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maddiebabe
07-14-2017, 04:32 AM
I feel like every camsite should have a system for guys to have money loaded up on their account and not just be linked to a credit card where they can still freeload. Then every site should charge these guys something small to watch free cams.. like maybe a dollar per girl to watch her free/guest chat for 24 hrs since they paid. I feel like this would cut out a lot of total timewasters. There are so many people that do shit like buy stuff to use then return it to the store so they don't spend their money. There are also a fuckton of people who refuse to pay even like a dollar to download a song lmao. Those people should not be allowed on camsites, but I feel like they are a majority population...

As we all know the only reason this shit is free is to raise traffic. Well as we all know traffic doesn't necessarily = money. Most of the traffic is just fucking shit quality traffic that should die in my humble opinion.

LoraDoll
07-14-2017, 12:29 PM
dead. Random unicorn ll save my ass or regular, but I expect nothing from these people again. They are so stupid, maybe it s better if they dont bother.
It s just fucking boring.

nelli
07-14-2017, 02:56 PM
It's like you spoke directly to my soul. lol

TrifilinCamHo
07-14-2017, 04:39 PM
I feel like every camsite should have a system for guys to have money loaded up on their account and not just be linked to a credit card where they can still freeload. Then every site should charge these guys something small to watch free cams.. like maybe a dollar per girl to watch her free/guest chat for 24 hrs since they paid. I feel like this would cut out a lot of total timewasters. There are so many people that do shit like buy stuff to use then return it to the store so they don't spend their money. There are also a fuckton of people who refuse to pay even like a dollar to download a song lmao. Those people should not be allowed on camsites, but I feel like they are a majority population...

As we all know the only reason this shit is free is to raise traffic. Well as we all know traffic doesn't necessarily = money. Most of the traffic is just fucking shit quality traffic that should die in my humble opinion.

I completely agree with this, but I don't even think they should necessarily charge them, just limit the amount of time you get to spend in rooms without spending money. Like max 4 hours a day if you don't spend money. 4 hours sounds excessive and way too generous but we all see the same fucking freeloaders in our rooms and other rooms every night for literally our entire shifts. So, they exist unfortunately. Also with the fucking bullshit Private Chat Preview which is HEAVILY abused, they should allow guys like 3 peeps per 24 hours before either cutting them off or charging them.

maddiebabe
07-14-2017, 05:09 PM
I like AW's system of like 5 min per 24 hours of free chat or something like that. It's per girl.

That being said, I think because I am American or some other reason I almost never get shows on there. So they might as well pay to peep guest/freechat. Fuck them they can all rot in hell I am not sorry.


There is literally no reason on Earth it should take a guy more than 5 min to decide if he wants a show or not. I'm pretty sure most decide in the first 5 seconds and another huge chunk decide in the first minute or 2. Virtually 99% figure it out well within 5 min. The 1% who takes longer to decide is rarely ever worth all the trouble u went thru getting them in a private. They are either shitty dudes during privates and ask a lot of you, or they finish real quick compared to how long they interrogate. These are just my experiences. I really don't spend much time at all chatting with these dipshits these days if they ain't paying.

ep2002
07-15-2017, 08:17 AM
Every single motherfucker tonight tells me they are broke...Well...thanks for letting me know that broke ass people watch me not wanting to give me anything anyways?! It's not really helpful at all. Ugh. Just leave my room or don't go on cam sites at all if you are broke all the time!!

Yeh on CB they will often tell me they have no tokens, so I ask them WTH they are doing on a cam site. As if I don't know, but I want to shame them. So fucking sick of THIS SHIT.


I feel like every camsite should have a system for guys to have money loaded up on their account and not just be linked to a credit card where they can still freeload. Then every site should charge these guys something small to watch free cams.. like maybe a dollar per girl to watch her free/guest chat for 24 hrs since they paid. I feel like this would cut out a lot of total timewasters. There are so many people that do shit like buy stuff to use then return it to the store so they don't spend their money. There are also a fuckton of people who refuse to pay even like a dollar to download a song lmao. Those people should not be allowed on camsites, but I feel like they are a majority population...

As we all know the only reason this shit is free is to raise traffic. Well as we all know traffic doesn't necessarily = money. Most of the traffic is just fucking shit quality traffic that should die in my humble opinion.

I agree, they shouldn't be allowed to room hop or stay on the site for more than X mins.


I like AW's system of like 5 min per 24 hours of free chat or something like that. It's per girl.

That being said, I think because I am American or some other reason I almost never get shows on there. So they might as well pay to peep guest/freechat. Fuck them they can all rot in hell I am not sorry.


There is literally no reason on Earth it should take a guy more than 5 min to decide if he wants a show or not. I'm pretty sure most decide in the first 5 seconds and another huge chunk decide in the first minute or 2. Virtually 99% figure it out well within 5 min. The 1% who takes longer to decide is rarely ever worth all the trouble u went thru getting them in a private. They are either shitty dudes during privates and ask a lot of you, or they finish real quick compared to how long they interrogate. These are just my experiences. I really don't spend much time at all chatting with these dipshits these days if they ain't paying.

Well if there are tons of girls he can still freeload by just chatting with tons of girls.

