View Full Version : The General Purpose "Camming Sucks Right Now" Thread
carmen_b
01-30-2016, 12:44 PM
Just PUSH through! Go dance at a club to get the money to get your stuff ! Push for the progress you want today !! You could have the $ by closing time at the club!
The fact that I finally feel ready to get back into camming, but have no fucking money to get started. I need to buy a train ticket because all my camming stuff is currently in my parent's garage, but I can't even afford that. I need to get some cheap fabric or something to make my shitty box room more cam friendly, but even that's too far out of my reach...
Always seems to be the same situation- when my mental health is good, my situation holds me back; when my mental health is crap, my situation makes me feel even worse because it reminds me how incapable I am of functioning like a normal human being even when everything should be perfect.
It makes me just want to get back into bed, pull the covers over my head and give up.
Sorry for being a debbie downer, just so demoralised :/
Glamourmilf
01-30-2016, 02:54 PM
I'd give just one warning to him that if it isn't handled properly ( without prompting ) that he owes your daily average wage. It's beyond disrespectful. It sounds like the vibe is bad now and he might even be doing it on purpose to push you out.
He might be doing things to get me out. But I can't help but wonder why he also told me that The internet wasn't working...wait for it...the DAY I was moving to the house! I mean, like just as the movers were leaving to make the long ass drive to the house! I asked him how long it had been out...a week! Jesus! Passive aggressive much? But he's like this with everyone. Total stoner.
Chellyinparadise
01-30-2016, 04:56 PM
He might be doing things to get me out. But I can't help but wonder why he also told me that The internet wasn't working...wait for it...the DAY I was moving to the house! I mean, like just as the movers were leaving to make the long ass drive to the house! I asked him how long it had been out...a week! Jesus! Passive aggressive much? But he's like this with everyone. Total stoner.
Sorry youre going through that, what a pain and much added stress on you thats not needed. I hope he makes the payment so you can get back to work. If he wants money from you he needs to understand that you need working internet. Hope this doesnt affect you much longer. I hope things turn out for the best and you dont have to go through much more.
Chellyinparadise
01-30-2016, 05:01 PM
The fact that I finally feel ready to get back into camming, but have no fucking money to get started. I need to buy a train ticket because all my camming stuff is currently in my parent's garage, but I can't even afford that. I need to get some cheap fabric or something to make my shitty box room more cam friendly, but even that's too far out of my reach...
Always seems to be the same situation- when my mental health is good, my situation holds me back; when my mental health is crap, my situation makes me feel even worse because it reminds me how incapable I am of functioning like a normal human being even when everything should be perfect.
It makes me just want to get back into bed, pull the covers over my head and give up.
Sorry for being a debbie downer, just so demoralised :/
Sorry youre going through that. Just do what you can and try your best. I know it may seem hard but things will get better for you. Whatever you do dont give up just try to push yourself to take small steps back into it and eventually things will turn out, may take some time but it will get better. Hope you start to feel better.
Glamourmilf
01-30-2016, 07:34 PM
Sorry youre going through that, what a pain and much added stress on you thats not needed. I hope he makes the payment so you can get back to work. If he wants money from you he needs to understand that you need working internet. Hope this doesnt affect you much longer. I hope things turn out for the best and you dont have to go through much more.
Thank You Chellie. That's exactly why I'm looking at places for rent.
I didn't even mention all the other annoying, and obtrusive things he's done since I moved in, because it's just too negative, and I hate dwelling on it.
I'm a city girl, I'll be o.k. I've been through much, much worse than this.
"This too, shall pass."
BadBitch
01-30-2016, 07:57 PM
Today sucked in terms of traffic! WTF? Thank goodness for my regulars. Where the fuck is everyone??????
MistressX
01-30-2016, 08:15 PM
Yep I cammed for about 2 hours and made $45. The place as a ghost town... not even my regulars showed up. A few did but didnt say anything which was odd
pippapippa
01-31-2016, 07:43 PM
Streamate has been horrible on Sundays for me for months. So glad the Superbowl is next Sunday so hopefully they'll go back to being amazing.
FreakyFranky
02-01-2016, 12:03 AM
Hour and a half with not one red cent. Ugh. I'm like $100 short on the rent check that needs to get mailed tomorrow/today too. *Meltdown*
Susperia
02-01-2016, 10:09 PM
Couldn't even break $100 on any of my 3 cam sites today :( Grrr and SM with its fucking glitches.....
