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LoraDoll
06-14-2019, 03:02 PM
It s LiveJasmin

magicgembliss
06-14-2019, 03:25 PM
It s LiveJasmin

ah gotcha, thanks

BubblyBlonde
06-14-2019, 04:29 PM
I have an Indy customer who couldn’t get his payment to work yesterday, so he viewed my SM all day as a PM. Finally I got irritated and said to all the PM’s it was last call, “get in or I’m logging off”. I purposely have my Premium rate at $14.99 so guys will take me Exclusive. My Indy guy takes me private for $14.99/minute and said he was trying to help but in return the total dollar amount he was spending on SM he wanted to be applied to a Skype session. So if he racked up a $100 bill, he wanted a $100 Indy session. WHAT THE HELL!?

I ended his SM session and told him he either pays per minute on SM or gets his card sorted out for an Indy show. Just some of the bullshit I had to deal with this week.

magicgembliss
06-14-2019, 04:49 PM
I have an Indy customer who couldn’t get his payment to work yesterday, so he viewed my SM all day as a PM. Finally I got irritated and said to all the PM’s it was last call, “get in or I’m logging off”. I purposely have my Premium rate at $14.99 so guys will take me Exclusive. My Indy guy takes me private for $14.99/minute and said he was trying to help but in return the total dollar amount he was spending on SM he wanted to be applied to a Skype session. So if he racked up a $100 bill, he wanted a $100 Indy session. WHAT THE HELL!?

I ended his SM session and told him he either pays per minute on SM or gets his card sorted out for an Indy show. Just some of the bullshit I had to deal with this week.

cheap/broke/both.

izshadow
06-14-2019, 05:30 PM
Today s camming makes me wanna vomit. How can my room be full empty for hours? Why i see only the SAME freeloaders all the the time and no one new? My placement is not even bad.
Why i see more and more new - probably romanian - studio girls - why they swarm endlessly? Who the fuck can earn good money with this, when there is no traffic, and 10/9 18+ romanian girl sitting in a stuido now, 12 hours / day?
This is fucking brutal shitty bullshit, i wish i d never start camming.

I just moved to a new, beautyful place, from my previous depressing home. I was like "allright, here, even the bad days ll feel better" but ofc, as always, camming just immediately turned into a disgusting piece of crap, and it still poision my life and mood. I dont know if it s the summer, or what is this, but i fucking hate all these "men" and everything.

Seems like to me, everybody makes money easily, except me. I see models, with 100, or even 1000+ credit surprises and they just sit. Or they get pvt as least. Me: nothing, no one even talking to me. Like i m fucking cursed or something. Im not the best model, but not worse than them, so really i dont get it, why everybody just fucking hates me?

in 5 hours today, i had ... 3 pvts:

1: in 2 minute , the guy: "oh someone knocking on my door, sorry" leaves.
2: leaves in 10 sec. " oh my connection, sorry"
3: *idiot sitting in my room for half hour, says nothing do nothing. Finally i kick, and the moron comes back just to insult* ofc, idiot explains himself: "i was waking up" ... Yess idiot pls stalk in my room quietly for a day, just to "wake up" that s what a cam site has made for!

Fucking nonsense garbage.
These losers make me want to hang myself.

On SM the CO models are taking over and its where 99% of them give it ALL AWAY for free. They are just straight up having sex and showing everything in free chat. So why take us private when one of them will give it to them for free?!?!

euro_princess
06-14-2019, 06:21 PM
Today s camming makes me wanna vomit. How can my room be full empty for hours? Why i see only the SAME freeloaders all the the time and no one new? My placement is not even bad.
Why i see more and more new - probably romanian - studio girls - why they swarm endlessly? Who the fuck can earn good money with this, when there is no traffic, and 10/9 18+ romanian girl sitting in a stuido now, 12 hours / day?
This is fucking brutal shitty bullshit, i wish i d never start camming.

I just moved to a new, beautyful place, from my previous depressing home. I was like "allright, here, even the bad days ll feel better" but ofc, as always, camming just immediately turned into a disgusting piece of crap, and it still poision my life and mood. I dont know if it s the summer, or what is this, but i fucking hate all these "men" and everything.

