View Full Version : The General Purpose "Camming Sucks Right Now" Thread
SylvySinclair
09-08-2016, 07:47 PM
very bad day, thank god i was super busy working on the listing or i would be pulling my hair out.
Promised
09-08-2016, 08:15 PM
No traffic here at all... just a few bb "do this" of course with no tip. And getting harder and harder to compete with girls completely naked in the free chat. My placement is always near completely naked girls so what am I supposed to do? I've tried screen shots, but I can't figure out how to do them, I actually messed my settings way up trying. I have a print screen button but no command button that I can find? They literally naked one had an ohmibod shoved in her pussy and guys are tipping like crazy to vibrate it. I mean no panties at all and zoomed in. I actually had to check to make certain I wasn't on myfreecams.
CreativeName
09-08-2016, 09:23 PM
I think I am just having anger problems today. One of my lower iq male friends that keeps trying to make progress towards sleeping with me pissed me off for the last time. He knows what profession I am going into and asked me to represent him but he already had a representative and we aren't both going to get paid so he is just going to waste somebody's time and I called him out on it. He is like blah blah blah I can choose who I want. Dude it doesn't work that way only 1 person gets paid for providing u this service (unless special partnered arrangement) u obviously dunno how this works! Don't waste my time or anybody else's time like that!!!! Also I am licensed in my state but not his- he is so entitled he wants me to get licensed for his state just for him- without any contractual agreement he will fulfill his end of the bargain if I get a license in his state which will take me 150 hours and I don't know probably at least $800 for the course then another I wanna say $140 to pay for test and also minimum $1500 yearly fees for other shit once I actually start working if the fees are similar to my locality. I might also add the laws are different between our states and I don't wanna mix them up by getting licensed in a second state before I even know the laws in my own...I do not want to get sued! I might add the money I'd make off him would not be worth all that effort unless I further utilized my license in his state, but I have no interest in doing business there... for reasons I will not bore you all with.
Him "you lost a good friend today?" blah blah blah. God I lost my shit, but I don't see myself as having lost a "good" friend. I need therapy for anger problems :( I'm gonna go hide now before I piss more people off lol or myself :( Very angry lately idk why- not PMS for sure before anyone says.
Thanks for giving me an outlet.
Glamourmilf
09-09-2016, 12:24 PM
When I called a roommate that moved out a few months ago, and asked how she likes her new location, her response was, " Yes, I love it very much, but it's been too cold to use our pool."
Yeah, go ahead. Rub it in. You know it's the surface of the sun here., and how much I hate it.:hot:
Go fuck yourself!:finger:
Ashalicious
09-09-2016, 12:36 PM
I think I am just having anger problems today. One of my lower iq male friends that keeps trying to make progress towards sleeping with me pissed me off for the last time. He knows what profession I am going into and asked me to represent him but he already had a representative and we aren't both going to get paid so he is just going to waste somebody's time and I called him out on it. He is like blah blah blah I can choose who I want. Dude it doesn't work that way only 1 person gets paid for providing u this service (unless special partnered arrangement) u obviously dunno how this works! Don't waste my time or anybody else's time like that!!!! Also I am licensed in my state but not his- he is so entitled he wants me to get licensed for his state just for him- without any contractual agreement he will fulfill his end of the bargain if I get a license in his state which will take me 150 hours and I don't know probably at least $800 for the course then another I wanna say $140 to pay for test and also minimum $1500 yearly fees for other shit once I actually start working if the fees are similar to my locality. I might also add the laws are different between our states and I don't wanna mix them up by getting licensed in a second state before I even know the laws in my own...I do not want to get sued! I might add the money I'd make off him would not be worth all that effort unless I further utilized my license in his state, but I have no interest in doing business there... for reasons I will not bore you all with.
Him "you lost a good friend today?" blah blah blah. God I lost my shit, but I don't see myself as having lost a "good" friend. I need therapy for anger problems :( I'm gonna go hide now before I piss more people off lol or myself :( Very angry lately idk why- not PMS for sure before anyone says.
