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Glamourmilf
05-06-2018, 09:00 AM
Against my own inner guidance, I went ahead and did a birthday raffle.
The drawing was yesterday, on my birthday.
Even though the raffle went on for an entire week, I didn't have that many participants. I was giving away some awesome prizes too.
:-\
None of my regulars bought a ticket. Nobody bought me a gift card. Nobody even said " Happy Birthday">:(
Maybe if I had a Cinco de Mayo raffle instead, since my birthday falls on the same day.
I don't know.
Birthdays suck for me now, ever since my daddy passed away on my birthday 11 years ago.
I thought the raffle would take my mind off it.
I'm never, never,( did I say never) EVER acknowledging my birthday ever again!
I was a total wreck yesterday. Even friends said I shouldn't still be grieving after 11 years.
It was a rough week all the way around, because it was my mom's birthday on Monday. It was my first one without her.
I guess I should just take my rightful place in this world= a robotic cum dumpster without human feelings.
someoldnoob
05-06-2018, 11:48 AM
^^^ glamour I'm sorry that happened!! I've totally done that too and I felt like fucking shit after... I don't even enjoy celebrating my birthday for similar reasons.
today kind of sucks right now because i'm trying to put in more hours on SM and instead of putting in the time on my alt site where I actually make something per hour, I'm kind of stuck just collecting minutes on here. This last contest really sucked life out of me, but I'm trying to hang in there. thank god for phrendly
Blovely
05-06-2018, 05:20 PM
Against my own inner guidance, I went ahead and did a birthday raffle.
The drawing was yesterday, on my birthday.
Even though the raffle went on for an entire week, I didn't have that many participants. I was giving away some awesome prizes too.
:-\
None of my regulars bought a ticket. Nobody bought me a gift card. Nobody even said " Happy Birthday">:(
Maybe if I had a Cinco de Mayo raffle instead, since my birthday falls on the same day.
I don't know.
Birthdays suck for me now, ever since my daddy passed away on my birthday 11 years ago.
I thought the raffle would take my mind off it.
I'm never, never,( did I say never) EVER acknowledging my birthday ever again!
I was a total wreck yesterday. Even friends said I shouldn't still be grieving after 11 years.
It was a rough week all the way around, because it was my mom's birthday on Monday. It was my first one without her.
I guess I should just take my rightful place in this world= a robotic cum dumpster without human feelings.
You are always going to remember and miss the people/beings (animals) that are no longer here. Its silly, unrealistic and kind of dickish/unsympathetic imo for your friends to think that there should be a time frame on that. I imagine everyone gets emotional when it comes to memories of passed loved ones especially on significant days (no matter the time frame). I honestly think I would feel some type of way if I no longer missed, thought about, or got a little emotion over someone who passed that I loved dearly.
Glamourmilf
05-07-2018, 07:06 AM
You are always going to remember and miss the people/beings (animals) that are no longer here. Its silly, unrealistic and kind of dickish/unsympathetic imo for your friends to think that there should be a time frame on that. I imagine everyone gets emotional when it comes to memories of passed loved ones especially on significant days (no matter the time frame). I honestly think I would feel some type of way if I no longer missed, thought about, or got a little emotion over someone who passed that I loved dearly.
Thank You for understanding.
The thing that makes it the worst for me is that his death falls on my birthday( that's how close my dad and I were), and WILL everyday for the rest of my life.
I don't know anyone who is experiencing that double whammy.
For that very reason, I'm starting one on one grief counseling Wednesday.
Mother's Day is next weekend, and I feel like I could very well go over the edge if I don't get help.
DonaDiabla
05-07-2018, 07:13 AM
Wow, I am sorry that happen to you girl. I also hope you get some more regulars because that was awful for them to not remember your birthday. Geez, your friends should be more supportive.
Against my own inner guidance, I went ahead and did a birthday raffle.
The drawing was yesterday, on my birthday.
Even though the raffle went on for an entire week, I didn't have that many participants. I was giving away some awesome prizes too.
