View Full Version : The General Purpose "Camming Sucks Right Now" Thread
CreativeName
08-18-2016, 04:36 PM
There is an internet-famous Black guy named Tommy Sotomayor who's constantly posting videos where he rants about why he hates Black women. And the dude is raising a young, Black daughter, so how does that work (hating Black women so much while raising a Black daughter...hmmm)? For whatever reason, I used to follow him and watch his videos until I finally had enough and couldn't continue watching anymore. He's just so hateful towards Black women.
Fine by me if these Black "men" don't want us, because I sure as hell don't want them either. These dudes ain't loyal. Got my heart broken enough times to not get my hopes up anymore over ANY man...Black or White. You treat these guys like royalty, and they take advantage of that. They expect women to be 100% loyal to them (and we are), while it's okay for them to sneak around and be man whores. Fuck that.
I realize some people might attack me for saying this but it just seems like a lot of people are either particularly hostile towards black women or just really rude/mean/prejudiced. Just my point of view as an "outsider".
I'm not sure why so many black guys keep trying to date outside their race it almost seems like a trend to me. Personally makes me not want to date em cuz seems they are trying to do some kinda tally almost of how many girls of what race they been with.
Again this is all my point of view it might be wrong sorry if it offends which probably it will but I didn't intend it. Im tired too so this probably isn't worded very well.
Promised
08-18-2016, 05:52 PM
the guys who come in and tell me they've been figuring it up and they can go private with me for 3 minutes do I want to? lol no, thanks for letting me know it's one of those ahead of time though i'll give you 5 bucks to not make me waste my time getting naked to put it all back on in my thirty second time frame.
CreativeName
08-18-2016, 06:33 PM
Just point camera up or at something else so you don't have to change so fast and hide all your toys. 30s is bs
evaeva
08-18-2016, 06:34 PM
During the couple show with my BF tonight some other performer came in and started posting really rude shit about the way we look and I was in the middle of giving him a blowjob so couldn't remove it/none of our mods were there to ban her but I was honestly very surprised. I had heard that other cam girls sometimes go and say mean things to other girls but hadn't experienced it til now. I personally think every girl has a different style and would rather encourage rather than try to bring anyone down and tip other performers as much as I can if I think they are fun/entertaining but I guess maybe she doesn't see it that way. It was nice that a bunch of people in our room immediately came to our defense though.
MissCavalli
08-19-2016, 09:59 AM
Oh god, I can't believe this.
Yesterday - NOTHING. Guys freeload and went in and out.
Was the first shift ever I didn't make shit ( on streamate, MFC i rarely even got 10 tokens per day)
Today three regulars THANK GOD. Made 30 dollars on a friday... Was hoping minimum 100.
PLEASE TELL ME ITS THE OLYMPICS AND NOT MEEEE?
SylvySinclair
08-19-2016, 11:02 AM
its not u misscavalli, i rarely had 1 day where i made 0 on aw, and when i mean rarely that means maybe 3 times since ive started, this week, were 2 days with 0!!!! I thought guys couldnt come in and that my room had tech issues....lol
then today, out of the blue ive made 130 so far. so dont worry, things will pick up very soon, as soon the olympics are over. peace!
evaeva
08-19-2016, 12:06 PM
So. Many. Technical. Issues. Flash player crashed, Chrome crashed, finally got CB working on Safari then half the apps kept crashing and then right as I finally reached my first goal the giant storm happening right now caused my internet to crash and by the time I finally got everything up and running again no one was in my room anymore. UGHHHH. At least I made half my daily goal before that but seriously what a pain.
Holly_xoxo
08-19-2016, 12:28 PM
My morning has consisted of people telling me that my stream is freezing and about a dozen conversations like this :
Loser : where in Canada u from bb?
Me: the best part
Loser:what part is that bb?
Me: if you have to ask, you're obviously not from there.
Loser leaves.
Maybe the afternoon will be better (fingers crossed)
CamChik
08-19-2016, 03:11 PM
When I have had a pathetically slow week, am at 1/5 of my NECESSARY goal to pay rent and in comes PMS. Ya know, the out of control type... PMDD level :(
The PMS that makes your boobs so sore you would rather rip them off of your chest and lob them at the nearest passerby screaming "You fucking take these, I am DONE!". The PMS that comes with a fever for 2 days and you just want to crawl in the bathtub and sleep. The PMS that makes you pretty much irrationally angry at everything (inanimate objects included) "Fuck that grass over there....just sitting there and growing all smug like. Asshole grass.". The PMS with cramps so severe you are ready to go to the nearest hospital and BEG them to remove your uterus - of course NO FLOW YET! The PMS that makes you want to eat everything in sight but you're so nauseous you just want to go stick your head in the toilet.