Thanks for giving me an outlet.
Not sure if you follow astrology, but mercury is in retrograde right now, so that could explain the tension and anger you are feeling.
In regards to your "friend", I think you did the right think. Ain't nobody got time for that.
Marina Starr
09-09-2016, 01:07 PM
I find it very hard for men and women to have a platonic relationship if they find you sexually appealing.
Not having people that mistreat you in your life is always a gain, never a loss!
I think I am just having anger problems today. One of my lower iq male friends that keeps trying to make progress towards sleeping with me pissed me off for the last time. He knows what profession I am going into and asked me to represent him but he already had a representative and we aren't both going to get paid so he is just going to waste somebody's time and I called him out on it. He is like blah blah blah I can choose who I want. Dude it doesn't work that way only 1 person gets paid for providing u this service (unless special partnered arrangement) u obviously dunno how this works! Don't waste my time or anybody else's time like that!!!! Also I am licensed in my state but not his- he is so entitled he wants me to get licensed for his state just for him- without any contractual agreement he will fulfill his end of the bargain if I get a license in his state which will take me 150 hours and I don't know probably at least $800 for the course then another I wanna say $140 to pay for test and also minimum $1500 yearly fees for other shit once I actually start working if the fees are similar to my locality. I might also add the laws are different between our states and I don't wanna mix them up by getting licensed in a second state before I even know the laws in my own...I do not want to get sued! I might add the money I'd make off him would not be worth all that effort unless I further utilized my license in his state, but I have no interest in doing business there... for reasons I will not bore you all with.
Him "you lost a good friend today?" blah blah blah. God I lost my shit, but I don't see myself as having lost a "good" friend. I need therapy for anger problems :( I'm gonna go hide now before I piss more people off lol or myself :( Very angry lately idk why- not PMS for sure before anyone says.
Thanks for giving me an outlet.
CamChik
09-09-2016, 01:18 PM
When a seemingly normal private with a seemingly nice normal vanilla-ish guy turns VERY dark and creepy VERY fast. I am seriously freaked out by where this dude went with things. So much so I logged off and went to bed after some wine when I still should have been on for an hour or more. There was no way I could go into free chat and look happy and normal considering how disturbed I was. That fucker cost me money!!
Chellyinparadise
09-09-2016, 01:59 PM
Sorry that happened to you hope you feel better.
CamChik
09-09-2016, 02:48 PM
Sorry that happened to you hope you feel better.
Thank you Chelly <3
hyori
09-09-2016, 03:32 PM
When a seemingly normal private with a seemingly nice normal vanilla-ish guy turns VERY dark and creepy VERY fast. I am seriously freaked out by where this dude went with things. So much so I logged off and went to bed after some wine when I still should have been on for an hour or more. There was no way I could go into free chat and look happy and normal considering how disturbed I was. That fucker cost me money!!
That happened to me too. Starts out great and then suddenly they are talking about fucking their great dane and shit like that. WTF is wrong with these men.
How I see it is they must've gone through some kind of majorly fucked up childhood shit to be so disturbed. Pity them.
CamChik
09-09-2016, 03:47 PM
That happened to me too. Starts out great and then suddenly they are talking about fucking their great dane and shit like that. WTF is wrong with these men.
How I see it is they must've gone through some kind of majorly fucked up childhood shit to be so disturbed. Pity them.
OMG, that's kind of similar to where this guy went only I don't want to upset anyone else by posting it here. It was effing sick. I can only imagine what kind of trauma they have had to make them think like that and am sad for them but please take that shit to your therapist guys! *shudders*
evaeva
09-09-2016, 03:49 PM
When a seemingly normal private with a seemingly nice normal vanilla-ish guy turns VERY dark and creepy VERY fast. I am seriously freaked out by where this dude went with things. So much so I logged off and went to bed after some wine when I still should have been on for an hour or more. There was no way I could go into free chat and look happy and normal considering how disturbed I was. That fucker cost me money!!
