View Full Version : The General Purpose "Camming Sucks Right Now" Thread
Glamourmilf
09-13-2016, 07:09 PM
the only people who have ever helped me is cam customers and sugar daddies.. ...that's it.. no family or friends ever helped me!
That's right. The only thing family and so called friends are good for is to lay flowers at your grave. That is, IF they even take the time to do it.
JaneBurgess
09-13-2016, 08:58 PM
Its really dead tonight, way deader than last night with football. Sigh
CreativeName
09-14-2016, 04:50 AM
I personally do feel a lot of negativity to a lot of the people closest to me, but lately I'm trying not to. I think I must give off the wrong signals that I attract so many shitty "friends" and boyfriends. So I guess I am just trying something different with my attitude. As far as family, well you can't choose your family. Overall they could be much worse so I am grateful for what good they and my friends have done for me.
I won't lie I am jealous of some people that are just god awful but they have the perfect loving families and supportive friends.
TheBrownFox
09-14-2016, 05:30 AM
I personally do feel a lot of negativity to a lot of the people closest to me, but lately I'm trying not to. I think I must give off the wrong signals that I attract so many shitty "friends" and boyfriends. So I guess I am just trying something different with my attitude. As far as family, well you can't choose your family. Overall they could be much worse so I am grateful for what good they and my friends have done for me.
I won't lie I am jealous of some people that are just god awful but they have the perfect loving families and supportive friends.
Seriously. I love my family, however I feel closer to the ladies of this forum + my semi-celebrity Facebook friend than I do to members of my own damn family. Probably because y'all actually give a damn about what's on my mind and my opinions, and y'all don't act all holier-than-thou with people.
So I see on Streamate lately that Bribes for 5's are going around again. In the last 2 days which have been super shitty by the way- I've had to deal with these low brow fuckers that want to fuck a model and then shit on her. That's the one thing I hate the most about SM. The fact that we have to ask to have it removed. So far they have been super cool about it, but it's just pissing me off. You already don't want to log on or have to work 6 sites to make your $$$ and then you have to deal with that.
THEN, every time I get a show after that if it's even going remotely sideways I just stop and block them right from pvt or excl. Or I get that annoyed feeling when I go to look at my notes to see if they rated me. If I didn't think it would affect my $ I wouldn't care. But wtf. You're trusting these guys/ladies to objectively rate a show. Half of them don't even realize it's a show. They think it's real. Then there's the haters.
I keep saying sm would make more $$$ because I would take more shit if I didn't have to deal with that. If they don't like a show they can just LEAVE- novel concept I suppose.
LoraDoll
09-14-2016, 09:11 AM
when they just sitting in free chat, quietly, or maybe acting like an asshole... annoying and boring as fuck, and they complain: u look bored! o.O Really motherfucker, don t ever thnk u re boring and annoying as fuck, pls keep complain! Sick retards.
Glamourmilf
09-14-2016, 09:31 AM
This is EXACTLY why I prefer to hang out with other sex workers. No pretense, no judgement, .. able to keep it real.
Besides, I find hanging out with my rich friends to be boring most of the time. They're all whiny, complaining bitches(even the guys). Uninteresting, because they have no goals, no dreams to pursue.
I never really noticed it, until I moved away to a different area, where most people are poor.
evaeva
09-14-2016, 10:19 AM
When you have a bunch of guys in your room that wanna talk but don't wanna tip :-(
LoraDoll
09-14-2016, 10:29 AM
I had a nice pvt and high tip at the beginning of my shift. And now , it s dead.
Ridiculously dead. Like... 2 hours ago now. and 5 more to go... like this? Jesus christ. So sick.
CamChik
09-14-2016, 11:42 AM
OMG - Asshole central the last 2 days! Monday football was a pain in the ass yes, but yesterday was nothing short of bullshit! I had rude demanding assholes all night last night! Did not make goal and ended up with a pity private from a regular at the last minute. I had some asshole tell me I was fat (I'm 5'5" and weigh 124), um blow me douchbag. Had some dude that was buzzing and tipping me like mad a few nights ago come in last night and tell me my rates are too high (wtf?!). I reminded him he had no problem paying them a few nights ago! I honestly full blown rage quit last night....
