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lula_xoxox
12-22-2017, 11:26 AM
these fucking dudes who think they a camgirl's golden fucking fantasy because they bestow you with their god's gift of conversation like nobody else thought of it. hey guys, if you came here because you're lonely, and talking to me is making you feel less lonely, then i am doing my job. if i am doing my job, fucking pay me. don't just sit in free chat for hours on end, expecting me to be polite and flirtatious and indulging, and then act butthurt because i asked if you were ever going to tip me or take me private. you're not the only noble fucking knight in shining armour that's had the genius idea of talking to me like i'm a human being today. stop wasting my goddamn time. would you go chat with a waitress at work for ages and then get upset if they asked you if you wanted to order anything? no. i'm not here for your free entertainment. you're not that special.

bbwbrianna
12-22-2017, 08:47 PM
I think a regular who usually bought long shows has expired like rotten milk today. The cunt has been coming in my free chat and attempting to initiate longer and longer conversations every time without paying. I just usually ignore him until he comes into private chat where he hounds me to meet him IRL so he can fuck me for FREE lol. I just keep telling him I don't know him well enough and the guys I have been fucking at least have talked to me in person. (I haven't actually fucked anyone, just say so to make him spend more money). I tell him things like how I'm a huge slut and I fuck random men behind the dumpster in my backyard and let my neighbor blow his load on my face and he just keeps spending. To get the point this douche sat in my chat for over an hour this time and I made 29 cents my cut off him when he showed me his cam. He kept trying to get me to talk dirty and called me a fat whore in free chat and I avoided every question he had hoping he would go private again. Nope. He got butthurt and started whining. I logged off quickly after that. Why the fuck do these guys think we go on cam? Are we so special that we can somehow avoid paying bills like everyone else? Are we immortal giants that don't have to eat? Are we big skanks that really just need cock in free chat from 9 to 5? Do these guys stiff waitresses and other people in the service industry because they feel that they are just slaves that must smile and serve them at all times? I don't get all the butthurt. This asshole came to a fucking PAY site and actually gets all upset that I don't wanna initiate conversation in free chat all day. This is the first day he hasn't paid me and I will remember him when I look at my next paycheck and stall his ass as long as possible if I don't ban him first.

magicgembliss
12-24-2017, 02:45 AM
All my high spenders/regulars are gone againnnn....
This is the one thing in camming I cant do. Keeping my clients by making a connection with them. I suck at this. I cant connect with people so they go to the next model when I get boring, after 2/3 shows I never see them again.

Camming is so much about personality and making a connection and I suck at that. I have a boring crappy personality and cant make friends.

and when I try to make a connection they are like ' we know you have notes on your profile, stop trying hard ' ' I dont believe you miss me, you are not very genuine are you'

no dude. I am not. I am playing an act.

I don't keep most clients around for long either, but I genuinely like a lot of them.

Maybe you're not attracting the right customers?

My advice is cheesy but: Just Be Yourself. It's literally that simple, so much of life works out well by just truly being the best version of *you* and letting your inner light shine. (smack me before I get all Katy Perry pop song on you, but I guess I've got the holiday spirit right now :D :D :D )

Alternatively, if you don't really like people, and you're in a people-oriented job, consider that (I mean this kindly) whether you'd be a better fit for a more introverted type of job?

magicgembliss
12-24-2017, 02:49 AM
Wow... I just had the most bizarre cam session on CMD. This guy wanted me to "watch porn" with him, and then proceeded to send me all kinds of links to girls being abused, having their mouths pissed in, etc. Talked about how he does this to women in real life. He even wanted me to log in to his account and watch something... gave me his username and password.

Ugh... I feel sick.

Jesus god I'm sorry- Times like these are when you do consider the remote possibility that you may be talking to a legit serial killer or something. *hugs*

Karla_K
12-24-2017, 08:03 AM
So, I've been back camming for about a week and a half after 9 months and I thought this time i'll try token sites. I'm offering snapchat and a member tipped for my snapchat a few days ago. last night he mentions skype I said yeah i'll do skype for a certin token amount he said ok cool. then after that he tries to talk me up on snap and I said nicely i'm using snapchat for pics and vids not really to chat because it's to much plus I have another job I do during the week and I know he is gonna try to talk my ass off. Then after that he goes ghost. No skype nothing.

Oh and to note he left my chat room eariler that night because I wasn't giving him full attention. I was giving my best to the room trying to get used to teasing.

Bananabunny
12-24-2017, 08:15 PM
I feel like it has been a baaaad idea to cam on Christmas. A very bad one. Even if a cam friend of mine told me how lonely those men are around Xmas. Only one regular gave me something, the rest, like always 24/7, 7 days a week 265 days a year FREELOADED. Wow. Not even one single fucking gift, but they are rich on compliments :') Don't they fucking understand that their useless worthless compliments mean nothing to me when I don't get tipped on a day like this??????