Sorry that happened to you :( I had something similar happen to me last week in the middle of a very nice, very vanilla private (which I rarely do cause I'm on CB and I usually just do public shows but he really wanted to so I was like ok may as well just do this and log off since I hit my goal already) and after a couple minutes of normal teasing, talking etc he is like "I want you to rape me" and I was like "hmm what?" since it was so out of the blue and he kept telling me all this really scary stuff he wanted me to do to him (torture, rape etc) and I just had to go, I shut my laptop and went to hide under the covers watching cute animal videos until I felt less freaked out
CreativeName
09-09-2016, 03:51 PM
Speaking of sick disturbing shit, 1 of the people I know on CB says he saw a guy rape his clinically retarded younger sister or cousin I don't remember like right on the website... Hope that isn't what it really was- I didn't see it myself just retelling what somebody told me...
I personally have an extremely low opinion of CB to start with- but if people get away with shit like that right on there fuck it I am quitting- I don't make much there since I am a private show kinda girl lol and splitcam a lot of sites.
CamChik
09-09-2016, 03:57 PM
Sorry that happened to you :( I had something similar happen to me last week in the middle of a very nice, very vanilla private (which I rarely do cause I'm on CB and I usually just do public shows but he really wanted to so I was like ok may as well just do this and log off since I hit my goal already) and after a couple minutes of normal teasing, talking etc he is like "I want you to rape me" and I was like "hmm what?" since it was so out of the blue and he kept telling me all this really scary stuff he wanted me to do to him (torture, rape etc) and I just had to go, I shut my laptop and went to hide under the covers watching cute animal videos until I felt less freaked out
Ugh, I'm so sorry too! Cute animal video's always help! Sanity break here -> https://youtu.be/8fv-cEgZFWg
CandiceS
09-09-2016, 04:18 PM
Camming sucks cause I've got my period...damn it!
SuperPookie
09-09-2016, 04:25 PM
No traffic here at all... just a few bb "do this" of course with no tip. And getting harder and harder to compete with girls completely naked in the free chat. My placement is always near completely naked girls so what am I supposed to do? I've tried screen shots, but I can't figure out how to do them, I actually messed my settings way up trying. I have a print screen button but no command button that I can find? They literally naked one had an ohmibod shoved in her pussy and guys are tipping like crazy to vibrate it. I mean no panties at all and zoomed in. I actually had to check to make certain I wasn't on myfreecams.
I think SM is encouraging this sort of thing as a way to compete against token sites but without increasing their percentage they pay out to match them. I get guys all the time saying stuff like how much to see pussy etc and when I tell them we're not supposed to do that they say most girls do and leave. I don't think they're lying. I also have been getting a lot of guys asking how many videos they get with a show and as soon as I say none they leave.
evaeva
09-09-2016, 04:59 PM
No traffic here at all... just a few bb "do this" of course with no tip. And getting harder and harder to compete with girls completely naked in the free chat. My placement is always near completely naked girls so what am I supposed to do? I've tried screen shots, but I can't figure out how to do them, I actually messed my settings way up trying. I have a print screen button but no command button that I can find? They literally naked one had an ohmibod shoved in her pussy and guys are tipping like crazy to vibrate it. I mean no panties at all and zoomed in. I actually had to check to make certain I wasn't on myfreecams.
oh wow that was on a private based site?
MissAdriana
09-09-2016, 06:05 PM
Camming sucks this week... wtf the other day was so great too
gingerstripper
09-09-2016, 06:20 PM
it was. when its good.. its amazing.. maybe i should work day and night shift.. and bank
gingerstripper
09-09-2016, 06:21 PM
today sucked balls tho.. so boring
SylvySinclair
09-09-2016, 06:25 PM
same here, one of the worse weeks ever.