BadBitch
02-01-2016, 10:13 PM
Yeah. Today sucked BIGTIME!
JaneBurgess
02-02-2016, 12:02 AM
I kept getting freaks that wanted incest shows or just to tell me how pretty I am. I have a sinus infection and am on three meds, I dont care how pretty you think I am. Im here to do paid shows. I swear I should go on with no make-up on and not comb my hair. I would love to see what they say then.
BadBitch
02-02-2016, 11:30 AM
I kept getting freaks that wanted incest shows or just to tell me how pretty I am. I have a sinus infection and am on three meds, I dont care how pretty you think I am. Im here to do paid shows. I swear I should go on with no make-up on and not comb my hair. I would love to see what they say then.
I feel your pain. I have a sinus infection as well.
As for the no makeup, do it. I did once and the guys loved it.
Feel better soon!
Susperia
02-02-2016, 12:43 PM
Today sucks too.....that is all.
Blovely
02-02-2016, 12:49 PM
^Yes it does. I've been on and off since 7am and its been crickets all day. Tuesday and Wednesday's usually suck for me but today seems extra sucky. I'm thinking its because its the beginning of the month. At this point I shouldn't even be bothered or surprised by how slow T&W are but every time I sign-on on those days I'm like uggggggggggh kill me now.
CharlieTen
02-02-2016, 05:42 PM
I had my first okay day today in a while money wise, been making pennies on my main sites all week :/
BadBitch
02-02-2016, 05:59 PM
^Yes it does. I've been on and off since 7am and its been crickets all day. Tuesday and Wednesday's usually suck for me but today seems extra sucky. I'm thinking its because its the beginning of the month. At this point I shouldn't even be bothered or surprised by how slow T&W are but every time I sign-on on those days I'm like uggggggggggh kill me now.
I hopped on and off all day. Tried 2 different sites. It was draining. Completely draining.
SamanthaSugar
02-02-2016, 06:31 PM
Excuse me while I go stick my head in the oven!
SuperPookie
02-03-2016, 04:56 PM
I just got my 1099 from Streamate and after working there pretty much fulltime since last May I still made under 10k :(.
MissAdriana
02-03-2016, 05:22 PM
I hopped on and off all day. Tried 2 different sites. It was draining. Completely draining.
Same here! Yall aren't alone. Except I didn't hop on and off willingly, just getting kicked off cuz of my ISP. 3 sites and 2 new video uploads later it doesn't look like I'm going to be making payout on anything this week. But it's only the middle of the week it can still turn around yet.... I hope :-[
missmercedes
02-04-2016, 10:31 PM
HOLY
[email protected]#$ I was so infuriated as I just blocked this "Reg" (regular freeloader who likes to waste my time chatting saying he'll buy a show and has one fucking time)on mygirlfund I swear there were flames shooting from my eyes and fingertips!!!! Lol but so serious...I really can't STAND 95% the guys on that site, but I don't want to leave it bcuz I make almost as much money as I do on SM on there....but wow. What an asshole. This dude was already on my bad side bcuz he always says he'll want a show "in two hours" or "brb" and never follows thru. One time I stayed on for a while waiting on him to do a show. When he came back he's like "mmm, not tonight doll ;D" yes, W A FUCKING SMILEY!! Forreal bitch. No. So tonight was kinda his last chance.I told him I had a shitty day and been crying all day, Ive always jus lied abt my mood on cam and always say I'm good but tonight I wanted to see if I could get sympathy $$$. He asked for an anal show and I was like aight.... Then he said "I wanna see you cry while you do anal :)" (yea again w the totally creepy/inappropriate emoticon) And I was like I really dont feel like doing that, sorry. He was persistent in bugging me abt it even tho I flat out said No I dont want to and gave him multiple reasons like the fact it takes a long time to apply my makeup, and Ive already been crying all day. I wanna cheer up not cry while I put a buttplug in. seriously? And he was like "It might be good to get it all out" meaning my emotions. I could not believe this MF. So i jus went off, saying how for someone I chat w/ a lot for free he sure is disrespectful of my feelings and how I'm an actual PERSON not a sex toy. He apologizes and after a few min says "Yea maybe no show right now, later if u still want to? :)" I jus replied lol and blocked him which is sooooooooo satisfying. Seeing on his page that he's only contributed $20 to me after idk how many chats was so infuriating. He really represents everything I dislike abt the guys on MGF. Guys on there act like it's a fucking dating site (probably bcuz they advertise it like that, which is a whole 'nother problem) and so many guys have on their profile "I'm here for real friendship, I'm sick of all the gold diggers on this site, If u message me offering content I'll block u" etc etc. Like wow. U joined a site where its set up for u to pay for girls content/attention, bro. The only reason I let him get away w/ chatting so much is bcuz its such a fine line on there. It's really hard to be the "friend" they want and also be pushy abt not doing a lot for free. If I didn't make decent $$ on there and have a few really nice regs, I would love to just sabotage my acct, messaging every guy w/ a douchey, entitled profile and telling them how shit they are. Lol