:-\
None of my regulars bought a ticket. Nobody bought me a gift card. Nobody even said " Happy Birthday">:(
Maybe if I had a Cinco de Mayo raffle instead, since my birthday falls on the same day.
I don't know.
Birthdays suck for me now, ever since my daddy passed away on my birthday 11 years ago.
I thought the raffle would take my mind off it.
I'm never, never,( did I say never) EVER acknowledging my birthday ever again!
I was a total wreck yesterday. Even friends said I shouldn't still be grieving after 11 years.
It was a rough week all the way around, because it was my mom's birthday on Monday. It was my first one without her.
I guess I should just take my rightful place in this world= a robotic cum dumpster without human feelings.
anonymous camgirl
05-07-2018, 01:27 PM
This hurts my heart Glam, as you strike to close to home.. calling yourself a robotic cum dumpster.. we shouldn't ever feel that way.. I know, life is so ridiculously hard and no one ever seems to love us.. and we are just here to please men.. I feel the same a lot of times... you are loved!.. at least by me!.. xoxoxoxo
Against my own inner guidance, I went ahead and did a birthday raffle.
The drawing was yesterday, on my birthday.
Even though the raffle went on for an entire week, I didn't have that many participants. I was giving away some awesome prizes too.
:-\
None of my regulars bought a ticket. Nobody bought me a gift card. Nobody even said " Happy Birthday">:(
Maybe if I had a Cinco de Mayo raffle instead, since my birthday falls on the same day.
I don't know.
Birthdays suck for me now, ever since my daddy passed away on my birthday 11 years ago.
I thought the raffle would take my mind off it.
I'm never, never,( did I say never) EVER acknowledging my birthday ever again!
I was a total wreck yesterday. Even friends said I shouldn't still be grieving after 11 years.
It was a rough week all the way around, because it was my mom's birthday on Monday. It was my first one without her.
I guess I should just take my rightful place in this world= a robotic cum dumpster without human feelings.
anonymous camgirl
05-08-2018, 11:11 AM
Can't I just have one good day ever? I have been in a cam depression for 18 months now.. longest I ever experience in my almost 16 yrs of cam.. .. it's seriously almost unbearable anymore to me.
magicgembliss
05-08-2018, 02:48 PM
Against my own inner guidance, I went ahead and did a birthday raffle.<br>
The drawing was yesterday, on my birthday.<br>
Even though the raffle went on for an entire week, I didn't have that many participants. I was giving away some awesome prizes too.<br>
<img src="http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/images/smilies/undecided.gif" border="0" alt="" title="Undecided" smilieid="198" class="inlineimg"><br>
None of my regulars bought a ticket. Nobody bought me a gift card. Nobody even said " Happy Birthday"<img src="http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/images/smilies/angry.gif" border="0" alt="" title="Angry" smilieid="194" class="inlineimg"><br>
Maybe if I had a Cinco de Mayo raffle instead, since my birthday falls on the same day.<br>
I don't know.<br>
Birthdays suck for me now, ever since my daddy passed away on my birthday 11 years ago.<br>
I thought the raffle would take my mind off it.<br>
I'm never, never,( did I say never) EVER acknowledging my birthday ever again!<br>
I was a total wreck yesterday. Even friends said I shouldn't still be grieving after 11 years.<br>
It was a rough week all the way around, because it was my mom's birthday on Monday. It was my first one without her.<br>
I guess I should just take my rightful place in this world= a robotic cum dumpster without human feelings.
*hugs*
I can't believe what epic douchebags I've dealt with camming the last couple days. It's like they all came out of the woodwork at the same time especially on NiteFlirt just to bother me this week with their emotional drama. My rating is too high for this, I deserve better.
Btw, does anyone also get that pie-smashing guy on MFC? He wants you to find someone else (which is against rules) to smash a cream pie into your face for like 1000 tokens. He drops by my room on MFC at least once a month. He seems to be getting desperate now, he's pleading that whipped cream on a paper plate is okay too. I told him I had Cool Whip in my freezer just to mess with him.
naomi_doll
05-08-2018, 02:52 PM
*hugs*
I can't believe what epic douchebags I've dealt with camming the last couple days. It's like they all came out of the woodwork at the same time especially on NiteFlirt just to bother me this week with their emotional drama. My rating is too high for this, I deserve better.
