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CreativeName
08-14-2016, 12:04 PM
I just always lie about location lol. I find it funny that they think it is cool if I ask where they are from all they have to say is "UK" but if I just say "us" they just have a need to know what state and where exactly in that state. I always say New Jersey and the dumb fucks buy it even though I don't have the accent. Lmfao.
SoloDesire
08-14-2016, 12:16 PM
I just always lie about location lol. I find it funny that they think it is cool if I ask where they are from all they have to say is "UK" but if I just say "us" they just have a need to know what state and where exactly in that state. I always say New Jersey and the dumb fucks buy it even though I don't have the accent. Lmfao.
I say NJ too...not all of NJ has an accent ;)
LadyCoco
08-14-2016, 01:42 PM
Yeah I have met so many guys that won't date their own race, and from personal experience I have learned to stay away from those. Although I guess I am a hypocrite- I will not date Russians. LOL I am just awful. Anyways that was off topic sort of.
All these guys that rag on sex workers have paid or will pay a sex worker at some point. Why do you hate us if you pay us? It doesn't make sense to me. I have never directly paid a person that I hate, so I find that weird.
UGH! I just came across a guy like that on OkCupid. We had a 96% match and then I checked his questions and he said he wouldn't date outside his race. I'm mixed and that's half okay? Pffft goodbye!
anonymous camgirl
08-14-2016, 04:20 PM
I was having a pretty good normal day , seemed like the Olympics were no more.. but yet I had an appointment for 4-6pm with the cable guy to fix my disconnects.. uggh.. wouldn't you know he came right before 6 pm so now I cant work anymore .. WTF? I cannot win this month!.. at least I got to work about 4 hours.. but I have a lot of making up to do from all them bad days I had..
NylaHayes
08-14-2016, 04:43 PM
UGH! I just came across a guy like that on OkCupid. We had a 96% match and then I checked his questions and he said he wouldn't date outside his race. I'm mixed and that's half okay? Pffft goodbye!
I dealt with this SO much in highschool. I am biracial but everyone thinks im Latina. I talked to quite a few guys who as soon as they found out I was half african america all of a sudden I wasn't hot anymore and we could just be friends. Guys are so lame. You literally thought I was hot until I told you my race. Whatever, we don't need those small minded people in our lives ;)
Marina Starr
08-14-2016, 05:02 PM
I'm Asian but I prefer to only date non-Asian. I don't think there's anything wrong with having preferences as long as your preferences aren't racist.
Men that pay for sex don't hate sex workers. They love us. They hate the way they feel, the guilt that eats at them after fucking with us but I refused to take on any men's issue. You will PAY me, you will NOT hang your shit on me!
Yeah I have met so many guys that won't date their own race, and from personal experience I have learned to stay away from those. Although I guess I am a hypocrite- I will not date Russians. LOL I am just awful. Anyways that was off topic sort of.
All these guys that rag on sex workers have paid or will pay a sex worker at some point. Why do you hate us if you pay us? It doesn't make sense to me. I have never directly paid a person that I hate, so I find that weird.
Glamourmilf
08-14-2016, 06:26 PM
I just always lie about location lol. I find it funny that they think it is cool if I ask where they are from all they have to say is "UK" but if I just say "us" they just have a need to know what state and where exactly in that state. I always say New Jersey and the dumb fucks buy it even though I don't have the accent. Lmfao.
Luckily I still have my regional accent, so yeah. They get that answer, even though I'm on the other coast.
I do make them pay for me to tell them my fake location. Lol! Suckas
BiscuitT
08-14-2016, 07:24 PM
I have a wisdom teeth that needs to be removed and the pain is kiiiillling meee!!! I managed to cam the last week and keep my energy up but today my cheek is all swollen and I canīt show up like that. Iīm always online on sundays, I hate to be sick and I miss Streamate as strange as it sounds :( I have my dentist appointement on tuesday, I will need to take one more day to rest after surgery...this week will be rough.
lSexyS2
08-14-2016, 07:32 PM
Wanna cry from 10 am till 3 am from SM to MFC and only made $4, not been lucky and I'm terrible and networking... frustrated
Glamourmilf
08-14-2016, 09:32 PM
I'm watching the news, and they are advising not to go outside tomorrow because it's going to be too hot.>:(
Yeah, well where were you the last 4 months? It's been over 90 or even 100 the whole time ? Did all you weather forecasters JUST get the memo? Geesh
I hate summer!