Promised
09-09-2016, 06:26 PM
oh wow that was on a private based site?
It was on streamate the same girls I see are on almost every night completely naked, acting like it's chatterbate or mfc. If I could figure out the screen shot thing I'd report them, though probably wouldn't do any good. I told them about a girl who has completely nude photos in her profile and they said it wasn't allowed and never even made her take them off.
Don't get me wrong I'm not out stalking girls to report everyone, I make mistakes too, but when they are doing it on purpose not following the rules I mean, and I am forced to follow the rules or get these temporary bans it makes it really unfair and hard to compete with them.
CreativeName
09-09-2016, 06:43 PM
Yeah I agree with that. I have seen some of that going around on Streamate. Or girls that aren't naked but they are shoving dildos inside their pussy in free chat and you get a glimpse of everything everytime they move their thong to the side lol. I am really supposed to compete with this shit when I follow the so called rules they only enforce when they feel like it? This is why I'm leaving camming after barely being in it. The type of competition I see in camming is a matter of "can I outwhore the next girl?" with a few exceptions - like "who has better attitude??"... I'd rather compete in an industry with a different competition style if you know what I mean.
I like to compete, but this was never my competitive style. I simply refuse. I could care less how much my money suffers in camming with this attitude- I have other options.
TheOutlier
09-09-2016, 06:51 PM
It was on streamate the same girls I see are on almost every night completely naked, acting like it's chatterbate or mfc. If I could figure out the screen shot thing I'd report them, though probably wouldn't do any good. I told them about a girl who has completely nude photos in her profile and they said it wasn't allowed and never even made her take them off.
Don't get me wrong I'm not out stalking girls to report everyone, I make mistakes too, but when they are doing it on purpose not following the rules I mean, and I am forced to follow the rules or get these temporary bans it makes it really unfair and hard to compete with them.
Yea I had guys demanding Skype a lot tonight, saying "model so-and-so sells Skype on here what you mean it's not allowed". I logged off, way too many abusive customers and few legitimate paying ones (who aren't trying to break/bend the rules)
Euryale
09-09-2016, 06:54 PM
I too have seen some shit. A chick selling 50 vids + 1000 photos for $20 on Streamate among other things. I try just to not look anymore. :(
CreativeName
09-09-2016, 06:55 PM
Most of these skype guys are trying to give lowball offers so it isn't always a win win situation to get them on skype... Or they even go as far as thinking wow you like them so much to have them on skype you will talk to them for free.. like get outta here with that cheap bs! A lot of them also only use non-adult friendly payment processors to screw you over on purpose- anybody saying paypal/google wallet etc gets instablocked.
foxmulder
09-09-2016, 07:15 PM
fuck...had such a good Wednesday only to be disappointed by Friday. I was really hoping it had finally really picked up permanently. damn
Girly_Girl
09-09-2016, 09:36 PM
I was hoping things would pick up after the olympics but its still dead as fuck......anyone know why its still dead? When does it usually pick up again?
anonymous camgirl
09-10-2016, 04:04 AM
Maybe soon? My son just got his financial aid money today!.. so yea I think things will be picking up soon especially with the broke ass beggar students who want freebies because they ran out of money!
I was hoping things would pick up after the olympics but its still dead as fuck......anyone know why its still dead? When does it usually pick up again?
This week was the perfect storm. A holiday weekend and rent week, plus a sm contest, plus Q3 taxes are due for independents and businesses. That leaves fuck all for most of us.
And don't even get me started on the naked ladies in free chat, the taboo, the inanimate objects in shows. I love the "it's against the rules" but we look the other way shit. Makes it real hard for a " straight" chick to make any $$$$. It's not a level playing field.
evaeva
09-10-2016, 06:07 AM
Speaking of sick disturbing shit, 1 of the people I know on CB says he saw a guy rape his clinically retarded younger sister or cousin I don't remember like right on the website... Hope that isn't what it really was- I didn't see it myself just retelling what somebody told me...
