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sophiesecrets
04-12-2013, 02:17 AM
ok so this isnt necessarily about camming sucking, but its a sucky pat about camming...
Like alot of u ladies im sure, i look young, so i get the pedo guys alot... And i love monies... so i do the role play. But i have this one custie, and hes been pretty regular. But i told him off yesterday, i just couldnt take it anymore. he fantasizes about his 7 year old niece and wanted me to talk like a little girl and call him uncle kevin and tell him to stop, it hurts, please dont. at this point its all been just fantasy, now he send me a half naked pic of his SEVEN YEAR OLD NIECE!
It became real to me and i flipped the fuck out. I went off on him and i called him a sick fuck who should have his dick cut off! and i kno where he says hes from anyway and emailed the child predator hotline in florida and gave them all the info i could on him, i had his email. i also had his paypal info (i only stopped taking paypal like 2 months ago, and he used to pay that way)
so ya... in hindsight im thinking maybe i over reacted... maybe it was all just fantasy, but it had gotten creepier and creepier, and i just didnt wana take the chance... i have a nine year old niece and just the thought of his sick hands on her fucked me up =/
Snowy0Star
04-12-2013, 02:39 AM
ok so this isnt necessarily about camming sucking, but its a sucky pat about camming...
Like alot of u ladies im sure, i look young, so i get the pedo guys alot... And i love monies... so i do the role play. But i have this one custie, and hes been pretty regular. But i told him off yesterday, i just couldnt take it anymore. he fantasizes about his 7 year old niece and wanted me to talk like a little girl and call him uncle kevin and tell him to stop, it hurts, please dont. at this point its all been just fantasy, now he send me a half naked pic of his SEVEN YEAR OLD NIECE!
It became real to me and i flipped the fuck out. I went off on him and i called him a sick fuck who should have his dick cut off! and i kno where he says hes from anyway and emailed the child predator hotline in florida and gave them all the info i could on him, i had his email. i also had his paypal info (i only stopped taking paypal like 2 months ago, and he used to pay that way)
so ya... in hindsight im thinking maybe i over reacted... maybe it was all just fantasy, but it had gotten creepier and creepier, and i just didnt wana take the chance... i have a nine year old niece and just the thought of his sick hands on her fucked me up =/
fuck dude thats hardcore.... u did the right thing tho like wtf is doing with a pik of her like that anyway and how the fuck did he get it.
CourtneyRaine
04-12-2013, 03:00 AM
Thank you for reporting him, Sophie. I definitely think you did the right thing! I'm of the mindset that there's nothing wrong with taboo roleplay between two consenting adults, but as soon as a non-consenting person or child is involved that becomes a whole different issue and should not be tolerated. I don't think you overreacted at all; if he was willing to obtain and distribute half naked pictures of that little girl who knows what else he would have done? Much better to be wrong and report it than to be right and not report it. I just hope this guy doesn't try to do anything to you in retaliation, especially since you mentioned you'd done pp with him in the past so he may have access to some of your information?
bigbootyjudy1
04-12-2013, 05:53 AM
ok so this isnt necessarily about camming sucking, but its a sucky pat about camming...
Like alot of u ladies im sure, i look young, so i get the pedo guys alot... And i love monies... so i do the role play. But i have this one custie, and hes been pretty regular. But i told him off yesterday, i just couldnt take it anymore. he fantasizes about his 7 year old niece and wanted me to talk like a little girl and call him uncle kevin and tell him to stop, it hurts, please dont. at this point its all been just fantasy, now he send me a half naked pic of his SEVEN YEAR OLD NIECE!