But I agree, if they ask way too many questions, odds are they only go for a few minutes. There are exceptions of course.

Mare
07-15-2017, 11:34 AM
Guys asking 50 questions are told from question 1 to go private if they want to know. There's plenty of info on my profile for them if they can get their head out of their ass and even find the profile. They're budget stroking freeloaders. They're stroking to your voice and facial expressions or tits whatever and *might* come in to unload in 1 min or less. I don't cater to them.
On another note I'm bored shitless here myself. WTFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFF I don't even need that much to make what I'm trying to get to. My other computer just fucked itself, and since I was using it for skype shows on CMD/MFC I don't even think I'll be buying a new one. There has to be a better way.

AlisonSparks
07-15-2017, 03:15 PM
Ugh, I just came back on cam from taking 2 weeks off and it's basically a desert. No one is there, except my only regular, who purchased me a gift few days ago. I haven't made a cent today and I'm pissed. But, looking from the bright side, I still got 2 custom requests on Youkandy and I'm glad I have this nice, little egg in my basket. It was the site I started to cam on, now I'm using it only for customs and content selling but it's a life saver. <3

Glamourmilf
07-16-2017, 05:57 AM
Guys asking 50 questions are told from question 1 to go private if they want to know. There's plenty of info on my profile for them if they can get their head out of their ass and even find the profile. They're budget stroking freeloaders. They're stroking to your voice and facial expressions or tits whatever and *might* come in to unload in 1 min or less. I don't cater to them.
On another note I'm bored shitless here myself. WTFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFF I don't even need that much to make what I'm trying to get to. My other computer just fucked itself, and since I was using it for skype shows on CMD/MFC I don't even think I'll be buying a new one. There has to be a better way.

I was just thinking about those guys yesterday. And how easily irritated I am now, after close to 7 years of this shit.
I can usually tell by question 2 that he's gonna bail.
* Sometimes typing the answers privately will get him to go to exclusive. Sometimes.
But most of the time, I end up blocking them.

Sexy Shana
07-17-2017, 02:41 AM
I just assume that guys are wanking while trolling and asking questions. They pop for free!

A hint is that most loose the ability to type.....and no way do they want to pay! Waste of time....

LoraDoll
07-17-2017, 03:44 PM
and now again. after I took 3 days off, i was okay again. I met with new people did stuff I like outside.
Now, i m online again. First 3 hour for 0$. Than a guy who payed sometimes, came in... I ignored him in free chat. So he came to pv just to blame me, that I dont chit chat with him in free, and ah now he see im here only for guys who pay, and he is mad when he "need to" come in like this, blablabla , I dont even understand what is his problem.

He wanted to meet up anyway. Coz he married, but dont like his wife anymore, so many times he offered a plain ticket what he can get FOR FREE. Is there any bitch who could refuse that? Free plan ticket and a random cock!!!! I m drooling!
I made it very clear for the first time to him, I dont meet, and it s not my habit to fall in love with anyone who i see on cam, especially I dont like manipulative assholes who think themselves so fair and clean. So I was there arguing him with full power.

Wtf is this shit, why is that I only see assholes jerks freeloaders, and delusional idiots who think we should be in love with them. I m about to cry, this is so stupid. I can t stand these idiots, I trully hate them with all my soul, and I hate feel that way. Wtf happened with these people why they are so fucking stupid and irritating now, nearly all of them?

Bananabunny
07-17-2017, 07:27 PM
The men tonight bore me so much...Come in my room to expect me to fist myself and be active and shit but they themselves won't do anything but talk cuz they are broke...kek...Don't men feel ashamed when they chat with a woman not able to pay her? I mean it's obvious I'm there for the money mainly right? Then they ask me if I do this for the money...nooooo....I just LOVE to sit around and being bored...no one shall give me their money...I do this for free yes yes kek rofl....Dumb asses...I'm so pissed tonight not gonna hesitate banning time wasters...

LoraDoll
07-18-2017, 05:08 AM
Now I think I learned something. 99% are broke as fuck even if they are paying customers. It s sad to see, that mostly people who have serious problems / mental issues visiting these sites. But anyway, let s be real. Nice guys who look good and have a life just wont sit around on cam sites and spend their money to watch whoever fuck herself or anything like that. They would not imagine that someone who they never met are in love with them or interested in them. I had so much stress and felt drained so many times, coz of one thing. I treated these people as equal. Big mistake. I swear nearly all of them is just pure garbage regardless if they pay or not. I would not even clean my shoes in them. And ofc a very few exception... let s believe in unicorns. I ll start my shift today, keeping that in mind.

Mare
07-18-2017, 06:52 AM
Tuesday. Remind me why I even try. Oh wait, b/c I'm trying to put in hours. FML. so bored.

Girly_Girl
07-18-2017, 07:15 AM
Anyone know when it usually picks up again?

AuroraJade
07-18-2017, 07:17 AM
Even average/ugly guys who have somewhat okay social skills arent on these sites. Not so savvy guys get a little help from their buddies at the bar picking up a girl. The cam site guys are either nasty, old, handicapped, disfigured, in any other way impaired or just NO social skills at all. The latter is also very misogynist. Source; majored in IT. My class was full of these guys. When I got a good grade they were upset because I am a woman. These are the kind of guys that visit cam sites.

