View Full Version : The General Purpose "Camming Sucks Right Now" Thread
kitty_frost
08-10-2016, 05:42 PM
So I was definitely an idiot last night. just assumed that cam4 was down, didn't realise that my Chrome was out of date and not running flash player. Won't make that mistake again :P
kitty_frost
08-10-2016, 06:32 PM
Aaaaaand cam4 is beyond dead right now. It seems like any time before 9 in the evening gets me no custies
anonymous camgirl
08-10-2016, 07:22 PM
Grub hub sucks! I tried to order some steaks from a steakhouse and they declined my card, then I get a text from the bank asking if it was a fraud charge, I said NO.. it's legit.. then I call grub hub and they say they declined it cuz it was $96 of food.. so then I tried to reorder with the same card declined, so I tried a different card .. declined.. they suck!.. Ordered burgers from Food Now no problem!.. don't order from this Grub Hub place.. ridiculous.. no reason why I couldn't order food from them. uggh.. and the burgers were dry and burnt charcoal tasting so yea great day! and I barely made money on cam and quit early because I was just far to disgusted at the lack of traffic.. just a fabulous day and now I am going to bed early , hoping to get up early tomorrow!
anonymous camgirl
08-10-2016, 07:27 PM
I am 43.. I support 2 college students so naturally $20 an hour just simply is not enough to enjoy life with .. I don't have a partner and my kids just go to college and don't work.. it's just me paying for everything.
I'm happy with my hourly rate of usually $20-30 an hour. I do splitcam on Imlive and SM so it goes both ways. I get a few CMD indy shows every now and then which helps. Trying my best to promote the indy shows more obviously.
I read models that do $283 in 2 hours and I"m like.......?????????? It would take me all day to earn that much. I'm happy with $100-150 but i'm in my 40's so I'm happy with what I can get for now. I have one year left here in Vegas and I"ll take camming as far as I can but I'll be getting in the vanilla world again. I have to get ready for retirement. Want to move back east....probably Charlotte. I had to get back on my feet and Vegas was a good place to do it in. I'm happy for now. I can earn 3-4000 a month and live on half of that and save the rest so it's good now. My only regret is I didn't find camming sooner many years ago ...might have made bank..oh well.:'(8)>:(
EdenChan
08-10-2016, 07:44 PM
so guys ever since the olympics started my traffic has been SHIT. Like I literally went from having 8-10 people in my room on SM to 2-3. All my stats are the same. even RTT is fine. Ive never worked during olympics before so is this normal? If it werent for my regulars i'd be making NO money. Im a little nervous that this is what august is going to be like for me :( and this is my last month camming until later 2017 so I wanted to go out with a bang! (so to speak lol)
But seriously has anyone else's traffic changed significantly since the olympics? And also is this normal?
Petite-
08-10-2016, 08:14 PM
You are not alone, my hourly went down since the olympics started, today I was staring at an empty room for about 10 mins which never ever happened to me before.
Betsyxo
08-11-2016, 11:34 AM
Grub hub sucks! I tried to order some steaks from a steakhouse and they declined my card, then I get a text from the bank asking if it was a fraud charge, I said NO.. it's legit.. then I call grub hub and they say they declined it cuz it was $96 of food.. so then I tried to reorder with the same card declined, so I tried a different card .. declined.. they suck!.. Ordered burgers from Food Now no problem!.. don't order from this Grub Hub place.. ridiculous.. no reason why I couldn't order food from them. uggh.. and the burgers were dry and burnt charcoal tasting so yea great day! and I barely made money on cam and quit early because I was just far to disgusted at the lack of traffic.. just a fabulous day and now I am going to bed early , hoping to get up early tomorrow!
well i made potato salad... you're welcome to join me. im gonna od on icecream later because i made $0 from camming today :)) i missed my morning shift and i tried to go online an hour ago, i just went offline because it was kinda quiet
CamChik
08-11-2016, 12:08 PM
Same thing happened to me last night. I literally sat in my room alone for about 5-10 minutes when usually as soon as I log on there is an influx..... I made $1.75 for 3 hours worth of work on a Tuesday night which is usually quite lucrative for me. Can't wait for the Olympics to be over! UGH!