Btw, does anyone also get that pie-smashing guy on MFC? He wants you to find someone else (which is against rules) to smash a cream pie into your face for like 1000 tokens. He drops by my room on MFC at least once a month. He seems to be getting desperate now, he's pleading that whipped cream on a paper plate is okay too. I told him I had Cool Whip in my freezer just to mess with him.
That dude used to be on cams.com!! lol
magicgembliss
05-08-2018, 02:57 PM
You are always going to remember and miss the people/beings (animals) that are no longer here. Its silly, unrealistic and kind of dickish/unsympathetic imo for your friends to think that there should be a time frame on that. I imagine everyone gets emotional when it comes to memories of passed loved ones especially on significant days (no matter the time frame). I honestly think I would feel some type of way if I no longer missed, thought about, or got a little emotion over someone who passed that I loved dearly.
Yeah I second that. Decent friends would be more understanding, my advice is to 1. dump the toxic friends and 2. maybe keep anything personal or "close to the heart" off the sites, separate from this job. It just makes sense.
magicgembliss
05-08-2018, 02:58 PM
That dude used to be on cams.com!! lol
OMG no!!! Is this a real fetish then? Shit I was convinced he was just a troll, I never even considered it was serious.
DahliaSimone
05-08-2018, 03:18 PM
Yesterday I doubled my daily goal....today tho? $20 in 5 hours lol. Tuesdays generally suck, but....$20? Pretty much nulls and voids my good day yesterday....*sigh*.
magicgembliss
05-08-2018, 04:09 PM
...dude on SM who talked me up for like 10 minutes, asked if I was ready for playtime and promptly....left (if I see that fuckwad again, he's getting an immediate ban)
haha! This is like 50% of the people on MFC who want to do a show with me. Disappear right as I ask them to pay. Never figure out if they're doing this as some loser-power trip or lose their nerve when it comes down to spending, I usually chalk it up to the latter.
Never take this job personally, there is no way to ever know certainly what a person's motivation really is.
magicgembliss
05-08-2018, 04:40 PM
can someone tell me what the hell is going on with these sites I'm so irritated I could scream at the top of my lungs at these cheap bastards 5 sites and its deaddddddddddddddddddddddd as fucking graveyard past few day I been loosing my mind with this and get very frustrated and cry everytime and give up because it so deaddddddd to even keep trying I'm going crazy I wish I could go back to school but I just don't have time or money for it so I feel like I'm stuck with this I have no freedom no friend because I'm stuck to this fucking screen everyday all day deal with these stupid guys I cant even stand I keep wanting a better life but don't know if it will ever happen I'm so depressed and sick of it all
for any kind of self-employment job, it's important to expect and prepare ahead so that on the slow days you can just vacay, work on marketing, etc. There are always going to be slow/dead days that will bring down your income average, just use them as your vacation or mental health days. Catch up on netflix and don't stress, knowing it will come back soon.
magicgembliss
05-08-2018, 05:13 PM
^^^ glamour I'm sorry that happened!! I've totally done that too and I felt like fucking shit after... I don't even enjoy celebrating my birthday for similar reasons.
today kind of sucks right now because i'm trying to put in more hours on SM and instead of putting in the time on my alt site where I actually make something per hour, I'm kind of stuck just collecting minutes on here. This last contest really sucked life out of me, but I'm trying to hang in there. thank god for phrendly
phrendly?
magicgembliss
05-08-2018, 05:14 PM
Thank You for understanding.
The thing that makes it the worst for me is that his death falls on my birthday( that's how close my dad and I were), and WILL everyday for the rest of my life.
I don't know anyone who is experiencing that double whammy.
For that very reason, I'm starting one on one grief counseling Wednesday.
Mother's Day is next weekend, and I feel like I could very well go over the edge if I don't get help.
I'm here if you want to chat. You can PM me here or I'll give you my email or Skype. I volunteered on a suicide hotline once like 20 years ago hehe, I'm sure I'm qualified to help ;)
Susperia
05-08-2018, 07:11 PM
I'm sorry Glamourmilf...my heart goes out to you.
