View Full Version : The General Purpose "Camming Sucks Right Now" Thread
Bananabunny
12-08-2016, 07:12 PM
Definitely, by giving these freeloaders scum persons the same possibilities as a non-freeloader (to watch the woman and to annoy her 4 free) was just a terrible idea by many cam sites. It has made the freeloaders feeling invincible, even if they get banned they can come back at any time under another name, another IP etc. I don't masturbate in free chats anymore (especially not with dildo!!) cuz freeloaders don't deserve to see me this way. I mostly (when I am bored) kick them out. I don't care if everyone sees these long lists of banned people I have in my free chat, I just want to show them that they are completly UNWANTED TIME WASTERS!! I also tend to put my camsite on Chaturbate on a password show just to kick them all out whenever I sit for more than 20 minutes and no one drops a "hi". My password then is always "fuckoff" LOL I know this sets me in a bad light but ayyy do I give a fuck?? I don't plan to have a long term cam career since this industry became so rotten (sorry but many here can confirm that, they are longer on cam sites than me)
In the private shows I'm always a super nice, flirty girl. I do literally EVERYTHING (okay maybe not anal...ew) because I know this person is paying me per minute and I don't wanna disappoint them. And that's what keeps the people who get privates with me coming back so many times, I'm showing them that their money is in good hands and appreciated. What I hate the most are these people who flirt with you so much but are users with a color (aka. have tokens to spend) and you ahve so much hope that they will tip you while you talk a lot to them and you don't wanna be rude so you just be nice back without to give them too many nice words and then when you friendly remind them that you have a tip menu or any other offer whenever they start to desperately beg for things or say "you would look better without clothes hehe" they just say lazily "I ran out of tokens hehehehehehehehhehehehehehehhe sorry babeeee" so they keep annoying me for free. Whenever I hear that or similiar "I'm broke this month" BS, I just start to ignore them and they then eventually leave because they see I don't wanna waste more time on these half-freeloaders LOL
That is also the reason why I don't let these grey user fuckers talk to me in my room. I made my chat open for people with tokens only. How many god damn fucking times did I receive complaints and "tipps on how to gain more money on Chaturbate/be a better model" by greedy asses telling me to "open the chat for everyone, not just the people with tokens". Fucking what???????!!!! Just to get these "hi bb ass plz" comments?? I spend already so much time banning beggars I don't also wanna waste my time banning greys!! These men who tell me that have and will never be in my goddamn position so they have no rights to tell me such utter bullshit crap ==;;
Sorry for that big rant. But this week has made me burnt out this time.
Glamourmilf
12-08-2016, 07:25 PM
Another vent for the end of this year: Please note that some these complaints are the reason why I decided to become more independent. In 2015 and 2016; I am sick of following certain companies' rules, dealing with bitchy owners(men and women), listening to other people's shit, and so forth. This why I am doing direct-dial and become a more independent texter/webcam model. Also, I am not going to put up with crap on these vanilla jobs as well.
Adult industry:
What is up with some of cam sites not telling anyone they are either closing or merging with other sites? Seriously,whosonlinexxx did not even tell anyone that they were going to close. Plus, sites like Needlive and AllBBWcams just tell you they are going to merge like a whole month after they beg sites like streamate or LiveJasmin to take them.
What is up with sites like Mongocams and Bongocams sucking at their affiliate programs? Thank God for Chaturbate and always phone sex because they always pay on time and their affiliate program does not suck.
Speaking of affiliate program; Arousr just drop from their affiliate program without telling you. I mean if you are female run company...least you can have some common-courtesy.
Another problem is these sorry-ass texting companies such as ChatStar. Seriously, you made me wait for approve for almost two months and I get there. But it is nothing! Another reason why I decided to do my own thing. I am not going to play second fiddle no one and wait for these companies to approve me.
Seriously, what is up with SinCats changes their format every month? I feel like they should have thought their platform more in depth. It is like they are flying at the edge of their teeth.
Vanilla work:
Real Estate- I do not have any real complaints about the real estate profession. However, I got very sick of being offer only low-tier property management positions in California. Please! I am not going to be some low-rent property manager in some ghetto place in California. Seriously, someone tried to offer me a job in Hawaiian Gardens. Gang-infected and poverty stricken Hawaiian Gardens...yuck! Luckily, my luck has changed by December and I am exploring more middle class places to work. Also, I am trying to decided if I should work which luxury real estate company to work for.
Writing: My writing gigs have been working out so far. However, I just feel that the romance field needs to recognized that sweet romance can be fun as a genre. Also, I do not want to write about sex in a romance relationship. Personally, I feel that many romance authors feel so "empowered" to write about sex in romance novels. Sweet romance is trying to died expect for the Christian based writers.
Hawaiian Gardens. Omg!
The place that California gun laws don't apply.
#Murderville
Bristol
12-08-2016, 10:25 PM
I haven't streamed for a month now. I was going to go back online last weekend, but I couldn't do it. I dreaded thinking of going online and making nothing again. It was causing a lot of anxiety. Customers degrading me was beginning to wear me down. I didn't mind degradation when I was getting paid well, but I can't do degradation when I'm not getting paid.
When I go online this weekend, I won't be dependent on camming money, so because of this I'm returning to only doing privates. I still need to cam to make a few extra dollars, because $12/hr plus a few tips at the restaurant is not really enough. I just need to claim my dignity back. Over the past year I've done way too much in free chat that I'm not proud of. I can handle making less if I'm just doing non-nude shows in free chat while saving nudity for privates. It's about respect for me right now. My shows are going to be a lot more casual going forward, because I'm not so stressed about earning tips for rent.