Puts me in a pissed off mood.:(
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TheBrownFox
08-14-2016, 09:41 PM
Sucks that every time I log into my ManyVids account, I have to do that "Select all the images that have coffee (or whatever)" verification crap. Sometimes that shit ain't easy because it's a little difficult to make out everything that's in the photos. That and those damn CAPCHA codes when trying to log into e-mail accounts and whatnot. Sometimes I get that shit wrong, and have to keep having them give me another one til I get it right. SMH. I know it's for security purposes and all, but damn...
CreativeName
08-15-2016, 02:46 AM
I'm Asian but I prefer to only date non-Asian. I don't think there's anything wrong with having preferences as long as your preferences aren't racist.
Men that pay for sex don't hate sex workers. They love us. They hate the way they feel, the guilt that eats at them after fucking with us but I refused to take on any men's issue. You will PAY me, you will NOT hang your shit on me!
Yeah I am Russian (born in America) I won't date other Russians. On the cam I am 100% American because I don't need my income to fall for being associated with the Eastern Euro girls (no offense). I was simply saying from my past experiences I have learned not to date guys that refuse to date their own race. I know I have a bit of a double standard here, but I don't care- I have a pussy and I can do what I want and men will still want me no matter how unreasonable I am. :)
I never thought about it the way you described in your second line. Always nice to have another point of view.
CreativeName
08-15-2016, 02:56 AM
I dealt with this SO much in highschool. I am biracial but everyone thinks im Latina. I talked to quite a few guys who as soon as they found out I was half african america all of a sudden I wasn't hot anymore and we could just be friends. Guys are so lame. You literally thought I was hot until I told you my race. Whatever, we don't need those small minded people in our lives ;)
maybe these guys are just small dick losers that wouldn't have ever been able to handle you anyways- I don't consider this a loss! I think black women have the best bodies overall...
foxirox
08-15-2016, 05:09 AM
It's freeload Central this morning. Want.to.cry.
Glamourmilf
08-15-2016, 05:28 AM
One of the MANY dudes on the dating site won't take ' no' for an answer when I decline his advances.
So I decide to have a little fun with him.
Me: "You live too far from me".
Him: " Yes, but, I also have another house in your area."
Me: "Another house? Why? Are You married?"
Him: " No. Actually I have 4 houses."
Me: " Nobody likes a bragger."
Him: " Forget it. I don't think this is going to work out."
:rotfl:
:wave:
Edit to add: This guy continued to message me the next day after he got pissed at me.
He's been begging for my number, so I got his and called him from a blocked number. Lol!
He picked up, of course, because.....
"Why Men Love Bitches"
PixiieGirl
08-15-2016, 05:51 AM
I had a decent first day back to camming yesterday and now I've woken up with a UTI T.T oh well, content work it is today I guess :(
evaeva
08-15-2016, 11:02 AM
Camming seems to be all peaks and valleys for me. Last night was awesome and got me all excited to log on today and have another high earning day and instead...crickets. Oh, and freeloaders with a billion requests. Turned chat off for greys after a few minutes but users with tokens were tipping very sporadically and not saying ANYTHING so after 2 hours I just logged out because I didn't want to start looking upset on cam but jeez it's depressing.
Glamourmilf
08-15-2016, 03:22 PM
I'm watching the news, and they are advising not to go outside tomorrow because it's going to be too hot.>:(
Yeah, well where were you the last 4 months? It's been over 90 or even 100 the whole time ? Did all you weather forecasters JUST get the memo? Geesh
I hate summer!
Puts me in a pissed off mood.:(
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Well, against the advice of weather men, I went out to run errands.
Yowza!!! It was 119 degrees in my friends carport!
My car overheated, and my battery almost died.
Not going to leave my house anymore until it cools down a bit.
I hate summer!
miss.a.p1600
08-15-2016, 04:48 PM
Lol! I totally thought you were black + latina. It's funny the images we create when we can't see people on here.
I wish we didn't have to deal with racially/culturally ignorant and hateful people. But yeah standard dating sites are not easy for interracial dating. You have to do a lot of sorting (and deleting)
I'm Asian but I prefer to only date non-Asian. I don't think there's anything wrong with having preferences as long as your preferences aren't racist.
Men that pay for sex don't hate sex workers. They love us. They hate the way they feel, the guilt that eats at them after fucking with us but I refused to take on any men's issue. You will PAY me, you will NOT hang your shit on me!
CreativeName
08-15-2016, 06:20 PM
I have personally observed that a lot of the black men that like to date white women point blank refuse to date black women. You ask why and they spew such hateful shit, I just don't get it. I have tried dating 2 of that sort of black men and just never again- their hate might not have been directed at me, but it was a "red flag" alright.
edit: i guess judging from two I should not generalize and say "a lot"...