Rent be damned I guess - thanks for the fucked up Sunday this week camgods, otherwise I would be a lot closer to paying my rent. No work for me last night (fucking fever), no work tonight (fucking fever and cramps and I cannot trust myself with the ban hammer tonight due to being in ZERO tolerance mode), cannot work tomorrow night due to obligations and god forbid if Sharkweek starts on Sunday full force because that is the only day I can work a full day on cam.
I hated my periods before camming, but now that they can screw with my money the hatred is now at astronomical proportions.
Glamourmilf
08-19-2016, 03:48 PM
Another thing that drives me nuts and just happened is when you're in a pvt and someone in the public chat is harassing you to leave it to go exclusive with them. Even if I knew that the person was for sure going to do a long-ass exclu I still wouldn't do it because I believe in first-come-first-serve. And any guy who would ask for a chick to do that is fucked up and rude in the first place because a gentleman would be patient and wait so that the girl could get all the money from the current customer that she was going to get, and THEN get theirs too.
I was in a long pvt today and the whole damn time this guy who did an exclu with me a few days ago is popping in and out of the public chat and at one point asks me to leave my show to go exclu. When I eventually get out of the pvt said douche comes back and then proceeds to just sit in my chatroom. Eventually I get taken exclu by someone else, I come back, he comes back and I just booted him. I have no patience for that kind of fuckery, if you want to annoy me by acting so damn desperate to spend then fucking spend when you actually have the chance. :beat:
This happens to me too. It's the most irritating thing ever! It's so rude! Reminds me of a child who's tugging at his mom's skirt for attention. Like he's saying , ,"Look at me! Me! Me! Me! Forget about everything and everyone..lose money, cause I need attention."
Piss off! Block!
When I have had a pathetically slow week, am at 1/5 of my NECESSARY goal to pay rent and in comes PMS. Ya know, the out of control type... PMDD level :(
The PMS that makes your boobs so sore you would rather rip them off of your chest and lob them at the nearest passerby screaming "You fucking take these, I am DONE!". The PMS that comes with a fever for 2 days and you just want to crawl in the bathtub and sleep. The PMS that makes you pretty much irrationally angry at everything (inanimate objects included) "Fuck that grass over there....just sitting there and growing all smug like. Asshole grass.". The PMS with cramps so severe you are ready to go to the nearest hospital and BEG them to remove your uterus - of course NO FLOW YET! The PMS that makes you want to eat everything in sight but you're so nauseous you just want to go stick your head in the toilet.
Rent be damned I guess - thanks for the fucked up Sunday this week camgods, otherwise I would be a lot closer to paying my rent. No work for me last night (fucking fever), no work tonight (fucking fever and cramps and I cannot trust myself with the ban hammer tonight due to being in ZERO tolerance mode), cannot work tomorrow night due to obligations and god forbid if Sharkweek starts on Sunday full force because that is the only day I can work a full day on cam.
I hated my periods before camming, but now that they can screw with my money the hatred is now at astronomical proportions.
I love your ability to convey exactly how you feel. Well written!!! So sorry you have to deal with that. I get it like that every once in awhile. I even hate on myself then. It's horrible!!
CamChik
08-19-2016, 04:58 PM
I love your ability to convey exactly how you feel. Well written!!! So sorry you have to deal with that. I get it like that every once in awhile. I even hate on myself then. It's horrible!!