Seems like to me, everybody makes money easily, except me. I see models, with 100, or even 1000+ credit surprises and they just sit. Or they get pvt as least. Me: nothing, no one even talking to me. Like i m fucking cursed or something. Im not the best model, but not worse than them, so really i dont get it, why everybody just fucking hates me?

in 5 hours today, i had ... 3 pvts:

1: in 2 minute , the guy: "oh someone knocking on my door, sorry" leaves.
2: leaves in 10 sec. " oh my connection, sorry"
3: *idiot sitting in my room for half hour, says nothing do nothing. Finally i kick, and the moron comes back just to insult* ofc, idiot explains himself: "i was waking up" ... Yess idiot pls stalk in my room quietly for a day, just to "wake up" that s what a cam site has made for!

Fucking nonsense garbage.
These losers make me want to hang myself.

As a romanian that charges $12 per minute, thank you for your judgement. I thought girls should support girls. Maybe I was wrong. :)

Ginnyyy
06-14-2019, 07:04 PM
I see models, with 100, or even 1000+ credit surprises and they just sit. Or they get pvt as least. Me: nothing, no one even talking to me. Like i m fucking cursed or something. Im not the best model, but not worse than them, so really i dont get it, why everybody just fucking hates me?


I see with $2-$5k anytime I browse my LJ favorites.

euro_princess
06-14-2019, 11:38 PM
On SM the CO models are taking over and its where 99% of them give it ALL AWAY for free. They are just straight up having sex and showing everything in free chat. So why take us private when one of them will give it to them for free?!?!

I have no clue what you're talking about. But it sounds bitter. I'm no columbian, but I have a lot of respect for those girls. Have you seen how much they work and how much effort gets put in?! Man, I wish I could stay 15-20h for a contest. I don't think there is no columbian girl on first page to do shows for free. And if she is breaking the rules, just report.

Edit: Have to say I'm pretty disappointed with this attitude going on. On, colombians, oh, russians, oh, romanians. That's plain xenophobic behaviour. There is no etiquette for nationality when it comes to poor quality models, you can find any shitty model anywhere. But hey, let's be ignorant. We're all working in the same environment, do you really think it's easy money for us? Let me spill the tea, it's not.

LoraDoll
06-15-2019, 12:21 AM
As a romanian that charges $12 per minute, thank you for your judgement. I thought girls should support girls. Maybe I was wrong. :)

I dont understand why u take it on urself,, i dont think my post was irritating to u personally. Plus u missunderstood who am i judging. It s not the "models" who i hate, but greedy studio owners actually. Go ahead and take a look what s goin on on LIvejasmin. That s the site i work on, and i have nothing else. U wont see ANYTHING there but studios. More and more, all from the same country, and unlike u, they are cheap. The site is full of unexperienced, clueless "new girls" who knows nothing about camming, but let other people to tell them what is it. They soak up first places and all the traffic for one year - after that, most of them disappear , due to the burnout what they obviously cant handle.
Plus since they have no experience about cammning, they let members do whatever they want. Studio training only tell them to "smile for everything!" - and members became super rude, and greedy and crappy. Why they wouldnt if they sit in rooms just to insult and annoy, and they only get "huge smiles" for being cheap and shitty? A few yrs ago, if a member was rude in my room i was able to put them back in their place. Now, i have no chance to do that, they just insult more, or laugh at my face, and I can t even bann anyone or kick anyone.

The studio "swarming" is not the only factor i blame but it s a big part of it.

Well, i m not going to explain any further, or defend myself, coz i said nothing wrong.

(btw, the "xy" and biggest studio chain, now building studios in hungary too - and that s where i came from - so: it s not about to blame any nationality, or any worker from a specific country. I talking about, I think that studio owners greediness affect camming in a bad way. And that s what i mean, nothing more)

euro_princess
06-15-2019, 12:38 AM
I'm pretty aware of LJ. You're blaming the studios and models, when you should actually blame the website for doing almost exclusively business with studios or for requesting tons of hours online for traffic. So yeah, they are greedy because the website makes them this way, with all the rules. We've all known for years LJ prefers studios over independent models. That's old news. We've all known LJ asks for 80h per period if you want traffic. The more, the better. You see the pattern?

As for new models, what's the issue? So what if they have new models? Every website has. It shouldn't matter how experienced are others or what they do, as long as they work by the rules. Again, they work, they are not stealing from your wallet. Customers spend money with them because they want to! LJ, studios or those "greedy inexperience" girls can't force nobody into paying a certain model. It's free will. No customer belongs to us. It's our duty to keep them entertained as long as we can and move on to the next one when they reach the expiration on.