Paradoxx
05-08-2018, 07:48 PM
Against my own inner guidance, I went ahead and did a birthday raffle.
The drawing was yesterday, on my birthday.
Even though the raffle went on for an entire week, I didn't have that many participants. I was giving away some awesome prizes too.
:-\
None of my regulars bought a ticket. Nobody bought me a gift card. Nobody even said " Happy Birthday">:(
Maybe if I had a Cinco de Mayo raffle instead, since my birthday falls on the same day.
I don't know.
Birthdays suck for me now, ever since my daddy passed away on my birthday 11 years ago.
I thought the raffle would take my mind off it.
I'm never, never,( did I say never) EVER acknowledging my birthday ever again!
I was a total wreck yesterday. Even friends said I shouldn't still be grieving after 11 years.
It was a rough week all the way around, because it was my mom's birthday on Monday. It was my first one without her.
I guess I should just take my rightful place in this world= a robotic cum dumpster without human feelings.
I'm SO sorry you went through this. :(
If it's any consolation at all, today's my birthday too and my regs were a big, fat let-down as well. One even did the lovely honor of blocking me after I refused a realtime meetup lmao... I also recently lost my mother this year and this is my very first birthday without her too, she was my best friend in the whole world so I can 100% relate to your grief as well. You're so right about Mother's Day... it's going to suck. But I'm not at all trying to derail from your pain or make it all about me, I just want you to know that you have some solidarity.
So with that, please know that you are not alone and I sincerely hope knowing that helps you because I can't even explain how moved I was to see that I wasn't the only woman going through this. I'm very new to camming and femdom and what not, so I often feel like I don't have much of a place in this scene or that if anything I feel like I'm a bit of a burden since I don't have much advice or insight to offer, but nonetheless, my inbox is always open to you if you need a shoulder to cry on or at the very least, someone who can empathize.
I truly, from the bottom of my heart, hope you feel better and wish you a very happy, belated birthday. <3
Glamourmilf
05-09-2018, 07:03 AM
So Sweet and kind of all of you that responded to my post.
Thank You from the bottom of my heart. Really.
I was in the middle of camming yesterday, when I had a knock at my door. I have a do not disturb sign, so..:O
I peeked out and the mailman had delivered a big package.
It was a birthday gift from my oldest and dearest friend.
A very, very wealthy and generous friend.
I was going to shut off my stream, and privately open it.
Then I thought, screw that. I want all these cheap fucks to see this.
Inside was this huge, velvet lined gold leaf box.
Inside of that was a pink diamond bracelet, a Judith Leiber purse, a gorgeous swavaski rose necklace, and a gold belt with the word SEX written in crystal bling ( she knows I cam).
My viewers just sat in silence, and as I was shaming them, I took out my phone and called my friend to thank her.
I told her that we were live on cam, and how none of those shmucks would even acknowledge my birthday.
She said that she was surprised that cam customers behaved that way.
Ha! Believe it.
I'm so grateful for her.
I'm looking forward to my counseling session today too.
Let the Healing begin.
anonymous camgirl
05-09-2018, 08:13 AM
That's so wonderful you have a great friend like that!... You sound like me, shaming these dickheads for being unappreciative and cheap!..
So Sweet and kind of all of you that responded to my post.
Thank You from the bottom of my heart. Really.
I was in the middle of camming yesterday, when I had a knock at my door. I have a do not disturb sign, so..:O
I peeked out and the mailman had delivered a big package.
It was a birthday gift from my oldest and dearest friend.
A very, very wealthy and generous friend.
I was going to shut off my stream, and privately open it.
Then I thought, screw that. I want all these cheap fucks to see this.
Inside was this huge, velvet lined gold leaf box.
Inside of that was a pink diamond bracelet, a Judith Leiber purse, a gorgeous swavaski rose necklace, and a gold belt with the word SEX written in crystal bling ( she knows I cam).
My viewers just sat in silence, and as I was shaming them, I took out my phone and called my friend to thank her.
