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SoloDesire
01-27-2016, 01:07 PM
6 sites and $17 bucks later in 2 hours.. uggh

This makes me glad I took the day off. I've been camming less and less lately...it just doesn't pay to sit on cam all day anymore.

sexkitten_666
01-27-2016, 01:12 PM
come on streamate... you gotta try a little harder here.. really??

Stevie710
01-27-2016, 03:23 PM
It's been like pulling teeth this week for me.. Last night I stayed on for 4 hours and did $15... Today, I've been on for about 2 hours and I've done a whole dollar... I'm about to log off and take a break.. I just wanna repeatedly throw myself into a wall I'm so frusrtated. I also took a few days off and dyed my hair... so I guess the change in color has affected my money.. and not to mention, I lost my iphone and so now I can't snapchat my regulars because I had to get a cheap phone that doesn't have snap chat

MsBellaSpanxx
01-27-2016, 04:09 PM
Camming sucks because today I found out I got outed by an ex-co-worker. He's been sending some fucking terrible capped goldshow clip that was on a god-forsaken tubesite to pretty much everyone I worked used to work with. I am BEYOND pissed. I am not ashamed of what I do by any means, but this is having a direct impact on my sanity (ie having to have the "yes, I'm a camgirl" conversation with people who I opted to not share this information with in the first place. If anything I am learning who my real friends are, but I am totally freaked that this will leak on an even greater scale and affect my life and current vanilla job. Not to mention the literal security threat of having your name and stage name leaked as a sex worker. I feel so vulnerable right now. Like this is a bad dream.

I have always known this was a risk to camming, but I have never been so aggressively outed before. I want to break this fuck-boi's neck. No joke. No way I am camming tonight.

Marina Starr
01-27-2016, 04:16 PM
I'm sorry you got outed. That's a terrible thing to do to another person. You are proud of what you do but you still want your privacy. That's legit! Please stay strong and remember this too shall pass!

Camming sucks because today I found out I got outed by an ex-co-worker. He's been sending some fucking terrible capped goldshow clip that was on a god-forsaken tubesite to pretty much everyone I worked used to work with. I am BEYOND pissed. I am not ashamed of what I do by any means, but this is having a direct impact on my sanity (ie having to have the "yes, I'm a camgirl" conversation with people who I opted to not share this information with in the first place. If anything I am learning who my real friends are, but I am totally freaked that this will leak on an even greater scale and affect my life and current vanilla job. Not to mention the literal security threat of having your name and stage name leaked as a sex worker. I feel so vulnerable right now. Like this is a bad dream.

I have always known this was a risk to camming, but I have never been so aggressively outed before. I want to break this fuck-boi's neck. No joke. No way I am camming tonight.

missmercedes
01-27-2016, 04:22 PM
Took some days off for my bday and returned to a whopping $5 last nite after about 2 hrs work. not to mention My bf and i stayed at a romantic getaway hotel this wknd and now I have a pinched nerve in my neck (lol..wonder what happened there) so those 2 hrs made me wanna die afterwards, my neck was soo stiff. I'm scared to get on tonight with how popping this thread is, but probably still log on for a bit..

bigbootyjudy1
01-27-2016, 05:20 PM
Camming sucks because today I found out I got outed by an ex-co-worker. He's been sending some fucking terrible capped goldshow clip that was on a god-forsaken tubesite to pretty much everyone I worked used to work with. I am BEYOND pissed. I am not ashamed of what I do by any means, but this is having a direct impact on my sanity (ie having to have the "yes, I'm a camgirl" conversation with people who I opted to not share this information with in the first place. If anything I am learning who my real friends are, but I am totally freaked that this will leak on an even greater scale and affect my life and current vanilla job. Not to mention the literal security threat of having your name and stage name leaked as a sex worker. I feel so vulnerable right now. Like this is a bad dream.

I have always known this was a risk to camming, but I have never been so aggressively outed before. I want to break this fuck-boi's neck. No joke. No way I am camming tonight.


Ive been outed to family and friends before and that shit is the worst .Fuck that motherfucker, don't let him stop your naked hustle.The show must go on.

MsBellaSpanxx
01-27-2016, 07:49 PM
Ive been outed to family and friends before and that shit is the worst .Fuck that motherfucker, don't let him stop your naked hustle.The show must go on.