Focus on yourself, your business, talking trash about other girls won't get more people into your room.

XSelinex
06-15-2019, 12:48 AM
On LJ you can't ban users as on SM, you can block them but they will return tomorrow or even when you restart comp and it's fault of site that site let guests talks when on almost all sites you can mute them and if you have about 500 guests in room much easier just smile wide and not pay attention to them, they see ignore and leave, than block again and again. Sure when too rude members you may ask support to ban them totally, but when guests jumping from room to room and beg its not fault of models, they're shouldn't talk at all until they got a membership at least.

LoraDoll
06-15-2019, 12:49 AM
I think u are just irritated by something and try to take it out on me. Saying things, i didnt meant. Up to ya.

And i say again: Studios affect camming on a bad way. and there are other factors. Period. But u just go on and act like i m a fucking moron, who insulted all the romanian camgirls in the world. Jesus christ.
I m closing this discussion, instead arguing.


Btw, i dont get one thing: this is the camming sucks topic where we can talk about whatever bothering us. So: why am i being attacked, if i say, that i dont like how greedy studios are and what they are doing???
For some models I see that the studio thing works out, but ... I still think, that most of these girls are "tools" of these studios. And most of them do not "use" the studio but the "studio " using them, while maybe they dont even know what they are doing.

And again: im sorry if u feel offended, it was not my intention to ... make u upset.

LoraDoll
06-15-2019, 01:18 AM
Anyway, what u wrote is interesting: u say, the site make the rules for the stuidos?
And individual models: A few years ago there were more, and... in the "old times" u saw even more individual model on the site. In these days, sadly there is not many of us anymore. U simply just can t keep up with this.
And yess, bc of that I blame the site as well.

"Sure when too rude members you may ask support to ban them totally," - actually i m curious if they ever bann a member account totally.
I had an issue with a member in the days. I wont go into details, but it turned out, that a member recording and photoing shows with his phone - he actually sent a photo about me (the online snapshot function is turned off for me) into my mail box. I reported him to customer support. Later, the member came to my pvt room. I refused to do anything to him. He wrote it openly into the chat, that he want to make video about me, and he does that to other models and : -with his words- "other models like it" . I contacted support chat in that moment, they saw my inbox earlier, and the private chat discussion. They had all the evidence that the member violating the site rules (if there is any) and our rights. Yet, they didnt banned him. I think i ll "name" this member in another topic soon so other girls on Lj can avoid him.

Sigh. I really like summer, and summer time. But i dont like summer time camming right now at all.
But anyway: im done with the negativity for today. Peace out.

Ginnyyy
06-15-2019, 04:11 AM
LoraDoll, Jasmin doesn t close member accounts if they re paying customers. They close easily those of guys who harass but haven t spent a $, instead.

I m pretty sure there are more independent models than studios in RO. I saw and keep seeing RO models in the top 5 on LJ and 50 on SM, many times no1.

LJ recognised several years ago that they re turning to be more studio oriented because girls from studios tend to work on a schedule and keep that schedule so they have consistency and also able to work full shifts and longer hours, an entire 8-10h shift because there is a better sense of discipline among them. Their words, not mine. Camming from home for some independent LJ models makes them slack on their schedule, take too many days off and multiple and longer breaks. Again, Jasmin s words. Those girls who do that, no worries, they re never gonna be on page 1 or 2 with you to steal your traffic.

Other than that, a girl twerking in her room or being extremely erotic, won t hurt the site but convert new guys, instead. Guests who didn t create a member account yet, they get an instant will and boner to just (finally) sign up. The naughty girl on one site will always convert tons of guests in her room into members that eventually they re gonna surf the site and end up in so many other rooms to spend on various types of privates. This is where you get to shine and make them be your regulars, instead.

LoraDoll
06-15-2019, 09:38 AM
That s being explained nicely finally . And I can see that and able to understand that. So finally i got a better picture about what s happening.
(Actually, i wasnt complaining here, a while ago. But wont do again, i dont want to be missunderstood again, so badly)

magicgembliss
06-15-2019, 12:39 PM
On SM the CO models are taking over and its where 99% of them give it ALL AWAY for free. They are just straight up having sex and showing everything in free chat. So why take us private when one of them will give it to them for free?!?!

CO?