Than you Mare ;D I tried to explain PMS to my fiancé by using the Big Bang Theory episode where Leonard has to wear an old scratchy sweater for days because he never returned Sheldon's movie - aaanndd then multiply it by 100. I think he gets it somewhat now, lol!
anonymous camgirl
08-22-2016, 07:50 AM
So I have been on for 2 hours.. and it's slow as molasses and the only people I see on some of my sites have less than $1.. uggh.. I thought the Olympics were over? it seems even worse!... I hope my day improves , I only have 4 hours left!
evaeva
08-22-2016, 08:05 AM
Had $300 worth of bills come up unexpectedly, now missing at least 2 days of work due to red flags so this month is finishing up rough + it means my paycheck for the beginning of next month is going to be lower than I need since it's a 2 week pay period damn it
SylvySinclair
08-22-2016, 08:24 AM
it should pick up soon as the olympics are over and the cold is heading ur way now...hehehe
anonymous camgirl
08-22-2016, 09:15 AM
I had high hopes today thinking I am going to make $300 today!.. lmao.. I have made $21 in 2 hours haha
it should pick up soon as the olympics are over and the cold is heading ur way now...hehehe
SylvySinclair
08-22-2016, 09:46 AM
i think from now on things will get better, not sure why, but i feel it. on sept 21st will start my spring, so the cold will be going ur way, which means guys will stay more indoors, so.....it can only improve right?
anonymous camgirl
08-22-2016, 10:02 AM
3 hours go by and now I made an extra $1 to go with my $21.. woohoo ..$22
I had high hopes today thinking I am going to make $300 today!.. lmao.. I have made $21 in 2 hours haha
Glamourmilf
08-22-2016, 12:07 PM
My live in housekeeper was telling me that she pulled her grandkids out of a movie theater because the word 'Fuck' was used in the opening scene.:O
Um, okay. I wonder how many times she's heard me say ' Fuck', ( or worse), in the course of a day.}:D
But who's counting? IDGAF
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SexxiLexxi
08-22-2016, 12:15 PM
What really pisses me off is when grown ass adults act like children. Dude, seriously! C'mon, act like an adult and take care of your business like one. If you have a problem with someone...do the adult thing by either A: Blocking/Ignoring them or B: Have an respectful adult conversation to resolve the issues. It *really* can be that easy.
anonymous camgirl
08-22-2016, 01:17 PM
I just can't do this day anymore!.. maybe getting up at 5 am is the wrong thing!.. I didn't finish my 6 hours.. I think I made over $70... fuck this.
CreativeName
08-22-2016, 01:45 PM
It pisses me off that people care so much about status and what somebody does for money. If you aren't hurting anyone then I don't see why it matters? For example if you have an MBA and important position at some huge corporation and make $200,000 a year you are probably more respected than a hardcore salesman or house flipper with no college that makes $800,000 a year. I just don't understand this.
Serena-Shields
08-22-2016, 01:56 PM
Fuck this month.
DahliaSimone
08-22-2016, 01:56 PM
What pisses me off is guys treating SM like a dating site or a therapy session....like, dude, I depend on this for survival....I'm fine with chatting to an extent, but at some point...just take me to the private room and lets work out your frustrations there....SO many guys just popping in and out not even bothering to say hi....thats another thing I hate....nature of the business though.
DahliaSimone
08-22-2016, 01:58 PM
Fuck this month.
Agreed 100%
SoloDesire
08-22-2016, 03:18 PM
I'm having a slow day...which happens now and then...but it puts me in such a sour mood! I feel like ripping someones balls off right now. I'm not a violent person but right now I wish so many horrible things to the beggars who enter my room. Mwahahaha!!!
http://i.giphy.com/3rgXBEwSnPfUoTmZs4.gif
TheBrownFox
08-22-2016, 05:00 PM
My live in housekeeper was telling me that she pulled her grandkids out of a movie theater because the word 'Fuck' was used in the opening scene.:O
Um, okay. I wonder how many times she's heard me say ' Fuck', ( or worse), in the course of a day.}:D
But who's counting? IDGAF
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Lol. They're cursing in all kinds of movies that kids watch. I nearly fell outta my chair when I was watching Transformers: Dark of the Moon, and Wheelie said "Enjoy your next job at 7-11, dickhead!" HAHA!!! Optimus Prime has called one of the Decepticons a "punk ass," and in Transformers: Age of Extinction, the one dude tells the women to "Move the fuck out the way." Lmao.
anonymous camgirl
08-22-2016, 05:14 PM
I'll take the house flipper making $800,000 a year any day over Mr Corporate Douche!.. but then again my lifetime goal is real estate investing.. getting closer!
It pisses me off that people care so much about status and what somebody does for money. If you aren't hurting anyone then I don't see why it matters? For example if you have an MBA and important position at some huge corporation and make $200,000 a year you are probably more respected than a hardcore salesman or house flipper with no college that makes $800,000 a year. I just don't understand this.
someoldnoob
08-22-2016, 05:31 PM
'show me your eyes'
'perfrfce'
'lay back more
more
more
more'
*out of frame entirely*
'....
more.'