I personally have an extremely low opinion of CB to start with- but if people get away with shit like that right on there fuck it I am quitting- I don't make much there since I am a private show kinda girl lol and splitcam a lot of sites.
Yeah I definitely have some issues with the site but since it's the only token site that I know of that couples can work on I have stuck with it although considering going to MFC for solo camming and just using CB for couple shows but IDK. It seems like people get away with a lot of violations of TOS like I have seen a girl bring a plumber that came to her house on cam and start doing stuff with him even though if it was real, he definitely wouldn't have been verified and girls using 'horse dick' dildos and fisting and other stuff against the rules. To top it off, their servers are constantly down so I hope they get their shit together.
evaeva
09-10-2016, 06:13 AM
It was on streamate the same girls I see are on almost every night completely naked, acting like it's chatterbate or mfc. If I could figure out the screen shot thing I'd report them, though probably wouldn't do any good. I told them about a girl who has completely nude photos in her profile and they said it wasn't allowed and never even made her take them off.
Don't get me wrong I'm not out stalking girls to report everyone, I make mistakes too, but when they are doing it on purpose not following the rules I mean, and I am forced to follow the rules or get these temporary bans it makes it really unfair and hard to compete with them.
It just seems like if you want to put on shows like that using interactive toys, why not just sign up with MFC or Chaturbate? It's a better platform for that type of show since they have all the apps and bots you can use for Lovesense/OhMiBod and they could probably make more money because no matter how many girls do interactive toy shows there are ALWAYS dudes tipping them and then it wouldn't take business away from you ladies using SM the right way.
anonymous camgirl
09-10-2016, 07:40 AM
It's such a fucking joy to be a camgirl these days and my attitude is getting worse and worse.. I just had about 4 pvts in a row that were less than 1 fucking minute.. fucking these dickheads.. they can't even talk to a girl before you get naked.. fuck you then losers!
anonymous camgirl
09-10-2016, 10:18 AM
I have had days like that!.. it's awful that they affect you so much that you have to log off for the day and lose out on money.. huge drawbacks about this business...
When a seemingly normal private with a seemingly nice normal vanilla-ish guy turns VERY dark and creepy VERY fast. I am seriously freaked out by where this dude went with things. So much so I logged off and went to bed after some wine when I still should have been on for an hour or more. There was no way I could go into free chat and look happy and normal considering how disturbed I was. That fucker cost me money!!
Bored out of my mind. Soon I'm going to start over grooming myself like bored, depressed, caged animals do. Stop by and say hello when you see me chewing on myself.
TheBrownFox
09-10-2016, 11:24 AM
http://i.imgur.com/HbqAhEk.jpg
Well THAT sucks!
When my so puts me on ignore when I tell him how he needs to do something differently and it's a life or death matter. I wish I could sleep all fucking day instead of trying to make the fucking peanuts I'm sitting here all day trying to make so we can fucking eat next week b/c it's been that bad the last two weeks.
So now I'm going to pull some passive aggressive fuck you shit. And it's good to know I can't trust him with a simple task.
anonymous camgirl
09-10-2016, 01:28 PM
We just can't get a break!.. first august is slow, then the Olympics and now Mercury Retrograde #FML
laurielegs
09-10-2016, 02:08 PM
It should not be this slow right now. Just crazy slow, but I see others are doing well in the camming rocks thread.
Going to keep trying to up my game here because I feel I should be doing way better than I am.