I'm sorry you got outed. That's a terrible thing to do to another person. You are proud of what you do but you still want your privacy. That's legit! Please stay strong and remember this too shall pass!

Thanks for your support. You're right. I'm gonna hustle on.
It really does help to be able to vent to someone who actually gets it. My friends who know are lovely and supportive about it, but they just don't "get" it. Big hugs to you both.

Marina Starr
01-27-2016, 07:53 PM
I'm curious, is your ex-co-worker gay?!

Thanks for your support. You're right. I'm gonna hustle on.
It really does help to be able to vent to someone who actually gets it. My friends who know are lovely and supportive about it, but they just don't "get" it. Big hugs to you both.

MsBellaSpanxx
01-27-2016, 08:01 PM
No... not that I know of. ;) Why do you ask? :)

Marina Starr
01-27-2016, 08:08 PM
I'm asking because I've been outed many times and they were always done by gay men. That's why I was curious if your ex-co-worker was gay. I love my gays but a lot of them hate Transsexual and can be quite diabolical. BUT most straight men aren't that bad either. When they gossip, they really do it for the cause and effect.

No... not that I know of. ;) Why do you ask? :)

FreakyFranky
01-27-2016, 09:00 PM
So sorry you got outed... I have been outed not once, but twice by two different 'groups' of people in my life, but in both situations it spread to my family, so I really feel your pain, that's a terrible thing to go through, but you also have to put yourself before all of that embarrassment and just own it all day long, no matter how exhausting it is. Just remember: While that bitch was busy running their mouth, concerned about what YOURE doing, you were busy gettin that money! So who's REALLY on top in this situation? Maybe this co-worker should focus on themselves and make their own money instead of being worried about you. Stay strong!

aven
01-27-2016, 11:27 PM
caming sucks tonight because sm is driving me to drink.... it so slow its almost funny...oh yeah I have been discounted 3x once in a ptvs.

I am just going to keep working and pretend like nothing is wrong. fake till you make it.

SamanthaSugar
01-27-2016, 11:52 PM
Camming sucks when some twit decides that after they took you on a lengthy private they now want their money back and hits you with a chargeback!! I hope the FuckTard gets hit by a Double Decker Bus!! Chargebacks are so unfair :(

EllieGold
01-27-2016, 11:55 PM
A guy in free chat today had the audacity to tell me my attitude is the reason men are so cheap, rude, mean, crude. Ok dude whatever. Go get your ass on the interwebs, get naked and shove a dildo up your asshole for all I fucking care. Bet you'll have a wonderful attitude then. i just can't handle stupid tonight. Some nights I know SM will just die someday... tick tock tick tock.

lisasantini
01-28-2016, 12:55 AM
I had a really good day on MFC last week, made the highest room count I ever had, didn't log on for a few days and for the last two days can't even fill my room past 20 people. Majority guests! It is stressing me the hell out.

sovereignv
01-28-2016, 07:20 AM
Haha, I'm getting so tired of the guys asking for a "honest opinion" on their cock and then leaving when I don't flatter them. If you come to a dom and ask for a honest opinion, it's probably not going to be that nice. I even give them an out by going "so do you want me to be nice?" but they never take it.

I'm actually not that keen on making dudes feel bad about their dicks if they're not after it - the truth is I'm completely indifferent to the cocks of the guys I cam with. But I'm definitely not going to flatter them either...

QueenBitch
01-28-2016, 09:59 AM
I got bearded dragons not too long ago and my cats don't really bother them anymore, but now they're the absolute worst when I ban them from my bedroom (the beardies are in here and I also cam from this room). clawing at the door, crying as if they haven't had food in decades, actually succeeding in opening the door... I'm gonna lose my mind

MsBellaSpanxx
01-28-2016, 10:25 AM
Interesting! No, this guy is more of a "bro"/PUA frat-boy type of guy. You know those entitled fucks? That's him.

But yeah, I feel better today and I am gonna get back to my hustle tonight and suck all the wallets dry.

Glamourmilf
01-28-2016, 11:07 AM
HOLY JESUS is it a full moon or some shit tonight? I think I had every troll and obsessive creep on the internet in my room.
:bullwhip:

Not only a full moon (when u wrote this), but Mercury was still in Retrograde.
It's all over now, so camming shouldn't suck as bad.
EXcept for Sunday, Feb. 7- Superbowl Sunday. This thread should be locked on that day. Lol!