I told her that we were live on cam, and how none of those shmucks would even acknowledge my birthday.
She said that she was surprised that cam customers behaved that way.
Ha! Believe it.
I'm so grateful for her.
I'm looking forward to my counseling session today too.
Let the Healing begin.
xStellaBlue
05-09-2018, 08:32 AM
After two killer weeks where I easily exceeded my goals, Monday and Tuesday I made a whopping... $0.00! I hope it picks back up today and the rest of the week and this ISN'T the summer cam-pocalypse.
magicgembliss
05-09-2018, 08:56 AM
I was going to shut off my stream, and privately open it.
Then I thought, screw that. I want all these cheap fucks to see this.
Inside was this huge, velvet lined gold leaf box.
Inside of that was a pink diamond bracelet, a Judith Leiber purse, a gorgeous swavaski rose necklace, and a gold belt with the word SEX written in crystal bling ( she knows I cam).
This is what I'm talking about. I swear, the next dude who tries to steal too much time from me today "before he calls" (*facepalm*) is getting the boot. I'm so done with these scammers and cheapos that are everywhere. Let them run to other camgirls (there are plenty) while we help inspire more and more camgirls to respect their profession and recognize the red flags immediately.. and they will just get booted from room to room until he recognizes no more camgirls exist who will put up with his broke-ass nonsense. Pay up or free porn is all you are going to be left with, suckers!! :D :D :D
foxirox
05-09-2018, 01:20 PM
I don't know what I'm doing wrong atm. Every single caller I've got in the past 2 days have stayed on the phone for a maximum of 1-2 mins and then just hang up. Think I'm going to go all in and just do cam and make a ton of Audio files and market them. I don't know what these fuckers want anymore.
magicgembliss
05-09-2018, 01:28 PM
I don't know what I'm doing wrong atm. Every single caller I've got in the past 2 days have stayed on the phone for a maximum of 1-2 mins and then just hang up. Think I'm going to go all in and just do cam and make a ton of Audio files and market them. I don't know what these fuckers want anymore.
^^OMG it's not just me then!!?? *hugs*
foxirox
05-09-2018, 02:10 PM
^^OMG it's not just me then!!?? *hugs*
I thought it was just me! haha. *HUGS BACK AT YOU GIRLIE*
magicgembliss
05-09-2018, 02:30 PM
I thought it was just me! haha. *HUGS BACK AT YOU GIRLIE*
LOL !!! Thanks!!!
DahliaSimone
05-10-2018, 12:53 PM
3 hours on= $5. Not a happy cam-ho right now
BadBitch
05-10-2018, 01:57 PM
That dude used to be on cams.com!! lol
I had a guy like this on SM. He asked me to put shaving cream onto a plate and smash it in my face. He paid good money for it. LOL!
BadBitch
05-10-2018, 01:59 PM
This has been ALL day.
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JaneBurgess
05-10-2018, 02:38 PM
WTF is going on with today? There is a ton of traffic but no one talks or pays. They just stare and when they do talk, beg
BiancaNorwood
05-10-2018, 02:40 PM
WTF is going on with today? There is a ton of traffic but no one talks or pays. They just stare and when they do talk, beg
Yup. I was on all afternoon. Did a long block then it was dismal after. I logged out a bit ago, washed my face and put on sweats. Niteflirt has been good today though - so, there's that. I'll just lay here with my phone on. Hahaha!
JaneBurgess
05-10-2018, 02:47 PM
Niteflirt is usually good no matter what, same with texting sites. I need to only do cam sites at night and not daytime since its always slow for me then. I always hope days will be good but they arent
BiancaNorwood
05-10-2018, 03:41 PM
Niteflirt is usually good no matter what, same with texting sites. I need to only do cam sites at night and not daytime since its always slow for me then. I always hope days will be good but they arent
Ah, ok. I'm new to NF. Digging it so far!
LoraDoll
05-11-2018, 05:27 AM
WTF is going on with today? There is a ton of traffic but no one talks or pays. They just stare and when they do talk, beg
Actually I have the same experience, it s like that for me too, like... 3-4 days ago? I had a very good week anyway, and now this again. It s so bad it makes me feel bad about myself even if i know it s not my fault. I still have hours to complete in this period, but really, I dont wanna face this shit once again.