Fucking hell!! Camming sucked to hell and back this year!! I'm gonna get a private cam website account, a onlyfans and then I FUCK OFF FROM THIS FREECHAT WEBSITE!!

bbwbrianna
12-24-2017, 09:43 PM
I swear the men on cam sites become even more worthless as time goes on. It wasn't this way last year. They spoiled me, gave me many tips and long privates. Tonight there were just worthless men who wanted to play twenty questions with me because they thought I was lonely like them or needed validation. Then there was the trolls who would tip me just to make fun of my weight. I only logged on to try to get a SM bonus but that's not happening so the hell with logging on tomorrow. My new years resolution is to ignore questions not related to private or tipping and fucking ban losers who beg right on the spot from now on. I'm not fucking around in 2018.

Cutie101
12-24-2017, 11:00 PM
I swear the men on cam sites become even more worthless as time goes on. It wasn't this way last year. They spoiled me, gave me many tips and long privates. Tonight there were just worthless men who wanted to play twenty questions with me because they thought I was lonely like them or needed validation. Then there was the trolls who would tip me just to make fun of my weight. I only logged on to try to get a SM bonus but that's not happening so the hell with logging on tomorrow. My new years resolution is to ignore questions not related to private or tipping and fucking ban losers who beg right on the spot from now on. I'm not fucking around in 2018.

I am related to what you say. I was thinking it will make it rain this year, but... not. Only idiots who only try to make you feel bad for logging on Xmas, like: "Oh, is so sad u need money so much that u work on Xmas day"... Wtf dude???
I swear men become more and more pigs. by each year. And they wonder why women start to be so bitter.

Ginnyyy
12-25-2017, 07:32 AM
I swear the men on cam sites become even more worthless as time goes on. It wasn't this way last year. They spoiled me, gave me many tips and long privates. Tonight there were just worthless men who wanted to play twenty questions with me because they thought I was lonely like them or needed validation. Then there was the trolls who would tip me just to make fun of my weight. I only logged on to try to get a SM bonus but that's not happening so the hell with logging on tomorrow. My new years resolution is to ignore questions not related to private or tipping and fucking ban losers who beg right on the spot from now on. I'm not fucking around in 2018.

Started one week ago to just answer to hi, hru and a thank you to their first compliment then total ignore unless they have a question related to private only. Weeding all the beggers this way and am not trying to convert them anymore. They would go private or not even if I don t hustle on them or I ignore. In the past, I would have answered the beggings with a sales pitch. No, they know their way to the exit or to the private show. But that s just me.

seashell
12-25-2017, 08:42 AM
I tried to cam today, but my allergies are insanely bad, and I had to stop. My voice is all gross, and I keep coughing. Meh. Being a performer sucks sometimes.

TheBrownFox
12-25-2017, 09:30 AM
Started one week ago to just answer to hi, hru and a thank you to their first compliment then total ignore unless they have a question related to private only. Weeding all the beggers this way and am not trying to convert them anymore. They would go private or not even if I don t hustle on them or I ignore. In the past, I would have answered the beggings with a sales pitch. No, they know their way to the exit or to the private show. But that s just me.


The "Do you watch cams, bb?" guys on MFC run out the room the minute I give them the different options (Tip X tokens in public chat, or take me private), because they think that just because the webcam icon is showing next to their name, I MUST click on it to watch them stroke. Lol. Nope...you can tip me for giving you that extra attention.

Scorpio Girl
12-25-2017, 05:00 PM
I swear the men on cam sites become even more worthless as time goes on. It wasn't this way last year. They spoiled me, gave me many tips and long privates. Tonight there were just worthless men who wanted to play twenty questions with me because they thought I was lonely like them or needed validation. Then there was the trolls who would tip me just to make fun of my weight. I only logged on to try to get a SM bonus but that's not happening so the hell with logging on tomorrow. My new years resolution is to ignore questions not related to private or tipping and fucking ban losers who beg right on the spot from now on. I'm not fucking around in 2018.

I know what you mean. Last Christmas Eve was awesome. This year, not so much. Hoping tonight will be better.

ravenskyy
12-25-2017, 05:04 PM
Camming sucks because it's the most inconsistent money I've ever had the displeasure of struggling to make. My dancing and escorting income was inconsistent, but only by a few hundred here or there. With camming, I can make over a grand in 1 week then practically nothing the next week. 4 more months to go before I can get back on the pole! Lol

anonymous camgirl
12-25-2017, 06:22 PM
I am related to what you say. I was thinking it will make it rain this year, but... not. Only idiots who only try to make you feel bad for logging on Xmas, like: "Oh, is so sad u need money so much that u work on Xmas day"... Wtf dude???
I swear men become more and more pigs. by each year. And they wonder why women start to be so bitter.

I asked them yesterday why a lot of men hate women... This cam customer told me to go watch the movie 8 MM with Nicholas Cage.. it's about a rich old dude who buys a snuff film for a million dollars.. Nic says towards the END but WHY? why did he kill that girl in that movie just to get off? And his lawyer said.. "Because he could" He liked it .. This is why men hate women, treat women like shit and spit in our face.. just for the simple fact that they CAN!