LaylaLovely
01-28-2016, 12:15 PM
Wow logged on and dead.....guys are like smile .... Hardest forced smile ever .. I rather keep my bitch face on ...ughhh why????? I really need today!!!!

Mare
01-28-2016, 12:33 PM
Is there a positivity thread? I could use one like yesterday. So I'm guessing MLK day and the NFL playoffs and rent week coming up on top of Probowl this week and superbowl plus valentines day leave jack shit for us. Ready to jump. Man overboard. I bet I could light myself on fire as a gold show description and still couldn't make the last $17 I need for today.

Mare
01-28-2016, 12:45 PM
My standards for this January have gotten so low. It's Ramens noodles and if I'm lucky a fucking happy meal. LOL

Chellyinparadise
01-28-2016, 05:46 PM
I think one of my pso lines 'blackballed' me.
I sent the manager an email telling her that I think someone's calling me and hanging up to lower my hold time.:phone:
Since then, I've only received 1 call. It's been over a week. I have tons of regulars on there, so it's very suspicious.:frown:
I notice that other girls are on calls.
Hmmm. Soooo not cool.

Sorry that is happening, i hope that noones doing that deliberately thats so messed up if they are. Hope things get better for you.

Chellyinparadise
01-28-2016, 05:50 PM
I got bearded dragons not too long ago and my cats don't really bother them anymore, but now they're the absolute worst when I ban them from my bedroom (the beardies are in here and I also cam from this room). clawing at the door, crying as if they haven't had food in decades, actually succeeding in opening the door... I'm gonna lose my mind

Hope they ease up so you can work, i know how that feels i just got a kitten for christmas from my daughter and i try to keep him out of the bedroom while i work because he just goes ballistic running around tearing things up knocking things over climbing the curtains just running crazy back and fourth my patience is worn out haha.. Best of luck, its hard but hopefully they can let you work somehow, its very stressful when they do that.

SuperPookie
01-28-2016, 06:09 PM
I had this douche on ELM call me a gold digging whore when I wouldn't do a custom clip for 25 credits. I don't know why but this one guy made me so furious. I was so mad I was crying and even now 12 hours later I have a ball in my stomach thinking about it. It's weird because I've had much worse happen and just been "eff that guy" and went on with my day.

Chellyinparadise
01-28-2016, 06:27 PM
I had this douche on ELM call me a gold digging whore when I wouldn't do a custom clip for 25 credits. I don't know why but this one guy made me so furious. I was so mad I was crying and even now 12 hours later I have a ball in my stomach thinking about it. It's weird because I've had much worse happen and just been "eff that guy" and went on with my day.

Sorry you feel that way, hope you feel better.

BadBitch
01-28-2016, 11:20 PM
Camming sucks because today I found out I got outed by an ex-co-worker. He's been sending some fucking terrible capped goldshow clip that was on a god-forsaken tubesite to pretty much everyone I worked used to work with. I am BEYOND pissed. I am not ashamed of what I do by any means, but this is having a direct impact on my sanity (ie having to have the "yes, I'm a camgirl" conversation with people who I opted to not share this information with in the first place. If anything I am learning who my real friends are, but I am totally freaked that this will leak on an even greater scale and affect my life and current vanilla job. Not to mention the literal security threat of having your name and stage name leaked as a sex worker. I feel so vulnerable right now. Like this is a bad dream.

I have always known this was a risk to camming, but I have never been so aggressively outed before. I want to break this fuck-boi's neck. No joke. No way I am camming tonight.

What a fucking little asshole loser. I'm so sorry, girl.

BadBitch
01-28-2016, 11:24 PM
Camming sucks when some twit decides that after they took you on a lengthy private they now want their money back and hits you with a chargeback!! I hope the FuckTard gets hit by a Double Decker Bus!! Chargebacks are so unfair :(

What site? SM doesn't do chargebacks, right? I'm asking because I had a guy put in the total for my GS. We went. He left 1 min in. I fucking laid there for the duration of the show.

FreakyFranky
01-29-2016, 12:04 AM
BadBitch, If someone chargebacks something from SM, you are still paid, though MANY other sites, such as imlive, will deduct it from your earnings. If You were on SM, you're safe.