Met my BF there. He was social savvy and when we went to the bars (me, him, and some other people) he and his buddies would always help out those geeks, lol.

Cam guys. A small percentage are those guys who are really SO BUSY they have no time for social interaction/women IRL, who work like 80-100hr/week. The majority is impaired in some way.

If I were single visiting cam sites would be a major turn off. It means he is needy for attention.

SoloDesire
07-18-2017, 08:00 AM
Anyone know when it usually picks up again?

In September when school is back in and it gets better towards winter months...usually.

Girly_Girl
07-18-2017, 08:07 AM
In September when school is back in and it gets better towards winter months...usually.

Won't it still be slow cause of football tho?

SoloDesire
07-18-2017, 08:12 AM
Won't it still be slow cause of football tho?

A football game only lasts a couple of hours and they are on at all different times (depending on which team you watch)...so no, football has never really effected it for me until the playoffs.

Glamourmilf
07-18-2017, 08:25 AM
Anyone know when it usually picks up again?
Any year now.:crossfing

Girly_Girl
07-18-2017, 08:53 AM
Any year now.:crossfing

lol......not holding my breath on that one. I don't remember it being this slow last summer

LoraDoll
07-18-2017, 09:05 AM
Any year now.:crossfing

https://media3.giphy.com/media/3o6ozoWdRiY98RyDIY/200.webp#97-grid1

BiancaNorwood
07-18-2017, 10:27 AM
onto hour 3 with NOTHING made, 30 mins of ins and outs with not even a hello
v.v

The fucking "in and outs"!!!!!!!!!!! Drives. Me. Nuts!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I have developed a theory on it. I attribute it to Tinder where these guys probably are as well. They come into a room and leave - kind of like swiping on Tinder.

BiancaNorwood
07-18-2017, 10:36 AM
Also - I think I'm taking a break from doing Gold Shows on Streamate. I have tried $5 GS buy-ins. Nothing. $4 buy-ins. Nothing. Went down to $1. NOTHING. A DOOOOOLLLLLLLAAAAR. They just don't want to spend ANY money. I'm not going to sit there trying to beg for one dollar. I'd probably get A LOT more if I stood outside of my local 711 with a cup asking for $1.

Bananabunny
07-18-2017, 07:37 PM
Ugh. That hurts. One day before I will be gone a few days for a family trip, no one chims in to tip or talk. Wow. As If I'm a newbie or everyone forgot about me. Like a hard slap in the face. I'm so gonna spend my money like crazy in these days and forget about camming for good. All these men can fuck off I won't be active on twitter for these greedy fucks!!

takiaya
07-18-2017, 08:53 PM
Even average/ugly guys who have somewhat okay social skills arent on these sites. Not so savvy guys get a little help from their buddies at the bar picking up a girl. The cam site guys are either nasty, old, handicapped, disfigured, in any other way impaired or just NO social skills at all. The latter is also very misogynist. Source; majored in IT. My class was full of these guys. When I got a good grade they were upset because I am a woman. These are the kind of guys that visit cam sites.

Met my BF there. He was social savvy and when we went to the bars (me, him, and some other people) he and his buddies would always help out those geeks, lol.

Cam guys. A small percentage are those guys who are really SO BUSY they have no time for social interaction/women IRL, who work like 80-100hr/week. The majority is impaired in some way.

If I were single visiting cam sites would be a major turn off. It means he is needy for attention.

Don't forget the ones that have weird fetishes but are married to vanilla women. I have one that watches my shows in bed with his wife asleep beside him on his phone xD

takiaya
07-18-2017, 08:56 PM
A football game only lasts a couple of hours and they are on at all different times (depending on which team you watch)...so no, football has never really effected it for me until the playoffs.

My highest earning day ever was the morning of the Superbowl a few years back and I don't do football themed shows, don't even watch football. Football doesn't really effect it depending on your hours.

anonymous camgirl
07-19-2017, 10:48 AM
I cannot even believe how fucking slow it is.. this sucks!.. I decided to work more hours when I work so I can have days off because I CANNOT work 7 days a fucking week anymore with just 1 day off per month.. I have fucking had it with this shit.. I normally work about 40 hours.. so whenever I am done with 40 hours I am done.. money or no fucking money.. I am burned out and been having way to many nervous breakdowns from no rest from camming.

So I hope it works out.. I am working for 2 or 3 days in a row then a day off .. rinse and repeat..days vary each week .. never the same.. was Tuesday a good day guys? or sucked also?

IvyRose
07-19-2017, 11:19 AM
Even average/ugly guys who have somewhat okay social skills arent on these sites. Not so savvy guys get a little help from their buddies at the bar picking up a girl. The cam site guys are either nasty, old, handicapped, disfigured, in any other way impaired or just NO social skills at all. The latter is also very misogynist. Source; majored in IT. My class was full of these guys. When I got a good grade they were upset because I am a woman. These are the kind of guys that visit cam sites.

Met my BF there. He was social savvy and when we went to the bars (me, him, and some other people) he and his buddies would always help out those geeks, lol.

Cam guys. A small percentage are those guys who are really SO BUSY they have no time for social interaction/women IRL, who work like 80-100hr/week. The majority is impaired in some way.