MissCavalli
09-14-2016, 12:21 PM
Hmm, this week is bad. I have no energy and everytime I turn on the cam I just want to switch it off, haha. Demanding and rude guys "clothes off" "open pussy".. IN PVT!!!
And they stay maximum 2 minutes.
Maybe I take the week off and go visit my mother.
gingerstripper
09-14-2016, 12:46 PM
fucking slow. fuck these bitches. they can suck their own fucking cock and i bet theyd fucking enjoy it
anonymous camgirl
09-14-2016, 01:55 PM
man, it is so hard to sit here with the terrible health I have currently and there are no paying customers!.. I was on earlier for an hour.. and virtually nothing .. I come back 4 hours later and still not much of anything at all!.. it's like I am torturing myself when I am not feeling good.. but the thing is .. chronic illnesses are not like colds and flus.. so never know how great I will be feeling tomorrow!
SylvySinclair
09-14-2016, 02:28 PM
today sucks real bad. lets hope later picks up.
SoloDesire
09-14-2016, 03:50 PM
It's okay, guy who rated me 4 stars today because I wouldn't open his cam in private, because I got plenty more 5 star ratings today to pretty much erase your 4 star. Oh, and I make more in a day than you do in a week you effin loser.
CreativeName
09-15-2016, 03:08 AM
Ugh somebody gave me shit earlier about how antisocial I am? You know what it would be easier to be social if all my friends my age weren't pieces of shit. Basically my only good friends are all way older than me and not once had a good friend my age- I know I'm weird, you don't have to tell me. Besides that I am somewhat picky and judgemental- like most people in my generation that are adults are just straight up losers. Then a lot of the successful ones had easy lives and that is the only reason they are successful. Sure I can socialize with them but I know they are just gonna piss me off eventually so why go through it? I think what i just need to do is just go 100% at the job I am starting next month and make the most money I can and start investing in real estate. Then I can get myself into a social circle full of people either trying to retire at a much younger age than 65 or people at least trying to do better for themselves than be a work slave and rely on unreliable 401k's and flaky company pensions. I don't even know how to describe it I guess I just want to meet some friends that have some lofty goals and business plans they can put into #s. I have my # goals for net worth that I want to reach at different stages in life. I feel like I am just accomplishing fuckall right now- but I refuse to start my new career when I am definitely going on a 2 week trip in a little bit... Who just starts a job then says to their manager "oh by the way I just started this job now i'm taking my 2 weeks off"? I guess I should be relaxing and having fun in the meantime and doing a bit of camming on the side, but I find it really hard to relax when I am not making progress towards my bigger goals. K done rambling- a little drunk right now lol.
Bristol
09-15-2016, 03:32 AM
Yesterday was brutal. I averaged $5/hr. I kept hanging in there for 12 hours thinking it'll get better. It never got better. :(
Glad to know I didn't miss anything last night. I was going to go back on, but vanilla work saved my day.
persianprincess
09-15-2016, 06:48 AM
Cop says to me ... "Oh I have two kids by one of you little stripper girls" ... then goes to brag about how he knows everyone in certain clubs because of this and that.
It might sound petty of me to even be venting about this ... but that's how you refer to the mother of your children "one of you little stripper girls" ... ew ... you fucking demeaning little shoulder of ham looking motherfucker.