Glamourmilf
08-22-2016, 11:16 PM
Lol. They're cursing in all kinds of movies that kids watch. I nearly fell outta my chair when I was watching Transformers: Dark of the Moon, and Wheelie said "Enjoy your next job at 7-11, dickhead!" HAHA!!! Optimus Prime has called one of the Decepticons a "punk ass," and in Transformers: Age of Extinction, the one dude tells the women to "Move the fuck out the way." Lmao.
I can imagine.
She claims she's hard of hearing, but I think she hears what she wants to, ya know what I mean?
I think it was just her way of hinting that she hears me.
I couldn't care less. She's not paying my bills.
CreativeName
08-22-2016, 11:30 PM
I'll take the house flipper making $800,000 a year any day over Mr Corporate Douche!.. but then again my lifetime goal is real estate investing.. getting closer!
yeah my retirement plan will involve heavy real estate investing but gotta get there first lol- working on it though. I think I started camming at a slow/bad time too lol (oops).
Personally I wasn't making big bucks at my factory I just left but people there made $30,000-$85,000 a yr just on factory floor so I always laughed at everyone trying to insult me that worked at say a restaurant or as some low lvl manager. Like fuck off.
I hate corporate people too lol. Do you happen to go on biggerpockets?
anonymous camgirl
08-23-2016, 04:01 AM
Yep sure do.. I have been on there for 3 yrs now... Sadly before that I went to a Rich Dad seminar I paid $200 for and then I joined the Rich Dad Coaching for almost $4000 which was USELESS!.. I could have used that money for real estate investing.. so that set me back a bit!.. I am waiting to pay off one credit card, then I am going to get a heloc and start looking for a property... Not sure if I want to do the BRRR method or just do a flip.. I am intrigued by flipping currently to generate a lot more profit to invest in the short term and really get going on this so I am not completely reliant on fricken camming..... yesterday was so terrible for me on cam I was making $14 bucks an hour.. fuck that!
yeah my retirement plan will involve heavy real estate investing but gotta get there first lol- working on it though. I think I started camming at a slow/bad time too lol (oops).
Personally I wasn't making big bucks at my factory I just left but people there made $30,000-$85,000 a yr just on factory floor so I always laughed at everyone trying to insult me that worked at say a restaurant or as some low lvl manager. Like fuck off.
I hate corporate people too lol. Do you happen to go on biggerpockets?
I should have counted the number of bans I doled out today. Between yesterday and today just horrible, horrible slow traffic, full blown below low IQ sad sack excuse for men.
anonymous camgirl
08-23-2016, 10:32 AM
I am not even sure what's going on but I still can't make money today like fucking yesterday!.. been on 3 hours and only made $51... wtf?.. not even $20 an hour.. that's not even half what I normally make
PixiieGirl
08-23-2016, 10:38 AM
jesus I do not have the patient for these people today
made fuck all v.v
PixiieGirl
08-23-2016, 11:15 AM
just after I posted that someone took me pvt for 35 mins
!!
someoldnoob
08-23-2016, 11:21 AM
Yeah SM for during the day time is pretty much pointless. I used to work this time but I can definitely see things are different now. That's ok. Off to another site and to go back to my Indy site to see what's up.
Chellyinparadise
08-23-2016, 11:35 AM
This is work related at the moment haha what pisses me off are the guys who go into pvt and log out before being charged but before they do it looks like this as they jerk as fast as they can for a few seconds then exit i want to yank it off for them so they cant no more for wasting my time and clearing out my room lol
Chellyinparadise
08-23-2016, 11:39 AM
just after I posted that someone took me pvt for 35 mins
!!
Thats awesome glad to hear you got a nice pvt :)
PixiieGirl
08-23-2016, 11:57 AM
Thats awesome glad to hear you got a nice pvt :)
thank god! I was ready to log off in frustration but thought, nah stick out 15 more minutes you never know and it came through woop
Serena-Shields
08-23-2016, 01:07 PM
I'm honestly baffled about how silent my room has been on CB lately. No matter how many people enter my room, it's ALWAYS silent. As if it's physically impossible to type upon entry. I even unbanned all the greys I've kicked just so I would have someone to entertain me.