If I were single visiting cam sites would be a major turn off. It means he is needy for attention.

wooooow
the force is strong today with you ;)

dont let those bad couple of rotten apples mess up your view off cam customers in general

Impaired really?

I can not imagine giving off the right vibe to attract spending or socially acceptable and amazing customers when you view all of them like that, you make your job a lot worse than it is.

Feel free to bash down on camming when it sucks but there are many good guys around. You actually depend on them to make a living right now, I woudnt bite the hand that feeds me
Who cares either way if your customer is old or handicapped or disfigured? Seems to me that the things most girls/woman dislike about a men (being judged on the outside) , we are doing a lot when venting or complaining and maybe even worse than them. Cant expect to be treated the way you wanna be treated if you do not offer it in return.
Also why care, even if the guy would be majorly disfigured (or/and is socially impared), I am there to make his day better that is oure job after all isnt it? That is why we make money in the first place. So why does it even matter?

So a handicapped or disfigured guy his money is worth less to you, does he deserves less energy from you or happiness into his life?

They deserving happiness is equal to me. Their money is the same as every other dollarbill too btw

I have never ever in my 5 years of camming seen something you describe. Because I always find something that I do like and that, when focussed on, can make someone beautifull. How small that might be.

Give all the old nasty ones to me please, the handicapped and socially impared too! Ill take them !!
Especially the old!!!!
I love them!

In return let me giv e you all the handsome young cock!
I can miss them!



arent we all needy for attention? We tend to forget that guys other than woman do not get compliments all day long, they do not get the attention we are getting from them. Of course they get loely and need somehing to cheer there day up. Dont we all?!

I have met truly amazing guys on cam. Handsome guys, stunning guys, intelligent guys, funny guys, loving guys and majorly succeeding in life guys (majorly rich)
And that all even though they were horny as fuck. We all know what that does to their brain, they get in cavemen mode. I find it truly astonishing that in that mode of raw desires a lot of guys still show trough and have a giving an dkind personaliy. Of course not all do; they are paying per minute and are giving in order to receive


But maybe I should just shut up

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
07-19-2017, 11:38 AM
wooooow
the force is strong today with you ;)

dont let those bad couple of rotten apples mess up your view off cam customers in general

Impaired really?

I can not imagine giving off the right vibe to attract spending customers when you view all of them like that, you make your job a lot worse than it is.

Feel free to bash down on camming when it sucks but there are many good guys around. You actually depend on them to make a living right now, I woudnt bite the hand that feeds me
Who cares either way if your customer is old or handicapped or disfigured? Seems to me that the things most girls/woman dislike about a men (being judged on the outside) , we are doing a lot when venting or complaining and maybe even worse than them. Cant expect to be treated the way you wanna be treated if you do not offer it in return.
Also why care, even if the guy would be majorly disfigured (or/and is socially impared), I am there to make his day better that is oure job after all isnt it? That is why we make money in the first place. So why does it even matter?

So a handicapped or disfigured guy his money is worth less to you, does he deserves less energy from you or happiness into his life?

Their happiness is equal. Their money is the same as every other dollarbill

I have never ever in my 5 years of camming seen something you describe. Because I always find something that I do like and that, when focussed on, can make someone beautifull. How small that might be.

Give all the old nasty ones to me please, the handicapped and socially impared too! Ill take them !!
Especially the old!!!!
I love them!

In return let me giv e you all the handsome young cock!
I can miss them!



arent we all needy for attention? We tend to forget that guys other than woman do not get compliments all day long, they do not get the attention we are getting from them. Of course they get loely and need somehing to cheer there day up. Dont we all?!

I have met truly amazing guys on cam. Handsome guys, stunning guys, intelligent guys, funny guys, loving guys and majorly succeeding in life guys (majorly rich)
And that all even though they were horny as fuck. We all know what that does to their brain, they get in cavemen mode. I find it truly astonishing that in that mode of raw desires a lot of guys still show trough and have a giving an dkind personaliy. Of course not all do; they are paying per minute and are giving in order to receive


But maybe I should just shut up

No dont shut up. And I'm quoting this so you cant delete it. :P

LadyGodga
07-19-2017, 11:41 AM
wooooow
the force is strong today with you ;)

dont let those bad couple of rotten apples mess up your view off cam customers in general

Impaired really?

I can not imagine giving off the right vibe to attract spending customers when you view all of them like that, you make your job a lot worse than it is.

Feel free to bash down on camming when it sucks but there are many good guys around. You actually depend on them to make a living right now, I woudnt bite the hand that feeds me
Who cares either way if your customer is old or handicapped or disfigured? Seems to me that the things most girls/woman dislike about a men (being judged on the outside) , we are doing a lot when venting or complaining and maybe even worse than them. Cant expect to be treated the way you wanna be treated if you do not offer it in return.
Also why care, even if the guy would be majorly disfigured (or/and is socially impared), I am there to make his day better that is oure job after all isnt it? That is why we make money in the first place. So why does it even matter?

So a handicapped or disfigured guy his money is worth less to you, does he deserves less energy from you or happiness into his life?

Their happiness is equal. Their money is the same as every other dollarbill

I have never ever in my 5 years of camming seen something you describe. Because I always find something that I do like and that, when focussed on, can make someone beautifull. How small that might be.