Glamourmilf
09-15-2016, 07:04 AM
Ugh somebody gave me shit earlier about how antisocial I am? You know what it would be easier to be social if all my friends my age weren't pieces of shit. Basically my only good friends are all way older than me and not once had a good friend my age- I know I'm weird, you don't have to tell me. Besides that I am somewhat picky and judgemental- like most people in my generation that are adults are just straight up losers. Then a lot of the successful ones had easy lives and that is the only reason they are successful. Sure I can socialize with them but I know they are just gonna piss me off eventually so why go through it? I think what i just need to do is just go 100% at the job I am starting next month and make the most money I can and start investing in real estate. Then I can get myself into a social circle full of people either trying to retire at a much younger age than 65 or people at least trying to do better for themselves than be a work slave and rely on unreliable 401k's and flaky company pensions. I don't even know how to describe it I guess I just want to meet some friends that have some lofty goals and business plans they can put into #s. I have my # goals for net worth that I want to reach at different stages in life. I feel like I am just accomplishing fuckall right now- but I refuse to start my new career when I am definitely going on a 2 week trip in a little bit... Who just starts a job then says to their manager "oh by the way I just started this job now i'm taking my 2 weeks off"? I guess I should be relaxing and having fun in the meantime and doing a bit of camming on the side, but I find it really hard to relax when I am not making progress towards my bigger goals. K done rambling- a little drunk right now lol.
I get where you are coming from, totally.
I'm very driven also, and can't stand to be around others who are not. I would rather be alone, to be honest.
Since moving to the country, my motivation has been less than zero. All the people I've met refuse to work and are living off the government, or mommy and daddy. (As mentioned before).
I can't WAIT to go back to the city in a few weeks! No offense to anyone who's a country girl, but I hate country living.
I'm a city girl to my core. Much as I try to deny it, I can't. It's in my blood. Just being around people who are mega creative, gets my juices flowing, and is inspiring.
I'm very excited for you, and for myself.
New horizons to explore.
I feel like I'm 'dying on the vine' out here'.
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TheBrownFox
09-15-2016, 08:13 AM
Ugh somebody gave me shit earlier about how antisocial I am?
Some years ago, one of my annoying-ass, ghetto, loudmouthed cousins (who lives just minutes away from my grandparents' house, yet only comes around when there's an event where there will be food...) accused me of being anti-social, just because I was inside watching some trial on the kitchen T.V. (I think it was the Casey Anthony trial). The bitch was like "Why you ain't outside with everybody else? You anti-social or something?" Nah, sweetie...I WAS just outside, but now I'm back inside because I needed a break from you annoying-ass, cackling, gossiping hens...
TheBrownFox
09-15-2016, 08:22 AM
Cop says to me ... "Oh I have two kids by one of you little stripper girls" ... then goes to brag about how he knows everyone in certain clubs because of this and that.
It might sound petty of me to even be venting about this ... but that's how you refer to the mother of your children "one of you little stripper girls" ... ew ... you fucking demeaning little shoulder of ham looking motherfucker.
Not petty at all. Dude was probably married too, I bet. One of the guys I had jury duty with a little while ago (a former cop, I believe) was actually telling me that A LOT of cops are married men who have side chicks. Apparently, it's a cop thing. And then he flat out said to me "Don't ever get married to a cop." Damn.
Euryale
09-15-2016, 10:05 AM
I couldn't force myself to sign in the past few days. Thinking of just saying "fuck it" until after the weekend. Deep down I know I should try, but right now I feel working on other projects will be more rewarding for me. At least for a few more days. Sick of being in a bad mood because of SM. Anxiety due to work related stress is why I quit working outside the house in the first place. I'm not living that life again.
gingerstripper
09-15-2016, 10:42 AM
all im getting is ... prove that your ass is big.. or prove this or that.
like bitch i dont got to prove anything. my ass is huge. >.< maybe tip instead of being a douchewad.
i cant even today i was on for 10 minutes and logged out
CreativeName
09-15-2016, 10:57 AM
I get where you are coming from, totally.
I'm very driven also, and can't stand to be around others who are not. I would rather be alone, to be honest.
Since moving to the country, my motivation has been less than zero. All the people I've met refuse to work and are living off the government, or mommy and daddy. (As mentioned before).
I can't WAIT to go back to the city in a few weeks! No offense to anyone who's a country girl, but I hate country living.
I'm a city girl to my core. Much as I try to deny it, I can't. It's in my blood. Just being around people who are mega creative, gets my juices flowing, and is inspiring.