Yeah i need to read this thread...

magicgembliss
06-15-2019, 01:11 PM
with his words- "other models like it".

this is actually a huge red flag of a psychosis or personality disorder. it's a symptom of utter and a strong fantasy life that does not jibe with reality, or utter self-involvment to the point tht other people literally *do not exist* other than as passive resources. people like this are utterly self centered and incapable of interating healthily with others. that's not a troll that's someone broken from reality. be careful.

Ginnyyy
06-15-2019, 05:21 PM
CO?

Yeah i need to read this thread...

Columbia

BiscuitT
06-16-2019, 10:23 AM
I understood your point. I don't think you are holding against them, but studio owners. I'm from Argentina and I've also worked in a studio, the conditions were awful. I was young and new, I didn't had a clue what I was getting into, I was pay way less than half of my earnings, I got discounts for getting late or for not showing...I mean, once I worked 2 weeks and got paid only 40 dollars because of those random "discounts". I didn't know I was in control of how my profile was, or couldn't even pick my nickname, it was pretty much slave work. The only thing they teach me was smile and be nice to them, nobody told me I could block them or how to handle bad customers. I know you adress to the studio owners, not the girls, who are hard working girls that also deserve to work in better conditions. I know not every studio is like this, of course, but there are some that are, they make them sit and smile, without a single clue about handling the free chat, sometimes they don't speak english so it make it more difficult to them, use them until they burn out and never go back. That kind of disposable girls are the perfect target to rude freeloaders, it's like feeding the trolls.

magicgembliss
06-16-2019, 01:51 PM
I understood your point. I don't think you are holding against them, but studio owners. I'm from Argentina and I've also worked in a studio, the conditions were awful. I was young and new, I didn't had a clue what I was getting into, I was pay way less than half of my earnings, I got discounts for getting late or for not showing...I mean, once I worked 2 weeks and got paid only 40 dollars because of those random "discounts". I didn't know I was in control of how my profile was, or couldn't even pick my nickname, it was pretty much slave work. The only thing they teach me was smile and be nice to them, nobody told me I could block them or how to handle bad customers. I know you adress to the studio owners, not the girls, who are hard working girls that also deserve to work in better conditions. I know not every studio is like this, of course, but there are some that are, they make them sit and smile, without a single clue about handling the free chat, sometimes they don't speak english so it make it more difficult to them, use them until they burn out and never go back. That kind of disposable girls are the perfect target to rude freeloaders, it's like feeding the trolls.

and for SEX WORK ffs.. yes feeding the trolls, who are misogynist losers...I'm sorry you had that experience..is there NO accountability there? I bet the studio owners were all men...ugh makes me vomit.

izshadow
06-16-2019, 03:19 PM
DEAD DEAD DEAD on SM and then it dawns on me, its Father's Day and due to storms I couldnt log in to later. Which puts everyone around family dinner time. Well most everyone. I'm sure on the other coast, most people are doing something activity wise for Father's Day. Blah. I want to try to stick it out for one more hour but I want to face-plant so bad to.

orderthenight
06-17-2019, 08:22 AM
MFC is dead this morning. Tons of guys who want to chat for free, ask me too many questions that should be tipped for, and I don't have the tolerance for it this morning. I've been kinda snappy on cam, when warranted, so I logged off to take a break. I've only been on an hour, and need to have stuck it out - but I'm planning to take a break, eat, drink coffee (that's what I forgot this morning. might be reason for the snappyness), and maybe record some content. I'll go back when I am ready in an hour or two. Its truly a monday!

DahliaSimone
06-17-2019, 09:03 AM
Slept great, i felt great, WAS in a great mood....then streamed for 3 hours and didnt make a penny, and hardly any interaction other than a dude telling me im an ugly bitch cause i kicked him out and a dude asking me if i used to be a man (triggered). Of course, my friends are doing great, as usual, so its me on the bottom, as usual. Its so hard not to compare yourself to everyone else, and its even worse when youre trans and seeing how shitty it really is trying to make 1/10th of what the cis girls make. Its rough. Ive really been going through it the past month or so....i just want to feel valuable and like, maybe, I for once can be proud. I dont fuckin know. I know Im pretty bummed that my spirit was crushed when i was so fuckin happy this morning. But, what can I do? Make my little pennies and just stay in my fuckin lane I guess. I just want to be happy and thriving like i used to be.