It became real to me and i flipped the fuck out. I went off on him and i called him a sick fuck who should have his dick cut off! and i kno where he says hes from anyway and emailed the child predator hotline in florida and gave them all the info i could on him, i had his email. i also had his paypal info (i only stopped taking paypal like 2 months ago, and he used to pay that way)
so ya... in hindsight im thinking maybe i over reacted... maybe it was all just fantasy, but it had gotten creepier and creepier, and i just didnt wana take the chance... i have a nine year old niece and just the thought of his sick hands on her fucked me up =/
Hey sophie,
You didn't overreact,that is very disturbing and disgusting that he would send you pics of his niece.I actually just the other day had someone post a video of a guy messing with an infant on my Facebook news feed.The video was pretty graphic.The video showed how he made this little girl suck him off,how he was eating her out and how he was sticking it in.As soon as i saw that i close my computer and started crying uncontrollably .After getting myself back together i went to report the video on Facebook. Would of called the police but a lot people said they called the police about it already.I promise i had nightmares about it.I guess the video bothered me so much because i have a 3 year old and the lil girl looked like she was around 1-2 years old.I know some of you probably saw that video because it was a big thing on Facebook because of that video i wont ever do any underage play even if its soft talk.I saw the video like 3 days ago and i still cant get it out my mind.I refuse to entertain these sicks fucks because they need help.Sorry for the long rant.YOU DID THE RIGHT THING :) I APPLAUD YOU FOR THAT.
Brilynne
04-12-2013, 09:22 AM
sophie, you def. Did the right thing. I do pretty much no limits taboo roleplay (and if anyone has a problem with that i would be happy to discuss it in verified or via PM) but i would never under any circumstaneallow it to become real, and situations like yours are exactly why i always throw in a 'so where are you from baby?' ive never had it happen to me, but the second it goes from fantasy to reality thats it, its over.
Save pic/video or take a screecap and report it ASAP to the site and if possible the authorities. I think even your local authorities would be appropriate once that evidence is in your possession, you wouldnt want that to be found on your computer later on by someone else (even if you delete it, a simple system restore could bring it back) and not have an excuse for it.
roast
04-12-2013, 09:56 AM
Not a legal professional, social worker, or officer of the law disclaimer:
Hotlines are usually run by volunteers or paraprofessionals - they usually pass on info to the local child protective services which arent exactly law enforcement entities, theyre mandated reporters but not all mandated reporters act as consistently as law enforcement.
Send all of the information you have on him to the FBI office most local to him as he sent CP to you (or to yours, it just would be passed on to his either way). Keep it to facts with little extra narrative, and leave it at that. This is for obvious reasons but also you dont know if his ISP is tracking who he sends pics and more to already - often ISPs are compelled by law enforcement to assist with building cases and will connect to as many people in a CP-sharer's network... which could include you. If he has sent it to one person, he's probably sent it to others and has a big cache of CP on deck and was seeing how much he could even send.
Be aware that he presumably has your IRL information as you took PayPal. IDK how far you went in these roleplays and what he may/may not have had recorded you saying or doing, so just be mindful of any possible retaliation as CP-types are usually hellbent on preserving their normal lifecover. If he were more sophisticated he wouldnt have sent you CP along with his real life info Im sure, but the ones who are caught are usually not sophisticated. So you also may be subject to your own legal investigation or even potentially obscenity issues (or going viral) if he recorded you and unleashes it online in retaliation.
Not trying to resurrect ageplay debates at all, just I have a google alert for 'webcams' and a lot of the news alerts are about... CP, and the breadth of the legal investigations conducted. There are a few things you need to weigh very carefully. We arent mandated reporters like teachers, doctors, social workers etc however if you want to take further action that may actually be binding, be aware that an anonymous hotline isnt enough and similarly you may already be in the crosshairs: 1. of an investigation, 2. you may have been recorded up until now. 3. Someone lurking on this (very public) forum sees your signature and flips out bc they disagree with ageplay and/or youve openly admitted to being in possession of and discussing ** and retaliate as this is a hot button issue for many. People have done e-campaigns on cammodels for less and this thread already has almost 70K views. This is kind of why I didnt re-quote your post or name you in case you decide to take it down.
How likely any of those situations are, idk, it is all speculation - but how you behave from here on may determine how culpable or innocent you seem if there is an investigation already happening or one is suddenly launched. So having a record that you reported him is probably a good idea, and phonecalls to an anonymous hotline are hard to point to as a record... or even evidence.
shysara79
04-13-2013, 06:24 AM
I used to do those type of role plays too.. Until I had a guy turn on a cam an showed me his son's 7 year old playmate. He told me how he fantasizes about her.. I started to worry that by us playing it was feeding his need for the real thing! I told him I could no longer do shows with him. I blocked him and I no longer do any type of show like that. My conscience can't handle it
shysara79
04-13-2013, 06:24 AM
Sorry soph :(
summergirl321
04-14-2013, 07:48 AM
Has anyone else noticed it's been really slow on there lately? Its seems to be getting more diffucult to make money :'( Instead of camming a couple of hours to hit my goal its now taking a few!!! Ugggh.....praying it gets better soon. It's so frustrating!!!