I'm very excited for you, and for myself.
New horizons to explore.
I feel like I'm 'dying on the vine' out here'.
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I always love reading what you have to say- yes I am finding it harder and harder to be around people with no drive whatsoever as time goes on. Now this whole city vs country thing I personally never had an issue with- I kinda like both but then I have lived in the suburbs my whole life. I will say that I find it harder to be depressed in crowded busy places. I have had one country boyfriend before and have spent many nights at his place- while beautiful and peaceful I would get depressed there after a while. I will also admit I think there is an enormous difference between the mindsets of city folk vs country folk. It is almost like night and day. I know some hard working country folk, but I don't doubt what you say about where you are.
Thank you for the well wishes, I hope your move goes great and that you get back to doing all the fun things you missed in the city :) !
Kandigrace
09-15-2016, 11:07 AM
I am considering jumping on sm in a little while but after looking at this thread, what the fuck is the point? streamate is dead. The girls are pissed off because the site owners clearly dont give a shit about us. The men are cheap as fuck and basically want freebies. The technical glitches make the site damn near unusuable. Nobody in their right mind is going to sit online basically naked for 12 to 15 hours and only make $4 bucks an hour. If you want that little ass money, go out on the freeway and squeegy car windows with the other hobos. SM needs to listen to the girls who are basically their fucking bread and butter before the site becomes a ghost town. Anytime that token sites which are filled with motherfucking freeloaders are taking traffic away from a highly rated private site, you know that there is a problem. If there was a good alternative to streamate that was a consistent money maker, all of us would just on that shit in a hot second.
Lexilexxx
09-15-2016, 11:52 AM
You crack me up!!!
I do all kinds of things to work through my period. Weed, sponges, cramp meds., music, pain lotion ect.... I feel like I make more money around period, as if they can sense it, not the tards, but the real men.
dvstybvcket
09-15-2016, 12:57 PM
by split cam u mean like stream on multiple sites at once? can they catch u doing that and like would they take your tokens away if they did tho
Camming sucks tonight, but I'll still dump your worthless ass into my banned bucket for some dumb ass shit. Trying to work me too hard. I think not.
MissRoxxxie
09-15-2016, 04:53 PM
£16 for 8 hours work wtf is going on?!:-\
Do all the custies hate me now? Seriously this week's got me scared
LoraDoll
09-16-2016, 03:54 AM
Drama!
When the regular who usually ask for a shows returns, and now "just wanna talk, and be the nice guy" ... offering his email... He dropped like $1000 on me just in 2 days now, but last time he was here, it was all about drama.
That i tricked him, and he was so stupid. I dont know what s that shit. He don t look stupid, and I never promised more.
Why it s always like this.
When u play the psychologis, listen to things, what he can tell to no one, he feel like we re getting close, and that s it... camgirls won't do more than that - at least me, I m pretty sure I m not. And he don t understand, why I dont make contact with him out of the site, If i like him! Fuck you!
He spent 2 hours in my room last time, repeating the same thing, and it was all about him, him him, what he needs, his money, now he broke - coz of me! and cant buy food, and more... what u can imagine.
He told he going to leave the site, after that, and I say, if that s the best for him, ofc I understand. Just stop the drama. (he: what drama?!)
And after all this shit, he asked for a show lol - I told him I need a few minutes break, eat something, have some fresh air than we can continue... really that shit just made me too tired, i was not able to move. He dont understood... but continued to "cry". So finally I made myself log off eat, lay down on the bed, and just fell asleep. :D See u soon, dude , or not.
IrishCamGirl
09-16-2016, 05:41 AM
Was doing a Skype show earlier and everything was pretty normal, then he got a screenshot of some girls instagram and jizzed all over it and now i'm weirded out
Like is that normal? To screenshot something, print it out and jizz over it? Jesus Christ man
SoloDesire
09-16-2016, 08:11 AM
Was doing a Skype show earlier and everything was pretty normal, then he got a screenshot of some girls instagram and jizzed all over it and now i'm weirded out
Like is that normal? To screenshot something, print it out and jizz over it? Jesus Christ man
Normal? Yes. This is a fetish and some guys seem to think that showing it to us turns us on. Personally, I think it's weird...but there's a fetish for everything lol.
hyori
09-16-2016, 09:13 AM
^^ I'd love it if some guy put up a face of Donald Trump with a target board drawn on it and then jizzed right on the bullseye.