Marina Starr
08-15-2016, 06:34 PM
I can't blame you, I don't think I come across as Asian, LOL!
Lol! I totally thought you were black + latina. It's funny the images we create when we can't see people on here.
I wish we didn't have to deal with racially/culturally ignorant and hateful people. But yeah standard dating sites are not easy for interracial dating. You have to do a lot of sorting (and deleting)
miss.a.p1600
08-15-2016, 06:50 PM
I have personally observed that a lot of the black men that like to date white women point blank refuse to date black women. You ask why and they spew such hateful shit, I just don't get it. I have tried dating 2 of that sort of black men and just never again- their hate might not have been directed at me, but it was a "red flag" alright.
edit: i guess judging from two I should not generalize and say "a lot"...
Nope. I did once and dude got mad over some petty sh*t then had the audacity to say "see this is why I don't date black women" lol. I'm like go f*ck yourself loser youre not even on my level anyways. Black women don't want your sorry a$! And I have a hard time believing white women want you either. Bahaha gtfooh cause i won't lose a wink of sleep.
Most black men that I've encountered that date white women will also date other races too. Only the small percentage of them date only white women - so never try and date these guys you'll be in a world of hurt.
It sucks to find out you're dating a racist dude. And these types come in any race. Like a wolf in sheep clothing. Gotta ditch these losers asap.
EllieGold
08-15-2016, 08:42 PM
My birthday. I'm so over birthdays. I didn't go anywhere today. My mother in law ended up spoiling this one for me. She took my son out and talked shit about me my birthday so he came home at 8pm and they just left without saying a word. I went and treated myself to 2 dollar menu items for lunch and got called some names for it. She's so bitter and mean sometimes. I'm over it. Fuck today.
DonaDiabla
08-15-2016, 09:45 PM
I am sorry that you went through that. Happy birthday :grouphug: Have a virtual birthday hug, Ellie :grouphug:
My birthday. I'm so over birthdays. I didn't go anywhere today. My mother in law ended up spoiling this one for me. She took my son out and talked shit about me my birthday so he came home at 8pm and they just left without saying a word. I went and treated myself to 2 dollar menu items for lunch and got called some names for it. She's so bitter and mean sometimes. I'm over it. Fuck today.
JaneBurgess
08-15-2016, 10:32 PM
My birthday. I'm so over birthdays. I didn't go anywhere today. My mother in law ended up spoiling this one for me. She took my son out and talked shit about me my birthday so he came home at 8pm and they just left without saying a word. I went and treated myself to 2 dollar menu items for lunch and got called some names for it. She's so bitter and mean sometimes. I'm over it. Fuck today.
I am so sorry you were treated like that. She sounds terrible and she should not talk badly about you to your son. Happy Birthday and your virtual family loves you to pieces.
EllieGold
08-15-2016, 10:35 PM
I may sound like I don't make any sense, but there is so many stupid little details that just aren't worth mentioning here. She almost died 2 months ago and she's been so damn bitter since. Has anyone seen the movie Monster in Law? YEP. HER.
CreativeName
08-16-2016, 01:34 AM
Happy birthday! Gosh I would just not even associate with her honestly- you're a better person than I am lol. Sorry that this happened to you.
Glamourmilf
08-16-2016, 07:07 AM
My birthday. I'm so over birthdays. I didn't go anywhere today. My mother in law ended up spoiling this one for me. She took my son out and talked shit about me my birthday so he came home at 8pm and they just left without saying a word. I went and treated myself to 2 dollar menu items for lunch and got called some names for it. She's so bitter and mean sometimes. I'm over it. Fuck today.
Aw, babe. Don't let anyone spoil your birthday. The angels are smiling because you were born.
Happy Birthday! Now, go out and do something special for yourself.:grouphug::party:
anonymous camgirl
08-16-2016, 11:56 AM
I have never been so incredibly bored in all my fucking life... I have never felt the summer slow down til these damn Olympics..
foxirox
08-16-2016, 01:23 PM
So so many cheap asses about today. My god it's like pulling teeth. Even my "regulars" are being demanding and saying shit like " Well, I can't tonight, I want to keep all my money for a longer show with you next week". Jeez, fuck off out of my room then. Can not be arsed...
anonymous camgirl
08-16-2016, 01:56 PM
You didn't know you signed up for dentistry school?..lol
So so many cheap asses about today. My god it's like pulling teeth. Even my "regulars" are being demanding and saying shit like " Well, I can't tonight, I want to keep all my money for a longer show with you next week". Jeez, fuck off out of my room then. Can not be arsed...
foxirox
08-16-2016, 02:59 PM
You didn't know you signed up for dentistry school?..lol
Haha - With
my knowledge so far...I could be an expect in the field :D
xxxGothBarbie
08-16-2016, 11:50 PM
Traffic on both sites i'm working has been really slow for me also :( I hope it picks up soon bc I honestly love this job too much too quit but fuck I need bigger payouts so I can save to travel.