Give all the old nasty ones to me please, the handicapped and socially impared too! Ill take them !!
Especially the old!!!!
I love them!

In return let me giv e you all the handsome young cock!
I can miss them!


But maybe I should just shut up

I agree that having this outlook will attract these types of customers and negative attention. I've had plenty of guys who are very socially acceptable and even good looking ones probably in their late twenties to early thirties. Mostly, they come to me because they ARE able to get girlfriends and what not, but not ones that will satisfy fetishes they have. It's just like getting their fix.

All in all, even if someone is handicapped or impaired, their money and kindness is all the same to me so I don't see the point in complaining about them. I'd be more frustrated about the ones that come into your room acting holier than thou and feeling entitled. Like hey I can't offer you any money but do you mind giving me all of your attention for the next hour as I ask you a series of unrelated questions?

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
07-19-2017, 12:10 PM
I talked about this one customer in verified about a year ago? I recently found out that he passed away from a rare form of cancer. He wasn't the best communicator nor that hot, you know? There was something going on with his posture and he couldn't stand up fully? But he was soooo sweet. I'd laugh at the tweets he'd send be because I didn't realize that he was the same guy who been buying shows. Forgive me I'm not tooting my horn her but he'd tweet stuff like "I think you are sunshine" And I would respond with Thanks baby Buy a show. then drop the link. One day in a paid show he says You are so funny on twitter. And I go wait you follow me? Who are you? So he tells me and I got so embarrassed because I almost blocked him because I thought he was a weirdo.

Fast forward some time later, he reveals to me that he may not be around that much do to an illness. I kinda thought he was running game and didnt fully believe him but was like oh well. One day he sent me a DM telling me how much I meant to him and that I put a smile on his face and he would buy a show soon. I look at his timeline and this is when I noticed that he was sick and you could tell by the hospital pics on his account. Now I feel like a complete dirtbag because the times he said Good Morning to me or How much I meant he was doing it from a hospital bed. He even bought two minute shows from the hospital and had to log off when the nurses walked in the room. Wild I know! Then suddenly I stopped hearing from him. He hadn't been in my chatroom or on skype. No new tweets on twitter.

Two weeks ago I started going through my Instagram account and unfollowing people and BOOM there he was. He'd been following me and I didn't even know it. I've said this before you really don't know who's following you and what info they receive. His instagram is now being run by a family member who are now posting memorials. He passed away a few months ago. Clearly this man had a lot of people who loved him and now miss him. His pictures show that he had a support system. I've had several emotional responses to this situation for the last year now but it almost ended me when I realized that he looked for happy moments he CHOSE ME. How many cammers are out here now? He could have spent his time and money on someone else, there may be others. But I know that I was one of them and I get a little sad and disappointed with myself because of the way I initially viewed him. I don't do that but I think I was going through a bad spell and wasn't being as nice as I could have. His spirit and his kindness definitely reminded me that no matter what everyone else is doing or saying that I was going to choose to be kind above all things. I just wanted to share this with you guys because I hadn't talked about it with anyone. Ive been holding it in for a few weeks and other shit has helped me get some perspective about this business and what role I'd like to play in it. :)

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
07-19-2017, 12:12 PM
Ooof that was a grammatical mess. My apologies.

IvyRose
07-19-2017, 12:17 PM
wow that made me tear up PGD
I would prob feel the same if I would be in your place, but you should not feel sad nor dissapointed but proud and happy that you gave him new moments to foster and something to look forward and to smile about

"His spirit and his kindness definitely reminded me that no matter what everyone else is doing or saying that I was going to choose to be kind above all things"
that is so inspirering, strong and beautiful

thank you for sharing, it touched me greatly

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
07-19-2017, 12:20 PM
wow that made me tear up PGD
I would prob feel the same if I would be in your place, but you should not feel sad nor dissapointed but proud and happy that you gave him new moments to foster and something to look forward and to smile about

"His spirit and his kindness definitely reminded me that no matter what everyone else is doing or saying that I was going to choose to be kind above all things"
that is so inspirering, strong and beautiful

thank you for sharing, it touched me greatly

LOL Yea I got teary eyed too. Im gonna touch up my makeup and log back in. :)

imelly21
07-19-2017, 12:26 PM
@Phatgirl , this is a sad but good story. Thank you so much for sharing.

EricaErotica
07-19-2017, 12:30 PM
Always be open to receive blessings. You never know who might be a source of these blessings. One of my best friends in the entire world is a customer that I have had for the past 8 years. He and I talk almost everyday. Whenever I have a bad day or annoying day, he is always there to cheer me up and give me his positive energy. We don't even talk about sex, fetishes, etc. We talk about real life (his and my own) which is soooooo refreshing. Talking to a male customer and not having him pre-occupied with his penis is a blessing in my book. I am sooooo glad that this customer and I are friends. It really makes doing this type of work feel more rewarding.

livroyale
07-19-2017, 12:36 PM
I talked about this one customer in verified about a year ago? I recently found out that he passed away from a rare form of cancer. He wasn't the best communicator nor that hot, you know? There was something going on with his posture and he couldn't stand up fully? But he was soooo sweet. I'd laugh at the tweets he'd send be because I didn't realize that he was the same guy who been buying shows. Forgive me I'm not tooting my horn her but he'd tweet stuff like "I think you are sunshine" And I would respond with Thanks baby Buy a show. then drop the link. One day in a paid show he says You are so funny on twitter. And I go wait you follow me? Who are you? So he tells me and I got so embarrassed because I almost blocked him because I thought he was a weirdo.