Glamourmilf
05-11-2018, 07:34 AM
Niteflirt is usually good no matter what, same with texting sites. I need to only do cam sites at night and not daytime since its always slow for me then. I always hope days will be good but they arent
Same for me. 7 1/2 years, and cam still sucks when I get on in the daytime.
Not sure why.
I have lots of repeat customers who are always in my chat room. But none buy until the sun goes down.
Hmm.:thinking:
DahliaSimone
05-11-2018, 11:48 AM
I had one of my best days ever Monday...but the rest of the week has been so fucking bad ($10 ALL DAY yesterday) that it just completely obliterated my one good day, since now im well past far behind on my usual weekly goal. Monday tricked me into thinking it was gonna be a good week and, im not gonna lie, that shit kinda hurts. Nothing in 2 hours so far today either, and I can almost always count on Fridays....wtf is going on this week, ladies????
Valentyna
05-11-2018, 12:06 PM
The same here.I can say,its the worst week since my camming career.im going to put my hopes into the weekend.
magicgembliss
05-11-2018, 01:18 PM
This has been ALL day.
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LOL Me too. It's a bunch on then off. They only say hi if they stay over ten seconds and you say hi. If I still had a shame and embarassment bone left in my body, I'd feel it was some rejection.
Good thing about Streamate though, the time you put in at least pays off in higher placement.
BadBitch
05-11-2018, 02:43 PM
LOL Me too. It's a bunch on then If I still had a shame and embarassment bone left in my body, I'd feel it was some rejection.
Good thing about Streamate though, the time you put in at least pays off in higher placement.
I used to think it was a rejection. I don't anymore. They could be popping in looking for free titties. They could be leaving cause they can't see our stream. They could just be checking prices. Whatever. I'm done thinking that it's me.
As for placement, it goes by earnings - not time online. I had mentioned this before. I am full time on SM. My placement used to be bottom of the page. I scored myself a whale in the fall and I've been at the top, sometimes even first. I stopped logging in as much because my whale got me to my weekly goal on Tuesdays. This is proof that placement used to be based on earnings. However, SM has been tinkering with placement now - remember the email that went out saying that they were moving us around based on guy's likes? So, now, I'm mid page.
magicgembliss
05-11-2018, 04:07 PM
I had a guy like this on SM. He asked me to put shaving cream onto a plate and smash it in my face. He paid good money for it. LOL!
Yeah I didn't realize he was serious..but this last time I responded positively and he pulled the typical "bait and disappear" act they always do on MFC LOL. I guess he's fishing a lot and he liked another fish more :(
JaneBurgess
05-11-2018, 04:48 PM
Same for me. 7 1/2 years, and cam still sucks when I get on in the daytime.
Not sure why.
I have lots of repeat customers who are always in my chat room. But none buy until the sun goes down.
Hmm.:thinking:
I have no idea why days suck for me, but it is what it is. I like the fetish guys that come out at night, they are fun and pay
magicgembliss
05-11-2018, 05:23 PM
I used to think it was a rejection. I don't anymore. They could be popping in looking for free titties. They could be leaving cause they can't see our stream. They could just be checking prices...
Good points.
As for placement, it goes by earnings - not time online. I had mentioned this before. I am full time on SM. My placement used to be bottom of the page. I scored myself a whale in the fall and I've been at the top, sometimes even first. I stopped logging in as much because my whale got me to my weekly goal on Tuesdays. This is proof that placement used to be based on earnings. However, SM has been tinkering with placement now - remember the email that went out saying that they were moving us around based on guy's likes? So, now, I'm mid page.
On Streamate? Oh gosh I had no idea, learning this now! Dont think I ever got that email, yikes!
Glamourmilf
05-12-2018, 08:16 AM
I have no idea why days suck for me, but it is what it is. I like the fetish guys that come out at night, they are fun and pay
Same here Jane. I specialize in fetish, so when I'm on at night, they all come out of the woodwork. They buy longer shows too.