Do you ladies notice a traffic slow down on Sundays when football season starts? Just curious what impact that will have... Sunday is the only day I can cam ALL day long and is when I make the bulk of my paycheck so I hope it doesn't slow down too much.
Betsyxo
08-11-2016, 12:12 PM
Same thing happened to me last night. I literally sat in my room alone for about 5-10 minutes when usually as soon as I log on there is an influx..... I made $1.75 for 3 hours worth of work on a Tuesday night which is usually quite lucrative for me. Can't wait for the Olympics to be over! UGH!
Do you ladies notice a traffic slow down on Sundays when football season starts? Just curious what impact that will have... Sunday is the only day I can cam ALL day long and is when I make the bulk of my paycheck so I hope it doesn't slow down too much.
i wish i could put myself and all my bills in cryosleep until football season is over. in all my 5 years camming, that's like the worst time ever to cam. men... *shakes head*
anonymous camgirl
08-11-2016, 12:56 PM
Well I do LOVE some potato salad.. I want to make some again some day.. I just get it at the Publix Deli these days but I would rather have my own..
EdenChan
08-11-2016, 01:26 PM
Man the traffic on SM is not only low, but its low quality. Worst of both worlds! Usually when I do topspot shows I make over goal with 15-20 guys who join. TODAY i did two topspots (thank goodness for guarenteed goal) and the first time i had 10 people, second time i had 7. Day after day after day of this bull is wearing me down.
Wish i could afford to take a vacay till this is over:(
anonymous camgirl
08-11-2016, 02:14 PM
At this rate I would have to work another 5 hours to make my goal.. yea right! I already worked 5 hours!
anonymous camgirl
08-11-2016, 02:16 PM
You and me both!.. just think that it is temporary!.. I HOPE!!!
Man the traffic on SM is not only low, but its low quality. Worst of both worlds! Usually when I do topspot shows I make over goal with 15-20 guys who join. TODAY i did two topspots (thank goodness for guarenteed goal) and the first time i had 10 people, second time i had 7. Day after day after day of this bull is wearing me down.
Wish i could afford to take a vacay till this is over:(
Serena-Shields
08-11-2016, 03:08 PM
I can't fucking stand CB right now, the last month has been horrible. I hate SM even more but I'm finding myself spending more time there just to pull my daily goal. Fuck this traffic.
someoldnoob
08-12-2016, 01:11 AM
I'm dipping my toes into the Indy pond now that SM is being fucking unreasonable right now. I have an incredibly low minimum goal, and even that is proving difficult to meet tonight. Could be my fault for signing on so late, and maybe after a little break it will be a little better, but I'm sick of guys trying to get sex talk in the public chat, and even when my room topic literally states no requests or demands, "STAND UP BB" Fuck off. My paid time % is getting so fucking low, too... Ugh. Overall just so annoyed with SM traffic.
xxxGothBarbie
08-12-2016, 03:33 AM
Did anyone's room seem full of crickets tonight by chance? Ugh :/ I generally have much higher traffic around this time but sheesh .
Betsyxo
08-12-2016, 09:49 AM
Some dude just confirmed it for me today...........
dude: i have the olympics on the BIG screen, and just running you on the side
me: oh...
dude: here's $5 for your gold show, but i might not be here when it starts. BTW phelps is rocking it this year!!!!
:O
so let's just face it it will be a little slow while this is going on. on the bright side i did make $30, which is more than 0 , and i got a nice prvt with one of my lovely regs using my new and improved per min rate. He didnt comment on it, so im guessing it should be ok :)
anonymous camgirl
08-12-2016, 10:18 AM
Yea I have heard this a few times now.. that's why I went to the store this morning instead of working..lol.. what's the use .. I am feeling quite unmotivated this week.. it's a good thing I am not hurting for money yet.. but if this keeps I just might.. haha
Some dude just confirmed it for me today...........
dude: i have the olympics on the BIG screen, and just running you on the side
me: oh...
dude: here's $5 for your gold show, but i might not be here when it starts. BTW phelps is rocking it this year!!!!