SamanthaSugar
01-29-2016, 02:23 AM
The charge back was from Cams.com

Holly_xoxo
01-29-2016, 07:36 AM
Last night = 4 hours = 22$. I'm usually on during the day but thought I'd give night time a shot. It was even worse than the 4 hours....34$ that I did on Tuesday.
Why can't I just accept that SM doesn't work for me anymore and focus on another site?
When I worked mainstream jobs, if the employer was giving me a shitty work environment, not listening to work concerns and I was making little money....I was gone! I'd quit right there. Not sure why I'm not taking the same attitude about SM.

Chellyinparadise
01-29-2016, 11:06 AM
Last night = 4 hours = 22$. I'm usually on during the day but thought I'd give night time a shot. It was even worse than the 4 hours....34$ that I did on Tuesday.
Why can't I just accept that SM doesn't work for me anymore and focus on another site?
When I worked mainstream jobs, if the employer was giving me a shitty work environment, not listening to work concerns and I was making little money....I was gone! I'd quit right there. Not sure why I'm not taking the same attitude about SM.

Sorry you are having such a hard time hope things pick up for you.

Chellyinparadise
01-29-2016, 11:15 AM
Camming sucks because today I found out I got outed by an ex-co-worker. He's been sending some fucking terrible capped goldshow clip that was on a god-forsaken tubesite to pretty much everyone I worked used to work with. I am BEYOND pissed. I am not ashamed of what I do by any means, but this is having a direct impact on my sanity (ie having to have the "yes, I'm a camgirl" conversation with people who I opted to not share this information with in the first place. If anything I am learning who my real friends are, but I am totally freaked that this will leak on an even greater scale and affect my life and current vanilla job. Not to mention the literal security threat of having your name and stage name leaked as a sex worker. I feel so vulnerable right now. Like this is a bad dream.

I have always known this was a risk to camming, but I have never been so aggressively outed before. I want to break this fuck-boi's neck. No joke. No way I am camming tonight.

So sorry you had to go through that. I cant really get into much detail about this but someone outed me to my kids and it caused so much drama for me and still does. I wanted to punch the bastard in his dick. But even though they did that and it infuriated me still does.. i have stood up for myself and told my kids without going into detail with them about my work of course that it pays my bills and it is nothing illegal. Some people are just so nasty and bad human beings that they have nothing better to do with their time than to start and stir up drama for others because they enjoy that. Just keep your head up and dont let them get to you too much, i know its hard but stay strong and hold your ground, what you do is not illegal and if it pays your bills noone else can tell you otherwise. Unless they want to step up and pay your bills and food and needs then they can just shut up and move on. Stay strong and continue doing what you do. Im sorry it is happening, i know it probably feels so awful right now but they will get theirs one day.. trust that. Hugs to you if you ever need to talk im a pm away.

Glamourmilf
01-29-2016, 11:51 AM
It pisses me off to no end when the guy I'm renting from doesn't pay the internet bill!
What pisses me off MORE is when he acts like he doesn't know it, as if I'M stupid and won't notice it.:( When I go over to him and tell him, he's even sitting IN FRONT of the damn computer..the ritual..I tell him internet is out for non payment of bill..he looks at his computer, and says, "huh? I just spoke to them yesterday." Yeah, no u didn't. Can we just skip the dance?
Dude, You KNOW I work online, so just pay the goddamn bill! ( I give him the cable money, so wtf is he doing with it?)
He gets mail here, and there is ALWAYS a big pile of past due bills that come for him.

MsBellaSpanxx
01-29-2016, 12:03 PM
Thank you so much for your support! I am sorry you got outed to your kids. What the fuck is wrong with some people? (nevermind that's a whole other rant haha)
I am feeling much better. I was a bit nervous on cam last night (checking out who was in my free chat on SM constantly, checking Twitter and social media more than normal etc) but in the end I let it go and had a good time. I keep reminding myself the same thing. I am doing nothing wrong here, and he is the one doing terrible things. I did confront him (and of course he never replied to me) saying I had no problem telling his boss that he's been sharing pornography at the office. He could get fired for that. I've had a lot of custies and camgirls offer their support too, which is just totally sweet and validates what I do and the amazing people I end up connecting with. Much more fulfilling than sitting in a cubicle all day. ;)

And yeah, the guy is such a douche that I just KNOW karma will take care of the rest.