NovaSensei
08-17-2016, 03:10 AM
Tonight was so slow on SM. I had the same couple of guys popping in and out and then one guy go exclusive for 30 secs.
Genoveve
08-17-2016, 01:17 PM
I've bitched about this before but I get so confused and frustrated by former spenders that will pop in and out of my chatroom all shift long every time I work. Like I don't mind if a spender stops spending because who cares, they're allowed to get bored with me or go broke, and even though it's annoying AF I don't really have a huge problem with them still stopping by and wasting my time every now and then because they probably still technically like me even though they aren't currently spending for whatever reason(I'm not saying I let them waste my time btw, I'm just saying I think I understand the thought process behind it).
I recently had this one guy who used to regularly take me for exclusives every time I'd see him and then he started showing up and leaving without going exclusive. That's fine....but then he would keep doing it and keep doing it--and never even trying to talk btw, literally coming in just to stare at me I guess--so I started booting him from the chatroom when he would come in. Then I would notice he would still pop in here and there but doing it super fast probably hoping I would miss it. That's just so creepy to me, like what is the point of coming in to look at me multiple times a day every day?? I don't do a damn thing in my chatroom either so it's not like they want to hear what I'm talking about or be entertained.
The other day I had to ban a guy and I felt bad because he had recently spent and rated me 5 stars but he would do the same thing; popping in and out of my room alllllll shift long every shift. That just weirds me out so much, the chance of them spending again in the future is not worth it for me.
Genoveve
08-17-2016, 03:27 PM
Another thing that drives me nuts and just happened is when you're in a pvt and someone in the public chat is harassing you to leave it to go exclusive with them. Even if I knew that the person was for sure going to do a long-ass exclu I still wouldn't do it because I believe in first-come-first-serve. And any guy who would ask for a chick to do that is fucked up and rude in the first place because a gentleman would be patient and wait so that the girl could get all the money from the current customer that she was going to get, and THEN get theirs too.
I was in a long pvt today and the whole damn time this guy who did an exclu with me a few days ago is popping in and out of the public chat and at one point asks me to leave my show to go exclu. When I eventually get out of the pvt said douche comes back and then proceeds to just sit in my chatroom. Eventually I get taken exclu by someone else, I come back, he comes back and I just booted him. I have no patience for that kind of fuckery, if you want to annoy me by acting so damn desperate to spend then fucking spend when you actually have the chance. :beat:
kendrasum
08-17-2016, 07:15 PM
Customer who I've had for less than two weeks and I have this exchange: (this is paraphrased of course)
Him: I love you, I want to date you, I will threaten you to try to get free shows, I want you to be my girlfriend, I will report you if you go on a date with someone. I Love you, you should move to another country for me. Don't piss me off, I'm emotionally unstable. I'm gods gift to women, why don't you like me? I want to fuck you, if you loved me you would fuck me. I can't pay you now but I'll give you double if you do a show now and I'll pay you tomorrow. But tomorrow my debit card is stolen. I'm going to act like I own you even though I've spent a total of 125$ on you. I'm a cop I can ruin your life. You're my perfect angel I love you. Come play with me, I don't want to be a client I want you to be mine, I only want you no one else. PAY ATTENTION TO ME I NEED VALIDATION!
ME (outwardly): I like you too, but I'm not doing shows tonight, me and all my cats got our periods at the same time and I need to clean up the carnage.
Me (Inwardly) : You are a pathetic, time wasting piece of shit, If I don't have my money by the end of the week I am hitting you with the ban hammer everywhere I can and then hitting you with several real hammers if you ever come back.
So many pathetic douchebags. If it looks like a whale, smells like a whale and tastes like a whale it's probably a fuckboy who can't get any IRL.
Rant Complete. Stay gorgeous and wealthy my Baes
TheBrownFox
08-17-2016, 07:47 PM
I have personally observed that a lot of the black men that like to date white women point blank refuse to date black women. You ask why and they spew such hateful shit, I just don't get it. I have tried dating 2 of that sort of black men and just never again- their hate might not have been directed at me, but it was a "red flag" alright.
edit: i guess judging from two I should not generalize and say "a lot"...