Needless to say I cried afterwards.. this is all the evil that men do to women.. Just because they can do it and get away with it. That's it.. no real reason.. just evil filth.

imelly21
12-26-2017, 12:16 PM
The millennials are getting older so they will be our main customer base.. Dont expect much from them.

anonymous camgirl
12-26-2017, 12:43 PM
The millennials are getting older so they will be our main customer base.. Dont expect much from them.

Seeing how I am 45.. they have been my customer base for a while.. spoiled entitled and cheap is right..... My favorite customer is a man my age who is alone and has a great job and money to spend.. a GFE.. someone to talk to and connect with online and have some intimate time with as well as good conversation about life... THE ONLY customer I like.

winnipeg
12-26-2017, 01:24 PM
Today has been rubbish, this job has made me really distrusting of men. So i doubt I will ever find a customer who i actually like!

magicgembliss
12-26-2017, 04:27 PM
I asked them yesterday why a lot of men hate women... This cam customer told me to go watch the movie 8 MM with Nicholas Cage.. it's about a rich old dude who buys a snuff film for a million dollars.. Nic says towards the END but WHY? why did he kill that girl in that movie just to get off? And his lawyer said.. "Because he could" He liked it .. This is why men hate women, treat women like shit and spit in our face.. just for the simple fact that they CAN!

Needless to say I cried afterwards.. this is all the evil that men do to women.. Just because they can do it and get away with it. That's it.. no real reason.. just evil filth.

We should all know that Evil- capital E- exists. Guys like in that film, psychopathic sadists, craving thrills, exist pretty rarely. Their brains lack dopamine and lack natural stimulation levels in the brain's behavioral activation system (in other words, literally "a screw is loose"). Don't forget, men also usually are the ones saving us from rapists, firey buildings etc, too. Now it's changing as more women do cool stuff...but just sayin.

magicgembliss
12-26-2017, 04:31 PM
Seeing how I am 45.. they have been my customer base for a while.. spoiled entitled and cheap is right..... My favorite customer is a man my age who is alone and has a great job and money to spend.. a GFE.. someone to talk to and connect with online and have some intimate time with as well as good conversation about life... THE ONLY customer I like.

Millennials aren't awful as a whole, but the ones who go to free cam sites to cheap out on their personalized porn sure are, generally speaking. However, it's mostly because they are young, still poor, and lack social skills from hanging out in mom's basement too long. We can hope they will gain wealth and maturity later as they mature and develop more experience and education.

I'm over 40 myself and gotta admit I'm not that into gen X men. Not into the gray hair and flab ;)

anonymous camgirl
12-26-2017, 04:37 PM
We should all know that Evil- capital E- exists. Guys like in that film, psychopathic sadists, craving thrills, exist pretty rarely. Their brains lack dopamine and lack natural stimulation levels in the brain's behavioral activation system (in other words, "a screw is loose"). Don't forget, men also usually are the ones saving us from rapists, firey buildings etc, too. Now it's changing as more women do cool stuff...but just sayin.

Ok but after what i have seen after 15 yrs of camming, porn , adult modeling, sugar daddies.. you are giving them way to much credit in this industry.. way to much.. the things I have seen should NEVER be seen by any woman.

anonymous camgirl
12-26-2017, 04:39 PM
Millennials aren't awful as a whole, but the ones who go to free cam sites to cheap out on their personalized porn sure are, generally speaking. However, it's mostly because they are young, still poor, and lack social skills from hanging out in mom's basement too long. We can hope they will gain wealth and maturity later as they mature and develop more experience and education.

I'm over 40 myself and gotta admit I'm not that into gen X men. Not into the gray hair and flab ;)

I am into money .. that's why I became a camgirl.. could care less if they have gray hair or flab or a fat belly..

janeuk
12-26-2017, 05:06 PM
We should all know that Evil- capital E- exists. Guys like in that film, psychopathic sadists, craving thrills, exist pretty rarely. Their brains lack dopamine and lack natural stimulation levels in the brain's behavioral activation system (in other words, "a screw is loose"). Don't forget, men also usually are the ones saving us from rapists, firey buildings etc, too. Now it's changing as more women do cool stuff...but just sayin.

wtf?? Have to say I haven't noticed any dudes EVER 'saving me'.

kind of shitty day on cam today - just s l o w, and dudes with such winning first lines as 'do anal?' :O and 'Pussy pierced?' ...with chat like that, can't figure whyyyy they aren't out on dates instead of paying to clutter up my chat room.

magicgembliss
12-26-2017, 05:23 PM
I am into money .. that's why I became a camgirl.. could care less if they have gray hair or flab or a fat belly..

Oh yeah, I was speaking in general terms, not customer terms. One group is a subset of the other.

magicgembliss
12-26-2017, 05:25 PM
wtf?? Have to say I haven't noticed any dudes EVER 'saving me'.

kind of shitty day on cam today - just s l o w, and dudes with such winning first lines as 'do anal?' :O and 'Pussy pierced?' ...with chat like that, can't figure whyyyy they aren't out on dates instead of paying to clutter up my chat room.