Cam_Model_Jess
04-14-2013, 07:57 AM
Interesting 1st post.
Actually, I'm making more than I have in a long time, and faster. It really does vary person to person. And can we PLEASE not start yet another thread debating whether or not it's slow. That's so... blah.
Move on over to the "Camming Sucks" thread to speculate. Thanks love.
summergirl321
04-14-2013, 07:58 AM
wow. Ok.
justanothercamgirl
04-14-2013, 07:58 AM
Yep, it is slow as a turtle! I hope it gets better too. :(
summergirl321
04-14-2013, 08:06 AM
I think it will get better, just wonered if anyone else was in the same boat as me at the moment! xx
justanothercamgirl
04-14-2013, 08:08 AM
Interesting 1st post.
Actually, I'm making more than I have in a long time, and faster. It really does vary person to person. And can we PLEASE not start yet another thread debating whether or not it's slow. That's so... blah.
Move on over to the "Camming Sucks" thread to speculate. Thanks love.
Jess: I am glad you are doing so well right now, but it is slow for me. ;)
justanothercamgirl
04-14-2013, 08:09 AM
wow. Ok.
Welcome to the board, btw. :)
Yep, these kinds of posts usually go into the "Camming Sucks" Thread in order to keep things neat and orderly around here.
Jaana
04-14-2013, 08:26 AM
It varies day by day for me on SM. Recently I've noiced that i've got a full room, but it's about 95% "show feet bb" "bb stand up" "bb unzip nur hoodie show us wut ur working with" etc.
summergirl321
04-14-2013, 08:44 AM
I apologise, I'v never been here before and just slowing discovering how the board works. I will be logging in soon to start my week!!
Glamourmilf
04-14-2013, 08:44 AM
Just to jump in with an observation real quick. I've noticed more models pulling guys off site, to sign up with their own websites, from their raffles, and drawings, etc. Plus, there are a couple of models who do 'OUTDOOR" masturbation shows, and their rooms are always flooded with tippers. Guys typing that they are the best on SM because they do these kinds of shows. WTF?
I bet that when camming first started, it was a 'thrill' enough for a dude to watch a model in her bedroom. Now, they want to push the envelope and watch, and support 'public shows'. I watched one of the models who does this, get $60, and $100 tips from a couple of guys who are my custies, yet these guys NEVER spend that kind of money on my shows! All the guys in her room were just tipping from 5-20 dollars, and she didn't do anything! They were there because they like her, and want to support her public shows. They were saying how she made them feel like they were on an actual date! I only went in her room, when mine suddenly slowed,and I needed a break. There is usually a reason for a room to suddenly slow to nothing.
I only hope that when these girls get caught by their local authorities,(and they will), because most places they do these shows at have cameras, and if they trace it back to SM, that it doesn't somehow prevent SM from streaming.
summergirl321
04-14-2013, 08:54 AM
Totally nodding while reading this!!!!!
temptingmodel
04-14-2013, 10:45 AM
I only hope that when these girls get caught by their local authorities,(and they will), because most places they do these shows at have cameras, and if they trace it back to SM, that it doesn't somehow prevent SM from streaming.
when streaming on private property we can do as we wish and NO ONE can say squat. thanks for wishing "caught by local authorities" Most ppl have sense enough to know when and where to perform. SUCH as a golf course, it is legal due to the club rented it out and the entertainers are doing their job, it is private property
smh
What about models using fake ass pictures to sell themselves when IN FACT it is not them? Be careful uploading those pics , that is stealing property, and that is something SM CAN GET SUED FOR.
and is not a light slap on the wrist
Before judging others look at what you are doing and then complain.
Glamourmilf
04-14-2013, 01:07 PM
Calm Down Tempting! I wasn't talking about private property. I'm talking about car washes, parking lots, public bathrooms,parks,etc.