DahliaSimone
06-17-2019, 09:10 AM
On a positive note, i at least got some sleep last night....

orderthenight
06-17-2019, 09:22 AM
You are gorgeous, don't let losers like that discourage you - I know there are clients out there that would love to shower you in tokens. I know how discouraging comparison can be in SW, it can be really disheartening when you can go into other models rooms and compare how much interaction they may or may not be getting. But my best days on cam have been after a low point where I've considered giving up - don't let these people ruin your great mood. You deserve to feel great today!

izshadow
06-17-2019, 10:26 AM
Slept great, i felt great, WAS in a great mood....then streamed for 3 hours and didnt make a penny, and hardly any interaction other than a dude telling me im an ugly bitch cause i kicked him out and a dude asking me if i used to be a man (triggered). Of course, my friends are doing great, as usual, so its me on the bottom, as usual. Its so hard not to compare yourself to everyone else, and its even worse when youre trans and seeing how shitty it really is trying to make 1/10th of what the cis girls make. Its rough. Ive really been going through it the past month or so....i just want to feel valuable and like, maybe, I for once can be proud. I dont fuckin know. I know Im pretty bummed that my spirit was crushed when i was so fuckin happy this morning. But, what can I do? Make my little pennies and just stay in my fuckin lane I guess. I just want to be happy and thriving like i used to be.

It is very easy to start questioning yourself. I'm actually doing the same thing as I type this. Why is everyone coming in and out? Is it my hair? Is it up wrong? Am I to fat, to white, to goth not girl next door looking.... what is wrong with me? Why cant I make my stupid little 100 a day goal while these other girls are bringing in hundreds or thousands a day? I know they have worked up to that and I do look up to them as a mentor to be as great as them so I'm not putting them down but at the same time its like why do some girls seem to just have it so much easier?

You are beautiful. If we were neighbors I'd be camming with you and figuring out how to dom these guys in to giving us their freaking money. We just have to be here to support each other so we dont think we are the troll under the bridge that is an ugly ducking never to emerge and fly.

XSelinex
06-17-2019, 10:57 AM
Slept great, i felt great, WAS in a great mood....then streamed for 3 hours and didnt make a penny, and hardly any interaction other than a dude telling me im an ugly bitch cause i kicked him out and a dude asking me if i used to be a man (triggered). Of course, my friends are doing great, as usual, so its me on the bottom, as usual. Its so hard not to compare yourself to everyone else, and its even worse when youre trans and seeing how shitty it really is trying to make 1/10th of what the cis girls make. Its rough. Ive really been going through it the past month or so....i just want to feel valuable and like, maybe, I for once can be proud. I dont fuckin know. I know Im pretty bummed that my spirit was crushed when i was so fuckin happy this morning. But, what can I do? Make my little pennies and just stay in my fuckin lane I guess. I just want to be happy and thriving like i used to be.

It`s just a bad period, even cis girls with huge tits as me having times when no one come in room or they sit and won`t say hi, it`s will pick up anyway as always do.

Marina Starr
06-17-2019, 11:06 AM
It's summer, schools are out so the trolls are on a mission to troll, insult models, wasting time and freeloading.

I strongly believe there should be school all year round, even on Saturday and Sunday. Broke losers should not allow to have keyboards. Maybe that will force them to be creative with their time like go play in traffic.

Holly_xoxo
06-17-2019, 12:05 PM
Yikes! not sure what to think of SM today. I've made ok money so far but that's only because of a couple regs that came by. I'm not getting anybody new. They aren't even talking to me or tipping to see anything.

I don't have enough regs right now to make me feel safe that I"ll make money every day. I need some new ones.

izshadow
06-17-2019, 12:40 PM
Yikes! not sure what to think of SM today. I've made ok money so far but that's only because of a couple regs that came by. I'm not getting anybody new. They aren't even talking to me or tipping to see anything.

I don't have enough regs right now to make me feel safe that I"ll make money every day. I need some new ones.

Yah I'm starting to get worried to. I need SM to make my rent and my car payment at the very least. I have been on for three hours and not one person has even typed to me. Just very few and far between of in/out.

izshadow
06-18-2019, 10:24 AM
I think I need to suck it up and try over nights in to early morning. At least till I'm established and can move up a bit in pages. Less models to contend with during the day where almost 1900 are on at one time. I'm sure my electric usage of lights on would be cheaper to haha cause it would be non peak hours.