:O
so let's just face it it will be a little slow while this is going on. on the bright side i did make $30, which is more than 0 , and i got a nice prvt with one of my lovely regs using my new and improved per min rate. He didnt comment on it, so im guessing it should be ok :)
evaeva
08-12-2016, 10:47 AM
Ugh it was dead slow in my room today, only stayed on 2hrs cause I was just getting too frustrated with all the demands and no tips. Some guy I foolishly promoted to mod when I did my first show was sending me a zillion annoying ass PMs like "you need to look happier, try playing with yourself etc" like how about stop with the suggestions unless you're going to get the tips going which he didn't so I un-modded him. Felt a little bad but he wasn't a good mod and NEVER tipped so oh well.
Bristol
08-12-2016, 10:53 AM
This morning was good for me but only because I split cammed and I did unusually well on Cams (which is uncommon for me). Tips were not so great on the token sites. Last night went absolutely dead after 4pm pdt. That's about the time the gymnastics and swimming events started playing on TV. I think the Olympics is probably causing traffic drops whenever the popular events get played.
Camming doesn't suck today as far as I know, but I do. Had a scare with the contract for the house today and had to run around and take care of it. I try to tell myself it's fine b/c the SM Broadcaster wasn't working for me earlier. But now there's no way I'm meeting or even getting close to my goal for this week. Still doing good, but need to make the down payment.
ChocolateWhips
08-12-2016, 08:15 PM
(Looking at my RTT 86) my room is 45633
WTF......
TrifilinCamHo
08-12-2016, 09:24 PM
Me on cam this entire week but right now especially:
https://66.media.tumblr.com/0efdd61c3a7768ffcb30bdb2dad676c8/tumblr_n1ov17yPMD1tp3gf2o1_500.gif
Bridgetxo
08-12-2016, 10:25 PM
All I was getting was annoying requests today. I only stayed online for 2 hours. I just don't have any patience tonight. Gonna try again in the morning.
CreativeName
08-12-2016, 10:46 PM
I just had some repeat customer who I have on skype that today decided he doesn't want to pay me by the minute like he is supposed to. Thinks $200 will buy my whole night- is he fucking stupid?
Also he is a straight up alcoholic- extremely hard to listen to him saying "Get your shit together" when he is drunk out his ass and doesn't have his shit together. Fuck's sake. He was a very high maintenance regular customer to keep- and I am just glad I blocked him. I know he had a lot of money and I probably could have played some weird games to take it out of him, but having dealt with him now 3 times I just couldn't anymore.
evaeva
08-13-2016, 05:58 AM
I'm an idiot :( fell for a fake Amazon gift card and didn't check to make sure it was legit and ended up doing a 25min free show for this asshole. Pissed at this guy but mostly pissed at myself cause even though I am new, I know that there are loads of shady people out there and you can't do anything until you see payment.
anonymous camgirl
08-13-2016, 07:08 AM
3 times now on Skype I have been offered a pair of louboutin black pumps.. always the same pair of shoes... what kind of scam is this? this last one in the end asked if I had a shipping address or po box.. yea nope you are not getting that.. if you can't buy me something on amazon I don't want it... Not in lieu of a show or anything I only accept cash..
I'm an idiot :( fell for a fake Amazon gift card and didn't check to make sure it was legit and ended up doing a 25min free show for this asshole. Pissed at this guy but mostly pissed at myself cause even though I am new, I know that there are loads of shady people out there and you can't do anything until you see payment.
anonymous camgirl
08-13-2016, 09:17 AM
OMG my internet keeps disconnecting every 5 mins.. the cable guy came out yesterday and changed the modem.. yea I knew that was NOT the problem.. uggh.. so now it's worse than before!.. so now someone is coming out again tomorrow.. how the fuck am I supposed to work like this?? I hope they fix this tomorrow for god's sakes.. At least I have proof .. as I was talking to him for 10 mins or less it went out 3 times and he asked if I touched the modem.. NOPE.. it sucks!.. I am going to have to make videos or something..
anonymous camgirl
08-13-2016, 11:53 AM
I am setting new lows over here! $50 for over 3 hours.. wtf?
foxirox
08-13-2016, 12:24 PM
I'm an idiot :( fell for a fake Amazon gift card and didn't check to make sure it was legit and ended up doing a 25min free show for this asshole. Pissed at this guy but mostly pissed at myself cause even though I am new, I know that there are loads of shady people out there and you can't do anything until you see payment.