It's just that I like to do this weird thing called sleep.:sleep: lol
Camming late at night interferes with that.
So be it.
SylvySinclair
05-12-2018, 05:15 PM
Days dont suck for me, afternoons do. I mean, mornings are good, late nights are good, but afternoons, omg, they suck!
Glamourmilf
05-13-2018, 06:08 AM
Soooo many guys wished me a happy mother's day yesterday. A day early? What?:O
THAT they acknowledged? Not my birthday last week?
Why?
Wait for it................
It's only because they want to fuck their mommys.
Aaannnd, we're right back to their dicks again.::)
This is my first mother's day without my beloved Mom.
So, if even one guy says anything out of line today.
Oh, shit, who am I kidding? They will.
anonymous camgirl
05-13-2018, 10:43 AM
I worked on Mother's Day before and I felt VERY uncomfortable with all the fuck your mama boys... so yea.. not going to work it.. In fact I have decided not to work any holidays until further notice as I have worked them all for 15 yrs .. and need some ME time! I need to feel like a normal person again.
Soooo many guys wished me a happy mother's day yesterday. A day early? What?:O
THAT they acknowledged? Not my birthday last week?
Why?
Wait for it................
It's only because they want to fuck their mommys.
Aaannnd, we're right back to their dicks again.::)
This is my first mother's day without my beloved Mom.
So, if even one guy says anything out of line today.
Oh, shit, who am I kidding? They will.
LoraDoll
05-13-2018, 07:30 PM
On Jasmin, on low percentage i can make 250-300$ a day. on 45 %... 150 maybe 200$ a day - traffic is way more worse on 45% than on 30-35%, and takes more time to earn the less amount. Once I reach 50% i cannot make even 50$ in 8 hours. It seems like.
In this period I reached 50% in first 7 days. I put all my time in. Since i hit 50%... 7 days ago - i had no pvt. I dont see anybody in my room 7 days ago, just few people, and I watch that few people only to beg in 7 hours/day. Compared to 30-35% , there is a huge decrease in trafic and quality - really it s just pure garbage what i see on higher %.
I watching this pattern very carefully since January, and now I m sure I dont just imagine things. This is real. Wich is mind blowing. I remember, 1-1.5 yrs ago (and before) it wasnt an issue for me to reach 60% and I could work a good week on 60% in a period as an individual model.
Getting ready to leave this site, it never treated individuals so bad, like we are garbage.
I remember when I started, my goal was to improve the quality of my shows to be able to perform for better customers, spend more valuable time on cam. And it worked. Than there was all these "fancy and glamourous changes" on Jasmin, this "be a star" bullshit and what not... exactly in the same time the whole shit just started to roll downhill, people became cheaper, ruder , freeloaders became more clingy more entitled than ever , and even on pvt based site now, everybody works in free, and show all for free. This is just too much crap for me. I think this business Just buried itself -for me at least.
LoraDoll
05-13-2018, 07:38 PM
Anyway, I m pretty sure -there is only 2 days left in this per. and i wont make shit without my few regulars - once the new period starts, I go back to 30% - and the traffic ll magically appears in my room once again. Well, for a few days only ofc. I think I ll try to reach the amount they "just" let me earn fast as possible and than I wont even bother to log in anymore. Wasting myself there is just plain stupid and tbh I have better things to do with my time.
Glamourmilf
05-14-2018, 06:09 AM
I worked on Mother's Day before and I felt VERY uncomfortable with all the fuck your mama boys... so yea.. not going to work it.. In fact I have decided not to work any holidays until further notice as I have worked them all for 15 yrs .. and need some ME time! I need to feel like a normal person again.
I hope you had a wonderful Mother's Day, and treated yourself.
You definitely deserve it.:-*
And why is Mother's Day only celebrated for ONE day? It should be for at least a week. Or an entire month.
I feel the same way about holidays.
I'm going to take all of them off too, ESPECIALLY my birthday.
euro_princess
05-14-2018, 02:50 PM
Man, what was with SM today? Mondays are good. Not this time I assume.