I can't wait to tell all the guys who've been nickeling and diming me the past year to go stuff it, because I'm going to be more expensive now.
christylive
12-08-2016, 11:04 PM
Good for you doll. I REALLY believe you will make it :)
Thank you gorgeous !!!
pumpkin22
12-09-2016, 12:52 AM
Definitely, by giving these freeloaders scum persons the same possibilities as a non-freeloader (to watch the woman and to annoy her 4 free) was just a terrible idea by many cam sites. It has made the freeloaders feeling invincible, even if they get banned they can come back at any time under another name, another IP etc. I don't masturbate in free chats anymore (especially not with dildo!!) cuz freeloaders don't deserve to see me this way. I mostly (when I am bored) kick them out. I don't care if everyone sees these long lists of banned people I have in my free chat, I just want to show them that they are completly UNWANTED TIME WASTERS!! I also tend to put my camsite on Chaturbate on a password show just to kick them all out whenever I sit for more than 20 minutes and no one drops a "hi". My password then is always "fuckoff" LOL I know this sets me in a bad light but ayyy do I give a fuck?? I don't plan to have a long term cam career since this industry became so rotten (sorry but many here can confirm that, they are longer on cam sites than me)
In the private shows I'm always a super nice, flirty girl. I do literally EVERYTHING (okay maybe not anal...ew) because I know this person is paying me per minute and I don't wanna disappoint them. And that's what keeps the people who get privates with me coming back so many times, I'm showing them that their money is in good hands and appreciated. What I hate the most are these people who flirt with you so much but are users with a color (aka. have tokens to spend) and you ahve so much hope that they will tip you while you talk a lot to them and you don't wanna be rude so you just be nice back without to give them too many nice words and then when you friendly remind them that you have a tip menu or any other offer whenever they start to desperately beg for things or say "you would look better without clothes hehe" they just say lazily "I ran out of tokens hehehehehehehehhehehehehehehhe sorry babeeee" so they keep annoying me for free. Whenever I hear that or similiar "I'm broke this month" BS, I just start to ignore them and they then eventually leave because they see I don't wanna waste more time on these half-freeloaders LOL
That is also the reason why I don't let these grey user fuckers talk to me in my room. I made my chat open for people with tokens only. How many god damn fucking times did I receive complaints and "tipps on how to gain more money on Chaturbate/be a better model" by greedy asses telling me to "open the chat for everyone, not just the people with tokens". Fucking what???????!!!! Just to get these "hi bb ass plz" comments?? I spend already so much time banning beggars I don't also wanna waste my time banning greys!! These men who tell me that have and will never be in my goddamn position so they have no rights to tell me such utter bullshit crap ==;;
Sorry for that big rant. But this week has made me burnt out this time.
The reason they are recommending that you open your chat for everyone is because when you use any app that blocks greys on Chaturbate, it takes you off the main page and lists you under "group shows" instead. If you have a huge following it might not matter, but for most it is a huge traffic killer. Plus, some guys are not always greys so they get upset if they spend a bunch on a girl but can't even come back to say hi when they are out of tokens. It took me a long time to figure this out because I used to block the greys too. :)
CreativeName
12-09-2016, 12:57 AM
I think the level of judgement people have for sex workers just kills me. And how easy is your life that you never thought about doing an "alternative" line of work? Fuck you, I wish I had that easy of a life.
gosh done ranting lol
For the record.. I knew it wasn't a good idea to give customers FREE LIVE VIDEO.. and in the beginning I worked on tons of sites that didn't offer it.. took me many years and desperation before I would succumb to free live video.. and I was right!.. camming sucks now.. you are always stressed out in free chat.. that's not how it was before.. before I would watch movies.. read emails and research things and be completely relaxed for privates..
I hope you didn't take it the wrong way. They just need to put the cat back in the bag. I've done the MFC thing and the site culture there is hang it all out there. I went over like a lead balloon b/c I would do naked yes, but shows- not in public. But if I had to go back- who knows. I just wish it wasn't so. I feel we'd make more $ if they HAD to pay to play. The sites see it as we make our money if not from this chick then from that one- and we get tons of traffic that we're looking for. The problem is freeloading traffic never pays. They're not going to feel bad for us and know we have bills to pay. Freeloading mentality is I just asked that slut to fist and she did- for free.
anonymous camgirl
12-09-2016, 07:57 AM
You know what I noticed about freeloaders.. they are no certain type.. ALL Men are trying to freeload.. I have looked at their live cams and profiles on sites where you can see them.. they are all different looking.. some look like rockers covered in tattoos, other guys are nerdy geeky looking.. others are GQ models haha.. they all freeload... it's a sport to them... some of the guys I saw I couldn't understand why they were freeloading they looked somehow decent and respectful but they are not.. wolves in sheeps clothing I say.. so all freeloaders are not basement dwellers eating Cheetos and drinking mountain dew.. so strange men are.
k my shift key i use without looking is stuck real bad and i can't be fucked to fix it or find my other keyboard so just deal! kay.