The show must go on... ;)

Mare
01-29-2016, 12:53 PM
Not to thread hijack, but these losers that want to out people. It's soooo funny that the people they tell it to don't think for a minute that he's the one looking at a porn site?! What was he just there to find someone he knew so he could fulfill his moral obligation to turn you in? If I was you I'd say he came in and was asking for underage minor roleplay and you denied him so he outed you. Game on loser.

Marina Starr
01-29-2016, 01:08 PM
May I ask why you still stay with SM? I'm not asking to be snarky. I genuinely believe when things still matter to us it is because we're giving them value.

Last night = 4 hours = 22$. I'm usually on during the day but thought I'd give night time a shot. It was even worse than the 4 hours....34$ that I did on Tuesday.
Why can't I just accept that SM doesn't work for me anymore and focus on another site?
When I worked mainstream jobs, if the employer was giving me a shitty work environment, not listening to work concerns and I was making little money....I was gone! I'd quit right there. Not sure why I'm not taking the same attitude about SM.

BambiCutie
01-29-2016, 01:30 PM
Last night = 4 hours = 22$. I'm usually on during the day but thought I'd give night time a shot. It was even worse than the 4 hours....34$ that I did on Tuesday.
Why can't I just accept that SM doesn't work for me anymore and focus on another site?
When I worked mainstream jobs, if the employer was giving me a shitty work environment, not listening to work concerns and I was making little money....I was gone! I'd quit right there. Not sure why I'm not taking the same attitude about SM.

It can be difficult and sometimes it doesn't always workout the first time around. Don't give up out frustration and if you are making less, go around and check things that you could change like your webcam, equipment upgrade, decorating, problems streaming (You never know if quality could be the issue..traffic might just suck.) There is also something that can surface while you've been on camera for a while such as being bored, not talking, keeping to yourself, looking at your phone and not responding. It also helps to take notes and watch how other people cam, though it may not work for you its a good thing to have nearby when planning shows in advance. Its common to not always meet a decent goal and the pay fluctuation is just part of camming..hope you feel better!

Chellyinparadise
01-29-2016, 03:09 PM
Thank you so much for your support! I am sorry you got outed to your kids. What the fuck is wrong with some people? (nevermind that's a whole other rant haha)
I am feeling much better. I was a bit nervous on cam last night (checking out who was in my free chat on SM constantly, checking Twitter and social media more than normal etc) but in the end I let it go and had a good time. I keep reminding myself the same thing. I am doing nothing wrong here, and he is the one doing terrible things. I did confront him (and of course he never replied to me) saying I had no problem telling his boss that he's been sharing pornography at the office. He could get fired for that. I've had a lot of custies and camgirls offer their support too, which is just totally sweet and validates what I do and the amazing people I end up connecting with. Much more fulfilling than sitting in a cubicle all day. ;)

And yeah, the guy is such a douche that I just KNOW karma will take care of the rest.

The show must go on... ;)

Thank you, im glad you are feeling better. It will take some time for things to calm down but im glad you were able to work and make some money. Im glad you stuck up for yourself and confronted that guy. Let him see how it feels to be threatened and in your position. Hope you continue to do good at work despite his efforts to tear you down.

Chellyinparadise
01-29-2016, 03:12 PM
Not to thread hijack, but these losers that want to out people. It's soooo funny that the people they tell it to don't think for a minute that he's the one looking at a porn site?! What was he just there to find someone he knew so he could fulfill his moral obligation to turn you in? If I was you I'd say he came in and was asking for underage minor roleplay and you denied him so he outed you. Game on loser.

Yea i know such damn hypocrites in order to find us they need to be searching themselves. Assholes.

Marina Starr
01-29-2016, 04:30 PM
http://i63.tinypic.com/xfosib.jpg

So sorry you had to go through that. I cant really get into much detail about this but someone outed me to my kids and it caused so much drama for me and still does. I wanted to punch the bastard in his dick. But even though they did that and it infuriated me still does.. i have stood up for myself and told my kids without going into detail with them about my work of course that it pays my bills and it is nothing illegal. Some people are just so nasty and bad human beings that they have nothing better to do with their time than to start and stir up drama for others because they enjoy that. Just keep your head up and dont let them get to you too much, i know its hard but stay strong and hold your ground, what you do is not illegal and if it pays your bills noone else can tell you otherwise. Unless they want to step up and pay your bills and food and needs then they can just shut up and move on. Stay strong and continue doing what you do. Im sorry it is happening, i know it probably feels so awful right now but they will get theirs one day.. trust that. Hugs to you if you ever need to talk im a pm away.