You never had a dad/male friend/brother chase away some creepy dude as a kid, or have the cops scare some stalker douchebag away? I'm not saying they're effective most of the time, but I'm just letting you know that it happens quite a lot. It has to me.

ravenskyy
12-26-2017, 10:16 PM
The millennials are getting older so they will be our main customer base.. Dont expect much from them.


Seeing how I am 45.. they have been my customer base for a while.. spoiled entitled and cheap is right..... My favorite customer is a man my age who is alone and has a great job and money to spend.. a GFE.. someone to talk to and connect with online and have some intimate time with as well as good conversation about life... THE ONLY customer I like.


Millennial here! Many of the rudest and cheapest men I have ever dealt with were twice my age. We are not spoiled, entitled and cheap. We are broke lmao it is also in my experience that the older men are the ones with the weird and most disgusting fetishes.

I'm not being bitchy when I say this, I'm just stating my opinion, but you can't really trash talk my generation, when your generation raised us.

I've had mixed experiences with guys of all ages, so I think men in general, are trash lmao

TheOutlier
12-27-2017, 07:11 AM
Millennial here! Many of the rudest and cheapest men I have ever dealt with were twice my age. We are not spoiled, entitled and cheap. We are broke lmao it is also in my experience that the older men are the ones with the weird and most disgusting fetishes.

I'm not being bitchy when I say this, I'm just stating my opinion, but you can't really trash talk my generation, when your generation raised us.

I've had mixed experiences with guys of all ages, so I think men in general, are trash lmao

Yea, the most aggravating thing about older customers is them thinking they can literally buy me in real life but not spend to talk to me. No, I really don't care if you're rich or have multiple houses if you aren't spending it on me on my terms on the site you found me on. Which I have less issues with younger customers getting the whole "this is fantasy, you pay to play and we're done" concept.

anonymous camgirl
12-27-2017, 07:45 AM
Millennial here! Many of the rudest and cheapest men I have ever dealt with were twice my age. We are not spoiled, entitled and cheap. We are broke lmao it is also in my experience that the older men are the ones with the weird and most disgusting fetishes.

I'm not being bitchy when I say this, I'm just stating my opinion, but you can't really trash talk my generation, when your generation raised us.

I've had mixed experiences with guys of all ages, so I think men in general, are trash lmao

Trash talking my customers... I NEED a good income at 45... I am supporting 2 college students.. so I don't need to talk to broke cheap millennials.. and I have way more expensive health care costs .. my vitamins and hair testing alone is over $300 a month.. Not interested in entertaining broke asses.

AuroraJade
12-27-2017, 08:55 AM
I like older men more as customers. They are generally nice to talk to, and because I am young myself (I am 23) they dont give me that 'I want to meet/date/fuck you' thingy. Younger guys are often awkward, weird and want to chat for long periods without paying and want to 'get to know me'

I sometimes hate my generation. We are portrayed as entitled and lazy and to an extent this may be true. The entitlement in this generation is very high, mainly due to our upbringing. A lot of people our age dont know how to hustle and work hard for what we want and blame external factors for our shit while in a lot of cases, the only factor is ourselves.

The entitlement is also what makes younger guys more rude. Internet culture has given us a platform to vent our opinions and get all of our desires instantly fulfilled: which also makes for a lot of toxic people and communities. These guys feel they have to be able to give their opinion whenever they like and get mad when they dont get what they want. Combine this with misogyny and you have your cam customer.

JaneBurgess
12-27-2017, 11:10 AM
Its not the age of the customer that matters at all. I do shows with college guys all the time that gladly pay and have always been nice. I do shows with older men that are sweet and never try to buy me. The mentality is what matters when it comes to customers and a freeloader can be any age

ravenskyy
12-27-2017, 11:45 AM
Trash talking my customers... I NEED a good income at 45... I am supporting 2 college students.. so I don't need to talk to broke cheap millennials.. and I have way more expensive health care costs .. my vitamins and hair testing alone is over $300 a month.. Not interested in entertaining broke asses.

I've got 2 kids and one on the way, so you're not the only parent here. At least your kids are old enough to work. Don't wanna talk to any "broke/cheap millennials", you don't have too. That's your prerogative hun, but having a negative attitude towards a generation isn't going to make you any money. Thanks to "broke/cheap millennials", I've made over 3 grand in the past few weeks. I seriously hope that it gets better for all of us, It's hard to get excited or comfortable when I have a good week, because next week could be the complete opposite.

I hope the new year brings us all lots of money.

anonymous camgirl
12-27-2017, 12:00 PM
Sorry , I do not argue with my gender about men... But you don't really quite understand what I am saying or have said... i'll just leave it at that... I do not turn on women... ,. that's what men want women to do.


I've got 2 kids and one on the way, so you're not the only parent here. At least your kids are old enough to work. Don't wanna talk to any "broke/cheap millennials", you don't have too. That's your prerogative hun, but having a negative attitude towards a generation isn't going to make you any money. Thanks to "broke/cheap millennials", I've made over 3 grand in the past few weeks. I seriously hope that it gets better for all of us, It's hard to get excited or comfortable when I have a good week, because next week could be the complete opposite.

