44028
Thanks i appreciate your reply. Youre not stepping out of line. I am seeing it first hand everyone thinks hes such a great guy but thats why noone believes me when i finally stood up for myself. I have set people straight and refuse to let them bring me down had enough of that.Yea i am fortunate to have made it out alive and im still fighting with him but i am not ever going back. Right now i live day by day because i never know what will happen tomorrow much more appreciative for life ill tell you that. I am much happier alone than with him. Thanks for the support, i appreciate it alot. Hugs
Chellyinparadise
01-21-2016, 05:55 PM
People can be quite disappointing, aren't they?
44028
Yes so true! Love the gif.
BambiCutie
01-21-2016, 08:36 PM
Topic: (Type Only)
Blah: "Okay I have no clue what you saying bb"
Blah: "You are such a bad kitten something wrong with ur sound. Can you stand up then we go private." (Topic: Type)
-Boot-
Blah: "Hey bb, I sorry was bad."
Meh: "Thats okay"
Blah: "Why can't I hear you?"
Blah: "Sexy bb, you a bad kitten? Since its my birthday will you give me something for free?"
Blah: I can't hear you!
Blah: "You're boring"
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http://i1378.photobucket.com/albums/ah93/princessbambicutie/53316cec742c35b45969240684b42d5a_zpswrnb6w2l.gif
CocoaCaramelBBW
01-21-2016, 08:39 PM
Blah: "Okay I have no clue what you saying bb"
Blah: "You are such a bad kitten something wrong with ur sound. Can you stand up then we go private." (Topic: Type)
-Boot-
Blah: "Hey bb, I sorry was bad."
Meh: "Thats okay"
Blah: "Why can't I hear you?"
Blah: "Sexy bb, you a bad kitten? Since its my birthday will you give me something for free?"
Blah: I can't heart you!
Blah: "You're boring"
...
http://i1378.photobucket.com/albums/ah93/princessbambicutie/53316cec742c35b45969240684b42d5a_zpswrnb6w2l.gif
LOL love the gif
Femmestudent
01-21-2016, 08:52 PM
WTF is with all this meet me bb? traffic?!?!?!?!
I can deal with some of it, but today literally all of it is that and none of it at all convertible, I would know I am trying to. These dudes are dumb and cheap which is a very bad combo.
FreakyFranky
01-21-2016, 09:36 PM
^^^ Agreed, lots of people wanting to meet, none that want to actually spend... wtf?
FreakyFranky
01-21-2016, 09:38 PM
Dudes that HAVE THE MONEY (I can see it on their account, wtf!) chatting with you and then saying, YES, BB I just came, ty! Bye! And dipping.... wtf? You're a VIP MEMBER on IMlive, I can SEE that you have credit and obviously have spent quite a bit and you're jacking for free in my room? And I'm NOT SUPPOSED TO BE ANGRY!? Especially when I've made NOTHING today?! UGHHHHHHHHHHHH. *rips hair out*
sovereignv
01-22-2016, 06:22 AM
The fact that the random 1 star rating I received yesterday bumped me down to 4.79 stars... oy vey. Support haven't responded yet but I REALLY hope they remove it.
BambiCutie
01-22-2016, 06:54 AM
Yesterday some fucking snail came into my room and left a 4 star rating before the session even started and said "brb having problems" hope he experiences the worst toe stub of his life..
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a3GR9RxdM5Q