Fuck this month x2
SylvySinclair
08-23-2016, 02:18 PM
today has been very slow on my end too, thought with the end of the olympics today would be a good day, but its not over, lets see how it will be later.
someoldnoob
08-23-2016, 02:47 PM
I'm so fucking tired of being lied to. Doesn't matter if it's friends or partners. People are fucking shady as hell and are so disgusting and have no idea sex workers are trained to sniff out bullshit.
CreativeName
08-23-2016, 03:03 PM
Yep sure do.. I have been on there for 3 yrs now... Sadly before that I went to a Rich Dad seminar I paid $200 for and then I joined the Rich Dad Coaching for almost $4000 which was USELESS!.. I could have used that money for real estate investing.. so that set me back a bit!.. I am waiting to pay off one credit card, then I am going to get a heloc and start looking for a property... Not sure if I want to do the BRRR method or just do a flip.. I am intrigued by flipping currently to generate a lot more profit to invest in the short term and really get going on this so I am not completely reliant on fricken camming..... yesterday was so terrible for me on cam I was making $14 bucks an hour.. fuck that!
Yeah I hear you- i only made $15 an hour yesterday. I mean I am grateful because it is a living wage, but considering this is sex work I feel I should be making more not less than my last job! LOL. This is way easier work however. I am kinda interested in just about all the aspects of real estate investing- I also recently passed a test for a real estate license. I haven't actually started the work yet because I am in some debt and to be a real estate salesman you gotta pay to work. I don't care too much for sales jobs, but I thought being a realtor would be a good way to get some connections and the market is real hot where I'm at.
anonymous camgirl
08-23-2016, 04:03 PM
I am done working today, I am sitting here crying because I had one con artist , scammer after the other.. and an odd amount of men wanting to know about my relationships.. I was seriously starting to think I was being punked!.. I never met so many men who continuously prodded into my life.. I mean one right after the other. I am wondering if I was being trolled.. I know what being trolled is like.. I had a viral video of over 1 million view and constant hell for 4 yrs.. needless to say after 7 fucking hours of this grueling torture.. and the slow day yesterday of them breaking me down.. and today just really going at me.. I could never really gain control and rule over my room.. they cut me and opened up every sore and wound I have ever had in my fucking lifetime.. and all I made was a lil over $100 for 7 hours.. I am thinking I need to take tomorrow off.. after today and now crying and feeling broken inside.. I cannot go online tomorrow.. the most evil people came to me today.. I thought I was in the twilight zone.. or something.. so confused my head was spinning.. it was a very dark day.. and to top it off I have had an ear ache and sore throat and scalp pain.. and they seriously abused and railed me today .. when I am not even strong enough to concquer them.
Chellyinparadise
08-23-2016, 04:34 PM
So sorry they did that to you and made you feel that way, that is awful. I hope things get better for you. hugs
Erika_Xstacy
08-23-2016, 05:12 PM
Hugs BB <3
anonymous camgirl
08-23-2016, 05:22 PM
Thank you.. as much as I don't like to take a day off , and I am no quitter.. I need a mental health day to recharge.. it was literally just insane.. I called my sister 3000 miles away.. broken into a million pieces.. usually I am pretty tough, I have endured a lot of hell on cam and off cam.. but when so many people are poking into your life and bringing up your past that you are no longer part of .. you start to question and rehashing it .. even in in your free time.. that's what happened to me.. I cannot go online tomorrow with this kind of attitude..
So sorry they did that to you and made you feel that way, that is awful. I hope things get better for you. hugs
anonymous camgirl
08-23-2016, 05:26 PM
Thanks Erika!.. I will rest and recharge .. and level up .. like a video game.. come back stronger.. just like a diamond.. broken down, sanded and polished .. strongest gem ever.. shiny and polished.. just felt like I was hit by a freight train.. and I had the best 3 months on cam of my life.. before August... it seems like once you start cracking it's cascade of bullshit that you cannot ever stop.. so from my past experiences i have learned.. don't keep pushing that train.. let go and take a day off....If i keep going i will just screw everything up and it will take months for me to rebuild.. i know i what i have to do... i can't let them abuse me and push me into dark places..
Hugs BB <3
SylvySinclair
08-23-2016, 06:30 PM
hey anonymous, cheer up hon, better days will come up soon!