I hope the new year brings us all lots of money.

hyori
12-27-2017, 12:46 PM
Millennial men are very interesting--in general, they tend to be broke as hell or rich as sin. When they're rich, they are super generous and they will spoil you. The rich ones also tend to love older women, are respectful and have nice fetishes that aren't to outlandish or difficult to perform. The rich ones are usually really happy because they have lucrative/successful careers. Love them!

magicgembliss
12-27-2017, 04:10 PM
Millennial men are very interesting--in general, they tend to be broke as hell or rich as sin. When they're rich, they are super generous and they will spoil you. The rich ones also tend to love older women, are respectful and have nice fetishes that aren't to outlandish or difficult to perform. The rich ones are usually really happy because they have lucrative/successful careers. Love them!

I agree! And more liberal too, so they're not all obsessed with, and fetishizing, your status as a camgirl. The older dudes I get definitely have more "issues" for lack of a better word with it... evidenced by asking a billion questions about it: when you got started, do you have a boyfriend, how does he feel about it, if you "get off on this"? And commenting on how "comfortable" and "open" you are with your job etc. Ick. (The "nonstop 20 questions while you're trying to put on a show for them" guys are the worst customers ever, in general.) Young dudes, pretty liberal and chill. Most of the guys kinda envious that you make a living working for yourself having orgasms, those are Millennials.

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
12-27-2017, 04:25 PM
I agree! And more liberal too, so they're not all obsessed with, and fetishizing, your status as a camgirl. The older dudes I get definitely have more "issues" for lack of a better word with it... evidenced by asking a billion questions about it: when you got started, do you have a boyfriend, how does he feel about it, if you "get off on this"? And commenting on how "comfortable" and "open" you are with your job etc. Ick. (The "nonstop 20 questions while you're trying to put on a show for them" guys are the worst customers ever, in general.) Young dudes, pretty liberal and chill. Most of the guys kinda envious that you make a living working for yourself having orgasms, those are Millennials.

I got customers both on cam and the phone that can fit into every one of these boxes that you guys created. I honestly can't say what age range is better? Some may spend money more consistently than others or rather they seem better at pacing themselves. IME younger men tend to get hooked easier and spend money like rapid fire in the beginning. Literally like taking candy from a baby. Multiple shows in one week before he runs out of money, whereas an older gentlemen may only spend money every two weeks and do so for years like clockwork. I even have older guys who will let me know when they're going on vacation and to not expect our regular sessions out of courtesy. And then there are the marathon guys who only show up when they like to "party", they tend to come in all age groups.

I know models have their preferences but isn't getting the money the name of the game? If someone wants to ask me 20 questions during a session then I would just sit down, let them ask away and take his money. At least they're not going FASTER HARDER DEEPER, NOW BB! I see this mostly from guys in their 20's. But they all spend no matter the age.

anonymous camgirl
12-27-2017, 06:26 PM
All of these things you have stated I hear from 25 yr old guys.. Just today a 24 yr old asked me the oddest questions.. Like why do you cam.. whats the weirdest fetish you have ever done.. how many kids do you have.. do you like mommy roleplay? are you just here for fun? etc etc.. Maybe you are not getting those questions from people your own age and vice versa.. because the young'uns are the ones who are asking all this of me.. Not the older guys...


I agree! And more liberal too, so they're not all obsessed with, and fetishizing, your status as a camgirl. The older dudes I get definitely have more "issues" for lack of a better word with it... evidenced by asking a billion questions about it: when you got started, do you have a boyfriend, how does he feel about it, if you "get off on this"? And commenting on how "comfortable" and "open" you are with your job etc. Ick. (The "nonstop 20 questions while you're trying to put on a show for them" guys are the worst customers ever, in general.) Young dudes, pretty liberal and chill. Most of the guys kinda envious that you make a living working for yourself having orgasms, those are Millennials.

Blovely
12-27-2017, 06:40 PM
I got customers both on cam and the phone that can fit into every one of these boxes that you guys created. I honestly can't say what age range is better? Some may spend money more consistently than others or rather they seem better at pacing themselves. IME younger men tend to get hooked easier and spend money like rapid fire in the beginning. Literally like taking candy from a baby. Multiple shows in one week before he runs out of money, whereas an older gentlemen may only spend money every two weeks and do so for years like clockwork. I even have older guys who will let me know when they're going on vacation and to not expect our regular sessions out of courtesy. And then there are the marathon guys who only show up when they like to "party", they tend to come in all age groups.

I know models have their preferences but isn't getting the money the name of the game? If someone wants to ask me 20 questions during a session then I would just sit down, let them ask away and take his money. At least they're not going FASTER HARDER DEEPER, NOW BB! I see this mostly from guys in their 20's. But they all spend no matter the age.

Word. As long as a dude is paying me I don't care what questions they ask, how many questions they ask or what age they're. All I care about is their $$$. Just hand over your $$$ old man, young man or middle age man.

magicgembliss
12-28-2017, 03:02 AM
Word. As long as a dude is paying me I don't care what questions they ask, how many questions they ask or what age they're. All I care about is their $$$. Just hand over your $$$ old man, young man or middle age man.