Hi Eva
I think there is a thread for naming and shaming these a-holes. Sorry this happened to you....something similar happened to me the other week. Always check payment - too many twats about x
JaneBurgess
08-13-2016, 02:27 PM
I am annoyed that my Twitter timeline is full of cam performers begging people to send them money. Its rude to post you are broke, cant pay rent and do a whole sob story so people will send you money. Im sure a lot of people on here have some hard times but they dont beg guys they dont know to give them money. Work hard, do other things but dont beg on social media. You cant bitch about beggars on cam sites when youre begging online too. It makes cam performers look bad overall.
CreativeName
08-13-2016, 04:29 PM
It really breaks my heart that my recent ex boyfriend would rather have me either literally destroying my body working at the factory, or broke, starving, and homeless than work in the adult industry. It isn't like I have a support system or anyone to fall back on.
Marina Starr
08-13-2016, 05:45 PM
You don't know how strong you are ALONE until being strong is your only choice. I just want to say you have my support. It makes me happy when people want to do better for themselves.
It really breaks my heart that my recent ex boyfriend would rather have me either literally destroying my body working at the factory, or broke, starving, and homeless than work in the adult industry. It isn't like I have a support system or anyone to fall back on.
gorgeousbbw
08-13-2016, 06:10 PM
Ugh i have a list
1. The lack of support of my porn so called fans. I can tweet and promote all day till my fingers bleed and i barely get clip sales, website signups, i'll get the random here and there but not close enough to make a living off of.
2. Camguys who take me private and as soon as i start my show, they want my phone number, this guy even send I want to text u all night baby not here. smfh
3. fans who keep tweeting me they are my number one fan and don't buy shit from me or a cam show
4. SM and whatever the f is going on with that site. I was making 700-1000 a week in March and now i am struggling to get to $200 a week
5. Just the adult industry in general im so over it. If it wasn't because i have several health issues that keep me from going to a regular office job, i would have been done by now. I hate it. I have no respect for these guys anymore. I hate every part of taking my clothes off for perverts. My heart is not in this anymore and u can thank SM for that for messing with my money that i can barely get by now.
rant over. thanks.
JaneBurgess
08-13-2016, 06:26 PM
It really breaks my heart that my recent ex boyfriend would rather have me either literally destroying my body working at the factory, or broke, starving, and homeless than work in the adult industry. It isn't like I have a support system or anyone to fall back on.
You have us as your support system, we all support each other
NylaHayes
08-13-2016, 06:33 PM
When some asshole wants me to do a 15 minute custom video for pennies. It takes the same amount of time to shoot, edit and upload to my hosting website that i PAY for except, instead of making $$$$ with that video i just send it to one person, once. They just don't get it. I wanna cut their tiny balls off some days......... *sigh* Also when i told him that i only get this much % of the whole price, he's like "well other girls use paypal" Yeah, thanks for trying to get me banned asshole.
I hate when they expect you to do a custom for super cheap. However, I always upload my customs to my clips sites. Manyvids, C4S, and IWC and just let the guys know it's a CUSTOM clip made for someone but they can buy it. Sometimes those actually sell more than the regular clips I make because the guys share the same fetish.
CreativeName
08-14-2016, 06:57 AM
I don't understand guys that have too much pride to date a "hoe" yet feel no shame that they are a broke loser with no ambition that can't provide at all. It isn't like I don't want a "real job" that fits my criteria.. it is simply that they barely exist these days. I could hardly give less of a damn what society thinks about me. I am certainly not going to go hungry or homeless to be "approved" by society and broke losers.