lol right these people are all like "hey i spent some money on u now give me all yo time
[email protected][email protected][email protected]" bwahaha. omg if i get another stand up i'll kill somebody like yeah u want me to stand up why? "so i can see u" uhuh. so does this have anything to do with u buying a show from me? *logs out* thats right u stupid motherfucker and stay the fuck out of my room i don't want ur broke ass in here. what i hate most is these dumbass motherfuckers that act like you are on there cuz ur lonely and its ur hobby and u wanna be their friend for free?? bitch were u born yesterday??? fuck lol.
the worst is the manipulative fucks that fucking act manipulative. you know what i mean lets say everything is dead for u so they can see they can waste ur time and bait u and talk to u without ever buying a show cuz they see ur not busy.. when it is busy i dont have all these freeloaders cuz they see i am busy and know to get my time they must pay me and so the serious ones do.
anonymous camgirl
12-09-2016, 08:06 AM
I dunno what you mean? I was just saying before they even had free live video camming was so much less stressful.
I hope you didn't take it the wrong way. They just need to put the cat back in the bag. I've done the MFC thing and the site culture there is hang it all out there. I went over like a lead balloon b/c I would do naked yes, but shows- not in public. But if I had to go back- who knows. I just wish it wasn't so. I feel we'd make more $ if they HAD to pay to play. The sites see it as we make our money if not from this chick then from that one- and we get tons of traffic that we're looking for. The problem is freeloading traffic never pays. They're not going to feel bad for us and know we have bills to pay. Freeloading mentality is I just asked that slut to fist and she did- for free.
Ok. Yes! If they went to all pvt chat it would be bliss!!!
anonymous camgirl
12-09-2016, 11:28 AM
Man I am really starting to get anxiety and be depressed.. I am seriously not doing well .. not even enough to pay my bills this month on average... some Christmas spirit here
CreativeName
12-09-2016, 04:37 PM
You know what I noticed about freeloaders.. they are no certain type.. ALL Men are trying to freeload.. I have looked at their live cams and profiles on sites where you can see them.. they are all different looking.. some look like rockers covered in tattoos, other guys are nerdy geeky looking.. others are GQ models haha.. they all freeload... it's a sport to them... some of the guys I saw I couldn't understand why they were freeloading they looked somehow decent and respectful but they are not.. wolves in sheeps clothing I say.. so all freeloaders are not basement dwellers eating Cheetos and drinking mountain dew.. so strange men are.
doesn't mean i don't wanna skin them alive fuck lol.
I just can't stand camming again and barely been back even fuck- these people are just awful. Everytime I start being a smart mouthed bitch which I am really fucking good at everybody leaves all my chatrooms across all camsites and I make way less money. Like some reason I only make money when I am nice, but I find it so hard to be nice to these people. It is like they are trying to fucking scam u for freebies constantly like god fucking damn. Might try something else because I am very quickly losing patience with these fucking losers I can go on and on...
you know the only reason some people are still alive is because in civilized countries such as America for some strange reason it is illegal to murder no matter how much some people deserve it, and I never in my life worked with people i wanna murder but god damn camming sure brought it out LOL I need a timeout and to do something else asap or move this down to part time.
BloomingLotus
12-09-2016, 05:19 PM
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Blovely
12-09-2016, 05:40 PM
I don't know how anyone can do freechat. I would never do that. If you're getting burned out from being on freechat, switch to sites with private only. I am tabbed out most of the time working on freelance writing jobs, so I'm earning whilst waiting for a private show. The only thing I've wasted at the end of a shift if I didn't bank, is the make up I used.
It would be nice to work no-freechat sites but we don't all have that luxury. Alot of us work freechat because its what pays(or at least use to in many cases) the bills.
anonymous camgirl
12-09-2016, 05:59 PM
Another barely over $100 kinda day.. I can't keep living like this.. that barely pays my bills for 3 people.. so depressing!..
Genoveve
12-09-2016, 08:54 PM
I definitely think no free chat is the way to go. Are there even any left? When I first started camming for the first 2-3 years I think I only worked on a non-free chat site and it was extremely lucrative. It wasn't until the site got bogged down with tech issues and lost a lot of customers that it ended up sucking.
anonymous camgirl
12-10-2016, 07:46 AM
Which site was that? I wonder if I worked on that one
I definitely think no free chat is the way to go. Are there even any left? When I first started camming for the first 2-3 years I think I only worked on a non-free chat site and it was extremely lucrative. It wasn't until the site got bogged down with tech issues and lost a lot of customers that it ended up sucking.
MissAdriana
12-10-2016, 09:18 AM
Are there even any left?
webcams.com just off the top of my head
The NO freechat sites are not lucrative now a days except Adultwork for the british girls (not sure how other nationalities work AW).
If i go on IFR, IML, webcams, cams etc i sit dead in paid only w.o traffic. Wonder on what site the member above cams?(B.Lotus)
Maybe Indy?