BadBitch
02-04-2016, 10:47 PM
HOLY
[email protected]#$ I was so infuriated as I just blocked this "Reg" (regular freeloader who likes to waste my time chatting saying he'll buy a show and has one fucking time)on mygirlfund I swear there were flames shooting from my eyes and fingertips!!!! Lol but so serious...I really can't STAND 95% the guys on that site, but I don't want to leave it bcuz I make almost as much money as I do on SM on there....but wow. What an asshole. This dude was already on my bad side bcuz he always says he'll want a show "in two hours" or "brb" and never follows thru. One time I stayed on for a while waiting on him to do a show. When he came back he's like "mmm, not tonight doll ;D" yes, W A FUCKING SMILEY!! Forreal bitch. No. So tonight was kinda his last chance.I told him I had a shitty day and been crying all day, Ive always jus lied abt my mood on cam and always say I'm good but tonight I wanted to see if I could get sympathy $$$. He asked for an anal show and I was like aight.... Then he said "I wanna see you cry while you do anal :)" (yea again w the totally creepy/inappropriate emoticon) And I was like I really dont feel like doing that, sorry. He was persistent in bugging me abt it even tho I flat out said No I dont want to and gave him multiple reasons like the fact it takes a long time to apply my makeup, and Ive already been crying all day. I wanna cheer up not cry while I put a buttplug in. seriously? And he was like "It might be good to get it all out" meaning my emotions. I could not believe this MF. So i jus went off, saying how for someone I chat w/ a lot for free he sure is disrespectful of my feelings and how I'm an actual PERSON not a sex toy. He apologizes and after a few min says "Yea maybe no show right now, later if u still want to? :)" I jus replied lol and blocked him which is sooooooooo satisfying. Seeing on his page that he's only contributed $20 to me after idk how many chats was so infuriating. He really represents everything I dislike abt the guys on MGF. Guys on there act like it's a fucking dating site (probably bcuz they advertise it like that, which is a whole 'nother problem) and so many guys have on their profile "I'm here for real friendship, I'm sick of all the gold diggers on this site, If u message me offering content I'll block u" etc etc. Like wow. U joined a site where its set up for u to pay for girls content/attention, bro. The only reason I let him get away w/ chatting so much is bcuz its such a fine line on there. It's really hard to be the "friend" they want and also be pushy abt not doing a lot for free. If I didn't make decent $$ on there and have a few really nice regs, I would love to just sabotage my acct, messaging every guy w/ a douchey, entitled profile and telling them how shit they are. Lol
I would have blocked him as well. You did the right thing. He was just leading you on that whole time. They do that.
As for them wanting friends, they need to understand that this is a cam site, not a dating site. They put a credit card number in for a reason. If they think we are "gold diggers", then so be it. We are women trying to earn a living.
missmercedes
02-04-2016, 11:13 PM
I would have blocked him as well. You did the right thing. He was just leading you on that whole time. They do that.
As for them wanting friends, they need to understand that this is a cam site, not a dating site. They put a credit card number in for a reason. If they think we are "gold diggers", then so be it. We are women trying to earn a living.
Exactly! that's my view of it, but the other day when I was searching mgf on google trying to find the corp name for my taxes an article popped up that was interviewing mgf girls (supposedly...I swear to god it seemed so fake) and calling them " virtual girlfriends" and how she doesn't even care on nights she makes no $ cuz at least she has her friends. Pffff! So there's where some needy freeloader guys get these attitudes from, but its really no excuse. Oh and not only that, the only comment on the article was "Making 100k a year for showing ur tits on cam? I call bs. Nobody is going to pay that, sorry." I was fuming.So much misinformation abt us out there from ppl who have no perspective and no real knowledge of the cam world.