I guess I am just mostly sick with myself and how much time I wasted on this idiot. Time is the one thing you can never get back in the world. Yet I still find myself depressed over a stupid broke loser and wasting even more time.
SimoneGray
08-14-2016, 08:18 AM
I don't understand guys that have too much pride to date a "hoe" yet feel no shame that they are a broke loser with no ambition that can't provide at all. It isn't like I don't want a "real job" that fits my criteria.. it is simply that they barely exist these days. I could hardly give less of a damn what society thinks about me. I am certainly not going to go hungry or homeless to be "approved" by society and broke losers.
I guess I am just mostly sick with myself and how much time I wasted on this idiot. Time is the one thing you can never get back in the world. Yet I still find myself depressed over a stupid broke loser and wasting even more time.
Guuurl..all of this. Like guys are repulsed by my job yet they have no money, no job, no plans, no future, just a soundcloud link and what they claim is the biggest dick ever...like...nah bro, FOH with that nonsense, I'll stick to being a ho.
Glamourmilf
08-14-2016, 08:33 AM
Guuurl..all of this. Like guys are repulsed by my job yet they have no money, no job, no plans, no future, just a soundcloud link and what they claim is the biggest dick ever...like...nah bro, FOH with that nonsense, I'll stick to being a ho.
Most of the guys that pursued me on the dating sites I'm on didn't even have a job, car, or place of their own.
I'm talking guys in their late 30's and 40's. But yet, they expected me to drop everything and let them come over and fuck me. Ha ha! :rotfl:Yeah, ..no.:loco:
Is that what's out there now, in the dating pool? Pathetic.
What's even more pathetic is that most of them just want to exchange pix, or do Kik.
And the ones who DO talk on the phone, only call once, then completely disappear.
#WhereAreTheRealMen?
miss.a.p1600
08-14-2016, 08:50 AM
Omg. I can totally relate to everything the last 4 people posted.
Things that piss me off are this "man" who claims to date outside his race yet he is more prejudice than anyone I've ever known. And then wonder why women of other races don't want to be with him. Not even a woman of his own race wants to be with him.
Also said "man" will pay a woman for pussy then let her go about her business but expects me to fuck him for free, listen to his prejudice thoughts, and waste countless hours/my valuable time with him? Nope. Sorry dick is not good unless it comes with gifts and money.
And yes this guy was married (wife ditched him lol) and is in his 40's so you would think would have some common sense and some marital training by now.
CreativeName
08-14-2016, 08:50 AM
Yeah like for real- what i wouldn't give to meet an open-minded and ambitious individual that i also think looks good. But I think I am asking too much!
Seriously I think there are articles out how guys these days are total losers. No, I am not kidding.
http://www.thefiscaltimes.com/2015/06/10/Rise-New-Economic-Underclass-Millennial-Men
"According to the Pew Research Center and the Population Reference Bureau, 2 in 5 18- to 31-year-old men and 1 in 5 25- to 34-year-old men live in their parents’ basements or their childhood bedrooms, compared with 1 in 3 and 1 in 10 women in each of these age groups. And these numbers have been trending upward, even during the post-2008 “recovery.” One-third of the 30 million men in this age group are not employed, and many who are work only part-time or in low-wage jobs. Two-thirds have never married. By comparison, only 1 in 5 Generation Xers weren’t working and two-fifths of Baby Boomers weren’t married at comparable ages."
U SEE WOMENS R SUPERIOR CREATURES
Yes, I am 22 with a lot of mood problems and bitchiness that these sort of guys like to rag on me like "you are too negative" blah blah blah. Yet you're older than me, you still live with your parents, IF you have a job it is a total deadbeat job that is going nowhere, and you have no goals in life. I don't understand why losers try and date??? Like I am not asking for a millionaire here but what glamour said above me please have a income you either work for or have invested for, place of your own, and a car. Also a living wage. I am astounded how many guys just have no goals... I meet way more ambitious women than guys. I wish I was a lesbian omg. Why do men feel entitled to getting laid and dating a beautiful woman yet they cannot do the basic things to attract and keep them???