JaneBurgess
12-10-2016, 11:52 AM
Im doing well on ImLive and I love being able to turn off free chat.
anonymous camgirl
12-10-2016, 12:18 PM
I am having a great day as far as money goes today..but 3 hours in and they are triggering my PTSD hard.. I am trying to get through .. but the last guy left me in tears.. yes I cried off line... I don't think anyone with PTSD should be camming.. but mine accumulated over the years that I was already camming..lmao.... so I am stuck in it.. and most of my days are like this.. crying or yelling or angry about all the PTSD.. and more and more PTSD comes on top of it from shit customers.. .. I have to find a way to get through it.. because I need the money.. the whole week was so fucked up I would need $600 today just to pay the bills.. Not going to happen.. but anything is better than nothing.
anonymous camgirl
12-10-2016, 12:20 PM
webcams.com is no more.. and now it's Mydirtyhobby and I can't even get registered on there.. and they owe me some money cuz I hadn't met the $50 payout.. I guess I lost money... I dunno.. I hate that cam sites keep your money.. like AW did that to me cuz I didn't have a passport so I lost $130
webcams.com just off the top of my head
takiaya
12-10-2016, 01:26 PM
Sooooo been trying to build my cam back up after taking a long time off and got hit hard today. Multiple warnings from mfc the site Ive been building back up. They pretty much told me if I do or any of the kinds of shows I offer in private I'm banned, every single one of my regulars are fetish guys, and mfc pretty much left me a warning saying no more fetish shows or roleplay shows or I'm banned, I've even gotten warnings for guys just asking me if I offer them even if I say mfc doesnt allow it, I got a warning for speaking to them, so fucked up, I feel like I cant even turn my cam on there or i will loose the money sitting there waiting for payout on the 16th. So now I have to try to figure out which site to completely start over on pretty much as i have accounts on multiple sites but no regular customers anywhere else. fuckity fuck fuck. I dont need this this close to christmas, I feel like I'm going to start bawling any second.
Blovely
12-10-2016, 01:42 PM
Sooooo been trying to build my cam back up after taking a long time off and got hit hard today. Multiple warnings from mfc the site Ive been building back up. They pretty much told me if I do or any of the kinds of shows I offer in private I'm banned, every single one of my regulars are fetish guys, and mfc pretty much left me a warning saying no more fetish shows or roleplay shows or I'm banned, I've even gotten warnings for guys just asking me if I offer them even if I say mfc doesnt allow it, I got a warning for speaking to them, so fucked up, I feel like I cant even turn my cam on there or i will loose the money sitting there waiting for payout on the 16th. So now I have to try to figure out which site to completely start over on pretty much as i have accounts on multiple sites but no regular customers anywhere else. fuckity fuck fuck. I dont need this this close to christmas, I feel like I'm going to start bawling any second.
You should try contacting MFC. Its sounds really odd that they're giving you warnings for pretty much everything unless the fetish's are taboo. If you were able to do the shows before I don't see why they're giving you warnings now. I def wouldn't bow out so easily.
When you need a piddly amount of money and you're just waiting, and waiting. I just want to finish my week already. Tired of fishing. Tomorrow starts a new week and more fishing. I'm a patient fisherman, but it's been so damned fished out lately.
LoraDoll
12-10-2016, 02:32 PM
I did a 12 hrs shift yesterday, slept only 4 hours and need to work again.
NO words how tired I am. And not in the mood for this shit.people are just the same as always, months ago, sitting in the room and wait quietly for free show.
Even if I see they say something I just can t make myself to respond, or read it, it s nothing but stupid nonsense shit.
anyway, as i m getting older (well not too old yet, just older, than before. :D ) i found this job more and more irritating. I hate that my days are always the same: sitting in my room, and wait for some pervert pay for me,I rarely can do a good performance anyway, coz most of them are cheap or too low, or whatever. Also guys became even more irritating, many of them think they re in a dating site, and I need to act like im a secret girlfriend, or whatever. Or they dont give a shit about me, just demand, and careless if i live or die.
I can t sell my product like : it s a performance i do, I need to Lie that i love it soooo much what is ridiculous, and on my better days, i dont give a shit, but anyway i m sick sick sick of people stupidity, and coz all they want us to do is lie lie lie and lie some more. And u can tell how hard we work, or this is business, but whatever it is, it s fucking sick, im sure in that.
Saturday is shitty for me anyway some time ago, site is full with cheap idiots, and freeloaders. So what i do is try to sit here as long as i can and survive the day. But wtf life is, when u "just want to survive the day"? This fucking sucks.
Serena-Shields
12-10-2016, 04:07 PM
What the FUCK is happening to CB? What the absolute fucking fuck. It's a fucking desert.
bbwbrianna
12-10-2016, 05:25 PM
I did a 12 hrs shift yesterday, slept only 4 hours and need to work again.
NO words how tired I am. And not in the mood for this shit.people are just the same as always, months ago, sitting in the room and wait quietly for free show.
Even if I see they say something I just can t make myself to respond, or read it, it s nothing but stupid nonsense shit.
anyway, as i m getting older (well not too old yet, just older, than before. :D ) i found this job more and more irritating. I hate that my days are always the same: sitting in my room, and wait for some pervert pay for me,I rarely can do a good performance anyway, coz most of them are cheap or too low, or whatever. Also guys became even more irritating, many of them think they re in a dating site, and I need to act like im a secret girlfriend, or whatever. Or they dont give a shit about me, just demand, and careless if i live or die.
I can t sell my product like : it s a performance i do, I need to Lie that i love it soooo much what is ridiculous, and on my better days, i dont give a shit, but anyway i m sick sick sick of people stupidity, and coz all they want us to do is lie lie lie and lie some more. And u can tell how hard we work, or this is business, but whatever it is, it s fucking sick, im sure in that.
Saturday is shitty for me anyway some time ago, site is full with cheap idiots, and freeloaders. So what i do is try to sit here as long as i can and survive the day. But wtf life is, when u "just want to survive the day"? This fucking sucks.