BadBitch
02-05-2016, 09:51 AM
Yeah, these guys are bitter towards us because they think we make millions.
CharlieTen
02-05-2016, 11:17 AM
Sucks to post here again...but like I said....pennies! £2 in 6 hours on AW....£8 in 1 hour on MFC (but logged off cuz they stopped tipping and talking). Kill me nooooow
ExoticBeauty4U
02-05-2016, 02:43 PM
Took off 2 weeks on SM, and came back, im on the third page, not making anything which is new for me I mean its so bad I havent even made my payout for payoneer WOW.
LilyAnderson
02-05-2016, 08:08 PM
oh my god what a dreadful day. 4.5 hours, BARELY made $40. what! it's friday! where is everyone?!
on a happy note, someone bought me a hitachi during the last hour, so that's cool.
yesterday stunk, and today stunk. i think it's time for a day off. lol.
SweetJulia
02-05-2016, 08:23 PM
While my hourly was fine, I cut my day short cuz I was emailing this moron, scheduling a show. I keep nail glue and Visine in small bottles in my make up bag. My eyes were irritated. Guess who reached for the wrong one. So, after answering those retarded questions at lightning speed, I couldn't even do the show cuz the swelling and pain just now went down. This was even worse than the hand sanitizer/lube mix up.
^^^ OMG!!! You poor thing!! You glued your eyeballs? Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. Feel betters soon!!!!!!!! <3 That's beyond awful.
Staples
02-06-2016, 12:41 PM
I hate when a guy asks questions like what are you in the mood for? I always want to say I'm in the mood to pay my fucking rent but I know that isn't the right answer lol.
Glamourmilf
02-06-2016, 12:50 PM
I hate when a guy asks questions like what are you in the mood for? I always want to say I'm in the mood to pay my fucking rent but I know that isn't the right answer lol.
Lol! I hate when they ask that too. I know they have their reasons for asking it,but....
I really am thinking, "I'm in the mood for someone to tip me to my daily goal, so I can log off this bitch, and enjoy the rest of my day."
missmercedes
02-07-2016, 02:26 AM
I both love and hate how camming never really leaves my mind and I can't ever stop thinking abt hustling and working. it's good bcuz I need to be that way to make money, always trying to up my game and planning. Camming is the only job I've had yet where I really put my heart in it. But right now I hate that I can't let myself relax. I worked last night (never work fridays) so I could be off tonight and focus on school but then tonight I got all ~inspired~ and got on cam but by the time traffic started rolling in an hour later I was too exhausted to stay on. I've had a pretty unlucky couple of weeks. I had to cut ties with a best friend who meant a lot to me and kept hurting me. I'm so emotionally drained, my moods have been dramatic and changing every 3 min. ive been bitching at my bf way too much. Glad I have the next 2 days off to focus on positivity, homework. and taking care of myself.
Selenasecret
02-07-2016, 07:20 AM
Def so far asking for free tit flash with the promise of a private show. 1 gold tit flash and they cant afford it. Lol only thing smaller than their cock is their wallet
NikkiCAMGirl
02-07-2016, 07:28 AM
I'm almost 100 percent sure that if I had fake, new and bigger boobs i would make much more money on cam.... Maybe it is not truth but i feel self insecure. I have natural C but i can't help myself do not feel embarrassed :(
freyasnecklace
02-07-2016, 10:58 AM
I've logged into SM 3 times. I've had three dudes talking about fucking dogs. Seriously, how many gross animal porn dudes are there? Nope nope nope. Ban ban ban.
SweetJulia
02-07-2016, 11:26 AM
^^^ OMG!!! You poor thing!! You glued your eyeballs? Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. Feel betters soon!!!!!!!! <3 That's beyond awful.
Thanks for your concern :) Didn't actually glue shut, just felt like acid. Super glad my vision wasn't affected. Totally trivial, but it didn't fuck up my new Smokey eye look one bit :)
BadBitch
02-07-2016, 01:28 PM
While my hourly was fine, I cut my day short cuz I was emailing this moron, scheduling a show. I keep nail glue and Visine in small bottles in my make up bag. My eyes were irritated. Guess who reached for the wrong one. So, after answering those retarded questions at lightning speed, I couldn't even do the show cuz the swelling and pain just now went down. This was even worse than the hand sanitizer/lube mix up.