LOL It's not the actual specific questions, it's the quantity of them. The rapid-fire mile-a-minute interrogation that I can't keep up with- and then these are the same guys who hang up on you before cumming. It's like they're just randomly throwing stuff out there just to see what sticks. Can never figure out these guys.

Cutie101
12-28-2017, 03:19 AM
Camming sucks today but I stay the fuck on and maybe I end up posting in camming rocks. But right now, it fucking sucks.
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ravenskyy
12-29-2017, 10:56 AM
Sorry , I do not argue with my gender about men... But you don't really quite understand what I am saying or have said... i'll just leave it at that... I do not turn on women... ,. that's what men want women to do.

Lol I wasn't arguing with you. Just because someone doesn't agree with you, doesn't mean they are trying to argue with you. I'm not sure why you're making this about not "turning on women". It's not that serious hun. I get what you're saying, I just hate to see someone throw money away over some bad past experiences. If I did that, I would have quit this industry years ago when I first started dancing. All men suck, but don't let them get under your skin. That's what they want. That's how they win. We win by finding a way through the bs for our own personal gain. Block the losers and the cheap jerks, but remember that money can come from all sources. Stay strong and open minded so that you can get off this thread and onto the camming rocks thread!

anonymous camgirl
12-29-2017, 12:53 PM
You were personally offended , when I was speaking of millennial cam customers.. no where did I ever speak of millenials in general, furthermore I do not get offended when girls talk about cam customers who are my age.. I don't get why you would stick up for men? least of all cam customers. I am just hoping I can retire from camming in 2018 or at least part time.. I am not interested anymore .. it's been 15 yrs of pure hell...lol.. I am done.. I am just trying to get through it.


Lol I wasn't arguing with you. Just because someone doesn't agree with you, doesn't mean they are trying to argue with you. I'm not sure why you're making this about not "turning on women". It's not that serious hun. I get what you're saying, I just hate to see someone throw money away over some bad past experiences. If I did that, I would have quit this industry years ago when I first started dancing. All men suck, but don't let them get under your skin. That's what they want. That's how they win. We win by finding a way through the bs for our own personal gain. Block the losers and the cheap jerks, but remember that money can come from all sources. Stay strong and open minded so that you can get off this thread and onto the camming rocks thread!

ravenskyy
12-29-2017, 01:46 PM
You were personally offended , when I was speaking of millennial cam customers.. no where did I ever speak of millenials in general, furthermore I do not get offended when girls talk about cam customers who are my age.. I don't get why you would stick up for men? least of all cam customers. I am just hoping I can retire from camming in 2018 or at least part time.. I am not interested anymore .. it's been 15 yrs of pure hell...lol.. I am done.. I am just trying to get through it.

I was never personally offended, I was giving you the point of view from a millennial. You aren't one, plain and simple. I never took up for anyone, or have you not been reading where I've been saying that men in general suck? I've actually been trying to encourage you in my posts and you seem to just want to complain and stay unhappy. I will say though, not all men suck as much as cam customers do. If they did, I wouldn't be happily married right now. Anyway, I shall move onward to this money! Good luck! I hope you can quit this industry and find happiness soon.

magicgembliss
12-29-2017, 06:42 PM
I am just hoping I can retire from camming in 2018 or at least part time.. I am not interested anymore .. it's been 15 yrs of pure hell...lol.. I am done.. I am just trying to get through it.

Wow??!! You consider this job hell? I've got to say, I come from a corporate background and let me tell you, THAT was pure hell. This job rocks, even when I make only like $125 a day..it is still pretty fun!

magicgembliss
12-29-2017, 06:45 PM
I am compelled to add that "all men suck" would be a logical impossibility indicating that all 3.5 billion males on the planet "suck". Just like when people say "women are X" or "women do Y", it is an irrational statement.

anonymous camgirl
12-29-2017, 08:45 PM
Good for you, I also come from a corporate background. if you have done this for 15 yrs .. let me know how you feel after that.. how long you been doing camming? This was never my choice to begin with.. I was forced into camming against my will so to speak.. I didn't just choose this.. and I was forced to live a life I never wanted for almost 2 decades..


Wow??!! You consider this job hell? I've got to say, I come from a corporate background and let me tell you, THAT was pure hell. This job rocks, even when I make only like $125 a day..it is still pretty fun!

anonymous camgirl
12-29-2017, 08:52 PM
Well I have plenty insight into millenials as my son ( age 27) tells me on a daily basis the way his generation thinks.. he keeps me in check if I ever get out of line with this bubble I live in where men hate women so greatly.... you will see one day.. when I was your age whatever age you are .. I am guessing in your 20's .. I was happy, optimistic.. and had serious joy for life.. I am sorry I cannot describe to you how the next 20 yrs will go.. I had NO earthly idea I would grow to be this pessimistic, hateful cynical bitch who hasn't gotten laid in 6 yrs.. who was forced to raise 2 kids by herself that she never wanted for 17 yrs without any help.. I never wanted to be that woman who was raped , beaten and told was nothing and worthless and a no good bitch.. and taken for all her money and was homeless.. carless... you think I want to be this? you think I wanted this for my life.. hahaha.. I dunno who this person is.. this isn't my true self.. the only way I can redeem myself is the day I don't have to be here anymore.. and since you want to argue with me.. why is a woman who has 2 kids and one on the way having to live this wretched life? just curious.. I could never be pregnant to cam.. this is awful.. but I guess not so for a 20 something year old.. I didn't care much about anything when I was in my 20's .. From where I stand.. I can't believe men make their women do this for a living.. so I am not sure where you are coming from.. if I had a man.. I would never put up with this abuse.