I feel the same way I've been on since like 10 AM and I have to stay on longer now since these fucktards won't step it up and pay for a show. They always want something for free. These days I just end up losing my temper and yelling at these idiots because they don't get I just want to do my job. The only thing I want is money. They don't get how miserable they're making me having me sit here all night feeling hungry and sleep deprived.
anonymous camgirl
12-10-2016, 06:41 PM
I made $5 on there today!... rockin it!...lol
What the FUCK is happening to CB? What the absolute fucking fuck. It's a fucking desert.
Genoveve
12-10-2016, 06:47 PM
Which site was that? I wonder if I worked on that one
Camwithher.com
anonymous camgirl
12-10-2016, 06:50 PM
I love your vents.. I know you are suffering but I enjoy reading them.. anyways on another note.. It just dawned on me today after 14 yrs of camming that I am not a person at all and really should not even try to be personable or talk to them on a more personal kind of level like a friend or acquaintance, after a guy asked me if I wanted to do anal and I said I don't do anal.. it hit me that for the last year and a half this guy refuses to spend money on me not even a tip because I don't fuck my damn asshole!.. has nothing to do with my personality or my looks or my ability to act.. just won't fuck my ass , or I wont do phone.. same thing with those guys.. if you don't offer phone most wont bother with you.. so if you are not into their kink they aren't into you at all.. it's sickening.. the attractive appeal might catch their eye.. but you are definitely not a real person to them.. Oh no anal? no squirt? no phone? bye Felicia!.. it's terrible after awhile you feel so fucking resentful and rejected.. and also the less you talk in free chat the more money you make.. uh ok! so let's circle back to how we are just a fuck hole only.. lol....so I will try my hardest to stick with the no talking, smiling bullshit and perform the duties I am willing to do .. they aren't interested in ME at all..
I did a 12 hrs shift yesterday, slept only 4 hours and need to work again.
NO words how tired I am. And not in the mood for this shit.people are just the same as always, months ago, sitting in the room and wait quietly for free show.
Even if I see they say something I just can t make myself to respond, or read it, it s nothing but stupid nonsense shit.
anyway, as i m getting older (well not too old yet, just older, than before. :D ) i found this job more and more irritating. I hate that my days are always the same: sitting in my room, and wait for some pervert pay for me,I rarely can do a good performance anyway, coz most of them are cheap or too low, or whatever. Also guys became even more irritating, many of them think they re in a dating site, and I need to act like im a secret girlfriend, or whatever. Or they dont give a shit about me, just demand, and careless if i live or die.
I can t sell my product like : it s a performance i do, I need to Lie that i love it soooo much what is ridiculous, and on my better days, i dont give a shit, but anyway i m sick sick sick of people stupidity, and coz all they want us to do is lie lie lie and lie some more. And u can tell how hard we work, or this is business, but whatever it is, it s fucking sick, im sure in that.
Saturday is shitty for me anyway some time ago, site is full with cheap idiots, and freeloaders. So what i do is try to sit here as long as i can and survive the day. But wtf life is, when u "just want to survive the day"? This fucking sucks.
ep2002
12-10-2016, 07:50 PM
I love your vents.. I know you are suffering but I enjoy reading them.. anyways on another note.. It just dawned on me today after 14 yrs of camming that I am not a person at all and really should not even try to be personable or talk to them on a more personal kind of level like a friend or acquaintance, after a guy asked me if I wanted to do anal and I said I don't do anal.. it hit me that for the last year and a half this guy refuses to spend money on me not even a tip because I don't fuck my damn asshole!.. has nothing to do with my personality or my looks or my ability to act.. just won't fuck my ass , or I wont do phone.. same thing with those guys.. if you don't offer phone most wont bother with you.. so if you are not into their kink they aren't into you at all.. it's sickening.. the attractive appeal might catch their eye.. but you are definitely not a real person to them.. Oh no anal? no squirt? no phone? bye Felicia!.. it's terrible after awhile you feel so fucking resentful and rejected.. and also the less you talk in free chat the more money you make.. uh ok! so let's circle back to how we are just a fuck hole only.. lol....so I will try my hardest to stick with the no talking, smiling bullshit and perform the duties I am willing to do .. they aren't interested in ME at all..
I hear ya, they can't even be bothered to say bye or t/y.
Wow, 14 years LOL, that's like FOREVER.
What I can't stand the most is when they say hello, or hi, hru, & I respond & they FUCKING LEAVE. Why do they do that? Why, b/c I didn't say I'm HORNY???
Or they say hi & then leave within 1-2 secs (I'm NOT exaggerating) so I have no time to respond.
ep2002
12-10-2016, 07:54 PM
Camwithher.com
Is that a new site?
Genoveve
12-10-2016, 07:54 PM
^^Nope.
victoriavein
12-10-2016, 08:20 PM
i swear to jesus i'm gonna quit & just gonna start streaming on twitch. i bet id' make more in donations and not even have to get naked LBS!!
.. they aren't interested in ME at all..
I am sorry u came to understand this in such a manner, we all want to believe they care about us but the cruel reality is, they dont care hunny, why would they care anyway when we are the OBJECT or their fantasy?
Yes, read again pls, OBJECT, i understood this shortly after i started camming & i cam for 15 years myself, longer than u actually ;)
If they treat me like an Object then all i have to do is treat them like a Wallet, it's all business, i give u what u want when u open up ur wallet, i dont care about them at all cause they dont care about me either.