DahliaSimone
06-18-2019, 10:45 AM
Its so bad, i made $0 yesterday and $8 so far today....not gonna panic yet as there is plenty of week left, but....its looking grim

izshadow
06-18-2019, 10:48 AM
Its so bad, i made $0 yesterday and $8 so far today....not gonna panic yet as there is plenty of week left, but....its looking grim

I had to sign off after two hours. I started crying. I made $32 on Saturday and have made zero everyday since then.

orderthenight
06-18-2019, 12:44 PM
Today has been horrible. I got on here thinking I can't be the only one, and it seems like thats true - even the models on the first page had 50- 70 people in their room at the most. I am wondering if I need to give up on my current schedule I've just established and work nights instead of morning - afternoon shifts. This used to be the best time for me - but it seems like it has gotten dreadfully slow now that it is summer.

Bananabunny
06-18-2019, 03:24 PM
I have to deal with Cb not working properly thus not making anything for days there while the only streaming site that works for now for me is MFC, the slowest website I'm on. My summer has only just started and it get's ruined already.

pippapippa
06-18-2019, 06:12 PM
Today is completely trash on Streamate and I’ve gotten zero Skype shows so far. I desperately want to log off but I’ve got to stay on.

BubblyBlonde
06-18-2019, 08:44 PM
I just logged on for Indy shows. Gonna stay off SM tonight. In the meantime I’m not bothering with make up unless someone comes through on a show. I’ll throw it on real fast. Lord knows we hate wasting make up!

Girly_Girl
06-19-2019, 07:14 AM
guy just came in my room and asked if I did dirty talk and anal, I said yes in exclusive, we go exc and he turns on his cam (older guy) I watch him cum in the first minute before I could even get to anal......"LIKE SERIOUSLY DUDE".........pretty sure he could see the disgust on my face......lol

Marina Starr
06-19-2019, 07:19 AM
At least you didn't have to the work but for anal I recommend making them do block exclusive so you get to keep the $.


guy just came in my room and asked if I did dirty talk and anal, I said yes in exclusive, we go exc and he turns on his cam (older guy) I watch him cum in the first minute before I could even get to anal......"LIKE SERIOUSLY DUDE".........pretty sure he could see the disgust on my face......lol

Girly_Girl
06-19-2019, 07:23 AM
At least you didn't have to the work but for anal I recommend making them do block exclusive so you get to keep the $.

true, thats a good idea....I may have to start telling them block exc cause I honestly hate anal anyways! I've just learned to deal with it :/

DahliaSimone
06-19-2019, 02:09 PM
well, ive had 3 horrible days in a row ($50 made between all 3), sooooooo.....that means the rest of the week is going to be fucking amazing. Right? Right? RIGHT?

DahliaSimone
06-20-2019, 08:18 AM
I just dont understand wtf is going on, how i went from fine to one week, to not even making my Sunday goal by THURSDAY, for the whole week. Even regs are coming in my room and not even speaking....is it me? Wtf is going on? Im desperate here.....my longest running reg, who is pushing my patience anyway, even came in my room today and took me pvt for 17 FUCKING SECONDS. Wtf.

BubblyBlonde
06-20-2019, 08:38 AM
I just dont understand wtf is going on, how i went from fine to one week, to not even making my Sunday goal by THURSDAY, for the whole week. Even regs are coming in my room and not even speaking....is it me? Wtf is going on? Im desperate here.....my longest running reg, who is pushing my patience anyway, even came in my room today and took me pvt for 17 FUCKING SECONDS. Wtf.

If he’s a long term regular I would think it was a glitch. I try to keep my cool and ask guys when they come back “Hey did you get booted?” Usually they’ll tell you it was on their end or they think I kicked them.

DahliaSimone
06-20-2019, 08:45 AM
If he’s a long term regular I would think it was a glitch. I try to keep my cool and ask guys when they come back “Hey did you get booted?” Usually they’ll tell you it was on their end or they think I kicked them.

This isnt the first time he has done this, hence my dwindling patience with him. Im more concerned about the overall 'wtf is going on' than his specific instance lol. I may just block him because he does this dumb shit so much.

BubblyBlonde
06-20-2019, 09:00 AM
This isnt the first time he has done this, hence my dwindling patience with him. Im more concerned about the overall 'wtf is going on' than his specific instance lol. I may just block him because he does this dumb shit so much.