Fast forward some time later, he reveals to me that he may not be around that much do to an illness. I kinda thought he was running game and didnt fully believe him but was like oh well. One day he sent me a DM telling me how much I meant to him and that I put a smile on his face and he would buy a show soon. I look at his timeline and this is when I noticed that he was sick and you could tell by the hospital pics on his account. Now I feel like a complete dirtbag because the times he said Good Morning to me or How much I meant he was doing it from a hospital bed. He even bought two minute shows from the hospital and had to log off when the nurses walked in the room. Wild I know! Then suddenly I stopped hearing from him. He hadn't been in my chatroom or on skype. No new tweets on twitter.

Two weeks ago I started going through my Instagram account and unfollowing people and BOOM there he was. He'd been following me and I didn't even know it. I've said this before you really don't know who's following you and what info they receive. His instagram is now being run by a family member who are now posting memorials. He passed away a few months ago. Clearly this man had a lot of people who loved him and now miss him. His pictures show that he had a support system. I've had several emotional responses to this situation for the last year now but it almost ended me when I realized that he looked for happy moments he CHOSE ME. How many cammers are out here now? He could have spent his time and money on someone else, there may be others. But I know that I was one of them and I get a little sad and disappointed with myself because of the way I initially viewed him. I don't do that but I think I was going through a bad spell and wasn't being as nice as I could have. His spirit and his kindness definitely reminded me that no matter what everyone else is doing or saying that I was going to choose to be kind above all things. I just wanted to share this with you guys because I hadn't talked about it with anyone. Ive been holding it in for a few weeks and other shit has helped me get some perspective about this business and what role I'd like to play in it. :)

On RuPaul's Drag Race, Ginger Minj told a story about meeting a woman who was dying of cancer, and seeing a drag show was on her bucket list. She came to Ginger's shows a few times and soon passed away. Ginger said something like, "I'm not out here curin' cancer, but I do make it easier to live with." I like to think camgirls are like that, too. <3

BiancaNorwood
07-19-2017, 12:49 PM
I agree that having this outlook will attract these types of customers and negative attention. I've had plenty of guys who are very socially acceptable and even good looking ones probably in their late twenties to early thirties. Mostly, they come to me because they ARE able to get girlfriends and what not, but not ones that will satisfy fetishes they have. It's just like getting their fix.

All in all, even if someone is handicapped or impaired, their money and kindness is all the same to me so I don't see the point in complaining about them. I'd be more frustrated about the ones that come into your room acting holier than thou and feeling entitled. Like hey I can't offer you any money but do you mind giving me all of your attention for the next hour as I ask you a series of unrelated questions?

I'm not sure where she got the idea that many of the men are handicapped. In my 4 years of camming, I've come across about 3-4 men who were handicapped. But, that actually shouldn't make a difference. The majority of the guys who come to me are older and no longer have sex with their wives. So, we talk about it and/or do sex shows. I have found that being a cam model (for me) is about 60% therapist / 40% sex kitten.

BiancaNorwood
07-19-2017, 12:51 PM
Always be open to receive blessings. You never know who might be a source of these blessings. One of my best friends in the entire world is a customer that I have had for the past 8 years. He and I talk almost everyday. Whenever I have a bad day or annoying day, he is always there to cheer me up and give me his positive energy. We don't even talk about sex, fetishes, etc. We talk about real life (his and my own) which is soooooo refreshing. Talking to a male customer and not having him pre-occupied with his penis is a blessing in my book. I am sooooo glad that this customer and I are friends. It really makes doing this type of work feel more rewarding.

YEEEES! One of my great friends I have met through camming. We totally get each other. We have the same sense of humor. He comes in every day and we just laugh. He takes me private and we chat. The other day, we went private and watched The Brady Bunch together. I adore him.

IvyRose
07-20-2017, 01:06 AM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QbMRLUcY8LI
ill just leave this here for anyone that needs a pick me up

winnipeg
07-20-2017, 05:03 AM
Well today is going awful :(

AuroraJade
07-20-2017, 09:51 AM
wooooow
the force is strong today with you ;)

dont let those bad couple of rotten apples mess up your view off cam customers in general

Impaired really?

I can not imagine giving off the right vibe to attract spending or socially acceptable and amazing customers when you view all of them like that, you make your job a lot worse than it is.

Feel free to bash down on camming when it sucks but there are many good guys around. You actually depend on them to make a living right now, I woudnt bite the hand that feeds me
Who cares either way if your customer is old or handicapped or disfigured? Seems to me that the things most girls/woman dislike about a men (being judged on the outside) , we are doing a lot when venting or complaining and maybe even worse than them. Cant expect to be treated the way you wanna be treated if you do not offer it in return.
Also why care, even if the guy would be majorly disfigured (or/and is socially impared), I am there to make his day better that is oure job after all isnt it? That is why we make money in the first place. So why does it even matter?