Chellyinparadise
01-29-2016, 05:31 PM
http://i63.tinypic.com/xfosib.jpg

Thanks marina needed that :)

BadBitch
01-29-2016, 09:46 PM
Pisses me off when a new custie buys into a gold show, even tips more for more videos, then hangs out in chat.
I asked him if he would like to take me exclusive. His response was no, that he is using the gs and vids as an appetizer.
Yet, he hung out in my chat for 4 hours! Through every gs I did. Through logging off for breaks.
The block button isn't working for some reason.
I've never had someone from a gs do this before.
Dude gave me the creeps.

I had a guy do this today. As long as he kept tipping, I didn't mind. He also kept me company when my room got empty.

BadBitch
01-29-2016, 09:50 PM
It pisses me off to no end when the guy I'm renting from doesn't pay the internet bill!
What pisses me off MORE is when he acts like he doesn't know it, as if I'M stupid and won't notice it.:( When I go over to him and tell him, he's even sitting IN FRONT of the damn computer..the ritual..I tell him internet is out for non payment of bill..he looks at his computer, and says, "huh? I just spoke to them yesterday." Yeah, no u didn't. Can we just skip the dance?
Dude, You KNOW I work online, so just pay the goddamn bill! ( I give him the cable money, so wtf is he doing with it?)
He gets mail here, and there is ALWAYS a big pile of past due bills that come for him.

That's fucked up. I would submit payment directly to the cable company.

Glamourmilf
01-29-2016, 09:56 PM
That's fucked up. I would submit payment directly to the cable company.

I would love to do that, but the bill is in his name. It's the same with all the utilities too. Everyday I get up, i pray i have electricity, heat, etc.
Living here for a few months now, I realize that he's passive aggressive.
*Don't get me started on him letting a lady he knows move in 2 weeks ago...without even teloing me! She's clomping up the stairs next to my bedroom,and stomping in the bedroom above me.
I'm already actively looking for another place to rent.

BadBitch
01-29-2016, 09:59 PM
I would love to do that, but the bill is in his name. It's the same with all the utilities too. Everyday I get up, i pray i have electricity, heat, etc.
Living here for a few months now, I realize that he's passive aggressive.
*Don't get me started on him letting a lady he knows move in 2 weeks ago...without even teloing me! She's clomping up the stairs next to my bedroom,and stomping in the bedroom above me.
I'm already actively looking for another place to rent.

Honestly, I don't think it matters if you submit payment and it's in your name, not his. I'm sure that the cable company won't care because they're receiving payment (especially since he hasn't paid them). Call them, explain the issue and see if they will take your payment.

Glamourmilf
01-29-2016, 10:01 PM
Honestly, I don't think it matters if you submit payment and it's in your name, not his. I'm sure that the cable company won't care because they're receiving payment (especially since he hasn't paid them). Call them, explain the issue and see if they will take your payment.

Ok. I will call them, and see what they can do. Thank you

ENoire
01-29-2016, 10:03 PM
The fact that I finally feel ready to get back into camming, but have no fucking money to get started. I need to buy a train ticket because all my camming stuff is currently in my parent's garage, but I can't even afford that. I need to get some cheap fabric or something to make my shitty box room more cam friendly, but even that's too far out of my reach...

Always seems to be the same situation- when my mental health is good, my situation holds me back; when my mental health is crap, my situation makes me feel even worse because it reminds me how incapable I am of functioning like a normal human being even when everything should be perfect.

It makes me just want to get back into bed, pull the covers over my head and give up.

Sorry for being a debbie downer, just so demoralised :/

carmen_b
01-30-2016, 12:42 PM
I'd give just one warning to him that if it isn't handled properly ( without prompting ) that he owes your daily average wage. It's beyond disrespectful. It sounds like the vibe is bad now and he might even be doing it on purpose to push you out.
I would love to do that, but the bill is in his name. It's the same with all the utilities too. Everyday I get up, i pray i have electricity, heat, etc.
Living here for a few months now, I realize that he's passive aggressive.
*Don't get me started on him letting a lady he knows move in 2 weeks ago...without even teloing me! She's clomping up the stairs next to my bedroom,and stomping in the bedroom above me.
I'm already actively looking for another place to rent.