Bridgetxo
09-10-2016, 03:17 PM
This week was absolutely horrible. I'm really hoping next week picks up a bit.
pippapippa
09-10-2016, 05:52 PM
I don't know what's going on, but I literally can't convert anyone tonight. Everyone (and I mean everyone) thinks I'm an escort.
anonymous camgirl
09-10-2016, 05:53 PM
Maybe you need to start threatening them.. that's the only way I made money this week.. and the slaves with money flocked to me because I was threatening people..lol
I don't know what's going on, but I literally can't convert anyone tonight. Everyone (and I mean everyone) thinks I'm an escort.
hotmodel
09-10-2016, 06:55 PM
seriously deaddddd as fuck! longer hours and still aint hitting my goal..and this has been going on now for like 4 weeks! Were going on fuckin week 5! Come on already! Thank god for savings but dude, enough is enough...starting to worry over here like maybe looking into other work...and ive been camming for just about 13 years now ugh 13 fuckin years..I need a damn exit strategy already =(
TheBrownFox
09-11-2016, 06:44 AM
http://i.imgur.com/HbqAhEk.jpg
Well THAT sucks!
I love the fact that these people just e-mailed me back calling me by MY SISTER's name with a slash mark, and then MY first name. Huh? They said that they denied me on Care.com based off something they found in a background check. What the fuck does my sister's background (She fucking stole some clothes from Sears like 11 years ago when she was around 17) have to do with ME? I am my OWN person, and I've worked in various daycare centers while I've lived in the state of New York and Maryland. So because of some dumb fucking shit my sister did back in 2004 (or whatever fucking year it was), you're gonna deny ME the opportunity? That's some bullshit.
I love the fact that these people just e-mailed me back calling me by MY SISTER's name with a slash mark, and then MY first name. Huh? They said that they denied me on Care.com based off something they found in a background check. What the fuck does my sister's background (She fucking stole some clothes from Sears like 11 years ago when she was around 17) have to do with ME? I am my OWN person, and I've worked in various daycare centers while I've lived in the state of New York and Maryland. So because of some dumb fucking shit my sister did back in 2004 (or whatever fucking year it was), you're gonna deny ME the opportunity? That's some bullshit.
Maybe they think you're her, and don't realize they made a mistake?
evaeva
09-11-2016, 07:36 AM
been sick for the past three days...turns out I have strep throat :( and I don't have any other sources of income just yet (clips etc) so basically not making any money til I shake this off
seriously deaddddd as fuck! longer hours and still aint hitting my goal..and this has been going on now for like 4 weeks! Were going on fuckin week 5! Come on already! Thank god for savings but dude, enough is enough...starting to worry over here like maybe looking into other work...and ive been camming for just about 13 years now ugh 13 fuckin years..I need a damn exit strategy already =(
All these extra hours not leading to anything except a foul mood and burnout. I haven't ever gotten to the point where I made my cushion since I just moved a year ago with no money across country. Trying to make that back up and get things we need and now trying to scrape together for a down payment is killing me. Still it beats a "regular" job even if just barely.
TheBrownFox
09-11-2016, 08:06 AM
Maybe they think you're her, and don't realize they made a mistake?
Despite them telling me "The decision is FINAL," I sent them another e-mail explaining the situation. And honestly, if these people are too stupid and unprofessional to READ and see that it's two different names with totally different contact info, then maybe I'm just better off trying SitterCity instead.
It's especially ironic considering that she is currently working from home as an unlicensed daycare provider...yet I can't get approval as a Care.com BABYSITTER...despite having just recently been employed at a prestigious daycare center.
miss.a.p1600
09-11-2016, 08:24 AM
Mistakingly gave that dude a second chance. It didn't work out. He's manipulative, controlling, narcissistic, etc.......I'm done and its final. I'd rather be alone on my birthday than deal with him. Now he is someone else's problem.
TheBrownFox
09-11-2016, 08:29 AM
Mistakingly gave that dude a second chance. It didn't work out. He's manipulative, controlling, narcissistic, etc.......I'm done and its final. I'd rather be alone on my birthday than deal with him. Now he is someone else's problem.
If today is your actual birthday, then HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! :)
And I'm with you on that one 100%. It's better to spend your special day alone than to deal with some asshole who's no good for you. I've celebrated many, many, many birthdays all by myself at Six Flags, and had a blast regardless. *HUGS*