That's terrible! You ok????
BadBitch
02-07-2016, 01:29 PM
I both love and hate how camming never really leaves my mind and I can't ever stop thinking abt hustling and working. it's good bcuz I need to be that way to make money, always trying to up my game and planning. Camming is the only job I've had yet where I really put my heart in it. But right now I hate that I can't let myself relax. I worked last night (never work fridays) so I could be off tonight and focus on school but then tonight I got all ~inspired~ and got on cam but by the time traffic started rolling in an hour later I was too exhausted to stay on. I've had a pretty unlucky couple of weeks. I had to cut ties with a best friend who meant a lot to me and kept hurting me. I'm so emotionally drained, my moods have been dramatic and changing every 3 min. ive been bitching at my bf way too much. Glad I have the next 2 days off to focus on positivity, homework. and taking care of myself.
SO me! Soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo me.
So me.
HAHAHAHAHA!
I am obsessed. It's terrible. This is why I can't take a day off during the week. I wouldn't be able to relax. I would be all, "OMG, is it a busy day? What am I missing? My placement is going to drop".
Chellyinparadise
02-07-2016, 01:47 PM
Thanks for your concern :) Didn't actually glue shut, just felt like acid. Super glad my vision wasn't affected. Totally trivial, but it didn't fuck up my new Smokey eye look one bit :)
Sorry you went through that must of been awful. Im glad it didnt affect your vision. Hope your eye feels better.
BadBitch
02-07-2016, 01:52 PM
I've logged into SM 3 times. I've had three dudes talking about fucking dogs. Seriously, how many gross animal porn dudes are there? Nope nope nope. Ban ban ban.
If I could reach through the computer when they bring this shit up and strangle them, I would!
SweetJulia
02-07-2016, 01:56 PM
Awww you guys are so sweet :) I'm ok now, it was just seriously some bad pain. I have medical insurance-first time ever, few months shy of 31-so I'm getting it looked-no pun intended-at soon cuz, well, it's fucking glue.
Chellyinparadise
02-07-2016, 01:57 PM
I both love and hate how camming never really leaves my mind and I can't ever stop thinking abt hustling and working. it's good bcuz I need to be that way to make money, always trying to up my game and planning. Camming is the only job I've had yet where I really put my heart in it. But right now I hate that I can't let myself relax. I worked last night (never work fridays) so I could be off tonight and focus on school but then tonight I got all ~inspired~ and got on cam but by the time traffic started rolling in an hour later I was too exhausted to stay on. I've had a pretty unlucky couple of weeks. I had to cut ties with a best friend who meant a lot to me and kept hurting me. I'm so emotionally drained, my moods have been dramatic and changing every 3 min. ive been bitching at my bf way too much. Glad I have the next 2 days off to focus on positivity, homework. and taking care of myself.
I know exactly how you feel im a workaholic now that my kids are grown and i consume my time with working, but i try to take a day off but on that day off i run around doing things. Usually time off is forced off by being sick or things going on that i cant control from life events and even then i think about how much money im missing having time off and work mode hardly ever shuts off for me. I hope that you feel better sorry you are going through that. Its hard to get rid of people who are toxic to you but it is a necessity if you want to get better and feel better sometimes. It doesnt stop the hurt though when you care so much about that person and you have to let them go. Im sorry you lost your friend, hope you can get better and the hurt goes away. Im glad youre taking time for yourself, enjoy it if you can. Hopefully things can change around for the better for you.
Chellyinparadise
02-07-2016, 02:20 PM
I'm almost 100 percent sure that if I had fake, new and bigger boobs i would make much more money on cam.... Maybe it is not truth but i feel self insecure. I have natural C but i can't help myself do not feel embarrassed :(
No please dont feel insecure about that, there are so many men who love natural boobs trust me. I am 45 yrs old and have natural boobs and i rock them on cam. It is all about confidence.. bring that out, you are beautiful and you need to make yourself believe that you are regardless of others. Love your body, own it and be confident. When you feel confident on cam it will come through and the money will flow in trust me on this. Just look at yourself and get yourself in the mindset that you are beautiful and dont let any asshole or any other person make you feel otherwise. I went through that for a long time feeling insecure, we all have at some point but please dont let it make you feel that way. Love your body and yourself for what and who you are. there will be many men who will love them and you..hope you feel better hugs to you. Im sorry you feel that way.