So a handicapped or disfigured guy his money is worth less to you, does he deserves less energy from you or happiness into his life?

They deserving happiness is equal to me. Their money is the same as every other dollarbill too btw

I have never ever in my 5 years of camming seen something you describe. Because I always find something that I do like and that, when focussed on, can make someone beautifull. How small that might be.

Give all the old nasty ones to me please, the handicapped and socially impared too! Ill take them !!
Especially the old!!!!
I love them!

In return let me giv e you all the handsome young cock!
I can miss them!



arent we all needy for attention? We tend to forget that guys other than woman do not get compliments all day long, they do not get the attention we are getting from them. Of course they get loely and need somehing to cheer there day up. Dont we all?!

I have met truly amazing guys on cam. Handsome guys, stunning guys, intelligent guys, funny guys, loving guys and majorly succeeding in life guys (majorly rich)
And that all even though they were horny as fuck. We all know what that does to their brain, they get in cavemen mode. I find it truly astonishing that in that mode of raw desires a lot of guys still show trough and have a giving an dkind personaliy. Of course not all do; they are paying per minute and are giving in order to receive


But maybe I should just shut up

I didnt mean it in this way babe! Ofc not. I just really don't believe in vibes/LOA/all that stuff. I dont care about handicapped customers. To me everybody is the same, as long as they pay my rate and treat me with respect. Unfortunately there is no respect on sm lately. I am sorry but I cant find the beauty in a guy who calls me a fucking bitch because I refuse to flash for free. If you talk that way to a woman you are impaired and lack skills.

Unfortunately I only attract the bottom of the barrel on cam lately. I don't care what my customer looks like, I am only interested in his payment and that is that. Payment = attention. Don't care about those guys. only here to pay my bills. I talk up to them like I like them/am genuinely interested but in my mind I am like 'dude I fucking hate you, you are pathetic'. Unless they pay big, or are genuinely nice which is rare, then my interest becomes real.

I was focused more on the delusional types (the kind that thinks we have a relationship, are 'obsessed' with me after 2 minutes of talking). These are 90% of my customers and it is draining as fuck when they get upset when you just say: 'This is virtual, wake up, you are never going to meet me, do not expect more from this, I am paid company'. Thats what I do on cam lately. I call them out on their bullshit because I am sick of getting sucked in a delusion. I need to protect my own sanity too. Every day its the same. Sitting in free chat, getting a private with the guy barking his orders, starting a gold show and do the same fake sex show over and over again, they all seem to ' love' it, its so pathetic.

I am only getting these customers. They are so draining. They take and don't give, with their 5 minute shows, no ratings, comments or tips. No response when you try to make convo. They def have something wrong with them and it is draining to deal with. It Is too much to deal with getting the 25/hour I make on SM on average. They are no exception with me but like the average custie.

I want rich handsome cock too! (actually, rich is okay I am vary rarely attracted to somebody). Wish I met interesting guys on cam! The most convo I get is 'how are you' 'where are you from' and jeez its so draining. They dont say anything more and if they say more a kind personality is super rare. They always show their true colors.

Mare
07-20-2017, 02:21 PM
I didnt mean it in this way babe! Ofc not. I just really don't believe in vibes/LOA/all that stuff. I dont care about handicapped customers. To me everybody is the same, as long as they pay my rate and treat me with respect. Unfortunately there is no respect on sm lately. I am sorry but I cant find the beauty in a guy who calls me a fucking bitch because I refuse to flash for free. If you talk that way to a woman you are impaired and lack skills.

Unfortunately I only attract the bottom of the barrel on cam lately. I don't care what my customer looks like, I am only interested in his payment and that is that. Payment = attention. Don't care about those guys. only here to pay my bills. I talk up to them like I like them/am genuinely interested but in my mind I am like 'dude I fucking hate you, you are pathetic'. Unless they pay big, or are genuinely nice which is rare, then my interest becomes real.

I was focused more on the delusional types (the kind that thinks we have a relationship, are 'obsessed' with me after 2 minutes of talking). These are 90% of my customers and it is draining as fuck when they get upset when you just say: 'This is virtual, wake up, you are never going to meet me, do not expect more from this, I am paid company'. Thats what I do on cam lately. I call them out on their bullshit because I am sick of getting sucked in a delusion. I need to protect my own sanity too. Every day its the same. Sitting in free chat, getting a private with the guy barking his orders, starting a gold show and do the same fake sex show over and over again, they all seem to ' love' it, its so pathetic.

I am only getting these customers. They are so draining. They take and don't give, with their 5 minute shows, no ratings, comments or tips. No response when you try to make convo. They def have something wrong with them and it is draining to deal with. It Is too much to deal with getting the 25/hour I make on SM on average. They are no exception with me but like the average custie.

I want rich handsome cock too! (actually, rich is okay I am vary rarely attracted to somebody). Wish I met interesting guys on cam! The most convo I get is 'how are you' 'where are you from' and jeez its so draining. They dont say anything more and if they say more a kind personality is super rare. They always show their true colors.