I was never personally offended, I was giving you the point of view from a millennial. You aren't one, plain and simple. I never took up for anyone, or have you not been reading where I've been saying that men in general suck? I've actually been trying to encourage you in my posts and you seem to just want to complain and stay unhappy. I will say though, not all men suck as much as cam customers do. If they did, I wouldn't be happily married right now. Anyway, I shall move onward to this money! Good luck! I hope you can quit this industry and find happiness soon.

magicgembliss
12-29-2017, 09:13 PM
Good for you, I also come from a corporate background. if you have done this for 15 yrs .. let me know how you feel after that.. how long you been doing camming? This was never my choice to begin with.. I was forced into camming against my will so to speak.. I didn't just choose this.. and I was forced to live a life I never wanted for almost 2 decades..

Well that explains it then. In that case I am incredibly, incredibly sorry, disgusted, angry and feel for you. I really hope you find the peace you deserve.

magicgembliss
12-29-2017, 09:22 PM
Well I have plenty insight into millenials as my son ( age 27) tells me on a daily basis the way his generation thinks.. he keeps me in check if I ever get out of line with this bubble I live in where men hate women so greatly.... you will see one day.. when I was your age whatever age you are .. I am guessing in your 20's .. I was happy, optimistic.. and had serious joy for life.. I am sorry I cannot describe to you how the next 20 yrs will go.. I had NO earthly idea I would grow to be this pessimistic, hateful cynical bitch who hasn't gotten laid in 6 yrs.. who was forced to raise 2 kids by herself that she never wanted for 17 yrs without any help.. I never wanted to be that woman who was raped , beaten and told was nothing and worthless and a no good bitch.. and taken for all her money and was homeless.. carless... you think I want to be this? you think I wanted this for my life.. hahaha.. I dunno who this person is.. this isn't my true self.. the only way I can redeem myself is the day I don't have to be here anymore.. and since you want to argue with me.. why is a woman who has 2 kids and one on the way having to live this wretched life? just curious.. I could never be pregnant to cam.. this is awful.. but I guess not so for a 20 something year old.. I didn't care much about anything when I was in my 20's .. From where I stand.. I can't believe men make their women do this for a living.. so I am not sure where you are coming from.. if I had a man.. I would never put up with this abuse.

I'm not sure what you mean about getting out of the bubble you live in...I'm sorry you're been abandoned to raise two kids on your own. You say that you "didn't care much about anything" when you were in your 20s? Meaning you were carefree and happy, and some tragic events took place? I suppose I have been lucky then, loved by people in my world...I'm actually 41 btw..I don't think most men hate women so greatly, and I'm very sorry you think so. That is a tragic and horrific place to live in. I think a lot of men and women have issues with the other gender especially, but not hate them. Most of us know we need each other.

I also don't know why you think "men make their women do this for a living", when there are laws in many states against trafficking to prevent exactly that...and many men won't even date a camgirl/stripper/escort. Certainly it is not completely accepted by men; it is even illegal in some places. Then you can always leave that man. I hope you seek help for the pain and trauma you experienced. You have more power than you realize, I promise.

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
12-29-2017, 09:40 PM
You ladies are having a wonderfully insightful exchange and before it escalates or turns into something ugly I just wanted to step in and remind you all to please be good to one another. No one here is the enemy and I believe that most intentions are pure and shared in the attempt to motivate and possibly inspire the next person. So please keep that in mind when interacting with one another.

Genoveve
12-29-2017, 10:41 PM
I don't get why you would stick up for men? least of all cam customers.

Wow. Maybe because we don't believe in demonizing an entire group of people? Girls freak the fuck out when they see misogynistic men talking about how all women suck---but I see so many women turning around and doing the exact same thing to men. If anything camming has 1.) made me understand men better and 2.) LIKE men more because their patronage has provided me with a very comfortable lifestyle for a long time, plus I have had tons of really great customers over the years. I can only count on like one hand the amount of guys I remember spending money on me who were purposely assholes, the overwhelming majority of guys who spend money on me treat me with the utmost respect. It honestly makes me sad when I see how many chicks consider the guys who purchase our services to be nothing but losers and assholes because 1.) that is SO not an accurate summarization of my customer base and 2.) because I think that having that kind of view of your customer base is not only creating a psychologically unhealthy work situation for oneself but also is ultimately not conducive to money-making. If a car salesman hates and resents every potential customer that walks onto the lot, do you think he's ever going to become a top salesman? If someone opens a yoga studio and they secretly think that anyone who does yoga is a stupid yuppie and they hate everyone who books classes, do you think that their business is going to flourish? No. So does it seem likely that a chick who despises the male species and is completely disgusted by male sexuality would flourish as a camgirl? From what I have seen(and experienced myself) it definitely seems pretty unlikely.