One of the gals on chaturbate got fined by the country club she lives at, and just giggled it off. I noticed that since my post on here from earlier, the thread about a girl in the uk getting caught doing cam shows at the public place she worked.
DoodlebugBites
04-14-2013, 03:28 PM
Welcome to the board, btw. :)
Yep, these kinds of posts usually go into the "Camming Sucks" Thread in order to keep things neat and orderly around here.
I'm so confused... am I not in the Camming Sucks thread right now? Nothing is making sense, LOL.
Marina Starr
04-14-2013, 03:47 PM
There was a new thread earlier and the mods merged them!
I'm so confused... am I not in the Camming Sucks thread right now? Nothing is making sense, LOL.
justanothercamgirl
04-14-2013, 04:47 PM
I apologise, I'v never been here before and just slowing discovering how the board works. I will be logging in soon to start my week!!
Don't worry summergirl, I've been here for a while and I still have no idea how the board works. (*grins*)
Good luck with your week!
summergirl321
04-14-2013, 04:59 PM
I actually did ok today, hit my goal just took me a while longer than it used to! Good start to my week :) !
Marina Starr
04-14-2013, 05:03 PM
Yay! Me too! I went over my daily goal thanks to Gold shows!
I actually did ok today, hit my goal just took me a while longer than it used to! Good start to my week :) !
summergirl321
04-14-2013, 05:08 PM
YAY GOOD JOB!!! xxx
Brilynne
04-15-2013, 09:40 PM
Shittiest day of camming so far...I like, could not make money. Tried for hours. Between 4 sites. Wasn't happening. I have 20 mins left but I'm throwing in the towel. I can't take 20 more minutes of NOTHINGNESS.
AliceFun
04-16-2013, 06:32 AM
Yes, terrible monday for me as well wow! :(
justanothercamgirl
04-16-2013, 07:40 AM
http://stream1.gifsoup.com/view/53599/britney-spears-crying-o.gif (http://gifsoup.com/view/53599/britney-spears-crying.html)
Marina Starr
04-16-2013, 07:42 AM
Are you okay, BB?
http://stream1.gifsoup.com/view/53599/britney-spears-crying-o.gif (http://gifsoup.com/view/53599/britney-spears-crying.html)
justanothercamgirl
04-16-2013, 07:43 AM
It is so slow, bb! It is so slow. :(
Marina Starr
04-16-2013, 07:45 AM
http://i1263.photobucket.com/albums/ii633/TallyBean18/GIF/tumblr_m3b1qquhWK1qewt9j.gif (http://media.photobucket.com/user/TallyBean18/media/GIF/tumblr_m3b1qquhWK1qewt9j.gif.html)
It is so slow, bb! It is so slow. :(
justanothercamgirl
04-16-2013, 07:50 AM
http://stream1.gifsoup.com/view/200276/happy-hugs-o.gif (http://gifsoup.com/view/200276/happy-hugs.html)
I love you Marina Starr!
Marina Starr
04-16-2013, 07:52 AM
I hope my little bit of gold bring you luck and wicked paying traffic :)
http://stream1.gifsoup.com/view/200276/happy-hugs-o.gif (http://gifsoup.com/view/200276/happy-hugs.html)
I love you Marina Starr!
Felicia Fyafly
04-16-2013, 09:23 AM
Slowest day everrrr. Yesterday was even worse. Even got some asshole who after he tipped to see my belly and we talked a minute about how yes, I'm pregnant how far along etc he wanted a SMOKING show!?! I should hope other pregnant gals don't offer that. Geesh. Obvi I said no and that's not an option upon which he exited my room. Not the first time I've had this request since preggers either pretty scary fetish combo if you ask me! Also lost patience with all the freeloading traffic just signed off for the day AND asked SM to raise my rates. If I have to deal with their crap traffic at least the paying traffic should be better lol ;) Fuck the dumb shit!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Preggy raaaaaage }:D
Kanda
04-16-2013, 09:26 AM
...which one is best -
streamate or livejasmin?
clips4sale.com or adultvideos.com?
can you mix and match?