There is an internet-famous Black guy named Tommy Sotomayor who's constantly posting videos where he rants about why he hates Black women. And the dude is raising a young, Black daughter, so how does that work (hating Black women so much while raising a Black daughter...hmmm)? For whatever reason, I used to follow him and watch his videos until I finally had enough and couldn't continue watching anymore. He's just so hateful towards Black women.
Fine by me if these Black "men" don't want us, because I sure as hell don't want them either. These dudes ain't loyal. Got my heart broken enough times to not get my hopes up anymore over ANY man...Black or White. You treat these guys like royalty, and they take advantage of that. They expect women to be 100% loyal to them (and we are), while it's okay for them to sneak around and be man whores. Fuck that.
TheBrownFox
08-17-2016, 08:02 PM
My birthday. I'm so over birthdays. I didn't go anywhere today. My mother in law ended up spoiling this one for me. She took my son out and talked shit about me my birthday so he came home at 8pm and they just left without saying a word. I went and treated myself to 2 dollar menu items for lunch and got called some names for it. She's so bitter and mean sometimes. I'm over it. Fuck today.
Wow, I'm sorry that your MIL was being a cunt.
My b-day was nothing to brag about. I wound up with a stiff neck that day, and I've been in pain for two days. Got my grandmom's funeral on Saturday, and I'm hoping I'm not still walking around looking stupid (with medicated patches on my neck and shit) then.
Hopefully, next year you and I will have a better birthday experience. :) *HUG*
LadyCoco
08-17-2016, 09:18 PM
I may sound like I don't make any sense, but there is so many stupid little details that just aren't worth mentioning here. She almost died 2 months ago and she's been so damn bitter since. Has anyone seen the movie Monster in Law? YEP. HER.
I'm watching that movie right now. Yikes!
I'm so sorry that happened to you on your birthday. Sending you love. <3
xxxGothBarbie
08-18-2016, 03:38 AM
I had a few privates tonight while split camming & I got alot of "fat slut" comments which doesn't bother me but hell at least they could fuckin tip me ugh. I can take all sorts of shame in private shows bc nothing these losers say affect me I just laugh it off.
CamChik
08-18-2016, 06:31 AM
Well fuck. I'm literally at 1/5 of my weekly goal and I'm going to be short on my rent. Major site issues on SM Sunday, and so little traffic it screwed me out of my only full cam day that I have during the week. Checked out cams.com until I realized they record shows and take unflattering screen shots during chat so I hit payout there but am done with that site. I'm so screwed. I have 2 3 hour shifts left to cam and I've been averaging $50 a night when I usually pull down $100-$250 in a single shift. Fuck you August.
gingerstripper
08-18-2016, 02:05 PM
where is everyone today :o
xoprincessremy
08-18-2016, 02:29 PM
wow. this has been the worst week ever. made $175 in two nights (in 12 hours total). wow. just wow.
and preseason games are tonight (thursday) and friday night tomorrow. ugh!!! I'm going to be short on my rent :(
My last 3 nights. 80/73/47. Granted I couldn't work all the hours I wanted to, but not even sure it would have made a difference.
Still. Grateful for what I've made. And the Cam Angels have been kind to me this Suckiest month to suck all months besides January.
My birthday. I'm so over birthdays. I didn't go anywhere today. My mother in law ended up spoiling this one for me. She took my son out and talked shit about me my birthday so he came home at 8pm and they just left without saying a word. I went and treated myself to 2 dollar menu items for lunch and got called some names for it. She's so bitter and mean sometimes. I'm over it. Fuck today.
Happy Belated Birthday!!! <3
gingerstripper
08-18-2016, 04:01 PM
well... made 153 today >.< have to get on tonight and hustle. not giving up
~Carmen~
08-18-2016, 04:03 PM
I'm so sorry about your grandma. I hope you feel better!
Wow, I'm sorry that your MIL was being a cunt.
My b-day was nothing to brag about. I wound up with a stiff neck that day, and I've been in pain for two days. Got my grandmom's funeral on Saturday, and I'm hoping I'm not still walking around looking stupid (with medicated patches on my neck and shit) then.
Hopefully, next year you and I will have a better birthday experience. :) *HUG*
SylvySinclair
08-18-2016, 04:09 PM
aw is awful for me this week, i never made 0 2 days in a row, was even bragging abt it with myself....lol now, im fucked, shouldnt have thought abt it, on the other hand got 2 great shows on skyprivate and cambabes. so...i guess i cant complain much.
gingerstripper
08-18-2016, 04:10 PM
well guys ... the cam gods are lookng out for me just made 62 dollars in clips