Very very rarely there will be a guy who 'pretends' he cares just to soften my heart & get my attention (aka free attention) but i am not buying it, i know what he wants.
This for me is the most upsetting regarding this line of work, to be Objectified, i cant really swallow this, i chock with it, i wish i could be treated as a human being not as a piece of meat but it is what it is, cant change this so if i cant change it then i pay them with the same coin, i am an object to u, u are a money machine to me period.
Also, IMO camgirls also contributed to these guy's behavior by calling themselves 'whore, slut, cum dumpster' etc, they even write on their bodies such words for guys to see on cam, i am not saying this to judge or blame but as a fact, guys learned to treat us with disrespect also cause of these practices, maybe these women have no problem to portray themselves like this or to be treated like objects but I Personally have a huge problem to be objectified in such manner.
Years ago there was more respect & consideration, guys's attitude was a lot better, they would come in a show to talk to us for long hrs, to see a smile, a tit, to connect, u know this urself cause u camming for long time as well, when there was no freechat that guys were paying just to be able to see us dressed and sexy eventually to undress us and get to see us naked but this took time and the money were rolling for us, now they see all nudity in freechat, they see too much, they get too much too fast, what do we expect, to be 'dined & wined' now a days??!!
No, not anymore, things changed for the worse & its very difficult to put up with what is happening now if u used to 'before' when u were treated like a lady and it was a privilege for them to be with us in a show while now they consider they have the 'right' to treat us like sexual objects.
Sad, really sad, this is the hardest part on me too.........
Also, wanted to add: i too offer very little in my shows compared to other models, these guys are more & more pervert & want more & more every day, they come to ask me for Real Anal with big toys, DP, Deepthroat, Squirt, messy shows involving oil, pee (now they call it squirt when they want me to pee actually haha), powder & what not, i dont offer these, some of them am not willing to do cause i'll hurt my body (and soul) and for some i am not able to (cant squirt), when i say NO NO NO NO to all these they leave & go to the other models who offer these things.
Again, i dont judge & dont blame, i make a statement that it is less likely to be taken for a show when u dont offer that many things in ur show PLUS NO Incentives like pics/vid sets.
The other nite i had this guy in pvt who wanted me to pee in my pantyhose, he called it squirt lol, he started to bark orders "squirt in that nylons for me, wet them now", i did not pee of course nor was able to squirt so he left rating me a Four, now i dont state in any of my bio sections i squirt, why are they not reading?
Why are they allowed to give unfair ratings cause i dont do what they asking for?
Cant i be a softcore model & do my thing? Looks like if i am not hardcore enough i am crap or so, this is pissing me off to the sky, i really have a big issue with these idiots but i try my best to control myself & not let them interfere with my money making ability, if i get angry on cam & start to get 'crazy' then my money suffer either cause other guys will not want me cause of my attitude or if i log off angry i again cant make money.
So yeah, all i want is to deal with the guys who are really interested in me for the way i look & the things i offer; i made myself understand that i am where i am now financially cause that's what i am willing to do on cam, when i understood these all i made peace with myself & the world tho it happens some of these guys will get on my nerves now & then & i really really work hard not to flip on cam LOL.
anonymous camgirl
12-11-2016, 06:55 AM
I was wondering the same damn thing.. why do they do that? I honestly think it's because they just want attention and/or some ego trip that you acknowledged their presence.
I hear ya, they can't even be bothered to say bye or t/y.
What I can't stand the most is when they say hello, or hi, hru, & I respond & they FUCKING LEAVE. Why do they do that? Why, b/c I didn't say I'm HORNY???
Or they say hi & then leave within 1-2 secs (I'm NOT exaggerating) so I have no time to respond.
anonymous camgirl
12-11-2016, 06:57 AM
I know my son watches those twitch people all the time.. I told him to start doing that since he is interested in video games..lol... I am so jealous and envious how many subscribers and how much money they make to just sit there and chat about video games and themselves and they have some of the most faithful followers.. not like camming where you just get shit on by ungrateful unappreciative men all day.
i swear to jesus i'm gonna quit & just gonna start streaming on twitch. i bet id' make more in donations and not even have to get naked LBS!!
anonymous camgirl
12-11-2016, 07:03 AM
This is my biggest hangup with cam.. this is why I get upset when they treat me like I don't exist.. because years ago and maybe not so long ago.. maybe 5 yrs or less ago.. they used to talk with you more in private.. have nice long fun conversations .. they spent 45 mins or even more in pvt just chatting.. I used to start camming in full clothing.. no one complained about it.. jeans, sweater, bra and panties maybe even socks.. they didn't care.. that was the norm I think..lol.. now it's like you said.. and it's disheartening.. and now they think just because we want some conversation in private we are stalling and scamming them.. for me it's not so much about that.. it's about the human connection.. it sucks.
Years ago there was more respect & consideration, guys's attitude was a lot better, they would come in a show to talk to us for long hrs, to see a smile, a tit, to connect, u know this urself cause u camming for long time as well, when there was no freechat that guys were paying just to be able to see us dressed and sexy eventually to undress us and get to see us naked but this took time and the money were rolling for us, now they see all nudity in freechat, they see too much, they get too much too fast, what do we expect, to be 'dined & wined' now a days??!!