SexxiLexxi
09-16-2016, 10:07 AM
Seeing models get this message from CB. This is so shitty. These models are proving they are of age yet still get banned because "you look too young to be on the site". Seriously?! Couldn't that be classified as discrimination? How can a model help the way the look....I, for one, cannot help the fact I'm 30 but I don't look my age from what members have told me.
I think this is the reason why I haven't gotten on CB. I'm not going to waste my time if I'm just going to get banned from 'looking too young'. Pfft >:(
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TheBrownFox
09-16-2016, 10:19 AM
^Yeah, on ACF CB has pretty much given itself a reputation of being the cam site that bans its models for dumb shit. There have been so many forum posts on there about the latest model who's been banned for this and that...one of the reasons being was that she "looked too young." Um...don't most people consider that a GOOD thing? Don't penalize these ladies for having a youthful look! I'm 34 years old, and people (not just in CamLand...IRL too) are always shocked by my age, and tell me I look like a teenager. I think it's fucking shitty that a cam site could do their models like that after they've already proven their age with photo ID. Just one more reason CB has left a sour taste in my mouth (I hated the fact that they wouldn't let me use a Payoneer card to buy tokens for my model friend years ago).
Glamourmilf
09-16-2016, 11:07 AM
I always love reading what you have to say- yes I am finding it harder and harder to be around people with no drive whatsoever as time goes on. Now this whole city vs country thing I personally never had an issue with- I kinda like both but then I have lived in the suburbs my whole life. I will say that I find it harder to be depressed in crowded busy places. I have had one country boyfriend before and have spent many nights at his place- while beautiful and peaceful I would get depressed there after a while. I will also admit I think there is an enormous difference between the mindsets of city folk vs country folk. It is almost like night and day. I know some hard working country folk, but I don't doubt what you say about where you are.
Thank you for the well wishes, I hope your move goes great and that you get back to doing all the fun things you missed in the city :) !
Thank You.
I guess my views are a bit skewed because I was born and raised in the city ( Boston).
Lived in New York, L.A. for over ,30 years, so yeah.
The farmers work hella hard, but our language and the way we do things is so opposite. It's all good. Oh, except for the Confederate flags in their yards. What's up with that? Those make me very uncomfortable.
I was mostly referring to the low life freeloaders and early released prisoners who come here for a handout. ( Thanks Gov. Brown, you scumbag,).
I wanted to love it here. I really did.
Oh well, at least I tried.
luvnrockets
09-16-2016, 11:46 AM
I think I might try moving into IRL sex work...
(I keep saying that)
CamChik
09-16-2016, 11:53 AM
Annnddd, here we go again... I know it can't be controlled or helped - it's just nature but it's fucking with my MONEY now so I hate it even more! I'm a very heavy bleeder/cramper so I have no choice but to take 1-2 full days off. I would have an accident for sure on cam, it's that bad. I could stuff an ocean full of sponges in that damn thing and it would still find a way to leak!! And of course it showed up 2 days early so I am stuck trying to work Monday Night Football because I'm going to lose my Sunday shift now. FUCK FUCK FUCKITY FUCK! Vent over!
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evaeva
09-16-2016, 12:19 PM
Seeing models get this message from CB. This is so shitty. These models are proving they are of age yet still get banned because "you look too young to be on the site". Seriously?! Couldn't that be classified as discrimination? How can a model help the way the look....I, for one, cannot help the fact I'm 30 but I don't look my age from what members have told me.