Block him for sure. I’ve blocked regulars plenty of times. Take care of your mental health. Log off if your not feeling it workout, meditate, take a nap, eat good food. If your vibe is good you will attract good vibes. You can do it! It will get better.

DahliaSimone
06-20-2019, 09:01 AM
Block him for sure. I’ve blocked regulars plenty of times. Take care of your mental health. Log off if your not feeling it workout, meditate, take a nap, eat good food. If your vibe is good you will attract good vibes. You can do it! It will get better.

The funny thing is....ive been feeling super positive, have been nicer than i usually even am to dudes, and ive still only made $50 in 3 1/2 days now....idk whats going on. But its terrifying.

Miss_ShaSha
06-20-2019, 09:39 AM
^^You're super worried about how these days will affect your monthly income & scared things may just keep persisting. I get that. I see you. I have even recently experienced this myself.

BubblyBlonde gave excellent advice. I do have to say Dahlia way to fucking go for persisting. That takes fuckin guts. Girl, your attitude isn't going unnoticed: men are watching, checking you out, & will come back to engage in shows. Without knowing, your positive attitude could have earned you some favorites. It's all going to pay off soon. You know :)

But shit...your feelings are valid. You have the right to feel them feels. Just don't feel em for too long.

Sending you good vibes doll. You've done it before: rose. You will rise again.

DahliaSimone
06-20-2019, 09:51 AM
^^You're super worried about how these days will affect your monthly income & scared things may just keep persisting. I get that. I see you. I have even recently experienced this myself.

BubblyBlonde gave excellent advice. I do have to say Dahlia way to fucking go for persisting. That takes fuckin guts. Girl, your attitude isn't going unnoticed: men are watching, checking you out, & will come back to engage in shows. Without knowing, your positive attitude could have earned you some favorites. It's all going to pay off soon. You know :)

But shit...your feelings are valid. You have the right to feel them feels. Just don't feel em for too long.

Sending you good vibes doll. You've done it before: rose. You will rise again.

Thank you for the support, and all that is probably true. However....all that karma or whatever isnt helping me now, and now is when the bills are due lol. I cant wait weeks for it to pay off. Being a little slow is one thing, but....i mean making $150 is like 5 days is....its awful. And seems unfair, although thats the selfish part of me. Its not like i have a safety net or get paid a wage regardless, you know? When work doesnt go well for us, we are truly screwed, as we dont get an hourly wage or whatever like most do. Its panic inducing and i know theres no way I can get even close to making up for it the rest of the week, as i barely pull an average earning on an average week....it just sucks and i feel helpless and kinda scared, and i dont like either of those things lol. I mean i keep trying and persisting...but theres zero glory in sitting on cam for hours on end for nothing lol. Persistence is cool, but when theres no payoff its just.....useless lol.

DahliaSimone
06-20-2019, 10:05 AM
That being said....imma keep on keeping on regardless. Cant make money if im not on, right? I mean im sure it will pick up again. It always has, for years. Just sucks RIGHT NOW.

izshadow
06-20-2019, 10:05 AM
Thank you for the support, and all that is probably true. However....all that karma or whatever isnt helping me now, and now is when the bills are due lol. I cant wait weeks for it to pay off. Being a little slow is one thing, but....i mean making $150 is like 5 days is....its awful. And seems unfair, although thats the selfish part of me. Its not like i have a safety net or get paid a wage regardless, you know? When work doesnt go well for us, we are truly screwed, as we dont get an hourly wage or whatever like most do. Its panic inducing and i know theres no way I can get even close to making up for it the rest of the week, as i barely pull an average earning on an average week....it just sucks and i feel helpless and kinda scared, and i dont like either of those things lol. I mean i keep trying and persisting...but theres zero glory in sitting on cam for hours on end for nothing lol. Persistence is cool, but when theres no payoff its just.....useless lol.

I so feel you on this. I have till the 5th to get rent or I get evicted and I have made ZERO towards rent. There is no time for me to go hunt for a job, apply, interview, work, get paid, etc. So I have no freaking choice but to cam for rent. That is all I can do! And it scares the hell out of me and brings me to tears. I am not asking for thousands! Even wanting to do this full time, again, not asking for thousands a week! Just want to be in the mid to high hundreds! I mean a low goal of $60 a day or high goal of $100 shouldnt be this freaking hard!!!!! Not when others can bring in thousands. It is giving me body image issues. Am I just to ugly? Is it my hair? My bedroom? My face?