SoloDesire
04-16-2013, 09:27 AM
I wasn't going to log on today...I wish I hadn't. I've been sitting an hour and a half with no shows and hardly any interaction from anyone. WTF?!!
Marina Starr
04-16-2013, 09:51 AM
Start banning :)
I wasn't going to log on today...I wish I hadn't. I've been sitting an hour and a half with no shows and hardly any interaction from anyone. WTF?!!
summergirl321
04-16-2013, 09:58 AM
logging on soon........cant bare it!!!!!!! fingers and toes crossed!!!!!!
Ariella
04-16-2013, 11:35 AM
*cries* I haven't made any money in over a week. I had a great start to the month then bam everything just stopped. I've logged in a few times on MFC for an hour at the most with not one single token coming in. I'm getting an average of 10 premiums with 40 viewers but everyone just wants to chat and hang out and ignore my topic. It's made me feel like shit and given me no motivation to cam. I think I must have just had beginners luck last month because it just sucks right now. My 'regulars' keep saying shit like 'in a few days I can tip, take you private, I have no tokens right now,' ahhh excuses excuses.. and to the guy who comes in my room EVERYTIME I'm online from the minute I log on and stays till the minute I log off- with 500-1000 tokens and has never tipped me ever, F**K YOU! I feel like I should just start banning c**ts cause they piss me off.
Vent over, I hope this weekend will be better.
BlueBunny
04-16-2013, 12:03 PM
I feel y'all's pain. :( I made a little bit on SM and then it died. Now I'm grinding my teeth on LJ :( I still need 20$ till the end of the month, provided none of what I made or will make will be a chargeback to reach payout... and OMG it feels like I will never get there. I feel lucky I made 4 dollars on LJ so far in 2 hours. lol But you know what, I'll be dammed if I let them keep my first 100 dollars there. LJ will only be run in the background in member chat mode when I have a computer to spare after this. FU LJ and your horrible non paying traffic. :((
MommieLongLegs
04-16-2013, 01:49 PM
Is it ok if I fall out on the floor and have temper tantrum? I'm not getting my way right now *crosses arms and pouts
justanothercamgirl
04-16-2013, 03:44 PM
It was horrid on cam for me. I had to keep kicking at Streamate like a pinata until I finally made my goal HOURS later than I normally do. :/
For the rest of the girls still working. Keep fighting the good fight!
anonymous camgirl
04-16-2013, 03:57 PM
That's why i only bothered to work a half shift today.. Also don't forget that yesterday was Tax Day in the USA.. so there might be alot of poor bastards today
It was horrid on cam for me. I had to keep kicking at Streamate like a pinata until I finally made my goal HOURS later than I normally do. :/
For the rest of the girls still working. Keep fighting the good fight!
JaneBurgess
04-16-2013, 11:11 PM
Yesterday was good for me but today was TERRIBLE. I have to try and not take it personally but sometimes it makes me feel awful.
Rosexxxx
04-17-2013, 04:13 AM
It's been bad for me too. I was lagging so bad on Saturday I did not get enough before the pay period ended. I had a virus on my computer. I got rid of it thank god. Went on Sunday, slow as hell. Monday slow. Last night slow. I just wanted to get offline. I was so frustrated and did feel awful. But you know bb's it will get better. We just have to go through the slumps. I think things like this happen so you can think outside of the box and find new ways of starting new ventures and expanding, growing.
justanothercamgirl
04-17-2013, 05:34 AM
Dear Camming Goddess,
Please let today be better than yesterday.
Your humble servant,
JAC
bigbootyjudy1
04-17-2013, 11:10 AM
Today is so fucking horrible!!!!! i know some of u girls dont like the "it's slow thread" ,but bump that .I cant take it anymore i have to scream it out so i dont take it on my customers.ITS SO FUCKING SLOWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I WANT SOME REAL SPENDERS DAMN IT!!!!!!!!!!!!! AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH .
ok im done :)
summergirl321
04-17-2013, 11:17 AM
OH MY GOD. I was on earlier and had to sign off NO TRAFFIC!!!! I could cry!!!!!!! I was on front page and had no1 in my room for like 5 minutes at a time! i cant bare it!!!!!!!!! I logged on with the best attitude! DAMMM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!