When I see women like you who hate men and who say that they have had nothing but awful experiences with them---I 100% believe them. That kind of hostility doesn't come from nowhere, I don't doubt that you have had nothing but shitty men in your life. And likewise when I see misogynistic men who think that all women are evil because they've had nothing but awful experiences with them I believe them as well, I don't doubt for a second that they've had nothing but awful experiences with women because again that hostility doesn't come from nowhere. And just like how my wish for those misogynistic men is that they can somehow learn to not write off the entire female species and can learn to look beyond their painful past and present experiences with females, it's my same wish for man-hating females.

Also I'd like to add that when I said "the overwhelming majority of guys who spend money on me treat me with the utmost respect" above, I am emphasizing the spending of money part because like everyone else when I'm in freechat I get tons of rude trolls, this however has not left a bad taste in my mouth in regards to men because I recognize that internet trolling is not a male phenomenon---we're just mainly exposed to male ones because of the nature of our platform. If you hang out on social media you will see that there's just as many female trolls out there trolling various platforms.

anonymous camgirl
12-29-2017, 10:54 PM
I am astonished you have such high respect for your cam customers.. most abuse me.. and that's about 98% who go to private.. no respect, no manners.. and name calling to boot.. so good for you.. I am sorry I cannot feel as you do as i have been highly abused.. i didn't ever do anything to deserve it.. it just happened... i never had good customers.. only men who have a sadistic disdain for women.. Very rare day i had a great guy.. just today i thought i happened on a great guy.. turns out he had his soul mate , she died and he tried to buy me for $300 gross on SM.. where i collected $105... he said we are the same, he loves me and i will see what he is talking about.. i flipped out on him naturally... you can't buy me for a $100 .... i am not going to be some man's slave because he is lonely!.... apparently we are not having the same experiences.. i never gave this man any reason to speak to me this way.. just polite pleasantries i give to anyone that comes to my room.. good for you.. hope you can stand them long enough.. i think when i became a hostile camgirl is when 4chan start trolling me for 4 yrs. .. to the point that i had swat team at my house.. had to change my phone number.. thought about moving but i own my home.. became paranoid.. etc etc.. i never looked at men the same since..i became a different kinda cam girl who watched her back.. once they have your social security number , address and phone number and real name.. you become a different person.. .. you apparently cannot understand the true depths of the hell you are diving into.. they bothered me because i got upset that a sm customer rated me 1 star.. and i lived 4 yrs of hell for that...


Wow. Maybe because we don't believe in demonizing an entire group of people? Girls freak the fuck out when they see misogynistic men talking about how all women suck---but I see so many women turning around and doing the exact same thing to men. If anything camming has 1.) made me understand men better and 2.) LIKE men more because their patronage has provided me with a very comfortable lifestyle for a long time, plus I have had tons of really great customers over the years. I can only count on like one hand the amount of guys I remember spending money on me who were purposely assholes, the overwhelming majority of guys who spend money on me treat me with the utmost respect. It honestly makes me sad when I see how many chicks consider the guys who purchase our services to be nothing but losers and assholes because 1.) that is SO not an accurate summarization of my customer base and 2.) because I think that having that kind of view of your customer base is not only creating a psychologically unhealthy work situation for oneself but also is ultimately not conducive to money-making. If a car salesman hates and resents every potential customer that walks onto the lot, do you think he's ever going to become a top salesman? If someone opens a yoga studio and they secretly think that anyone who does yoga is a stupid yuppie and they hate everyone who books classes, do you think that their business is going to flourish? No. So does it seem likely that a chick who despises the male species and is completely disgusted by male sexuality would flourish as a camgirl? From what I have seen(and experienced myself) it definitely seems pretty unlikely.

When I see women like you who hate men and who say that they have had nothing but awful experiences with them---I 100% believe them. That kind of hostility doesn't come from nowhere, I don't doubt that you have had nothing but shitty men in your life. And likewise when I see misogynistic men who think that all women are evil because they've had nothing but awful experiences with them I believe them as well, I don't doubt for a second that they've had nothing but awful experiences with women because again that hostility doesn't come from nowhere. And just like how my wish for those misogynistic men is that they can somehow learn to not write off the entire female species and can learn to look beyond their painful past and present experiences with females, it's my same wish for man-hating females.

Also I'd like to add that when I said "the overwhelming majority of guys who spend money on me treat me with the utmost respect" above, I am emphasizing the spending of money part because like everyone else when I'm in freechat I get tons of rude trolls, this however has not left a bad taste in my mouth in regards to men because I recognize that internet trolling is not a male phenomenon---we're just mainly exposed to male ones because of the nature of our platform. If you hang out on social media you will see that there's just as many female trolls out there trolling various platforms.