No, not anymore, things changed for the worse & its very difficult to put up with what is happening now if u used to 'before' when u were treated like a lady and it was a privilege for them to be with us in a show while now they consider they have the 'right' to treat us like sexual objects.
Sad, really sad, this is the hardest part on me too.........
anonymous camgirl
12-11-2016, 07:10 AM
Sometimes I sedate myself with sleeping herbs so I don't get irritated.. one guy asked me why I was so quiet that day... and so I sent him a private message.. this was on Cam4 .. one of the shittiest cam sites ever.. and I said I had to sedate myself to put up with you idiots.. he didn't say a word..lol... we have similar camming style .. we are old school and won't conform to the new shit they want.. haha.. The only thing bad about that is you get left behind just like any industry.. trying hard to get out of this.. I mean sometimes I am having hard troubles these days not curling my face up in disgust for things they say and ask for lmao... lately I have been so grossed out by them.. probably cuz of my mineral balancing . fucking with my mind I am sure.. harder to deal with them.. but I must balance my minerals and get well or i'll just end up suffering and dying so if that hurts my income .. so be it.. I dunno... Even though it's been 14 yrs this is temporary. Not something I am going to do when I am 80.. why allow these horrid creatures make me suffer eternally.
Also, wanted to add: i too offer very little in my shows compared to other models, these guys are more & more pervert & want more & more every day, they come to ask me for Real Anal with big toys, DP, Deepthroat, Squirt, messy shows involving oil, pee (now they call it squirt when they want me to pee actually haha), powder & what not, i dont offer these, some of them am not willing to do cause i'll hurt my body (and soul) and for some i am not able to (cant squirt), when i say NO NO NO NO to all these they leave & go to the other models who offer these things.
Again, i dont judge & dont blame, i make a statement that it is less likely to be taken for a show when u dont offer that many things in ur show PLUS NO Incentives like pics/vid sets.
The other nite i had this guy in pvt who wanted me to pee in my pantyhose, he called it squirt lol, he started to bark orders "squirt in that nylons for me, wet them now", i did not pee of course nor was able to squirt so he left rating me a Four, now i dont state in any of my bio sections i squirt, why are they not reading?
Why are they allowed to give unfair ratings cause i dont do what they asking for?
Cant i be a softcore model & do my thing? Looks like if i am not hardcore enough i am crap or so, this is pissing me off to the sky, i really have a big issue with these idiots but i try my best to control myself & not let them interfere with my money making ability, if i get angry on cam & start to get 'crazy' then my money suffer either cause other guys will not want me cause of my attitude or if i log off angry i again cant make money.
So yeah, all i want is to deal with the guys who are really interested in me for the way i look & the things i offer; i made myself understand that i am where i am now financially cause that's what i am willing to do on cam, when i understood these all i made peace with myself & the world tho it happens some of these guys will get on my nerves now & then & i really really work hard not to flip on cam LOL.
^^^ Yes we are old school indeed & started at different times, it's difficult for us to put up with what camming became cause i personally feel i have no value as a human being now a days while before i felt like an adored princess lol, for the young girls entering the industry now or not long ago is not an issue cause they only know these times but for us veterans it really is an issue especially if we are women with delicate situation at home, single moms, etc, i did not enter this industry cause i felt it fits me but because of the money cause i had no other choice here, it saved my life yes but it crushed my soul & i said back then 'this is going to be a temporary thing' but guess what? after 15 years it became permanent hahaaa, laughing here cause of the irony;
Now my son finished university and has a job but i still need to make money on cam, he said he'll help me find some jobs to do at home cause i have qualifications as an accountant & have other knowledge & skills in arts and so but i dont know what i can find to do at home, i know i cant get a vanilla regular job cause of my health condition 1st of all and then there are huge gaps between my vanilla jobs, nobody will hire me at my age & with my 'lack of experience' as 'time worked' cause i legally worked approx 5 years only but i will never tell about camming for 15 years u know, i mean i have knowledge & skills but my resume looks crap cause of the gapes in it. i worked two years in retail & accounting in between camming plus i had a license for accounting but i closed it down when i left the country. son is doing his best but as an entry level in his domain he's not earning enough to support all expenses & me with all medical expenses.
need to sort out my health issues then take some decisions, see if i find something to work and maybe cam too time to time depending if i find other work.
Stay strong hunny xxx
Btw, what herbs u use for sedation? I could use something myself just now to calm myself down while waiting for some test results here (medical), i am really restless and only in january i'll find out how they come out.
anonymous camgirl
12-11-2016, 08:42 AM
OMG how are we so alike? we are like twin cam girls.. everything you say is exactly my situation as well.. My sons are in college now.. not graduated yet... But yea, I started camming because my son's abusive father had left me with 2 kids and no real education enough to do anything else that can make a good income to support 3 people... This man that left me ruined even my high school education and just fucked me over good..... and he still sits on his pompous ass asking why I do not have a man still? well he traumatized the shit out of me and then doing camming instead of something good fucking DUH!.. no one came cuz I was forced into camming and then no man wanted to be with me because of it or because they were shit.
the herbs I use when I need to calm down are the ones that make normal people fall asleep.. the ones I have now are Gaia Sound Sleep brand.. lol.... it doesn't make me sleepy just makes me calm.. haha.. but I often would use something with valerian in it or bedtime tea.. lol.. I have over active adrenals so it just lowers my hormones down.