BadBitch
02-07-2016, 02:54 PM
No please dont feel insecure about that, there are so many men who love natural boobs trust me. I am 45 yrs old and have natural boobs and i rock them on cam. It is all about confidence.. bring that out, you are beautiful and you need to make yourself believe that you are regardless of others. Love your body, own it and be confident. When you feel confident on cam it will come through and the money will flow in trust me on this. Just look at yourself and get yourself in the mindset that you are beautiful and dont let any asshole or any other person make you feel otherwise. I went through that for a long time feeling insecure, we all have at some point but please dont let it make you feel that way. Love your body and yourself for what and who you are. there will be many men who will love them and you..hope you feel better hugs to you. Im sorry you feel that way.
Chelly is right. Embrace you for you! Be confident. Don't let these guys bring you down!!!! You're beautiful!
missmercedes
02-08-2016, 12:10 AM
Reading ur replies made my day, u ladies are the sweetest. just because I'm givin myself a break for a couple days doesn't mean I cant be on sw right :p y'all make me feel so positive and so lucky to know such a group, even if only virtually. xo
KittieVenom
02-08-2016, 01:49 AM
When I ask if a guy wants to go private and do a show and he says no, so I ask why.
"I can't right now, I'm just hanging out."
Bitch, do you go into a nice restaurant, sit at a table and then tell the server "Oh I can't eat right now, I'm just here to hang out."
You and this block button can hang out and get real cuddly, dumbass.
anonymous camgirl
02-08-2016, 06:44 AM
The thing that pisses me off when customers pry into your personal life trying to figure you out like they are a shrink or something!... You don't need to figure me out!.. Enjoy the DAMN show!.. damn sometimes they get a lil to personal..
NikkiCAMGirl
02-08-2016, 11:54 AM
No please dont feel insecure about that, there are so many men who love natural boobs trust me. I am 45 yrs old and have natural boobs and i rock them on cam. It is all about confidence.. bring that out, you are beautiful and you need to make yourself believe that you are regardless of others. Love your body, own it and be confident. When you feel confident on cam it will come through and the money will flow in trust me on this. Just look at yourself and get yourself in the mindset that you are beautiful and dont let any asshole or any other person make you feel otherwise. I went through that for a long time feeling insecure, we all have at some point but please dont let it make you feel that way. Love your body and yourself for what and who you are. there will be many men who will love them and you..hope you feel better hugs to you. Im sorry you feel that way.
I know what you do have in mind Chelly;) When I started camming I felt more confident about my body than I'm feeling now. I don't know what happened. I still do pretty good on cam, it is my only job I have, but i think I have lost my confidence because of those assholes. I get guys into my room saying to me these things " Ohh you are done here..you have small boobs''. ''I'm looking for the nice big ass to fuck. Do you have one? ..Well your ass is not that big'' Not to mention the fact that I'm not from USA...guys from there have the nerve to call me "The Euro trash''.... It is so hard for me these days to go on cam..I don't want to but I have to...
NikkiCAMGirl
02-08-2016, 11:57 AM
usually they say "I m here just to chat with you'' :D
LOL you are fucking right...I block these type of guys all the time. Free chat is not to entertain YOU asshole but to ASK ABOUT MY SHOW
Genoveve
02-08-2016, 01:10 PM
I know what you do have in mind Chelly;) When I started camming I felt more confident about my body than I'm feeling now. I don't know what happened. I still do pretty good on cam, it is my only job I have, but i think I have lost my confidence because of those assholes. I get guys into my room saying to me these things " Ohh you are done here..you have small boobs''. ''I'm looking for the nice big ass to fuck. Do you have one? ..Well your ass is not that big'' Not to mention the fact that I'm not from USA...guys from there have the nerve to call me "The Euro trash''.... It is so hard for me these days to go on cam..I don't want to but I have to...
Trolls will troll no matter what. I'm American and have been trolled for being American, there is no 'safe' nationality. Also when guys ask you what various body parts look like they're usually doing it in the hopes that you will show them for free. So of course they're going to shoot your ass down once they see it, so they can have an excuse to not spend money once they've gotten their freebie. And if they say that in an actual pvt than I call troll again and assume they're just trying to put you down for the hell of it because if a guy's major fetish really is big asses he would be doing his research and checking profiles and making sure that whoever he spends money on actually for sure has one before he spends.