CreativeName
08-14-2016, 08:56 AM
Omg. I can totally relate to everything the last 4 people posted.
Things that piss me off are this "man" who claims to date outside his race yet he is more prejudice than anyone I've ever known. And then wonder why women of other races don't want to be with him. Not even a woman of his own race wants to be with him.
Also said "man" will pay a woman for pussy then let her go about her business but expects me to fuck him for free, listen to his prejudice thoughts, and waste countless hours/my valuable time with him? Nope. Sorry dick is not good unless it comes with gifts and money.
And yes this guy was married (wife ditched him lol) and is in his 40's so you would think would have some common sense and some marital training by now.
Yeah I have met so many guys that won't date their own race, and from personal experience I have learned to stay away from those. Although I guess I am a hypocrite- I will not date Russians. LOL I am just awful. Anyways that was off topic sort of.
All these guys that rag on sex workers have paid or will pay a sex worker at some point. Why do you hate us if you pay us? It doesn't make sense to me. I have never directly paid a person that I hate, so I find that weird.
Glamourmilf
08-14-2016, 09:02 AM
That article is spot on. I thought it was a California thing.
I got my first dose of reality when I was still living in L.A. And tried online dating.
I prefer guys in their 20's, and in L.A. there's plenty of them.
I asked one guy I met why most guys are in their moms basement ( figuratively, because there are no basements in L.A.).
He said because after college, or even without college, the jobs are scarce.
Well, possibly. Plus, the rents in L.A. are astronomical.
But, I now see it as lazy, because my thought is.....
If a guy has time to troll for dates online, all day, everyday. Then he has time to get a job.
I NEVER feel bad for guys. They get paid more than women, and are genetically stronger. They can ALWAYS get a job at a construction site.
CreativeName
08-14-2016, 09:11 AM
Fuck yes they can always get a physical job that pays well. Fuck I did that shit for a year and a half to move out and be an independent ass bitch before I decided I hate having my feet, ankles, knees, hips, wrists, elbows, shoulder, and back hurt so often. I thought at first maybe it was that I wasn't used to the work, but it simply turned out women are not built for some shit lol I found out the hard way. That being said I did fucking badass dangerous shit at my last job and I loved the sort of people I worked with for the most part. If I could have the same type of coworkers at any job I would have been happy. A lot of women hate blue collar workers, but I have a very high respect for them having worked with some of these people. They will slave away one 84 hour week after another because they want to have more money- even though their hourly wages are still good by most people's standards - $25 an hour. They are also fun.
What you said seriously reminds me about a forum thread I was reading on another site where a lot of petroleum engineering hopefuls and current students were bitching about how they wanted a desk job so much and that most of the beginners jobs are field jobs and "yuck physical work yuck toil and labor and dealing with blue collar plebs". So yes a lot of college kids that "can't" get a job just "won't" get a job. Either they are not willing to do the shittier jobs and work their way into something they would rather do or they are too lazy and stupid to move to a location with better or more job opportunities.
miss.a.p1600
08-14-2016, 09:13 AM
Yeah I have met so many guys that won't date their own race, and from personal experience I have learned to stay away from those. Although I guess I am a hypocrite- I will not date Russians. LOL I am just awful. Anyways that was off topic sort of.
All these guys that rag on sex workers have paid or will pay a sex worker at some point. Why do you hate us if you pay us? It doesn't make sense to me. I have never directly paid a person that I hate, so I find that weird.
Yes girl! I thought it was odd. Like even though I'm open to dating outside my race I find all races attractive.
Some of these guys are stupid. They will pay for women, spend time with women, and sleep with women that deep down they secretly hate.
I think they just are controlling/insecure/male chauvinists. And mentally ill/confused.