^^^ Yes we are old school indeed & started at different times, it's difficult for us to put up with what camming became cause i personally feel i have no value as a human being now a days while before i felt like an adored princess lol, for the young girls entering the industry now or not long ago is not an issue cause they only know these times but for us veterans it really is an issue especially if we are women with delicate situation at home, single moms, etc, i did not enter this industry cause i felt it fits me but because of the money cause i had no other choice here, it saved my life yes but it crushed my soul & i said back then 'this is going to be a temporary thing' but guess what? after 15 years it became permanent hahaaa, laughing here cause of the irony;
Now my son finished university and has a job but i still need to make money on cam, he said he'll help me find some jobs to do at home cause i have qualifications as an accountant & have other knowledge & skills in arts and so but i dont know what i can find to do at home, i know i cant get a vanilla regular job cause of my health condition 1st of all and then there are huge gaps between my vanilla jobs, nobody will hire me at my age & with my 'lack of experience' as 'time worked' cause i legally worked approx 5 years only but i will never tell about camming for 15 years u know, i mean i have knowledge & skills but my resume looks crap cause of the gapes in it. i worked two years in retail & accounting in between camming plus i had a license for accounting but i closed it down when i left the country. son is doing his best but as an entry level in his domain he's not earning enough to support all expenses & me with all medical expenses.
need to sort out my health issues then take some decisions, see if i find something to work and maybe cam too time to time depending if i find other work.
Stay strong hunny xxx
Btw, what herbs u use for sedation? I could use something myself just now to calm myself down while waiting for some test results here (medical), i am really restless and only in january i'll find out how they come out.
Only somebody who's been thru such difficulties can really understand, remember M. Jackson saying?
"You can only understand somebody when u wearing his shoes for a while", something on this line, yea we just have very similar life stories and can relate to eachoter a lot, pity we dont live close by, we could be good friends but even here, is great to connect and support eachoter.
All the best there xxx
anonymous camgirl
12-11-2016, 10:05 AM
Well? I am an empath.. so I can feel someone else's struggles and what they go through.. so I do know what it's like for someone else.. I feel their emotional and their physical pain.. I try my best to shield these idiots .. but I think that's why I react so much and it's hard to control.. because these lil fuckers.. not happy, angry, vicious.. uncaring.. so I am feeling it.. even when I try not to.. when I first started camming I had no idea what I was in for .. so I was open to receive.. I often talked to guys and told them what they looked like and what kind of person they were... also all of my shows I knew exactly what they were going to say to do and I did it right before they asked me to.. they always commented on that I always knew what they wanted.. it was good in the beginning. they were spooked.. but as time went on I became more closed off and hurt and I always wondered why I couldn't do it anymore.. because I naturally started blocking them from me.. but I think it's not fool proof. ..lmao..
Only somebody who's been thru such difficulties can really understand, remember M. Jackson saying?
"You can only understand somebody when u wearing his shoes for a while", something on this line, yea we just have very similar life stories and can relate to eachoter a lot, pity we dont live close by, we could be good friends but even here, is great to connect and support eachoter.
All the best there xxx
I am an empath too & always feel people even in a text sentence and yes i too feel my members, i feel their vibes if this makes sense at all, two guys can type the same sentence and i feel for each one specific vibes, good, bad or sometimes neutral, i was born like this and have extraordinary intuition plus being an empath is not easy at all cause u instinctively reject the people who send the wrong vibes but on cam means u reject money sometimes lol. I only give attention to the guys who treat me right and for the rest kick, ban, that's what i do. I had to learn the hard way that no money can buy my well being on cam and real life too, who does not deserve me will not have me Lol.
off to bathroom/ bathtub now to get all wet n foamy hihi
Take care xx
whirlerz
12-11-2016, 10:39 AM
Camming's not on, cause I'm not :)
anonymous camgirl
12-11-2016, 11:30 AM
haha I do the same thing.. I can feel some guys that I don't fucking like at all and refuse to accept their money.. some guy just offered me 100 gold for asshole .. and I said I don't like you and I don't want you in my private if you just want to see my asshole prior to that.. I blocked him.. it's not $100 it's just $35 to me anyways.. so what the fuck ever... there are some guys also I refuse cuz I instantly can't stand them and it's torture to play for them.... so interesting .. I just read an article yesterday you might be interested in reading.. let me link it... The dark side of being an empath.. an indepth article of how we truly feel going through life.. stuff that no "normal" person can ever contemplate to understand.. I envy those people who are not like this..
http://themindsjournal.com/dark-side-empath/
I am an empath too & always feel people even in a text sentence and yes i too feel my members, i feel their vibes if this makes sense at all, two guys can type the same sentence and i feel for each one specific vibes, good, bad or sometimes neutral, i was born like this and have extraordinary intuition plus being an empath is not easy at all cause u instinctively reject the people who send the wrong vibes but on cam means u reject money sometimes lol. I only give attention to the guys who treat me right and for the rest kick, ban, that's what i do. I had to learn the hard way that no money can buy my well being on cam and real life too, who does not deserve me will not have me Lol.
off to bathroom/ bathtub now to get all wet n foamy hihi
Take care xx
anonymous camgirl
12-11-2016, 11:31 AM
Well can you please get the fuck on so camming can be great again? ... please and thank you...lmao
Camming's not on, cause I'm not :)
whirlerz
12-11-2016, 11:53 AM
LMAO You're sooo CUTE!!!:hug::heartbeat
Seriously tho, it snowed like Idk a LOT here:(