I can relate to a lot of what you're saying. The guys with the personalities are out there , but they're almost like unicorns. The law of attraction thing works though. Look more into it. Try it for something non cam related. Non money related. Something you would just love to have even if you think you can't. Think about that thing in detail every day. Don't put a time limit on it. It comes when it comes and you're ok with that. Hell. Wish up a few things. It works. Don't be afraid to use the ban hammer on sm. It keeps the timewasters out of the room. That way you can focus or potentially focus on paying guys. And don't be afraid to call these guys on their bullshit. I don't verbally lash them a lot b/c some of them are goading you just for that. But I type to them. Tell them you prefer gentlemen or whatever. Sometimes they can change up their tune.

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
07-20-2017, 02:33 PM
I can relate to a lot of what you're saying. The guys with the personalities are out there , but they're almost like unicorns. The law of attraction thing works though. Look more into it. Try it for something non cam related. Non money related. Something you would just love to have even if you think you can't. Think about that thing in detail every day. Don't put a time limit on it. It comes when it comes and you're ok with that. Hell. Wish up a few things. It works. Don't be afraid to use the ban hammer on sm. It keeps the timewasters out of the room. That way you can focus or potentially focus on paying guys. And don't be afraid to call these guys on their bullshit. I don't verbally lash them a lot b/c some of them are goading you just for that. But I type to them. Tell them you prefer gentlemen or whatever. Sometimes they can change up their tune.

You know what sometimes I think by just using the term Law Of Attraction is enough to turn some people off. Sometimes it sounds corny and flakey, I think? So because of that people may not be as receptive to it because of the way it's presented. When in fact it's just a series or exercises meant to help you become more centered and determine what you should focus on. Like filter out all the bullshit that really doesn't matter and then you will be able to enjoy things once you've stripped down the issues. LOL I hope this is making sense? Basically whenever someone says LOA law of attraction, think positive, just be happy, don't be negative...this all sounds like fighting words and makes some become combative and wanting to rage against it. I've personally have been there and see it all the time in my every day walking life.

TrifilinCamHo
07-20-2017, 03:01 PM
You know what sometimes I think by just using the term Law Of Attraction is enough to turn some people off. Sometimes it sounds corny and flakey, I think? So because of that people may not be as receptive to it because of the way it's presented. When in fact it's just a series or exercises meant to help you become more centered and determine what you should focus on. Like filter out all the bullshit that really doesn't matter and then you will be able to enjoy things once you've stripped down the issues. LOL I hope this is making sense? Basically whenever someone says LOA law of attraction, think positive, just be happy, don't be negative...this all sounds like fighting words and makes some become combative and wanting to rage against it. I've personally have been there and see it all the time in my every day walking life.

This is exactly how I think about LOA, you articulated it perfectly. I live in LA and LOA was the hottest shit ever for a couple years amongst the flakey new age set who think that making dream boards and paying for The Secret will fix your whole life, which is why it gets a bad rap. But it can be SO beneficial if you apply it as more of a mindset than a lifestyle choice.

EricaErotica
07-20-2017, 03:36 PM
Another thing that I find with Law of Attraction is that people in the United States are very individualistic. They make the mistake of believing that they have power over all things and all situations. I come from a different culture and realize that many hands make the work light. Actually it has been proven scientifically that many minds focused on the same objective, like a community praying for a sick person, can actually help the person heal/recover quicker. This is how I practice the Law of Attraction. I have a group of people who I have good intentions for and they have in return good intentions for me. It is almost like a Prayer Circle.

AuroraJade
07-21-2017, 03:54 AM
I can relate to a lot of what you're saying. The guys with the personalities are out there , but they're almost like unicorns. The law of attraction thing works though. Look more into it. Try it for something non cam related. Non money related. Something you would just love to have even if you think you can't. Think about that thing in detail every day. Don't put a time limit on it. It comes when it comes and you're ok with that. Hell. Wish up a few things. It works. Don't be afraid to use the ban hammer on sm. It keeps the timewasters out of the room. That way you can focus or potentially focus on paying guys. And don't be afraid to call these guys on their bullshit. I don't verbally lash them a lot b/c some of them are goading you just for that. But I type to them. Tell them you prefer gentlemen or whatever. Sometimes they can change up their tune.

Thats what I have been doing for the last year. Its not working. ;) Then LOA says I don't want it enough or it is my own fault which can be quite the insult. The same as the Tony Robbins seminars which a lot of people listen to and swear by. It is rich people shouting at rich people. Not my thing.

LOA just isn't for me. To me it is on the same level as healing crystals, chakras, reiki masters and ghosts. Mumbo jumbo. Plus I am kind of a rebel too so it doesnt work for me. If somebody says A I will do B!

SoloDesire
07-21-2017, 06:52 AM
This thread got majorly derailed...so getting it back to the topic: Camming sucks because this week has been horribly slow even though I've put in all of my hours. Looks like I'll be working extra tonight and tomorrow (my day off). Ugh.

Mare
07-21-2017, 07:09 AM
Yeah. I was on the other day in here complaining it sucked. It sucked like $6.19 for 2 hours. Wth. fuck. But on another note I have manifested things and realized I did so, but didn't know how I was doing it. So I went in search of the answers. Now I have tons of books and just tring to put 2+2 together. I don't know why it is , but it seems like asking for money doesn't work. hmmm.