Glamourmilf
08-14-2016, 09:18 AM
Fuck yes they can always get a physical job that pays well. Fuck I did that shit for a year and a half to move out and be an independent ass bitch before I decided I hate having my feet, ankles, knees, hips, wrists, elbows, shoulder, and back hurt so often. I thought at first maybe it was that I wasn't used to the work, but it simply turned out women are not built for some shit lol I found out the hard way. That being said I did fucking badass dangerous shit at my last job and I loved the sort of people I worked with for the most part. If I could have the same type of coworkers at any job I would have been happy. A lot of women hate blue collar workers, but I have a very high respect for them having worked with some of these people. They will slave away one 84 hour week after another because they want to have more money- even though their hourly wages are still good by most people's standards - $25 an hour. They are also fun.
What you said seriously reminds me about a forum thread I was reading on another site where a lot of petroleum engineering hopefuls and current students were bitching about how they wanted a desk job so much and that most of the beginners jobs are field jobs and "yuck physical work yuck toil and labor and dealing with blue collar plebs". So yes a lot of college kids that "can't" get a job just "won't" get a job. Either they are not willing to do the shittier jobs and work their way into something they would rather do or they are too lazy and stupid to move to a location with better or more job opportunities.
Exactly. Or in L.A., they're waiting to be 'discovered'.( As an actor or model). Puhleez ::)
CreativeName
08-14-2016, 09:25 AM
Don't even get me started on the musician hopefuls that act like it is ok for them to be brokeass losers while they concentrate on their music so they can "make it big" because "obviously they can do it" LOL
anonymous camgirl
08-14-2016, 09:51 AM
I would have to agree.. I have a 25 and 19 yr old boys they don't plan on going anywhere .. but they are still in college right now though.
Yeah like for real- what i wouldn't give to meet an open-minded and ambitious individual that i also think looks good. But I think I am asking too much!
Seriously I think there are articles out how guys these days are total losers. No, I am not kidding.
http://www.thefiscaltimes.com/2015/06/10/Rise-New-Economic-Underclass-Millennial-Men
"According to the Pew Research Center and the Population Reference Bureau, 2 in 5 18- to 31-year-old men and 1 in 5 25- to 34-year-old men live in their parents’ basements or their childhood bedrooms, compared with 1 in 3 and 1 in 10 women in each of these age groups. And these numbers have been trending upward, even during the post-2008 “recovery.” One-third of the 30 million men in this age group are not employed, and many who are work only part-time or in low-wage jobs. Two-thirds have never married. By comparison, only 1 in 5 Generation Xers weren’t working and two-fifths of Baby Boomers weren’t married at comparable ages."
U SEE WOMENS R SUPERIOR CREATURES
Yes, I am 22 with a lot of mood problems and bitchiness that these sort of guys like to rag on me like "you are too negative" blah blah blah. Yet you're older than me, you still live with your parents, IF you have a job it is a total deadbeat job that is going nowhere, and you have no goals in life. I don't understand why losers try and date??? Like I am not asking for a millionaire here but what glamour said above me please have a income you either work for or have invested for, place of your own, and a car. Also a living wage. I am astounded how many guys just have no goals... I meet way more ambitious women than guys. I wish I was a lesbian omg. Why do men feel entitled to getting laid and dating a beautiful woman yet they cannot do the basic things to attract and keep them???
anonymous camgirl
08-14-2016, 10:14 AM
Yep!.. the guys you described were the guys I was running into on POF.. the worst!
That article is spot on. I thought it was a California thing.
I got my first dose of reality when I was still living in L.A. And tried online dating.
I prefer guys in their 20's, and in L.A. there's plenty of them.
I asked one guy I met why most guys are in their moms basement ( figuratively, because there are no basements in L.A.).
He said because after college, or even without college, the jobs are scarce.
Well, possibly. Plus, the rents in L.A. are astronomical.
But, I now see it as lazy, because my thought is.....
If a guy has time to troll for dates online, all day, everyday. Then he has time to get a job.
I NEVER feel bad for guys. They get paid more than women, and are genetically stronger. They can ALWAYS get a job at a construction site.
I love it when they try to ask you location questions thinking you're dumb as fuck and not onto them. Fuck off loser boy. You want a weather report- go look it up. Douchecanoe.