I think this is the reason why I haven't gotten on CB. I'm not going to waste my time if I'm just going to get banned from 'looking too young'. Pfft >:(
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That's pretty ridiculous considering at least 3 of the girls I consistently see on the top 1st or 2nd row look VERY young so it seems like all this would do is lose them money
Susperia
09-16-2016, 01:29 PM
I"m $3 away from my goal and everyone is being a douche today. Come on..........
Femmestudent
09-16-2016, 01:47 PM
I think I might try moving into IRL sex work...
(I keep saying that)
You do you sweetie! I hope whatever you pick its great for you :)
Anna_X
09-16-2016, 02:19 PM
Reading stupid, pointless emails has me like:
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SylvySinclair
09-16-2016, 02:22 PM
this week didnt exist, really. whats going on?
I can't complain about this week. It was surprisingly ok, but just insanely dull and weird. I want to log back on and make more $$$, but I'm legit scurred. But I want more$$$. But I'll be pissed if I'm just sitting on there for the fuck of it.
DahliaSimone
09-16-2016, 03:13 PM
I lasted an hour and a half on SM today before saying 'fuuuuuuck this'. Had a slow, slow week....just a lot of lurkers and 'pop-in,pop-outs' today and, of course, one 'show me your body and I'll take you pvt.' Def. not in the mood for that bullshit today, just gonna hafta work longer and harder tomorrow to make up for the shitty days this week.
CreativeName
09-16-2016, 05:05 PM
Thank You.
I guess my views are a bit skewed because I was born and raised in the city ( Boston).
Lived in New York, L.A. for over ,30 years, so yeah.
The farmers work hella hard, but our language and the way we do things is so opposite. It's all good. Oh, except for the Confederate flags in their yards. What's up with that? Those make me very uncomfortable.
I was mostly referring to the low life freeloaders and early released prisoners who come here for a handout. ( Thanks Gov. Brown, you scumbag,).
I wanted to love it here. I really did.
Oh well, at least I tried.
I have honestly never lived anywhere with confederate flags everywhere. I have heard they don't necessarily represent what you'd think they do.. but I never looked into it myself so i really don't know about that. I'd imagine I'd at least find it really weird if I lived somewhere like that.
I think if I had to pick I'd live in smaller cities or suburbs or even small towns. I just really can't deal with traffic. Bad traffic turns me into a very bad person...
Ugh lol I don't hate everybody on handouts, but a lot of them are scummy. Did not know that about California's jail system btw. Yeah I live up north on the west coast and we all joke California is completely fucked- no offense <3 I can see the appeal of California, but I have heard that in a lot of the places down there it really sucks to live unless you are quite wealthy.
I am kinda curious about other parts of the country. I hear it is less laid back out on the east coast. Only been there once haha. I've been through all the states on the west coast + AK/HI and I think they are all kinda similar... I hear people here are way too laid back, and to be honest I'm just not that kind of person. I don't think this is my crowd here, but who knows maybe I'm way too weird to fit in anywhere lol.
SkoomaQueen
09-16-2016, 05:13 PM
Yesterday and the day before have been absolutely killer for me but today I've been on for 10 hours and made only $167, and most of that was from a sploshing show. Which I honestly don't mind doing in exclusive, but he left after maybe five minutes and after a solid minute I was like "Ok, shower time." Got out of the shower and he pops back in. I was just about ready to tell him to go fuck himself but he tipped me 50 gold, and we went exclusive for quite a while. I was pissed, but if it wasn't for that I would have almost nothing right now. And that kinda blows.
SylvySinclair
09-16-2016, 05:25 PM
i had 2 bookings in a row on aw just right now, from guys saying: jci sucks! lmao
thank god they figured that and booked a show...damn i miss the old days on aw when guys would only books shows and only few went to jci. o well...
Teddy_Bear
09-16-2016, 10:41 PM
I think I might try moving into IRL sex work...
(I keep saying that)
It's no better hun well not in the UK right now anyway, I work insane hours escorting and still have to cam more insane hours to keep my head above water, although my expenses are also sky-high so that could factor into why I always feel broke! Not trying to put ya off just saying sex work money across the board has dipped massively in the last year but still enough to keep me selling my assets lol.